Southern Gentlemen
Southern Gentlemen is a podcast hosted by Chris Thomas and Winston Cruze. We're just two good ol' boys from the American South, making our way the only way we know how. In each episode of Southern Gentlemen, we chat about things we find interesting. From being better husbands and dads, to hunting, gear, cocktails, and more, we always come at it from a Southern perspective, and we always have a lot of fun. We're grateful y'all are here!
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Charleston Guys Golf Trip
04/16/2026
Charleston Guys Golf Trip
This one’s got a little bit of everything - and it starts in the barber’s chair. Chris kicks things off with a downright bizarre conversation he overheard mid-haircut that had him questioning everything. Then Winston shows up in an air cast and finally tells the story of what went wrong (and it’s exactly the kind of story you’d expect). From there, Chris recaps an all-time guys golf trip to Charleston during Masters week - early tee times, late nights, steaks on the grill, cocktails flowing, and plenty of laughs watching Augusta unfold. It’s everything a proper trip ought to be. He also takes us behind the scenes of the zMAX CARS Tour race at the Nashville Fairgrounds, where Yonder Custom Hats had a car on the track. From sponsorship to race day energy, it’s a look at what it’s like to step into the world of short track racing and be a small part of something big. To wrap it all up, Chris shares some hard-earned wisdom on how to plan the perfect guys golf trip - what matters, what doesn’t, and how to make sure it’s a trip your crew will be talking about for years. Good stories, a few lessons, and plenty of laughs along the way. Have a question you'd like us to answer on the show? Maybe a topic you want us to discuss? Email holler@southerngentlemen.com or leave us a voicemail by calling (833) 623-3768, ext. 806. Connect with us online: Instagram: Facebook: Patreon:
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Unexpected Company: Ray Casias - Part One
04/09/2026
Unexpected Company: Ray Casias - Part One
Sometimes the best conversations are the ones you never see coming. In this third installment of our Unexpected Company series, Chris and Winston sit down with a complete stranger - no name, no background, no prep. Just a recommendation from our last guest, Allen Blaxton, and a willingness to see where the conversation leads. Enter Ray Casias. What unfolds is one of the most compelling stories we’ve had on the show. Ray shares how he found his way to the mic, his military service that took him all the way to the DMZ, and the path that led him into Brazilian Jiu Jitsu. We hear how he met his wife, how that journey shaped his life, and how it ultimately led to the founding of Tennessee Brazilian Jiu Jitsu. But it doesn’t stop there. For more than 15 years, Ray has worked closely with soldiers at Fort Campbell, helping train and prepare them for the realities of hand-to-hand combat. His perspective on discipline, readiness, and what it truly means to be prepared is something every man can learn from. There’s so much depth in this conversation - so many stories, lessons, and moments - that we knew we couldn’t fit it all into one episode. So consider this Part One. And trust us… you’re gonna want to come back for Part Two. Have a question you'd like us to answer on the show? Maybe a topic you want us to discuss? Email holler@southerngentlemen.com or leave us a voicemail by calling (833) 623-3768, ext. 806. Connect with us online: Instagram: Facebook: Patreon:
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Winston Goes West
04/02/2026
Winston Goes West
In this episode, Winston is fresh off turning 40 and heading out West for a bucket-list birthday trip to Montana with his six closest buddies - and let’s just say, it delivered. He takes us inside the whole experience: the cabin life, early mornings with coffee and mountain views, tearing through the trails on 4-wheelers, and making the drive into Bozeman for some well-earned dinners. It’s a mix of adventure, brotherhood, and the kind of time together that just hits different when you’re out in God’s creation with no distractions. But it doesn’t stop there… Winston and the guys took things to another level by using Suno to create a custom song that perfectly captured the trip - inside jokes, memories, all of it. And naturally, that led to Chris and Winston firing up Suno themselves to create an unofficial (and wildly entertaining) Southern Gentlemen theme song right here on the show. It’s a fun one - full of laughs, a little reflection, and proof that sometimes the best memories come from getting off the grid… and then turning them into a song. Have a question you'd like us to answer on the show? Maybe a topic you want us to discuss? Email holler@southerngentlemen.com or leave us a voicemail by calling (833) 623-3768, ext. 806. Connect with us online: Instagram: Facebook: Patreon:
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REACHER: Know When To Walk Away
03/26/2026
REACHER: Know When To Walk Away
In this episode of Southern Gentlemen, Chris shares the bittersweet news of his daughter packing up and heading to Texas - what it’s like as a dad watching your kid take that next big step, and why it hits a little harder than you expect. From there, the fellas check back in on their March Madness brackets… which, as you might imagine, are not exactly holding up. Confidence was high. Results? Not so much. Then things take a turn closer to home - literally. Chris and Winston unpack a wild local story involving actor Alan Ritchson and a physical altercation with a neighbor… in Winston’s own neighborhood. Yeah, really. That leads to a deeper conversation about ego, pride, and how quickly things can escalate when men feel disrespected. The guys talk through the importance of keeping your cool, choosing restraint over reaction, and what it actually means to be strong in moments where things could go sideways. It’s a mix of life, laughs, and a reminder that sometimes the strongest move you can make… is walking away. Have a question you'd like us to answer on the show? Maybe a topic you want us to discuss? Email holler@southerngentlemen.com or leave us a voicemail by calling (833) 623-3768, ext. 806. Connect with us online: Instagram: Facebook: Patreon:
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We're Sponsoring a Race Car?!?!
