Episode 100: WTF is up with the job market with Hilani Ellis
Release Date: 07/04/2024
The Grownup Millennial
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info_outlineIf you’ve been thinking about calling off your job search, you’re not alone. Research shows that this job market is the most challenging of our lifetime - so you’re not imagining things. Hilani Ellis, who we like to call the Millennial job market expert and owner of boutique placement firm - Exceptional Admins, simplifies the job seeking and application process and highlights how we can stand out from the crowd and what the heck employers are looking for.
Two MUST LISTEN segments:
- 06:59 : What’s going on with jobs
- 24:32 : “take a day off” from the job search