Love and Money Podcast

Love and money impact every part of a woman’s life, and you deserve to feel confident about both. On the Love and Money Podcast, forensic accountant and financial expert Tracy Coenen brings you real, relatable conversations about relationships, divorce, and all things money. From protecting your finances in love to building wealth on your own, you'll get the tools and advice you need to create lasting financial security at every stage of life.

Create Your Love and Money Plan 01/06/2026

Love, Money, and Power: Have It All and Make No Apologies with Lisa Chastain 12/30/2025

Financial Confidence: Going from Uncertainty to Empowerment with Lina Sanchez 12/23/2025

Silent Saboteur: How Unhealed Betrayal Hijacks Your Life's Biggest Transitions with Lora Cheadle 12/16/2025

Every Financial Problem is Fixable with Nicole Stanley 12/09/2025

Smart Money Moves for Women in Relationships with Shari Rash 12/02/2025

Smart Money Moves for Women in Relationships with Shari Rash Tired of being told to stop buying lattes in order to build wealth? Us too. In this episode, Tracy Coenen sits down with Shari Rash, financial advisor, podcast host, and creator of the Everyone’s Talkin’ Money Club, for a real conversation about money, relationships, and ditching outdated financial advice that doesn’t speak to women. Shari believes women don’t need lectures or judgment about their spending. What we need is a strategy that fits real life. Whether you're the primary breadwinner, a stay-at-home mom, or somewhere in between, Shari’s approach helps you understand your money without shame and take smart steps toward financial independence. This episode is packed with practical, relatable advice to help you stop feeling behind and start feeling in control. What you'll learn in this episode: Why traditional budgeting fails and what actually works How to create a “spending strategy” instead of depriving yourself Why values-based budgeting helps you align your money with your life How to talk to your partner about finances... without the fight Smart ways to protect yourself financially in relationships and marriage You don’t have to understand Wall Street to take control of your wallet. Shari breaks down the emotional side of money and shows how to create a system that supports your goals, your lifestyle, and your peace of mind. How to take back financial control: Understand your “money language” and find advisors who speak it too Use the 50/30/20 rule as guardrails, not handcuffs Know the difference between a need, a want, and a wish Set up money dates and start talking with your partner early and often Don’t wait for a crisis to get involved in your household finances Tune in now to learn how to create a healthy, empowered relationship with your money on your terms. Check out Join Shari’s Everyone’s Talkin’ Money Club: Listen to her podcast: Connect with Shari on LinkedIn: /episode/index/show/360658da-dba8-4187-b651-c601193a0693/id/38499205

The Most Costly Divorce Mistakes with Mardi Winder-Adams 11/25/2025

Escape Emotional Shopping with Paige Pritchard 11/18/2025

Escape Emotional Shopping with Paige Pritchard We’ve all been there: Feeling stressed, overwhelmed, or just bored, and suddenly, an online shopping spree feels like the perfect pick-me-up. You may have told yourself, “This is the last time I’m impulse shopping!”… Only to do it again a few days later. But what happens when impulse shopping becomes a habit? Paige Pritchard, the creator of Overcoming Overspending, helps women break the cycle of emotional spending and take back control of their money. Paige knows from experience that willpower alone isn’t enough to stop overspending. After struggling with impulse shopping in her 20s, Paige developed a proven framework to help women understand why they shop emotionally and break the cycle for good. If you’ve ever found yourself saying, “Just one more purchase won’t hurt,” this interview is for you! Hear Paige’s insights on: The psychology behind shopping addiction and why it’s not just about discipline The “Screw It” mentality... why we keep spending even when we know we shouldn’t How retailers and social media fuel impulse shopping and how to fight back The dopamine trap.. why shopping feels so good in the moment but leads to regret later The real reason cutting up your credit cards doesn’t work Paige’s four-phase process for breaking free from overspending Overspending isn’t just about willpower. It’s about learning how to process emotions in a healthier way. Paige shares how to identify why you’re shopping, take back control, and stop relying on shopping for comfort or validation. Here’s how you can escape the emotional shopping cycle: Recognize your shopping triggers: stress, boredom, loneliness, or comparison. Pause before purchasing. Delay buying for 24 hours to see if you really want it. Create a “splurge fund” so you can spend guilt-free without sabotaging your finances. Celebrate small wins. Every time you resist impulse shopping, you’re building a new habit. Find healthier coping mechanisms like journaling, movement, or deep breathing instead of shopping. Paige’s coaching program, Overcoming Overspending, has helped thousands of women build healthier money habits. Check out her FREE masterclass, Escape Emotional Shopping here: /episode/index/show/360658da-dba8-4187-b651-c601193a0693/id/38114910

