Mental Health Minutes with Melissa
Short, powerful episodes to help you care for your mental health through the lens of faith, nervous system science, and self-compassion. Hosted by licensed professional counselor Melissa Clark, each weekly episode offers tangible tools and soul-grounding encouragement to help you feel more calm, connected, and confident—no hustle required. Whether you’re navigating anxiety, perfectionism, burnout, or just trying to show up fully in your life, this podcast will help you move from overwhelm to embodiment, one step at a time.
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Navigating Grief and Finding Joy: A Discussion with Mike Nappa
10/20/2023
Navigating Grief and Finding Joy: A Discussion with Mike Nappa
We journey alongside grief survivor Mike Nappa, who graciously opens his heart, sharing his profoundly moving journey of loss and healing after the death of his wife, Amy. His personal revelations on the terrain of grief and his granddaughter's own journey awaken a broader understanding of the grieving process and the importance of allowing ourselves the space to grieve. Our conversation is intimate as Mike recounts the cherished moments of helping his wife fulfill her bucket list. His account underscores the significance of living fully even when faced with loss, a testament to the enduring power of love. Mike's reflections amplify the importance of cherishing our time with loved ones, making each moment count, and recognizing that grief can coexist with joy and acceptance. Poignant, enlightening, and deeply human, this episode offers solace and understanding while reassuring us all that grieving is a natural response to love, and experiencing all the emotions that come with it is perfectly okay. Listen in as we traverse the emotional landscape of grief and loss together. Resources Connect with Mike Website: Pick up a copy of Mike’s book - Let’s connect: I’d love it if you would leave a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts! Don’t forget – Be sure to subscribe and get new episodes on Have a great week! Melissa
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Discovering Deep Purpose through Divine Connection with Kelly Needham
09/29/2023
Discovering Deep Purpose through Divine Connection with Kelly Needham
Have you ever been caught in the hustle culture, feeling lost and struggling to find your purpose? This happened to our special guest, author Kelly Needham, and she's not alone. Imagine you're standing on the precipice of what society deems successful, yet you feel a deep void. Frustrated and desperate, Kelly embarked on a journey to re-examine the real source of purpose. In our candid conversation, Kelly delves into her personal experiences, revealing how her marriage and life were affected by jealousy and insecurity. She shares some intriguing insights about the impact of social media on our sense of purpose. The culture of comparison, she says, has heightened with the rise of social media, leaving us feeling dissatisfied, envious, and perpetually lacking. We explore this issue further, discussing how our relationship with God might solve the dissatisfaction brought on by this toxic culture. Whether you're searching for purpose or already on the path, Kelly's fresh perspective will inspire you to redefine your understanding of purpose. Join us on this journey to escape the hustle, connect with God, and discover a life of deep purpose and rest. Connect with Kelly Website: Instagram: - Purposefooled: Why Chasing Your Dreams, Finding Your Calling, and Reaching for Greatness Will Never Be Enough Let’s connect: I’d love it if you would leave a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts! Don’t forget – Be sure to subscribe and get new episodes on Have a great week! Melissa
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Finding Joy Amidst Life's Challenges with Nick Nilson
09/15/2023
Finding Joy Amidst Life's Challenges with Nick Nilson
Get ready to transform your perspective on life's challenges as we engage in an insightful conversation with the ever-inspiring Nick Nilson. Ever wondered how to hold onto joy amidst hardships? Nick guides us through his life's journey, sharing wisdom on shaping our feelings through our thoughts and harnessing the power of the present moment to experience peace, joy, and contentment. In this chat, we dive deeper into techniques to overcome self-doubt and focus on the possibilities, not the problems. With Nick's guidance, we learn how to utilize the grace given by God to chase our dreams fearlessly and how acknowledging and rejecting the falsehoods we've accepted about ourselves can lead us to our true purpose. We also delve into the nitty-gritty of bringing our dreams to life, embracing the sacrifices it might require. Tune in for this wholesome conversation that promises to inspire you to embrace your life's journey with joy and purpose. Connect with Nick Website: Instagram: Pick up a ! Let’s connect: I’d love it if you would leave a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts! Don’t forget – Be sure to subscribe and get new episodes on Have a great week! Melissa
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Finding Confidence: Breaking Free from Past Trauma
09/08/2023
Finding Confidence: Breaking Free from Past Trauma
Are you craving self-improvement, a fresh perspective, or simply an honest and heartfelt conversation? That's precisely what you'll find in my latest podcast episode featuring Jason VanRuler. Drawing from a hard upbringing, Jason bravely confronts his past and the trials of running from unresolved traumas. He lays bare the turning point that led him to face his reflections in the mirror without external support, sparking a profound journey of self-awareness and transformation. Jason's insights don't stop at personal history. We also delve into the intricate realm of emotions and their undeniable part in our self-confidence. Jason shares wisdom about embracing our feelings, even when contradicting our beliefs. His insights about how expressing our feelings can facilitate healing and personal growth are not to be missed. This episode is an enriching journey toward healing, acceptance, and self-confidence. Tune in to be moved, challenged, and, ultimately, inspired. Resources Connect with Jason Website: Instagram: Pick up a copy of Let’s connect: I’d love it if you would leave a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts! Don’t forget – Be sure to subscribe and get new episodes on Have a great week! Melissa
