Parenting With Psychology

Ever wished you had a supportive and helpful parenting coach whispering tips in your ear during those trickiest parenting moments? Look no further! Welcome to Parenting With Psychology, the ultimate podcast hosted by Dr. Lindsay Emmerson, a clinical psychologist and devoted mother of four. Dr. Lindsay's expertise lies in transforming core psychology principles into actionable parenting tips, designed to simplify your days and create a happier family life. Join us weekly to embrace intentional parenting and discover why countless busy and overwhelmed parents turn to Dr. Lindsay for guidance on raising children of all ages. Gain inspiration from Dr. Lindsay's 5 C's to amazing parenting framework and receive a new, actionable psychology-based parenting tool each week, providing invaluable guidance on your remarkable parenting journey. So, if you're craving bite-sized nuggets of parenting gold, mark your calendars for every Thursday and follow Parenting With Psychology for the support you need in nurturing your children and fostering strong family bonds.

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4 Communication Mistakes That Make Kids Ignore You (And How to Fix Them) 11/12/2025

What To Do When Your Child Hits, Kicks, or Throws Things 11/05/2025

Is F* Around and Find Out Parenting All It's Cracked Up to Be? 10/29/2025

We Lost Our Son on Halloween: Here’s What Saved Us 10/22/2025

The Self-Doubt That's Sabotaging Your Parenting (And How to Fix It) 10/06/2025

The Self-Doubt That's Sabotaging Your Parenting (And How to Fix It) ✨ Want to feel more in control with your parenting in just 1 day? Join my Confident Parenting Workshop on October 9th and learn 5 quick strategies you can use immediately: https://www.drlindsayemmerson.com/liveworkshop In this episode, we’ll explore pendulum parenting—what happens when you swing from a permissive childhood to overly strict parenting. You’ll learn how to set healthy boundaries without guilt, provide structure with warmth, and balance firmness with kindness. I’ll also show you how to stop second-guessing yourself and parent with confidence while breaking generational cycles. New to my podcast? I’m Dr. Lindsay Emmerson, a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I help parents find that sweet spot between support and structure that psychology research tells us is best for families now and best for our kids in the future. ------------------------------------------- Let's connect! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlindsayemmerson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drlindsayemmerson Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/@drlindsayemmerson ------------------------------------------- Disclaimer: The advice provided on my channel is different from therapy and does not substitute for professional psychological treatment or other types of professional advice or intervention. Never disregard the advice of a medical professional or postpone seeking professional medical advice related to anything you hear on this channel. If you or your child have concerns or need further parenting or personal support, please contact a physician or other qualified local health professional. #drlindsayemmerson #childdevelopment #parentingstrategies 00:00 – 2:26: Recognizing the Overcorrection 2:26 – 3:53: What Balanced Structure Looks Like 3:53 – 5:49: Finding Your Balance 5:49 – 7:17: Timeline and Results /episode/index/show/0a1600b3-d830-40c1-bf00-36bf1f2ae0d7/id/38469060

How to Stop Toddler Defiance Before It Becomes Teenage Rebellion 10/01/2025

How to Stop Toddler Defiance Before It Becomes Teenage Rebellion ✨ Want to feel more in control with your parenting in just 1 day? Join my Confident Parenting Workshop on October 9th and learn 5 quick strategies you can use immediately: https://www.drlindsayemmerson.com/liveworkshop In this video, we’ll cover the critical parenting shift every child between ages 1 and 5 needs—establishing yourself as their loving authority. You’ll learn how to set consistent boundaries, explain the “why” behind your rules, and focus on safety, respect, and responsibility. These strategies reduce power struggles, build cooperation, and set the stage for a lifelong respectful relationship. New to my podcast? I’m Dr. Lindsay Emmerson, a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I help parents find that sweet spot between support and structure that psychology research tells us is best for families now and best for our kids in the future. ------------------------------------------- Let's connect! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlindsayemmerson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drlindsayemmerson Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/@drlindsayemmerson ------------------------------------------- Disclaimer: The advice provided on my channel is different from therapy and does not substitute for professional psychological treatment or other types of professional advice or intervention. Never disregard the advice of a medical professional or postpone seeking professional medical advice related to anything you hear on this channel. If you or your child have concerns or need further parenting or personal support, please contact a physician or other qualified local health professional. #drlindsayemmerson #childdevelopment #parentingstrategies 00:00 – 00:46 Why Ages 1–5 Are a Critical Parenting Window 00:46 – 02:28 Principle #1: Establishing Yourself as the Loving Authority 02:28 – 03:32 How to Use Calm Leadership in Daily Battles 03:32 – 05:19 Principle #2: Explaining “Why” Behind Household Rules 05:19 – 06:48 Principle #3: Focusing on Safety, Respect, and Responsibility 06:48 – 08:41 Teaching Skills Instead of Punishing Behavior 08:41 – 09:15 Building Cooperation and Mutual Respect for the Long Term /episode/index/show/0a1600b3-d830-40c1-bf00-36bf1f2ae0d7/id/38405500