03/19/2026
We're Sponsoring a Race Car?!?!
In this episode of Southern Gentlemen, we kick things off by doing something we are wildly unqualified for - filling out Winston’s March Madness bracket. No stats, no strategy… just vibes, gut feelings, and a whole lot of confident guessing. We also take a minute to celebrate a milestone - Winston just turned 40. What better way to mark the occasion than confidently picking teams you know absolutely nothing about? Then we shift gears (literally) and talk about something we do know a little more about - Chris’ business, Yonder Custom Hats, officially sponsoring the #23 Chevrolet driven by Kade Brown in the upcoming zMAX CARS Tour race at the Nashville Fairgrounds on April 11. Oh - and did we mention Dale Jr. will be in the field too? We break down how this opportunity came together, why it means so much to be part of a race like this, and how we’re bringing the Southern Gentlemen brand along for the ride - with a custom hat featured right on the car’s paint scheme. From busted brackets to 40th birthday reflections to race day dreams… this one’s a fun mix of nonsense and a pretty cool milestone. 🏁 Have a question you'd like us to answer on the show? Maybe a topic you want us to discuss? Email holler@southerngentlemen.com or leave us a voicemail by calling (833) 623-3768, ext. 806. Connect with us online: Instagram: Facebook: Patreon:
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Our First Hate Mail!
03/12/2026
Our First Hate Mail!
Chris and Winston kick things off by reading the first official piece of hate mail the show has received - apparently we’ve finally made it. From there, the fellas have a little fun with the idea that a couple of guys sitting behind microphones in Tennessee are now being held to the same fact-checking standards as network media. The conversation rolls into the always-entertaining USA vs. Canada hockey rivalry, where the passion runs high and the jokes come easy. But underneath the laughs, the episode turns toward a bigger idea: how easy it is these days to get pulled into outrage, arguments, and culture wars that are designed to grab our attention and keep us angry. Chris and Winston talk about the importance of recognizing those traps, refusing to take the bait, and choosing instead to focus on the things that actually matter - family, community, faith, and living well. A little hockey, a little humor, and a reminder that not everything deserves your attention. Have a question you'd like us to answer on the show? Maybe a topic you want us to discuss? Email holler@southerngentlemen.com or leave us a voicemail by calling (833) 623-3768, ext. 806. Connect with us online: Instagram: Facebook: Patreon:
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This Doesn't Belong On Burgers??!? with Trey Echols "The Fedneck"
03/05/2026
This Doesn't Belong On Burgers??!? with Trey Echols "The Fedneck"
This week on Southern Gentlemen, Chris and Winston sit down with Trey Echols - known affectionately across the internet as The Fedneck - to talk about life, loyalty, and the one food that might unite America: the cheeseburger. Trey built a following by doing something simple and doing it well - celebrating thick, no-nonsense burgers and unapologetically standing by one very specific opinion: tomatoes have no business on a burger. (To be clear, he doesn’t hate tomatoes… he just believes they’re in the wrong job description.) The guys dive into how Trey got started, where The Fedneck nickname came from, growing up in Alabama, Gen X nostalgia, old-school country music, and why simple things done right still matter. Along the way, they debate smashburgers vs. thick patties, discuss the structural sabotage of overly wet toppings, and explore what food says about identity, memory, and knowing exactly who you are. It’s funny. It’s nostalgic. It’s unapologetically Southern. And by the end, you might rethink what belongs on your next burger. Grab a seat at the table - and maybe hold the tomato. 🍔 Have a question you'd like us to answer on the show? Maybe a topic you want us to discuss? Email holler@southerngentlemen.com or leave us a voicemail by calling (833) 623-3768, ext. 806. Connect with us online: Instagram: Facebook: Patreon:
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Gold Medals & F-Bombs
02/26/2026
Gold Medals & F-Bombs
In this episode of Southern Gentlemen, Chris and Winston kick things off with a brand-new NASCAR conspiracy theory that may or may not involve shadowy decisions, suspicious finishes, and a healthy dose of overthinking. Are we asking questions? Yes. Are we qualified to answer them? Absolutely not. Then Chris drops a bombshell: he’s started using a new supplement... and let’s just say it includes sheep testicles. (You read that correctly.) The fellas discuss masculinity, testosterone, modern wellness trends, and whether this is peak health optimization or just peak midlife crisis. From there, they dive headfirst into the glorious chaos that was the Winter Olympics. Chris confesses his full-blown obsession with curling, Canada finds itself accused of cheating (in curling, of all things), and the USA brings home gold in both men’s and women’s hockey. There’s talk of national pride, Justin Trudeau’s infamous tweet, Barstool’s lightning-fast response to Team USA’s win, and the social media firestorm sparked by Jimmy’s Famous Seafood after clapping back at a Huffington Post article. It’s sports. It’s drama. It’s testosterone (apparently sheep-based). It’s the Olympics through the lens of two Southern guys who care way too much about curling strategy. As always - laughs, hot takes, and just enough common sense to keep us out of real trouble. Cheers, y'all. Have a question you'd like us to answer on the show? Maybe a topic you want us to discuss? Email holler@southerngentlemen.com or leave us a voicemail by calling (833) 623-3768, ext. 806. Connect with us online: Instagram: Facebook: Patreon:
