The Waiting Room with Nadine Graves
Check out this episode with Alyssa Tamboura, an advocate for children impacted by the criminal justice system and founder of Walls to Bridges Project, which aired initially in Season 1. Alyssa shares about her organization and the book project created this past summer for system-impacted kids to maintain communication with their loved ones since in-person visits have been suspended due to COVID-19. Alyssa also shares a powerful poem about what it was it was like waiting while her dad was gone for most of her childhood as he served nearly 13 years in San Quentin Prison.
info_outline First Wednesdays S4, E1The Waiting Room with Nadine Graves
Hey Visitors! After a nine-month hiatus, Nadine is back! In this episode, Nadine gives you a brief update on some of the things she's been focusing on in her "year of no." As mentioned in the show: Look out for new episodes on the first Wednesday of every month. In the last episode, Nadine mentioned she'd be moderating a conversation for the Minnesota Justice Research Center's Re-Imagining Conference. Here is a . Nadine started a new job in a familiar place, the , and she was appointed to the . Nadine recounts her experiences at the National Association of Black Journalists...
info_outline It's been a min...S3, E9The Waiting Room with Nadine Graves
In this solo episode, Nadine shares some of the things she has been up to in the last few months as well as two upcoming conferences she’d love for you to attend. Featured in this episode: from the conference Book recommendations - How America Criminalizes Black Youth by Kristin Henning - I Never Gave Up: a memoir by Eddie Ellis : Race, Poverty, and the Persistence of Inequality in the Criminal Courts by Stephen B. Bright & James Kwak ! Thanks for joining us in The Waiting Room!
info_outline Breaking the Cycle of Trauma Response S3, E8The Waiting Room with Nadine Graves
Molly Bailey, therapist and founder of joins Nadine in the Waiting Room for an in-depth conversation about how trauma impacts human behavior and her passion for helping families impacted by the criminal legal system find healing. Molly is waiting for our legal system to catch up on the science of trauma, so it can be more reflective of how we now know how humans change and heal. Molly asks, “If we as a society say we value mental health, what is the evidence of that?” Also mentioned in this episode: Antonio Williams' , The Dream Weaver.
info_outline Juneteenth; #BushFellow S3, E7The Waiting Room with Nadine Graves
Hey Vistors! In this episode, Nadine checks in briefly to highlight Juneteenth, Open Nexus Community Partners Open Road Fund, the Department of Justices report on the Minneapolis Police Department, and ends with the amazing news of being named one of the 2023 Bush Fellows! See the links below for more details on everything shared in this episode! The was created to serve Black descendants of the Atlantic Slave Trade, especially formerly incarcerated folks, single parents, senior citizens, those living with disabilities, LGBTQ+, and more. Through 2031, Nexus will award $50,000...
info_outline H.O.T. Reflection S3, E6The Waiting Room with Nadine Graves
Hey Visitors! In this episode, Nadine gives a brief H.O.T (humble, open, and transparent) update on where she's been the last 2 months and also shares insight on what she's been reflecting on as she approaches her 40th birthday! Send her some birthday love on IG at CashApp: $NadineGraves Venmo: @Nadine-Graves
info_outline Things we should know: Legislative Process S3, E5The Waiting Room with Nadine Graves
Shenika Chambers, Policy Program Manager at , joins Nadine in the Waiting Room and shares insight on the legislative process from her time as a Legislative Assistant with the Minnesota House of Representatives. is an additional resource outlining how a bill becomes law. Also, you can find Violence Free Minnesota's 2023 Legislative agenda, which includes some policies mentioned in this episode. Mentioned in this episode: / - follow up to inquire about purchasing a limited edition Black History Month Tee Artist, Activist, and Entrepreneur - Song: “” Text...
info_outline Updates, save the dates, and opportunities S3,E4The Waiting Room with Nadine Graves
In this solo episode, Nadine gives a brief update on previous bills mentioned on TWR. She also shares some upcoming events as well as opportunities to share with either any experiences you’ve had with cash bail and/or with the any impact police violence and surveillance has had on you or your loved ones. Upcoming events: Legal Rights Center () and Black History Month Event February 22, 2023, 6:30 - 8:30 pm @ ! There will be free food, guest speakers, and a performance by Lewiee Blaze. We will also sell limited edition and limited batch (50 total) Black History Month...
