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Join Chelsea and Layton as they discuss pornography’s hard truths through the lens of stories, science, and Scripture. Liberator Podcast was created to remove the barriers of shame and embarrassment that stifle conversations and community around the effects of pornography. We look forward to earning your trust.

Mark Sanders (Harvest USA) 05/01/2025

Mark Sanders (Harvest USA) Mark Sanders joins the show! The episode explores the false comfort that pornography provides, the generational shifts in attitudes towards sex and relationships, and the importance of community and healing in recovery. The discussion emphasizes the need for a redefined understanding of intimacy and the role of selflessness in healthy relationships. The conversation concludes with an overview of new resources aimed at healing and hope for those struggling with sexual integrity. /episode/index/show/8b563503-8cf8-48a1-a9e1-37ffecfbc5f6/id/36383200

How Could I Have Missed It? with L&C 04/24/2025

How Could I Have Missed It? with L&C Chelsea shares her personal journey of dealing with betrayal and the emotional turmoil that followed. She discusses the common feelings of self-doubt and guilt that arise after being blindsided by a partner's actions, particularly in the context of pornography. The conversation emphasizes the importance of forgiveness, both for oneself and for the partner, and the need to let go of the illusion of control over others' choices. /episode/index/show/8b563503-8cf8-48a1-a9e1-37ffecfbc5f6/id/36289005

What's Forming You? with L&C 04/17/2025

What's Forming You? with L&C Chelsea and Layton unpack the concept of formation and how our daily choices shape our lives and futures. The conversation touches on the importance of being intentional about what we consume, especially for those recovering from addiction or trauma. The discussion covers the impact of music, movies, and other media on our mental and spiritual well-being, advocating for a mindful approach to content consumption. /episode/index/show/8b563503-8cf8-48a1-a9e1-37ffecfbc5f6/id/36201395

Bangkok with L&C 04/10/2025

Bangkok with L&C Chelsea and Layton discuss their recent trip to Bangkok, where they witnessed the stark realities of the sex industry and its impact on workers and customers. They reflect on the importance of perspectives gained through travel, the deep sin nature of humanity, and the compassion shown by those who have escaped the sex trades. The conversation emphasizes hope and redemption, highlighting the transformative power of God even in the darkest places. /episode/index/show/8b563503-8cf8-48a1-a9e1-37ffecfbc5f6/id/36077510

Craig Marshall 04/03/2025

Craig Marshall Chelsea and Layton welcome Craig Marshall to the show! Together they explore the complex relationship between beauty, embodiment, and the impact of cultural standards and pornography. /episode/index/show/8b563503-8cf8-48a1-a9e1-37ffecfbc5f6/id/35992095

Triggers with L&C 03/27/2025

Triggers with L&C Chelsea and Layton unpack the deep physical and emotional reactions that porn consumption and betrayal create. They share personal stories of their own struggles navigating triggers, and explore the importance of vulnerability, relationships, and communication in healing. /episode/index/show/8b563503-8cf8-48a1-a9e1-37ffecfbc5f6/id/35847620

Layton's Story 03/20/2025

Layton's Story Layton shares his journey of overcoming pornography consumption and the transformative power of Christ. He emphasizes the importance of community, accountability, and the role of God in his healing and redemption. The talk also touches on the impact of sin on his relationships, his call to ministry, and the significance of sharing personal stories to help others. /episode/index/show/8b563503-8cf8-48a1-a9e1-37ffecfbc5f6/id/35788670

Finding Joy with L&C 03/13/2025

Finding Joy with L&C Chelsea and Layton explore the complex journey of finding joy amidst suffering, grief, and addiction. They discuss the difference between joy and happiness, the importance of intentionality in our low points, and the necessity of community support during difficult times. The conversation emphasizes the significance of taking breaks from grieving, redefining one's identity beyond pain, and the power of trust in finding joy. /episode/index/show/8b563503-8cf8-48a1-a9e1-37ffecfbc5f6/id/35664860

