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Be Raw Podcast

Release Date: 12/05/2024

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Back in the day, my buddy Larry (no, that’s his real name) and I had this savage little phrase we’d throw out anytime one of us got wrecked—by a girl, a song, a damn good steak—whatever: “…and there I was…” Translation? Hooked. Gone. Screwed in the best kind of way. So in honor of Larry, here it is— …and there I was… falling in love with blogging. Yeah, I said it. Writing. The thing I used to dodge like a chore is now where I process the chaos. It’s where I get honest, raw, and maybe a little dangerous with my thoughts. In this episode, I’m diving into: – Why...

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#191 - Living Life Backwards (And Going Out With a Bang) show art #191 - Living Life Backwards (And Going Out With a Bang)

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#190 - True definition of a tossed salad! show art #190 - True definition of a tossed salad!

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#189 - AI, A Wrench, and a Mouse in the House show art #189 - AI, A Wrench, and a Mouse in the House

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Welcome to Dome Dump—raw, loud, and shit I think you need to hear. This is me, the mic, y’all listening—no notes, no mercy, and whatever’s bouncing around in my dome. Thanks for being here. Take what you want, leave the rest. Let’s fuckin’ go. This One’s for the Dads and Men Out There Killing It Strong on the outside, storms on the inside—this one’s for you. In this special Father’s Day episode, I’m tipping my hat to the men out there holding it down—whether you're called Dad, Daddy, or just trying to keep your shit together. We’re talking strength, pressure, and the...

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🎧 EPISODE DESCRIPTION: In Part 2, we go even deeper with Leo—combat medic, warrior, husband, and father. He opens up about what it really meant to be the guy running into the chaos, patching up his brothers under fire, and the mental weight that doesn’t just disappear when the uniform comes off. Now, he's home—but the mission didn’t end. It just changed. We talk about purpose after the battlefield, finding peace without going soft, and showing up for the people who matter most. This one’s raw, honest, and full of hard-earned perspective. That’s a wrap for today, Be Raw...

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This is me, the mic, ya'll listening, no notes and whatever is on my mind. Thanks for listening, take what you want, leave the rest.

In this episode I talk about a phrase I heard years ago and final believe I have a grasp on it's true meaning. Wanted to share with ya'll!

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The idea of not having "problems" but instead "work to do" is a transformative mindset shift that reframes challenges as opportunities for action, growth, and purpose. This perspective has roots in stoic philosophy, modern self-help, and productivity thinking, offering a way to reduce emotional resistance and foster resilience. By changing how we view obstacles, we can approach life with a greater sense of agency and clarity.

At its core, this mindset hinges on the distinction between problems as insurmountable barriers and work as actionable tasks. A problem often carries an emotional charge—frustration, anxiety, or fear—that can paralyze progress. When we label something as a problem, it becomes daunting, a mountain that looms too high to climb. On the other hand, when we view the same situation as work to do, it transforms into a series of steps or tasks that are manageable and solvable. Work implies effort, but it also implies progress. The mental shift is subtle but powerful.

For instance, consider a professional project with tight deadlines and complex requirements. Viewing this situation as a "problem" might lead to stress, procrastination, or a sense of being overwhelmed. However, seeing it as work to do encourages focus on breaking the project into smaller tasks, tackling them one by one, and moving forward. Each task completed represents a tangible step toward resolution. This approach not only enhances productivity but also fosters a sense of accomplishment along the way.

This perspective is particularly useful in personal growth. Life's adversities—financial struggles, relationship challenges, or health issues—are often perceived as problems that weigh us down. But by reframing them as work to do, we can focus on actionable solutions. A strained relationship, for example, isn’t merely a “problem” but a call to engage in open communication, practice empathy, or seek counseling. Each action, however small, contributes to improvement.

The concept aligns with stoicism, which teaches that we cannot control external events but can control how we respond to them. Instead of lamenting a situation, a stoic would ask, “What can I do about this?” This pragmatic approach shifts the focus from what is wrong to what is possible, emphasizing action over rumination.

Adopting this mindset also encourages emotional resilience. It’s easier to stay calm and grounded when we view setbacks as tasks rather than catastrophes. For example, a failed job interview isn’t a life-ending problem—it’s an opportunity to reflect, improve, and prepare for the next opportunity. Each failure becomes a stepping stone rather than a wall.

Moreover, seeing life as work to do fosters purpose. When we approach each day as a series of tasks, we find meaning in the act of doing. Whether it’s caring for loved ones, pursuing a career, or contributing to a community, every effort becomes part of a larger journey. This sense of purpose drives motivation and fulfillment.

In conclusion, reframing problems as work to do is a practical, empowering mindset that transforms how we navigate life. It promotes action, resilience, and purpose, enabling us to tackle challenges with clarity and determination. By embracing this approach, we can turn obstacles into opportunities and live with greater intention.

 
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