Southern Gentlemen
Southern Gentlemen is a podcast hosted by Chris Thomas and Winston Cruze. We're just two good ol' boys from the American South, making our way the only way we know how. In each episode of Southern Gentlemen, we chat about things we find interesting. From being better husbands and dads, to hunting, gear, cocktails, and more, we always come at it from a Southern perspective, and we always have a lot of fun. We're grateful y'all are here!
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Smoke Rises In The Storm: Will Newman of Edley’s BBQ
02/05/2026
Smoke Rises In The Storm: Will Newman of Edley’s BBQ
In this episode of the Southern Gentlemen Podcast, Chris and Winston sit down with Will Newman, founder of Edley's BBQ, for a conversation that hits right at the crossroads of business, faith, family, and Southern Hospitality. We start with Edley’s response to Winter Storm Fern - when Will and his team fired up the pits to serve free pork sandwiches to linemen, first responders, and folks displaced by the storm. It’s a powerful look at what it means to show up for your community when it matters most. From there, Will walks us through the Edley’s origin story, growing from a single location to 11 restaurants over the past 15 years, and what that kind of growth teaches you about leadership, humility, and building culture that scales. We dig into BBQ culture, what makes Tennessee BBQ special, and why food is often the front door to real hospitality. Will also opens up about leaning more intentionally into his faith as the leader of a fast-growing company, and how running a business at this level has shaped him - as a husband, a dad, and a man trying to keep his priorities straight. And of course, we keep it Southern and have some fun along the way, including Will’s hot takes on timeless debates like Waffle House vs. Cracker Barrel. He even shares a story about trying a famous pitmaster’s brisket that was so dang good it made him curse! This one’s about generosity, grit, and doing good work the right way - plates full, hearts open, and doors wide. Have a question you'd like us to answer on the show? Maybe a topic you want us to discuss? Email holler@southerngentlemen.com or leave us a voicemail by calling (833) 623-3768, ext. 806. Connect with us online: Instagram: Facebook: Patreon:
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Be Prepared: Calm in the Storm
01/29/2026
Be Prepared: Calm in the Storm
On this episode of Southern Gentlemen, Chris and Winston swap stories from the other side of the Great Winter Storm Fern of 2026 that shut down much of Middle Tennessee and had everybody rethinking just how prepared they really were. They break down what they learned the hard way - from water storage and food prep to keeping the lights on and the house warm when power went out. The guys talk generators (what they’ll have in place for the next time something like this happens), small decisions that made a big difference, and the gaps they didn’t realize they had until the storm hit. It’s a practical, boots-on-the-ground conversation about being ready for whatever comes next - without panic, fear, or turning your garage into a bunker. Just solid wisdom, a few laughs, and lessons learned from living through it together. If you’ve ever said, “We’ll deal with it when it happens,” this one’s for you. Have a question you'd like us to answer on the show? Maybe a topic you want us to discuss? Email holler@southerngentlemen.com or leave us a voicemail by calling (833) 623-3768, ext. 806. Connect with us online: Instagram: Facebook: Patreon:
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King, Warrior, Sage, and Lover: The Four Masculine Archetypes
01/22/2026
King, Warrior, Sage, and Lover: The Four Masculine Archetypes
On this episode of the Southern Gentlemen Podcast, Chris and Winston kick things off with a quick recap of the College Football National Championship Game before shifting gears into a deeper, more introspective conversation. The guys dive into the Four Archetypes of Masculinity — The King, The Warrior, The Sage, and The Lover — and explore how these archetypes show up in our lives for better… and sometimes for worse. To make it personal, Chris and Winston actually had ChatGPT build a 10-question assessment they could each take on the show. The results gave them insight into their primary and secondary archetypes, as well as the shadow sides that tend to surface under stress, pressure, or pride. Let’s just say there were a few eye-opening moments, some laughs, and more than a little self-reflection. If you’ve ever wondered why you lead the way you do, fight the way you do, love the way you do, or withdraw the way you do, this episode will hit close to home. 👉 Bonus: We’re including the full assessment questions and prompt in the show notes, so you can take it yourself and dig a little deeper into your own wiring. Pull up a chair. This one’s thoughtful, honest, and very much a Southern Gentlemen conversation. If you'd like to learn more about how you personally relate to the Four Masculine Archetypes, simply copy and paste the following 10-question quiz into ChatGPT and ask it to analyze your results. 