Episode 6: The Balance of Safety and Pleasure
Rethinking Porn Addiction - A Sexual Health Show
Release Date: 12/21/2020
Rethinking Porn Addiction - A Sexual Health Show
We've been doing this show for around 6 months...
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Now that we know the 6 Principles of Sexual Health, it's time to create our own Sexual Health Plan. Just like physical fitness, if we want to get healthy, it helps to develop a plan. The plan helps us move towards our goals, avoid damaging behaviors, and develop healthy habits. The plan typically involves some sort of support system. And our ability to succeed in following the plan means we need to have clarity around our values so that our plan is in alignment with them.
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A few weeks ago, Utah's governor signed a bill to make porn filters mandatory on any mobile device or tablet sold in the state. This prompted an interesting conversation within our group about sexual ethics. The conversation was so interesting that we decided to stop having it without sharing it with you... So we're having it here. Today we're talking about using the 6 Principles for Sexual Health as a framework for your sexual ethics.
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Do you want to eradicate shame, and rebuild trust? Well, telling the truth (or not keeping secrets) is only ONE part of honesty. The other part is making sure you have created an environment where your partner feels safe to be honest. In order for true honesty to exist, you HAVE to have rules of engagement for your relationship. Today we're going to talk about what your rules of engagement could look like, and how to have that conversation.
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Anyone who is struggling with porn problems is struggling with shame. You don't get one without the other. In our last episode, we talked about shame, where it comes from, and how it impacts us and our relationships. Today, we share the light at the end of the tunnel. We will talk about the courageous acts required to break free of your shame. We will show you how to start taking responsibility for your negative cycles. Don't miss this one!
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How Do I Find My Pleasure & Keep My Faith?
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There's a motif in Christianity of "bearing your cross."
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You keep it a secret, hoping nobody will ever find out.
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At the end of our last conversation, after we'd stopped recording, Hans shared an epiphany...
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What To Do When Someone Crosses Your Sexual Boundaries
info_outlineIf I were to ask you how to develop physical health, you'd probably say something like, "Eat healthy foods, exercise regularly, and get 8 hours of sleep."
You probably wouldn't say, "Don't get sick."
But when we talk about developing sexual health, typically all we focus on is avoiding "disease."
Staying away from the bad stuff...
But sexual health isn't just moving away from things you don't want.
It's moving towards things you DO want.
So, in this conversation, we're going to start talking about the fundamentals of sexual health... namely, the balance of safety and pleasure.
They are both important aspects of your sexual health, and it's important to talk about them together. We're excited for you to join us!