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Mardi Gras: From Beads to Ashes
02/19/2026
Mardi Gras: From Beads to Ashes
When most of us hear “Mardi Gras,” we think beads, Bourbon Street, and stories that probably shouldn’t be repeated in polite company. But is that really what Mardi Gras is? In this episode, Chris and Winston admit they don’t know much about it — and decide to find out. We dig into the history of Mardi Gras, the meaning of Fat Tuesday, and how it connects to Lent, Ash Wednesday, and the 40-day season leading up to Easter. We explore how a medieval European Catholic tradition made its way to the American South, why Mobile, Alabama technically did it first, and how New Orleans turned it into a cultural phenomenon. Along the way, we talk king cakes (and the plastic baby inside them), krewes, the symbolism of purple, green, and gold, and whether Mardi Gras is just chaos… or actually a deeply structured spiritual rhythm of feast before fast. If you’ve ever wondered what Mardi Gras really means — beyond the highlight reel — this episode is your beginner’s guide. Beads to ashes. Feast to fast. Let’s learn something. Have a question you'd like us to answer on the show? Maybe a topic you want us to discuss? Email holler@southerngentlemen.com or leave us a voicemail by calling (833) 623-3768, ext. 806. Connect with us online: Instagram: Facebook: Patreon:
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Wrestling with the First Amendment
02/12/2026
Wrestling with the First Amendment
In this episode, Chris opens by making a few clarifications and corrections from a previous episode, tightening up a few points and setting the record straight. From there, we get into the meat of the episode, a wide-ranging conversation on the First Amendment and why it still matters in real life, not just in theory. We talk about free speech, limits, cultural pressure, and the responsibility that comes with having a voice in a loud, reactive world. This isn’t a legal lecture - it’s a practical, grounded discussion about discernment, courage, and what it means to speak wisely as men in the public square. We close the episode on a lighter note, turning our attention to the upcoming Daytona 500, why it still carries weight as a cultural institution, and what we’re watching for as race day approaches. Southern Gentlemen style - thoughtful, direct, and rooted in principle. Have a question you'd like us to answer on the show? Maybe a topic you want us to discuss? Email holler@southerngentlemen.com or leave us a voicemail by calling (833) 623-3768, ext. 806. Connect with us online: Instagram: Facebook: Patreon:
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Smoke Rises In The Storm: Will Newman of Edley’s BBQ
02/05/2026
Smoke Rises In The Storm: Will Newman of Edley’s BBQ
In this episode of the Southern Gentlemen Podcast, Chris and Winston sit down with Will Newman, founder of Edley's BBQ, for a conversation that hits right at the crossroads of business, faith, family, and Southern Hospitality. We start with Edley’s response to Winter Storm Fern - when Will and his team fired up the pits to serve free pork sandwiches to linemen, first responders, and folks displaced by the storm. It’s a powerful look at what it means to show up for your community when it matters most. From there, Will walks us through the Edley’s origin story, growing from a single location to 11 restaurants over the past 15 years, and what that kind of growth teaches you about leadership, humility, and building culture that scales. We dig into BBQ culture, what makes Tennessee BBQ special, and why food is often the front door to real hospitality. Will also opens up about leaning more intentionally into his faith as the leader of a fast-growing company, and how running a business at this level has shaped him - as a husband, a dad, and a man trying to keep his priorities straight. And of course, we keep it Southern and have some fun along the way, including Will’s hot takes on timeless debates like Waffle House vs. Cracker Barrel. He even shares a story about trying a famous pitmaster’s brisket that was so dang good it made him curse! This one’s about generosity, grit, and doing good work the right way - plates full, hearts open, and doors wide. Have a question you'd like us to answer on the show? Maybe a topic you want us to discuss? Email holler@southerngentlemen.com or leave us a voicemail by calling (833) 623-3768, ext. 806. Connect with us online: Instagram: Facebook: Patreon:
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Be Prepared: Calm in the Storm
