Unlocking AuDHD: The Overlap of ADHD & Autism for Entrepreneurs
Release Date: 02/09/2026
The Women ADHD Entrepreneur Cost of “Good Girl” Training with Dr. Stephen Hinshaw
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What did being a “good girl” cost you? Stigma isn’t a buzzword — it keeps ADHD women silent, unseen, untreated. The Impulsive Thinker® and Dr. Stephen Hinshaw rip into why society still isn’t catching ADHD in girls — and what it’s costing all of us. In This Episode: Why stigma around ADHD is more than social — it’s internalized and impacts diagnosis for women How impossible “good girl” expectations push masking, burnout, and depression The role of social media in both exposing and worsening ADHD stigma What You’ll Take Away: Increased awareness...
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Masking Is a Pyrrhic Victory: ADHD Women Suffering in Silence Has a Price
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You keep your head down, play nice, and still get steamrolled by everyone else's expectations. ADHD isn't the problem — it's the world that ignores how you operate. The Impulsive Thinker® and Dr. Stephen Hinshaw call out what everyone else misses about masking, silence, and the cost of being invisible. In This Episode: ADHD in women and girls — what masking really costs The hidden dangers of suffering in silence Research-backed risks that follow when nobody notices What You'll Take Away: Masking is survival, but it comes at a brutal personal cost For women and girls...
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ADHD Women: Dr. Stephen Hinshaw Exposes What Nobody Measured
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What if your “train wreck” 20s and 30s weren’t failure at all — just everyone missing your ADHD diagnosis? The Impulsive Thinker® and Dr. Stephen Hinshaw destroy the old stereotypes on women, masking, and why success leaves so many suffering in silence. In This Episode: What decades-long studies of girls with ADHD actually reveal How masking, missed signs, and stigma sabotage real ADHD Entrepreneur strengths Why negative outcomes are high risk — but not destiny What You'll Take Away: ADHD in women is missed, not rare — the classic “boy” symptoms don’t...
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You Don't Have to Obey Every ADHD Urge as an Entrepreneur
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You don't have to obey every urge your ADHD brain throws at you. Most therapy wasn't built for your wiring. The Impulsive Thinker® breaks down DBT for ADHD Entrepreneurs — and why the system doesn't fit until the neurobiology lines up. In This Episode: Why standard DBT misses the mark for ADHD brains The power of not obeying your impulses in real time How a self-applied DBT workbook tackles emotional dysregulation What You'll Take Away: DBT isn't broken — the system just ignores ADHD neurobiology Clinicians not trained in ADHD cause real gaps in support You don't...
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The DBT Skills Workbook for ADHD Entrepreneurs
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Standard DBT isn't built for your ADHD brain. Structure, shame, and overwhelm — sound familiar? The Impulsive Thinker® and Scott Spradlin call out where therapy misses neurodivergent entrepreneurs. In This Episode: Where traditional DBT gets ADHD completely wrong Why shame and guilt dominate the ADHD Entrepreneur experience How DBT can finally work when tailored to your actual brain What You'll Take Away: Regimen isn't the answer — acceptance and flexibility matter more ADHD Entrepreneurs fail therapy when therapy fails them "You don’t have to obey your urges" —...
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Why Visionary ADHD Entrepreneurs Need a Finisher Beside Them
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You keep doing everything yourself and wonder why nothing gets finished. ADHD isn’t the problem—being measured by society’s stick is. The Impulsive Thinker® gets real about why visionary brains stall and what’s missing. In This Episode: The ADHD debate around medication and side effects Why every visionary needs a finisher — and what happens without one How belief from someone else actually changes outcomes What You'll Take Away: Medication isn’t one-size-fits-all—try it, then decide for yourself Being both the idea generator and finisher is unsustainable for ADHD...
