Southern Gentlemen
Southern Gentlemen is a podcast hosted by Chris Thomas and Winston Cruze. We're just two good ol' boys from the American South, making our way the only way we know how. In each episode of Southern Gentlemen, we chat about things we find interesting. From being better husbands and dads, to hunting, gear, cocktails, and more, we always come at it from a Southern perspective, and we always have a lot of fun. We're grateful y'all are here!
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County Fairs & Buried Whiskey Treasure
08/07/2025
County Fairs & Buried Whiskey Treasure
In this episode of the Southern Gentlemen Podcast, hosts Chris Thomas and Winston Cruze are back with a jam-packed show full of Southern charm, curious discoveries, and exciting announcements. First up, they reveal the official list of retail partners now carrying the first ever Southern Gentlemen Camo Hat! Complete list below. Then they announce some brand-spankin'-new ways you can connect with the show, including - drumroll please - a toll free phone number. That’s right, we’ve gone full Southern Gentlemen Hotline. Chris shares some stories from a recent family trip to the county fair — think fried food, long lines, and questionable rides — then Winston dives into his latest unexpected find while flipping an old house: sealed antique whiskey bottles. Yep, it's like something out of a dusty Southern time capsule. Got a question for The Gentlemen? Email: Call and leave a voicemail: (833) 623-3768 ext. 806 Wanna pick up a Southern Gentlemen Camo Hat? Hit up one of these fine retail establishments. Alabama (, , ) Georgia () Tennessee (, , ) Texas (, ) Connect with us online: Instagram: Facebook: TikTok: Patreon: Subscribe, share, and don’t forget — stay Southern, y’all.
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Strawberry Sweet Tea, Sharp Cuts, and Secret Episodes
07/31/2025
Strawberry Sweet Tea, Sharp Cuts, and Secret Episodes
In this episode of the Southern Gentlemen Podcast, Chris and Winston crack open some Alabama-made strawberry sweet tea and catch up on a few current events with their usual mix of humor and hot takes. Chris reviews a new-fangled wallet he just purchased, then shares a life-changing moment he recently had at the barber shop - yes, really. Plus, the fellas announce their very first Patreon-exclusive episode, now live at . If you want even more Southern banter, behind-the-scenes goodness, and off-the-record stories… that’s where to find it. Grab a glass and settle in - this one’s got the flavor. 🎙 Hosted by Chris Thomas & Winston Cruze 🍓 Sweet tea provided by good folks at down in Alabama 💈 Summer pro-tip from the barber’s chair 🧡 Patreon now open at: — Connect with us online: Instagram: Facebook: TikTok: Patreon: — New episodes every week. Subscribe and share with a fellow gentleman.
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Zach Top & The Summer Uniform Dilemma
07/24/2025
Zach Top & The Summer Uniform Dilemma
In this episode of the Southern Gentlemen Podcast, Chris is contemplating a bold new fashion choice that might just define his official “summer uniform,” and Winston has thoughts. Then the fellas dive into the main course: Chris introduces Winston (and you) to one of his new favorite voices in country music - Zach Top. He plays three songs and the guys break down what makes this fella so dang good. They wrap things up with a couple of questions from The Male Bag, where listeners ask everything from serious to silly. Saddle up, it’s a good one. 🎧 Hosted by Chris Thomas & Winston Cruze 📬 Got a question for The Male Bag? Drop us a line at ! Be sure to include your first name and city/state so we can give you a shout out on the show! Follow Southern Gentlemen: Instagram: Facebook: TikTok: Patreon: — New episodes every week. Subscribe and share with a fellow gentleman. #SouthernGentlemenPodcast #SouthernGentlemen #Podcast #SouthernPodcast #ZachTop #CountryMusic #RealCountryMusic #CountryMusicDiscovery #SummerStyle #SouthernStyle #MensFashion #SummerUniform #SouthernGentlemanStyle
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Tomato Pie + Our Review of The Waterfront on Netflix
07/17/2025
Tomato Pie + Our Review of The Waterfront on Netflix
After a week off (thanks to Chris’ sickly immune system), the boys are back behind the mics for another round of Southern charm and questionable opinions. Chris and Winston catch up on life - including the curious case of tomato pie (which Winston just discovered is a real thing) and the homecoming of Huck & Birdie, Chris' two German Shepherd pups fresh outta doggy boot camp. Then it’s time to talk TV. Specifically, the Netflix Original Series The Waterfront. Let’s just say… bless its heart. The Southern Gentlemen give it a fair shake before diving into a spoiler-filled, painfully honest review. You’ve been warned. Pull up a chair, pour something strong, and enjoy the ride. Follow Southern Gentlemen: Instagram: Facebook: TikTok: Patreon: — New episodes every week. Subscribe and share with a fellow gentleman. #SouthernGentlemenPodcast #TomatoPie #NetflixReview #HuckAndBirdie #BlessItsHeart
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Funniest Southern Sayings (Some We've Never Even Heard!)