The Most Important Parenting Strategy for Babies 0-9 Months 09/24/2025

The Most Important Parenting Strategy for Babies 0-9 Months ✨ Want to become a confident parent in 12 weeks or less? Start here: In this episode, you’ll learn the powerful concept child development experts use to build lifelong resilience, strong relationships, and even future success—secure attachment. I’ll walk you through three simple principles: responsive caregiving, consistent connection, and reading your baby’s cues. These strategies ease stress, strengthen your bond, and set your child up for confidence and calm. Plus, I’ll share the 5-step framework for handling toddler tantrums and defiance without breaking that connection. New to my podcast? I’m Dr. Lindsay Emmerson, a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I help parents find that sweet spot between support and structure that psychology research tells us is best for families now and best for our kids in the future. ------------------------------------------- Let's connect! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlindsayemmerson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drlindsayemmerson Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/@drlindsayemmerson ------------------------------------------- Disclaimer: The advice provided on my channel is different from therapy and does not substitute for professional psychological treatment or other types of professional advice or intervention. Never disregard the advice of a medical professional or postpone seeking professional medical advice related to anything you hear on this channel. If you or your child have concerns or need further parenting or personal support, please contact a physician or other qualified local health professional. #drlindsayemmerson #childdevelopment #parentingstrategies 00:00 – 01:04 Why Secure Attachment Matters More Than Anything 01:04 – 03:02 Principle #1: Responsive Caregiving in Real Life 03:02 – 05:01 Principle #2: Physical Contact & Daily Interaction 05:01 – 06:16 How Consistency Builds Confidence and Calm 06:16 – 08:27 Principle #3: Understanding Your Baby’s Communication 08:27 – 09:38 When Attachment Bonds Form (and It’s Not Too Late) 09:38 – 10:33 Next Stage: How to Handle Tantrums & Defiance /episode/index/show/0a1600b3-d830-40c1-bf00-36bf1f2ae0d7/id/38322455

The Biggest Risk of Authoritarian Parenting 09/17/2025

The Biggest Risk of Authoritarian Parenting ✨ Become a balanced parent in 3 months or less - guaranteed!! In this episode, I'll expose the hidden dangers of authoritarian parenting that most parents never see coming, and the biggest risk isn't what you think. While you may be using strict "because I said so" methods to raise a respectful, successful child who can handle the real world, this approach often achieves the exact opposite of what you're hoping for. I'll break down five critical risks of authoritarian parenting, including what happens to these "perfect" kids when they become adults that will completely change how you think about discipline and control. The biggest risk isn't rebellion or acting out - it's something far more devastating and often permanent that destroys the most important thing in your family. New to my podcast? I’m Dr. Lindsay Emmerson, a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I help parents find that sweet spot between support and structure that psychology research tells us is best for families now and best for our kids in the future. ------------------------------------------- Let's connect! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlindsayemmerson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drlindsayemmerson Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/@drlindsayemmerson ------------------------------------------- Disclaimer: The advice provided on my channel is different from therapy and does not substitute for professional psychological treatment or other types of professional advice or intervention. Never disregard the advice of a medical professional or postpone seeking professional medical advice related to anything you hear on this channel. If you or your child have concerns or need further parenting or personal support, please contact a physician or other qualified local health professional. #drlindsayemmerson #childdevelopment #authoritarianparenting 00:00 – 00:53 Why Authoritarian Parenting Feels Right (But Isn’t) 00:53 – 02:25 What Authoritarian Parenting Really Looks Like 02:25 – 03:34 The First Risk: Emotional Suppression 03:34 – 05:35 The Second Risk: Poor Internal Decision-Making 05:35 – 06:47 The Third Risk: Struggles with Relationships 06:47 – 07:54 The Fourth Risk: Losing the Parent-Child Bond 07:54 – 09:13 The Better Way: Introducing Authoritative Parenting /episode/index/show/0a1600b3-d830-40c1-bf00-36bf1f2ae0d7/id/38235830

The Hidden Risk of Permissive Parenting 09/10/2025

The Hidden Risk of Permissive Parenting ✨ Become a balanced parent in 3 months or less - guaranteed!: In this episode, I'll expose the hidden dangers of permissive parenting that loving parents never see coming, and the biggest risk isn't what you think. While you may be using permissive methods to nurture your child's creativity and build their confidence, this approach often creates the exact opposite of what you're hoping for. I'll reveal five devastating risks of saying yes too often, including the heartbreaking things adult children say to their permissive parents that will shock you. The next time your child begs and pleads for you to change your mind about a boundary you've set, you'll think twice after watching this video and understanding the real long-term consequences of avoiding conflict and structure in your parenting. New to my podcast? I’m Dr. Lindsay Emmerson, a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I help parents find that sweet spot between support and structure that psychology research tells us is best for families now and best for our kids in the future. ------------------------------------------- Let's connect! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlindsayemmerson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drlindsayemmerson Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/@drlindsayemmerson ------------------------------------------- Disclaimer: The advice provided on my channel is different from therapy and does not substitute for professional psychological treatment or other types of professional advice or intervention. Never disregard the advice of a medical professional or postpone seeking professional medical advice related to anything you hear on this channel. If you or your child have concerns or need further parenting or personal support, please contact a physician or other qualified local health professional. #drlindsayemmerson #childdevelopment #permissiveparenting 0:00 – 2:52 What is Permissive Parenting? 2:53 – 4:04 Impaired Self-Regulation & Unhealthy Habits 4:05 – 6:14 Entitled & Selfish Behaviors 6:15 – 8:05 Unprepared for Real-World Expectations 8:06 – 10:04 The Biggest Risk: Resentment Toward Parents /episode/index/show/0a1600b3-d830-40c1-bf00-36bf1f2ae0d7/id/38191345