info_outline Power of Organizing S3, E3The Waiting Room with Nadine Graves
Antonio Williams, Founder of joins Nadine in the Waiting Room for an in-depth conversation about the importance of healing and liberation. From prison to the “free world,” Antonio embodies the power of community organizing against injustices. He is a canvasser, writer, community builder, father, and activist, and we are all much better because of his commitment to uplifting people. Please support Antonio’s work by . Also in this episode: - Right to Vote - Remove the exception that allows slavery or involuntary servitude as a punishment for a crime! Rush City Prison Strike:...
info_outline The Value of Opportunity S3, E2The Waiting Room with Nadine Graves
Marcel Hofker, Founder of joins Nadine in the Waiting Room role where he shares how he overcame his addiction and now is in the service of others as he provides second chances for those seeking employment. Check out more about Marcel here: “” Also mentioned in this episode: aka Boot Camp - Sin of Omission - Union
info_outlineIn this episode, Mary Moriarty, career Public Defender (PD) and chief of the Hennepin County PD’s Office in Minneapolis, provides a much needed perspective into the work of a PD, countering the public perception of PDs being public pretenders. Additionally Mary offers insight as to role prosecutors and judges can play in holding officers accountable and criminal system reform. Mary also talks briefly about the good trouble she’s gotten herself into speaking out about problems within the criminal system as well as racial disparities. Mary is an avid reader and has provided a list of must read books that she first thinks anyone working in the system should read as well as visitors to The Waiting Room.
Mary’s Reads:
“The Warmth of Other Suns” - Isabel Wilkerson
This is a beautifully written narrative about three black families who moved from the south to northern cities during the great migration movement of the 20th century. Winner of the National Book Critics Circle Award, this work is essential reading for Minnesotans who want to understand the challenges that African-Americans faced when they moved here, and still face today.
"Locking Up Our Own" – George Forman Jr.
This Pulitzer Prize winning book, written by the son of a prominent leader in the civil rights movement, tells the story of how black politicians (including Eric Holder), judges, and police chiefs embraced tough on crime initiatives that devastated communities of color in Washington D.C. during the war on drugs. A former public defender, James Foreman, Jr. uses his clients’ stories to show how punitive these measures were.
"Locked In" – Jon Pfaff
Much of what we read attributes mass incarceration to the war on drugs, but this book challenges that assumption by pointing out that even if we released everyone jailed on drug offenses, the U.S. would still have the highest incarceration rate in the world. John Pfaff focuses instead on the charging and negotiation practices of prosecutors, and demonstrates that if we are serious about reducing our prison population, we need to address sentences for violent crimes.
"Picking Cotton" – Erin Torneo, Jennifer Thompson-Cannino, and Ronald Cotton
This book was written by rape victim Jennifer Thompson, and the man she wrongfully accused of attacking her, Ronald Cotton. Cotton spent 12 years in prison before DNA revealed the true perpetrator, leading Jennifer Thompson to search for the reason her identification was wrong despite being absolutely convinced she was correct. Cotton and Thompson alternate chapters telling the story from their unique perspectives. This is an excellent book for those who want to understand how the frailties of human memory can lead determined victims and well-meaning cops to create a dynamic leading to wrongful convictions.
"Just Mercy" – Bryan Stevenson
Bryan Stevenson, founder of the Equal Justice Initiative in Alabama, movingly writes about his experiences as a black man representing poor men and women caught in an unjust system. EJI is a non-profit committed to changing the narrative about race in America. Stevenson most recently completed construction of The National Memorial for Peace and Justice, the country’s first memorial dedicated to the legacy of enslaved black people. His work connects slavery to mass incarceration.
"Insane" – Alisa Roth
So many people in the criminal justice system struggle with mental health issues because we have simply criminalized mental illness instead of properly funding mental health resources. Alisa Roth explains how those with mental illness have been treated since colonial times, long before people were released from asylums without a proper safety net in the 60s. Using compelling case studies from around the country, she reveals the devastating consequences of incarceration on the mentally ill and their families, and argues for more successful and humane alternatives.
