Initiating Sex with Confidence with Whitni Miller
Sex Ed with DB: smart, science-backed sex education
Release Date: 07/02/2025
How do I get invited to a play party? (Between Us)
Sex Ed with DB: smart, science-backed sex education
We're back with another Between Us episode -- and this time, we're talking play parties! What is a play party? What are the expectations for going to one? Do you have to dive headfirst into an orgy? Do you have to show up in lingerie or nothing at all? And how do you get invited to one, anyway? This week, Cady S. Moore talks all about her experiences with play parties to help unravel the mystery for you! ABOUT OUR GUEST: Cady S. Moore, MPH is a queer, kinky, polyamorous, disabled, and neurodivergent sex educator and the foundress and CEO of Age of Sexploration, a sex education and coaching...
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Yes, Mistress: Professional Domination Stories with Mistress Marley
Sex Ed with DB: smart, science-backed sex education
Buckle in for a wild one: today, DB talks with Mistress Marley all about her work as a professional Dominatrix! Hear what it's like to dominate clients for a living -- including stories aboput her most frequent requests, her biggest surprises, and one of her best clients of all time. Listeners, you're not going to be able to predict his story. If you're still out there, client, we cannot stop thinking about you. ABOUT OUR GUEST: is an award-winning Femdom educator, professional Dominatrix, entrepreneur, and the creator of the nationally recognized Goddess Brunch. Through her educational...
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How do we find time for sex when we’re both so busy?
Sex Ed with DB: smart, science-backed sex education
So we're supposed to have time for work, chores, figuring out dinner, maybe even having a family or friends, AND a sex life? In this economy? Let's talk about how to actually have sex with your sexual partner(s) even when you're juggling the jam-packed schedules of adulthood. And speaking of schedules: let's also talk about why scheduling sex is NOT a turn-off! ASK AN ANONYMOUS SEX ED QUESTION: TAKE OUR SMUT QUIZ: Find your page-turning turn-on with our new SMUT QUIZ! In just 5 questions, you'll get right to the good stuff with curated pages, poems, and audios. No slow burn. No fluff. Just...
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The Ultimate Guide to Eating Pussy with Shameless Sex's Amy Baldwin
Sex Ed with DB: smart, science-backed sex education
Last season, we had Amy Baldwin on to talk sucking dick. This season, we have her on to talk eating pussy! Join our new queen or oral to learn about everything cunnilingus. From tactics to busting myths to how to get out of your own head while receiving, this episode is your go-to guide for going down on vulvas. ABOUT OUR GUEST: is a sex and relationship coach, certified sex educator, co-host of the Shameless Sex podcast, two-time winner of the Sexpert of the Year award, lead educator for Uberlube, and co-owner of a mother-daughter owned online pleasure boutique purepleasureshop.com,. To...
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How long should it take to ejaculate -- and what actually counts as premature ejaculation?
Sex Ed with DB: smart, science-backed sex education
You've definitely heard the term "premature ejaculation" -- but has anyone ever told you what it actually means? What constitutes "premature"? What's a normal amount of time it should take someone to ejaculate? And when should someone reach out to a healthcare provider if they think they mightr be experiencing premature ejaculations? Let's unpack this all, bust some myths, and lay down some actual definitions. ASK AN ANONYMOUS SEX ED QUESTION: TAKE OUR SMUT QUIZ: Find your page-turning turn-on with our new SMUT QUIZ! In just 5 questions, you'll get right to the good stuff with curated pages,...
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Why Porn Addiction Isn't A Thing with Dr. Nikky Prause
Sex Ed with DB: smart, science-backed sex education
What is a "gooner" and what do they have to do with so-called porn addictions? DB sits down with Dr. Nikky Prause, a clinical scientist and researcher who's written on everything from asexuality to penis size preference to compulsive sexual behavior. And we found her in a pretty interesting way... from a YouTube video that claims to be a look into a real gooner's life and struggles, all revolving around a porn addiction. Dr. Prause was a featured expert -- but what's her side of the story? IN THIS EPISODE: The YouTube video in question, ; Season 13 episode ; Dr. Prause's Medium article ;...
