We Don't Deserve Men
We Don't Deserve Men is a show dedicated to shifting the dynamic between men and women from competition to cooperation.
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08. Women: From Not Being Heard, To Shouting, To Not Hearing - A Discussion on Parenting, Leadership, Role Models, Emotions and Much More with David Yoder (my dad)
07/24/2024
08. Women: From Not Being Heard, To Shouting, To Not Hearing - A Discussion on Parenting, Leadership, Role Models, Emotions and Much More with David Yoder (my dad)
In this heartfelt episode of 'We Don't Deserve Men,' the host interviews her father, a licensed professional counselor with a master's in clinical mental health counseling and owner of Assessment and Counseling Solutions in St. Louis, Missouri. They discuss his unique experiences, including being a stay-at-home dad in the early 90s, the values he instilled in his children, and his insights on leadership, emotions, and relationship dynamics. The episode delves into the impact of traditional versus complementary relationships, the cultural shifts surrounding gender roles, and the importance of having role models. The father shares practical advice and resources for young men to navigate their identities and relationships in today's world. This episode offers a deep exploration of father-daughter dynamics while shedding light on broader societal themes. 00:00 Introduction and Guest Overview 00:48 Childhood Memories and Life Lessons 02:27 Episode Topics and Themes 05:50 Guest's Background and Early Life 12:11 Parenting and Role Reversal 15:21 Challenges and Insights of Stay-at-Home Dads 31:34 Complementary vs. Symmetrical Relationships 42:47 Emotional Volatility and Leadership Challenges 45:51 The Power and Pitfalls of Emotions 55:02 The Shift in Gender Dynamics 01:08:08 Advice for Young Men 01:19:16 Concluding Thoughts and Reflections Resources: Books: Get in touch: Email: IG: Website:
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07. Why Choosing a Life Partner is the Most Important Decision You'll Ever Make - A Very Real Chat on Dating, Andrew Tate & Sex Tapes with William Griffin
07/17/2024
07. Why Choosing a Life Partner is the Most Important Decision You'll Ever Make - A Very Real Chat on Dating, Andrew Tate & Sex Tapes with William Griffin
In this episode of 'We Don't Deserve Men,' the host is joined by her playful and insightful guest, William Griffin. The duo discusses a wide range of topics centered around relationships, including choosing a life partner, the impact of a supportive partner on one's authenticity and freedom, and the complications of seduction. The talk includes reflections on controversial figures like Andrew Tate and delves into personal anecdotes about relationship dynamics, sex tapes, and the concept of polyamory. They also explore deeper societal issues such as gender roles, feminist movements, and the importance of understanding between men and women. This candid conversation offers a mix of humor, personal stories, and profound insights into the complexities of modern relationships. 00:00 Introduction and Guest Overview 02:03 William Griffin Hijacks the Podcast 02:14 Discussing Seduction and Relationship Dynamics 05:51 The Practicality of Choosing a Life Partner 19:41 Balancing Freedom and Commitment in Relationships 25:34 The Impact of Trauma and Personal Growth 34:25 Understanding Relationship Dynamics 34:49 Choosing the Right Partner 35:58 Building the Castle First 37:04 The Red Pill Movement and Masculinity 41:01 Feminism and Gender Roles 52:56 Polyamory and Relationship Structures 55:12 A Naughty Story 58:12 Concluding Thoughts on Relationships Connect with William here: Get in touch: Email: IG: Website:
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06. Why You Should Stop Using Dating Apps Immediately - A Deep Dive into How Technology is Making Dating Harder than Ever with Tameem Kutub
07/10/2024
06. Why You Should Stop Using Dating Apps Immediately - A Deep Dive into How Technology is Making Dating Harder than Ever with Tameem Kutub
In this episode, we delve into the profound impact of digital culture on modern relationships and social interactions with guest Tameem Kutub. Topics include the echo chambers created by social media algorithms, the Me Too movement, and the pervasive nature of clickbait. We discuss the psychological effects of online dating, the rise of OnlyFans and AI girlfriends, and how technology reshapes human behavior and societal norms. The conversation also addresses male loneliness, the challenges men face in seeking validation and intimacy, and the importance of organic connections over digital platforms. The episode offers insights into fostering positive changes and support networks in a digitally-driven society. 00:00 Introduction and Overview 02:02 The Divide Between Men and Women 02:41 Historical Context and Social Media Evolution 04:40 The Impact of Social Media Algorithms 09:09 Audience Capture and Viral Content 18:59 Feminism and Gender Dynamics 32:23 The Me Too Movement and Dating 52:33 Balancing Masculine and Feminine Traits in Men 54:07 The Evolution of Online Dating 56:01 The Impact of Dating Apps on Self-Worth 01:09:10 The Rise of OnlyFans and Its Implications 01:16:15 The Importance of Complimenting Men 01:25:16 Challenges Men Face in Modern Dating 01:32:25 Advice for Men Navigating Today's Dating Scene Get in touch: Email: IG: Website:
