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How to Show Aloha During Difficult Situations

Ku Project with Daniel Aipa

Release Date: 07/14/2023

The Spirit of Hula with Kumu Kamaka and Kumu Aloha show art The Spirit of Hula with Kumu Kamaka and Kumu Aloha

Ku Project with Daniel Aipa

In this episode, Daniel Aipa sits down with Kumu Kamaka Kukona of Hālau o Ka Hanu Lehua and Kumu Aloha Victor of Hālau Kala‘akeakauikawekiu to talk about the spirit of hula, along with their experience and thoughts about hula competition and what it takes to prepare for the Merrie Monarch Hula Festival. We were honored to have the Four Seasons Resort Maui host this interview during the Festivals of Aloha on Maui and give us the space to connect and talk story about how our culture is alive and strong.

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Ku Project with Daniel Aipa

Daniel Aipa of The KU Project sits down with Aunty Wendy "Mopsie" Tuivaioge, Director of Hawaiian Programs, and Koakāne Mattos, Cultural Ambassador, at Four Seasons Resort Maui in Wailea to talk stories about the Festivals of Aloha, how it has evolved over the years, why it holds such importance in the community, and how they can create moments of magic during each interaction during the festival.

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Part 2 - The Journey of Hiʻiaka: Facing the Giants show art Part 2 - The Journey of Hiʻiaka: Facing the Giants

Ku Project with Daniel Aipa

Each of us faces our own giants, moments that test our courage and remind us of the power we carry within. In this second chapter, Hiʻiaka’s path leads her to Oʻahu, where courage takes form against something far greater than herself. At Kualoa, Hiʻiaka confronts the fearsome moʻo, Mokoliʻi, a creature said to be unbeatable. Her courage becomes a mirror for the giants we each face in life. This story invites you to name your fears, reclaim your mana, and take the next step forward.

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Ku Project with Daniel Aipa

The Hiʻiaka Journey Series begins. These are stories of courage, integrity, and transformation — moʻolelo that remind us how to stand tall in the face of challenge. In this opening chapter, we begin where all journeys begin: with a calling. When Pele asks her younger sister Hiʻiaka to travel across the islands to bring back her beloved, Hiʻiaka accepts but only after setting her own sacred terms. This episode explores what it means to take responsibility with integrity, protect what matters most, and say yes to the journey while honoring your boundaries.

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Ku Project with Daniel Aipa

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Ku Project with Daniel Aipa

In this episode, we continue with the theme of Confidence and introduce the concept of Grounded Confidence.  We created an ebook called Stand Tall: A Guide to Grounded Confidence to share with people a different perspective of what true confidence is and how to live it.   If you are interested in learning more about the ebook/audiobook, please visit:

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The Kū Circle is officially open. In this short announcement, Daniel Aipa shares what The Kū Circle is, why it was created, and how you can join as a Founding Member. The Kū Circle is a private membership space for those who want to live stronger, move with purpose, and stay grounded in a fast-moving world.  Inside, you’ll find monthly reflections, grounding practices, and private conversations designed to help you build quiet confidence and live Kū. Founding Member pricing is available for a limited time. Join today and lock in your lifetime rate. ➡️ Learn more and join here:

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Ku Project with Daniel Aipa

The Four Seasons Resort Maui invited KŪ Project's Daniel Aipa to visit and experience the Festivals of Aloha. Aipa sits down with Wendy Tuivaioge, Director of Hawaiian Programs at Four Seasons Resort Maui, to reconnect with her and learn more about how we can continue to live and share our culture with our community and visitors. The Festivals of Aloha create moments of magic that perpetuate, celebrate, and show that the Hawaiian culture is alive and strong.

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Welcome to The KU Project, a podcast dedicated to helping others stand taller and live with purpose and intention. Hosted by Daniel Aipa, this episode dives into the importance of listening and empathy, especially during challenging moments. By incorporating Hawaiian wisdom, personal experiences, and practical tips, this episode helps listeners cultivate Aloha and empower others to stand taller and be Kū.

In episode 98, Daniel begins with a Hawaiian proverb: "Nana ka maka, ho’olohe ka pepeiao, pa’a ka waha," which translates to "Observe with the eyes, listen with the ears, don’t talk. This is how one learns best." He highlights how listening has become a lost art in a world full of noise and distractions. Genuine understanding starts with being present and truly hearing others, allowing us to see the world through different perspectives.

Daniel discusses how developing a sense of Aloha not only strengthens individuals but also fosters connections and bridges gaps between diverse perspectives. He emphasizes the importance of slowing down, actively listening, and creating space for Aloha to flourish. By asking meaningful questions and engaging in dialogue, we can demonstrate a genuine interest in others' experiences and foster mutual understanding.

The episode also explores practical ways to practice Aloha, even in situations where we may disagree with others. Daniel shares tips such as active listening, suspending judgment, seeking understanding, perspective-taking, validating feelings, finding common ground, and responding with kindness and respect. It is emphasized that practicing Aloha does not require compromising personal beliefs but instead focuses on fostering understanding and respectful communication.

Throughout the episode, Daniel emphasizes the impact of Aloha on confidence and personal growth. By acknowledging and validating someone's feelings, individuals feel understood and valued, boosting their confidence and encouraging self-reflection. Aloha also creates a safe space for open communication, strengthening bonds and motivating individuals to embrace challenges and pursue personal growth.

As the episode concludes, Daniel inspires listeners to foster empathy and create environments where people can stand taller and live Kū. By showing Aloha, recognizing strengths, and offering support and encouragement, individuals can feel more confident in themselves and their potential for growth.

Tune in to The KU Project to deepen your understanding of what it means to Live KŪ and its transformative power.

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Mahalo, Aloha, and Stay KŪ!