🧭 The 10-Question Masculine Archetype Quiz 1. When you walk into a chaotic situation, your instinct is to: A) Take charge and bring order B) Confront the problem head-on C) Step back and assess what’s really happening D) Feel the emotional tone and connect with people 2. Your greatest strength is: A) Leadership and responsibility B) Discipline and follow-through C) Insight and understanding systems D) Passion and emotional depth 3. People most often come to you for: A) Direction and decisions B) Protection or action C) Advice and perspective D) Empathy and encouragement 4. Under stress, you tend to: A) Become controlling or withdrawn B) Get angry or push harder C) Overthink or detach D) Seek comfort or escape 5. What gives you the deepest sense of satisfaction? A) Building something that lasts B) Winning or completing a challenge C) Figuring out how things really work D) Feeling deeply connected or alive 6. Your relationship to rules is: A) I make or uphold them B) I use them to win C) I analyze or bend them D) I follow my feelings over them 7. When conflict arises, you usually: A) Mediate and restore order B) Stand your ground and fight C) Strategize quietly D) Try to preserve the relationship 8. You admire men who are: A) Wise and fair leaders B) Strong, brave, and relentless C) Intelligent and perceptive D) Passionate and expressive 9. As a boy, you were most often: A) Responsible or “old soul” B) Competitive or rebellious C) Curious or observant D) Sensitive or creative 10. If everything were taken away, you would rebuild by: A) Establishing stability and structure B) Fighting your way forward C) Learning, adapting, and planning D) Seeking meaning and connection Have a question you'd like us to answer on the show? Maybe a topic you want us to discuss? Email holler@southerngentlemen.com or leave us a voicemail by calling (833) 623-3768, ext. 806. Connect with us online: Instagram: Facebook: Patreon:
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Best Family Games 2026
01/15/2026
Best Family Games 2026
In this episode of Southern Gentlemen, Chris and Winston slow things down and talk about something close to home—good, old-fashioned fun with the people you love most. The guys share their favorite games to play with the whole family—the kind that get everyone around the table, spark a little friendly competition, and create the kind of memories that stick. From games that work with a wide range of ages to ones that are perfect for winding down in the evening, they break down what makes a great family game night and why it matters more than we sometimes realize. They also each share one game they enjoy playing just with their wives—a simple, intentional way to connect, laugh, and spend quality time together without distractions. Along the way, Chris gives Winston an update on his fast—how it’s going, what he’s learning, and what it’s doing for him mentally and physically. The guys also react to a big announcement NASCAR just made about a major change to their championship format, sharing their initial thoughts and what it could mean for the sport moving forward. It’s a laid-back, wide-ranging conversation about presence, laughter, discipline, and choosing togetherness in a busy world. Grab a cup of coffee, make a list for your next game night, and come hang out with the Southern Gentlemen. Have a question you'd like us to answer on the show? Maybe a topic you want us to discuss? Email holler@southerngentlemen.com or leave us a voicemail by calling (833) 623-3768, ext. 806. Connect with us online: Instagram: Facebook: Patreon:
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Faith, Flu, and Fresh Perspective
01/08/2026
Faith, Flu, and Fresh Perspective
In this episode of Southern Gentlemen, Chris and Winston catch up after the New Year break and ease back into the groove of things—flu bugs, family time, and all. Winston shares about capturing incredible drone footage of whales, while Chris talks through the fast he’s currently on and how he’s approaching the new year with a renewed focus on drawing closer to God. The guys also touch on current events (including what’s going on with Maduro), swap a few reflections from the break, and wrap things up with an update on new Southern Gentlemen hats that’ll be dropping soon. It’s a laid-back, wide-ranging conversation about faith, work, health, and stepping into a new year with intention. Pull up a chair and come on in. Have a question you'd like us to answer on the show? Maybe a topic you want us to discuss? Email holler@southerngentlemen.com or leave us a voicemail by calling (833) 623-3768, ext. 806. Connect with us online: Instagram: Facebook: Patreon:
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2026 Brings Contentment & Gratitude
01/01/2026
2026 Brings Contentment & Gratitude