07/03/2025
Funniest Southern Sayings (Some We've Never Even Heard!)
Our first ever Southern Gentlemen Camo Hat is now available for preorder ! Only a few left, so snag yours before they're gone. In this laugh-out-loud episode of the Southern Gentlemen Podcast, Chris Thomas and Winston Cruze dive headfirst into the wild world of Southern sayings - some charming, some confusing, and some downright bizarre. From "Eatin' onions and tellin' secrets" to "That dog won’t hunt," the fellas unpack dozens of oddball expressions, many of which they’d never even heard before (and they’re pretty dang Southern themselves). It’s a hilarious ride through the colorful language of the South—where folks don’t just talk, they paint pictures with their words. Pull up a chair, pour a glass of sweet tea, and get ready to laugh till your stomach hurts. This one’s as Southern as grits and gravy. Don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review if you’re enjoying the show! Connect with us online at 📲 Follow Us: | | |
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Kindness Ain’t Weakness: Southern Hospitality in a Divided World
06/26/2025
Kindness Ain’t Weakness: Southern Hospitality in a Divided World
Our first ever Southern Gentlemen Camo Hat is now available for preorder ! Super limited availability, so snag yours before they're gone. In this episode of the Southern Gentlemen Podcast, Chris Thomas and Winston Cruze tackle a heavy truth: the world feels angrier and more divided than ever. Folks are shouting, canceling, and clashing over everything—and it’s exhausting. But what if Southern hospitality isn’t just for front porches and dinner tables? What if it’s a secret weapon for real change? Chris and Winston dig into how we as Southern Gentlemen can bring kindness, respect, and calm into everyday interactions - whether it’s with your neighbor, your co-worker, or the stranger who just cut you off in traffic. They explore how to lead with grace without compromising truth, and how standing firm in your principles doesn’t mean being a jerk about it. Pull up a chair, pour something strong, and join the conversation about how to be a man of conviction and compassion in a world that desperately needs both. Don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review if you’re enjoying the show! Connect with us online at 📲 Follow Us: | | |
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Did They Copy That Song?
06/19/2025
Did They Copy That Song?
Be sure to sign up for our email list at if you want first dibs on our first ever Southern Gentlemen Camo Hat! In this episode of the Southern Gentlemen Podcast, Chris Thomas and Winston Cruze dive into a curious case of déjà vu in the world of modern country music. Two hit songs—different artists, nearly identical sound. Is it inspiration, coincidence, or something more? The guys break down the similarities between the tracks and use the moment to explore the formula for a "popular" country song today. They also get into the legal side of songwriting: what can you protect, what can’t you, and how the Nashville machine keeps churning out familiar-sounding hits. If you’ve ever listened to a song and thought, “Wait a minute… haven’t I heard this before?”—this one’s for you. 🎙️ Tune in, tap your boots, and let’s talk twang, trends, and tune theft. Connect with us online at 📲 Follow Us: | | |
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Southern Dad Gift Guide
06/12/2025
Southern Dad Gift Guide
Be sure to sign up for our email list at if you want first dibs on our first ever Southern Gentlemen Camo Hat! In this special Father's Day episode of The Southern Gentlemen Podcast, Chris Thomas and Winston Cruze each bring three hand-picked items to the table that they believe every Southern dad would love. From grilling gear to outdoor essentials, this Southern-inspired gift guide is packed with thoughtful, rugged, and downright cool recommendations. Featured brands include: 🦆 – for the outdoorsy dad who demands the best 🐠 – Southern inspired threads with laid-back charm 🔥 – for the dad who rules the kitchen (or the campfire) 🦌 – stylish everyday performance wear 🧊 – because warm drinks are a sin 🔪 – handmade blades that are sharp in every sense Whether you're shopping for your dad, your husband, or treating yourself (we won’t judge), this episode is loaded with Southern charm and rock-solid gift ideas. Don’t forget to hit subscribe, leave a comment with your favorite pick, and share this with someone who needs a last-minute gift idea! Connect with us online at 📲 Follow Us: | | |
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Must Have Skills For Southern Men
06/05/2025
Must Have Skills For Southern Men
