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Episode 19 - Marriage in the Toddler Trenches
09/06/2025
Episode 19 - Marriage in the Toddler Trenches
The toddler years are loud, sticky, and (let’s be honest) brutal on a relationship. In this candid conversation, we open up about navigating life with our two-and-a-half-year-old, Aly—while running a business, staying fit, and keeping our marriage connected. We talk about what’s changed (less spontaneous affection, more “planned intimacy”), what’s working (non-negotiable workouts, simple meal prep, repairing ruptures), and what still feels hard (sleep regressions, overstimulation, and the “Mom-only” phase). You’ll hear real stories, practical rituals, and the reminder that if you’re in the toddler trenches—you’re not alone. In this episode: Why the toddler stage feels different (not necessarily harder) than newborn life How planned rituals (M/W/F lifts, Sunday meal prep, “Sunday sex dates”) keep you connected Fitness as a bonding tool when time/energy is low Modeling emotional regulation: rupture → repair → move forward Working from home with a tiny tornado (boundaries, schedules, and grace) Advice for couples: take care of yourself, listen deeply, and let your kid see healthy habits
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