In this episode of the Southern Gentlemen Podcast, Chris and Winston kick things off with a laid-back recap of Christmas—sharing a few highlights, reflections, and moments that made the season meaningful. From there, the conversation turns more reflective as they talk about contentment heading into a new year. They discuss the importance of choosing gratitude in a world that constantly invites comparison—especially when social media shows us everyone else’s highlight reel, but never the full story. Behind every post is a real person carrying something heavy: pain, loss, stress, disappointment, or uncertainty. Chris and Winston remind listeners how easy it is to measure our lives against someone else’s success, timing, or blessings—and how that trap quietly steals joy. Instead, they encourage leaning into thankfulness, staying present, and remembering that everyone is dealing with something, whether we can see it or not. Along the way, they also have some fun playing voicemails from listeners who called in to sing Christmas carols for the show—bringing a few laughs and a whole lot of charm. It’s a warm, honest conversation about perspective, gratitude, and learning to be content right where your boots are planted as you step into a new year. Pull up a chair and join the conversation. Have a question you'd like us to answer on the show? Maybe a topic you want us to discuss? Email holler@southerngentlemen.com or leave us a voicemail by calling (833) 623-3768, ext. 806. Connect with us online: Instagram: Facebook: Patreon:
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Top 3 Moments of 2025
12/18/2025
Top 3 Moments of 2025
In this laid-back catch-up episode of the Southern Gentlemen Podcast, Chris and Winston settle in and swap a few stories from real life before looking back on a big year for the show. Winston kicks things off with a recap of a recent quail hunt, then bravely walks us through his first dentist visit in almost three years — which goes about as well as you’d expect. Chris counters with a heart-pounding story involving his dog Huck, a wide-open field, and a pack of deer that had him holding his breath. From there, the guys reflect on 2025 and each share their top three favorite moments from the podcast this year — the conversations that stuck with them, the laughs they didn’t expect, and the episodes that meant a little more than most. It’s funny, honest, and very on-brand Southern Gentlemen — stories about the outdoors, real life, close calls, and gratitude for a year well spent. Pull up a chair and join the conversation. Have a question you'd like us to answer on the show? Maybe a topic you want us to discuss? Email holler@southerngentlemen.com or leave us a voicemail by calling (833) 623-3768, ext. 806. Connect with us online: Instagram: Facebook: Patreon: Subscribe, share, and don’t forget — stay Southern, y’all.
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2025 Christmas Gift Guide!
12/11/2025
2025 Christmas Gift Guide!
Christmas is coming, and the Southern Gentlemen are here to help you find the perfect gift for the men you love. In this festive episode, Chris and Winston run through a whole lineup of thoughtful, well-made gifts - everything from classic timepieces that’ll last a lifetime to products that make everyday life a little easier. And of course, they sprinkle in a few fun, unexpected ideas along the way. Whether you’re shopping for your husband, your dad, your college-aged kid, or that one buddy who “doesn’t need anything,” this episode is packed with inspiration. It’s practical, personal, and just a little bit Southern - exactly what you’d expect from the fellas. Grab some coffee, settle in, and let us help you knock out that Christmas list with charm, intentionality, and a whole lot of good cheer. Have a question you'd like us to answer on the show? Maybe a topic you want us to discuss? Email holler@southerngentlemen.com or leave us a voicemail by calling (833) 623-3768, ext. 806. Connect with us online: Instagram: Facebook: Patreon: Subscribe, share, and don’t forget — stay Southern, y’all.
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Made in Mississippi with Nick Weaver of Blue Delta Jeans
12/04/2025
Made in Mississippi with Nick Weaver of Blue Delta Jeans
In this episode, Chris and Winston sit down with Nick Weaver, co-founder of the legendary custom denim brand Blue Delta Jeans. Nick shares the story of how he and his partner, Josh West, started the company from scratch, why they chose the “build it slow and build it right” approach, and how they’ve grown Blue Delta into one of the most respected names in American-made denim over the past decade. They dig into the ups and downs of entrepreneurship, lessons learned from scaling a premium product, the power of relationships, and what it really takes to create something that lasts. Nick also opens up about life off the road — how he works to be a present husband and dad while juggling a demanding travel schedule, and the intentional choices he’s made to keep family first even while the business keeps growing. And because you can’t have a Mississippian in the room without bringing it up… they talk a little Ole Miss football, too. It’s a fun, honest, and wide-ranging conversation with a Southern gentleman who has lived the grind and kept his priorities intact. Tune in and enjoy. Have a question you'd like us to answer on the show? Maybe a topic you want us to discuss? Email holler@southerngentlemen.com or leave us a voicemail by calling (833) 623-3768, ext. 806. Connect with us online: Instagram: Facebook: Patreon: Subscribe, share, and don’t forget — stay Southern, y’all.
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Thanksgiving SIDE DISHES!