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The Journey from Addiction to Hope with Travis Thompson
09/01/2023
The Journey from Addiction to Hope with Travis Thompson
Could you imagine the power of the right language and tools in transforming life struggles into blessings? That's what we're unpacking with our guest today, Travis Thompson, as he shares his captivating journey through the thorny path of addiction. Drawing from his battle, Travis sheds light on addiction in the United States. He underscores the crucial need to accurately represent the addiction spectrum to ensure people get the support they need. Addiction is not just about the individual; it's also about the people and the society around them. We look closer into the role of boundaries in addictive relationships and the concept of trauma bonding, laying bare the treacherous impact of alcohol deeply ingrained in our social fabric. However, Travis brings forth a beacon of hope amidst this bleak reality - vulnerability and emotional intimacy. He shows us how to create emotional intimacy within relationships, offering practical tips on fostering self-care and supporting loved ones grappling with addiction. Tune in to this powerful and insightful discussion on the many facets of addiction, the path to recovery, and the life-altering power of emotional connections and personal accountability. Resources Connect with Travis : Twitter: Linked In: Website: Pick up a copy of ! Let’s connect: I’d love it if you would leave a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts! Don’t forget – Be sure to subscribe and get new episodes on Have a great week! Melissa
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Exploring Soul Care: A Journey Towards Deeper Connection with God
08/25/2023
Exploring Soul Care: A Journey Towards Deeper Connection with God
Ever wonder how nurturing your soul can lead to a healthier, more connected life? We're pondering this question with our returning guest, Amber Albee Swenson, as we navigate the concept of soul care versus the well-known self-care practice. Together, we explore how prioritizing our divine connection and acknowledging when the soul feels off-balance can significantly impact our overall well-being. We're traveling beyond the surface, examining how soul care profoundly impacts our relationships with ourselves and the world around us. Amber emphasizes the necessity of carving time out of our day to engage with God through prayer and scripture reading while reflecting on the spiritual influence of financial goals and the potency of contentment found in God. We encourage you to delve into the Bible, even if it's just for 15 minutes a day. You never know what divine revelations might be waiting for you. Remember, your true connection lies in the care of your soul. Amber Albee Swenson is a wife, mother, speaker, and the author of seven books, including her newest one, Soul Care: Nurturing Your Spiritual Wellness. She is also a blogger and regular contributor to the multimedia ministry Time of Grace and other popular Christian ministries. Resources Connect with Amber - Website - Facebook - Instagram - Let’s connect: I’d love it if you would leave a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts! Don’t forget – Be sure to subscribe and get new episodes on Have a great week! Melissa
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Navigating Trauma, Movement, and Body Freedom with Alisa Keeton
08/18/2023
Navigating Trauma, Movement, and Body Freedom with Alisa Keeton
Have you ever glanced in the mirror and wished the reflection looking back at you was a friend rather than an adversary? That moment was a turning point for me, and it led me to a fascinating conversation with Alisa Keeton, a fitness crusader and author of The Body Revelation. Alisa is armed with a mighty mission to redefine our relationship with our bodies, seeing them not as obstacles but as allies. Alisa unpacks how pain, an energetic chemical charge, can trap us within our bodies and how children, with their hyperactive nervous systems at birth, have a head start in experiencing this pain. We also discuss the detrimental effects our fast-paced, modern world has on our bodies and how chronic stress is an unwelcome guest that overstays its welcome. Our bodies are more than just vessels; they express our beliefs and how we view the world. Alisa opens up about how our minds and brains coexist, where our consciousness resides, and how our beliefs shape our interaction with the world. Trust me, this episode is a treasure trove of insights for anyone looking to foster a healthier relationship with their bodies. Resources Website: IG: Let’s connect: I’d love it if you would leave a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts! Don’t forget – Be sure to subscribe and get new episodes on Have a great week! Melissa
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Exploring the Brain: Understanding Emotion Regulation and Our Mental Health
08/11/2023
Exploring the Brain: Understanding Emotion Regulation and Our Mental Health