10 Subtle Signs Of ADHD Most Parents Miss 09/05/2025

10 Subtle Signs Of ADHD Most Parents Miss ✨ Want to become a confident parent in 12 weeks or less? Start here: In this episode, I'll walk you through 10 subtle early signs of ADHD that you can identify in children aged 6 months to 5 years - including a specific behavior during bedtime stories that most parents and even some pediatricians completely miss. As a clinical psychologist who works with families daily, I'll show you exactly how to check for each sign at home, because recognizing these early indicators can be transformative for your child's academic success, relationships, and your family's overall well-being. Keep in mind that potting one or two (or even more) of these signs does not necessarily mean your child has ADHD. This video serves to facilitate seeking guidance from your child’s pediatrician or another health professional if you have concerns about your child’s behavior. It is meant to be an at-home diagnostic tool. Be sure to check out fellow creator, Emma Hubbard’s channel. It’s truly fabulous. I am thankful to her for suggesting I make this video: https://www.youtube.com/@EmmaHubbard #drlindsayemmerson #toddlerdevelopment #ADHD New to my podcast? I’m Dr. Lindsay Emmerson, a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I help parents find that sweet spot between support and structure that psychology research tells us is best for families now and best for our kids in the future. ------------------------------------------- Let's connect! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlindsayemmerson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drlindsayemmerson Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/@drlindsayemmerson ------------------------------------------- Disclaimer: The advice provided on my channel is different from therapy and does not substitute for professional psychological treatment or other types of professional advice or intervention. Never disregard the advice of a medical professional or postpone seeking professional medical advice related to anything you hear on this channel. If you or your child have concerns or need further parenting or personal support, please contact a physician or other qualified local health professional. 00:00 – 02:03 The First Subtle Sign of ADHD 02:03 – 03:45 The Second Subtle Sign of ADHD 03:45 – 05:03 The Third Subtle Sign of ADHD 05:03 – 06:56 The Fourth Subtle Sign of ADHD 06:56 – 09:02 The Fifth Subtle Sign of ADHD 09:02 – 10:36 The Sixth Subtle Sign of ADHD 10:36 – 12:05 The Seventh Subtle Sign of ADHD 12:05 – 13:41 The Eighth Subtle Sign of ADHD 13:41 – 15:15 The Ninth Subtle Sign of ADHD 15:15 – 16:46 The Tenth Subtle Sign of ADHD /episode/index/show/0a1600b3-d830-40c1-bf00-36bf1f2ae0d7/id/38124770

The Hidden Reason Your Child Melts Down After School 08/27/2025

Parenting Triage Plan: 4 Steps to Resolve Any Stressful Parenting Situation 08/20/2025

Parenting Triage Plan: 4 Steps to Resolve Any Stressful Parenting Situation ✨ Become a balanced parent in 3 months or less - guaranteed!! https://drlindsayemmerson.com/blueprint In this episode, I'll share the four-step triage plan I teach parents in my coaching program to successfully handle any high-intensity parenting situation, regardless of your child's age. Whether you're dealing with a toddler who just hit another child, an elementary-aged kid who got in trouble at school, or a teenager who came home past curfew, this psychology-based approach will guide you through any stressful parenting moment with confidence. You'll learn the exact steps to take when emotions are running high so you can respond effectively instead of just reacting, creating better outcomes for both you and your child while strengthening your relationship in the process. New to my podcast? I’m Dr. Lindsay Emmerson, a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I help parents find that sweet spot between support and structure that psychology research tells us is best for families now and best for our kids in the future. ------------------------------------------- Let's connect! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlindsayemmerson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drlindsayemmerson Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/@drlindsayemmerson ------------------------------------------- Disclaimer: The advice provided on my channel is different from therapy and does not substitute for professional psychological treatment or other types of professional advice or intervention. Never disregard the advice of a medical professional or postpone seeking professional medical advice related to anything you hear on this channel. If you or your child have concerns or need further parenting or personal support, please contact a physician or other qualified local health professional. 0:00 – 0:27 The 4-step triage plan for handling stressful situations at any age 0:27 – 3:13 Step 1: Respond, Don’t React 3:13 – 6:07 Step 2: Communicate Unconditional Positive Regard 6:07 – 13:00 Step 3: Teaching & Skill Building 13:00 – 14:50 Step 4: Monitoring & Positive Reinforcement /episode/index/show/0a1600b3-d830-40c1-bf00-36bf1f2ae0d7/id/37889620

Your Back-to-School Routine May Have Surprising Academic Benefits, Psychologists Say 08/13/2025

Your Back-to-School Routine May Have Surprising Academic Benefits, Psychologists Say ✨ Want to become a confident parent in 12 weeks or less? Start here: https://drlindsayemmerson.com/workshop In this episode, I'll share the five psychology-backed steps I take every fall as a psychologist and mom of four to set my kids up for school success using my 5 C's parenting framework. You may be surprised to learn that your back-to-school approach directly impacts your child's long-term success, and small changes now can have a huge impact on their future. I'll reveal findings from a groundbreaking 50-year study showing that students who show up ready for school with responsibility and genuine interest in learning are significantly more likely to achieve higher education levels 11 years later and earn higher incomes 50 years later. This isn't about being the smartest kid in class - it's about developing the right mindset and behaviors from day one, and I'll show you exactly how to build these specific traits while explaining why most back-to-school preparations miss the mark. New to my channel? I’m Dr. Lindsay Emmerson, a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I help parents find that sweet spot between support and structure that psychology research tells us is best for families now and best for our kids in the future. ------------------------------------------- Let's connect! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlindsayemmerson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drlindsayemmerson Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/@drlindsayemmerson ------------------------------------------- Disclaimer: The advice provided on my channel is different from therapy and does not substitute for professional psychological treatment or other types of professional advice or intervention. Never disregard the advice of a medical professional or postpone seeking professional medical advice related to anything you hear on this channel. If you or your child have concerns or need further parenting or personal support, please contact a physician or other qualified local health professional. I help parents move from feeling exhausted and at wit's end, losing their cool, yelling, and wishing parenting was easier, to feeling calm and confident, effectively managing any challenging parenting situation, and actually enjoying time spent with their kids. The practical positive discipline tools I teach based on my 5 C's parenting framework can get you there. 0:00 – 0:35 Back-to-School Prep That Impacts Your Child’s Future 0:35 – 2:29 Step 1 Communication: Helping Kids Handle School Anxiety 2:29 – 4:18 Step 2 Consistency: Practice Routines Before Day One 4:18 – 6:01 Step 3 Choices & Checkpoints: Building Independence with Support 6:01 – 7:45 Step 4 Positive Consequences: Reinforcing the Right Behaviors 7:45 – 9:19 Step 5 Modeling: Showing Kids That Learning Matters 9:19 – 9:35 Final Motivation: Preparing for Lifelong Success /episode/index/show/0a1600b3-d830-40c1-bf00-36bf1f2ae0d7/id/37795470

