Dear Primas
Growing up as actual primas and now GOING through life’s various milestones and challenges! Nothing is off limits! Think of us as your primas, having a catch up sesh mixed with a little therapia. We share the highs and lows, and everything in between, all while of course not taking ourselves too seriously in this thing we call life! You are basically now a prima.. Sooo let the CHISME / therapia.. START
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Dear Soft Launching The New Year
01/25/2026
Dear Soft Launching The New Year
Primas… if January has you easing in instead of going all in, this one’s for you. 💅✨ In this episode, Kristi and Clari are reconnecting after the New Year and pressing pause on the pressure. We’re talking motherhood, growth, and what it really looks like to balance family life when you’re doing it from different states and different seasons of life. This conversation feels like a journal entry read out loud. We reflect on why Dear Primas has always been about honesty over perfection, why community matters more than ever for moms, and why it’s okay to not have everything figured out right now. January isn’t about reinventing yourself, it’s a soft launch into the year, and we’re learning to take it one day at a time. If you don’t have a prima to text, we’re your Primas. 💌 So grab your cafecito ☕, settle in, and come chat with us because you’re not behind, you’re right where you’re supposed to be! Follow us: @dearprimas_ on Instagram @DearPrimas on TikTok Currently Reading: Kristi: The Girl Who Was Taken Currently watching: Clari: Kristi: Steal Chapters 00:00 Welcome Back and New Year Greetings 02:32 What is Dear Prima? 04:44 The Evolution of the Podcast 08:38 Building a Community of Moms 10:15 New Year Reflections and Family Goals 12:44 The Pressure of New Year's Resolutions 18:40 Finding Balance and Being Active 21:02 Miami's Vibrant Sports Culture 24:50 Navigating Parenting and Sports 29:32 The Realities of Kids in Sports 38:43 Engaging with Our Community
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Dear 50 Episodes of Growth & Grace
01/18/2026
Dear 50 Episodes of Growth & Grace
Primas… we can’t believe we’re here. 🥹 In this milestone 50th episode, Clari and Kristi are pressing pause to reflect on how far Dear Primas has come and how much we’ve grown right alongside you. From the early days before hitting record with nerves and big dreams, to navigating motherhood, work, and the constant evolution of who we’re becoming, this episode is a heartfelt look at the journey so far. We talk honestly about balancing motherhood and professional life, the decisions we’re making for our kids’ education, and the shift in perspective that comes with realizing our children are our biggest investments. We open up about the pressures around motherhood, the conversations around staying home, showing up, and finding where we fit in this ever-changing puzzle of life. This episode is a reminder that we’re all learning as we go, that growth doesn’t have to be loud to be meaningful, and grace is something we deserve to give ourselves along the way. Most of all, it’s a thank you. For listening, for growing with us, and for being part of this community. We wouldn’t be here without you, primas. 💕 Follow us: @dearprimas_ on Instagram @DearPrimas on TikTok Currently Reading: Kristi: The Ravenhood (The Finish Line #3) Currently Watching: Clari & Kristi: Tell me Lies Chapters 00:00 Celebrating Episode 50: A Journey Together 00:58 Reflecting on Motherhood: Early Days and Growth 04:22 Navigating Career Changes and Family Dynamics 08:42 Prioritizing Family: The Shift in Focus 12:33 Exploring Education: Homeschooling vs Traditional Schooling 15:06 Quality Time with Kids 16:27 Reevaluating Education Choices 18:00 The Stigma of Stay-at-Home Parenting 18:57 Balancing Work and Family Life 22:06 The Learning Curve of Homeschooling 23:02 Evolving Perspectives on Parenting 25:58 Building a Supportive Community 27:26 Embracing Change and Growth
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Dear Christmas Card Pressure
12/19/2025
Dear Christmas Card Pressure
Primas… why do Christmas cards feel like a full-time job? 😅🎄 In this episode, Kristi and Clari talk through the holiday pressure we all feel, from coordinating family photo sessions and the outfits, to racing the weather and hoping at least one photo turns out frame-worthy. We’re sharing the joys, the stress, and the funny moments that come with trying to “capture the memories” while real life is very much happening. We also chat about why candid photos often end up being the ones we treasure most, our favorite holiday movies, and why the season is about connection not perfection. Because years from now, it won’t be the perfect pose we remember… it’ll be the moment. So if you’re debating whether it’s too late to send cards (again), grab your cafecito ☕, take a deep breath, and come laugh with us. 💌 Follow us: @dearprimas_ on Instagram @DearPrimas on TikTok Currently Reading: Kristi: Good Spirits Chapters 00:00 Caffeine and Catching Up 01:53 Christmas Card Preparations 05:52 Family Photo Shoot Experiences 11:37 Photographer Insights and Tips 16:01 Capturing Family Memories 18:23 The Importance of Family Photos 21:53 Holiday Movies and Family Traditions