Get ready to unravel the intricate workings of your brain with the enlightening insights of esteemed neuroscientist and his handy hand model. Today’s episode will provide a simple yet profound understanding of how our brains regulate emotions and manage our reactions. The spotlight shines on the prefrontal cortex, our brain's master controller, and its vital roles in connecting with others, calming our fears, and creating that crucial space between impulse and action. That's not all. As we continue our exploration of the brain, we'll also touch upon the importance of online regulation and engagement. Don't forget to stay tuned for our next insightful episode, where we continue this fascinating journey into mental health. Resources Here are 4 parts of the brain we discussed today, based on a model created by . The brain stem: It controls fundamental body functions such as breathing, eye movements, blood pressure, heartbeat, and swallowing Responsible for the fight, flight, freeze response The limbic stem: the emotional part of the brain, t, the amygdala sounds an alarm, releasing a cascade of chemicals in the body. Stress hormones like adrenaline and cortisol flood our system, immediately preparing us for fight or flight How do we focus our attention How we remember things The cortex is the higher part of the brain. We can call this the executive region - we want this part to remain regulated to maintain a connection with each other. We’ll talk briefly about what happens when we get dysregulated and how this keeps us from connecting with ourselves and others. helps you to manage and mention your emotions It helps with thinking and planning The prefrontal cortex - also called the “master controller”: regulate the body, the ability to tune into someone else, which allows compassion or empathy (what happens when we feel rejected or triggered), response flexibility: allows you to put a space between an impulse and an action, the ability to calm fears - teach your upstairs part of the brain to calm fears Let’s connect: I’d love it if you would leave a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts! Don’t forget – Be sure to subscribe and get new episodes on Have a great week! Melissa
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From Self-Criticism to Self-Care: Navigating Body Image Issues
08/04/2023
From Self-Criticism to Self-Care: Navigating Body Image Issues
Join me this week as I bare a part of my soul and share a deeply personal journey with body image and eating disorders. Drawn from my own experiences, I aim to provide insights and tools to help you nurture a healthier relationship with your body. We'll dive into practical strategies that can revolutionize your perception of your body - assuring you that reshaping your body image doesn't always mean reshaping your body. Tune into this episode to understand the ripple effect of social media on our mental health and body image. I’ll bust the myths society feeds us about beauty and appearance together, learning to identify and defuse triggers that can compromise our self-acceptance journey. Understanding your worth and trusting yourself are key elements in this transformative journey - so don't miss out on this empowering conversation about liberating ourselves and our relationships with social media. Resources If you are in need of counseling, please check out or for helpful resources. 7 practices for a healthier body image: Redefine your definition of beauty Recognize and reject the lies Recognize your triggers Renew yourself with Truth Respect yourself. Redirect your thoughts Remember, you are worthy and valuable. Let’s connect: I’d love it if you would leave a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts! Don’t forget – Be sure to subscribe and get new episodes on Have a great week! Melissa
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Mastering Body Language for a Happier, Healthier You
07/28/2023
Mastering Body Language for a Happier, Healthier You
Get ready to forge a happier, healthier you by mastering the power of body language. Today, we promise to equip you with simple yet effective research-backed life hacks that dramatically alter your mood, reduce stress, and boost confidence. As part of our continuing series, Counselor on Call – I walk you through an astounding technique called body posturing, which requires you to raise your hands straight up in the air for 2-3 minutes. You'll discover how this effortless practice can manipulate your hormones, elevate your mood, and align with your spiritual perspectives. I also delve into the profound impact of non-verbal cues on our self-perception and how conscious alterations can help us evade the dreaded 'fight or flight' mode—ever wondered if your posture or a simple smile could revolutionize your body chemistry? So, get ready for a transformational journey where a few minutes of daily practice can lead to lasting changes. Equip yourself with these handy tricks, take control of your internal world, and let's march towards a brighter, happier you. Resources Let’s connect: I’d love it if you would leave a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts! Don’t forget – Be sure to subscribe and get new episodes on Have a great week! Melissa
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Thriving through Mindfulness: A Guide to Finding Purpose
07/21/2023
Thriving through Mindfulness: A Guide to Finding Purpose
Imagine existing in a space where constant distractions and fears do not cloud your mind but rather focus on the here and now. Sounds like a far-fetched dream, right? Not according to the latest research from Harvard. As we continue the Counselor on Call series this week, we're stepping into mindfulness, unpacking powerful tools to help you cultivate a more grounded and intentional lifestyle. We'll be tackling the challenges of staying present amidst the chaos of everyday life and sharing how just 12 minutes of mindfulness practice a day for eight weeks can help rebuild your brain. We're also diving deep into the transformative potential of spirituality in finding purpose and meaning in our lives. Inspired by Junie Allen's insightful book, we explore a mindful approach to mental health, shedding light on the significance of fully embracing each moment. With a blend of practical tips and scientific insights, this episode promises to be a journey of self-discovery. So join me, and let's navigate this path to thriving together.