Conquering Your Fear of Money: Steps Toward Financial Confidence with Tracy Malone 11/11/2025

Take Care of the Other D Word After Divorce: Debt with Natalia Brown 11/04/2025

Take Care of the Other D Word After Divorce: Debt with Natalia Brown Divorce can wreak havoc on your finances, and for many people, debt is the biggest financial burden they face post-divorce. Between legal fees, credit card debt, and splitting financial responsibilities, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed. But there are ways to take control and get back on track. Natalia Brown, Chief Compliance and Consumer Affairs Officer at National Debt Relief, has helped thousands of people regain financial stability, and in this episode, she’s here to share how to tackle debt strategically and confidently. Natalia is breaking down your options, clearing up misconceptions about debt relief, and helping you move forward financially after divorce. What you’ll learn in this conversation: Why divorce often leaves women with a higher share of the debt, and how to navigate it The truth about debt settlement vs. debt consolidation Why a divorce decree does NOT protect you from creditors if your name is on the debt How to handle joint debt from your marriage without ruining your credit Why minimum payments keep you stuck and how to break free How debt settlement works, and when it’s a better option than bankruptcy The first steps to creating a debt payoff plan that actually works You are NOT stuck in debt forever. Natalia shares the best strategies for taking control of your financial situation, even if you feel like you’re drowning. How to tackle debt after divorce: Know your financial responsibilities. Creditors don’t care about divorce decrees. Explore refinancing or balance transfers to get debt off your name where possible. Consider debt relief options like settlement or consolidation if payments are unmanageable. Take action sooner rather than later. Ignoring debt only makes it worse. Remember: There’s NO shame in asking for help. Financial recovery is possible. If you feel overwhelmed by credit cards, loans, or divorce-related debt, there are solutions that don’t require shame or struggle. Look at debt relief options, negotiation strategies, and smart financial planning to get you back on track. Natalia and her team at National Debt Relief specialize in helping people take back control of their finances. Learn more about their debt solutions and expert advice here: /episode/index/show/360658da-dba8-4187-b651-c601193a0693/id/38114895

Love the Way You Spend with Shane Walker 10/28/2025

The Invisible Load: How Unpaid Labor is Destroying Womens Marriages and Lives with Paige Connell 10/21/2025

Argue Your Way to a Wealthier Relationship with Shannah Game 10/14/2025

Argue Your Way to a Wealthier Relationship with Shannah Game You’ve been told that fighting about money leads to divorce, but what if arguing (the right way) actually makes your relationship stronger? Shannah Game, the award-winning host of Everyone’s Talkin’ Money podcast and the author of Unraveling Your Relationship with Money: Ditch Your Money Trauma So You Can Live an Abundant Life, is flipping the script on financial conflicts. Money fights aren't really about money. They’re about power, security, and hidden fears. In this episode, Shannah reveals why healthy arguments about money can actually lead to better communication, deeper intimacy, and smarter financial decisions. Hear Shannah’s advice on how to make money arguments work for you: Why never fighting about money is actually a red flag How to turn financial disagreements into productive conversations Why keeping finances separate won’t prevent disagreements, and what actually will The importance of “money dates” and weekly financial check-ins with your partner How to recognize and heal financial trauma so it doesn’t sabotage your relationship The best way to talk about money with your partner without blame or shame A simple framework to improve financial communication in any relationship Avoiding money talks won’t make problems go away. Honest, open communication will. Shannah shares practical tools for turning financial tension into meaningful connection. How to argue about money (the right way): Use “I” statements. “I feel anxious when…” instead of blaming your partner. Be transparent. Even if you have separate accounts, you still need full visibility. Check in weekly. Small, consistent conversations prevent financial surprises. Set shared financial goals. When you’re both working toward something, it’s easier to align. Get curious, not defensive. Understanding your partner’s money story leads to better communication. Listen in now to learn how to stop avoiding financial conversations, and start using them to strengthen your relationship! Get Shannah’s book, Unraveling Your Relationship with Money: Ditch Your Money Trauma So You Can Live an Abundant Life: Follow her on Instagram for no-BS financial advice that actually works: @shannahgame /episode/index/show/360658da-dba8-4187-b651-c601193a0693/id/38114965

