Moments of Motherhood
Looking for community? Welcome to our virtual village! We’re more than just a podcast, we’re your source of mom connection. In our virtual village we’ll be spotlighting joyful motherhood moments while honoring the challenges we all face. We’re two best friends, mothering 8 kiddos between the two of us. We’ve been finding the best ways to support each other, fill our cups, and find balance in this beautiful life, even living over 300 miles apart. This all inspired the birth of our podcast. We are sharing our stories while searching for ways to learn, grow and support other moms postpartum and beyond. From navigating a pandemic, traveling with kids, scrunchy living, step-parenting, finding the new version of ourselves, and so much more. We are raw and we are real. And we hope you join us in creating a community that so many of us mommas yearn for. We can’t wait to heal and grow with you all through laughter and maybe some tears as we delve into motherhood together. Cheers to figuring shit out as we go.
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Our favorites: self-care, kids gear, and mom hack edition
05/04/2025
Our favorites: self-care, kids gear, and mom hack edition
motherhood, parenting, family, travel, kitchen gadgets, mom hacks, self-care, kids, coffee, sleep struggles, parenting, meal prep, self-care, strollers, parenting hacks, kids, family life, motherhood, organization, challenges In this episode of Moments of Motherhood, Bailey and Torie discuss their morning routines, sleep struggles with their children, and the chaos of family gatherings. They share their favorite kitchen gadgets and personal items that make motherhood easier, as well as practical mom hacks for everyday life. The conversation also touches on the challenges of traveling with kids, comparing strollers and wagons, and the importance of safety in water bottles. The episode is filled with relatable anecdotes and helpful tips for navigating the ups and downs of motherhood. In this engaging conversation, Bailey and Torie share their experiences and insights on parenting, focusing on practical tips for meal prep, efficient parenting hacks, and the challenges of maintaining self-care amidst the chaos of family life. They discuss their favorite strollers, strategies for managing kids' meals, and the importance of organization in daily routines. The conversation also touches on the struggles of potty training and the never-ending tasks of cleaning and laundry, all while finding moments for self-care and personal time
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A Positive Euphoric Home Birth: Bailey's story
04/26/2025
A Positive Euphoric Home Birth: Bailey's story
Motherhood, pregnancy, birth story, family travel, postpartum, parenting tips, home birth, midwifery, motherhood journey, family dynamics, home birth, labor experience, motherhood, birth stories, maternal health, birth ball, trusting your body, euphoric birth, pregnancy, postpartum Takeaways Bailey shares her experience of traveling with a large family. The importance of having a support system during pregnancy. Bailey's unique birth story and the challenges she faced. The significance of trusting one's body during labor. The emotional rollercoaster of pregnancy and postpartum. Traveling with young children can be chaotic but rewarding. The bond between mothers and their own mothers during childbirth. The impact of external pressures on a mother's birthing experience. The role of humor and laughter in coping with pregnancy stress. The beauty of a home birth and the connection with midwives. Bailey felt a calmness during her labor that was different from previous experiences. The birth ball provided incredible support and comfort during labor. Visualizing a positive birth experience helped Bailey release past traumas. The beauty of the natural birthing process can be magical and euphoric. Trusting one's body is crucial for a positive birth experience. Home birth can offer a more intimate and personal experience. Preparation and mental work are essential for a successful home birth. Exploring different birthing options can empower women in their choices. Motherhood is portrayed as a beautiful and transformative experience. Sharing birth stories can inspire and educate others about their options.