Be sure to sign up for our email list at if you want first dibs on our first ever Southern Gentlemen Camo Hat! In this episode of the Southern Gentlemen Podcast, hosts Chris Thomas and Winston Cruze break down the essential life skills every Southern man ought to have in his back pocket. From grilling a perfect steak to building a fire that would make your granddaddy proud, the fellas cover the timeless talents that separate the boys from the men. They also share why having a signature cocktail is non-negotiable—and how to whip one up in a pinch. To wrap things up, they dig into The Male Bag to answer a listener question that’s got ‘em thinking... and maybe even laughing a little too hard. Pull up a chair, pour yourself something smooth, and settle in for another episode full of wisdom, wit, and a whole lot of Southern charm. Connect with us online at 📲 Follow Us: | | |
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Memorial Day, Earnhardt, and Buc-ee's
05/29/2025
Memorial Day, Earnhardt, and Buc-ee's
In this episode of the Southern Gentlemen Podcast, Chris Thomas and Winston Cruze recap their Memorial Day weekends, then dive into the first two episodes of the new Amazon Prime docuseries Earnhardt, unpacking the legacy, the legend, and the unmistakable mustache of Dale Sr. They talk about what the series gets right, what it might be missing, and what Earnhardt meant to the South beyond just racing. Then, it’s time to reach into the ol’ Male Bag, where a listener poses the very serious, very Southern question: “Is Buc-ee's worth the hype?” Chris and Winston have a very spirited beaver debate, and we find out which one of them owns a Buc-ee's onesie. ;) Grab a cold Cheerwine, settle into your rocking chair, and enjoy another dose of Southern wit, wisdom, and wholehearted man talk. Connect with us online at 📲 Follow Us: | | |
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Major Podcast Updates!
05/22/2025
Major Podcast Updates!
In this episode of The Southern Gentlemen Podcast, your hosts Chris Thomas and Winston Cruze catch up on all the latest life happenings and podcast updates. Chris’ wild and crazy German Shepherd puppies - Huck and Birdie - are finally headed off to doggy boot camp with the same trainer who worked wonders with Winston’s dog June. The fellas also talk about what’s new with the show: we’ve fully bounced back from the Great YouTube Channel Deletion of 2025, the subscriber count is climbing, and we’re getting ready to move into a brand-new studio space. The guys give an update on the first Southern Gentlemen camo hat (yes, it’s happening), and wrap things up by digging into a handful of your listener-submitted questions in a segment we call The Male Bag. It’s casual, it’s funny, and it’s exactly what you need in your ears this week. Connect with us online at 📲 Follow Us: | | |
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The Power of a Champion with special guest Ben Utecht
05/15/2025
The Power of a Champion with special guest Ben Utecht
In this episode of the Southern Gentlemen Podcast, Chris Thomas and Winston Cruze sit down with former NFL tight end, Super Bowl Champion, and one of Winston’s closest friends - Ben Utecht. The conversation kicks off with a powerful story about how Coach Tony Dungy’s belief in Ben changed the course of his life and led to him becoming a key part of the Super Bowl-winning Indianapolis Colts. The guys then dive into Ben’s deeply personal journey following his football career - his battle with CTE, memory loss, and the emotional toll of life after the NFL. Ben shares how those challenges became fuel for his second act as a speaker and author. They unpack his latest book, The Champion’s Creed, and how he's using it to inspire teams, businesses, and individuals to live with purpose and conviction. And to lighten things up, the episode wraps with a fun little showdown game: Minneapolis vs. Nashville. Spoiler alert - things get competitive. Pull up a chair, pour something good, and join us for a conversation that’s honest, moving, and full of heart. To learn more about Ben, visit Connect with Chris and Winston online at 📲 Follow Us: | | |
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Kentucky Bourbon & Southern Hospitality with special guest Dixon Dedman
05/08/2025
Kentucky Bourbon & Southern Hospitality with special guest Dixon Dedman