01/29/2026
Be Prepared: Calm in the Storm
On this episode of Southern Gentlemen, Chris and Winston swap stories from the other side of the Great Winter Storm Fern of 2026 that shut down much of Middle Tennessee and had everybody rethinking just how prepared they really were. They break down what they learned the hard way - from water storage and food prep to keeping the lights on and the house warm when power went out. The guys talk generators (what they’ll have in place for the next time something like this happens), small decisions that made a big difference, and the gaps they didn’t realize they had until the storm hit. It’s a practical, boots-on-the-ground conversation about being ready for whatever comes next - without panic, fear, or turning your garage into a bunker. Just solid wisdom, a few laughs, and lessons learned from living through it together. If you’ve ever said, “We’ll deal with it when it happens,” this one’s for you. Have a question you'd like us to answer on the show? Maybe a topic you want us to discuss? Email holler@southerngentlemen.com or leave us a voicemail by calling (833) 623-3768, ext. 806. Connect with us online: Instagram: Facebook: Patreon:
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King, Warrior, Sage, and Lover: The Four Masculine Archetypes
01/22/2026
King, Warrior, Sage, and Lover: The Four Masculine Archetypes
On this episode of the Southern Gentlemen Podcast, Chris and Winston kick things off with a quick recap of the College Football National Championship Game before shifting gears into a deeper, more introspective conversation. The guys dive into the Four Archetypes of Masculinity — The King, The Warrior, The Sage, and The Lover — and explore how these archetypes show up in our lives for better… and sometimes for worse. To make it personal, Chris and Winston actually had ChatGPT build a 10-question assessment they could each take on the show. The results gave them insight into their primary and secondary archetypes, as well as the shadow sides that tend to surface under stress, pressure, or pride. Let’s just say there were a few eye-opening moments, some laughs, and more than a little self-reflection. If you’ve ever wondered why you lead the way you do, fight the way you do, love the way you do, or withdraw the way you do, this episode will hit close to home. 👉 Bonus: We’re including the full assessment questions and prompt in the show notes, so you can take it yourself and dig a little deeper into your own wiring. Pull up a chair. This one’s thoughtful, honest, and very much a Southern Gentlemen conversation. If you'd like to learn more about how you personally relate to the Four Masculine Archetypes, simply copy and paste the following 10-question quiz into ChatGPT and ask it to analyze your results. 🧭 The 10-Question Masculine Archetype Quiz 1. When you walk into a chaotic situation, your instinct is to: A) Take charge and bring order B) Confront the problem head-on C) Step back and assess what’s really happening D) Feel the emotional tone and connect with people 2. Your greatest strength is: A) Leadership and responsibility B) Discipline and follow-through C) Insight and understanding systems D) Passion and emotional depth 3. People most often come to you for: A) Direction and decisions B) Protection or action C) Advice and perspective D) Empathy and encouragement 4. Under stress, you tend to: A) Become controlling or withdrawn B) Get angry or push harder C) Overthink or detach D) Seek comfort or escape 5. What gives you the deepest sense of satisfaction? A) Building something that lasts B) Winning or completing a challenge C) Figuring out how things really work D) Feeling deeply connected or alive 6. Your relationship to rules is: A) I make or uphold them B) I use them to win C) I analyze or bend them D) I follow my feelings over them 7. When conflict arises, you usually: A) Mediate and restore order B) Stand your ground and fight C) Strategize quietly D) Try to preserve the relationship 8. You admire men who are: A) Wise and fair leaders B) Strong, brave, and relentless C) Intelligent and perceptive D) Passionate and expressive 9. As a boy, you were most often: A) Responsible or “old soul” B) Competitive or rebellious C) Curious or observant D) Sensitive or creative 10. If everything were taken away, you would rebuild by: A) Establishing stability and structure B) Fighting your way forward C) Learning, adapting, and planning D) Seeking meaning and connection Have a question you'd like us to answer on the show? Maybe a topic you want us to discuss? Email holler@southerngentlemen.com or leave us a voicemail by calling (833) 623-3768, ext. 806. Connect with us online: Instagram: Facebook: Patreon:
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Best Family Games 2026
01/15/2026
Best Family Games 2026