Matthew & Joanna Raabsmith 03/06/2025

Matthew & Joanna Raabsmith Matthew and Joanna Raabsmith join the show. They share their personal journey from friendship to marriage, the challenges they faced due to addiction, and the transformative power of vulnerability and honesty in healing. The discussion emphasizes the importance of creating a supportive framework for couples navigating difficult conversations and the ongoing journey of rebuilding trust and intimacy. /episode/index/show/8b563503-8cf8-48a1-a9e1-37ffecfbc5f6/id/35553920

Generational Impact with L&C 02/27/2025

Generational Impact with L&C Chelsea and Layton explore the concepts of generational sin and redemption, discussing how these themes impact personal growth and family dynamics. They delve into the science of addiction, particularly focusing on epigenetics, and how our choices can affect not only ourselves but also future generations. /episode/index/show/8b563503-8cf8-48a1-a9e1-37ffecfbc5f6/id/35456695

Jacob Valk (Into The Light Ministries) 02/20/2025

Jacob Valk (Into The Light Ministries) Jacob Valk from Into the Light Ministries returns to the show to discuss pornography, sexuality, and parenting. Jacob shares insights from his ministry's journey, including the creation of a masterclass developed to empower parents to address porn with their children confidently. The discussion highlights the significance of personal stories and the collective responsibility of parents in shaping a healthy understanding of sexuality for the next generation. The episode contains conceptual truths about pornography and the family, as well as specific insights into how to make the home safer for children. /episode/index/show/8b563503-8cf8-48a1-a9e1-37ffecfbc5f6/id/35363390

Dating and The Porn Conversation with L&C 02/13/2025

Dating and The Porn Conversation with L&C Chelsea and Layton Boeve delve into the complexities of dating and the often-taboo subject of pornography. The conversation emphasizes the need for both partners to be honest about their feelings and experiences with pornography, and how it can impact their relationship dynamics. They also explore the significance of personal healing and the necessity for individuals to address their own struggles with pornography before entering or continuing a relationship. /episode/index/show/8b563503-8cf8-48a1-a9e1-37ffecfbc5f6/id/35265305

One Piece of Advice with L&C 02/06/2025

One Piece of Advice with L&C Chelsea and Layton share the best advice they each personally received during the healing journey. The conversation hits on the importance of confronting personal and familial secrets as a means of growth and recovery, as well as the centrality of grace, honesty, and courage in addressing our sin. /episode/index/show/8b563503-8cf8-48a1-a9e1-37ffecfbc5f6/id/35175070

Rationalization with L&C 01/30/2025

Rationalization with L&C Chelsea and Layton explore the damaging effects of pornography on the brain, the rationalizations people make to cope with addiction, and the importance of self-honesty in recovery. They discuss the cost of following Christ, the influences of media on personal behavior, and the challenges of healing from betrayal and insecurity. The dialogue emphasizes the need for deep introspection and the courage to confront difficult truths in order to find true freedom and growth. /episode/index/show/8b563503-8cf8-48a1-a9e1-37ffecfbc5f6/id/34866370

Caitlin McCaffrey (Harvest USA) 01/23/2025

Caitlin McCaffrey (Harvest USA) Chelsea and Layton are joined by Caitlin McCaffrey, the Director of Women's Ministry at Harvest USA. They explore the mission of Harvest USA, God’s heart towards those struggling with betrayal and sexual sin, and the significant need for support among women facing these challenges. Caitlin shares insights on betrayal trauma, the importance of acknowledging pain, and the role of church leaders in providing care. The discussion also delves into the science of pornography addiction, neuroplasticity, and the hope found in Christ for healing and restoration. Catalog of /episode/index/show/8b563503-8cf8-48a1-a9e1-37ffecfbc5f6/id/34866275