Divorce is Tough. Your Team Should Be Tougher with Dr. Barbara Provost and Maggie Nielsen 10/07/2025

Stop Fighting Yourself Skinny with Maggie Sterling 09/30/2025

Stop Fighting Yourself Skinny with Maggie Sterling For so many women, weight loss has been a lifelong battle. We fight our hunger, we fight our cravings, we fight the scale, and yet, we never seem to win. What if the real problem isn’t us, but the way we’ve been taught to approach food, dieting, and weight loss? If you’ve ever thought, “Why can’t I just lose the weight and keep it off?”… Maggie Sterling has the answer, and it’s not another diet. As a weight loss coach, she teaches women how to stop battling their bodies and start building a healthy relationship with food. Enough of counting calories and using extreme deprivation to drop some weight, only to see the weight come back sooner rather than later. Forget everything you’ve heard about dieting. Maggie reveals why willpower isn’t the answer, how diet culture has set us up to fail, why restrictive diets don’t work, and the surprising way to finally stop yo-yo dieting for good. In this interview, Maggie reveals the diet and nutrition secrets most weight loss coaches will never tell you: The real reason diets fail and what to do instead How diet culture has convinced women to obsess over food (and how to break free) Why emotional eating is the biggest roadblock to weight loss How social media and diet trends are making weight loss harder, not easier The one question to ask yourself when you catch yourself stress-eating Why you don’t need more willpower... you need a different approach What it means to partner with your body instead of fighting against it Losing weight shouldn’t feel like punishment. Maggie helps women break free from the binge-restrict cycle, rebuild trust with their bodies, and finally lose weight without obsession, guilt, or punishment. Get Maggie’s podcast roadmap here: https://www.vibewithmaggie.com/podcast-roadmap-form Check out Maggie’s VibeClub weight loss program: /episode/index/show/360658da-dba8-4187-b651-c601193a0693/id/37429705

Conversations With Your Financial Therapist with Erika Wasserman 09/23/2025

Conversations With Your Financial Therapist with Erika Wasserman If you've ever felt overwhelmed, confused, or ashamed when it comes to money, you're not alone. Most of us were never taught how to manage our finances or how to talk about them. That silence often turns into stress, avoidance, and big financial mistakes. In this episode, Tracy Coenen sits down with certified financial therapist Erika Wasserman, author of the brand new book Conversations With Your Financial Therapist. Erika is here to break down the emotional side of money, help you shift your mindset, and give you the tools to start powerful money conversations with your partner, your kids, or even just yourself. Whether you're rebuilding your life after divorce, navigating a new relationship, or finally getting serious about your finances, Erika shows you how emotional clarity leads to financial confidence. What You'll Learn in This Episode: What financial therapy is and how it can change the way you relate to money Why 90% of our money decisions are emotional, not logical How to identify the money mindset you inherited and start shifting it Why even smart, successful women often feel stuck or ashamed around money The best ways to start honest money conversations in your relationships Erika believes you don't need to know everything about money to take control of it. What you need is confidence, clarity, and a willingness to start where you are. How to Change Your Relationship With Money: Start with one small conversation and use prompts if you need them Notice your internal money story and challenge negative patterns Use storytelling to make money talks feel less awkward If your financial advisor doesn't make you feel heard, find a new one Focus on progress, not perfection. Financial healing is a journey Tune in now to hear Erika’s personal story of reinvention, learn how financial therapy works, and discover how to build a mindset that supports the life you want. Resources & Links: Get Erika's new book Conversations With Your Financial Therapist: https://amzn.to/3TITsY0 Learn more about Erika's work: https://www.yourfinancialtherapist.com Follow Erika on Instagram: @yourfinancialtherapist /episode/index/show/360658da-dba8-4187-b651-c601193a0693/id/37429435