In this episode of The Southern Gentlemen Podcast, hosts Chris Thomas and Winston Cruze sit down with Dixon Dedman - 12th generation Kentucky native, hospitality pro, and whiskey-maker with Southern roots deeper than an old oak tree. Dixon shares stories from his time running his family’s James Beard Award-winning inn, The Beaumont Inn, and how he brought his great-great-grandfather’s long-lost bourbon brand, Kentucky Owl, back to life. The conversation gets real as Dixon opens up about the emotional journey of selling both Kentucky Owl and The Beaumont Inn, what that taught him, and how those experiences led to his bold new venture: 2XO Whiskey. The fellas also dive into what truly makes Southern hospitality stand out in a noisy world, how tradition and innovation can live in the same bottle, and why the stories we carry are just as important as the spirits we pour. Grab a glass and settle in - this one’s all heart, history, and a good pour of wisdom. To learn more about Dixon and 2XO, visit . Connect with Chris and Winston online at ! 📲 Follow Us: | | |
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We're All Addicts with Special Guest Ian Morgan Cron
05/01/2025
We're All Addicts with Special Guest Ian Morgan Cron
In this episode of the Southern Gentlemen Podcast, hosts Chris Thomas and Winston Cruze sit down with bestselling author Ian Morgan Cron for an honest and engaging conversation. The three men talk about Ian’s move from the Northeast to Nashville, and what captured his heart about life in the South — including his deep affection for the way Southerners talk. They dive into Ian’s bestselling book The Road Back To You, exploring how Christians perceive the Enneagram and why it can be such a powerful tool for spiritual growth. Ian also opens up about his latest book, The Fix, and shares why he believes that at some level, we’re all addicts searching for healing. If you love authentic conversations about faith, growth, and the beauty of Southern culture, you’re going to love this episode. To learn more about Ian, visit . Connect with Chris and Winston online at ! 📲 Follow Us: | | |
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Southern Fried Funny: Matt Mitchell on Comedy, Country, and Condiments
04/24/2025
Southern Fried Funny: Matt Mitchell on Comedy, Country, and Condiments
In this laugh-filled episode of the Southern Gentlemen Podcast, hosts Chris Thomas and Winston Cruze welcome Alabama-based humorist and internet legend Matt Mitchell. Best known for his hilarious Southern-inspired videos, Matt shares the story of his roots in Walker County, Alabama, and how a parody newspaper account jumpstarted his comedy career. The guys dig into Matt’s journey from working with the popular sketch comedy channel It’s A Southern Thing to stepping out on his own and building a loyal following through his signature Southern charm and wit. Along the way, Matt shares his very strong opinions on Duke’s Mayonnaise, the evolution (or downfall?) of country music, and what inspires his creative process. They close out the episode with a few listener questions from The Male Bag, and as always, things get a little ridiculous in the best way. Pull up a rocking chair, pour a glass of sweet tea, and get ready to laugh. To learn more about Matt, visit ! Connect with Chris and Winston online at ! 📲 Follow Us: | | |
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90s Country, American Idol, and Grindstone Cowboy with Special Guest Craig Campbell
04/17/2025
90s Country, American Idol, and Grindstone Cowboy with Special Guest Craig Campbell
In this episode of the Southern Gentlemen Podcast, hosts Chris Thomas and Winston Cruze sit down with country music artist Craig Campbell for a heartfelt and wide-ranging conversation. Craig opens up about losing his father at a young age and how that experience shapes the way he shows up as a dad to his girls today. The guys dive into a fun back-and-forth on the great debate: 80’s country vs. 90’s country. They also talk about Craig’s appearance on American Idol with Mattie Pruitt, what that moment meant to him, and how it came to be. But it’s not all music - Craig also shares the inspiration behind his hometown coffee shop, Grindstone Cowboy, how it came to be, what it's meant to his community, and where he hopes to take it next. To top it all off, Craig talks about his new single "Missing You," then closes out the episode with a live performance of his beloved hit “Outskirts of Heaven.” This one’s got heart, humor, and a whole lotta Southern soul. Don't miss it. To learn more about Craig, visit ! Connect with Chris and Winston online at ! 📲 Follow Us: | | |
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Waffle House, Stand-Up Comedy, and Redemption with Special Guest Derrick Stroup
04/10/2025
Waffle House, Stand-Up Comedy, and Redemption with Special Guest Derrick Stroup
