Overcoming a serious personal injury while raising twins with Dave Cox - Podcast 305
Release Date: 03/13/2024
Twins Personalities Switch
Dad's Guide to Twins Podcast
We’ve got identical girls and often rely on their mannerisms and personalities to tell them apart. If you rely on this too, or hope to, be careful: twins switch at will. For example, one of our girls will be shy one week while the other is a social butterfly. Just when you think that is the pattern, they switch and the social standout now cries hysterically with strangers. Go figure.
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Newborn Twins Schedule: Setting Up Your Babies for Success
Dad's Guide to Twins Podcast
Having two newborns simultaneously can feel overwhelming, but establishing a predictable schedule is your secret weapon for maintaining sanity and helping your twin babies thrive. Think of your twins as having a completely blank calendar when they arrive and it’s up to you to fill it with the structure they need for healthy development.
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Free Stuff for Twins (Plus Discounts for Twins)
Dad's Guide to Twins Podcast
Taking care of one child is already going to require a lot of sacrifice on your end, but having twins is automatically going to double your efforts and your financial needs. You can save a lot of money if you know where to shop and what you can get for free (or at least with a discount). There are actually a lot of stores out there that offer discounts and a lot of free stuff for twins if you follow their shopping promos and keep an eye on store offers. While many programs aren’t specifically for twins, every little bit helps. See which of the following could help find free stuff for twins.
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Questions to Ask Your Doctor When Expecting Twins
Dad's Guide to Twins Podcast
Once you find out that you are expecting twins, your mind races with tons of concerns and questions. Whether you’ve had children already or not, a twin pregnancy brings new unknowns that frankly can be overwhelming. It’s time to talk with your doctor.
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Emergency Hysterectomy After Twins Birth with Stephen Dause - Podcast 327
Dad's Guide to Twins Podcast
Today we continue our father of twins interview series with Stephen Dause, father of twin girls. Listen as we explore his twin parenting journey, including: Finding out they'd have twins just after 24 year old adopted son moved out Concerns and anxiety about sleep and wife’s health Going to the hospital twice during pregnancy Choosing a MFM specialist over traditional OB TAPS and TTTS monitoring At 34 weeks, gestational hypertension sent Mom to hospital C-section delivery Emergency hysterectomy to stop bleeding after birth Dad's emotions dealing with traumatic birth experience Power outage...
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Maintaining Dad's Mental Health During a Twin Pregnancy
Dad's Guide to Twins Podcast
Hey Dads, it's completely normal to need support during the twin pregnancy. Yes, support for you. During a twin pregnancy, the physical and emotional spotlight is naturally on your partner, but your role, your mental health, and your emotional well-being matter deeply. Here are some ideas on how to maintain your mental and emotional footing during this intense time.
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How to Prep Your Home for Twins Without Cluttering Everything
Dad's Guide to Twins Podcast
When I found out we were having twins, on of my first thoughts after the initial shock wore off was: "Where are we going to put all their stuff?" Our modest three-bedroom home suddenly felt tiny. But after some creative planning and real-world experience, I discovered you don't need two of everything or a mansion to raise happy, healthy twins. Here's how to prepare your home without drowning in baby gear.
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Common Overblown Fears of Expectant Twin Fathers
Dad's Guide to Twins Podcast
Fathers expecting twins often have specific concerns that tend to be exaggerated or misguided. You just don't know what you're getting yourself into and that leads to some irrational fears. I know, I've been there. Here are some of the most common fears that you don't need to stress out about.
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Successfully Grocery Shopping Alone with Infant Twins
Dad's Guide to Twins Podcast
As a father of twins who's done countless grocery runs, I'm going to share what actually works when you need to brave the supermarket alone with your infant twins. This isn't theoretical advice—these are battle-tested strategies that have saved my sanity during that challenging first year (and beyond) with twins.
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How to cope with comparison of your twins to singleton milestones by well-meaning friends and family
Dad's Guide to Twins Podcast
As a father of twins, you've probably heard it all: "?" or "My son was talking in full sentences at this age!" These well-meaning comments from friends and family comparing your twins to singleton milestones can be frustrating and sometimes even worrying. Let me share some perspective and practical advice on how to handle these situations with confidence.
info_outlineToday we continue our father of twins interview series with Dave Cox, father of non-identical boy twins. Listen as we explore his twin parenting journey, including:
- From joking about possibility of having twins to actually having them
- One twin breech so had to go to hospital for cesarean
- One twin had breathing issues and almost had to fly to Sydney for intensive care
- 2 weeks in special care (one step down from NICU)
- Managing time off - got leave (12 months for Mum, 6-8 weeks leave for Dad)
- Size difference so big they were different sized clothes
- Toilet training wrapping up with their boys
- Dad broke neck when twins were 7 months old causing immobility
- Ongoing surgeries and complications hurt made it impossible to lift and move with twins
- Had to switch jobs post accident
- Day care four days a week and nanny on 5th day of week
- Typical daily schedule starts at 4AM Wesley / Wyatt sleeps in 5-6
- Losing last daytime nap - getting shorter and shorter
- Adjusting your perspective makes all the difference
- and more...