Should I Divorce the House? with Tami Wollensak 09/16/2025

Bridging Love and Money with Jacqueline Howard 09/09/2025

Bridging Love and Money with Jacqueline Howard Money and relationships. These two things should go together seamlessly, but often they don't. Jack Howard knows this better than anyone. As a financial strategist with a passion for money psychology, she's on a mission to help people understand their financial behaviors and build a money mindset that fosters both love and wealth. In this interview, Jack shares the missing link in financial education: How money psychology impacts our financial decisions and relationships. She breaks down why budgeting doesn't work for everyone, how money stories shape our financial habits, and how couples can build financial intimacy instead of financial fights. Game-changing insights that Jack offered on love and money: Why money isn't just about budgets, it's about emotions and identity The most common financial conflicts in relationships and how to fix them. The one crucial money conversation every couple must have to avoid financial resentment How to have money conversations without guilt, blame, or frustration. Why knowing your “money story” helps you communicate better with your partner How money psychology can explain (and fix) your worst financial habits Why money date nights are the secret to financial harmony in relationships Talking about money with your partner doesn't have to be stressful. Jack shares practical tools for navigating financial conversations, understanding your own money mindset, and making financial decisions that support both your relationship and your long-term goals. How to strengthen your financial partnership: Schedule regular “money date nights” to talk about finances in a relaxed setting. Unpack your personal “money story” to understand your own financial habits. Use value-based spending instead of rigid budgeting to align financial goals. Create individual spending “splurge” accounts to prevent financial resentment. Practice active listening in financial discussions, not just problem-solving. Want to rethink your relationship with money? Follow Jack Howard's work at Ally Financial, where she's leading the charge on financial wellness with a modern, psychology-based approach. You can participate in their free Money Roots program here: /episode/index/show/360658da-dba8-4187-b651-c601193a0693/id/37231690

Cult in the Home: Coercive Control and Children with Dr. Christine Cocchiola 09/02/2025

Cult in the Home: Coercive Control and Children with Dr. Christine Cocchiola Coercive control isn't just about abuse, it's about power, manipulation, and psychological warfare, especially when children are involved. Dr. Christine Cocchiola has spent over 20 years advocating for survivors of coercive control, domestic abuse, and child welfare. A trauma-trained therapist and creator of The Protective Parenting Program, she's on a mission to educate parents about the hidden dangers of coercive control and how to protect their children from its long-term effects. In this eye-opening conversation, Christine reveals the insidious ways coercive controllers operate, how they manipulate children, and why family court often fails to protect the most vulnerable. Understanding coercive control and how it impacts children: What coercive control actually is and why it's the foundation of all abuse The subtle but dangerous ways coercive controllers manipulate kids Why family court often sides with abusers, and how to fight back The hidden ways coercive controllers turn kids against the protective parent How to support your children if they're being manipulated or emotionally abused Coercive controllers don't just abuse their partners, they weaponize children to maintain control. Dr. Cocchiola explains how to recognize it, protect your kids, and regain your role as their safe parent. How to protect your child from coercive control: Prioritize connection over correction. Your child's attachment to you is key. Recognize when your child is aligning with an abuser for survival. Stay emotionally regulated. Your child needs to see you as their safe space. Document everything. Coercive control thrives on secrecy and misinformation. Work with professionals who understand coercive control, not just standard custody cases. Get Dr. Cocchiola's FREE guide, Clinical Interventions for Children of Coercive Control: Dr. Cocchiola's Protective Parenting Program is designed to equip parents with the tools they need to navigate these incredibly difficult situations: If you're facing a high-conflict custody battle or worried about your child's safety, don't miss this interview. /episode/index/show/360658da-dba8-4187-b651-c601193a0693/id/37231640

The Power of Your Emotions with Erica Bennett 08/26/2025

From Breakup to Breakthrough: Surviving a Divorce as a Business Owner with Jen Yip 08/19/2025

DREAM: How Modern Couples Manage Money with Jessica and Brandon Norwood 08/12/2025