How Consistency Creates (or Destroys) Respect 08/04/2025

How Consistency Creates (or Destroys) Respect ✨ Want to become a confident parent in 12 weeks or less? Start here: https://drlindsayemmerson.com/workshop 💧Click here to support #TeamWater: https://tilt.fyi/teYFIVvqaG In this episode, I'll reveal the 3 common consistency mistakes that sabotage your child's respect for you without you even realizing it. If you're tired of your child ignoring your requests and boundaries, or if you find yourself resorting to yelling and punishments to feel respected, these mistakes might be the culprit. You'll discover exactly what these consistency errors are and how to fix them so your child starts learning to respect your boundaries naturally. I'll show you how being consistent is a key component of balanced parenting that creates both strong bonds and better behavior, plus give you the specific strategies that quickly teach your child which behaviors are acceptable - all without the power struggles that exhaust most parents who've never been trained on when and how to focus on consistency. New to my channel? I’m Dr. Lindsay Emmerson, a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I help parents find that sweet spot between support and structure that psychology research tells us is best for families now and best for our kids in the future. ------------------------------------------- Let's connect! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlindsayemmerson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drlindsayemmerson Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/@drlindsayemmerson ------------------------------------------- Disclaimer: The advice provided on my channel is different from therapy and does not substitute for professional psychological treatment or other types of professional advice or intervention. Never disregard the advice of a medical professional or postpone seeking professional medical advice related to anything you hear on this channel. If you or your child have concerns or need further parenting or personal support, please contact a physician or other qualified local health professional. 0:00 – 1:10 Are You Accidentally Losing Your Child’s Respect? 1:10 – 2:11 Mistake #1: Inconsistent Emotional Responses 2:11 – 3:36 Mistake #2: Misleading Time Promises 3:36 – 6:04 Mistake #3: Not Following Through on Consequences 6:04 – 6:51 Fix It with the “32 Thank You” Strategy /episode/index/show/0a1600b3-d830-40c1-bf00-36bf1f2ae0d7/id/37707680

Stop Putting Up With Bad Manners! 3 Hacks For Raising Respectful Kids 07/31/2025

Stop Putting Up With Bad Manners! 3 Hacks For Raising Respectful Kids ✨ Feel like an amazing parent in 3 months or less - guaranteed! Start here: You’ve reminded your child a hundred times to say “please” or “thank you,” and still… nothing. If you’re tired of the constant nagging and wish your kids would use good manners on their own, this episode is for you. I’m sharing 3 psychology-backed parenting hacks that actually work even for strong-willed kids or those with attention challenges. You’ll learn how to teach respectful behavior without yelling, using powerful techniques like reinforcement vs. punishment, shaping behavior, and strategic withholding. These tools will help you create a home where kindness, patience, and politeness become second nature for toddlers, school-aged kids, and even teens. New to my channel? I’m Dr. Lindsay Emmerson, a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I help parents find that sweet spot between support and structure that psychology research tells us is best for families now and best for our kids in the future. ------------------------------------------- Let's connect! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlindsayemmerson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drlindsayemmerson Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/@drlindsayemmerson ------------------------------------------- Disclaimer: The advice provided on my channel is different from therapy and does not substitute for professional psychological treatment or other types of professional advice or intervention. Never disregard the advice of a medical professional or postpone seeking professional medical advice related to anything you hear on this channel. If you or your child have concerns or need further parenting or personal support, please contact a physician or other qualified local health professional. 00:00 – 00:36 Why Kids Still Struggle with Manners 00:36 – 01:42 Why Traditional Methods Often Fail 01:42 – 03:15 Hack #1: Shaping Behavior with Baby Steps 03:15 – 04:34 Hack #2: Strategic Withholding to Reinforce Politeness 04:34 – 05:35 Hack #3: The Timing Secret for Teaching Manners 05:35 – 06:05 How These Strategies Transform Family Dynamics 06:05 – 07:11 Final Tips, Coaching Offer, and Disclaimer /episode/index/show/0a1600b3-d830-40c1-bf00-36bf1f2ae0d7/id/37618380

