Episode 19: Building Bridges with Tina McDaniel
Release Date: 06/08/2020
27. A Zim Boy Meets a Zambian Girl
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In this episode, we invite some familiar faces to the mic! Pai’s parents share their story of how they met and got engaged. Pai’s mother, a Zambian, and Pai’s father, a Zimbabwean, tell us about the journey of intercultural dating and engagement. SUBSCRIBE | | | | HIGHLIGHTS Donald was born in Matsai but had a hybridized upbringing because his parents were missionaries in Zimbabwe. Maud’s dad was Zambian and her mother was Zimbabwean. She was born in Zambia and moved to Zimbabwe at 18 years old. She did not know the language, culture, or values of Zimbabwe. They...
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26. Cultural Appropriation vs Cultural Celebration
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In this episode, we talk about the dangers of Cultural Appropriation and how we need to learn to be people that focus on Cultural Celebration. Join us as we share stories of how we have practiced cultural celebration in our marriage, and more importantly, give you the tools to celebrate your partner’s culture. SUBSCRIBE | | | | HIGHLIGHTS What is cultural misappropriation? Cultural appropriation is the adoption of an element or elements of one culture or identity by members of another culture or identity. This can be controversial when members of a dominant culture...
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25. A Story of When Our Son's Name Was Called Unusual. A Lesson on Respecting and Celebrating Names.
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In this episode, We tell a story about an experience we had when we registered our son’s name for a birth certificate when he was born. This experience spurred us to talk about the importance of appreciating names that may be foreign to the majority culture. We also have three special guests that share with us some of their experiences of having a foreign name in the United States. SUBSCRIBE | | | | HIGHLIGHTS Pai and Christian share their story about trying to register their son’s birth certificate. Our friend, , founder of shares with us the importance of taking...
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24. The 10 Dos and Don'ts for Intercultural Relationships
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Whether you’re dating or married, there is an added layer of nuances and protocols that most intercultural couples have to navigate through. In this episode, Pai and Christina share tips on navigating intercultural relationships. By no means is this a comprehensive list, but here are ten pointers that will help you thrive in your relationship! SUBSCRIBE | | | | HIGHLIGHTS Dos Try new foods. Ask questions. Be patient in your communication. Learn your partner's language. Celebrate your differences. Don’ts Address your in-laws by their first name. (Unless...
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23. Learning to Raise an Intercultural Family
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In this episode, Pai and Christina share their new journey as parents. Like many new parents, they are learning so much about themselves and their little one. However, as an intercultural and interracial family, they have an added layer of learning and understanding they have to navigate through. Join them as they talk about what they are learning! SUBSCRIBE | | | | HIGHLIGHTS Before having a baby, lay a strong foundation as husband and wife. What are your values for your family? What do you want your children to grow up knowing about their parents' cultures? When raising an...
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22. 3 Lessons That 2020 Taught Us
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We’re back and excited for Season 2! 2020 was tough for all of us. The entire world experienced the same fear, hopelessness, and uncertainty. Join us as we process our triumphs, losses, and teachable moments from 2020. We’re also excited to announce the launch of The Culture Talk Community, a private Facebook group for intercultural/interracial couples! Our desire is to create a vibrant and safe place in which you can ask questions, meet other couples and grow together. SUBSCRIBE | | | | HIGHLIGHTS 2020 Highlights for the Mushayamundas 2020 Challenges for the Mushayamundas The...
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21: Processing Race in America as an Intercultural Black couple with Johnson & Rasheka. Part 2.
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Johnson moved to the United States from Nigeria. While in University, he met Rasheka, a Memphis native, and they quickly fell in love. Rasheka would soon realize that Johnson had no idea of the racial complexities of being black in America. Tune in to hear their journey of love and discovery of what it means to be an intercultural black couple. SUBSCRIBE | | | | HIGHLIGHTS Johnson and Rasheka Osazee are happily married and have two beautiful kids. Johnson works as a Registered Nurse and Rasheka is a Human Resource specialist and U.S military veteran. They are passionate...
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20. Processing Race in America as a Black Intercultural Couple with Rasheka & Johnson. Part 1.
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Johnson moved to the United States from Nigeria. While in University, he met Rasheka, a Memphis native, and they quickly fell in love. Rasheka would soon realize that Johnson had no idea of the racial complexities of being black in America. Tune in to hear their journey of love and discovery of what it means to be an intercultural black couple. SUBSCRIBE | | | | HIGHLIGHTS Johnson and Rasheka Osazee are happily married and have two beautiful kids. Johnson works as a Registered Nurse and Rasheka is a Human Resource specialist and U.S military veteran. They are passionate about debt...
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Episode 19: Building Bridges with Tina McDaniel
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We’re excited to have our first guest on the Culture Talk Collective! Our friend, Tina McDaniel has spent the majority of her career working in the field of human resources for a major corporation. Since leaving her corporate role, Tina has spent the last few years pursuing her passion for race reconciliation and justice. She is a facilitator with Be the Bridge, a race reconciliation group. In this episode, we talk about grief and trauma, the importance of taking care of yourself, and how to become a bridge builder. SUBSCRIBE | | | | HIGHLIGHTS We need to hold space for lament and...
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Episode 18: A Lament For Black America.
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Lament: A passionate expression of grief or sorrow. Many of us around the world witnessed George Floyd get murdered by a police officer. It grieved all of us to the core. The sad reality is that his brutal death is only a symptom of an underlying problem that we face in the United States. Join Pai and Christina in a vulnerable conversation as they lament. For further learning on , we have compiled a list of in our show notes. SUBSCRIBE | | | | We will be launching a private Facebook group, soon! To join the , please add your email to the Google Form CONNECT WITH US Instagram –...
info_outlineWe’re excited to have our first guest on the Culture Talk Collective! Our friend, Tina McDaniel has spent the majority of her career working in the field of human resources for a major corporation. Since leaving her corporate role, Tina has spent the last few years pursuing her passion for race reconciliation and justice. She is a facilitator with Be the Bridge, a race reconciliation group. In this episode, we talk about grief and trauma, the importance of taking care of yourself, and how to become a bridge builder.
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HIGHLIGHTS
- We need to hold space for lament and grief. There is no timeline to grief and it’s important that we create places for people to share their pain, anger, and despair.
- As a black person, you don’t have to respond to every white person that asks you questions. It’s important to refer them to resources so they can do the work of reading and learning alongside being in relationship.
- Self Care is so important during this season. It’s a marathon, not a sprint. Lean into counseling, friends in other mental health resources during this emotionally exhausting time.
- Many people are looking for next steps in their work towards anti-racism. We’re big advocates for Be the Bridge!
- Be the Bridge is a nonprofit that empowers people and culture toward racial healing, equity, and reconciliation.
- You can be part of a Be the Bridge chapter in your community or you can join a Facebook community. There a units and guides that you get to work through.
- Tina’s Book Recommendations:
- We will be launching a private Facebook group, soon! To join the CTC, please add your email to the Google Form here.
- Anti-Racism Resources
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