DREAM: How Modern Couples Manage Money with Jessica and Brandon Norwood Talking about money in relationships can feel awkward, stressful, or even scary. But what if it didn’t have to be? What if, instead of tension, financial conversations could bring couples closer together? If you ever wished your relationship came with a financial blueprint… Jessica and Brandon Norwood, hosts of The Sugar Daddy Podcast and a powerhouse financial couple, are here to share their D.R.E.A.M. Framework, a step-by-step system for couples to manage money together in a way that strengthens their relationship. Most couples struggle with money because they never learn how to talk about it. Jessica and Brandon reveal how they built wealth together, are becoming work-optional, and have created a financial plan that supports their dream life. From this interview, you’re going to learn: How to uncover your personal “money story”... the beliefs and experiences that shape how you handle finances today. Why so many couples fight about money and how to have healthier conversations. How to set long-term financial goals that actually excite you. The key to balancing different money personalities (spender vs. saver, anyone?). Why the concept of retirement is outdated and how to plan for a “work optional” lifestyle instead. The D.R.E.A.M. framework for couples: Dive into your past and uncover your money mindset Reflect on how your past influences your financial habits today Engage in open, honest money conversations with your partner Act on your plan, with clear steps to build the life you want Manage money as a team and keep adjusting your financial goals as life changes Jessica and Brandon help couples get on the same page financially and build wealth without resentment. Sign up for the Sugar Daddy Podcast newsletter and receive the DREAM Big Quiz to help you understand how aligned you and your partner are with your goals and finances: Check out financial planning with Brandon through his company, Oak City Financial: https://www.oakcityfinancial.us/ /episode/index/show/360658da-dba8-4187-b651-c601193a0693/id/37335420

Get Ready For Divorce Mediation with Tracy Coenen 08/05/2025

A Feminist Guide to Money in Marriage with Cindy DiTiberio 07/29/2025

Reinventing Yourself With a Mini-Retirement with Jillian Johnsrud 07/22/2025

Reinventing Yourself With a Mini-Retirement with Jillian Johnsrud What if instead of waiting until your 60s to retire, you could take meaningful breaks throughout your life? Imagine pausing your career for a month or two to travel, pivot careers, learn something new, or simply rest and reset. In this episode, Tracy Coenen sits down with Jillian Johnsrud, host of the Retire Often podcast and author of the new book Retire Often. Jillian has taken more than a dozen “mini-retirements” and is on a mission to help others escape burnout, reclaim their time, and build wealth and meaning along the way. From traveling the world to raising six children to buying real estate during a month off, Jillian has redefined what retirement looks like and why it shouldn’t be something we save for the end of life. If you’re navigating a big transition like divorce or career change, this episode will challenge how you think about work, money, and your timeline for success. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: What a mini-retirement really is and how it works How even a modest income can support intentional time off Why you don’t need to be wealthy or self-employed to take a break Ways to budget, save, and plan for your own mini-retirement How these breaks can actually increase your lifetime income Whether you're burned out, at a crossroads, or simply craving more purpose, Jillian offers practical, inspiring advice for pressing pause now, not someday. You don’t have to wait until 65 to live the life you’ve imagined. How to Make a Mini-Retirement Work for You: Plan a month off every few years instead of dreaming about “someday” Negotiate time away with your employer or schedule between jobs Think creatively about where and how you can afford to take time off Use your break to invest in yourself, your health, or your next chapter Focus on building a career and a life you don’t need to escape from Tune in now to learn how mini-retirements can help you avoid burnout, discover new possibilities, and live a more intentional life. Get Jillian’s new book Retire Often (out September 9): Listen to her podcast: Follow Jillian on Instagram: @jillianjohnsrud /episode/index/show/360658da-dba8-4187-b651-c601193a0693/id/37413205

Love and Leverage: Breaking Free from Financial Abuse with Kate Anthony 07/15/2025