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Dear Embracing Change
12/12/2025
Dear Embracing Change
Primas… this one feels like a long overdue catch-up. 💌 Clari and Kristi are reconnecting after a major life shift! Clari’s move from Houston to Miami 🌴. We’re talking about the emotions behind packing up a life, the road trip, finding a new home, and what it really feels like to start over in a new place with your family. We also open up about how this holiday season will look different, how traditions evolve, and why change can feel exciting and bittersweet all at once. This episode is a reminder that even when life looks different than we imagined, it can still be really, really good. So grab your cafecito (or your choice of caffeine), settle in, and join us as we talk about growth, goodbyes, and embracing the next chapter, together. 💕
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Dear Fall Frenzie
11/22/2025
Dear Fall Frenzie
Primas, it’s officially that time of year the pumpkin spice (or caffeine of your choice) is flowing, the field trips are field tripping, our kids can't be the only ones that changed Halloween costume ideas 12 times. 🎃😅 In this episode, Kristi and Clari are leaning all the way into the fall feels catching up on parenting moments, Halloween prep, and an unforgettable farm birthday party. We’re talking about the cozy, the cringey, and the real parts of the season. 🍂 So grab your cafecito (or your pumpkin cold brew ☕) and tune in because this one feels like a Friday night chat with your primas about fall, family, and finding the real in a filtered world. 💅💌
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Dear Everything Must Go
10/22/2025
Dear Everything Must Go
Primas, welcome to Everything Must Go, AKA The Garage Sale Era, where everything’s negotiable… except our emotions. 🥹💅 This one’s for the real Primas who’ve hosted (or survived) a garage sale or two in their day. Who remembers the sticker tags, the small talk with strangers, and the “wait, are we really selling that?!” moments? Clari has started moving prep, we’re on a rollercoaster of letting go, of stuff, of spaces, and of a few memories too. Between buyers, boxes, and big Florida dreams ☀️, we’re selling things and catching feelings because saying goodbye to the familiar isn’t as easy as a $5 deal. So, grab a sweet treat, tune in for some laughs and a little reminder that every season (and every sale) brings a new chapter worth celebrating. 💌 Let’s get into it, Primas! Listen via anywhere you listen to your podcasts! Follow us: @dearprimas_ on Instagram @DearPrimas on TikTok Currently Reading: Kristi: Watch it Burn
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Dear Primas Group Chat
10/16/2025
Dear Primas Group Chat
Primas, this one feels like dropping a voice note in the group chat. 💅 Life’s Better When You Have a Primas Group Chat! We are catching up on all the things from fried food at the state fair to our current TV obsessions (yes, we have thoughts and questions on Dancing With The Stars 🪩) Are the Primas watching too? Of course, we also talk about the books that have us up past bedtime. 📚 If your group chat covers everything from what you’re watching 👀 to what’s for dinner 🍝… this week’s episode is basically YOU. 💕 Whether you’re in the carpool line, on your walk, or winding down at night this one will lift your mood, make you laugh, and remind you that life’s better when you have a group chat. 💅 Watch or listen via anywhere you listen to your podcasts! Follow us: @dearprimas_ on Instagram @DearPrimas on TikTok Currently Watching: Clari: Reasonable Doubt Kristi: DOC Currently Reading: Kristi: Stillhouse Lake Series and listening 🎧
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Dear Mrs. Worldwide 🌎
10/03/2025
Dear Mrs. Worldwide 🌎
Okay primas… moving isn’t just about packing boxes, it’s about packing emotions too 💌. In this episode, Kristi and Clari talk about the ups and downs of parenting through big changes navigating school dynamics, family reactions to Clari’s upcoming move to South Florida, and the bittersweet feeling of leaving behind familiar comfort zones. We get real about: ✨ Helping kids adjust to new dynamics ✨ The emotional weight of leaving "your people" ✨ Family opinions ✨ Building a new community from scratch ✨ Finding growth + adventure as a family Because being a mama sometimes means starting over and learning that it’s okay to feel both scared and excited at the same time. 💕 #dearprimas #moving #primas #momsofmultiples #millennialmomlife #lifechanging Listen via anywhere you listen to your podcasts! Follow us: @dearprimas_ on Instagram @DearPrimas on TikTok Currently Reading: Kristi: You must be new here
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Dear Primas, What's for Dinner?