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The Road To Rhodes: Solo Motherhood And Entrepreneurship
04/16/2025
The Road To Rhodes: Solo Motherhood And Entrepreneurship
motherhood, entrepreneurship, coffee business, solo parenting, personal growth, community, challenges, motherhood journey, Rhodes Coffee Co., business plans In this episode of Moments of Motherhood, Torie interviews her sister Tricia, the founder of Rhodes Coffee Co. They discuss Tricia's unexpected journey into motherhood, the challenges of being a solo parent, and the evolution of her coffee business. Tricia shares her experiences during the pandemic, the emotional toll of running a business while raising a child, and her ambitious plans for the future, including a brick-and-mortar location and a roastery. The conversation highlights the importance of community, personal growth, and the sacrifices made in the pursuit of a fulfilling life as a mother and entrepreneur. 00:00Introduction to Motherhood Journeys 02:33Tricia's Unexpected Path to Motherhood 09:32The Depth of Maternal Love 12:40Building a Business as a Solo Mom 16:55The Challenges of Running a Mobile Coffee Business 24:41Reflections on 2024 and Future Plans 30:002025plans for Rhodes 34:40Balancing Motherhood and Business 36:54Transitioning to a New Business Model 39:32Plans for the Coffee Trailer 42:58Delegation and Employee Trust 50:42Future Aspirations and Business Growth 56:28Year-Round Coffee Culture 57:29The Personal Cost of Entrepreneurship 01:00:39Community and Connection 01:02:52Perceived Success and Business Growth 01:05:14Lightening the Mood: Fun Questions 01:14:34Setting Boundaries in Life and Business
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Season 2 Take 2
04/14/2025
Season 2 Take 2
In this episode of Moments of Motherhood, Bailey and Torie reconnect after a long hiatus, sharing personal updates about their lives, pregnancies, and the challenges of motherhood. They discuss the importance of prioritizing their passions while managing the chaos of family life, the impact of social media on their privacy, and the joys and struggles of postpartum experiences. The conversation highlights their enduring friendship and the evolution of their motherhood journeys, setting the stage for future episodes filled with relatable topics and stories. Takeaways The podcast is a passion project for both Bailey and Torie. Life has been busy and chaotic, but they are excited to return. Torie has started a new venture in permanent jewelry. Bailey is navigating postpartum life with her fourth child. Both women reflect on their friendship and shared experiences. They discuss the challenges of maintaining privacy on social media. Torie shares her pregnancy journey and how her boys are reacting. Bailey feels settled in her postpartum experience despite the chaos. They emphasize the importance of preparation for postpartum support. Future episodes will cover various motherhood topics and personal stories
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The secrets out!!!!
10/04/2024
The secrets out!!!!
In this episode of Moments of Motherhood, Bailey and Torie share personal updates, including Bailey's exciting pregnancy announcement. They discuss the challenges and joys of motherhood, the decision-making process regarding family size, and the surprises that come with pregnancy. The conversation also touches on their birth stories, midwifery, and plans for future episodes focusing on postpartum experiences and essential newborn care. Bailey is pregnant and excited to share her journey. Motherhood is challenging but deeply rewarding. The decision of how many children to have is personal and varies for each family. Surprises in pregnancy can add motivation during labor. Every birth experience is unique and can differ greatly. The importance of having a supportive midwife and birth team. Planning for a new baby involves many considerations, including gender. Postpartum experiences can vary and are worth discussing openly. The hosts plan to share their birth stories in future episodes. Community support is vital for families with multiple children motherhood, pregnancy, birth stories, postpartum, parenting, family, surprises, midwifery, motherhood journey, parenting challenges
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S2E1: How Did This Happen?
10/01/2024
S2E1: How Did This Happen?
Bailey and Torie discuss their hiatus from the podcast and the challenges they faced over the summer. They talk about the importance of being present and honoring themselves. They also share their experiences of traveling with kids and the adjustments they had to make when returning home. The conversation then shifts to Torie's son starting kindergarten and the decision-making process around schooling options. They discuss the benefits of homeschooling and the possibility of using a charter school for support. In this conversation, Bailey and Torie discuss their experiences with homeschooling and the challenges of summer break. They also talk about their favorite TV shows and the importance of taking breaks for their sanity. They tease a big life update that they will share in the next episode. It's important to be present and honor yourself in order to maintain balance in life. Traveling with kids can be challenging, but it's important to prioritize their needs and find ways to make it enjoyable. Starting kindergarten can be a surreal and emotional experience for parents, but it's important to trust the decision you've made and be open to adjustments. Homeschooling and charter schools can provide flexibility and support for families who want more control over their children's education. Joining homeschooling groups and researching different options can help moms make informed decisions about homeschooling. Summer break can be overwhelming for moms, and it's okay to look forward to the start of school. TV shows can provide a much-needed escape and relaxation time for moms. It's important to take breaks for your sanity and prioritize self-care. Big life updates and changes can bring a mix of emotions, including sadness and excitement.