Love and Leverage: Breaking Free from Financial Abuse with Kate Anthony Financial abuse is one of the most common but least recognized forms of domestic abuse. It’s also one of the most effective ways to keep someone trapped in a marriage. If you’ve ever been denied access to money, restricted in your spending, or told you're "bad with money" while your spouse controls every financial decision, you may be experiencing financial abuse. Kate Anthony, host of The Divorce Survival Guide podcast and author of The D-Word: Making the Ultimate Decision About Your Marriage, is here to expose the hidden ways financial control traps women in toxic relationships... and how to break free. Signs and solutions for financial abuse: How to identify financial abuse, even when it's disguised as "helping" The most common financial control tactics used in marriages How abusers sabotage your financial independence. From ruining your credit to blocking you from working The subtle ways financial abuse can show up in marriages that seem "normal" on the surface What to do if your spouse is hiding money or controlling access to finances Steps to reclaim financial independence before, during, and after divorce Many women don't realize they're experiencing financial abuse until they try to leave. Kate breaks down the red flags, the power dynamics, and the steps you must take to regain financial independence. This episode is a must-listen for anyone who feels financially trapped in their relationship. Kate's coaching programs empower women to make smart, informed decisions about their marriages and finances. If you're feeling stuck and need guidance, check out Phoenix Rising, Kate's group coaching program designed to walk you through some of the hardest parts of your divorce, in community with other women who are going through it too: Get Kate's book, The D-Word: Making the Ultimate Decision About Your Marriage: /episode/index/show/360658da-dba8-4187-b651-c601193a0693/id/36649320

The Midlife Career Remix with Bradley Richardson 07/08/2025

The Midlife Career Remix with Bradley Richardson Your career isn’t just a single path—it’s a series of chapters, reinventions, and pivots. But for many midlife professionals, the idea of starting over can feel overwhelming. Whether it’s by choice or by force, navigating career changes in your 40s, 50s, and beyond requires a whole new approach. Bradley Richardson is living proof that career shifts don’t mean failure—they mean growth. As a five-time bestselling author, speaker, and coach, Bradley helps people navigate the complexities of midlife career changes with confidence. From internet sales in the ‘90s to headhunting to personal development, he has embraced reinvention time and time again. In this episode, we break down the fears and myths around career changes in midlife, discuss why identity is so tied to work, and uncover the biggest mistakes people make when shifting careers. What you’ll walk away with from this conversation with Bradley: Why midlife career changes feel so personal, and how to separate your identity from your job The biggest mistake people make when trying to pivot— and what to do instead. How to fight back against age discrimination and position yourself as an asset in today’s job market Why traditional job applications won’t cut it and how to tap into the hidden job market How to leverage your experience and network to land new opportunities—without starting from scratch The key to negotiating your worth in a new industry Reinvention isn’t about starting over—it’s about using everything you’ve learned to create a new path forward. Bradley shares the mindset shifts and tactical strategies you need to take control of your next career move. Check out the Advanced Adulting Podcast: New episodes drop every Thursday, and the podcast offers a raw, unfiltered look at the realities, challenges, and joys of navigating life for those aged 45-65+. /episode/index/show/360658da-dba8-4187-b651-c601193a0693/id/36648675

Why You Can’t Get Out of Debt with Haley Brown-Woods 07/01/2025

Why You Can’t Get Out of Debt with Haley Brown-Woods If you’ve ever wondered why you keep paying off debt, only to rack it right back up... you’re not alone. The debt cycle is real, and it’s keeping millions of people trapped in financial stress. But breaking free isn’t just about cutting expenses or making bigger payments, it’s about changing your entire approach to money. Haley Brown-Woods, financial coach and co-founder of Price of Avocado Toast, helps people break the cycle of debt without extreme penny-pinching or deprivation. If you're tired of making payments but never making progress, this episode is for you! Whether it's credit cards, personal loans, or legal fees from your divorce, debt can feel like an endless trap. Haley reveals the most common mistakes people make when trying to get out of debt—and why most "quick fixes" only make things worse. What you’ll learn in this conversation: Why you keep falling back into debt even after paying it off The sneaky ways society pushes you into debt (hello, credit card points and balance transfers!) Why consolidating debt can actually make it harder to pay off How debt cycles work and why they’re so hard to escape. Why paying off debt isn’t just about numbers, it’s about psychology and behavior. The difference between spending mindfully and spending mindlessly. Getting out of debt isn’t just about making payments, it’s about changing the behaviors that put you there in the first place. Haley shares her personal story of overcoming massive debt and gives practical steps to help you stop the cycle once and for all. How to finally break the debt cycle: Stop relying on willpower and build a real plan instead. Cut the shame. Debt is a financial problem, not a moral failing. Get clear on your spending habits. Awareness is the first step to change. Make saving a priority. Having cash on hand stops you from turning to credit. Set up a system that makes debt freedom sustainable, not just temporary. Haley has helped families pay off over $3 million in debt and now she’s sharing her strategies with you. Get your free budgeting template here: Check out Haley’s financial coaching services: /episode/index/show/360658da-dba8-4187-b651-c601193a0693/id/36648605