In this episode of Southern Gentlemen, Chris and Winston slow things down and talk about something close to home—good, old-fashioned fun with the people you love most. The guys share their favorite games to play with the whole family—the kind that get everyone around the table, spark a little friendly competition, and create the kind of memories that stick. From games that work with a wide range of ages to ones that are perfect for winding down in the evening, they break down what makes a great family game night and why it matters more than we sometimes realize. They also each share one game they enjoy playing just with their wives—a simple, intentional way to connect, laugh, and spend quality time together without distractions. Along the way, Chris gives Winston an update on his fast—how it’s going, what he’s learning, and what it’s doing for him mentally and physically. The guys also react to a big announcement NASCAR just made about a major change to their championship format, sharing their initial thoughts and what it could mean for the sport moving forward. It’s a laid-back, wide-ranging conversation about presence, laughter, discipline, and choosing togetherness in a busy world. Grab a cup of coffee, make a list for your next game night, and come hang out with the Southern Gentlemen. Have a question you'd like us to answer on the show? Maybe a topic you want us to discuss? Email holler@southerngentlemen.com or leave us a voicemail by calling (833) 623-3768, ext. 806. Connect with us online: Instagram: Facebook: Patreon:
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Faith, Flu, and Fresh Perspective
01/08/2026
Faith, Flu, and Fresh Perspective
In this episode of Southern Gentlemen, Chris and Winston catch up after the New Year break and ease back into the groove of things—flu bugs, family time, and all. Winston shares about capturing incredible drone footage of whales, while Chris talks through the fast he’s currently on and how he’s approaching the new year with a renewed focus on drawing closer to God. The guys also touch on current events (including what’s going on with Maduro), swap a few reflections from the break, and wrap things up with an update on new Southern Gentlemen hats that’ll be dropping soon. It’s a laid-back, wide-ranging conversation about faith, work, health, and stepping into a new year with intention. Pull up a chair and come on in. Have a question you'd like us to answer on the show? Maybe a topic you want us to discuss? Email holler@southerngentlemen.com or leave us a voicemail by calling (833) 623-3768, ext. 806. Connect with us online: Instagram: Facebook: Patreon:
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2026 Brings Contentment & Gratitude
01/01/2026
2026 Brings Contentment & Gratitude
In this episode of the Southern Gentlemen Podcast, Chris and Winston kick things off with a laid-back recap of Christmas—sharing a few highlights, reflections, and moments that made the season meaningful. From there, the conversation turns more reflective as they talk about contentment heading into a new year. They discuss the importance of choosing gratitude in a world that constantly invites comparison—especially when social media shows us everyone else’s highlight reel, but never the full story. Behind every post is a real person carrying something heavy: pain, loss, stress, disappointment, or uncertainty. Chris and Winston remind listeners how easy it is to measure our lives against someone else’s success, timing, or blessings—and how that trap quietly steals joy. Instead, they encourage leaning into thankfulness, staying present, and remembering that everyone is dealing with something, whether we can see it or not. Along the way, they also have some fun playing voicemails from listeners who called in to sing Christmas carols for the show—bringing a few laughs and a whole lot of charm. It’s a warm, honest conversation about perspective, gratitude, and learning to be content right where your boots are planted as you step into a new year. Pull up a chair and join the conversation. Have a question you'd like us to answer on the show? Maybe a topic you want us to discuss? Email holler@southerngentlemen.com or leave us a voicemail by calling (833) 623-3768, ext. 806. Connect with us online: Instagram: Facebook: Patreon:
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Top 3 Moments of 2025
12/18/2025
Top 3 Moments of 2025
In this laid-back catch-up episode of the Southern Gentlemen Podcast, Chris and Winston settle in and swap a few stories from real life before looking back on a big year for the show. Winston kicks things off with a recap of a recent quail hunt, then bravely walks us through his first dentist visit in almost three years — which goes about as well as you’d expect. Chris counters with a heart-pounding story involving his dog Huck, a wide-open field, and a pack of deer that had him holding his breath. From there, the guys reflect on 2025 and each share their top three favorite moments from the podcast this year — the conversations that stuck with them, the laughs they didn’t expect, and the episodes that meant a little more than most. It’s funny, honest, and very on-brand Southern Gentlemen — stories about the outdoors, real life, close calls, and gratitude for a year well spent. Pull up a chair and join the conversation. Have a question you'd like us to answer on the show? Maybe a topic you want us to discuss? Email holler@southerngentlemen.com or leave us a voicemail by calling (833) 623-3768, ext. 806. Connect with us online: Instagram: Facebook: Patreon: Subscribe, share, and don’t forget — stay Southern, y’all.
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2025 Christmas Gift Guide!