11/27/2025
Thanksgiving SIDE DISHES!
In this Thanksgiving-themed episode of the Southern Gentlemen Podcast, Chris and Winston roll up their sleeves and dive into one of the most important conversations of the holiday season: the side dishes. The fellas each reveal their Top 5 Favorite Thanksgiving Sides, from the classics that never fail to the under-the-radar dishes that deserve more love at the family table. Along the way, they share stories from past Thanksgivings, debate the proper ratio of dressing to gravy, and confess the one side dish they absolutely cannot stand - the kind that makes them shake their heads and wonder why it keeps showing up every year. It’s a fun, flavorful, and very Southern conversation full of laughs, strong opinions, and maybe even a little gentle judgment. Pull up a chair, grab a plate, and join the boys as they talk all things Thanksgiving. Have a question you'd like us to answer on the show? Maybe a topic you want us to discuss? Email holler@southerngentlemen.com or leave us a voicemail by calling (833) 623-3768, ext. 806. Connect with us online: Instagram: Facebook: Patreon: Subscribe, share, and don’t forget — stay Southern, y’all.
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What Women Carry
11/20/2025
What Women Carry
In this episode of the Southern Gentlemen Podcast, Chris walks into the studio carrying something a little unexpected… his wife Kimberly’s purse. Naturally, this leads to a brand-new game where Winston has to blindly guess the wild assortment of things that might be hiding inside. From mystery lotions to receipts of unknown origin, the fellas stumble into plenty of laughs as they dig through the depths of “the bag.” But like most things on this show, the fun opens the door to something a bit deeper. Chris and Winston end up talking about how men and women carry things differently in life — not just physically, but emotionally and spiritually, too. They explore why women often feel responsible for so much unseen weight, why men tend to just “stuff it down and keep movin’,” and how couples can share the load a little better. It’s a mix of humor, honesty, and good old Southern reflection — exactly what you’d expect from a couple of front-porch philosophers with microphones. Tune in for some laughs, a few surprises, and a conversation that might just stick with you. Have a question you'd like us to answer on the show? Maybe a topic you want us to discuss? Email holler@southerngentlemen.com or leave us a voicemail by calling (833) 623-3768, ext. 806. Connect with us online: Instagram: Facebook: Patreon: Subscribe, share, and don’t forget — stay Southern, y’all.
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Unexpected Company #2 with Special Guest Allen Blaxton
11/13/2025
Unexpected Company #2 with Special Guest Allen Blaxton
In this moving installment of The Southern Gentlemen Podcast, Chris and Winston sit down with their next “Unexpected Company” guest, Allen Blaxton — a 25-year veteran of the U.S. Navy who spent two of those years as Maintenance Officer for the legendary Blue Angels. Allen was introduced to the show by our previous “Unexpected Company” guest, Michael Farren, and his story takes listeners on a powerful journey through service, music, loss, and faith. After retiring from the Navy, Allen traded fighter jets for drumsticks, becoming a full-time professional drummer. But the heart of this conversation centers on something far deeper — the heartbreaking loss of his son, Isaac, to a fentanyl overdose in 2023. Chris, Winston, and Allen talk openly about grief, marriage through tragedy, and the power of community in the face of unimaginable pain. It’s an honest, emotional, and ultimately hopeful conversation about love, resilience, and the ways we keep showing up — for ourselves, for our families, and for one another. Do you have a question you'd like us to answer on the show? Maybe a topic you'd like to hear us discuss? Email holler@southerngentlemen.com or leave us a voicemail by calling (833) 623-3768, ext. 806. Connect with us online: Instagram: Facebook: Patreon: Subscribe, share, and don’t forget — stay Southern, y’all.
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Turkey Tips, Mud Masks, and Michelin
11/06/2025
Turkey Tips, Mud Masks, and Michelin
The brand new Southern Gentlemen Hat is officially available! if you'd like to pick one up and support the show. In this week’s episode of The Southern Gentlemen Podcast, Chris and Winston kick things off by answering a listener’s voicemail asking the all-important question: what’s the best way to prepare a Thanksgiving turkey? The fellas share their favorite tips (and a few cautionary tales). Then things take a turn when Chris shares his experience with his first-ever mud mask treatment, leading to a discussion on self-care, ritual, and relaxation. The guys also recap the final NASCAR race of the year and unpack another championship that slipped through Denny Hamlin’s fingers. They also dive into the fragmentation of today’s media world, including how the Disney–YouTube spat threw a wrench in weekend SEC football viewing. Finally, they discuss Michelin’s new Southern dining guide and what it means for food culture below the Mason-Dixon line. And just when things start to settle down, Winston makes a surprise phone call live on the air that catches everyone off guard. It’s equal parts humor, hospitality, and heartfelt Southern banter — just the way we like it. Got a question you'd like us to answer on the show? Email holler@southerngentlemen.com or leave us a voicemail by calling (833) 623-3768, ext. 806. Connect with us online: Instagram: Facebook: Patreon: Subscribe, share, and don’t forget — stay Southern, y’all.
