Dear Old Dads

Hey kids, get ON our lawn! Dear old Dads is a podcast examining and deconstructing all things Dad. From parenting to patriarchy; manning the grill to manning up; Dear Old Dads asks – what even is a dad anyway? What does it mean to be a good man in today's world? What should it mean? Listen along as we definitely find the correct, concise answers to all these questions and more! Featuring Eli Bosnick, Thomas Smith, and Tom Curry!

DOD207: THE BOYS ARE BACK IN TOWN 06/06/2025

DOD207: THE BOYS ARE BACK IN TOWN We've got a very focused topic today because our dear Tom has some huge non-neck related news to share! It's like the 2nd or 3rd good news Tom has ever had! Then in the patron only story, Eli shares an emotional story about Max's birthday party. Join the Facebook Group! For comments, email This content is CAN credentialed, which means you can report instances of harassment, abuse, or other harm on their hotline at (617) 249-4255, or on their website at . /episode/index/show/47b2965d-764b-48e4-b219-44189baf0e3e/id/36887210

DOD206: Is Parenting Joyful? 05/30/2025

DOD206: Is Parenting Joyful? Oh boy, this is a big and important conversation all sparked by a listener email. That's right - you can launch incredible conversations like this one by sending your questions to our email (see below)! Today, the dads talk joy/lack of joy in parenting, and understanding that "just" loving our kids is not usually enough to fix when our kids go through something tough. Lots of real talk in this one; don't miss it! Join the Facebook Group! For comments, email This content is CAN credentialed, which means you can report instances of harassment, abuse, or other harm on their hotline at (617) 249-4255, or on their website at . /episode/index/show/47b2965d-764b-48e4-b219-44189baf0e3e/id/36784625

DOD205: Why Do Men Think They Can Fight Every Wild Animal?! 05/23/2025

DOD205: Why Do Men Think They Can Fight Every Wild Animal?! Another day, another wild animal that men think they can beat up. The dads discuss the latest trending animal fight - man v. gorilla...and spend a lot of time making monkey noises. Be sure and stay to hear all of those outtakes at the end! Join the Facebook Group! For comments, email For extended episodes, bonus content, and most importantly, for an AD FREE SHOW, make sure to ! This content is CAN credentialed, which means you can report instances of harassment, abuse, or other harm on their hotline at (617) 249-4255, or on their website at . /episode/index/show/47b2965d-764b-48e4-b219-44189baf0e3e/id/36694850

DOD204: A Poopy Pants Mother's Day 05/21/2025

DOD204: A Poopy Pants Mother's Day Attention all poopy pants boys, it was Mother's Day somewhat recently and the dads have stories to tell. Also Eli had another dad snuggle trip but this time it was more intimate. Maybe too intimate. /episode/index/show/47b2965d-764b-48e4-b219-44189baf0e3e/id/36654190

DOD203: Tom Is Gen X but His Neck Is From the Lost Generation 05/16/2025

DOD203: Tom Is Gen X but His Neck Is From the Lost Generation We all know Tom is old as shit. But did we know just how old? No. He's so old we're not sure they have a generation name for him. How does the generation we were born into shape our lives and perceptions? /episode/index/show/47b2965d-764b-48e4-b219-44189baf0e3e/id/36590325

DOD202: Does Society Tell Boys They're Bad? 05/09/2025

DOD202: Does Society Tell Boys They're Bad? A viral tweet made its way into the Dads Facebook group, so the dudes bring it onto the show to discuss. How hard is it to be a boy these days, and are folks like Andrew Tate successful just because they're swooping in to offer a different message than "boys are bad"? Join the Facebook Group! For comments, email For extended episodes, bonus content, and most importantly, for an AD FREE SHOW, make sure to ! This content is CAN credentialed, which means you can report instances of harassment, abuse, or other harm on their hotline at (617) 249-4255, or on their website at . /episode/index/show/47b2965d-764b-48e4-b219-44189baf0e3e/id/36505690

DOD201: Would You Let Your Kid Be a YouTuber? 05/02/2025

DOD201: Would You Let Your Kid Be a YouTuber? The dads answer a listener email - what should you do if your kid's friends have a YouTube channel and you're worried they might put your kid in some of their videos? Join the Facebook Group! For comments, email For extended episodes, bonus content, and most importantly, for an AD FREE SHOW, make sure to ! This content is CAN credentialed, which means you can report instances of harassment, abuse, or other harm on their hotline at (617) 249-4255, or on their website . /episode/index/show/47b2965d-764b-48e4-b219-44189baf0e3e/id/36408235