09/25/2025
Dear Primas, What's for Dinner?
Primas, what’s for dinner? 👀 This week’s episode is the question we ask every. single. night. We’re talking our go-to dinners, freezer staples, crockpot hacks, Sunday meal prep dreams (that sometimes flop). From pork shoulder carnitas that stretch into four meals to “pizza Fridays” that save our sanity, we’re spilling our go-to dinners, the ones that actually get us through sports practices, picky toddlers, and husbands who order Chop Shop bowls on repeat. This episode is for every prima standing in front of the fridge at 6 pm like… “So, rice and nuggets again?” 😂 Or are you channeling your inner Senora and have a go-to recipe? Primas, help another prima out! What is your go-to dinner? What are some shareable hacks? ✨ Prima takeaway: Dinner doesn’t have to be fancy to count. If your crew is fed, you’re winning! #dearprimas #whatsfordinner #primas #momsofmultiples #millennialmomlife Listen via anywhere you listen to your podcasts! Follow us: @dearprimas_ on Instagram @DearPrimas on TikTok Currently Reading: Kristi: In the Likely Event
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Dear Mom Diaries
09/17/2025
Dear Mom Diaries
🎙 Dear Mom Diaries… Primas, let’s talk about something that doesn’t get enough space in the group chat👉 motherhood and how we see ourselves after having babies. 💕 In this episode, Kristi and Clari open up about the real and raw parts of postpartum body image, from trying on five outfits before leaving the house to wondering if you’ll ever feel “yourself” again. We talk about breastfeeding hunger that never ends, the jeans that just won’t button, and why it’s so important to give your body grace in every season. We also dive into the mental health side of confidence, how fashion can impact how we feel, and why self-care isn’t selfish, it’s part of surviving (and thriving) in motherhood. Takeaways we hope stick with you: ✨ It’s okay to feel the feels. ✨ Give your body grace. ✨ Confidence takes time, and you’re not alone in the journey. So, grab your cafecito and let’s YAP. 💌 Listen via anywhere you listen to your podcasts! Follow us: @dearprimas_ on Instagram @DearPrimas on TikTok Currently Reading: Kristi: The Skyland Series
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Dear Primas, Let's Talk About It
09/04/2025
Dear Primas, Let's Talk About It
Primas, this is one of those FaceTime calls you didn’t ask for… but definitely needed. 💕 In today’s episode of Dear Primas, Let’s Talk About It, we’re firing off all the random topics living rent-free in the group chat: 📍 Location sharing in relationships — sweet or sus? 💌 Hard launch culture — is soft launching still a thing? 🙋 Social etiquette in public spaces — can people not? 💬 Communication & relationships — what’s working, what’s not. 👖 Fashion throwbacks — low-rise jeans… Why are they back? Basically, it’s a little terapia, a little heeheehaaha, and a whole lot of primas talking like you’re sitting on the couch with us! So grab your cafecito (or your wine, no judgment) and let’s catch up — porque if we don’t talk about it here, we’ll just be texting about it later anyway! ✨ You’re basically a Prima now… welcome to the group chat. #DearPrimas #GroupChatEnergy #hardlaunchculture
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Dear Primas, He's Not The One If...
08/27/2025
Dear Primas, He's Not The One If...
