A Purpose Driven Marriage Podcast

Are you looking for real answers to the real-life challenges in your marriage? A Purpose-Driven Marriage is a weekly podcast addressing the common struggles that husbands and wives face and the actionable, practical tips couples can take to overcome these obstacles and build strong marriages. Each episode is a fun, no-holds-barred discussion intended to help couples strive for marriage as God designed it and not as the world has defined it. Join us every Tuesday as we help you focus on the solutions to take your marriage from good to great.

5 Common Communication Mistakes Couples Make - And How to Fix Them 01/14/2025

5 Common Communication Mistakes Couples Make - And How to Fix Them Does it feel like your communication with your spouse could use a tune-up? In this episode, we tackle five common communication mistakes couples often make—and, more importantly, how to fix them! From poor listening habits to unrealistic expectations, we’re breaking down the barriers to understanding and offering practical solutions to help you and your partner connect on a deeper level. Whether you've been married for decades or are newlyweds, this episode is packed with relatable scenarios, laughter, and actionable insights to strengthen your relationship. Key Takeaways: Poor Listening: Learn how to listen to understand rather than just respond, and why this skill is the ultimate relationship game-changer. Assuming Mind-Reading Abilities: Discover the importance of clear, direct communication and why your spouse isn’t a psychic! Reacting Emotionally Instead of Responding Thoughtfully: Master the art of pausing before reacting to create a more empathetic and constructive dialogue. Sweeping Issues Under the Rug: Find out how to address conflicts head-on while respecting each other's communication styles. Using Negative Communication Patterns: We dive into Dr. John Gottman’s “Four Horsemen” (criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and stonewalling) and their antidotes to protect your marriage. Resources Mentioned: Communication Style Quiz: Conflict Style Quiz: Connect With Us: 🌐 Visit for more resources on strengthening your marriage. 📲 Follow us on Instagram and TikTok: . 💌 Email us your favorite memory as a couple, or let us know how this episode resonated with you at [email protected]. Listen and Subscribe: Don’t miss an episode! Subscribe to the podcast on , , or your favorite platform. And if you loved this episode, leave us a review—it helps more couples find our show! /episode/index/show/7609ccb5-6d71-425d-a2a3-3ea43fa826eb/id/34847475

From Conflict to Connection: How to Heal After A Fight 01/07/2025

From Conflict to Connection: How to Heal After A Fight Do fights in your relationship leave you feeling disconnected, frustrated, or unsure of how to move forward? You’re not alone! In this episode, we tackle one of the most challenging aspects of any marriage: resolving conflicts in a way that not only heals wounds but strengthens your bond. We dive into why conflict is a natural part of relationships and how it can become an opportunity to deepen connection. Learn our 5 proven steps to navigate post-fight resolution, from understanding your spouse’s perspective to rebuilding trust and creating a plan to avoid future misunderstandings. If you’ve ever struggled to truly move past an argument or want to transform conflict into growth, this episode is for you! Key Takeaways: Why Communication Issues Often Stem from Connection Problems – Discover how addressing disconnection can make communication smoother. The Power of Vulnerability and Empathy – Learn how to validate your spouse’s feelings and uncover the “need behind the need.” 5-Step Framework for Healing After a Fight: Step 1: Share your feelings without blame. Step 2: Describe your realities and perceptions calmly. Step 3: Use empathy and validation to connect. Step 4: Take responsibility for your role in the conflict. Step 5: Plan constructive ways to avoid repeating the same issues. Why Skipping Steps Can Sabotage Trust – Hear why jumping straight to “I’m sorry” without understanding the deeper issue can backfire. Connect With Us: 🌐 Visit for more resources on strengthening your marriage. 📲 Follow us on Instagram and TikTok: . 💌 Email us your favorite memory as a couple, or let us know how this episode resonated with you at [email protected]. Listen and Subscribe: Don’t miss an episode! Subscribe to the podcast on , , or your favorite platform. And if you loved this episode, leave us a review—it helps more couples find our show! /episode/index/show/7609ccb5-6d71-425d-a2a3-3ea43fa826eb/id/34754255

The Importance of Reminiscing: How Reflecting on Your Journey Strengthens Your Marriage 12/31/2024