Teach Them to Listen, Before It’s Too Late 07/28/2025

Teach Them to Listen, Before It’s Too Late ✨ Unlock your parenting potential! Start here: https://drlindsayemmerson.com/workshop How often does your child listen the first time you ask? If your daily requests are being ignored and you find yourself repeating directions or losing your temper, this episode is for you. I’ll walk you through the “Acknowledge & Respond” method, an evidence-based strategy that helps parents raise kids who listen the first time. Backed by psychology research and real-life results, this approach taps into the power of attention and verbal commitment to create lasting change in your parent-child dynamic. Plus, I’ll share three key tips that make this strategy work in any situation whether you’re managing screen time, chore resistance, or morning chaos. To download your free resource on How to Hold a Successful Family Meeting, head to https://www.drlindsayemmerson.com/meeting New to my channel? If you want to take the stress, frustration, and overwhelm out of parenting by learning how to promote better behavior in your child, you're in the right place. I'm a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I share the psychology-based strategies that I use to parent with intention and confidence. I help parents move from feeling exhausted and at wit's end, losing their cool, yelling, and wishing parenting was easier, to feeling calm and confident, effectively managing any challenging parenting situation, and actually enjoying time spent with their kids. The practical positive discipline tools I teach based on my 5 C's parenting framework can get you there. ------------------------------------------- Let's connect! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlindsayemmerson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drlindsayemmerson Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/@drlindsayemmerson ------------------------------------------- Disclaimer: The advice provided on my channel is different from therapy and does not substitute for professional psychological treatment or other types of professional advice or intervention. Never disregard the advice of a medical professional or postpone seeking professional medical advice related to anything you hear on this channel. If you or your child have concerns or need further parenting or personal support, please contact a physician or other qualified local health professional. 00:00 – 00:20 Why Your Child Doesn’t Listen the First Time 00:20 – 00:43 The Two Words That Instantly Improve Listening 00:43 – 01:45 How to Use “Acknowledge and Respond” 01:45 – 03:21 The Psychology Behind Why It Works 03:21 – 04:03 Why This Strategy Is Effective for All Ages 04:03 – 04:56 3 Expert Tips to Make It Stick 04:56 – 05:25 What to Watch Next: Fixing Rude Requests /episode/index/show/0a1600b3-d830-40c1-bf00-36bf1f2ae0d7/id/37574660

Stop Choosing Between Connection and Discipline (You Can Have Both) 07/24/2025

Stop Choosing Between Connection and Discipline (You Can Have Both) ✨ Master balanced parenting in 12 weeks or less - guaranteed! https://www.drlindsayemmerson.com/blueprint In this episode, I'll show you how to stop feeling like you have to choose between being your child's friend or being the "mean parent" because you CAN have strong emotional bonds AND well-behaved kids. I'll share the psychology-backed approach that helps thousands of parents create the perfect balance between connection and discipline, including my complete 5 C's parenting framework that works for children from birth to 18 years old. You'll discover why most parents get the connection vs. discipline balance wrong, learn the research-proven parenting style that raises successful adults, hear real parent success stories and transformations, and gain the confidence to handle any parenting challenge while building lasting emotional bonds with your children and setting loving boundaries that actually work so you can raise happy kids who grow into thriving adults. New to my channel? If you want to take the stress, frustration, and overwhelm out of parenting by learning how to promote better behavior in your child, you're in the right place. I'm a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I share the psychology-based strategies that I use to parent with intention and confidence. I help parents move from feeling exhausted and at wit's end, losing their cool, yelling, and wishing parenting was easier, to feeling calm and confident, effectively managing any challenging parenting situation, and actually enjoying time spent with their kids. The practical positive discipline tools I teach based on my 5 C's parenting framework can get you there. ------------------------------------------- Let's connect! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlindsayemmerson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drlindsayemmerson Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/@drlindsayemmerson ------------------------------------------- Disclaimer: The advice provided on my channel is different from therapy and does not substitute for professional psychological treatment or other types of professional advice or intervention. Never disregard the advice of a medical professional or postpone seeking professional medical advice related to anything you hear on this channel. If you or your child have concerns or need further parenting or personal support, please contact a physician or other qualified local health professional. 00:29 – 01:14 Why Balanced Parenting Matters 01:14 – 01:51 What Is “Amazing Parenting” Really? 01:51 – 08:21 The 5 C’s Framework Explained 08:21 – 09:10 Applying All 5 C’s to Real-Life Parenting 09:10 – 11:28 The Psychology Behind the Blueprint 11:28 – 12:29 Real Parent Success Stories + Guarantee 12:29 – 13:38 Final Invite: Your Path to Amazing Parenting /episode/index/show/0a1600b3-d830-40c1-bf00-36bf1f2ae0d7/id/37544230

Family Meetings Not Working? Here's Why... 07/17/2025

Family Meetings Not Working? Here's Why... ✨ Confidently handle any parenting situation! Start here: https://drlindsayemmerson.com/workshop Family meetings are a powerful parenting tool, but they often fall flat especially when they turn into lectures, drag on too long, or leave kids feeling unheard. In this episode, I’ll walk you through the 3 most common mistakes parents make during family meetings and exactly how to fix them. You’ll learn how to keep meetings short and focused, involve your kids in the decision-making process, and shift the tone so that your family meetings feel positive and productive. Whether you're tackling screen time battles, sibling conflict, or daily routines, this approach will help you build trust, promote cooperation, and actually get results. To download your free resource on How to Hold a Successful Family Meeting, head to https://www.drlindsayemmerson.com/meeting New to my channel? If you want to take the stress, frustration, and overwhelm out of parenting by learning how to promote better behavior in your child, you're in the right place. I'm a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I share the psychology-based strategies that I use to parent with intention and confidence. I help parents move from feeling exhausted and at wit's end, losing their cool, yelling, and wishing parenting was easier, to feeling calm and confident, effectively managing any challenging parenting situation, and actually enjoying time spent with their kids. The practical positive discipline tools I teach based on my 5 C's parenting framework can get you there. ------------------------------------------- Let's connect! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlindsayemmerson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drlindsayemmerson Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/@drlindsayemmerson ------------------------------------------- Disclaimer: The advice provided on my channel is different from therapy and does not substitute for professional psychological treatment or other types of professional advice or intervention. Never disregard the advice of a medical professional or postpone seeking professional medical advice related to anything you hear on this channel. If you or your child have concerns or need further parenting or personal support, please contact a physician or other qualified local health professional. /episode/index/show/0a1600b3-d830-40c1-bf00-36bf1f2ae0d7/id/37424035

