154: Building Trust, Serving All: Assistant Chief Graves on Policing with Purpose
Release Date: 06/11/2025
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info_outlineJoin us for an insightful episode of What’s Your Shine? The Happy Podcast as Dr. Shine sits down with Chief Graves of the Grapevine Police Department to explore what it means to lead with heart, humility, and hope in modern law enforcement.
With decades of experience, Chief Graves brings wisdom, warmth, and clarity to a profession often misunderstood. “When someone calls 911, they’re not calling to complain—they’re calling because they need help,” she shares. “Our job is to show up ready to serve, with empathy and excellence.”
This episode goes beyond policies and procedures to focus on people—how officers are trained, supported, and encouraged to connect with their community. Chief Graves offers a transparent look at building trust, prioritizing officer wellness, and leading with purpose.
“Trust is earned in drops and lost in buckets.”
Whether you’re a community member, a leadership enthusiast, or someone who believes in service-centered leadership, this conversation is a must-listen.
Key Topics Include:
• The evolution of community policing
• Leadership through transparency and trust
• Supporting officer mental health and resilience
• Building relationships beyond emergencies
• Why service is at the heart of Chief Graves’ leadership philosophy