Dear Primas, He’s not the one if… Primas, let’s be real dating looks way different these days 😅. Whether it’s your 20s, 30s, or 40s, we’ve all had those “wyd?” late-night texts, the awkward first dates, and the 🚩 we wish came with neon lights. We may be on the other side now but trust us… we’ve got some stories and a little perspective you didn’t ask for but. 😉 In this episode, Kristi and Clari talk straight from the group chat about the highs and lows of online dating, and how social media can reveal more than a DM ever should. We share why being intentional matters (without turning a first date into a job interview), and how to check your own baggage at the door. Whether you’re fresh out of a relationship, still figuring out what you want, or just reminiscing on your own dating days while folding laundry before bed, this convo is for you. And of course, we couldn’t leave you without sharing the shows, movies, and books we’re currently obsessed with. So grab your cafecito (or your wine glass), get comfy and let’s chat Primas! 💌 Listen via anywhere you listen to your podcasts! Follow us: @dearprimas_ on Instagram @DearPrimas on TikTok Currently Watching: Clari: Power Moves with Shaq Currently Reading: Kristi:The Unhoneymooners and listening 🎧The Twisted Women's Book Club
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Dear Moms of Multiples
08/20/2025
Dear Moms of Multiples
Primas, let’s be real—going from one to two (or more) kids hits different. 💁🏻♀️ Some days it feels like we’re juggling snacks, schedules, and sibling drama all before our second cup of coffee. Other days, the mom guilt sneaks in and we’re wondering if everyone is getting enough of us. In this episode, we’re opening up about the new season of life as moms of multiples. The challenges, the guilt, and the small wins that keep us going. From balancing family activities to involving our littles (yes, even laundry can be a “team effort” 😅), we’re finding ways to make it work while giving ourselves grace. Yes, it’s exhausting, but seeing siblings love on each other? Worth every sleepless night. And because your primas love to chat it all out, we’re also sharing our latest movie binges, shows we can’t put down, and the books keeping us company once the kids are (finally) asleep. 📺📚 So whether you’re in the trenches with 2 under 2, navigating sibling squabbles, or just trying to survive bedtime, grab your cafecito and join us we promise that you’re not doing it alone. 💖 #DearPrimas #MomsOfMultiples #MillennialMomLife #MomGuiltIsReal #BedBy9Club Listen via anywhere you listen to your podcasts! Follow us: @dearprimas_ on Instagram @DearPrimas on TikTok Currently Reading: Kristi: The Unhoneymooners
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Dear Primas, Catch Us Up
08/13/2025
Dear Primas, Catch Us Up
🎙 Dear Primas, Catch Us Up 🏖️📚 Okay primas… summer is officially in the rearview, and we need to talk. 🫠 We’re catching you up on ALL the things, from vacation highlights to the very real struggle of getting kids back on a sleep schedule (send cafecito). Between late bedtimes, meltdowns over lost pool toys, and the back-to-school prep, we’re just trying to remember what day it is. In true Primas fashion, we’re also sharing our summer favs, the shows we binged and the books that stopped the doom scrolling. 💬 In this episode: ✏️ Vacay recaps + the return to reality 🛏️ Sleep schedules & kid attitudes (send help) 📚 Our summer watch & read list 🎒 Back-to-school prep So join us for a catch-up that feels like FaceTiming your Primas after a long summer apart. Because let’s be honest… the group chat missed you. ❤️ #DearPrimas #BackFromBreak #MillennialMomLife #PrimasWhoGetIt
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Dear Primas, I Got a Text!
06/26/2025
Dear Primas, I Got a Text!
🎙 Dear Primas, I Got a Text! 💌 (Casa Amor Recap + All the Drama) Okay, Primas… we need to talk. CASA AMOR 🔥 Your favorite millennial couch commentators (aka us) are back with a full Love Island download and YES, we’re watching “for the plot." From recouplings that had us gasping to the beige flags that suddenly turned BRIGHT RED, we’re breaking it all down like we’re voice-noting the group chat. We may be in bed by 9 with a baby monitor and dry shampoo in our hair, but the tea is steaming and we have thoughts. So many thoughts. Whether you're tuning in during naptime, folding laundry, or sneaking an episode after bedtime, pour a cafecito (or wine), and come yell with us. 💬 Text us back, Primas: 📱 Did you see that twist coming? ❤️ Who’s your villa MVP right now? 🚩 Who packed their red flags in their carry-on? Let’s get into it and yes, we will be watching every single second until the finale. Tag your fellow Love Island-obsessed primas 💕 #DearPrimas #IGotAText #CasaAmorRecap #MillennialMomWatchingTV #LoveIslandCommentary #HotPrimaSummer
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Dear Primas, Can We Pull You for a Chat?
06/13/2025
Dear Primas, Can We Pull You for a Chat?
🎙️ Dear Primas, Can We Pull You for a Chat? I GOT A TEXT!!!!! IYKYK!! Primas, let’s talk Love Island — because you know we have thoughts!! Are we watching for the plot (and by plot, we mean drama, and who’s giving ick vs. green flag energy 😅). Week 1 is here, and we are breaking it all down — Can we pull you for a chat? This episode is basically our group chat in podcast form: 🩷 Who came in hot? 🩷 Who’s giving situationship energy? 💗 Are we being LOVE BOMBED? 🩷 And who’s just… there for a good tan? We’re talking about how Love Island hits different now that we’re in our 30s, holding babies and emotionally invested in couples who have known each other for 3 days, and gave up sleep but not drama. We see you, 9PM Primas!! 🫣 Whether you’re watching while folding laundry, nursing a newborn, or sneaking in 20 minutes before bedtime (because let’s be real—we’re in bed by 9... NO SHAME), this one’s for the millennial primas who still love a messy villa and a perfectly timed “can I pull you for a chat?” Grab your cafecito, throw on that robe, and let’s gossip like it’s 2010 and we’ve got zero responsibilities. 💅🏽✨ 🎧 Streaming now on all podcast platforms 💬 Primas, who’s your fave couple so far? And who’s giving red flag realness? Follow us: @dearprimas_ on Instagram @DearPrimas on TikTok Currently Reading: Kristi: That's Not My Name
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Dear Primas, What's Your Type?