The Importance of Reminiscing: How Reflecting on Your Journey Strengthens Your Marriage As we close out another year, it’s the perfect time to reflect on the journey you and your spouse have traveled together. In this episode, we dive into the transformative power of reminiscing and how looking back on shared memories can actually bring you closer as a couple. Whether it’s revisiting the day you first met, reflecting on challenges you’ve overcome, or celebrating the wins of the past year, reminiscing strengthens your connection and deepens your love. We’ll explore: Why reminiscing is often overlooked but vital for marital happiness. How to use shared memories to rebuild intimacy and rekindle your spark. Dr. John Gottman’s insights on reminiscing and its impact on emotional connection. Practical tips to reflect on your past year together and set the stage for an even stronger future. Grab a cozy spot, your favorite beverage, and your spouse—let’s reminisce and reconnect! What You’ll Learn in This Episode: The Science of Reminiscing: Why shared memories improve marital satisfaction and protect against negativity. The Reset Button Effect: How reflecting on your relationship’s “origin story” can reignite love and understanding. Overcoming Challenges Together: Using memories of tough times to foster gratitude, growth, and resilience. Practical Tools for Reflection: Thoughtful questions and exercises to start reminiscing with your spouse today. A Biblical Perspective: How remembering God’s faithfulness in your marriage can guide and inspire your journey forward. Key Quotes from the Episode: 💬 “Reminiscing isn’t just about the past—it’s a way to reconnect in the present and strengthen your bond for the future.” 💬 “When couples reflect on their shared journey, they rediscover their ‘why’ and reignite the love that brought them together in the first place.” Actionable Takeaways: Set aside time this week to reflect on 2024 with your spouse. Start with questions like, “What was our greatest challenge this year, and how did we grow from it?” Try creating an annual end-of-year tradition where you celebrate wins, reflect on lessons, and set goals for the year ahead. Keep it simple: Reminiscing doesn’t require a big production. A heartfelt conversation over coffee or a walk down memory lane with old photos can make a huge difference. Connect With Us: 🌐 Visit for more resources on strengthening your marriage. 📲 Follow us on Instagram and TikTok: . 💌 Email us your favorite memory as a couple, or let us know how this episode resonated with you at [email protected]. Listen and Subscribe: Don’t miss an episode! Subscribe to the podcast on , , or your favorite platform. And if you loved this episode, leave us a review—it helps more couples find our show! Join the Conversation: What’s your favorite memory as a couple? Share it on social media and tag us with #MarriageReflections #ReminisceTogether /episode/index/show/7609ccb5-6d71-425d-a2a3-3ea43fa826eb/id/34667200

How to Pray as a Couple: Strengthening Your Marriage through Faith 12/17/2024

How to Pray as a Couple: Strengthening Your Marriage through Faith What if one simple habit could transform your marriage, deepen your connection with your spouse, and bring lasting peace to your relationship? In today’s episode, we’re diving into the life-changing practice of praying together as a couple. Join us as we explore: ✨ Why praying together strengthens your bond and invites God into your marriage. ✨ The powerful findings from the 1997 Gallup study on prayer and marriage (hint: couples who pray together have a divorce rate of less than 1%!). ✨ Practical tips for starting a prayer routine, even if it feels intimidating or awkward at first. ✨ How prayer fosters intimacy, trust, and unity—even in tough seasons of life. We also share personal stories from our own marriage, including a season when prayer brought us closer together during one of the hardest times we’ve faced. If you’ve ever wondered how to keep God at the center of your relationship or felt unsure about how to start praying as a couple, this episode is for you. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: The Biblical foundation for praying as a couple. Research-backed benefits of prayer in marriage. Simple, practical steps to start praying together daily. How to overcome common roadblocks to couple prayer. Resources and References Mentioned: 📖 Scripture Highlights: 1 Thessalonians 5:17 – "Pray without ceasing." Romans 8:26 – The Spirit helps us in our weakness and intercedes for us. 📊 Studies Cited: 1997 Gallup study on divorce rates among couples who pray together. 2010 Study from University of Texas at San Antonio "The Couple That Prays Together: Race and Ethnicity, Religion, and Relationship Quality Among Working-Age Adults" 💡 Recommended Reading: Atomic Habits by James Clear (for building consistent habits). Challenge of the Week: Take five minutes this week to pray with your spouse. Whether it’s before bed, in the car, or over coffee, start small and stay consistent. Trust us—it’s worth it! Connect With Us: 🌐 📸 Rate & Review: If you enjoyed this episode, please consider leaving us a review on or wherever you listen to your podcasts! It helps us reach more couples and share the message of Christ-centered marriage. /episode/index/show/7609ccb5-6d71-425d-a2a3-3ea43fa826eb/id/34474390

