150: What Teens Wish Their Parents Knew: A Conversation with Youth Expert Mimi Loftus
Release Date: 04/23/2025
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Based on anonymous feedback Mimi gathered directly from adolescents, this episode breaks down three core themes that keep showing up: teens want to be understood, not “fixed”; they need their interests respected; and they long to feel safe opening up without judgment or comparison.
With humor, honesty, and hard-earned wisdom, Mimi and Dr. Shine unpack the nuance of parenting through adolescence—including how good intentions can unintentionally feel invasive, and why listening might be the most powerful parenting tool of all.
Key Topics:
Why your teen’s interests matter—even when they change
How to show support without hijacking their passions
The emotional toll of comparison (including to siblings or yourself)
What it means to create “safe space” for teens to open up
Why letting go of the need to always teach or solve can actually deepen your connection
Whether you're parenting a teen, mentoring one, or simply trying to understand the next generation, this episode offers practical, compassionate advice for showing up with more empathy, curiosity, and trust.