Do You Use These Common Phrases That Crush Your Child's Confidence? 07/07/2025

Do You Use These Common Phrases That Crush Your Child's Confidence? ✨ Become an amazing parent! Start here: https://drlindsayemmerson.com/workshop In this episode, I’ll share the most powerful confidence-building parenting phrases you can start using today to boost your child’s self-esteem and emotional resilience. Many well-meaning parents accidentally use phrases that create shame, foster comparison, or threaten abandonment—without realizing the long-term impact on their child’s confidence. I’ll guide you through simple swaps—what to say instead—to support healthy child development, strengthen your connection, and promote positive behavior without yelling or punishments. This video is perfect for parents looking to raise respectful, emotionally secure kids through positive discipline techniques and mindful communication. To download the free PDF “Say This, Not That: Confidence-Building Phrases,” head to https://www.drlindsayemmerson.com/saythis New to my channel? If you want to take the stress, frustration, and overwhelm out of parenting by learning how to promote better behavior in your child, you're in the right place. I'm a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I share the psychology-based strategies that I use to parent with intention and confidence. I help parents move from feeling exhausted and at wit's end, losing their cool, yelling, and wishing parenting was easier, to feeling calm and confident, effectively managing any challenging parenting situation, and actually enjoying time spent with their kids. The practical positive discipline tools I teach based on my 5 C's parenting framework can get you there. ------------------------------------------- Let's connect! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlindsayemmerson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drlindsayemmerson Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/@drlindsayemmerson ------------------------------------------- Disclaimer: The advice provided on my channel is different from therapy and does not substitute for professional psychological treatment or other types of professional advice or intervention. Never disregard the advice of a medical professional or postpone seeking professional medical advice related to anything you hear on this channel. If you or your child have concerns or need further parenting or personal support, please contact a physician or other qualified local health professional. /episode/index/show/0a1600b3-d830-40c1-bf00-36bf1f2ae0d7/id/37410465

Get Kids to Listen Without Raising Your Voice 07/03/2025

Get Kids to Listen Without Raising Your Voice Learn the 5-step system that will help you thrive as a parent: Do you struggle with getting your kids to listen to you without yelling or losing your temper? In this video, we'll share effective strategies to help you earn respect from your kids without having to raise your voice. I will teach you my #1 strategy for raising kids who actually listen to your requests and respect your boundaries - without yelling, threatening, or harsh punishments. You can start using it today and see results by the end of the week. Learn how to set boundaries, communicate effectively, and build a strong relationship with your children. This is positive discipline at its finest. Get ready to transform your parenting style and create a more peaceful home environment. Discover the secrets to getting respect from your kids without yelling and start seeing positive changes in your family today! To download your free 3, 2, Thank You! flowchart, head to New to my podcast? If you want to take the stress, frustration, and overwhelm out of parenting by learning how to promote better behavior in your child, you're in the right place. I'm a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I share the psychology-based strategies that I use to parent with intention and confidence. I help parents move from feeling exhausted and at wit's end, losing their cool, yelling, and wishing parenting was easier, to feeling calm and confident, effectively managing any challenging parenting situation, and actually enjoying time spent with their kids. The practical positive discipline tools I teach based on my 5 C's parenting framework can get you there. ------------------------------------------- Let's connect! Instagram: TikTok: Facebook: ------------------------------------------- Disclaimer: The advice provided on my channel is different from therapy and does not substitute for professional psychological treatment or other types of professional advice or intervention. Never disregard the advice of a medical professional or postpone seeking professional medical advice related to anything you hear on this channel. If you or your child have concerns or need further parenting or personal support, please contact a physician or other qualified local health professional. /episode/index/show/0a1600b3-d830-40c1-bf00-36bf1f2ae0d7/id/37238565

Are They Headed On The Right Trajectory? 06/30/2025

Are They Headed On The Right Trajectory? Transform your parenting experience in 3 months or less - guaranteed! Start here: In this episdoe, I'll share my 3-part parenting philosophy that helps you find the sweet spot between overparenting and underparenting. You'll discover how to avoid helicopter parenting while ensuring you're not neglecting your child's development needs. Learn the key strategies I teach parents in my coaching program to raise children who feel loved and supported but are also prepared for independence by age 18. This balanced approach will help you guide your day-to-day parenting decisions and set your child on the right trajectory for healthy development and future success. New to my podcast? If you want to take the stress, frustration, and overwhelm out of parenting by learning how to promote better behavior in your child, you're in the right place. I'm a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I share the psychology-based strategies that I use to parent with intention and confidence. I help parents move from feeling exhausted and at wit's end, losing their cool, yelling, and wishing parenting was easier, to feeling calm and confident, effectively managing any challenging parenting situation, and actually enjoying time spent with their kids. The practical positive discipline tools I teach based on my 5 C's parenting framework can get you there. ------------------------------------------- Let's connect! Instagram: TikTok: Facebook: ------------------------------------------- Disclaimer: The advice provided on my channel is different from therapy and does not substitute for professional psychological treatment or other types of professional advice or intervention. Never disregard the advice of a medical professional or postpone seeking professional medical advice related to anything you hear on this channel. If you or your child have concerns or need further parenting or personal support, please contact a physician or other qualified local health professional. /episode/index/show/0a1600b3-d830-40c1-bf00-36bf1f2ae0d7/id/37176315