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05. Use This One-Liner to Immediately Deescalate Conflict w/ Your Partner - A Conversation About Communication & Trust with Tarek Nahabet
07/03/2024
05. Use This One-Liner to Immediately Deescalate Conflict w/ Your Partner - A Conversation About Communication & Trust with Tarek Nahabet
In this insightful episode, Kayla and entrepreneur/educator Tarek discuss the critical aspects of communication within relationships, highlighting the deficiencies in traditional education and the importance of active listening. They examine the nuances of understanding intentions, managing trust issues, and the impact of past experiences. The conversation provides practical advice on fostering better communication, maintaining healthy relationships, and understanding gender dynamics, including the roles of masculine and feminine energies. Tarek shares the transformative power of gratitude and key advice on commitment, consistency, and concentration from influential figures in his life. The episode also explores the benefits of daily practices like Transcendental Meditation (TM) for personal and relational growth. 00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction 00:51 The Importance of Communication Skills 01:58 Listening Beyond Words 03:43 Personal Responsibility in Communication 09:45 Love Languages and Acts of Service 19:47 Trust and Vulnerability in Relationships 20:13 Testing and Trust in Relationships 34:08 The Role of Vision and Clarity in Relationships 37:57 Polarity and Masculine-Feminine Dynamics 52:30 The Comfort Zone Dilemma 54:46 The Role of Certainty in Relationships 56:21 The Virtuous Cycle of Reassurance 58:46 The Importance of Communication 01:02:21 Understanding Emotional Reactions 01:06:15 Navigating Upset and Validation 01:10:34 Effective Apologies and Respect 01:30:46 Final Thoughts and Gratitude Transcendental Meditation: Get in touch: Email: IG: Website:
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04. From Boy to Man: Navigating Maturity and Responsibility with Devin Plowman
06/26/2024
04. From Boy to Man: Navigating Maturity and Responsibility with Devin Plowman
In this podcast episode, the host welcomes Devin Plowman to discuss the evolving dynamics between men and women, as well as broader issues faced in society today. Devin shares his insights and experiences as a married man with a strong Christian background and five children. The conversation delves into topics such as the biological and societal factors influencing male maturity, the impact of marriage and fatherhood on men's development, workplace dynamics, and the challenges faced by men in today's culture. They discuss the generational shift in values, the decline of traditional rites of passage into manhood, and the effects of societal changes, like the rise of feminism and changing gender roles. Devin emphasizes the importance of strong values, responsibility, and leaving a lasting legacy, particularly through parenting. The discussion highlights how modern conveniences and societal shifts contribute to the lack of maturity in men, the role of women in these dynamics, and the potential long-term consequences for individuals and society. 00:00 Introduction and Guest Background 01:52 The Maturity of Men: Marriage and Fatherhood 03:39 Provider and Protector Instincts 04:53 Challenges in Modern Relationships 20:31 Rites of Passage and Cultural Shifts 30:55 The Importance of Family and Posterity 34:18 The Impact of Retirement on Men's Longevity 38:02 The Benefits of Getting Married Young 43:04 The Role of Values in Marriage 52:53 Challenges and Rewards of Being a Man 58:06 Advice for Young Men 59:15 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
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03. Logic, Emotion, & Post-Nut Clarity - How Each Play a Role in Modern Dating with Bryce North
06/19/2024
03. Logic, Emotion, & Post-Nut Clarity - How Each Play a Role in Modern Dating with Bryce North