Building Wealth as a Team with Bola Sokunbi 06/24/2025

Building Wealth as a Team with Bola Sokunbi Talking about money in a relationship can be uncomfortable. But what if you could turn those awkward conversations into a game plan for building real wealth.... together? In this episode of the Love and Money Podcast, Tracy sits down with Bola Sokunbi, founder of Clever Girl Finance and bestselling author of My Wealth Plan Workbook and the Clever Girl Finance series. Bola shares her personal journey of building financial independence and why empowering women with money is her life’s mission. Together, they dive into what it actually takes to manage money as a couple, get on the same page financially, and build wealth with intention, without losing your mind (or your marriage) in the process. This episode is packed with wisdom, heart, and practical strategies that couples at any stage of life can use to grow together financially. What you'll hear in this episode: Why joint finances don’t work for every couple, and what to do instead How to talk about money when one partner avoids it (or hates it) What to do when your financial styles don’t match The power of setting regular money “check-ins” as a couple How Bola and her husband balance shared goals with individual freedom Whether you’re just starting a life together, navigating money disagreements, or trying to rebuild after divorce, this episode will help you rethink how money and love can actually work side by side. How to build wealth as a team with your romantic partner: Create shared goals, but keep space for personal autonomy. Set a recurring time to talk about finances that works for both of you. Don’t force your partner to change. Lead by example and invite them in. Use each other’s strengths to divide and conquer financial tasks. Remember: money is a tool, not a power play. Tune in now to learn how to align your finances with your relationship, so you can build a future that works for both of you. Resources & Links: Explore over 30 free courses at Check out My Wealth Plan Workbook Follow Bola on Instagram: @clevergirlfinance /episode/index/show/360658da-dba8-4187-b651-c601193a0693/id/36822530

Everything You Know About Prenups Is Wrong with Aaron Thomas 06/17/2025

Everything You Know About Prenups Is Wrong with Aaron Thomas Prenups have a bad reputation. People assume they’re only for the rich, that they mean you don’t trust your partner, or that they’re just a plan for divorce. But what if a prenup could actually strengthen your marriage? Aaron Thomas, also known as Prenup Guy, is a Harvard Law graduate, award-winning family law attorney, and founder of Prenups.com. He’s worked with NBA Hall of Famers, Super Bowl winners, and Grammy-winning artists. Aaron is on a mission to change how couples view prenups, turning them into a tool for financial clarity rather than just an escape plan. This conversation is about busting the biggest myths about prenups and showing why they can actually save a marriage instead of doom it. You’ll walk away with knowledge about: Why every couple already has a prenup, even if they didn’t sign one. The biggest myths about prenups and why they’re completely wrong. How a prenup can actually protect the lower-earning spouse. The unexpected benefits of a prenup, including better communication and financial transparency. How prenups help prevent financial surprises and save both spouses from costly legal battles later. A prenup isn’t just about what happens if you get divorced, it’s about setting financial expectations for your marriage. Aaron breaks down why more couples are choosing prenups and how they can be a game-changer for your relationship. Key takeaways from this conversation: A prenup lets you decide your financial future. Not state laws. It’s not just for high earners. It protects both spouses. Prenups encourage better money conversations, leading to healthier marriages. The process is easier and more affordable than you think. Planning for financial success in marriage is smart, not cynical. This is an eye-opening interview that will change the way you think about prenups forever! Aaron’s firm, Prenups.com, helps couples across the country create fair, enforceable agreements with attorneys in every state. Get Aaron’s book, The Prenup Prescription: Meet the Premarital Contract Designed to Save Your Marriage, here: /episode/index/show/360658da-dba8-4187-b651-c601193a0693/id/36564725

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