06/06/2025
Dear Primas, What's Your Type?
🎙 Dear Primas, What’s Your Type... ✨ Primas we are back and talking all about personality types and how they show up in life! Are you the planner with color-coded lists and calendar invites? Or the go-with-the-flow queen figuring it out as you go? Whether you’re navigating big life shifts, planning your next move, or learning how to not overthink every little thing (guilty 🙋♀️), this episode is for you. 💬 In this episode: 📝 How our personalities show up in relationships, friendships & big decisions 🎒 Planning vs. procrastinating when it comes to life goals 🎉 Event prep: from birthday bashes to bridal showers 🧠 The mental load we carry—even when we’re not moms 🎧 Why understanding your type helps in every season So, Primas… what’s your type? And how does it show up in your daily life, your milestones, or your “I swear I’m gonna start Monday” moments? Tag your opposite-type bestie, grab your cafecito, and come hang with us—because every type is welcome here. 💕 #DearPrimas #millennialwomen #personalitytypes #millennialmoms #lifeinprogress #latinas #momlife #realmomlife #motherhoodunfiltered #2under2club Listen via anywhere you listen to your podcasts! Follow us: @dearprimas_ on Instagram @DearPrimas on TikTok Currently Reading: Kristi: The Five Star Weekend
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Dear Other Half
05/21/2025
Dear Other Half
🎙️ Dear Other Half This one’s for every Prima who’s ever side-eyed their partner mid-diaper change or whispered “I’m doing everything!” under their breath. In this episode, we’re talking about the real side of parenting as a team — the good, the messy, and everything in between. 💬 From navigating discipline styles to carrying the mental load, we open up about what it’s really like co-parenting when you're both running on fumes and figuring it out day by day. Clari and Kristi share honest stories about communication breakdowns, mismatched expectations, and how learning to meet each other halfway is still a work in progress. We dive into: ✨ How parenting can expose all the gaps in communication ✨ Different approaches to discipline (and how they clash) ✨ Why “just tell me what you need” isn’t always enough ✨ The invisible load moms carry daily ✨ The guilt vs. grace cycle in motherhood and marriage Whether you’ve got 2 under 2, are deep in toddler negotiations, or still working through unspoken expectations with your partner — you are not alone. Grab your cafecito, press play, and join us in saying what so many of us feel: parenting is hard, relationships take work, and sometimes… we just want someone else to handle bedtime. 😅 💡Primas, how do YOU and your other half tag-team parenting? What works? What drives you loco? #DearPrimas #MarriageAndMotherhood #MentalLoadIsReal #MillennialMoms #ParentingTeamwork #2Under2Club #MomLifeUnfiltered Listen via anywhere you listen to your podcasts! Follow us: @dearprimas_ on Instagram @DearPrimas on TikTok Currently Reading: Kristi: The Favorites
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Dear Two Under Two Chronicles
05/14/2025
Dear Two Under Two Chronicles
🎙️ Dear Two Under Two Chronicles 👶🏽🍼 Primas, you already know this one’s gonna be a ride. In this episode, Clari shares her fresh-off-the-labor-and-delivery-floor experience—welcoming baby #2 and officially joining the two under two club! We kick things off light with our latest TV obsessions and what we’re reading, then dive deep into her birth story, real talk about induction, and that wild rollercoaster called labor. From prepping for baby #2 to processing the shift from one to two littles, Clari gets honest about how it’s going—emotionally, physically, mentally. Spoiler: the support system matters so much, and no two births (or babies!) are the same. If you're a mom in the trenches, wondering how you’ll juggle it all (again), or just need to feel less alone in the chaos—this one’s for you. Whether you’re prepping for baby #2, healing, or deep in the two-under-two tornado, press play and come hang out with your Primas. ✨ Real talk moments we get into: 💪🏽 The emotional side of giving birth again 👶🏽 The new baby/new toddler balancing act 🤰🏽 How pregnancy support really makes a difference 🎢 And why every single birth story deserves to be heard Primas, pour that cold coffee (again), pop in a headphone, and come hear the story behind Clari’s newest chapter. #DearPrimas #TwoUnderTwoChronicles #MillennialMoms #MomLifeUnfiltered
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Dear Give Mom What She Wants
05/07/2025
Dear Give Mom What She Wants