STOP SCREAMING: Tips for Quieting Kids 06/26/2025

STOP SCREAMING: Tips for Quieting Kids Feel like an amazing parent in 3 months or less - guaranteed! Start here: In this episode, I'll share a simple action plan to help your loud child learn appropriate volume control. If your kid consistently speaks too loudly or escalates to near-yelling when excited or angry, you're not alone - this is more common than you think. I understand the embarrassment, social concerns, and daily headaches that come with having a naturally loud child. You'll discover practical steps for meaningful, lasting change that teaches your child when and how to use their "inside voice" effectively. Perfect for parents who want to address volume issues without dampening their child's natural enthusiasm and personality. To download the free resource I mentioned in the video on How to Hold a Successful Family Meeting, head to New to my podcast? If you want to take the stress, frustration, and overwhelm out of parenting by learning how to promote better behavior in your child, you're in the right place. I'm a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I share the psychology-based strategies that I use to parent with intention and confidence. I help parents move from feeling exhausted and at wit's end, losing their cool, yelling, and wishing parenting was easier, to feeling calm and confident, effectively managing any challenging parenting situation, and actually enjoying time spent with their kids. The practical positive discipline tools I teach based on my 5 C's parenting framework can get you there. ------------------------------------------- Let's connect! Instagram: TikTok: Facebook: ------------------------------------------- Disclaimer: The advice provided on my channel is different from therapy and does not substitute for professional psychological treatment or other types of professional advice or intervention. Never disregard the advice of a medical professional or postpone seeking professional medical advice related to anything you hear on this channel. If you or your child have concerns or need further parenting or personal support, please contact a physician or other qualified local health professional. /episode/index/show/0a1600b3-d830-40c1-bf00-36bf1f2ae0d7/id/37176155

POTTY TRAINING for stubborn kids 06/23/2025

POTTY TRAINING for stubborn kids Make parenting easier and more enjoyable! Start here: In this episode, I'll guide you through potty training even the most stubborn, strong-willed children using my proven 5 C's parenting framework. As a psychologist and mom of four who has successfully potty-trained my own kids and helped countless families through my coaching program, I understand the unique challenges that come with determined toddlers. You'll discover practical strategies to make the process smoother and less stressful, while working with your child's strong personality rather than against it. Perfect for parents facing potty training resistance who want a structured, psychology-based approach that actually works. New to my podcast? If you want to take the stress, frustration, and overwhelm out of parenting by learning how to promote better behavior in your child, you're in the right place. I'm a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I share the psychology-based strategies that I use to parent with intention and confidence. I help parents move from feeling exhausted and at wit's end, losing their cool, yelling, and wishing parenting was easier, to feeling calm and confident, effectively managing any challenging parenting situation, and actually enjoying time spent with their kids. The practical positive discipline tools I teach based on my 5 C's parenting framework can get you there. ------------------------------------------- Let's connect! Instagram: TikTok: Facebook: ------------------------------------------- Disclaimer: The advice provided on my channel is different from therapy and does not substitute for professional psychological treatment or other types of professional advice or intervention. Never disregard the advice of a medical professional or postpone seeking professional medical advice related to anything you hear on this channel. If you or your child have concerns or need further parenting or personal support, please contact a physician or other qualified local health professional. /episode/index/show/0a1600b3-d830-40c1-bf00-36bf1f2ae0d7/id/37176115

How to Respond To Child Swearing 06/19/2025

How to Respond To Child Swearing Become an amazing parent! Start here: In this episode, I'll show you exactly how to respond when your child starts swearing using my proven 5 C's parenting framework. If you've been shocked by bad words coming from your sweet child's mouth, you're not alone - nearly every parent faces this challenge. You'll learn practical strategies to handle swearing with confidence, set appropriate boundaries, and guide your child toward better language choices without damaging your relationship. Perfect for parents who want to address cursing effectively while maintaining connection with their kids. Here’s the link to that video I mentioned called Empty Threats Destroy Respect: Parent Differently: New to my podcast? If you want to take the stress, frustration, and overwhelm out of parenting by learning how to promote better behavior in your child, you're in the right place. I'm a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I share the psychology-based strategies that I use to parent with intention and confidence. I help parents move from feeling exhausted and at wit's end, losing their cool, yelling, and wishing parenting was easier, to feeling calm and confident, effectively managing any challenging parenting situation, and actually enjoying time spent with their kids. The practical positive discipline tools I teach based on my 5 C's parenting framework can get you there. ------------------------------------------- Let's connect! Instagram: TikTok: Facebook: ------------------------------------------- Disclaimer: The advice provided on my channel is different from therapy and does not substitute for professional psychological treatment or other types of professional advice or intervention. Never disregard the advice of a medical professional or postpone seeking professional medical advice related to anything you hear on this channel. If you or your child have concerns or need further parenting or personal support, please contact a physician or other qualified local health professional. /episode/index/show/0a1600b3-d830-40c1-bf00-36bf1f2ae0d7/id/37176105

Your Child Is Being Bullied: 3 Mistakes That Make It Worse (And What Actually Works) 06/13/2025

Your Child Is Being Bullied: 3 Mistakes That Make It Worse (And What Actually Works) Make parenting easier and more enjoyable! Start here: https://drlindsayemmerson.com/workshop In this episdoe, I'll share the essential do's and don'ts of helping your child navigate school bullying with confidence. As a clinical psychologist and mom of four, I understand the worry when your child comes home complaining about a bully - you want to help without overstepping boundaries. You'll discover an important research finding that will ease your concerns about permanent childhood trauma, plus practical strategies to support your child effectively. Perfect for parents who want to empower their kids to handle bullying situations while knowing when and how to intervene appropriately. New to my podcast? If you want to take the stress, frustration, and overwhelm out of parenting by learning how to promote better behavior in your child, you're in the right place. I'm a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I share the psychology-based strategies that I use to parent with intention and confidence. I help parents move from feeling exhausted and at wit's end, losing their cool, yelling, and wishing parenting was easier, to feeling calm and confident, effectively managing any challenging parenting situation, and actually enjoying time spent with their kids. The practical positive discipline tools I teach based on my 5 C's parenting framework can get you there. ------------------------------------------- Let's connect! Instagram: TikTok: Facebook: ------------------------------------------- Disclaimer: The advice provided on my channel is different from therapy and does not substitute for professional psychological treatment or other types of professional advice or intervention. Never disregard the advice of a medical professional or postpone seeking professional medical advice related to anything you hear on this channel. If you or your child have concerns or need further parenting or personal support, please contact a physician or other qualified local health professional. /episode/index/show/0a1600b3-d830-40c1-bf00-36bf1f2ae0d7/id/37176060