In this episode of Southern Gentlemen, hosts Chris Thomas and Winston Cruze sit down with Alabama-born stand-up comedian Derrick Stroup for a hilarious and heartfelt conversation you don’t want to miss. The guys dive into how growing up in the South shaped Derrick’s comedic voice, why Waffle House holds a special place in his heart (plus his exact go-to order), and how he almost stole a girl from country music star Riley Green. Things get real when Derrick opens up about his past DUIs and how those tough experiences became the unlikely launchpad for his career in comedy. This episode is packed with laughs, redemption, and a whole lot of Southern charm. To learn more about Derrick, visit ! Connect with Chris and Winston online at ! 📲 Follow Us: | | | #SouthernGentlemenPodcast #DerrickStroup #Comedy #WaffleHouse #SouthernHumor #Redemption #Podcast
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Crypto For Rednecks Revealed | Special Guest Brett Henry
04/03/2025
Crypto For Rednecks Revealed | Special Guest Brett Henry
Ever wondered what the heck cryptocurrency is but felt like all the explanations were made for tech geeks and Wall Street bros? Well, we’ve got you covered. In this episode of the Southern Gentlemen Podcast, Chris Thomas and Winston Cruze sit down with entrepreneur Brett Henry to break down cryptocurrency - Bitcoin, Ethereum, meme coins, and more - in plain English. Brett explains what the blockchain actually is (without making your head hurt), how cryptocurrency can be used in the real world, and what steps to take if you’re curious about getting started. Whether you're skeptical, confused, or just looking for a good story about the wild world of digital money, this episode is for you. Grab a drink, pull up a chair, and let’s talk Crypto for Rednecks. To learn more about Brett Henry, visit https://deco.how. Don't forget to LIKE the video, SHARE with a fellow redneck, and SUBSCRIBE to the channel! Connect with Chris and Winston online at ! 📲 Follow Us: | | | #SouthernGentlemenPodcast #Obituaries #Funny #Humor #Comedy
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These Obituaries Can't Be Real!
03/27/2025
These Obituaries Can't Be Real!
In this episode of the Southern Gentlemen Podcast, Chris Thomas and Winston Cruze dive into the world of real-life obituaries - some heartfelt, some downright bizarre, and others so funny you won’t believe they’re real. From a woman who was declared one of Waffle House's most loyal customers to a Kentucky man remembered for his fondness of "hammering beers," these final farewells prove that a great sense of humor can live on even after we're gone. Get ready for laughter, unexpected wisdom, and maybe even a few ideas for how you want to be remembered (hopefully not anytime soon). Grab a drink, sit back, and enjoy the ride. Subscribe for more conversations on life, legacy, and a little bit of southern charm! Connect with Chris and Winston online at ! 📲 Follow Us: | | | #SouthernGentlemenPodcast #Obituaries #Funny #Humor #Comedy
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Unexpected Company with Special Guest Michael Farren
03/20/2025
Unexpected Company with Special Guest Michael Farren
In this special episode of Southern Gentlemen, Chris Thomas and Winston Cruze sit down with a guest they’ve never met before - and they know nothing about him! Welcome to Unexpected Company. Their guest? Michael Farren, an award-winning songwriter from Columbia, Tennessee. Michael shares his journey from growing up in Texarkana, Texas, to chasing his dream in Nashville’s songwriting scene. He opens up about the struggles that nearly cost him his marriage and the lessons he’s learned along the way. Plus, he introduces Chris and Winston to his latest adventure - Bourbon Gospel. It’s a raw, real, and unfiltered conversation filled with surprises, laughter, and a few deep moments of reflection. Pull up a chair, pour a glass of something good, and join the conversation. Learn more about and . Subscribe, like, and share if you enjoy the episode! Connect with Chris and Winston online at ! 📲 Follow Us: | | | #SouthernGentlemenPodcast #UnexpectedCompany #MichaelFarren #BourbonGospel #NashvilleSongwriting #TexarkanaRoots
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Dad Joke Showdown
03/13/2025
Dad Joke Showdown
Get ready for an all-out battle of wits (or lack thereof) as Chris Thomas and Winston Cruze go head-to-head in a no-holds-barred Dad Joke showdown! 🏆😂 In this episode of Southern Gentlemen, the fellas take turns delivering the corniest, groan-worthiest, and most side-splitting Dad Jokes they can muster—all while trying to keep a straight face. Will Chris hold his composure? Will Winston finally break? And will any of these jokes actually be funny? (Spoiler: Absolutely.) Join us for a full episode of laughter, bad puns, and timeless Southern charm. Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe if you love a good Dad Joke! 📢 Tell us your best Dad Joke in the comments! 👇 Connect with Chris and Winston online at ! 📲 Follow Us: | | | #DadJokes #SouthernGentlemenPodcast #ChrisAndWinston #DadJokeChallenge #TryNotToLaugh
