How To Spot When You're Stuck In A Trauma Pattern And What To Do About It
The Love Lab Podcast: Sex | Love | Relationship
Release Date: 11/20/2025
The Love Lab Podcast: Sex | Love | Relationship
What is your relationship to your sexuality? Are there patterns or traumas you need to work through? Have you tried traditional talk therapy, but not gotten the transformation you were looking for? In this episode of The Love Lab Podcast, Kevin Anthony speaks with Somatic Therapist Eduardo Bettencourt about what Somatic Re-Patterning is, what types of issues it can help, what the possible benefits are, what modalities are included, and how to choose a safe practitioner. If you have ever been curious about body-based work around sëxuality, this episode will be helpful. To Find Out More About...
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What is the role of a man today? What qualities and skills should he have? Should he go the manosphere direction or the opposite of that? With so much pressure and deliberate misinformation about who and what men should be, it is no surprise that many men are confused and many women are frustrated. In this episode of The Love Lab Podcast, Kevin Anthony speaks with coach and the host of the Dad Nation Podcast, Mitchell Osmond, about the mixed messages men get, why the two extremes are both problematic, what the middle way is, and how to get started on becoming an Integrated Masculine Man and...
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Have you and your partner hit the "Pause" button on your marriage? What does that even mean? In this episode of The Love Lab Podcast, Kevin Anthony talks with Dr. Lee Baucom about what a Pause Button Marriage is, how couples often unconsciously hit the pause button, the problems this can create in their relationship/marriage, and what couples can do to unpause and get back on track. To Find Out More About Dr. Lee Baucom, Click The Links Below: 👕 NEW MEN'S & WOMEN'S T-SHIRTS AVAILABLE Check out the new "More Orgasms, Less Wars" T-Shirts at → 🔥 POWER & MASTERY 3.0 IS...
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Have you or your partner ever experienced issues with penetration? Did you know that penetration issues can occur anytime you insert something into something else? In this episode of The Love Lab Podcast, Kevin Anthony talks with sëx educators and researchers Aaron Michael, MA, and Dr. Saida Désilets about common penetration issues, their new scientific study on the topic, how to open to receive, the co-creation of sëx, reaching ecstatic states of consciousness through sëx, and so much more. To Find Out More About Aaron Michae and Dr. Saida Désilets, Click The Link Below: 👕 NEW...
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Are you or your partner over 40? Is your body not performing like it used to? Do you wish you had the libido and performance you had when you were younger? In this episode of The Love Lab Podcast, Kevin Anthony speaks with Dr. George Ibrahim, who specializes in hormonal optimization, aesthetics, and sexual wellness for men and women. They discuss the most common wellness issues that both men and women experience, how bioidentical hormones can help, and the role that peptides can have. They cover both the benefits and the potential downsides of these new treatment options. To Find Out More...
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Do you want to AMP UP your sëx life? Have you heard of Taoist sëxual practices before? In this episode of The Love Lab Podcast, Kevin Anthony speaks with doctor of Chinese Medicine, Dr. Willow Brown, about what Taoist sëxual practices are, why you may want to try some, how they can amp up your sëx life, the benefits to your physical body, and how modern science coincides with these ancient practices. Dr. Brown even teaches you a beginner practice to get you started. To Find Out More About Dr. Willow Brown, Click The Link Below: 👕 NEW MEN'S & WOMEN'S T-SHIRTS AVAILABLE...
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How often do you check in with your partner? Does it sometimes seem awkward? Do you tend to put it off? In this episode of The Love Lab Podcast, Kevin Anthony talks about the importance of having regular relationship check-ins, the different types of relationship check-ins, when it's appropriate to use each type, a 5-Step formula for successful check-ins, and a list of example questions you can use to get the most out of your check-ins. This is an essential tool for long-lasting and successful relationships. đź‘• NEW MEN'S & WOMEN'S T-SHIRTS AVAILABLE Check out the new "More Orgasms, Less...
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What if intimacy is the key to better sex and better relationships? Does that sound weird to you? Aren't intimacy and sex the same thing? In this episode of The Love Lab Podcast, Kevin Anthony speaks with Intimacy and Conflict Consultant Anna Lecat about what intimacy really is, where men and women go wrong in creating it, what they can both do better, and how deepening intimacy can lead to both stronger relationships and more and better sex! To Find Out More About Anna Lecat And Her New Book, Click The Link Below: đź‘• NEW MEN'S & WOMEN'S T-SHIRTS AVAILABLE Check out the new "More...
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Have you ever created a relationship contract with your partner? Are there unwritten agreements in your relationship that you're not sure how they got there? In this episode of The Love Lab Podcast, Kevin Anthony talks with Elizabeth Webb about relationship contracts, how unwritten contracts occur, how to avoid unwritten contracts, why you want to create consciously written contracts, and how to get started. To Find Out More About Elizabeth Webb, Click The Link Below: 👕 NEW MEN'S & WOMEN'S T-SHIRTS AVAILABLE Check out the new "More Orgasms, Less Wars" T-Shirts at → 🔥 POWER &...
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Are you having Honest sëx? What does that even mean? Could your sëx life become a whole lot better if you were? In this episode of The Love Lab Podcast, Kevin Anthony speaks with Relationship and Dating Coach Shana James about what Honest Sëx is, why it's important, why so many people struggle with it, what people can do to have it, and why communication skills are such a critical component. You may think that you are already having Honest Sëx, but challenge yourself to see if you can go deeper. To Find Out More About Shana James, Click The Link Below: 👕 NEW MEN'S & WOMEN'S...
info_outlineDid you know that we are all repeating patterns in our lives and relationships? Many of these patterns are trauma patterns. But what exactly are trauma patterns and how do we heal them? In this episode of The Love Lab Podcast, Kevin Anthony speaks with psychotherapist Dr. Nicki Monti about what trauma patterns are (and are not), where they come from, why it is so hard for us to see we have them, and how to heal them. Along the way Dr. Nicki share stories from her work and her own personal life.
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