DOD200: We Absolutely Did Not Realize It Was Episode 200! WOOOO! 04/26/2025

DOD200: We Absolutely Did Not Realize It Was Episode 200! WOOOO! The dads discuss dieting with or without your partner. Is it ok to eat bad crap in front of them? Also GLP-1s. Oh also sorry this was late, the Smith household got COVID and it suuuuuucks Join the Facebook Group! For comments, email For extended episodes, bonus content, and most importantly, for an AD FREE SHOW, make sure to ! This content is CAN credentialed, which means you can report instances of harassment, abuse, or other harm on their hotline at (617) 249-4255, or on their website at . /episode/index/show/47b2965d-764b-48e4-b219-44189baf0e3e/id/36319625

DOD199: The Smiths Take Manhattan 04/23/2025

DOD199: The Smiths Take Manhattan Thomas has returned from a family "vacation" to New York City, which was simultaneously wonderful and insane. Also, Eli aka Mary Poppins aka Mrs. Doubtfire aka Pilsbury Doughboy (???) watched ALL of the Smith children one night and has stories to share. Join the Facebook Group! For comments, email For extended episodes, bonus content, and most importantly, for an AD FREE SHOW, make sure to ! This content is CAN credentialed, which means you can report instances of harassment, abuse, or other harm on their hotline at (617) 249-4255, or on their website at . /episode/index/show/47b2965d-764b-48e4-b219-44189baf0e3e/id/36274810

DOD198: The (Worst) Humans of New York 04/18/2025

DOD198: The (Worst) Humans of New York A shocking Humans of New York profile sparked today's episode. Don't want to say much more and spoil it. Each sentence was more insane than the last. These people walk among us and, indeed, outnumber us. Join the Facebook Group! For comments, email For extended episodes, bonus content, and most importantly, for an AD FREE SHOW, make sure to ! This content is CAN credentialed, which means you can report instances of harassment, abuse, or other harm on their hotline at (617) 249-4255, or on their website at . /episode/index/show/47b2965d-764b-48e4-b219-44189baf0e3e/id/36216455

DOD197: Loyalty Testers - Are the Monoggos ok? 04/11/2025

DOD197: Loyalty Testers - Are the Monoggos ok? All of the dads are back to chat about a concept called loyalty testers, what that means for the relationships that are being "tested", and what it says about the partner that employs the tester, the partner that is being tested, and the individual that does the testing. There's apparently an entire industry around this really terrible idea. Join the Facebook Group! For comments, email For extended episodes, bonus content, and most importantly, for an AD FREE SHOW, make sure to ! This content is CAN credentialed, which means you can report instances of harassment, abuse, or other harm on their hotline at (617) 249-4255, or on their website at . /episode/index/show/47b2965d-764b-48e4-b219-44189baf0e3e/id/36094880

DOD196: Breaking the Pattern 04/09/2025

DOD196: Breaking the Pattern We're a dad down this episode, but that doesn't stop us from having a really thoughtful discussion sparked by a listener email. The dad duo touch on learning to parent better than how they were parented, and share vulnerabilities about how they still might be messing up. Join the Facebook Group! For comments, email For extended episodes, bonus content, and most importantly, for an AD FREE SHOW, make sure to ! This content is CAN credentialed, which means you can report instances of harassment, abuse, or other harm on their hotline at (617) 249-4255, or on their website at . /episode/index/show/47b2965d-764b-48e4-b219-44189baf0e3e/id/36063810

DOD195: Representation Matters 04/06/2025

DOD195: Representation Matters The dads (yes, all of them - Eli FINALLY got his act together to join for an episode) got an interesting listener email about representation in media, and how it has come a long way but also has far to go. They discuss the successes and missteps in specific shows, and discover some surprising media consumption facts about several of the hosts! Join the Facebook Group! For comments, email For extended episodes, bonus content, and most importantly, for an AD FREE SHOW, make sure to ! This content is CAN credentialed, which means you can report instances of harassment, abuse, or other harm on their hotline at (617) 249-4255, or on their website at . /episode/index/show/47b2965d-764b-48e4-b219-44189baf0e3e/id/36028015

DOD194: Men Should Be Dangerous, According to Noted Badass Jordan Peterson 03/28/2025

DOD194: Men Should Be Dangerous, According to Noted Badass Jordan Peterson Eli is out this week, but the Toms discuss a clip from Jordan Peterson with John Stossel, opining on the importance of men being...dangerous?! What in the world is he talking about?! Stossel should just stick with the mustaches. Join the Facebook Group! For comments, email For extended episodes, bonus content, and most importantly, for an AD FREE SHOW, make sure to ! /episode/index/show/47b2965d-764b-48e4-b219-44189baf0e3e/id/35902815