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Journey to Wellness: The Art of Journaling and Emotional Regulation
07/14/2023
Journey to Wellness: The Art of Journaling and Emotional Regulation
What would happen if we started acknowledging and addressing our emotions instead of brushing them under the carpet? Join me in this counselor on-call episode where we demystify journaling, a simple yet powerful tool to process emotions. Journaling sounds like another task on your to-do list, or it may even stir up the fear of opening a can of emotional worms. But let's flip the script today. I will share four easy questions you can ask yourself to swiftly navigate through your emotions without drowning in them. We'll also talk about how journaling and other activities can help you regulate your emotions and avoid resorting to unhealthy coping mechanisms. So, if you're ready to trade emotional chaos for calm, let's embark on this journey toward emotional wellness together. Let's learn to manage our emotions, not just for a healthier mind, but for a happier life. Resources Journaling prompts: What am I feeling? Use the feelings wheel if you need a little help. Why am I feeling this way? i.e., what’s going on in my life? When have I felt this way? What’s one thing I need based on how I am feeling? Some examples include: taking a nap, calling a friend, doing a breathing exercise, walking, praying, and listening to music. Let’s connect: I’d love it if you would leave a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts! Don’t forget – Be sure to subscribe and get new episodes on Have a great week! Melissa
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Flipping Your Thinking Script: A Journey Towards Mental Health and Living Free
07/07/2023
Flipping Your Thinking Script: A Journey Towards Mental Health and Living Free
Life has a way of throwing curveballs; mine came from anxiety and depression. Relentless mental battles led me to discover the power of thoughts and words and how they shape our feelings, actions, and interactions with the world. Join me in this episode as I share my journey toward a healthier mental state by flipping my thinking script and discussing how you can apply these simple tools to change your life. I'll guide you to become more mindful of your thoughts and actions and reflect on your experiences to actively cultivate positive outcomes. This episode is about sharing these tools that have helped me thrive, hoping that it might light your way too. Don't just listen in - subscribe, share it, and together, let's journey towards mental health and living free. I would love it if you would leave a review and let me know how this podcast has impacted your journey! Resources by Bob Hamp by Jeannie Allen Let’s connect: I’d love it if you would leave a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts! Don’t forget – Be sure to subscribe and get new episodes on Have a great week! Melissa
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Journey to Understanding and Managing Anxiety: Practical Tools and Strategies
06/30/2023
Journey to Understanding and Managing Anxiety: Practical Tools and Strategies
Picture this: You're about to give a presentation, and suddenly your heart starts pounding, your palms get sweaty, and your mind is racing with fears of the future. This, my friends, is the raw, unfiltered experience of anxiety. In today's podcast episode, I strip back the layers of this common condition, illuminating its triggers and sharing practical coping skills. Anxiety doesn’t confine itself to simply assaulting the mind. It targets our body, spirit, and emotions too. In our exploration, we rip off the mask that anxiety wears, recognizing it for what it truly is - a ticking time bomb, threatening to explode into other emotions and complicate our lives further. But acknowledging this fear is the first step towards conquering it. By the end of this enlightening episode, you'll be equipped with a toolbox of practical resources for managing anxiety. Harness the power of breath, body posturing, and words to increase confidence and reduce stress. Discover how deep abdominal breathing can alter your hormonal balance for the better and how the posture of surrender can lower cortisol levels. I also delve into the transformative power of words. Hop on this journey with us to understand anxiety better and learn to manage it effectively. Let’s connect: I’d love it if you would leave a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts! Don’t forget – Be sure to subscribe and get new episodes on Have a great week! Melissa
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Breaking Free from the Lies: A Story of Renewal with Matt Lesser
06/23/2023
Breaking Free from the Lies: A Story of Renewal with Matt Lesser
Have you ever found yourself in a dark pit, struggling to find purpose in life? Join us for an eye-opening conversation with , who shares his powerful journey through overcoming hardship and discovering a life filled with satisfaction and purpose. Having taken over his father's business at 24, Matt soon found himself in a place where he thought the only way out was to end his life. But when God showed up, he experienced one miracle after another, ultimately finding purpose through his story. Together, we explore the importance of mental health in faith communities and how sometimes it takes a proverbial two-by-four upside the head to break through the walls of pride and stubbornness. Matt offers invaluable insights on replacing the lies we tell ourselves with truth and discovering our true identity through intentional living and creating space for God. Get ready for a transformative journey with Matt Lester as we uncover the secrets to finding satisfaction, purpose, and a deeper connection. Don't miss out on this opportunity to improve your life! Connect with Matt: Matt Lesser has trained leaders, teams, and board directors for over twenty years on six continents. He is the founder and CEO of , facilitating leaders, leadership teams, and boards on their journey to improving organizational health and performance. Pick up a copy of his book, Let’s connect: I’d love it if you would leave a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts! Don’t forget – Be sure to subscribe and get new episodes on Have a great week! Melissa
