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#169 - No problems, just work to do!

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Release Date: 12/05/2024

#186 - Dome Dump, This One’s for the Dads and Men Out There Killing It show art #186 - Dome Dump, This One’s for the Dads and Men Out There Killing It

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Welcome to Dome Dump—raw, loud, and shit I think you need to hear. This is me, the mic, y’all listening—no notes, no mercy, and whatever’s bouncing around in my dome. Thanks for being here. Take what you want, leave the rest. Let’s fuckin’ go. This One’s for the Dads and Men Out There Killing It Strong on the outside, storms on the inside—this one’s for you. In this special Father’s Day episode, I’m tipping my hat to the men out there holding it down—whether you're called Dad, Daddy, or just trying to keep your shit together. We’re talking strength, pressure, and the...

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#185 - From Battlefield to Back Porch – Leo's Fight Continues (Part 2) show art #185 - From Battlefield to Back Porch – Leo's Fight Continues (Part 2)

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🎧 EPISODE DESCRIPTION: In Part 2, we go even deeper with Leo—combat medic, warrior, husband, and father. He opens up about what it really meant to be the guy running into the chaos, patching up his brothers under fire, and the mental weight that doesn’t just disappear when the uniform comes off. Now, he's home—but the mission didn’t end. It just changed. We talk about purpose after the battlefield, finding peace without going soft, and showing up for the people who matter most. This one’s raw, honest, and full of hard-earned perspective. That’s a wrap for today, Be Raw...

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#184 - (Part 1)Tip of the Spear: From Combat Medic to Family Leader show art #184 - (Part 1)Tip of the Spear: From Combat Medic to Family Leader

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Leo was the tip of the spear on the battlefield—dodging bullets while patching up his brothers in arms as a combat medic. After being injured, he didn’t slow down—he shifted gears. Now he’s leading the charge for his family and pushing out raw, real positivity on social media. In this episode, we talk about pain, purpose, and what it means to still be a warrior when the uniform comes off. This one’s not about survival—it’s about showing up every damn day and choosing to fight forward. Food has always been more than just fuel—it’s a symbol of survival, success, and connection....

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#183 - Be a Value to Society—That’s It. show art #183 - Be a Value to Society—That’s It.

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This is me, the mic, ya'll listening, no notes and whatever is on my mind. Thanks for listening, take what you want, leave the rest. Mentions: High Speed Daddy:  Live Rishi: Use the code "TABLE50" and get 50% off your entire order-  Me:  'til next time! Be a Value to Society—That’s It. It’s in the morning. I’m rolling back from a poker game with my buddy, need gas bad, so we pull into a station in Jersey—you know, where they still won’t let you pump your own fuel. This young kid comes out. Clean cut. Smells like he gives a damn about himself. Polite, sharp, good...

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#182 - Raising our son to be a dangerous man! show art #182 - Raising our son to be a dangerous man!

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I don't and you shouldn't agree 100% with anyone. when I came across this video my Nick Freitas it comes damn close to agreeing 100% on this subject. Love how he talks about raising boys. Check it out and let me know thoughts.  Mentions: Nick - Sponsors:  Live Rishi - Use the code "TABLE50" and get 50% off your entire order - HighSpeed Daddy - Me: 'til next time! I don’t just want my son to be “nice.” I want him to be dangerous. Not reckless, not cruel—dangerous. The kind of man who knows how to protect, provide, and stand tall when life throws punches. Because the world...

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#181 - Easily Digestible (part #2) show art #181 - Easily Digestible (part #2)

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Go back and catch up on part #!. When you are with your friends talking about what you did in the past and someone says you need to write a book about it...Well todays guest Andy did just that! He has stories, enjoy! Mentions: Andy:  HighSpeed Daddy:  Live Rishi: Use the code "TABLE50" and get 50% off your entire order -  Me:  'til next time!...

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#180 - Easily Digestible (part #1) show art #180 - Easily Digestible (part #1)

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When you are with your friends talking about what you did in the past and someone says you need to write a book about it...Well todays guest Andy did just that! He has stories, enjoy! Mentions: Andy: HighSpeed Daddy: Live Rishi: Use the code "TABLE50" and get 50% off your entire order - Me: 'til next time! I once did a deep dive into the commandments, teachings, pillars, rules—whatever label the world’s major religions gave their moral codes. I read through the Bible, the Quran, the Torah, the Tao Te Ching, Buddhist teachings, even some tribal belief systems. All of them had different...

