Avoiding Twin Comparisons (how twin parents can encourage individuality)
Release Date: 02/05/2025
Maintaining Dad's Mental Health During a Twin Pregnancy
Dad's Guide to Twins Podcast
Hey Dads, it's completely normal to need support during the twin pregnancy. Yes, support for you. During a twin pregnancy, the physical and emotional spotlight is naturally on your partner, but your role, your mental health, and your emotional well-being matter deeply. Here are some ideas on how to maintain your mental and emotional footing during this intense time.
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How to Prep Your Home for Twins Without Cluttering Everything
Dad's Guide to Twins Podcast
When I found out we were having twins, on of my first thoughts after the initial shock wore off was: "Where are we going to put all their stuff?" Our modest three-bedroom home suddenly felt tiny. But after some creative planning and real-world experience, I discovered you don't need two of everything or a mansion to raise happy, healthy twins. Here's how to prepare your home without drowning in baby gear.
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Common Overblown Fears of Expectant Twin Fathers
Dad's Guide to Twins Podcast
Fathers expecting twins often have specific concerns that tend to be exaggerated or misguided. You just don't know what you're getting yourself into and that leads to some irrational fears. I know, I've been there. Here are some of the most common fears that you don't need to stress out about.
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Successfully Grocery Shopping Alone with Infant Twins
Dad's Guide to Twins Podcast
As a father of twins who's done countless grocery runs, I'm going to share what actually works when you need to brave the supermarket alone with your infant twins. This isn't theoretical advice—these are battle-tested strategies that have saved my sanity during that challenging first year (and beyond) with twins.
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How to cope with comparison of your twins to singleton milestones by well-meaning friends and family
Dad's Guide to Twins Podcast
As a father of twins, you've probably heard it all: "?" or "My son was talking in full sentences at this age!" These well-meaning comments from friends and family comparing your twins to singleton milestones can be frustrating and sometimes even worrying. Let me share some perspective and practical advice on how to handle these situations with confidence.
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How to handle competing twin needs when they're both urgent
Dad's Guide to Twins Podcast
As a father of twins who has weathered countless "double emergencies," I'm here to tell you that yes, you will survive those moments when both babies need you desperately at the exact same time. Whether it's one spitting up while the other has a diaper explosion, or both wailing for different urgent reasons, these situations are inevitable with twins. Here's my battle-tested approach to handling these high-stress moments.
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Avoiding Twin Comparisons (how twin parents can encourage individuality)
Dad's Guide to Twins Podcast
The urge to compare twins is one of the most natural yet challenging aspects of parenting multiples. Each of your twins is a unique individual so let's discuss some practical ideas to avoid comparisons and celebrate each child's unique journey.
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How do you deal with one twin wanting all the attention?
Dad's Guide to Twins Podcast
What do you do when one of your twins wants all the attention and gets upset when anyone is showing affection to their twin? We found this particularly troublesome with toddler twins. For toddler twins, you'll need to adapt your strategies to match their developmental stage. Toddlers are still learning to regulate their emotions, communicate effectively, and understand social dynamics like sharing attention. Here’s how you could help your young twins.
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Moving Across the Country During Twin Pregnancy with Aaron Ameen - Podcast 318
Dad's Guide to Twins Podcast
Today we continue our father of twins interview series with Aaron Ameen, father of identical boys. Listen as we explore his twin parenting journey, including: Moving across the country during the twin pregnancy Helping others tell the twins apart Juggling a full time job and running your own business while raising twins Toddler's reactions to having twin babies in the house Finding daycare for twins and a toddler Handing careers after birth of twins The twin delivery experience Taking paternity leave Creating boundaries when working at home Daily routine for one-year-old twins and more...
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2024 JPMA Innovation Awards Winners (Are They Twin Friendly?)
Dad's Guide to Twins Podcast
Let's take a look at the 2024 JPMA Innovation Awards Winners and see if they would be a good fit for your twin family.
info_outlineThe urge to compare twins is one of the most natural yet challenging aspects of parenting multiples.
Each of your twins is a unique individual so let's discuss some practical ideas to avoid comparisons and celebrate each child's unique journey.