🎙️ Dear Give Mom What She Wants 💐 Primas, let’s talk Mother’s Day—the real version. Not the Pinterest board fantasy or that last-minute bouquet from the grocery store. We’re talking about what moms in the trenches actually want: a break, a nap, maybe takeout, and for someone else to finally fold that mountain of laundry. In this episode, we’re keeping it real about how we celebrate (or survive) Mother’s Day with littles at home. Whether you're a first-time mom, deep in toddler chaos, or balancing sports schedules and diaper changes, this one's for YOU. From skipping the flowers to hiring the dang cleaner, we’re naming all the unspoken Mother’s Day wishes your group chat has definitely talked about. Because sometimes, the best gift is being left alone for 3 hours with a hot coffee and zero responsibilities. ✨ So Primas, what’s your ideal Mother’s Day? 🧺 Is it folded laundry you didn’t touch? 🛍️ A solo Target trip with no one yelling “mom”? 📱Or just silence and a binge-worthy show? Press play, feel seen, and don’t forget to send this to another Prima. #DearPrimas #MothersDayUnfiltered #GiveMomWhatSheWants 🎧 Available on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube! 💐Happy Mother's Day, Primas! Follow us: @dearprimas_ on Instagram @DearPrimas on TikTok Currently Reading: Kristi: Say You'll Remember Me - Abby Jimenez
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Dear Rot Day
04/30/2025
Dear Rot Day
Hey Primas… ever wake up and just know you’re not doing a single productive thing today? Welcome to the magical land of the Rot Day—where expectations are left at the bedroom door, the only plan is pressing play on your comfort show, and dinner is whatever gets delivered fastest. 🍕📺 In this episode, we’re embracing the art of the Rot Day. No mom guilt. No hustle culture. Just two millennial primas talking about why sometimes the best thing you can do—for yourself and your sanity—is absolutely nothing. Whether you're a first-time mom deep in the baby fog, juggling multiple kiddos’ schedules, or just trying to catch your breath... this one’s for the Primas who need a break without an apology! So put on those stretchy pants, grab your blanket, and hang with us—Rot Day style. 💅 🎧 Available on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube! 👯♀️ Let’s rot together, Primas! Follow us: @dearprimas_ on Instagram @DearPrimas on TikTok Currently Reading: Kristi: Blue Sisters
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Dear Ex Prima
04/22/2025
Dear Ex Prima
Hey Primas, we’re getting real in this one. 👀 We’re talking about the hard stuff—outgrowing friendships, setting boundaries (and actually sticking to them), and learning how to protect your peace… even when it feels awkward. Whether it’s a friend who no longer shows up for you, or the guilt that comes from being a lifelong people pleaser (ahem, it’s us), we’re unpacking the messy middle of friendships in your 30s. So, how do you know when a friendship has run its course? What happens when someone who once felt like a sister just… doesn’t anymore? 😔 And what if we’ve been so busy saying yes to everyone else that we forgot what we even want? Let’s talk about it. No shame. Just primas learning, growing, and letting go with grace 💔➡️💖 Follow us: @dearprimas_ on Instagram @DearPrimas on TikTok YouTube: Currently Reading: Kristi: The Lake of Lost Girls
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Dear Diary, I’m In A Workout Rut
04/09/2025
Dear Diary, I’m In A Workout Rut
🎙️ Dear Diary, I’m in a Workout Rut… Okay Primas, be honest—how many times have you said “Starting Monday” and that Monday never came? 😅 We’re right there with you. In this episode, we’re talking all things fitness funks, motivation slumps, and figuring out what movement even looks like when you're chasing toddlers, working full-time, or just trying to survive on lukewarm coffee. Whether you're trying to get back into a routine, feel strong again, or just want to stop lying to your Apple Watch, we gotchu! We’re also building out our ultimate Hot Girl Walk Playlist because: 🎶 Music = motivation 🎧 Headphones = mom off-duty 👟 Walks = therapy (on a budget) So throw on those leggings (even if they’re your “laundry day” pair), plug in your headphones, and come hang with us for a dose of real talk, some LOLs, and zero shame. We want to hear from you, Primas! 💬 What’s your favorite way to move your body lately? 🎵 What songs NEED to go on our Hot Girl Walk playlist? 💪 What’s your “why” for staying active right now? ✨ Let's get real, reset, and maybe even sweat… just a little. #DearPrimas #HotGirlWalkEnergy #WorkoutRutChronicles Follow us: @dearprimas_ on Instagram @DearPrimas on TikTok Currently Reading : Kristi: "James" Percival Everett
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Dear Baby Number 2... Are We Even Ready?