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S1E10: Friendship and Motherhood
07/06/2024
S1E10: Friendship and Motherhood
Torie and Bailey discuss various topics, including their matching outfits, a smelly car incident, the hock to a girl, and the challenges of making and maintaining friendships as mothers. They share personal stories and experiences, highlighting the importance of understanding and support from other moms. They also express gratitude for the positive feedback they have received from listeners and discuss their hopes for the podcast's growth. Finding new mom friends can be challenging, but it's important for support and connection. Reconnecting with old friends who are also mothers can be a great way to find unity again. It's important to put yourself out there and make an effort to meet new people. Facebook groups and meetups can be helpful for finding other moms in your area. It's also important to align with friends who share similar values and parenting ideologies. Building a community of supportive mom friends takes time, but it's worth the effort. Making and maintaining friendships as a mother can be challenging due to busy schedules and different dynamics. Motherhood is a common bond that transcends differences in lifestyles and backgrounds. Reconnecting with old friends can bring comfort and support during the motherhood journey. Positive feedback from listeners is encouraging and motivates the hosts to continue their podcast. The hosts appreciate the understanding and connection they have with other moms. Finding mom friends can be challenging, but it's important for support and connection. Reconnecting with old friends who are also mothers can be a great way to find unity again. Put yourself out there and make an effort to meet new people through Facebook groups and meetups. Align with friends who share similar values and parenting ideologies. Building a community of supportive mom friends takes time, but it's worth the effort.
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S1E9: Chill the F Out
06/26/2024
S1E9: Chill the F Out
In this conversation, Torie and Bailey discuss their plans for the summer and how they want to prioritize spending quality time with their children. They talk about the challenges of balancing household chores and responsibilities with enjoying the summer activities. Torie expresses her desire to be more present with her children and let go of the pressure to have a perfectly clean house. Bailey shares her plan of creating a summer bucket list with her kids and finding fun and affordable activities to do together. They both emphasize the importance of making fun memories with their children during the summer months. In this conversation, Bailey and Torie discuss their strategies for planning and structuring their summers with kids. They talk about the challenges of planning activities and outings, the importance of setting consistent rules and routines, and the benefits of having a rhythm and structure in their daily lives. They also share their experiences with traveling with kids and express gratitude for their partners' support. Overall, they emphasize the need to be flexible and go with the flow while still finding ways to create memorable experiences for their families. Prioritize spending quality time with your children during the summer. Let go of the pressure to have a perfectly clean house and focus on making fun memories. Create a summer bucket list with your kids to plan activities and adventures. Find affordable and enjoyable activities to do together as a family. Be present and fully engaged in the moment with your children. Plan one to two big activities that require more preparation and packing Set consistent rules and routines to create structure in daily life Be flexible and go with the flow when plans change or don't work out Find ways to create memorable experiences for your family Express gratitude for the support and help of your partner
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S1E8: Our Identity Crisis
06/09/2024
S1E8: Our Identity Crisis
In this conversation, Torie and Bailey discuss their identities as mothers and how it has changed their lives. They talk about the challenges of transitioning from their pre-motherhood selves and the importance of embracing their roles as moms. They also touch on the societal pressure to define oneself based on career or other external factors, and the need to focus on personal values and character instead. Overall, they emphasize the significance of finding contentment and fulfillment in being a mom while also recognizing the multifaceted nature of their identities. In this conversation, Torie and Bailey discuss their identities as mothers and how motherhood has shaped their sense of self. They explore the importance of aligning values in raising children and the deep-rooted characteristics that define who they are. They also discuss the societal pressure to define oneself solely as a mother and the need to embrace the multifaceted nature of their identities. The conversation highlights the self-assurance and growth that comes with motherhood and the challenges of navigating social media's superficiality. Overall, they emphasize the importance of being secure in one's values and finding fulfillment in the role of a mother. Becoming a mother can be a jolt awakening and a huge change in one's identity, especially for young moms who are still figuring out who they are. Being a stay-at-home mom can play a role in how one identifies, as the majority of their time is spent thinking about their children and family. Identifying solely as a mom is okay and can bring contentment, but it's important to also recognize and embrace other aspects of one's identity. Society often focuses on external factors like career or titles to define identity, but it's more important to focus on personal values and character. Finding fulfillment and contentment in being a mom while also exploring and embracing other aspects of one's identity is key to personal growth and happiness. Aligning values is crucial in raising children. Motherhood shapes one's sense of self and identity. Embracing the multifaceted nature of one's identity is important. Motherhood amplifies self-assurance and solidifies personal values. Navigating social media's superficiality can be challenging. Being secure in one's values and finding fulfillment in motherhood is essential.
