How Are You Measuring Your Life? — Beneath The Surface
What Got You There with Sean DeLaney
Release Date: 06/06/2025
The Art of Seeing — Beneath The Surface
What Got You There with Sean DeLaney
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Where Courage Lives, Life Awakens — Beneath The Surface
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Awareness: The Beginning of Everything — Beneath The Surface
What Got You There with Sean DeLaney
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How Are You Measuring Your Life? — Beneath The Surface
What Got You There with Sean DeLaney
The question hit me at a funeral: If I keep living exactly as I am… what will my life add up to? This episode isn’t here to give you answers. It’s here to help you ask better questions. How are you measuring your life? Are you chasing a scoreboard someone else created? Or are you living in alignment with what your soul knows to be true? You’ll hear reflections from the Stoics, wisdom from David Brooks and James Hollis, the ache behind Rumi’s poetry, and the quiet clarity of your own heart. I walk with you through the dangerous gap between what society tells us to want… and...
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What Got You There with Sean DeLaney
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The Hidden Cost of Trying to Be Enough — Beneath The Surface
What Got You There with Sean DeLaney
What if the version of you the world rewards isn’t the version that makes you feel alive? We’ve been taught that we have to earn love. Earn rest. Earn our right to belong. But what if the model is backwards? What if Being is the starting point — not the reward at the end of striving? In this episode, I unpack the hidden cost of tying your worth to outcomes, approval, and perfection… and explore what becomes possible when we finally come home to ourselves. This is not a self-help checklist. It’s an invitation to slow down, to examine the identity you’ve built, and to consider who...
info_outlineThe question hit me at a funeral:
If I keep living exactly as I am… what will my life add up to?
This episode isn’t here to give you answers. It’s here to help you ask better questions.
- How are you measuring your life?
- Are you chasing a scoreboard someone else created?
- Or are you living in alignment with what your soul knows to be true?
You’ll hear reflections from the Stoics, wisdom from David Brooks and James Hollis, the ache behind Rumi’s poetry, and the quiet clarity of your own heart. I walk with you through the dangerous gap between what society tells us to want… and what actually makes life feel worth living.
This is not about chasing more. It’s about choosing better and following what truly matters.
So I’ll leave you with three questions—ones worth returning to again and again:
- How will I measure my life?
- Who am I working to become?
- What is the life I’m truly trying to create?
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