DOD193: A Thirst Trap Trap 03/21/2025

DOD193: A Thirst Trap Trap The dads tackle a couple of listener questions about sharing bad or weird behavior of a loved one's partner, and managing taking care of yourself and your relationship while being full-time parents and full-time employees with barely enough hours leftover in the day to sleep. But first - some ranting about Elon Musk and how much he SUCKS. Join the Facebook Group! For comments, email For extended episodes, bonus content, and most importantly, for an AD FREE SHOW, make sure to ! /episode/index/show/47b2965d-764b-48e4-b219-44189baf0e3e/id/35803245

DOD192: Funding Your Kid's "Lifestyle" 03/19/2025

DOD192: Funding Your Kid's "Lifestyle" Tom brings a story from someone at work with adult children who...stilly really rely on their parents. The dads discuss their upbringing in this respect, and how they're approaching that support structure - housing, finances, etc. - with their kiddos. But first! A vasectomy update! Join the Facebook Group! For comments, email For extended episodes, bonus content, and most importantly, for an AD FREE SHOW, make sure to ! /episode/index/show/47b2965d-764b-48e4-b219-44189baf0e3e/id/35773445

DOD191: This Is Your Parents on Drugs 03/14/2025

DOD191: This Is Your Parents on Drugs After probably the WILDEST intro in Dear Old Dads' history, the dudes answer a listener email about recreational drug usage after becoming a dad, and provide advice to another listener wanting to provide for their partner more financial and social independence. Join the Facebook Group! For comments, email For extended episodes, bonus content, and most importantly, for an AD FREE SHOW, make sure to ! /episode/index/show/47b2965d-764b-48e4-b219-44189baf0e3e/id/35682690

DOD190: Anatomy of a Not Cash Money Experience 03/12/2025

DOD190: Anatomy of a Not Cash Money Experience Content Note: This episode includes discussion of sexual assault and issues of consent in intimate experiences. Thomas's friend recently had a "not cash money" experience with a date, and the dads discuss consent when someone changes their mind over the course of the evening, the societal failure to support vulnerability when reflecting on your own missteps in those "gray" situations, and whether or not it's tough to evaluate enthusiasm with a potential intimate partner. Join the Facebook Group! For comments, email For extended episodes, bonus content, and most importantly, for an AD FREE SHOW, make sure to ! /episode/index/show/47b2965d-764b-48e4-b219-44189baf0e3e/id/35663805

DOD189: Pushing for a Push Present 03/07/2025

DOD189: Pushing for a Push Present We've got an Am I the Asshole (AITH) post this week that made the dads (and the whole internet) laugh a hearty chuckle. It's more like a This Guy Is The Asshole (TGITA). But then, two of the dads are revealed to be poopy pantses. Only one dad's pants are clean. But whose? Find out. Join the Facebook Group! For comments, email For extended episodes, bonus content, and most importantly, for an AD FREE SHOW, make sure to ! /episode/index/show/47b2965d-764b-48e4-b219-44189baf0e3e/id/35571715

DOD188: Mind the Age Gap 02/28/2025

DOD188: Mind the Age Gap We got a listener email that Eli wants Tom to read us on the air for the first time. There's a detail in it that completely isn't the point, but is absolutely the point. Join the Facebook Group! For comments, email For extended episodes, bonus content, and most importantly, for an AD FREE SHOW, make sure to ! /episode/index/show/47b2965d-764b-48e4-b219-44189baf0e3e/id/35486585

DOD187: Sleepovers! 02/21/2025

DOD187: Sleepovers! Phoebe had her first sleepover. The dads talk about that, what their rules are around sleepovers, and at what age they let their kids go on them. Spoiler: for Tom it's the age of 93! Join the Facebook Group! For comments, email For extended episodes, bonus content, and most importantly, for an AD FREE SHOW, make sure to ! /episode/index/show/47b2965d-764b-48e4-b219-44189baf0e3e/id/35375565

DOD186: Who Can Fix the Men? 02/19/2025

DOD186: Who Can Fix the Men? Content Note: This episode includes some discussion of the treatment of marginalized communities under the Trump administration. After reading a post from Reddit, the dads dive into a deep discussion on how men can change men's minds (and if we should even bother) regarding masculinity, the patriarchy, feminism, and politics. Have we already lost to the red-pilled man-o-sphere, or can we still reach people? I think we might have a three bears situation on our hands! Join the Facebook Group! For comments, email For extended episodes, bonus content, and most importantly, for an AD FREE SHOW, make sure to ! /episode/index/show/47b2965d-764b-48e4-b219-44189baf0e3e/id/35347350