Handling Holiday Burnout: Tips for Couples to Handle Family Stress 12/10/2024

Handling Holiday Burnout: Tips for Couples to Handle Family Stress In this festive yet demanding season, the holidays can sometimes bring more stress than joy—especially for couples juggling family dynamics, hosting duties, and endless to-do lists. In this episode, Duane and Nadine share their personal experiences of navigating holiday stress as a couple, offering practical tips and biblical wisdom to help you manage the season without burning out. Discover how to prioritize your marriage, set realistic expectations, and foster traditions that bring your family closer together. You'll also learn creative ways to handle financial pressures, host without the overwhelm, and stay focused on the true reason for the season: celebrating Christ's birth. Whether you're hosting a full house or trying to navigate blended family obligations, this episode is packed with tools to help your marriage thrive during the holidays. What You'll Learn: What is holiday burnout, and how does it affect couples? Common stressors during the holiday season and how to address them. Prioritizing your marriage during busy times: Why scheduling intentional moments with your spouse is essential. How to create "reset time" as a couple—even in a house full of guests. Embracing and creating meaningful traditions: The importance of family-centered traditions and how they strengthen bonds. Practical ideas to make your holidays memorable without added stress. Managing expectations and setting boundaries: How to avoid financial strain with budgeting and gift-giving strategies. Tips for hosting large gatherings without burning out. Remembering the reason for the season: Keeping Christ at the center of your celebrations and teaching your family to focus on faith. Links & Resources Mentioned: Join the 12 Days of Christmas Spark Challenge! Add fun to your marriage this season with daily prompts to prioritize your relationship. It's not too late to join—sign up ! Connect with Us: Instagram: TikTok: Website: If you found this episode helpful, please leave us a review and share it with a friend who could use some holiday stress relief! Your support means the world to us. /episode/index/show/7609ccb5-6d71-425d-a2a3-3ea43fa826eb/id/34360680

What Husbands Really Want: Insight Into A Man's Heart 12/03/2024

What Husbands Really Want: Insight Into A Man's Heart Welcome to another episode of A Purpose Driven Marriage Podcast with your hosts, Duane and Nadine Stewart! Today, we’re diving into an eye-opening and heartfelt discussion about what husbands really want from their wife. Whether you're looking to deepen your connection or gain a better understanding of your spouse, this episode will offer practical wisdom delivered by Duane himself. 🎙️ Episode Highlights: 1:23 - What Do Husbands Really Want? Discover the core desires of a husband and how they can transform a marriage when recognized and nurtured. 3:09 - The Need for Respect Why respect is foundational for husbands and how showing it builds trust and intimacy. 6:24 - Encouragement and Leadership Explore the ways wives can affirm their husband’s leadership while fostering a supportive dynamic. 11:23 - Desire and Intimacy Uncover the importance of a husband feeling desired and, ladies, it's not what you think. 16:29 - Allowing Men to Be Men Learn how to encourage your husband to step into and carry out his role as the man in the relationship 29:21 - Communication Styles and Emotions Bridge the gap in communication differences and create a space for honest emotional expression. ✨ Key Takeaways: Husbands deeply value respect, encouragement, and the freedom to express themselves without judgment. Feeling desired and supported empowers men to thrive as husbands and leaders in the home. ✨ Our is extended for our Podcast Listeners Get 50% off the Guide to Goal Setting for Christian Couples with BONUS Guide to Creating a Marriage Mission Statement. Click on this link to get our Hurry because this 50% off offer for our listeners will only be around until December 5th! 👉 Subscribe and leave a review to support our mission of helping couples build thriving, God-centered marriages. ✨ Follow us for more helpful tools, encouragement and resources for your relationship! Connect with us on Instagram @apurposedrivenmarriage Follow us on Facebook @apurposedrivenmarriage To contact Nadine about Relationship Coaching, Premarital Counseling, speaking at your event, or hosting a workshop, email [email protected]. /episode/index/show/7609ccb5-6d71-425d-a2a3-3ea43fa826eb/id/34274920

Gratitude In Marriage: How Thankfulness Can Transform Your Relationship 11/26/2024