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Discovering the Power of the Female Brain for Better Leadership and Mental Health [ Episode 156]
06/16/2023
Discovering the Power of the Female Brain for Better Leadership and Mental Health [ Episode 156]
Do you know how understanding the differences between the male and female brain can improve our mental health and relationships? In this throwback episode, I had an incredible conversation with Tracy Packiam Alloway, Ph.D., an award-winning psychologist, professor, author, and TEDx speaker, who shared fascinating insights from her new book, . Together, we debunked myths surrounding female decision-making, leadership, and risk-taking, paving the way for healthier relationships and authentic self-expression. Tracy shared valuable tips on harnessing the power of gratitude and simple language shifts to help foster optimism and resilience. Understanding our brain's wiring has never been more important, and this conversation will change how you approach daily hurdles in your personal and professional life. Our discussion on the significance of body language and confidence in authentic leadership was particularly eye-opening. Tracy provided practical advice on power posing and how tuning into our unique brain chemistry can help us become more effective leaders. Don't miss this enlightening episode that empowers you to think like a girl and, ultimately, live your best life! Resources Connect with Tracey Pakiam Alloway, Ph.D. Let’s connect: I’d love it if you would leave a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts! Don’t forget – Be sure to subscribe and get new episodes on Have a great week! Melissa
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Breaking Free from Toxic Purity Culture with Sheila Gregoire :: [Episode 155]
06/09/2023
Breaking Free from Toxic Purity Culture with Sheila Gregoire :: [Episode 155]
How much damage can evangelical messages cause to women's marital and sexual satisfaction? Join us in our eye-opening conversation with Sheila Gregoire, author of the groundbreaking new book, She Deserves Better. Sheila's research deeply examines the long-lasting effects of evangelical teachings and purity culture on women and the confusion it leaves them with when it's time to teach their children. Together, we tackle the importance of helping girls express their emotions healthily and the consequences of framing mental health as a faith issue in the church. Discover the power of trusting our feelings and learning from our emotions as early warning signs, just as God intended. In this powerful discussion, we advocate for empowering women in the church by breaking free of toxic teachings and creating language boundaries for gender equality. We also offer valuable guidance for parents on safeguarding their daughters from these harmful messages in their church and youth group. Don't miss out on this crucial conversation with Sheila Gregoire and her incredible work in advocating for women and girls in the evangelical world. Listen in to learn more: How to Help Girls Express Their Emotions in a Healthy Way Our Daughters Deserve Better! Empowering Women in the Church and MUCH MORE! Resources Connect with Sheila Gregoire Website - Podcast - Pick up a copy of her new book - Let’s connect: I’d love it if you would leave a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts! Don’t forget – Be sure to subscribe and get new episodes on Have a great week! Melissa
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Deepening Your Connection with God: A Conversation with Greg Pruitt on Hearing God's Voice :: [Ep. 154]
06/02/2023
Deepening Your Connection with God: A Conversation with Greg Pruitt on Hearing God's Voice :: [Ep. 154]
Have you ever wondered how to truly hear God's voice and understand His plans for your life? Join me as I chat with Greg Pruett, who is on an incredible journey to connect with God's voice. Greg shares his experiences working in West Africa translating the Bible and how it led him to a deeper relationship with the Holy Spirit. We explore how God communicates with us through gentle nudges or ideas inspired by His passions. Learn how to differentiate between God's voice and other voices, and position yourself to have meaningful conversations with Him. We also discuss the connection between mental health and hearing God's voice, offering insights on finding purpose and meaning in our lives. Don't miss out on Greg's practical tips on staying in line with the Holy Spirit's guidance and maintaining a solid connection with God. Be sure to check out his book, 'Extraordinary Hearing,' to explore further his insights on hearing God's voice and his work with Bible translations. Listen in to learn more about : Hearing God's Voice and Finding Purpose Discovering Your Purpose in God's Plan Value Time, Seek God's Guidance Investing in Spiritual Health Resources Connect with Greg Pruett Website - Linked In - Twitter - Let’s connect: I’d love it if you would leave a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts! Don’t forget – Be sure to subscribe and get new episodes on Have a great week! Melissa
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Decoding the Millennial Generation: A Conversation with Dr. George Barna
05/26/2023
Decoding the Millennial Generation: A Conversation with Dr. George Barna