The Church (Beyond The Porn Phenomenon Part 4) with L&C 01/16/2025

The Church (Beyond The Porn Phenomenon Part 4) with L&C Chelsea and Layton wrap up Liberator’s Beyond the Porn Phenomenon series by diving into Barna’s research on pornography and the church. They discuss the importance of community support for both congregants and leaders, the generational perspectives on pornography, and the challenges faced by church leaders in addressing these issues. The conversation emphasizes the need for compassion, understanding, and proactive measures within the church to foster a healthier environment for all members. by Sam Black /episode/index/show/8b563503-8cf8-48a1-a9e1-37ffecfbc5f6/id/34866110

Generations (Beyond The Porn Phenomenon Part 3) with L&C 01/09/2025

Generations (Beyond The Porn Phenomenon Part 3) with L&C Chelsea and Layton continue their Barna series, exploring the impact of pornography across different generations. The conversation compares differing attitudes around porn, while emphasizing the importance of communication and mentorship between different age groups. /episode/index/show/8b563503-8cf8-48a1-a9e1-37ffecfbc5f6/id/34782260

Rewind: Bob and Dannah Gresh (Pure Freedom) 01/02/2025

Rewind: Bob and Dannah Gresh (Pure Freedom) We are rewinding back to one of our favorite episodes with some of our favorite people, the Greshes! Bob and Dannah Gresh are bestselling authors and leaders of the Pure Freedom, True Girl, and Born to Be Brave ministries. They join us to talk about Dannah's book, Happily Even After, and the incredible redemption story of their marriage. Resources Dannah mentioned: Dannah’s website: /episode/index/show/8b563503-8cf8-48a1-a9e1-37ffecfbc5f6/id/34692660

Liberator Christmas 2024 with L&C 12/25/2024

Liberator Christmas 2024 with L&C Merry Christmas from all of us at Liberator! We're taking a brief pause from our, "Beyond The Porn Phenomenon," series to do a special Christmas encouragement. You are not alone! /episode/index/show/8b563503-8cf8-48a1-a9e1-37ffecfbc5f6/id/34611235

Motivations (Beyond The Porn Phenomenon Part 2) with L&C 12/19/2024

Motivations (Beyond The Porn Phenomenon Part 2) with L&C Chelsea and Layton delve into the motivations behind pornography consumption, exploring how factors like boredom, stress, and personal arousal influence individuals' choices. They discuss the differences in motivations between men and women, the impact of technology on access to pornography, and the need for the church to engage in discussions about sexuality and provide guidance. /episode/index/show/8b563503-8cf8-48a1-a9e1-37ffecfbc5f6/id/34525300

The Widening Gap (Beyond the Porn Phenomenon Part 1) with L&C 12/12/2024

The Widening Gap (Beyond the Porn Phenomenon Part 1) with L&C Chelsea and Layton introduce a new series based from Barna's research on pornography usage in the U.S., discussing the growth of consumers and frequency of use across the country. They also explore the themes of substance versus shadow in life, particularly in relation to pornography and its impact on society. /episode/index/show/8b563503-8cf8-48a1-a9e1-37ffecfbc5f6/id/34406855

Jamie Gordon (Screen Sanity) 12/05/2024

Jamie Gordon (Screen Sanity) Chelsea and Layton speak with Jamie Gordon from Screen Sanity about the challenges parents face in managing technology use among children. Jamie shares the mission of Screen Sanity, and shares practical strategies for establishing boundaries, addressing difficult topics like pornography, and fostering open communication with kids. /episode/index/show/8b563503-8cf8-48a1-a9e1-37ffecfbc5f6/id/34296030

Refining Fire with L&C 11/21/2024

Refining Fire with L&C Chelsea and Layton discuss the themes of pain, suffering, and God's role in our lives during difficult times. They explore the biblical concept of the 'refiner's fire' and how it relates to personal growth and healing. Through the stories of Job, Peter, and Judas, they emphasize the importance of understanding God's character and the hope that can be found even in the midst of pain. The conversation encourages listeners to seek God in their times of need, reminding them that they are not alone in their journey. /episode/index/show/8b563503-8cf8-48a1-a9e1-37ffecfbc5f6/id/34077821