12/11/2025
2025 Christmas Gift Guide!
Christmas is coming, and the Southern Gentlemen are here to help you find the perfect gift for the men you love. In this festive episode, Chris and Winston run through a whole lineup of thoughtful, well-made gifts - everything from classic timepieces that’ll last a lifetime to products that make everyday life a little easier. And of course, they sprinkle in a few fun, unexpected ideas along the way. Whether you’re shopping for your husband, your dad, your college-aged kid, or that one buddy who “doesn’t need anything,” this episode is packed with inspiration. It’s practical, personal, and just a little bit Southern - exactly what you’d expect from the fellas. Grab some coffee, settle in, and let us help you knock out that Christmas list with charm, intentionality, and a whole lot of good cheer. Have a question you'd like us to answer on the show? Maybe a topic you want us to discuss? Email holler@southerngentlemen.com or leave us a voicemail by calling (833) 623-3768, ext. 806. Connect with us online: Instagram: Facebook: Patreon: Subscribe, share, and don’t forget — stay Southern, y’all.
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Made in Mississippi with Nick Weaver of Blue Delta Jeans
12/04/2025
Made in Mississippi with Nick Weaver of Blue Delta Jeans
In this episode, Chris and Winston sit down with Nick Weaver, co-founder of the legendary custom denim brand Blue Delta Jeans. Nick shares the story of how he and his partner, Josh West, started the company from scratch, why they chose the “build it slow and build it right” approach, and how they’ve grown Blue Delta into one of the most respected names in American-made denim over the past decade. They dig into the ups and downs of entrepreneurship, lessons learned from scaling a premium product, the power of relationships, and what it really takes to create something that lasts. Nick also opens up about life off the road — how he works to be a present husband and dad while juggling a demanding travel schedule, and the intentional choices he’s made to keep family first even while the business keeps growing. And because you can’t have a Mississippian in the room without bringing it up… they talk a little Ole Miss football, too. It’s a fun, honest, and wide-ranging conversation with a Southern gentleman who has lived the grind and kept his priorities intact. Tune in and enjoy. Have a question you'd like us to answer on the show? Maybe a topic you want us to discuss? Email holler@southerngentlemen.com or leave us a voicemail by calling (833) 623-3768, ext. 806. Connect with us online: Instagram: Facebook: Patreon: Subscribe, share, and don’t forget — stay Southern, y’all.
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Thanksgiving SIDE DISHES!
11/27/2025
Thanksgiving SIDE DISHES!
In this Thanksgiving-themed episode of the Southern Gentlemen Podcast, Chris and Winston roll up their sleeves and dive into one of the most important conversations of the holiday season: the side dishes. The fellas each reveal their Top 5 Favorite Thanksgiving Sides, from the classics that never fail to the under-the-radar dishes that deserve more love at the family table. Along the way, they share stories from past Thanksgivings, debate the proper ratio of dressing to gravy, and confess the one side dish they absolutely cannot stand - the kind that makes them shake their heads and wonder why it keeps showing up every year. It’s a fun, flavorful, and very Southern conversation full of laughs, strong opinions, and maybe even a little gentle judgment. Pull up a chair, grab a plate, and join the boys as they talk all things Thanksgiving. Have a question you'd like us to answer on the show? Maybe a topic you want us to discuss? Email holler@southerngentlemen.com or leave us a voicemail by calling (833) 623-3768, ext. 806. Connect with us online: Instagram: Facebook: Patreon: Subscribe, share, and don’t forget — stay Southern, y’all.
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What Women Carry
11/20/2025
What Women Carry
In this episode of the Southern Gentlemen Podcast, Chris walks into the studio carrying something a little unexpected… his wife Kimberly’s purse. Naturally, this leads to a brand-new game where Winston has to blindly guess the wild assortment of things that might be hiding inside. From mystery lotions to receipts of unknown origin, the fellas stumble into plenty of laughs as they dig through the depths of “the bag.” But like most things on this show, the fun opens the door to something a bit deeper. Chris and Winston end up talking about how men and women carry things differently in life — not just physically, but emotionally and spiritually, too. They explore why women often feel responsible for so much unseen weight, why men tend to just “stuff it down and keep movin’,” and how couples can share the load a little better. It’s a mix of humor, honesty, and good old Southern reflection — exactly what you’d expect from a couple of front-porch philosophers with microphones. Tune in for some laughs, a few surprises, and a conversation that might just stick with you. Have a question you'd like us to answer on the show? Maybe a topic you want us to discuss? Email holler@southerngentlemen.com or leave us a voicemail by calling (833) 623-3768, ext. 806. Connect with us online: Instagram: Facebook: Patreon: Subscribe, share, and don’t forget — stay Southern, y’all.