Get ready to unlock the secrets of the Millennial worldview and its impact on parenting, mental health, and finding purpose in life. On today’s episode, I sit down with to delve into the complexities of this generation and how understanding their perspective can shape the future of our society. As the largest population in America, Millennials play a crucial role in raising the next generation, and we uncover how their unique experiences and beliefs color their approach to living.. Explore how syncretism's predominant worldview in America today contributes to these challenges experienced by millennials by creating a jumbled mess of different beliefs and ideas without internal consistency. Discover the role of effective discipleship in parenting and grandparenting and how finding purpose through faith can bring peace and serenity amidst the turbulence of our modern world. Listen in to learn more with Dr. George Barna - Understanding the Millennial Worldview Millennials and Mental Health Struggles How to Develop a Biblical Worldview Effective Discipleship for Lifelong Parenting Finding Purpose Through Faith Resources Connect with Dr. George Barna Website - Linked In - Facebook - Twitter - Let’s connect: I’d love it if you would leave a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts! Don’t forget – Be sure to subscribe and get new episodes on Have a great week! Melissa
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Discovering Unstoppable Happiness Amidst Hardship: Rachel Joy's Story [Episode 151]
05/19/2023
Discovering Unstoppable Happiness Amidst Hardship: Rachel Joy's Story [Episode 151]
How can we find joy in the midst of trauma and loss? Imagine discovering a way to keep your joy alive even during the most challenging times. Join us as we speak to Rachel Joy Baribeau, author of "Relentless Joy" and creator of the I'm Changing the Narrative movement. In our conversation, Rachel shares her experiences of finding joy, despite adversity and how her mission is to help others do the same. Rachel discusses the importance of understanding our ancestors' struggles and how their experiences can impact our lives. She also emphasizes the significance of self-love and having a support system in challenging times. We discuss the concept of relentless joy, which can be found even in our darkest moments, and how Rachel cultivates positivity and gratitude in her everyday life. As we explore how Rachel discovers joy, she shares her insights on waking up with a positive attitude, using mindful breathing to manage anxiety, and the Joystarters Club, a culture of joy she has created on her website. Rachel believes in the importance of constantly learning and growing. Be sure to listen to this inspiring episode with Rachel and learn to embrace your relentless joy in adversity. Listen in to learn more - Purpose in Pain With Relentless Joy The Importance of Self-Love & Community in Mental Health Cultivating Joy and Self-Discovery Ways to experience relentless joy and process our pain Resources Connect with Rachel Website - Instagram - Facebook - Twitter Let’s connect: I’d love it if you would leave a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts! Don’t forget – Be sure to subscribe and get new episodes on Have a great week! Melissa
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Journey to Wholeness: Emotional Mastery with Dr. Mark Mayfield :: [Episode 150]
05/12/2023
Journey to Wholeness: Emotional Mastery with Dr. Mark Mayfield :: [Episode 150]
Discover the secrets to unlocking the full potential of your emotional well-being with our special guest, Dr. Mark Mayfield. Prepare to embark on a journey that will help you develop language skills to understand better and connect with your emotions and the importance of recognizing and processing your emotional responses to enhance your overall health. With Dr. Mayfield, we explore the complexities of emotional reflexes and attachment theory in shaping our ability to engage with our emotions. Learn how to build a stronger relationship with yourself through intentionality and self-love while gaining insights into the cyclical nature of loving God, ourselves, and others. Embrace the process of feeling, expressing, and ultimately opening yourself up to the richness of life. Don't miss out on this opportunity to transform your emotional landscape; check out Dr. Mayfield's new book, designed for group discussions and easily digestible at just 140 pages. Listen in to learn more - What is the path to Wholeness? How to engage with our Emotions What is Self-Love The importance of Self-Care, Lamenting, and Forgiveness Resources Dr. Mark Mayfield Website: Instagram: Let’s connect: I’d love it if you would leave a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts! Don’t forget – Be sure to subscribe and get new episodes on Have a great week! Melissa
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- Rising Above Pornography Addiction: From Early Exposure to Freedom :: [Episode 149]
05/05/2023
- Rising Above Pornography Addiction: From Early Exposure to Freedom :: [Episode 149]
Discover how early exposure to pornography can impact the developing brain and shape our understanding of sex, relationships, and self-worth in our enlightening conversation with Sam Black. Learn how the young, impressionable brain struggles to process explicit material and why protecting children from its lasting effects is crucial. Join us as we dive deep into the science behind this issue and the importance of addressing it head-on. Together with Sam, we also explore the vital roles parents, churches, and education play in supporting individuals struggling with pornography use. We also discuss how to uncover the potential for churches to create safe, open spaces for discussing this often-taboo topic and providing resources and support for their congregations. Don't miss out on this essential conversation and the wealth of resources available to help break free from the grip of pornography addiction. Listen to learn more about - The Impact of Early Exposure to Pornography Parent & Church Pornography Education Support Finding Freedom From Pornography and Addiction Resources for Ongoing Conversations Links for things we discussed Let’s connect: I’d love it if you would leave a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts! Don’t forget – Be sure to subscribe and get new episodes on Have a great week! Melissa
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Blended Families: Building Strong Bonds and Embracing God's Plan :: [Episode 148]
04/28/2023
Blended Families: Building Strong Bonds and Embracing God's Plan :: [Episode 148]