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S1E7: Calling all Stepmoms
05/31/2024
S1E7: Calling all Stepmoms
The conversation covers the challenges and experiences of step-parenting, including the initial reluctance to be with someone with kids, the transition into a blended family, the complexities of co-parenting, and the impact of custody battles. It also delves into the emotional and practical aspects of being a step-parent, the dynamics of the family, and the legal and financial challenges faced. The conversation delves into the challenges of being a step-parent, navigating high-conflict co-parenting, and the emotional toll it takes. It also explores the impact on family dynamics, personal sacrifices, and the importance of finding peace and setting boundaries. The conversation ends with a call to action for engagement on social media. Initial reluctance to be with someone with kids Transition into a blended family Complexities of co-parenting Emotional and practical aspects of being a step-parent Dynamics of the family Legal and financial challenges in step-parenting Navigating high-conflict co-parenting can be emotionally challenging and may require setting firm boundaries. The impact of family dynamics and personal sacrifices in the context of step-parenting is significant and often overlooked. Finding peace and letting go of control can be essential for the well-being of step-parents in high-conflict situations.
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S1E6: 20 Questions
05/25/2024
S1E6: 20 Questions
In this episode, Torie and Bailey play a fun game of 'this or that' to get to know each other better. They discuss their daily routines, favorite foods, and self-care practices. They also share their opinions on vaccinations and talk about their guilty pleasures. In this conversation, Bailey and Torie discuss their favorite activities, what they would do with a kid-free weekend, their ideal parenting styles, and funny moments with their kids. They also touch on topics like step-parenting and screen time for children. Getting outside in nature and doing workouts are important self-care practices for Torie while Bailey values alone time Both avoid consuming anything out of plastic and try to buy organic Torie and Bailey have similar "guilty pleasures" Self-care activities can range from going to the spa to having a relaxing bath at home Having a kid-free weekend allows parents to recharge and enjoy some alone time Parenting styles can vary, but it's important to lead with love and set loving boundaries Step-parents can have equal disciplining rights as the bio parent, depending on the family dynamics Screen time for children should be monitored and limited, with a focus on appropriate content
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S1E5: Mom Rage
05/16/2024
S1E5: Mom Rage
Torie and Bailey discuss mom rage and their personal experiences with it. They talk about the triggers for mom rage, such as lack of sleep and feeling unsupported, and how it manifests in their lives. They share their reactions and coping mechanisms. The conversation highlights the importance of self-awareness and finding ways to regulate intense emotions. Mom rage can be triggered by various factors, including lack of support, hormonal imbalances, and postpartum challenges. It is important for mothers to find healthy outlets to release their anger and frustration. Communication and validation from partners are crucial in managing mom rage. Apologizing and making repairs with children after experiencing mom rage can help them understand that it is not their fault.It is important for mothers to be open with their children about their emotions and to apologize when necessary.