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Dr. Dodson Calls It: ADHD Entrepreneurs Need Implementers, Not More Systems
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You can't fake being neurotypical. Meds might help, but systems matter more. If you’re tired of hearing “just try harder,” this is your episode. In This Episode: ADHD thought overwhelm and why “importance” gets you nowhere Personal systems vs. medication for managing ADHD distractions Why neurotypical standards set you up to fail What You'll Take Away: ADHD distraction isn’t external — it’s five conversations in your head at once Medication can help, but it’s never one-size-fits-all Consistency only matters by your measuring stick, not society’s ...
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ADHD Isn't All of You: It's Just a Tool, Not Your Identity
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ADHD isn’t a superpower. It’s not a deficit. The world is coded for the wrong operating system — and you’re paying the price every day as an ADHD Entrepreneur. In This Episode: Smashed myths about superpower and deficit labels in ADHD Why interest — not importance — drives ADHD Entrepreneurs Society's measuring stick and how it warps your self-perception What You'll Take Away: ADHD is a brain wiring difference — not your identity School and business systems measure you against the wrong standards Interest is a requirement for action, not a preference Success depends...
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Dr. Dodson: ADHD Strengths Are Only a Problem on Society's Measuring Stick
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Tired of “ADHD is a superpower” platitudes? So is The Impulsive Thinker®. This episode tears the mask off what holds ADHD Entrepreneurs back — and what drives them forward when the world has a problem with difference. In This Episode: ADHD strengths that matter in business (and why nobody talks about the cost) The myth of fitting into the neurotypical system — at school and at work What truly motivates and burns out ADHD Entrepreneurs What You'll Take Away: Lipstick-on-a-pig affirmations don’t help ADHD Entrepreneurs — seeing the difference does The world...
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Guilt Comes from Inside — Shame Hits from Outside for ADHD Entrepreneurs
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Shame isn't your problem. Toxic shame is. The Impulsive Thinker® cuts straight through what most ADHD Entrepreneur podcasts never talk about. In This Episode: The real difference between shame, toxic shame, and guilt Why self-sabotage is just self-protection for the ADHD brain How a shame-bound identity quietly shapes your work and relationships What You'll Take Away: Shame is a social correction tool — but toxic shame attacks your identity Your brain never got the memo that you’re safe now ADHD Entrepreneurs react to toxic shame, not regular shame Self-sabotage is...
info_outlineAndré, The Impulsive Thinker®, sits down with neuro-affirming psychotherapist Rachel Feldman to dig into the reality of living and thriving with AuDHD—where autism and ADHD overlap. This episode is all about ditching black-and-white thinking and understanding how ADHD and autism show up uniquely and together in Entrepreneurs. We talk fidgeting, stimming, masking, and why it matters to tailor strategies to your actual brain, not just a label. If you want to boost your self-awareness, communicate better, and stop measuring your worth by your production, this conversation is for you. Listen in for practical takeaways to support your growth mindset.
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Guest:
Rachel Feldman, LCSW, is a neuro-affirming psychotherapist who has dedicated her career to supporting autistic, ADHD, AuDHD, and PDA children, teens, adults, and families. Her clinical path has been shaped not only by extensive professional trainings, but also by her own lived experience as a multiple neurodivergent person. Rachel brings depth, compassion, and authenticity to every space she enters.
Rachel has completed extensive advanced training in neuro-affirming psychotherapy, DBT, DIR/Floortime, and PDA-informed practice. She is also an ADHD Certified Clinical Services Provider and an Autism Spectrum Disorder Clinical Specialist.
Rachel serves on the advisory board for the Bergen County chapter of CHADD and on CHADD’s National Board of Directors. She has presented at conferences and community events, most recently speaking at the International ADHD Conference on AuDHD.
Dr. Megan Anna Neff ADHD & ASD Venn Diagram: https://neurodivergentinsights.com/adhd-vs-autism/
00:00 Understanding AuDHD: A New Perspective
05:05 The Overlap of ADHD and Autism
10:06 Communication Styles: Bridging the Gap
14:31 Camouflaging: The Struggle for Identity
19:04 Navigating Entrepreneurial Challenges with AuDHD
23:17 Final Thoughts: Embracing Neurodiversity
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