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Unexpected Company #2 with Special Guest Allen Blaxton
11/13/2025
Unexpected Company #2 with Special Guest Allen Blaxton
In this moving installment of The Southern Gentlemen Podcast, Chris and Winston sit down with their next “Unexpected Company” guest, Allen Blaxton — a 25-year veteran of the U.S. Navy who spent two of those years as Maintenance Officer for the legendary Blue Angels. Allen was introduced to the show by our previous “Unexpected Company” guest, Michael Farren, and his story takes listeners on a powerful journey through service, music, loss, and faith. After retiring from the Navy, Allen traded fighter jets for drumsticks, becoming a full-time professional drummer. But the heart of this conversation centers on something far deeper — the heartbreaking loss of his son, Isaac, to a fentanyl overdose in 2023. Chris, Winston, and Allen talk openly about grief, marriage through tragedy, and the power of community in the face of unimaginable pain. It’s an honest, emotional, and ultimately hopeful conversation about love, resilience, and the ways we keep showing up — for ourselves, for our families, and for one another. Do you have a question you'd like us to answer on the show? Maybe a topic you'd like to hear us discuss? Email holler@southerngentlemen.com or leave us a voicemail by calling (833) 623-3768, ext. 806. Connect with us online: Instagram: Facebook: Patreon: Subscribe, share, and don’t forget — stay Southern, y’all.
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Turkey Tips, Mud Masks, and Michelin
11/06/2025
Turkey Tips, Mud Masks, and Michelin
The brand new Southern Gentlemen Hat is officially available! if you'd like to pick one up and support the show. In this week’s episode of The Southern Gentlemen Podcast, Chris and Winston kick things off by answering a listener’s voicemail asking the all-important question: what’s the best way to prepare a Thanksgiving turkey? The fellas share their favorite tips (and a few cautionary tales). Then things take a turn when Chris shares his experience with his first-ever mud mask treatment, leading to a discussion on self-care, ritual, and relaxation. The guys also recap the final NASCAR race of the year and unpack another championship that slipped through Denny Hamlin’s fingers. They also dive into the fragmentation of today’s media world, including how the Disney–YouTube spat threw a wrench in weekend SEC football viewing. Finally, they discuss Michelin’s new Southern dining guide and what it means for food culture below the Mason-Dixon line. And just when things start to settle down, Winston makes a surprise phone call live on the air that catches everyone off guard. It’s equal parts humor, hospitality, and heartfelt Southern banter — just the way we like it. Got a question you'd like us to answer on the show? Email holler@southerngentlemen.com or leave us a voicemail by calling (833) 623-3768, ext. 806. Connect with us online: Instagram: Facebook: Patreon: Subscribe, share, and don’t forget — stay Southern, y’all.
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I Accidentally Booked a Brothel!
10/30/2025
I Accidentally Booked a Brothel!
The brand new Southern Gentlemen Hat is officially available! if you'd like to pick one up and support the show. In this week’s episode of Southern Gentlemen, Chris and Winston cover a little bit of everything. They kick things off by answering a listener’s question about vow renewals, share why they decided to delete their TikTok account, and then Chris tells the wild story of accidentally booking a night for he and his wife to stay at what used to be a brothel. Winston gives an update on his ongoing Alpha-gal journey, and the guys wrap things up with a spirited conversation about Coach Tony Vitello’s big move from leading the Tennessee Volunteers baseball team to managing the San Francisco Giants. It’s a mix of laughs, lessons, and a whole lot of Southern charm. Got a question you'd like us to answer on the show? Email holler@southerngentlemen.com or leave us a voicemail by calling (833) 623-3768, ext. 806. Connect with us online: Instagram: Facebook: Patreon: Subscribe, share, and don’t forget — stay Southern, y’all.
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Roller Coasters & Wisephones
10/24/2025
Roller Coasters & Wisephones
The brand new Southern Gentlemen Hat is officially available! if you'd like to pick one up and support the show. In this week’s episode of the Southern Gentlemen Podcast, Chris and Winston are all over the map — in the best way. Chris shares stories from his family’s fall break trip to Dollywood, including some insider pro tips for anyone planning a visit. Winston gives an update on his bold move away from the iPhone to a minimalist Wisephone, and how that’s been going so far. They also dive into Winston’s questionable dentist habits (or total lack thereof), sparking a funny and honest conversation about technology, self-care, and the little things we all tend to neglect. It’s a front-porch kind of episode — casual, honest, and full of laughs. Got a question for The Gentlemen? Email (833) 623-3768, ext. 806. Connect with us online: Instagram: Facebook: Patreon: Subscribe, share, and don’t forget — stay Southern, y’all.
