All the Feels: How to Deal with Conflicting Emotions Around a Negotiation
Simply Worth It: Physician Negotiations with Dr. Linda Street
Release Date: 05/25/2023
Simply Worth It: Physician Negotiations with Dr. Linda Street
Hey ya'll! We're coming back from our hiatus for a special edition episode where I discuss the FTC ruling about noncompetes with non other than Ann Bittinger JD. Ann is a healthcare contract attorney who's my go to for all things physician contracts and we discuss what this means for you AND how to use it even while things are ambiguous and clear as mud.... You can find Ann at bittingerlaw.com and as always you can find me at Stay tuned! I'm hoping to resurrect the podcast for a new season soon Also please bear with me! This was an unscheduled add in because of this being such an...
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info_outlineAn impending negotiation can spark many different emotions, from anticipation and hope to nervousness and even dread. What if all those emotions show up all at once, creating a simmering stew of overwhelm? Not good.
We’re not always going to go into a negotiation feeling 100% positive about it, and that’s okay. It’s important, however, to parse through those emotions so we can effectively go to bat for ourselves.
How do we work through a hodgepodge of emotions if the negotiation has us all over the place?
In this episode, I talk about getting into the right headspace if you’re feeling all the things.
Three Things You’ll Learn In This Episode
- A thought download exercise
If the negotiation is bringing up all sorts of feelings, how do we sort through them?
- Fact vs. story
Can we decide the thoughts we want to show up with even if parts of the situation are out of our control?
- Choose success ahead of time
Agreement or no agreement, how do we make sure we come out of a negotiation feeling good about ourselves?