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Talking About Clothes with Holly Chayes

Release Date: 04/07/2020

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Talking About Clothes with Holly Chayes

In this episode, Shehla and I talk about developing her personal style growing up in Pakistan, and the culture shock of shopping for clothes in the US. We discuss the contrast between shopping for clothing designed to fit a standardized set of measurements versus clothing that is custom-made for you and your body and your preferences.   We originally recorded this conversation in 2021, and I'm so excited to share it with you.   We do talk a lot about bodies and sizing in this episode, so if that is something that is sensitive to you, please, please listen with care or...

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Talking About Clothes with Holly Chayes

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Talking About Clothes with Holly Chayes

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Talking About Clothes with Holly Chayes

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Talking About Clothes with Holly Chayes

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Talking About Clothes with Holly Chayes

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Time seems like a very bizarre concept right now.

It has that funny quality of not really being solid anymore and not being something that we can agree on the unit of measuring time by and I'm thinking a lot about time that could be called wasted time.

I'm thinking in particular of one long white, plain white skirt that I sewed, intending it to be worn under a knitted dress I had made, because I wanted something more for that dress, and that I only wore a couple times.

The skirt probably took a couple hours to make. And I'm wondering if I had known how little I would have worn that skirt and how unnecessary that skirt was, if I would have done something different with those couple hours instead.

And I don't know.

Because how could I have known that I wouldn't have needed that skirt, if I hadn't had that skirt and not needed it?

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