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Let's Talk Testosterone (with Dr. Christopher Motley)
10/16/2025
Let's Talk Testosterone (with Dr. Christopher Motley)
The brand new Southern Gentlemen Hat is officially available! if you'd like to pick one up and support the show. In this episode, Chris and Winston sit down with Dr. Christopher Motley to have an honest, insightful conversation about something every man needs to understand—testosterone. They dig into what testosterone really is, how it affects a man’s energy, mood, focus, strength, and overall health, and why maintaining healthy levels is so important as we age. Dr. Motley breaks down practical, natural ways to boost testosterone—from the right supplements and specific exercises to better sleep, nutrition, and stress management. The guys also discuss TRT (Testosterone Replacement Therapy)—what it is, who it’s for, and the potential drawbacks that men should consider before jumping in. It’s a candid, educational, and often funny conversation about one of the most misunderstood topics in men’s health—one that might just change how you approach taking care of your body. Got a question for The Gentlemen? Email (833) 623-3768, ext. 806. Connect with us online: Instagram: Facebook: Patreon: Subscribe, share, and don’t forget — stay Southern, y’all.
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Innovation, Leadership, and Fatherhood with Justin Marks of Trackhouse Racing
10/09/2025
Innovation, Leadership, and Fatherhood with Justin Marks of Trackhouse Racing
The brand new Southern Gentlemen Hat is officially available! if you'd like to pick one up and support the show. In this episode, Chris and Winston sit down with Justin Marks—founder and CEO of Trackhouse Entertainment Group—to talk about how he went from driver to building one of the most innovative teams in NASCAR. Justin opens up about what it takes to lead a company of more than 180 employees, the habits and disciplines that help him stay grounded as a husband and father while navigating the chaos of professional motorsports, and why personal stewardship is key to long-term success. Along the way, the guys throw him some fun curveballs—like whether he’s Team Cracker Barrel or Team Waffle House—and the hot-take question: Is Missouri a Southern state? All that and more in this wide-ranging conversation about leadership, legacy, and living with purpose. Got a question for The Gentlemen? Email (833) 623-3768, ext. 806. Connect with us online: Instagram: Facebook: Patreon: Subscribe, share, and don’t forget — stay Southern, y’all.
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The One That Made Chris Cuss
10/02/2025
The One That Made Chris Cuss
The brand new Southern Gentlemen Hat is officially available! if you'd like to pick one up and support the show. In this episode, Chris and Winston call an audible and set aside their original plan to dive into something that’s been stirring in Chris’ heart as he approaches his 48th birthday: the idea of being a wiser steward. They unpack how true stewardship begins with ourselves — our souls, our spiritual lives, and our relationship with God. When we tend to that foundation first, we gain the wisdom and strength to faithfully care for our marriages, our children, our friendships, our finances, our time, and everything else God has placed in our hands. The conversation gets so real and personal that Chris, fired up by the weight of it all, actually lets a cuss word slip. It’s raw, honest, and full of conviction — a reminder that stewardship isn’t about perfection, but about intentionality, grace, and growth. Got a question for The Gentlemen? Email (833) 623-3768, ext. 806. Connect with us online: Instagram: Facebook: TikTok: Patreon: Subscribe, share, and don’t forget — stay Southern, y’all.
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Would You Rather - Questions From Our Kids!
09/25/2025
Would You Rather - Questions From Our Kids!
The brand new Southern Gentlemen Hat is officially available! if you'd like to pick one up and support the show. Things get a little closer to home in this episode of the Southern Gentlemen Podcast as Chris and Winston take on a round of “Would You Rather”—but this time, the questions come straight from their kids. From silly dilemmas to surprisingly thoughtful curveballs, the guys do their best to keep up with the next generation’s creativity. Just when they think they’re in the clear, their wives sneak in a few of their own questions—guaranteeing some laughs, a little mischief, and maybe even a bit of marital payback. Grab a seat on the porch and join in the fun as family puts these Southern Gentlemen in the hot seat. Got a question for The Gentlemen? Email (833) 623-3768, ext. 806. Connect with us online: Instagram: Facebook: TikTok: Patreon: Subscribe, share, and don’t forget — stay Southern, y’all.
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Did BIGXTHAPLUG Make A Country Album?
09/18/2025
Did BIGXTHAPLUG Make A Country Album?
The brand new Southern Gentlemen Hat is officially available! if you'd like to pick one up and support the show. Chris and Winston dive into I Hope You’re Happy, the new album from BIGXTHAPLUG, and unpack what makes it one of the most talked-about releases of the year. They highlight the surprising country artists featured on the record and debate whether this bold mash-up of sounds can truly be called “country music.” Is it a fresh chapter in the genre’s evolution or something else entirely? Tune in as the Southern Gentlemen put their Southern spin on this genre-bending conversation. Got a question for The Gentlemen? Email (833) 623-3768, ext. 806. Connect with us online: Instagram: Facebook: TikTok: Patreon: Subscribe, share, and don’t forget — stay Southern, y’all.
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