"Slavery by Another Name" – Douglas A. Blackmon
Many people believe that slavery ended with the civil war, but Douglas Blackmon’s book documents the forced labor of black men and women, who were jailed on made-up crimes so they could be leased to do the work of formerly enslaved people. Blackmon writes of “Black Codes,” laws passed by legislatures to justify pretext arrests to fill the jails with people who were then leased to private corporations and landowners. This work is critical to understanding one way in which the legal system was used to sustain white supremacy.
"The New Jim Crow" – Michelle Alexander
Michelle Alexander’s book connects slavery, Jim Crow, and the war on drugs as racist systems of control. She provides historical context for policies that allowed police to operate with little oversight – stopping, searching, and seizing people of color at will. Ms. Alexander effectively demonstrates that the war on drugs was intended to be a war on black people, whom republicans viewed as more likely to vote for democrats. This award winning book, published in 2010, changed the way many view race and the criminal justice system.
"Charged" – Emily Bazelon
Emily Bazelon beautifully tell the stories of a teenage girl accused of murdering her mother and a young man who possessed a gun to demonstrate the relatively unchecked power prosecutors have in the criminal justice system. Prosecutors decide whether a person will be charged and with what offense. They have complete control over whether to offer a plea negotiation, the details of which may impact the client the rest of his or her life.
"My Grandmother’s Hands" – Resmaa Menakem
Minneapolis therapist Resmaa Menakem writes that racism has caused physical trauma in everyone and that the path to wellness is understanding the trauma that resides deep within our bodies. Although the reasons why white, black and blue (police) bodies have experienced trauma from white supremacism differ, we will not work through our racial divide until we heal from the generational impact of trauma. At the end of each chapter, Dr. Menakem offers exercises and practices designed to heal our bodies from trauma.
"Colony in a Nation" – Chris Hayes
Journalist Chris Hayes uses the framework of a Nation and a Colony to discuss why measures of racial inequality – incarceration, income, employment, home ownership – haven’t improved since 1968. Within our Nation exists a Colony, where fear leads to aggressive policing, which infringes on civil rights. Policing in the Colony resembles occupation, which has led to the conditions that lead to the uprisings in Baltimore and Ferguson.
"Unwarranted: Policing Without Permission" – Barry E. Friedman
Barry Friedman’s book outlines the problems we have created by refusing to police the police. Illegal searches, warrantless stops, and invasive surveillance, enabled by sophisticated technology, are just a few of the issues that plague our country. Add race and class to the mix and we need serious reform, which starts with the question, “What do we want the police to do?”
"Between the World and Me" – Ta-Neisi Coates
This book is a letter to the author’s 15 year old son about how to live in a black body in this country. The death of one of Ta-Neisi Coates’s classmates, at the hands of the police, caused him to reflect on this country’s history of destroying black bodies. The heart of the narrative is that race is a social construct and that people who identify as white do not believe they benefit from white privilege. If they achieve what he calls the “dream,” it is because of their own abilities and efforts.
"Killers of the Flower Moon: The Osage Murders and the Birth of the FBI" - David Grann
David Grann’s book investigates one chapter of white genocide against Native Americans. After oil was discovered under their land, making them among the richest people per capita in the world, members of the Osage Indian Nation in Oklahoma Nation began to be murdered. As the death toll climbed, the FBI began its first major homicide investigation, which it botched. Although official records claim about twenty people were murdered, Grann’s detailed reporting reveals hundreds of victims.
"Color of Law: A Forgotten History of How our Government Segregated America" - Richard Rothstein
Richard Rothstein’s book explains clearly how government policies, not individual choices, intentionally promoted residential racial segregation. Rothstein dismantles many of the current myths about racial discrimination, such as black homeowners causing white homeowners property values to fall. After documenting the intentional choices made by the government, Rothstein argues, contrary to the thinking of the U.S. Supreme Court, that there are constitutional remedies available to address these purposeful, discriminatory policies.