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What We Hate About The South
03/06/2025
What We Hate About The South
In this episode of Southern Gentlemen, Chris Thomas and Winston Cruze get real about the American South - the good, the bad, and the downright ridiculous. From the food, the music, and the legendary hospitality to the brutal humidity and the ever-present "fake people" (you know the type), nothing is off-limits. Chris and Winston break down their favorite southern traditions, the artistry and craftsmanship that make the region special, and the quirks that drive them crazy. Whether you're a proud southerner or just curious about life below the Mason-Dixon, this episode is sure to entertain. Pour yourself some sweet tea (or maybe something a little stronger) and join the conversation! 💬 What do YOU love or hate about the South? Drop a comment below! Connect with Chris and Winston online at ! 📲 Follow Us: | | |
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The Power of Overnight Dates
02/27/2025
The Power of Overnight Dates
In this episode of the Southern Gentlemen Podcast, hosts Chris Thomas and Winston Cruze dive into the importance of prioritizing overnight dates with their wives. They share how taking time away - just the two of them - helps strengthen their marriages, deepen their connection, and keep the spark alive. Chris and Winston also explore some of their favorite spots for the perfect overnight date in Nashville and Franklin, TN, from cozy boutique hotels and hidden gem restaurants to unforgettable experiences that make for a meaningful getaway. Whether you're looking for inspiration for your next date night or just want to hear some good conversation about love, commitment, and southern hospitality, this episode is for you. Subscribe, listen, and let us know—what’s your ideal overnight date? Connect with Chris and Winston online at ! | | | #MarriageMatters #SouthernGentlemenPodcast #DateNightIdeas
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Changing Your Own Oil (After 30 Years!)
02/20/2025
Changing Your Own Oil (After 30 Years!)
In this episode of Southern Gentlemen, Chris Thomas shares the story of changing the oil in his wife’s car - something he hadn’t done in over 30 years! He and Winston Cruze dive into the lost art of basic car maintenance, swapping stories and sharing practical tips for handling the essentials. From the must-have tools to the mindset shift that comes with taking on a hands-on task, this conversation is all about self-sufficiency, learning new (old) skills, and embracing the satisfaction of a job well done. They also take a moment to talk about a big setback—the Southern Gentlemen YouTube channel was deleted. Yep, gone. And now, they’re starting completely from scratch. Chris and Winston share what happened, what they’ve learned from the experience, and how you can help them rebuild. Whether you're a seasoned DIYer or someone who's never popped the hood, this episode will inspire you to roll up your sleeves and tackle something new. Grab a glass of sweet tea (or a shop rag), and join us for a fun and insightful discussion! 🔧 Topics Covered: Why Chris decided to change his own oil after 30+ years Essential tools for basic car maintenance Tips for first-timers (and what NOT to do!) The value of learning hands-on skills in today’s world What happened to the Southern Gentlemen YouTube channel—and how you can help us rebuild! 📢 Help us rebuild! If you enjoy the show, please , like the video, and share it with a friend. Every bit of support means the world to us! 🎧 Subscribe and tune in for more conversations on thriving as a man - mind, body, and spirit - all through the lens of timeless Southern values. Connect with Chris and Winston online at ! | | | #SouthernGentlemenPodcast #CarMaintenance #DIY #OilChange #SouthernValues #Rebuilding
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Our Favorite Rituals
02/13/2025
Our Favorite Rituals
In this episode of Southern Gentlemen, Chris Thomas and Winston Cruze share the daily and weekly rituals that bring value and joy to their lives. From the perfect morning coffee routine to weekly chiropractor visits and even the best way to wash a truck, they discuss the small traditions that make a big difference. Plus, they dive into the Male Bag to answer a listener’s question: What are the best trucks to buy without breaking the bank? 🚛💰 🔹 Simple rituals that add meaning to everyday life 🔹 Chris & Winston’s go-to habits for well-being 🔹 Practical truck-buying advice for budget-conscious buyers What’s a ritual that makes your life better? Drop it in the comments! 🎧 Subscribe for more conversations on thriving as a man - mind, body, and spirit - rooted in timeless Southern values. Connect with Chris and Winston online at ! | | |
