Sex and The Cincy
"Sex and the Cincy" is your backstage pass to the wild, messy, and oh-so-relatable world of modern dating in Cincinnati. From first-date disasters, to deep dives on love, heartbreak, and everything in between, this podcast spills it all. No scripts, no filters—just real talk about finding love (or at least a good story) in the Queen City.
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He Was Perfect!—Except for the Girlfriend....
04/24/2025
He Was Perfect!—Except for the Girlfriend....
Heyyyy Cincinnati! What do you get when you mix a “I will not have sex before marriage” mindset, with a horny teenager??? Find out on today's episode. I am diving in with Katie, who, like me, has religious trauma when it comes to purity culture. BUT her journey was WAY more interesting than mine. I’m talking boys who start fights at her party, only to get comforted by another woman, to finding the love of her life, buuuut he has a girlfriend…. Tune in to find out what happens. Don’t forget to listen until the end for What Would Jae Say! Her segments dive deeper into the episode, and give ammaaazzzinggg advice to us out here. ✨Meet Katie ✨ Katie is a designer who loves all things creative, exciting, and outdoorsy. She has journeyed through a wide range of adventures and experiences - listening to bad chastity talks, retiring from virginity, breaking into a house, finding love, and bartering with GOD HIMSELF (???) (the nerve!) - and is sharing what she wishes she would have known along the way. What Would Jae Say?! with Cincinnati's Jae Washington 😍 Follow the OFFICIAL #WWJS Instagram! @What_Would_Jae_Say Follow Jae - @seasonedinthecity Visit Jae's Website: For more fun content, follow on Sex and the Cincy Pod on Instagram @SATCINCY Todays Sponsor: Barbie™: A Cultural Icon exhibition at the Cincinnati Museum Center! #BarbieAtCMC More than a doll. A cultural icon. Step back into your childhood and join us on a six-decade evolution and the making of a global phenomenon. Curated and toured by Illusion Projects Inc., curated by Karan Feder, in partnership with Mattel Inc. Tickets:
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Let's Talk About Sex Baybeeeee! (No really, like, we need to talk about it)
04/17/2025
Let's Talk About Sex Baybeeeee! (No really, like, we need to talk about it)
Heyyyy Cincinnati! I hope you’re talking about sex. Especially with your partners. Why? Because communication will only make sex more engaged, enjoyable, and honestly, f****** better. (no pun intended) Being shy or uncomfortable is human, but sex is normal and nothing to be ashamed of. So let's talk about it. OH, and dont forget to listen until the end for #WWJS! She has some TRUTHS to spill. #WWJS with Cincinnati's Jae Washington 😍 Follow Jae - @seasonedinthecity Visit Jae's Website: For more fun content, follow the Sex and the Cincy Pod on Instagram @SATCINCY
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Feelings, F*ckboys, and.... Felons????
04/10/2025
Feelings, F*ckboys, and.... Felons????
Heyyyy Cincinnati! I sat down with two besties, and this conversation went EVERYWHERE! From dates with felons (oops) to situationships that left broken hearts, and the fun, great sex that keeps us soooooo hooked. This episode is so fun, and dont forget to listen until the end for #WWJS! ✨ Meet Amy and Karla! ✨ Hi, I’m Karla! I’m 55, and I have been single for years and years. And all kinds of stages in between! Hey, there loyal listeners. I am Amy—mom, daughter, sister, aunt, and your truest ride-or-die. I turned 50 this year (and honestly, I’m just getting started). After a decade post-divorce and a long, painful journey in an unhealthy relationship, I’m finally rediscovering the real me, underneath it all. I’m learning to sit in peace, laugh a little louder, and love myself harder. I love deep conversations, unexpected laughs, and connecting over the beautiful mess of life, love, and family. If you’ve got wisdom to share—or think my kind of quirky might be your kind of cute—I’d love to hear from you. #where_do_you_go_over_50 #speed_dating_fail #no_more_felons #jeff_rubys_single_happyhour #WWJS - With Cincinnati's Jae Washington 😍 Follow Jae - @seasonedinthecity Visit Jae's Website:
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Please for the Love of God... Get Consent for Fetishes....
04/03/2025
Please for the Love of God... Get Consent for Fetishes....