The Right Questions with L&C 11/14/2024

The Right Questions with L&C Chelsea and Layton discuss the complexities of communication around pornography use, particularly focusing on the questions that can hinder healing after betrayal. They emphasize the importance of trust and avoiding assumptions, as well as the impact of genuine curiosity. The conversation also highlights the significance of constructive dialogue and seeking divine guidance in understanding oneself and one's partner. /episode/index/show/8b563503-8cf8-48a1-a9e1-37ffecfbc5f6/id/33921767

King Solomon with L&C 11/07/2024

King Solomon with L&C Chelsea and Layton explore the life of King Solomon, examining his rise to greatness and subsequent fall from grace. They discuss the importance of vigilance in leadership, the dangers of temptation, and the need for contentment and stewardship in relationships. The conversation serves as a cautionary tale about the consequences of straying from one's values and the hope for redemption through repentance and gratitude. /episode/index/show/8b563503-8cf8-48a1-a9e1-37ffecfbc5f6/id/33825012

Amanda Aanestad (Victory Collective) 10/31/2024

Amanda Aanestad (Victory Collective) Amanda Aanestad joins Liberator for episode 57! Amanda is the Co-Founder of The Victory Collective, an online ministry for girls and women seeking to overcome pornography and sexual shame. Amanda shares her personal journey, the power of confession, and the story behind the creation of the Victory Collective. The conversation explores the significance of understanding triggers, navigating relationships, and the resources available for support. /episode/index/show/8b563503-8cf8-48a1-a9e1-37ffecfbc5f6/id/33682992

Humble Beginnings with L&C 10/24/2024

Humble Beginnings with L&C Chelsea and Layton discuss the early days of their personal story of porn use, betrayal trauma, and healing. They explore the struggles of confessing to a partner, the journey towards sobriety, and the impact of addiction on self-worth and trust. The conversation emphasizes the need for open dialogue, understanding, and support in overcoming challenges together, ultimately leading to hope and renewal. /episode/index/show/8b563503-8cf8-48a1-a9e1-37ffecfbc5f6/id/33592377

Dr. Juli Slattery (Authentic Intimacy) 10/17/2024

Dr. Juli Slattery (Authentic Intimacy) Dr. Juli Slattery returns to the show to address listeners’ most frequently asked question, “What should I do if my partner can’t or won’t stop watching porn?” Our conversation will dive into the challenges faced by individuals dealing with sexual addiction, the importance of humility in relationships, and the necessity of pursuing wholeness and sexual integrity on an individual level. The discussion navigates how to frame these issues whether you are married, dating, or single. /episode/index/show/8b563503-8cf8-48a1-a9e1-37ffecfbc5f6/id/33498817

Sextortion with L&C 10/10/2024

Sextortion with L&C Chelsea and Layton discuss the alarming rise of sextortion, a form of blackmail particularly affecting young people. They explore the mechanics of sextortion, the emotional impact on victims, and the importance of open communication between parents and children. The conversation emphasizes the need for awareness, practical safety measures, and the role of faith in overcoming the fear and shame associated with these threats. /episode/index/show/8b563503-8cf8-48a1-a9e1-37ffecfbc5f6/id/33398427

Rahab with L&C 10/03/2024

Rahab with L&C In this episode, Chelsea and Layton discuss the themes of shame, redemption, and the story of Rahab from the Bible. They explore how shame can distort our identity and how faith can lead to freedom. The conversation highlights Rahab's role as an unlikely heroine and the importance of obedience in the face of risk. They emphasize that God values everyone, regardless of their past, and that true freedom can have a ripple effect on families and communities. /episode/index/show/8b563503-8cf8-48a1-a9e1-37ffecfbc5f6/id/33313927

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