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Valentine's Day Do's & Don'ts
02/06/2025
Valentine's Day Do's & Don'ts
Valentine’s Day is around the corner, and Chris Thomas and Winston Cruze are here to help you navigate it like a true Southern Gentleman. In this episode, they share how they approach Valentine’s Day with their wives, from meaningful traditions to thoughtful gift ideas. They also cover some major Valentine’s Day pitfalls - like gifts you should definitely avoid! Whether you’re planning something special or need a last-minute save, this episode has you covered. Hit play and make this Valentine’s Day one to remember (for the right reasons)! And don’t forget to subscribe for more episodes of Southern Gentlemen. Connect with Chris and Winston online at ! | | |
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REVEALED: Everyday Carry For Men!
01/30/2025
REVEALED: Everyday Carry For Men!
In this episode of Southern Gentlemen, hosts Chris Thomas and Winston Cruze dip their toes into the art of Everyday Carry (EDC) for the modern Southern man. From timeless tools to practical accessories, they explore the essentials every gentleman should have on hand to stay prepared and polished. What makes a true Southern gentleman’s EDC unique? How can your everyday items reflect your values and style? Chris and Winston share their personal favorites, discuss how to balance functionality and tradition, and offer tips for curating your own perfect carry setup. Whether you’re a seasoned EDC enthusiast or looking to elevate your daily essentials, this episode is packed with thoughtful insights and a touch of Southern charm. Connect with Chris and Winston online at ! | | |
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Winston's Inauguration Adventure
01/23/2025
Winston's Inauguration Adventure
In this special episode of Southern Gentlemen, Chris Thomas and Winston Cruze dive into Winston's recent whirlwind trip to Washington, D.C., where he and his wife Rachel attended the Inauguration of President Trump and the exclusive Liberty Ball. Winston shares how a last-minute invitation led to a flurry of preparation, including their fashion choices for the historic events. The conversation explores everything from navigating D.C.’s vibrant food scene to the energy of the massive crowds at the Inauguration. Winston also recounts the heightened security measures and what it was like to be in the heart of such a monumental occasion. Tune in for a mix of southern charm, humor, and reflections on an unforgettable trip to the nation’s capital. Connect with Chris and Winston online at ! | | |
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Marriage Advice I Wish I Had
01/16/2025
Marriage Advice I Wish I Had
What would you tell your newlywed self if you could go back in time? Cue Huey Lewis & The News! In this heartfelt episode of Southern Gentlemen, hosts Chris Thomas and Winston Cruze reflect on their years of marriage - 23 and 15 years, respectively - and share the wisdom, lessons, and advice they wish they had known as newlyweds. From navigating challenges to cultivating deeper connections, Chris and Winston dive into the joys and struggles of building a lasting marriage. They discuss the importance of communication, the value of patience, and the simple acts of love that make all the difference. Whether you’re newly married, married for 50+, years, or just looking for timeless relationship wisdom, this episode offers honest insights and plenty of Southern charm. Don’t forget to subscribe to the Southern Gentlemen podcast for more inspiring conversations on thriving as a man in today’s world—mind, body, and spirit. And leave us a five-star rating and review. We love hearing from y'all! Connect with Chris and Winston online at ! | | | |
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Building Your Band of Brothers w/ Special Guest Stephen Mansfield | SGP009
01/09/2025
Building Your Band of Brothers w/ Special Guest Stephen Mansfield | SGP009
In this episode, Chris and Winston are joined by New York Times bestselling author Stephen Mansfield for a conversation on the importance of male friendships, and why building your band of brothers is so important for the health of a man's soul. To learn more about Stephen Mansfield, visit , or connect with Stephen on Instagram at . Connect with Chris and Winston online at ! | |
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