Hi friends, On today’s episode, I have a heart-to-heart with my real-life friends, Scott and Vanessa Martindale, authors of "Blended and Redeemed," about the challenges and victories faced by blended families. We discuss the importance of prioritizing one's spouse over children, co-parenting, and the mental health challenges faced by parents and children in blended families. We delve into the significance of addressing physical ailments and the importance of intentional family time, communication, and overcoming expectations in blended and traditional family dynamics. Don't miss this insightful conversation packed with practical advice and spiritual guidance for thriving in blended families. Listen in to learn more: Common struggles in blended families How these struggles impact the mental health of both the parents and the kids Overcoming Expectations in Blended Families - parents AND kids Inner vows, what they are, and how they hurt your relationship Scott (LPC) and Vanessa (RN, BSN) are the founders of Blended Kingdom Families. They are committed to serving the blended family with faith and zeal. They have been married for eight years and have their own beautiful, blended family of four boys and four golden retrievers. Scott and Vanessa wholeheartedly believe that nothing is impossible for God! Links for things we discussed Let’s connect: I’d love it if you would leave a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts! Don’t forget – Be sure to subscribe and get new episodes on Have a great week! Melissa
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Confronting Our Internal Bullies: Unmasking Emotional Toxins and Distractions :: [Episode 147]
04/21/2023
Confronting Our Internal Bullies: Unmasking Emotional Toxins and Distractions :: [Episode 147]
Hey friends! It’s no surprise we live in a world full of distractions. We’re often advised to limit time on social media and Netflix. What if social media isn’t the problem? What if it’s covering up emotional toxins poisoning your thoughts? Today’s conversation is with Billie Jauss. We are discussing distractions and emotional toxins (think comparison, people-pleasing, and lies about your identity). In today’s episode, we dive deep into the world of distractions and emotional toxins, discussing how our external distractions often cover up the internal emotional toxins that hold us back from connecting with others and ourselves. Billie and I also explore the dangers of over-volunteering and people-pleasing and how they can lead to a lack of self-care and personal fulfillment. Lastly, we discuss the importance of turning to God's word to remind ourselves of our true identity and purpose and how having Bible verses written down and readily available can help combat negative thoughts and fears. Join us as we uncover the truth behind our emotional toxins and learn how to break free from the distractions that hold us back. Listen in to discover: How distractions are stealing your joy and purpose in your life Why your self-talk matters People pleasing: how it tears you down and ways to quit Creating a plan to discover God’s best for your life Billie Jauss is the author of two books, 'Making Room' and 'Distraction Detox'. She speaks nationwide and hosts 'The Family Room' podcast, which provides practical biblical guidance and challenging motivation for women who want to accomplish God’s best in their faith, family, and friendships. Billie and her husband, Dave, a professional baseball coach, spend the baseball season on the road and the off-season in southwest Florida. Connect with Billie: Let’s connect: I’d love it if you left a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts! Don’t forget – Be sure to subscribe and get new episodes on Have a great week! Melissa
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Parenting Through Anxiety: Navigating School Shootings and Fostering Resilience
04/14/2023
Parenting Through Anxiety: Navigating School Shootings and Fostering Resilience
This heartfelt episode explores the anxiety that arises from school shootings and their impact on parents and children. We discuss navigating our anxiety, promoting mental health, and processing emotions after such tragedies. Our guest, Dr. Jessica Peck, shares her experiences as a pediatric nurse practitioner and first responder in her community. We also touch on the importance of maintaining routines, incorporating fun activities, and fostering resilience in our children. We discuss age-appropriate ways to talk to children about school shootings, using guiding questions to empower them to make a difference. Additionally, we explore the importance of acknowledging our imperfections as parents and opening up to others about our struggles. We emphasize the need to normalize mental health conversations and check in on our children's mental health regularly. Join us as we dive into the complexities of parenting in a world where tragedy can strike at any moment and how we can help our children feel safe and supported through it all. As a pediatric nurse practitioner in primary care, over the last 20 years, has engaged, encouraged, equipped, and empowered families to raise holistically healthy kids. She guides parents to help navigate challenging parenting moments to escape shame and stigma with grace, hope, and courage. Listen in to learn more: The importance of emotional regulation and self-care for parents Trauma dumping: what is it and how to avoid it Questions to stay engaged with your kids: How are you feeling about what happened today? How do you think this personally impacts me? What can I do to make you feel safe? What can you do to make a positive difference? Ways to recognize unhealthy anxiety in yourself and your child For the full episode show notes, please go to my website -
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The Art of Awe: Rediscovering Enchantment in Our Anxious Lives :: [ Ep 145]
04/07/2023
The Art of Awe: Rediscovering Enchantment in Our Anxious Lives :: [ Ep 145]
