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Your College-Bound Kid

Release Date: 12/22/2025

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In this episode you will hear:   o   Mark shares on additional important point about who gets in the most competitive colleges    Heath Einstein, the chief enrollment officer at TCU-Tips for Submitting a Quality Resume for College o   Heath tells us how a college resume is different from a work-based resume o   Heath tells us what makes an effective resume o   I share with Heath the things I tell students to emphasize in their resumes, and I ask Heath for feedback on whether some of the things I tell students are more important...

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In this episode you will hear:   (04:14) In our Question from a Listener-Susan and Hilary join Mark to respond to a comment from a listener about something that is grinding his gears   (20:47) In the final segment on how to stand out in the most competitive applicant pools, Mark shares observations and similarities he sees from the kids who have been admitted to the most selective universities in all regions in the country     (38:14) College Spotlight-Lisa joins Mark to discuss his recent visit to the University of Miami. This is a 60-minute Spotlight that you will...

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In this episode you will hear:   Carter, Susan and Mark recorded a conversation for over 90 minutes on what standard strong students can do to excel once they get to campus Part 5 of 6 o   We talk about the different way colleges admit students and the different calendars colleges have, and how that impacts your application o   We talk about how this focus on fit cannot be emphasized enough, not only in your selection of where to apply but also in the discussion of whether the college selects you-to quote Susan, “fit works both ways” o   Carter...

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In this episode you will hear:   (02:33) Mark and Susan and Hilary continue their discussion about some of the intangibles that make a student stand out in a competitive admissions process-4 of 5 o      We discuss how admission buckets impact admission reads and admission decisions   (24:51) In our Question from a Listener-Susan and Hilary join Mark to answer a question from Michael, a student about how he should communicate with admissions about a D he received in Algebra 2.     (41:58) College Spotlight-Lisa and Lynda discuss State Tech in...

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In this episode you will hear:   Carter, Susan and Mark recorded a conversation for over 90 minutes on what standard strong students can do to excel once they get to campus Part 3 of 5 o   Susan and Carter and I continue our conversation about how applicants can stand out in a highly selective college admission process and we have some real straight talk in part 3 of 5 o   Carter shares what he doesn’t like about the term passion project o   We talk about what are some practical things students can do    Lisa interviews Jennifer...

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In this episode you will hear:   (03:04) In our Question from a Listener-Susan joins Mark to answer a series of questions about the role of the territory manager in admissions decisions   (29:28) Mark and Susan and Carter continue their discussion about some of the intangibles that make a student stand out in a competitive admissions process-2 of 5 o      We have a robust conversation between the difference between a resume application and a representational application o      We talk about how colleges assess impact, and how...

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In this episode you will hear:   Carter, Susan and Mark recorded a conversation for over 90 minutes on what standard strong students can do to excel once they get to campus Part 1 of 5 o     Susan describes the dilemma students face and she gives a preview of the content we are going to cover for the next 5 weeks o     Susan shares a few admissions vernacular words for us, what is a 3/3? What is “bread and butter” o     Susan defines Standard Strong for us o     We begin a conversation that will...

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In this episode you will hear:   (02:35) In our Question from a Listener-Carter joins me to ask a question from a college counselor from New York who wants to know if taking a gap year increases a student’s chances of college admission.     (29:02) Mark interviews Barbara Kalmus about how the words we often use when describing our college list are detrimental to student mental health Part 2 of 2 o      Barbara talks about how things have changed since the 1990’s o      Barbara talks about institutional priorities ...

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In this episode you will hear:   Mark shares 15 questions to ask yourself when you are trying to decide who to ask for your teacher recommendation    Interview-Student Athlete Advisors-Part 4 of 4 o   Our 4 experts answer three questions that one listener sent in via Speakpike o   We talk about NIL and college athletics o   We discuss the difference between the timed sports and the observation sports o   Katie lets you know how about some of the resources that Student Athlete Advisors has available and how you can partner with...

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In this episode you will hear:   (02:08) In Our Question from a Listener-Hilary joins me to ask a question about how colleges can use GPA to evaluate students when the high schools can vary so much in rigor, selectivity and grade inflation.     (25:01) Mark interviews Barbara Kalmus about how the words we often use when describing our college list are detrimental to student mental health Part 1of 2 o      Barbara Kalmus gives her backstory o      Barbara talks about student mental health o     ...

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We welcome a new member to our podcast, Carter Delloro, Co-Director of College Counseling at the Marymount School of New York. Carter will discuss a New Yor Times article,  The Early Decision Option Is a Racket. Shut It Down”-Part 3 of 3



Mark and Lisa answer a QFL from a listener who wants advice because a lot of the student in her area are discouraged because they didn’t get in to the colleges they applied to in the early round.

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