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I Accidentally Booked a Brothel!
10/30/2025
I Accidentally Booked a Brothel!
The brand new Southern Gentlemen Hat is officially available! if you'd like to pick one up and support the show. In this week’s episode of Southern Gentlemen, Chris and Winston cover a little bit of everything. They kick things off by answering a listener’s question about vow renewals, share why they decided to delete their TikTok account, and then Chris tells the wild story of accidentally booking a night for he and his wife to stay at what used to be a brothel. Winston gives an update on his ongoing Alpha-gal journey, and the guys wrap things up with a spirited conversation about Coach Tony Vitello’s big move from leading the Tennessee Volunteers baseball team to managing the San Francisco Giants. It’s a mix of laughs, lessons, and a whole lot of Southern charm. Got a question you'd like us to answer on the show? Email holler@southerngentlemen.com or leave us a voicemail by calling (833) 623-3768, ext. 806. Connect with us online: Instagram: Facebook: Patreon: Subscribe, share, and don’t forget — stay Southern, y’all.
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Roller Coasters & Wisephones
10/24/2025
Roller Coasters & Wisephones
The brand new Southern Gentlemen Hat is officially available! if you'd like to pick one up and support the show. In this week’s episode of the Southern Gentlemen Podcast, Chris and Winston are all over the map — in the best way. Chris shares stories from his family’s fall break trip to Dollywood, including some insider pro tips for anyone planning a visit. Winston gives an update on his bold move away from the iPhone to a minimalist Wisephone, and how that’s been going so far. They also dive into Winston’s questionable dentist habits (or total lack thereof), sparking a funny and honest conversation about technology, self-care, and the little things we all tend to neglect. It’s a front-porch kind of episode — casual, honest, and full of laughs. Got a question for The Gentlemen? Email (833) 623-3768, ext. 806. Connect with us online: Instagram: Facebook: Patreon: Subscribe, share, and don’t forget — stay Southern, y’all.
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Let's Talk Testosterone (with Dr. Christopher Motley)
10/16/2025
Let's Talk Testosterone (with Dr. Christopher Motley)
The brand new Southern Gentlemen Hat is officially available! if you'd like to pick one up and support the show. In this episode, Chris and Winston sit down with Dr. Christopher Motley to have an honest, insightful conversation about something every man needs to understand—testosterone. They dig into what testosterone really is, how it affects a man’s energy, mood, focus, strength, and overall health, and why maintaining healthy levels is so important as we age. Dr. Motley breaks down practical, natural ways to boost testosterone—from the right supplements and specific exercises to better sleep, nutrition, and stress management. The guys also discuss TRT (Testosterone Replacement Therapy)—what it is, who it’s for, and the potential drawbacks that men should consider before jumping in. It’s a candid, educational, and often funny conversation about one of the most misunderstood topics in men’s health—one that might just change how you approach taking care of your body. Got a question for The Gentlemen? Email (833) 623-3768, ext. 806. Connect with us online: Instagram: Facebook: Patreon: Subscribe, share, and don’t forget — stay Southern, y’all.
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Innovation, Leadership, and Fatherhood with Justin Marks of Trackhouse Racing
10/09/2025
Innovation, Leadership, and Fatherhood with Justin Marks of Trackhouse Racing
The brand new Southern Gentlemen Hat is officially available! if you'd like to pick one up and support the show. In this episode, Chris and Winston sit down with Justin Marks—founder and CEO of Trackhouse Entertainment Group—to talk about how he went from driver to building one of the most innovative teams in NASCAR. Justin opens up about what it takes to lead a company of more than 180 employees, the habits and disciplines that help him stay grounded as a husband and father while navigating the chaos of professional motorsports, and why personal stewardship is key to long-term success. Along the way, the guys throw him some fun curveballs—like whether he’s Team Cracker Barrel or Team Waffle House—and the hot-take question: Is Missouri a Southern state? All that and more in this wide-ranging conversation about leadership, legacy, and living with purpose. Got a question for The Gentlemen? Email (833) 623-3768, ext. 806. Connect with us online: Instagram: Facebook: Patreon: Subscribe, share, and don’t forget — stay Southern, y’all.