If you feel burned out and helpless, this episode is for you! Today, we are sitting down and talking with Katherine May. Katherine offers advice from her new book, on how to reignite wonder in our everyday lives. She shares stories of her journey to rekindle her sense of wonder at a time when we so often feel burned out and helpless. is the New York Times bestselling author of , which has been translated into twenty-five languages worldwide. Her journalism and essays have appeared in a range of publications, including The New York Times, The Times (London), Good Housekeeping, and Cosmopolitan. She also hosts, She lives by the sea in Whitstable, England. Listen in to learn about: How is wonder about an antidote to anxiety Ways to reignite wonder in our everyday lives The healing power of rituals A remedy for those who are experiencing burnout For the full episode show notes, please go to my website -
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Healing Body Image Issues: A Conversation with Counselor Rachael Gilbert:: [Episode 144]
03/31/2023
Healing Body Image Issues: A Conversation with Counselor Rachael Gilbert:: [Episode 144]
This episode tackles the all-too-common issue of body image struggles, including shame and insecurity. Joined by fellow counselor and podcast host Rachael Gilbert, they dive into a body image renovation, exploring biblical perspectives on eating, fitness, and godly self-confidence. We also discuss the impact of addressing body image issues on our relationships and the importance of self-care, with Rachael sharing her personal experience and the importance of counseling and support from others. Join Melissa on this journey to overcome negative body image and embrace our God-given bodies and lives. Listen in to learn about: Ways to reframe your body image so you can appreciate how God views you How our body changes through the years Incorporating faith into our fitness routines and daily activities Encouragement for us to challenge our beliefs about our worth and value, The influence our words and behaviors have on our kids. For the full episode show notes, please go to my website -
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Breathe: Transforming Chaos to Calm with Bonnie Gray :: [Episode 143]
03/24/2023
Breathe: Transforming Chaos to Calm with Bonnie Gray :: [Episode 143]
Are you dealing with stress and anxiety? If so, this episode will be like a breath of fresh air for you! My special guest today, Bonnie Gray, is here to help bring the calm but also shares her practical tools to eliminate the chaos! Bonnie is a soul-care mentor, inspirational retreat speaker, and author of several books, including her most recent, Breathe: 21 Ways to Stress Less & Restore Chaos to Calm. Listen in to learn about: The 4 Rs that will transform moments of chaos to calm 3 lies that trigger anxiety & 3 truths to set you free The STOP Technique: 4 tips to ease pain + ruminating thoughts to help your body heal Why self-care and soul care are not selfish, but spiritual acts of faith For the full episode show notes, please go to my website -
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Healing after Sexual Trauma with Dr. Elizabeth Stevens :: [Episode 142]
03/17/2023
Healing after Sexual Trauma with Dr. Elizabeth Stevens :: [Episode 142]
Today’s episode is so important as we dive into the topic of unresolved trauma. Unfortunately, each of us will or has encountered some trauma in our lives. When we don’t process past experiences, we unknowingly get tied to the past when we don't explore and process past traumatic experiences. Dr. Elizabeth Stevens discusses PTSD, barriers to overcoming trauma, and her new book, Unshackled. TRIGGER WARNING – Dr. Stevens discusses her PTSD, trauma, and sexual assault. She doesn’t get specific, but if that triggers you, please feel free to skip this episode. Dr. Elizabeth Stevens is a retired United States Air Force major, board-certified psychiatrist, and trauma survivor. She served in the Air Force for ten years, reaching the rank of major before retiring due to a traumatic brain injury and post-traumatic stress disorder. After experiencing healing from her trauma and sifting through the various treatment modalities available, she developed a nonprofit called Advancing Warriors International. She created several programs to help veterans, military members, and emergency responders heal from the traumas they have experienced. In this episode, we discuss the following: The definition of trauma and PTSD Common forms of denial and how denial impacts the trauma process Barriers to healing The first step a trauma survivor can take to move toward healing The importance of self-awareness and self-care in the healing process Resources : Website: If you loved this episode, I’d love a 5-star review! Be sure to subscribe and get new episodes on . Melissa
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The Journey to Forgiveness with Rev. David Peterson :: [Episode 141]
03/10/2023
The Journey to Forgiveness with Rev. David Peterson :: [Episode 141]
This week on Thrive, we discuss an important path to your freedom: Forgiveness. Unforgiveness impacts not only your relationships but also your mind, body, and spirit. In today’s episode, we are talking with Rev. David Peterson about his new book: Journey to Forgiveness: 21 Milestones to Freedom. Listen in to learn about: Rev. David’s past abuse (*trigger warning: he does talk about his childhood sexual abuse) The journey of forgiveness How unforgiveness impacts the brain and body Myths about forgiveness Practical steps to start the forgiveness process Rev. David P. Peterson is an ordained pastor and board-certified chaplain with over thirty years of experience in ministry to 1congregations and chaplaincy experience in hospitals, fire/ems, law enforcement, and hospice. He provided emotional and spiritual care on the scenes of devastating events from 9/11 to school shootings and various community tragedies and in 1994, founded Shepherd’s Staff Pastoral Services, where he was able to provide spiritual care to thousands via chaplains he trained and placed at long term care facilities across the U.S. Great things we discussed today: Let’s connect: I’d love a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts if you loved this episode! Be sure to subscribe and get new episodes on YouTube. Have a great week! Melissa
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