04/02/2025
Dear Baby Number 2... Are We Even Ready?
Primas, it’s April, which means baby #2 is DUE! While the world is deep into March Madness, we’re over here in full Mom Madness—because baby #2 is almost here, and let’s be real… are we actually prepared?! (Spoiler: Nope. 😂) This episode, we’re diving into all things second pregnancy struggles—the differences from baby #1, doing everything last minute, and the chaos of prepping while juggling a toddler. 💡 If you’re a first-time mom wondering what round two looks like, a mom of multiples who remembers this phase all too well, or just here for the relatable chaos, pull up a seat because: ✨ Are we already giving our second baby middle child syndrome before they even arrive? ✨ Why is this pregnancy so different—physically, mentally, emotionally?! ✨ First baby vs. second baby—why did we have a full nursery at 20 weeks the first time, and now we’re like, “Eh, we’ll figure it out”? ✨ Is last-minute nesting just who we are now? ✨ Moms of 2+, what’s your #1 survival tip?! So grab your Cafecito, press play, and let’s yap! 💕 #DearPrimas #MomLife #SecondBabyChaos 📢 Share with a Prima mama who needs to hear this! Follow us: Listen via anywhere you listen to your podcasts! @dearprimas_ on Instagram @DearPrimas on TikTok Currently Reading: Kristi: "Kill for me, Kill for you" Steve Cavanagh
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Dear Mom Brain, Rant Over...
03/20/2025
Dear Mom Brain, Rant Over...
Hola Primas!!! Mom Brain. Rodeo. Chaos. Let's catch up, Primas!!➡️ If your brain feels like 47 open tabs and a toddler with syrupy hands is navigating them—same. Rodeo season is HERE and your favorite primas are kicking off this episode with a whole lotta chaos! 🐎✨ We’re talking about our organized disorder—from the piles of laundry that won’t quit, to the half-finished home projects we swear we’ll get to, to moving baby #1 into their own room while prepping for baby #2. It’s giving... maximum effort, minimum progress. Let’s just say this is the much-needed mom rant we all deserve... but with laughs, love, and zero judgment. 💬 Let’s Chat, Primas: What’s your never-ending pile right now—laundry, dishes, or toys? Are you in a declutter era or a “close the door and ignore it” era? What’s your go-to “easy family dinner” when you’ve got zero energy but everyone’s starving? Anyone else rethinking life choices during rodeo season outfit planning? 😂 Whether you’re a first-time mom, juggling multiple kiddos, or simply deep in your organized chaos era, we’re in this together. Grab your coffee, wine, or laundry basket—and let’s catch up, primas! 🎧💕
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Dear Finding Our Style… Eventually
03/12/2025
Dear Finding Our Style… Eventually
Primas, let’s be real—getting dressed every day shouldn’t feel like a life crisis, but here we are. 🤦🏽♀️ One day we’re in oversized tees and leggings, the next we’re trying (and failing) to be “put together” moms at school drop-off. Where do we even shop? What actually looks good on us? And why do jeans fit while standing but betray us when we sit? In this episode, we’re talking all things real-life millennial "style"—the trial and error, the go-to outfits that save us, and the constant battle of looking cute but staying comfy. Are we fashion girlies? No. Are we doing our best to dress the bodies we have right now? Also no… but we’re trying. 😂 So tell us, primas: 👖 Do you have a “uniform” or are you just surviving? 🛍️ What stores have become your holy grail for mom life? 👠 What’s the one trend you want to love but just can’t pull off? Join us as we laugh through the never-ending quest of finding our style… eventually. 💕
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Dear Lunch & Yap ... Welcome Back
03/05/2025
Dear Lunch & Yap ... Welcome Back
🎙️ Dear Lunch & Yap… Welcome Back! 🎉 Primas, we’re BACK and ready to kick off Season 2 with a fresh start—because let’s be real, we’re all just trying to survive whatever season of life we’re in! Whether you’re setting big goals or just aiming to drink your coffee while it’s still hot, we’re here to chat about building small, attainable habits without the guilt trip. Oh, and speaking of survival—are we severed from our reality, or have you watched Severance yet?! (See what we did there? 😉) We’re talking what we’re watching, reading, and everything keeping us entertained while juggling babies, kids in sports, and life’s never-ending to-do list. Primas, let’s get into it— ✨ What small habits are you focusing on this season? 📺 What shows are getting you through the chaos? 📖 What book is currently collecting dust on your nightstand? So grab your lunch (or that cold coffee), press play, and let’s yap! Season 2 is here, and we can’t wait to catch up! 💕 #DearPrimas #LunchAndYap Currently Reading: Kristi: "Project Hail Mary"
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Merry Primas 4: What the Elf?