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The One That Made Chris Cuss
10/02/2025
The One That Made Chris Cuss
The brand new Southern Gentlemen Hat is officially available! if you'd like to pick one up and support the show. In this episode, Chris and Winston call an audible and set aside their original plan to dive into something that’s been stirring in Chris’ heart as he approaches his 48th birthday: the idea of being a wiser steward. They unpack how true stewardship begins with ourselves — our souls, our spiritual lives, and our relationship with God. When we tend to that foundation first, we gain the wisdom and strength to faithfully care for our marriages, our children, our friendships, our finances, our time, and everything else God has placed in our hands. The conversation gets so real and personal that Chris, fired up by the weight of it all, actually lets a cuss word slip. It’s raw, honest, and full of conviction — a reminder that stewardship isn’t about perfection, but about intentionality, grace, and growth. Got a question for The Gentlemen? Email (833) 623-3768, ext. 806. Connect with us online: Instagram: Facebook: TikTok: Patreon: Subscribe, share, and don’t forget — stay Southern, y’all.
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Would You Rather - Questions From Our Kids!
09/25/2025
Would You Rather - Questions From Our Kids!
The brand new Southern Gentlemen Hat is officially available! if you'd like to pick one up and support the show. Things get a little closer to home in this episode of the Southern Gentlemen Podcast as Chris and Winston take on a round of “Would You Rather”—but this time, the questions come straight from their kids. From silly dilemmas to surprisingly thoughtful curveballs, the guys do their best to keep up with the next generation’s creativity. Just when they think they’re in the clear, their wives sneak in a few of their own questions—guaranteeing some laughs, a little mischief, and maybe even a bit of marital payback. Grab a seat on the porch and join in the fun as family puts these Southern Gentlemen in the hot seat. Got a question for The Gentlemen? Email (833) 623-3768, ext. 806. Connect with us online: Instagram: Facebook: TikTok: Patreon: Subscribe, share, and don’t forget — stay Southern, y’all.
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Did BIGXTHAPLUG Make A Country Album?
09/18/2025
Did BIGXTHAPLUG Make A Country Album?
The brand new Southern Gentlemen Hat is officially available! if you'd like to pick one up and support the show. Chris and Winston dive into I Hope You’re Happy, the new album from BIGXTHAPLUG, and unpack what makes it one of the most talked-about releases of the year. They highlight the surprising country artists featured on the record and debate whether this bold mash-up of sounds can truly be called “country music.” Is it a fresh chapter in the genre’s evolution or something else entirely? Tune in as the Southern Gentlemen put their Southern spin on this genre-bending conversation. Got a question for The Gentlemen? Email (833) 623-3768, ext. 806. Connect with us online: Instagram: Facebook: TikTok: Patreon: Subscribe, share, and don’t forget — stay Southern, y’all.
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Does ChatGPT Hate The South?
09/11/2025
Does ChatGPT Hate The South?
The brand new Southern Gentlemen Hat is officially available! if you'd like to pick one up and support the show. In this episode of the Southern Gentlemen Podcast, Chris and Winston dive into a hilarious - and maybe a little frustrating - interaction that Chris recently had with ChatGPT. He asked the AI to turn a photo of Winston into “the most Southern image ever”… and the technology flat-out refused. That moment sparks a bigger conversation between the guys about whether AI carries hidden biases against Southerners and Southern culture. Is it harmless programming, or is there something deeper going on when technology doesn’t quite “get” the South? With their trademark humor and curiosity, Chris and Winston explore the tension between modern tech and timeless Southern identity, asking the question: can a machine ever truly understand sweet tea, front porches, and SEC football? Got a question for The Gentlemen? Email (833) 623-3768, ext. 806. Connect with us online: Instagram: Facebook: TikTok: Patreon: Subscribe, share, and don’t forget — stay Southern, y’all.
