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Mens Stuff #3 When Is It Time to Go? (40)

BroKen & Believing | Rev. Kenn Blanchard

Release Date: 09/21/2025

When God Teaches You Through Family Pressure (59) show art When God Teaches You Through Family Pressure (59)

BroKen & Believing | Rev. Kenn Blanchard

“Lessons From the Tight Place: When God Teaches You Through Family Pressure”   Genesis 37 • 1 Samuel 16–19 • Mark 3:21 • 2 Corinthians 4:8

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BroKen & Believing | Rev. Kenn Blanchard

Every one of us knows what it feels like to love people who don’t always love us back. Some of the deepest wounds don’t come from strangers — they come from kinfolk. People who share our blood but not our values. People who take our time, drain our peace, and expect access without accountability.   The Bible does not hide this reality. It speaks honestly about takers, users, manipulators, and relatives who bring strife instead of peace.   Today’s message is not about bitterness. It’s about clarity, wisdom, and boundaries that honor God.

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BroKen & Believing | Rev. Kenn Blanchard

Brothers and sisters, we often hear people say, “Life is good” or “Life is hard.” But the truth is—life itself doesn’t change. Life is simply life. You either have it, or you don’t. The labels we put on it—good, bad, hard, joyful—are shaped by our perspective in the moment. 

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BroKen & Believing | Rev. Kenn Blanchard

“My God will supply all your needs according to His glorious riches in Christ Jesus.” — Philippians 4:19   “Even to your old age, I will be the same… I will carry you.” — Isaiah 46:4   “Forsake me not when my strength faileth.” — Psalm 71

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BroKen & Believing | Rev. Kenn Blanchard

Remember ye not the former things, neither consider the things of old. Isaiah 43:18–19 (KJV)   I Resolve   I resolve… To seek God daily, not just occasionally,   To breathe His Word in rhythm, faithfully, relationally.   I resolve… To trust His timing, not rush the plan,   To wait with patience, resting in His hand.   I resolve… To walk in obedience, though the path feels tight,   To step through discomfort, still choosing what’s right.   I resolve… To guard my mind, my heart, my soul,   To keep His Spirit steady, making Him my goal....

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BroKen & Believing | Rev. Kenn Blanchard

the importance of goal setting with God.

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BroKen & Believing | Rev. Kenn Blanchard

Goal setting is not about perfection — it’s about progress. It’s about moving, step by step, in the direction God is calling you. It’s about aligning your life with His will, His wisdom, and His Word.

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When You Don't Have The Words -52- show art When You Don't Have The Words -52-

BroKen & Believing | Rev. Kenn Blanchard

“When You Don’t Have the Words”   Romans 8:26 — “We do not know what we ought to pray for, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us…”

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BroKen & Believing | Rev. Kenn Blanchard

• Hebrews 10:24–25 — “And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds, not giving up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging one another…” • 1 Timothy 4:14 — “Do not neglect your gift, which was given you through prophecy when the body of elders laid their hands on you.”

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BroKen & Believing | Rev. Kenn Blanchard

Brokenness in the Bible is not a curse but a doorway to grace: it teaches us humility, repentance, and dependence on God, opening the way for healing and transformation.   • Brokenness as Humility and Repentance Psalm 51:17 declares, “The sacrifices of God are a broken spirit; a broken and contrite heart, O God, You will not despise.” This shows that God values a heart that admits weakness and turns back to Him Bible Hub +1. • Brokenness Precedes Renewal The Bible often portrays brokenness as the moment before restoration. Like clay in the potter’s hand, our self-will must be...

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Men are indeed victims of domestic and intimate partner violence, despite common misconceptions that abuse mainly affects women. Studies show that about 1 in 4 men will experience some form of physical abuse during their lifetime, and as many as 1 in 3 men have experienced sexual violence, physical violence, or stalking by an intimate partner.

 

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National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-7233 (confidential 24/7 support)

Therapy and counseling services specializing in relationship recovery

Legal advice for protection or custody matters if applicable

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