How to Respond When Your Child Says, "I Hate You!" 06/09/2025

How to Respond When Your Child Says, "I Hate You!" Confidently handle any parenting situation! Start here: In this episode, I'll share five proven strategies for responding when your child says "I hate you" - words that leave many parents hurt and unsure how to react. As a parent, hearing this doesn't mean you've failed or that your relationship is ruined. You'll learn exactly how to handle these difficult moments in ways that actually strengthen your bond with your child. These practical techniques will help you respond effectively while turning a painful situation into an opportunity for connection. New to my podcast? If you want to take the stress, frustration, and overwhelm out of parenting by learning how to promote better behavior in your child, you're in the right place. I'm a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I share the psychology-based strategies that I use to parent with intention and confidence. I help parents move from feeling exhausted and at wit's end, losing their cool, yelling, and wishing parenting was easier, to feeling calm and confident, effectively managing any challenging parenting situation, and actually enjoying time spent with their kids. The practical positive discipline tools I teach based on my 5 C's parenting framework can get you there. ------------------------------------------- Let's connect! Instagram: TikTok: Facebook: ------------------------------------------- Disclaimer: The advice provided on my channel is different from therapy and does not substitute for professional psychological treatment or other types of professional advice or intervention. Never disregard the advice of a medical professional or postpone seeking professional medical advice related to anything you hear on this channel. If you or your child have concerns or need further parenting or personal support, please contact a physician or other qualified local health professional. /episode/index/show/0a1600b3-d830-40c1-bf00-36bf1f2ae0d7/id/36915440

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Raise Emotionally Intelligent Kids: 6 Essential Skills 06/02/2025

Raise Emotionally Intelligent Kids: 6 Essential Skills Confidently handle any parenting situation! Start here: In this episode, I'll explain the buzzword "emotional intelligence" and show you exactly how to teach it to your kids. As a psychologist and mom of 4, I've made EQ a priority in my parenting because it's critical for raising healthy, successful adults. You'll learn what emotional intelligence really means and discover practical steps to help your child trade tantrums for smooth emotional management. Perfect for parents who want their children to handle life's ups and downs effectively and communicate their feelings with confidence. New to my podcast? If you want to take the stress, frustration, and overwhelm out of parenting by learning how to promote better behavior in your child, you're in the right place. I'm a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I share the psychology-based strategies that I use to parent with intention and confidence. I help parents move from feeling exhausted and at wit's end, losing their cool, yelling, and wishing parenting was easier, to feeling calm and confident, effectively managing any challenging parenting situation, and actually enjoying time spent with their kids. The practical positive discipline tools I teach based on my 5 C's parenting framework can get you there. ------------------------------------------- Let's connect! Instagram: TikTok: Facebook: ------------------------------------------- Disclaimer: The advice provided on my channel is different from therapy and does not substitute for professional psychological treatment or other types of professional advice or intervention. Never disregard the advice of a medical professional or postpone seeking professional medical advice related to anything you hear on this channel. If you or your child have concerns or need further parenting or personal support, please contact a physician or other qualified local health professional. /episode/index/show/0a1600b3-d830-40c1-bf00-36bf1f2ae0d7/id/36814640

How to Teach Your Child to Manage Strong Emotions 05/30/2025

How to Teach Your Child to Manage Strong Emotions Become an amazing parent! Start here: https://drlindsayemmerson.com/workshop In this video, I'll teach you 3 proven coping skills that help children manage overwhelming emotions and handle daily challenges more effectively. As a psychologist, I've seen how these strategies transform kids who struggle with everything from minor disappointments to school conflicts. You'll learn practical techniques to help your child ride the wave of big emotions instead of being consumed by them. When kids develop these essential skills, they become more resilient and parenting becomes easier - a true win-win. The third technique is something you can implement today for immediate results. Here’s the link to that video I mentioned on finding the right bedtime for your child: New to my podcast? If you want to take the stress, frustration, and overwhelm out of parenting by learning how to promote better behavior in your child, you're in the right place. I'm a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I share the psychology-based strategies that I use to parent with intention and confidence. I help parents move from feeling exhausted and at wit's end, losing their cool, yelling, and wishing parenting was easier, to feeling calm and confident, effectively managing any challenging parenting situation, and actually enjoying time spent with their kids. The practical positive discipline tools I teach based on my 5 C's parenting framework can get you there. ------------------------------------------- Let's connect! Instagram: TikTok: Facebook: ------------------------------------------- Disclaimer: The advice provided on my channel is different from therapy and does not substitute for professional psychological treatment or other types of professional advice or intervention. Never disregard the advice of a medical professional or postpone seeking professional medical advice related to anything you hear on this channel. If you or your child have concerns or need further parenting or personal support, please contact a physician or other qualified local health professional. /episode/index/show/0a1600b3-d830-40c1-bf00-36bf1f2ae0d7/id/36767145

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