Gratitude In Marriage: How Thankfulness Can Transform Your Relationship Join Duane and Nadine Stewart as they dive deep into the incredible, and transformative impact of gratitude on your marriage. Learn why expressing thankfulness goes beyond politeness—it’s a foundational practice that can strengthen your emotional connection and is the "secret sauce" in most thriving lasting relationships. In this episode, we explore: 🌟 3 lasting benefits of incorporating gratitude in your marriage. 🌟 The science behind gratitude and its ability to combat negativity and anxiety. 🌟 Practical tips to build habits of thankfulness that can transform your relationship. Packed with heartfelt stories, biblical wisdom, and actionable advice, this episode will inspire you to reframe your perspective and prioritize gratitude in your marriage. Plus, hear how you can take advantage of our special Black Friday deal on the Goal-Setting Guide for Couples—an essential resource for dreaming big and growing together. Episode Highlights: 00:00 Introduction: The Importance of Validation in Marriage 00:45 Welcome to Purpose Driven Marriage Podcast 01:26 The Transformative Power of Gratitude 02:29 Timeless Lessons from Elderly Couples 04:43 Overcoming Negative Thought Patterns 06:34 Developing Habits That Build Positivity 08:36 Gratitude as a Key to Emotional Connection 15:38 A Long-Term Perspective on Building a Thriving Marriage 17:14 The Impact of Unkindness and Negative Cycles 17:53 Real-Life Transformation Through Compassion and Gratitude 20:27 How Gratitude Can Be a Game-Changer in Relationships 21:00 Cultivating Joy and Satisfaction Through Thankfulness 22:55 Gratitude as a Tool to Combat Anxiety 29:55 Dream Big Together: The Importance of Setting Goals 31:41 Closing Thoughts and a Sneak Peek at the Next Episode Don’t Miss Out! Listen now and start unlocking the power of gratitude to transform your marriage today. 💑 ✨ Plus, don’t miss out on our exclusively for our podcast listeners. Get 50% off the Guide to Goal Setting for Christian Couples with BONUS Guide to Creating a Marriage Mission Statement. Hurry because this 50% off offer for our listeners will only be around until December 5th! 👉 Subscribe and leave a review to support our mission of helping couples build thriving, God-centered marriages. Follow us for more helpful tools, encouragement and resources for your relationship! Connect with us on Instagram @apurposedrivenmarriage Follow us on Facebook @apurposedrivenmarriage To contact Nadine about Relationship Coaching, Premarital Counseling, speaking at your event, or hosting a workshop, email [email protected]. /episode/index/show/7609ccb5-6d71-425d-a2a3-3ea43fa826eb/id/34145720

Mission Possible: Create A Marriage Mission Statement & Set Your Couple Goals 11/19/2024

5 Powerful Ways to Affair-Proof Your Marriage 11/12/2024

We're Back! Surviving Life's Chaos and Strengthening Your Marriage 11/12/2024

What Women Want 06/07/2023

What Women Want Join us in this engaging and insightful podcast episode where we dive deep into the mysterious realm of what women truly desire in their relationships and marriages. Hosted by your favorite duo, Duane and Nadine, this episode takes a unique twist as Duane is away, leaving his wife to navigate the microphone solo for the first time. With humor, vulnerability, and practical advice, Nadine embarks on a mission to decode the secrets of women's hearts, offering invaluable insights to both men and women alike. Men, get ready to discover what your wife needs from you and gain newfound understanding of her world. Ladies, don't miss out on sharing this eye-opening episode with your husband. Through personal anecdotes and professional coaching experience, our host explores the importance of effective communication and understanding in relationships. Discover how men and women often speak different emotional languages, leaving needs unmet and frustrations unaddressed. Prepare for a lightbulb moment as you realize the power of a common language in bridging the communication gap. From the foundational need for love and affection to the significance of emotional connection, trust, and security, this episode covers it all. Unravel the intricacies of women's desire for appreciation and support, and gain insights into the importance of true partnership and shared responsibilities in a thriving relationship. Tune in to A Purpose Driven Marriage's "What Women Want," and embark on a journey of understanding, growth, and stronger connections. Whether you're a man seeking to decode the needs of your wife or a woman yearning for better communication, this episode promises valuable wisdom and practical advice for everyone. Curious about what your conflict style is? Follow us for more helpful tools and resources! Connect with us on Instagram @apurposedrivenmarriage Follow us on Facebook @apurposedrivenmarriage Get a FREE copy of “31 Conversation Starters to Improve Communication” here: To contact Nadine about Relationship Coaching, Premarital Counseling, speaking at your event, or hosting a workshop, email /episode/index/show/7609ccb5-6d71-425d-a2a3-3ea43fa826eb/id/27068739