Heyyyy Cincinnati! Today’s episode discusses the CRAZY side of getting back into the dating scene after a divorce. The wild ride after a long-term relationship is one to buckle up for, sure. Buuuuut the amazing side is now, knowing what you want. We dont have time for bullsh**! ✨ Meet Katie ✨ Hi, I am Katie, and navigating being newly divorced and single again. Dating in this new era is not for the faint of heart! I’m 45 with 2 beautiful daughters and have found my second lease on life 🙂 I would describe myself as a champion for females and driven by our endless abilities that are ever changing as we do life. I try to absorb as much wit and wisdom as I dispense, always making sure to make it fun along the way. Tits up! I’d love to connect with all of you! You can find me on IG @KatieBailey and on TikTok @katie_bailey29 #WWJS with Cincinnati's Jae Washington Follow Jae - @seasonedinthecity Visit Jae's Website: For more fun content, follow on Sex and the Cincy Pod on Instagram @SATCINCY
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Conventional Dating??? *GAAAGGG*
03/27/2025
Conventional Dating??? *GAAAGGG*
Heyyyy Cincinnati! Today's episode is ALL about empowerment. Empowerment to date how YOU want to. There’s pressure for all of us to live conventionally. But what happens if you want to break the norm and live more authentically to yourself? Spoiler alert.... nothing but great things. ✨ Meet Kari ✨ I come from a conservative, Christian background and have spent many years deprogramming all of the beliefs I was spoon fed. I love empowering people to build a life where having a partner is optional. I am in a relationship and it’s unconventional. It is based on what I ultimately need and want. My partner is a small piece of the pie of my life and it’s definitely been the most fulfilling and peaceful relationship I’ve ever had with a man. Resources mentioned: The Hay Stack Method #WWJS with Cincinnati's Jae Washington Follow Jae - @seasonedinthecity Visit Jae's Website: For more fun content, follow on Sex and the Cincy Pod on Instagram @SATCINCY
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Weekend Getaway, Turned Horror Story
03/20/2025
Weekend Getaway, Turned Horror Story
Today’s episode is a WILLLLLLDDDDDD ride. You guys… today's guest, Molly, went THROUGH it. From fake calls to vengeful soda-filled hot tub….. It was a 💩 show….dare I say….. literally? Just listen, you’ll get it…. ✨ Meet Molly ✨ Heyyy Cincinnati, it’s Molly. 💕 I’m 23 and singleee. I’ve been doing this “dating” thing since 2020 so about 5 years and I have had ZERO success. I’m in college and currently an educator for the city's district. I have no kids but plan on it in the future ! I hope you enjoy the episode.💕 📲 Follow Molly on IG @MOLLYX.X3 ❄️🔥 Today's Sponsor is Chill Rx Cryotherapy in Kenwood! They're giving away your first session of either the Cryotherapy Chamber or Slim Pod, for just $10 when you mention Sex and the Cincy Podcast!💋 Visit for more info. #WWJS with Cincinnati's Jae Washington Follow Jae - @seasonedinthecity Visit Jae's Website: For more fun content, follow Sex and the Cincy Pod on Instagram @SATCINCY🎙
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Are you Screwed Being “Too Happy” Alone?
03/13/2025
Are you Screwed Being “Too Happy” Alone?
Yes, you can be single by CHOICE. Why is it that we worry sooo much about what people think about us as single people? There’s this stigma that singleness automatically equates to this idea that we are lonely and sad. When in reality, all it means is that we are in full control of our lives. Today’s guest Sean is romanticizing his life through his travels, connections, and hot flings he may run into in the wild world of a nomad 👀 ✨ Meet Sean ✨ Sean Huncherick is a writer, long-term traveler, and maker of questionable decisions currently starting year three of nomadic life. He is single and available for kissing. Follow him on Instagram at @IndependentPlanet for travel stories or @SeanWithCats for quality cat content. #WWJS with Cincinnati's Jae Washington Follow Jae - @seasonedinthecity Visit Jae's Website: For more fun content, follow on IG at satcincy!
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Staying is Hard, Leaving is Hard. Choose Your Hard.
03/06/2025
Staying is Hard, Leaving is Hard. Choose Your Hard.
