YCBK 596: A Debate About Early Decision and a Debate About the Value of Prestige
Release Date: 12/15/2025
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We welcome a new member to our podcast, Carter Delloro, Co-Director of College Counseling at the Marymount School of New York. Carter will discuss a New Yor Times article, “The Early Decision Option Is a Racket. Shut It Down” and then a listener, Sean Elliott sends in a message in support of Early Decision and Carter shares his perspective on Sean’s perspective.
New Interview-Evan Mandery-How America's Elite Colleges Breed High-Status Careers—and Misery
Preview of Part 3 of 3
² Evan and Mark spend almost the entire segment debating whether you need to go to an elite college to have limitless career opportunities, he says some things Mark totally agrees with, and others Mark pushes back on, but we think you will find it interesting; honestly, the truth is somewhere between his view and my view
² Evan shares what are the next writing projects he is working on
² Evan shares his concerns about where our country is at
² Evan closes by picking Mark’s brain about his own kids and their educational journey and satisfaction with their college choices
Recommended Resources
Colleges that allow self reporting of test scores
Colleges that Allow Self-Reporting of SAT and ACT Scores
Great source for questions about finances and college
Edvisors: Financial Aid, Student Loans, Scholarships and Money Management
FAFSA Walkthroughs Mark recommends
Complete FAFSA 2026‑2027 Walkthrough | From Start to Submit
2023-2024 FAFSA Walkthrough Video English
CSS PROFILE Walkthroughs
MEFA Institute: A Deep Dive into the CSS Profile
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