12/15/2024
Merry Primas 4: What the Elf?
Hola Primas! It’s time to talk about the holiday tradition that’s quite literally all over our social feeds: the Elf on the Shelf. Whether you’re going all out with elaborate elf scenes or you’re still deciding if this tradition is even worth the hype, we’ve got you covered. We’re spilling the cocoa on our best (and laziest) Elf on the Shelf ideas, plus the moments that make us say, “What the elf is even happening?!” We want to hear from you: Are you team “elf-obsessed,” pulling out mini marshmallows and tiny props every night, or team “not today, elf”? Have you ever forgotten to move the elf and had to come up with a last-minute cover story for the kids? Is this tradition a magical memory-maker, or just another to-do on your holiday list? Grab your cafecito, tune in, and let’s figure out if this elf is bringing more cheer or more stress to our holidays. Happy elfing, Primas!
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Merry Primas 3: 'Tis the Season
12/08/2024
Merry Primas 3: 'Tis the Season
Tis the season.... Hola Primas, we’re back with another dose of holiday cheer— our third episode of Merry Primas! This time, we’re sharing our favorite festive outings and activities to enjoy whether you’ve got kiddos in tow or you’re sneaking in some grown-up time. 🍷 Creating traditions this time of year is what this season is all about! Primas, we want to know what are some of your favorite holiday traditions?✨🎄 Planning a cozy lights drive-thru or venturing out to see the city’s biggest Christmas market? Is a festive bar crawl with your best primas calling your name, or do you prefer staying in and bingeing classic holiday movies? Tune in as we share our go-to holiday traditions, new ideas to try, and all the ways to embrace ’tis the season—together. Let’s make these holiday memories count, Primas! Grab your cafecito or hot cocoa and tune in!
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Merry Primas 2: Gift Guide for The Littles
12/04/2024
Merry Primas 2: Gift Guide for The Littles
Fa la la la la la la .... Hola! Welcome to our second episode of Merry Primas: Gift Guide for littles! Send this episode to the Tias and Tios that need some guidance! We talk all gifts for our kiddos ranging from newborns to 8-9 year old.... boys.. It's what we know! What is a gift you gave last Christmas that is still a household fav?! Let us know down below. Let's get into it Primas! Grab your cafecito or hot cocoa and tune in as we spread holiday cheer and help you make this season merry and bright—for you and everyone on your list! 🎄✨ Gift Guide for the Littles 0-6 Months Crinkle Books Baby Book Photo Album Photo Album Teether Toys Pacifier Feeder Backpack Head Pillow Mirror toys Crinkle Tissue Boy **Disclaimer, I did throw out the sheer fabric sheets because they were way too small and I did catch him shoving it into his mouth** 6-11 months Baby Einstein Stacker Toy Easy Clean Bib Disposable Place Mats Push Walker Electronic Push Walker Tool Bench Push Walker Stove Top Spinner Toys Swing Stand Alone Swing Melissa & Doug Cars Push and Go Cars Bath Toys Bath Books 12 months - 3 years old Mega Blocks Mega Block Train Wooden Fruits and Veggies Animal Flash Cards Wooden Puzzles , Wooden Puzzle W/Sounds Mickey/Minnie Airplane Sock Shoes Tonies Box https://us.tonies.com/pages/bundle?utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=search_brandname&gad_source=1&gclid=CjwKCAiA9bq6BhAKEiwAH6bqoL0aEQGVl41zeoIdpW4wrhqFkzNO0gwbSFfq4v3l7D2MMBPD8HnIWBoCtX8QAvD_BwE Yoto Player Quiet Toys For Restaurants (Good Stocking Stuffers) Sticky Building Cubes Suction Cup Figurines Mess free Coloring Magnetic Men Builders 4+ Years Old Magna Tiles AI Chess Board Boys first clubs- Piggy bank- Bike- Globe-
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