In this episode, we dive into modern dating dynamics with Bryce North, discussing the balance between logical decision-making and emotional responses in relationships. The conversation explores the cultural and biological differences between genders, the evolution of values and expectations, and the impact of societal changes on dating. Key topics include the importance of communication, self-improvement, and understanding both perspectives to build fulfilling partnerships. Additionally, the speakers delve into the significance of overcoming the fear of rejection, particularly for men, and how it can lead to personal growth, enhanced confidence, and character building. The episode highlights the impact of societal changes, the push toward equality, and the value of resilience and life experiences in shaping one's development. 00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome 01:27 The Role of Logic in Relationships 05:39 Biological Differences in Relationship Dynamics 10:46 Modern Dating Challenges and Gender Expectations 30:14 Communication and Misunderstandings in Relationships 38:41 Understanding Gender Communication Differences 39:35 Men's Task-Oriented Nature 43:20 Women in the Workplace: Embracing Feminine Energy 49:10 The Logic of Dating: Strategies and Insights 54:36 The Impact of Sex on Relationships 01:06:03 Providing Peace and Stability in Relationships 01:11:33 Final Thoughts and Reflections
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02. From Relationships to Entrepreneurship: Insights with David Corsini
06/12/2024
02. From Relationships to Entrepreneurship: Insights with David Corsini
In this episode of 'We Don't Deserve Men,' host Kayla welcomes serial entrepreneur and friend David Corsini. They delve into various conversations about the complexities of gender dynamics, relationships, personal development, and the distinct differences between men and women. David shares insights on the importance of understanding and respecting each other's natural tendencies, such as men's 'nothing box' and women's need to communicate in detail. They also discuss the value of confidence and competence in men, the role of feminine energy, and the impact of technology on human connection. The episode ends with David offering advice to both men and women on how to support their partners and maintain healthy relationships. Join Kayla and David as they explore profound topics that aim to help listeners understand and appreciate the nuances of personal and relational growth. 00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome 01:32 The Concept of 'We Don't Deserve Men' 03:40 David's Background and Personal Journey 07:15 Generational Differences and Aging 19:47 Men's Simplicity and the Nothing Box 35:34 Understanding Men's Needs and Preferences 40:43 The Feminine Energy in the Workplace 43:12 Balancing Ambition and Family 45:41 Navigating Modern Relationships 50:13 The Role of Technology in Human Connection 59:12 The Importance of Competence and Confidence 01:10:25 Advice and Reflections on Relationships 01:22:23 Final Thoughts and Resources Connect with David: IG: Website: Get in touch: Email: IG: Website:
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01. Navigating Relationships and Masculinity: Deep Dive with Connor McCreesh
06/12/2024
01. Navigating Relationships and Masculinity: Deep Dive with Connor McCreesh
In this engaging conversation, the host and Connor McCreesh explore various facets of relationships, dating, and gender dynamics. Connor shares his experiences as a long-time traveler and relationship enthusiast, offering insights into the challenges men face in modern dating. Topics include the value of intuition in relationships, the impact of hookup culture, the role of consent, and the influence of dating apps on romantic connections. They also discuss the concept of hyper-masculinity and the importance of authenticity in attracting the right partner. This episode provides a thoughtful examination of how men can navigate relationships with confidence and respect. 00:00 Introduction and Welcome 02:03 Connor's Background and Relationship Experience 02:58 Wasted Time in Relationships 08:22 Masculinity and Femininity in Modern Relationships 13:17 Choosing the Right Partner 20:21 Transactional vs. Pure Love in Relationships 30:57 Hookup Culture and Confidence 37:08 Overcoming Dating Fears 38:06 The Importance of Confidence 39:44 Navigating Consent 47:53 The Impact of Dating Apps 56:18 Building Masculine Competence 01:04:05 The Value of Male Friendships 01:07:25 Avoiding Hypermasculinity 01:13:45 Be Authentic, Be Yourself 01:15:08 Final Thoughts and Farewell Get in touch: Email: IG: Website:
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00. Welcome to We Don't Deserve Men (WDDM)
06/11/2024
00. Welcome to We Don't Deserve Men (WDDM)
Hello, and welcome to We Don't Deserve Men. I am your host, Kayla Yoder and this show is all about healing the divide between men and women. The goal is to shift the competitive dynamic into a cooperative dynamic through better understanding of each other's experiences. Get in touch by sending an email to and please leave a review if you enjoyed this episode.
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