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Should I give up on men?
Sex Ed with DB: smart, science-backed sex education
Can someone have a healthy sexual relationship with cis men... even if they don't want to give head? Even if they want to RECEIVE head but not give it? Even if they don't really want penetration at all? Or should they just give up on men altogether? In this episode, DB weighs in on this question -- and the answer is a lot more nuanced than you might think. Just like a lot of cis men are! ASK AN ANONYMOUS SEX ED QUESTION: TAKE OUR SMUT QUIZ: Find your page-turning turn-on with our new SMUT QUIZ! In just 5 questions, you'll get right to the good stuff with curated pages, poems, and audios. No...
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Lick My Toes: The History of the Foot Fetish with Adam Zmith
Sex Ed with DB: smart, science-backed sex education
Season 14 and we're JUST NOW doing an episode on the foot fetish?! It's about time! DB talks with Adam Zmith, author of , about why so many people love feet. This fetish, kink, and interest has such a rich history and some fun statistics that might shock you like they shocked us. IN THIS EPISODE: Adam Zmith's book ; Adam Zmith's book ; ; sensation play: the , , the , and ticklers wherever you get your sexy accessories; to go to an episode we love on your podcast app of choice! ABOUT OUR GUEST: is a writer and multi-format producer. He is the co-author, with Tash Walker, of The Log...
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Sex Ed? Six Figures! With Podcaster & Educator Danielle Bezalel (DB on Other People's Pockets)
Sex Ed with DB: smart, science-backed sex education
Ever wondered how we make this show? Even if you're familiar with the business of podcasts (think programmtic ads read by strangers), you might be surprised by how we do it here. We're featuring an episode of Other People's Pockets with DB as a guest, talking about how we fund this show and its team! (Did you know we have a team of lovely amazing people? Check the bottom of our show notes for the credits!) Hear DB announce something new and SO EXCITING: ! If you're a podcaster who feels stuck in a rut, masking less than you should be, or like you don't have enough downloads to justify ads --...
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Libido Pills and the Myth of the Quick Libido Fix with Dr. Rebecca Levy-Gantt
Sex Ed with DB: smart, science-backed sex education
What if there was a pill that could radically change how women feel desire? In this episode, DB talks to her mom, the incredible Dr. Rebecca Levy-Gantt, about libido pills. What can they do -- and what's more marketing than reality? Are pills like Addyi the "Viagra for women"? FROM THIS EPISODE: from Season 13; from Season 4; to go to an episode we love on your podcast app of choice! ABOUT OUR GUEST: is a retired OB-GYN, nationally certified menopause practitioner, and author with more than 30 years of experience caring for women through every stage of reproductive and menopausal health....
info_outlineInitiating sex can feel vulnerable, awkward, or even downright scary—especially if you were socialized to anticipate everyone else's needs before your own. This week, DB is joined by the one and only Whitni Miller (aka BDE Moves), queer couples intimacy coach, to break down what gets in the way, how to build confidence, and why getting turned down doesn’t have to be a bad thing.
We’re talking perfectionism, eroticism, pleasure, and how to get out of your head and into your body. Let's get into it!
GUEST DETAILS
Whitni Miller is a queer couples intimacy coach helping people build deeper connection, playful pleasure, and authentic desire. Follow @bde.moves on Instagram for tips, real talk, and tools to transform your intimate life.
ABOUT SEASON 12
Season 12 of Sex Ed with DB is ALL ABOUT PLEASURE! Solo pleasure. Partnered pleasure. Orgasms. Porn. Queer joy. Kinks, sex toys, fantasies—you name it. We’re here to help you feel more informed, more empowered, and a whole lot more turned on to help YOU have the best sex.
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SEASON 12 TEAM
Creator, Host & Executive Producer: Danielle Bezalel (DB) (she/her)
Producer: Sadie Lidji (she/her)
Communications Lead: Cathren Cohen (she/her)
Growth Marketing Manager: Wil Williams (they/them)
MUSIC
Intro theme music: Hook Sounds
Background music: Bright State by Ketsa
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