352: Escaping & Healing From a Violent Cult with Anna LeBaron & Ruth Wariner
Release Date: 04/22/2025
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00:00 Introduction and Special Episode Announcement
00:09 Background of Anna and Ruth's Family
01:11 The Violent History of the Polygamous Cult
02:01 Anna and Ruth's Escape and Reconnection
02:54 The Impact of Their Memoirs
04:57 Revisiting the 2017 Interview
05:35 The 2017 Interview Begins
06:37 Anna and Ruth's Personal Stories
08:20 The Emotional First Meeting
16:35 Healing Through Connection
37:02 Challenges of Sharing Their Stories
45:57 A Desperate Escape
46:47 Crossing the Border
48:26 Life After the Escape
49:05 Family Resistance and Social Media
50:21 Questioning the Past
50:45 Impact of Community and Family Reactions
51:23 Struggles with Self-Worth
52:12 Intuition and Abuse
53:31 Mother's Influence and Writing the Book
54:57 Challenges of Sharing the Story
55:48 Emotional Manipulation and Silence
57:05 Reading the Book to Her Mother
58:43 Conflicting Feelings About Family
01:04:56 Therapy and Healing
01:10:16 Finding Freedom and Voice
01:17:25 Advice for Those Feeling Trapped
01:24:13 The Power of Stories and Books
01:25:25 Mission and Message
01:28:59 Closing Remarks and Contact Information