DOD185: "My Partner Won't Get Help and I Feel Stuck..." 02/14/2025

DOD185: "My Partner Won't Get Help and I Feel Stuck..." The dads do their best to help a listener with a tough marriage/parenting problem. Their partner behaves terribly both with them and with the kids, but blames it on self-diagnosed mental health issues. Where is the line between accommodating and being taken advantage of? Join the Facebook Group! For comments, email For extended episodes, bonus content, and most importantly, for an AD FREE SHOW, make sure to ! /episode/index/show/47b2965d-764b-48e4-b219-44189baf0e3e/id/35282185

DOD184: Justin Baldoni's TED Talk, Part 2 02/12/2025

DOD184: Justin Baldoni's TED Talk, Part 2 Part 2 of 2. The Dads take on the rest of Justin Baldoni's . This takes some WILD turns, and you're going to want to listen for Eli's mental breakdown. Join the Facebook Group! For comments, email For extended episodes, bonus content, and most importantly, for an AD FREE SHOW, make sure to ! /episode/index/show/47b2965d-764b-48e4-b219-44189baf0e3e/id/35253215

DOD183: We Watched Justin Baldoni's TED Talk... 02/07/2025

DOD183: We Watched Justin Baldoni's TED Talk... Part 1 of 2. Now that he has been outed as a crap and a fake feminist, we wanted to watch Justin Baldoni's from 2017 out of morbid curiosity and/or to see if maybe he had made any good points. So was this foreseeable? How would we have looked at this TED talk at the time, not knowing anything about him? Join the Facebook Group! For comments, email For extended episodes, bonus content, and most importantly, for an AD FREE SHOW, make sure to ! /episode/index/show/47b2965d-764b-48e4-b219-44189baf0e3e/id/35188480

DOD182: But Will Gentle Parenting Leave My Kid Unprepared? 01/31/2025

DOD182: But Will Gentle Parenting Leave My Kid Unprepared? Eli shares TikTok contraband to kick off a discussion on gentle parenting's applicability beyond childhood, and the balance between what Eli refers to as the "musts" and the "oughts". Join the Facebook Group! For comments, email For extended episodes, bonus content, and most importantly, for an AD FREE SHOW, make sure to ! /episode/index/show/47b2965d-764b-48e4-b219-44189baf0e3e/id/35095050

January 2025 Bonus! 01/29/2025

January 2025 Bonus! Due to a clerical error, the dads recorded a normal episode instead of a monthly bonus. So... everyone gets the bonus!!! It is brought to you by a listicle from Upworthy. The dads go through the 17-item list of Advice that Teens (allegedly) Aren't Ready to Hear. In the patron-only bonus, Eli recounts a truly insane encounter in his neighborhood. Like for real, you cannot miss this one. Join the Facebook Group! For comments, email For extended episodes, bonus content, and most importantly, for an AD FREE SHOW, make sure to ! /episode/index/show/47b2965d-764b-48e4-b219-44189baf0e3e/id/35063045

DOD181: Let's Talk about Neil Gaiman... 01/24/2025

DOD181: Let's Talk about Neil Gaiman... Recently, disturbing allegations of abuse by Neil Gaiman were reported on by . The dudes discuss the issues involved, from kink and the porn industry to relationships with fans to scientology...? In our bonus story (exclusively for patrons!), Eli takes us through an experience he had with that is AN EMOTIONAL JOURNEY. You won't want to miss it! Join the Facebook Group! For comments, email For extended episodes, bonus content, and most importantly, for an AD FREE SHOW, make sure to ! /episode/index/show/47b2965d-764b-48e4-b219-44189baf0e3e/id/34991295

DOD180: Do Men Have a Duty To Protect? 01/17/2025

DOD180: Do Men Have a Duty To Protect? The dads gather to chat about expectations of men in potentially dangerous situations, and whether or not it reflects on your "manliness" if you leave the conflict to your girlfriend to handle. The dads agree that it makes you a bad partner and person, but does it mean you're less of a man too? Also, patrons hear some breaking news that is freaking the guys out a bit. Join the Facebook Group! For comments, email /episode/index/show/47b2965d-764b-48e4-b219-44189baf0e3e/id/34891805

DOD179: Just in it for the Money 01/15/2025

DOD179: Just in it for the Money After some talk about playing the lottery, the dads discuss marrying for looks and marrying for money. Also, is Tom capable of dying? Thomas and Eli have a comprehensive debate. You reallllly don't want to miss the Patreon extended edition of this one in which Eli accidentally reveals the extent of his ignorance of how any technology works. Join the Facebook Group! For comments, email For extended episodes, bonus content, and most importantly, for an AD FREE SHOW, make sure to ! /episode/index/show/47b2965d-764b-48e4-b219-44189baf0e3e/id/34864180

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