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#179 - Passion feeds Passion show art #179 - Passion feeds Passion

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This is me, the mic, ya'll listening, no notes and whatever is on my mind. Thanks for listening, take what you want, leave the rest. Here I give my thoughts on how my passions feed my other passions.  Check out these local businesses: HighSpeed Daddy:  Live Rishi: Use the code "TABLE50" and get 50% off your entire order:  You know what keeps me productive? Having more than one damn passion. Shocking, right? I’m a blue-collar, on-the-road mechanic—I get my hands dirty for a living, and honestly, I love the hell out of it. Some days I’m basically skipping to the damn truck,...

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#178 - Life is a mirror not a window! show art #178 - Life is a mirror not a window!

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You should never take advise from someone who hasn't been there, biuld something or what ever you are trying to do. Well Harvey has been there and if you want to know how to lose weight? This dude dropped over 100lbs and lives a great life, enjoy!   Mentions, Harvey: High Speed Daddy: Live Rishi: Use the code "TABLE50" and get 50% off your entire order: Me: 'til next time! Life Is a Mirror, Not a Window—So Stop Crying at the Glass Oh, how nice it would be if life were just a big, scenic window. You could press your sad little forehead against it, sigh dramatically, and blame the...

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#177 - 7 weeks on the carnivore diet and my experience! show art #177 - 7 weeks on the carnivore diet and my experience!

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This is me, the mic, ya'll listening, no notes and whatever is on my mind. Thanks for listening, take what you want, leave the rest. In this episode I talk about my experience of being on the carnivore diet for 7 weeks now. The ups and downs, the pros and cons. Enjoy! Take a moment and check out these great companies! Highspeed Daddy: Live Rishi: Use the code "TABLE50" and get 50% off your entire order - Me: 'til next time, keep kickin ass! Ah yes, the carnivore diet — the "crazy, unsustainable" way of eating that’s somehow completely transformed my health over the past two months. Who...

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In this episode I talk about a phrase I heard years ago and final believe I have a grasp on it's true meaning. Wanted to share with ya'll!

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The idea of not having "problems" but instead "work to do" is a transformative mindset shift that reframes challenges as opportunities for action, growth, and purpose. This perspective has roots in stoic philosophy, modern self-help, and productivity thinking, offering a way to reduce emotional resistance and foster resilience. By changing how we view obstacles, we can approach life with a greater sense of agency and clarity.

At its core, this mindset hinges on the distinction between problems as insurmountable barriers and work as actionable tasks. A problem often carries an emotional charge—frustration, anxiety, or fear—that can paralyze progress. When we label something as a problem, it becomes daunting, a mountain that looms too high to climb. On the other hand, when we view the same situation as work to do, it transforms into a series of steps or tasks that are manageable and solvable. Work implies effort, but it also implies progress. The mental shift is subtle but powerful.

For instance, consider a professional project with tight deadlines and complex requirements. Viewing this situation as a "problem" might lead to stress, procrastination, or a sense of being overwhelmed. However, seeing it as work to do encourages focus on breaking the project into smaller tasks, tackling them one by one, and moving forward. Each task completed represents a tangible step toward resolution. This approach not only enhances productivity but also fosters a sense of accomplishment along the way.

This perspective is particularly useful in personal growth. Life's adversities—financial struggles, relationship challenges, or health issues—are often perceived as problems that weigh us down. But by reframing them as work to do, we can focus on actionable solutions. A strained relationship, for example, isn’t merely a “problem” but a call to engage in open communication, practice empathy, or seek counseling. Each action, however small, contributes to improvement.

The concept aligns with stoicism, which teaches that we cannot control external events but can control how we respond to them. Instead of lamenting a situation, a stoic would ask, “What can I do about this?” This pragmatic approach shifts the focus from what is wrong to what is possible, emphasizing action over rumination.

Adopting this mindset also encourages emotional resilience. It’s easier to stay calm and grounded when we view setbacks as tasks rather than catastrophes. For example, a failed job interview isn’t a life-ending problem—it’s an opportunity to reflect, improve, and prepare for the next opportunity. Each failure becomes a stepping stone rather than a wall.

Moreover, seeing life as work to do fosters purpose. When we approach each day as a series of tasks, we find meaning in the act of doing. Whether it’s caring for loved ones, pursuing a career, or contributing to a community, every effort becomes part of a larger journey. This sense of purpose drives motivation and fulfillment.

In conclusion, reframing problems as work to do is a practical, empowering mindset that transforms how we navigate life. It promotes action, resilience, and purpose, enabling us to tackle challenges with clarity and determination. By embracing this approach, we can turn obstacles into opportunities and live with greater intention.

 
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