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S1E4: It's Giving Mother's Day
05/12/2024
S1E4: It's Giving Mother's Day
Mother's Day, maternal figures, breakfast in bed, social media trend, celebrating all mothers, gardening, outdoor projects, bond between mothers and children Mother's Day should be celebrated for all maternal figures, including grandmothers, aunts, and step-parents. Thoughtful gestures and acts of service, such as breakfast in bed, can make Mother's Day special. The trend on social media that suggests Mother's Day should only be celebrated by mothers currently in the trenches of motherhood is not inclusive and overlooks the importance of all maternal figures. Gardening and outdoor projects can be therapeutic and enjoyable activities on Mother's Day. The bond between mothers and their children is unique and evolves over time. Motherhood is a continuous journey of growth and learning.
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S1E3: Let's Talk Mom Guilt...
05/08/2024
S1E3: Let's Talk Mom Guilt...
Summary In this episode, Torie and Bailey discuss the topic of mom guilt. They share their personal experiences and thoughts on the subject, including the influence of social media on mom guilt. They also touch on the guilt associated with step-parenting. Overall, the conversation highlights the common struggles and pressures that mothers face, and the importance of finding ways to release guilt and prioritize self-care. The conversation explores the complex emotions and challenges of being a step-parent and blending families. They discuss the guilt they feel in balancing their own children with their step-children and the difficulties of navigating high-conflict situations. They also touch on the topics of mom rage and the impact of hormones on emotions. The episode ends with a segment on gratitude. Mom guilt is a common struggle for many mothers, and it can be influenced by social media and societal pressures. Mothers often question if they are doing enough and worry about making mistakes in their parenting. It's important to find a balance between seeking advice and support from social media and not letting it overwhelm or contribute to mom guilt. Guilt around parenting choices, such as extracurricular activities and sleep training, can be alleviated by recognizing that every family is different and there is no one-size-fits-all approach. Step-parenting can also come with its own unique set of guilt and challenges, requiring open communication and understanding within the blended family. Step-parenting and blending families involve many layers and challenges. Balancing the needs of your own children with your step-children can lead to feelings of guilt. High-conflict situations can make it difficult to co-parent effectively. Mom rage is a real and often unspoken experience for many mothers. Hormones, especially during breastfeeding, can contribute to emotional fluctuations. Practicing gratitude can help shift perspective and bring positivity to challenging situations.
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S1E2: Where's the Village?
05/08/2024
S1E2: Where's the Village?
Bailey and Torie discuss the importance of creating a virtual village for mothers. They share their own experiences of motherhood and the challenges they faced without a physical support system. They express their desire to connect with other mothers and create a community through their podcast and social media platforms. The conversation highlights the need for solidarity, learning, and growth among mothers, and the power of coming together to uplift and support each other. Takeaways The pandemic has highlighted the need for a virtual village for mothers who lack a physical support system. Creating a community of like-minded mothers can provide solidarity, learning, and growth opportunities. The virtual village can serve as a platform for mothers to connect, share experiences, and support each other. Motherhood is a journey of self-discovery and finding one's identity beyond being a mother. The virtual village can help mothers navigate the challenges of parenting and find joy in the journey.
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S1E1: Meet Your Millennial Moms
05/08/2024
S1E1: Meet Your Millennial Moms
In this episode, Torie and Bailey introduce themselves and their podcast, Moments of Motherhood. They discuss their journey to motherhood and their current roles as stay-at-home moms. They emphasize the importance of building a virtual village and creating a space where moms can connect and feel seen and heard. Torie and Bailey share their struggles and joys in motherhood, including the lack of sleep, learning to let go of control, and navigating sibling dynamics. They express gratitude for the newborn phase, the curiosity and love of their children, and the support they receive from friends and family. Takeaways Building a virtual village is important for moms to connect and feel seen and heard. Motherhood is a journey of both struggles and joys. The newborn phase is cherished for its cuddles and cuteness. Letting go of control and slowing down is a challenge but necessary in motherhood. Sibling dynamics and learning to respond to challenging behaviors are ongoing struggles. Gratitude and being present in the little moments help navigate the challenges of motherhood. Support from friends and family is crucial in pursuing passion projects and personal growth.
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Introducing Moments of Motherhood
05/07/2024
Introducing Moments of Motherhood
Sharing a brief overview of what Moments and Motherhood is all about. We hope you come along on our journey!
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