Sometimes, the greatest act of love is choosing yourself. On today's episode, I sat down with Cincy IT girl Maria the Wild — like, WHAT?! 🤯 We got real real about how hard it can be to walk away from a relationship when there's so much history. From leaving a marriage to toxic situationships, Maria opened up about what it took to finally choose HER — and the amazing doors that have opened up ever since. If you've ever felt stuck, this episode will have you feeling sooooooo seen. ✨ Meet Maria ✨ Meet Maria the Wild, a travel content creator and adventure-seeker based in Cincinnati. She’s always on the move, having explored over 40 countries and has created her own group tour company, Wild World Tours. Whether it’s showcasing fun things to do in Cincinnati, zipping through OTR on her motorbike, dancing at music festivals, hiking in nature, or unwinding at yoga classes, she’s all about immersive experiences. Having previously been married, she left it all behind to embrace her wild side, and is intentionally staying open to new experiences this year. She’s just embarked on a solo backpacking trip to Asia, so follow her on Instagram to hear more about it (@mariathewild). Guess what! If you’d like to travel with Maria on a group tour, she gave us a special discount for listeners - use the code SEXYCINCY for $100 off any of her tours: wildworldtours.info #WWJS with Cincinnati's Jae Washington Follow Jae! @seasonedinthecity Visit Jae's Website: For more fun content, follow on IG at satcincy! ❄️🔥Todays sponser is Chill Rx Cryotherapy in Kenwood! They're giving away your first session of either the Cryotherapy Chamber, or Slim Pod, for just $10 when you mention Sex and the City 🙂↕️💋 Visit for more info.
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Wait... you like Sex? Whore.
02/27/2025
Wait... you like Sex? Whore.
Heyyyyy friends!! Did you know I was raised in a cult? And they think sex is a BIG no no..... I think you need to know a little bit more about your host, (me) to understand why talking about dating, relationships, casual sex, etcccc is SO important to your girl. WARNING: This episode should probably not be played if you have kids in the car. If you have triggers around child abuse or anxiety, you might want to use your best judgment as well. Note to the listener: If you struggle with issues stemming from purity culture, you are seen. you are loved. and NOTHING is wrong with you <3 Follow me on IG @satcincy for more fun content.
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First Dates from Hell
02/20/2025
First Dates from Hell
We are DIVING into bad dates from a woman's perspective. From immediate love bombing, to all of a sudden being a "b****" for turning down a second date... Are we all experiencing the same reality of terrible first dates???? Meet Nika! Nika Umnov was born and raised in Cincinnati, and works as a design researcher in the area. Before she found her current partner, she went on a bunch of first dates, which makes her an unofficial expert. When she’s not at her job, she likes to climb, work on her small business selling ceramic lamps, and try new crafts! Follow Nika: @frootybird and @frootybirdstudio
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Respect over Love, Dating with Confidence, with Jae Washington - "Seasoned in the City"
02/13/2025
Respect over Love, Dating with Confidence, with Jae Washington - "Seasoned in the City"
Have you ever walked away from a conversation feeling like "DAMN. I am about to put in some WORK because my perspective is about to chaaaaaange....."? Because that is exactly how I felt after talking with Jae. Jae brought so much wisdom to our conversation, and genuinely made me feel so seen and heard with some of the dating issues I have as a 'people pleaser.' Not only that, but she made me want to extend more grace towards others (when appropriate) in the dating scene. HUGE thank you to Jae, trust me, you won't wanna miss this one. About Jae: My name is Jae Washington and I am the Principal Consultant of Birdie in the Hand, LLC. I started this company because I believe in the power and effectiveness of redefining culture by cultivating a new state of B.E.I.N.G (ask me about that acronym). As a committed consultant and coach, I specialize in fostering a mindful ethos that drives tangible results. My ability to prioritize and strategize the unique needs and concerns of clients offers the opportunity to align and successfully establish, achieve, and sustain goals. Through an action-focused approach, I prioritize ownership, collaboration, and cross-functional alignment, laying the foundation for sustainable practices that yield measurable ROI and outcomes. I offer individual coaching, comprehensive leadership development training, expert facilitation of group workshops and themed webinars, ensuring a holistic approach to transformation. Follow Jae on IG! @seasonedinthecity
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He Cheated... I stayed....
02/09/2025
He Cheated... I stayed....
And just like that.....Episode number ONE?! Wowowow, are you excited? I am... Starting off strong with the JUICE and LORE of Lolli. For those who get triggered by the subject of cheating, you may want to skip this one, BUT I hope this is helpful to some. I used to struggle with the guilt of staying after finding out I was cheated on. "Why did I waste time with this person?" "Why did I choose to forgive?" "What could've been if I left?!" The truth is, I don't know where I would be. I don't know WHY I stayed. But it led me here, and I loooooove where I'm at now. FOLLOW MEEEEE on Insta! Find anything else you would need in my bio @satcincy
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Introducinggggg... Sex and the Cincy!
01/29/2025
Introducinggggg... Sex and the Cincy!
Who? What? Where? When? Why?! And just like that....Sex and the Cincy is HERE and I can't wait to share it with you. New episodes every Thursday, and follow me on Instagram for backstage info, events, and for a chance to be on the pod! @Satcincy.
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