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The Definitive Map of The South
09/04/2025
The Definitive Map of The South
The brand new Southern Gentlemen Hat is officially available! if you'd like to pick one up and support the show. In this episode of the Southern Gentlemen Podcast, Chris Thomas and Winston Cruze dive headfirst into one of the South’s most spirited debates: which states really belong in the South, and which ones just can’t claim the title. From Florida’s split personality to the eternal question of Texas pride, the guys break it all down with their signature mix of humor, history, and good ol’ Southern common sense. Expect plenty of laughs, a few hot takes, and maybe even a surprise or two about where the Mason-Dixon line really matters. Grab your sweet tea and settle in—it’s about to get regional! Got a question for The Gentlemen? Email (833) 623-3768, ext. 806. Connect with us online: Instagram: Facebook: TikTok: Patreon: Subscribe, share, and don’t forget — stay Southern, y’all.
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What On Earth Is Happening At Cracker Barrel??!?
08/29/2025
What On Earth Is Happening At Cracker Barrel??!?
This week, Chris Thomas and Winston Cruze pull up their rocking chairs and dig into one of the South’s most beloved - and now most controversial - institutions: Cracker Barrel. From rocking chairs on the front porch to hashbrown casserole on Sunday mornings, the Barrel has always been a Southern staple. But lately? Well, let’s just say some of their recent brand changes have folks scratching their heads (and not because of the peg game). Chris and Winston break down what’s happening inside those country stores, how the company is shifting its image, and whether the fried okra still tastes the same. Expect laughs, hot takes, and maybe even a few stories about their own Cracker Barrel memories. Grab a biscuit and join the conversation - this is one you won’t want to miss. Got a question for The Gentlemen? Email (833) 623-3768, ext. 806. Connect with us online: Instagram: Facebook: TikTok: Patreon: Subscribe, share, and don’t forget — stay Southern, y’all.
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NIL Explained: What It Means for College Athletes
08/21/2025
NIL Explained: What It Means for College Athletes
In this episode of the Southern Gentlemen Podcast, hosts Chris Thomas and Winston Cruze dig into the world of college athletics and NIL. Winston shares details from a recent meeting he attended with The Volunteer Club—a Knoxville-based collective dedicated to supporting University of Tennessee student-athletes and fans through Name, Image, and Likeness (NIL) opportunities. He breaks down what he learned about the current landscape of NIL, how it’s shaping the future of college sports, and what it really means for both players and programs. Chris and Winston also share their own perspectives on how NIL could impact traditions, recruiting, and the Southern culture around college athletics. Then they answer a question from a listener from Norway who is planning an upcoming road trip through the American South. If you’ve ever wondered how NIL is changing the game, this episode offers an inside look with plenty of laughs and Southern perspective along the way. Got a question for The Gentlemen? Email (833) 623-3768, ext. 806. Connect with us online: Instagram: Facebook: TikTok: Patreon: Subscribe, share, and don’t forget — stay Southern, y’all.
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REVEALED: Who's On Our "Bitin' Lists?"
08/14/2025
REVEALED: Who's On Our "Bitin' Lists?"
In this episode of the Southern Gentlemen Podcast, Chris Thomas and Winston Cruze reveal the folks who’ve earned a spot on their Bitin’ Lists - their own personal roster of people who just plain drive ‘em crazy. Inspired by Tyler Childers’ new song “Bitin’ List,” they swap stories, vent a little, laugh a lot, and maybe even name names (bless their hearts). From petty annoyances to downright aggravations, nothing’s off the table - except maybe good manners. Got a question for The Gentlemen? Email: (833) 623-3768, ext. 806. Connect with us online: Instagram: Facebook: TikTok: Patreon: Subscribe, share, and don’t forget — stay Southern, y’all.
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County Fairs & Buried Whiskey Treasure
08/07/2025
County Fairs & Buried Whiskey Treasure
In this episode of the Southern Gentlemen Podcast, hosts Chris Thomas and Winston Cruze are back with a jam-packed show full of Southern charm, curious discoveries, and exciting announcements. First up, they reveal the official list of retail partners now carrying the first ever Southern Gentlemen Camo Hat! Complete list below. Then they announce some brand-spankin'-new ways you can connect with the show, including - drumroll please - a toll free phone number. That’s right, we’ve gone full Southern Gentlemen Hotline. Chris shares some stories from a recent family trip to the county fair — think fried food, long lines, and questionable rides — then Winston dives into his latest unexpected find while flipping an old house: sealed antique whiskey bottles. Yep, it's like something out of a dusty Southern time capsule. Got a question for The Gentlemen? Email: Call and leave a voicemail: (833) 623-3768 ext. 806 Wanna pick up a Southern Gentlemen Camo Hat? Hit up one of these fine retail establishments. Alabama (, , ) Georgia () Tennessee (, , ) Texas (, ) Connect with us online: Instagram: Facebook: TikTok: Patreon: Subscribe, share, and don’t forget — stay Southern, y’all.
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Strawberry Sweet Tea, Sharp Cuts, and Secret Episodes
07/31/2025
Strawberry Sweet Tea, Sharp Cuts, and Secret Episodes
In this episode of the Southern Gentlemen Podcast, Chris and Winston crack open some Alabama-made strawberry sweet tea and catch up on a few current events with their usual mix of humor and hot takes. Chris reviews a new-fangled wallet he just purchased, then shares a life-changing moment he recently had at the barber shop - yes, really. Plus, the fellas announce their very first Patreon-exclusive episode, now live at . If you want even more Southern banter, behind-the-scenes goodness, and off-the-record stories… that’s where to find it. Grab a glass and settle in - this one’s got the flavor. 🎙 Hosted by Chris Thomas & Winston Cruze 🍓 Sweet tea provided by good folks at down in Alabama 💈 Summer pro-tip from the barber’s chair 🧡 Patreon now open at: — Connect with us online: Instagram: Facebook: TikTok: Patreon: — New episodes every week. Subscribe and share with a fellow gentleman.
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Zach Top & The Summer Uniform Dilemma
07/24/2025
Zach Top & The Summer Uniform Dilemma
In this episode of the Southern Gentlemen Podcast, Chris is contemplating a bold new fashion choice that might just define his official “summer uniform,” and Winston has thoughts. Then the fellas dive into the main course: Chris introduces Winston (and you) to one of his new favorite voices in country music - Zach Top. He plays three songs and the guys break down what makes this fella so dang good. They wrap things up with a couple of questions from The Male Bag, where listeners ask everything from serious to silly. Saddle up, it’s a good one. 🎧 Hosted by Chris Thomas & Winston Cruze 📬 Got a question for The Male Bag? Drop us a line at ! Be sure to include your first name and city/state so we can give you a shout out on the show! Follow Southern Gentlemen: Instagram: Facebook: TikTok: Patreon: — New episodes every week. Subscribe and share with a fellow gentleman. #SouthernGentlemenPodcast #SouthernGentlemen #Podcast #SouthernPodcast #ZachTop #CountryMusic #RealCountryMusic #CountryMusicDiscovery #SummerStyle #SouthernStyle #MensFashion #SummerUniform #SouthernGentlemanStyle
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Tomato Pie + Our Review of The Waterfront on Netflix
07/17/2025
Tomato Pie + Our Review of The Waterfront on Netflix
After a week off (thanks to Chris’ sickly immune system), the boys are back behind the mics for another round of Southern charm and questionable opinions. Chris and Winston catch up on life - including the curious case of tomato pie (which Winston just discovered is a real thing) and the homecoming of Huck & Birdie, Chris' two German Shepherd pups fresh outta doggy boot camp. Then it’s time to talk TV. Specifically, the Netflix Original Series The Waterfront. Let’s just say… bless its heart. The Southern Gentlemen give it a fair shake before diving into a spoiler-filled, painfully honest review. You’ve been warned. Pull up a chair, pour something strong, and enjoy the ride. Follow Southern Gentlemen: Instagram: Facebook: TikTok: Patreon: — New episodes every week. Subscribe and share with a fellow gentleman. #SouthernGentlemenPodcast #TomatoPie #NetflixReview #HuckAndBirdie #BlessItsHeart
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Funniest Southern Sayings (Some We've Never Even Heard!)
07/03/2025
Funniest Southern Sayings (Some We've Never Even Heard!)
Our first ever Southern Gentlemen Camo Hat is now available for preorder ! Only a few left, so snag yours before they're gone. In this laugh-out-loud episode of the Southern Gentlemen Podcast, Chris Thomas and Winston Cruze dive headfirst into the wild world of Southern sayings - some charming, some confusing, and some downright bizarre. From "Eatin' onions and tellin' secrets" to "That dog won’t hunt," the fellas unpack dozens of oddball expressions, many of which they’d never even heard before (and they’re pretty dang Southern themselves). It’s a hilarious ride through the colorful language of the South—where folks don’t just talk, they paint pictures with their words. Pull up a chair, pour a glass of sweet tea, and get ready to laugh till your stomach hurts. This one’s as Southern as grits and gravy. Don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review if you’re enjoying the show! Connect with us online at 📲 Follow Us: | | |
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