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Ep 16 | Affection
12/12/2024
Ep 16 | Affection
Welcome back to 360 ALPHA, where we delve into relationships, self-mastery, and becoming the best version of yourself. In this episode, Kabir Wats explores the transformative power of affection in relationships, especially for men who might hesitate to express warmth. Discover how intentional affection can shift dynamics, dissolve tension, and create deeper connections in a relationship. Kabir shares insights on how embracing warmth with authenticity and purpose can foster trust and mutual respect, helping relationships thrive. Key Takeaways: • Affection is a reflection of strength, not weakness. • Use warmth and care to create a supportive, harmonious environment. • Combine affection with communication to resolve challenges effectively. Links & Resources: • 'Are You A 360 Alpha?' Book and Audiobook: • Personalized Sessions: • E-book: Contact Us: Have questions? Email us at [email protected]. Your confidentiality is always our priority. Follow us on Instagram:
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Ep 15 | Gently Leading in Relationships
11/28/2024
Ep 15 | Gently Leading in Relationships
Welcome back to 360 Alpha, where we delve into relationships, self-mastery, and becoming the best version of yourself. In this episode, Kabir Wats explores the concept of Gently Leading in Relationships—guiding with subtlety, confidence, and patience. Discover how to set the tone, create trust, and inspire mutual investment without force or pressure. Kabir shares insights on how intentional actions, combined with a calm, purposeful mindset, can naturally deepen connections and allow relationships to evolve at their own pace. Key Takeaways: Lead relationships with confidence and patience, not control. Build trust and inspire engagement through subtle leadership. Why balance and purpose make your connection magnetic. Links & Resources: 'Are You A 360 Alpha?' Book and Audiobook: Personalized Sessions: E-book: Contact Us: Have questions? Email us at [email protected]. Your confidentiality is always our priority. Follow us on Instagram:
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Ep 14 | No Fear of Loss
03/19/2024
Ep 14 | No Fear of Loss
Join Kabir Wats in this episode of 360 Alpha as he addresses the pervasive concern of fearing loss in dating and relationships. Kabir explores how this fear undermines self-confidence and sabotages the potential for genuine connection. He introduces empowering strategies to cultivate a mindset of abundance and positivity, illustrating how such an outlook can profoundly impact your relational dynamics. Segment 1: Overcoming the Fear of Loss Kabir discusses a common sentiment among listeners: the anxiety that relationships are destined to end, which leads to behaviors that inadvertently cause what they most fear. He breaks down how adopting an abundance mindset and focusing on the positives can shift your energy from desperation to attraction, drawing people closer instead of pushing them away. Segment 2: Building Confidence and Positivity Hear insights on transforming fear into empowerment. Kabir shares practical tips for staying present and grateful, emphasizing how these practices can change your relationship outlook. He encourages listeners to see each relationship as an opportunity for growth, fostering a more optimistic and resilient approach to dating. Conclusion: Fostering Deep, Enduring Connections Kabir concludes by reinforcing the importance of balancing self-assurance with openness, demonstrating how this equilibrium can enhance your desirability and foster deeper connections. He underlines that freeing yourself from the fear of loss paves the way for more meaningful and lasting relationships. Episode Highlights: - Understand the impact of fear on your relationship dynamics and learn strategies to overcome it. - Discover how a mindset shift to abundance and positivity can transform your approach to dating. - Gain insights on the power of presence and gratitude in building secure, joyful relationships. - Learn to view each relationship as a growth journey, enriching your life and love experiences. Links & Resources: 'Are You A 360 Alpha?' Book and Audiobook: Personalized Sessions: Free E-book: Contact Us: Email your questions for future episodes to Follow us on Instagram:
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Ep 13 | Myth of the Nice Guy
03/04/2024
Ep 13 | Myth of the Nice Guy
Join Kabir Wats in this episode of 360 Alpha as he unravels the enduring myth that "nice guys finish last" in the dating scene. Kabir digs deep into this common belief, revealing that the real challenge isn't niceness itself but the trap of being overly accommodating and losing your identity. He introduces a game-changing perspective: the "Contrarian Mindset," encouraging a blend of kindness with assertiveness and the importance of sticking to your personal values and boundaries. Segment 1: Breaking Down the Overly Accommodating Nice Guy Dive into a story many will find familiar: a listener who's always gone the extra mile in his relationships only to feel unseen and undervalued. Kabir deconstructs this scenario, illustrating that the issue isn't kindness but the problem of appearing too eager to please, sacrificing self-respect and values. He champions a middle path where you can be thoughtful without compromising your principles—showing that this balance isn't just appealing but crucial for authentic connections. Segment 2: Authenticity is Your Best Asset In this segment, hear about a listener who's been bending over backward to match what he thinks women want, a strategy that's backfiring. Kabir emphasizes the power of authenticity, encouraging listeners to stay true to their interests, beliefs, and personalities. He explains how real connections stem from mutual respect and shared values, not from self-compromise or playing roles. Conclusion: Embrace Your Contrarian Edge Kabir wraps up the discussion by reinforcing that a contrarian mindset in dating means enhancing your kindness with a strong sense of self and firm boundaries. He highlights how this approach doesn't just attract respect and admiration but also fosters a genuinely magnetic presence. Episode Highlights: - Debunk the 'nice guy' myth by understanding the fine line between being accommodating and losing your identity. - Learn why assertiveness and personal boundaries are sexy and how they boost your dating life. - Discover the allure of authenticity and how being true to yourself enhances your appeal. - Get actionable advice on adopting a balanced, contrarian approach to improve your relationships. Links & Resources: 'Are You A 360 Alpha?' Book and Audiobook: Personalized Sessions: Free E-book: Contact Us: Email your questions for future episodes to Follow us on Instagram:
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Ep 12 | Contrarian Mindset
02/09/2024
Ep 12 | Contrarian Mindset
In this episode of 360 Alpha, Kabir Wats tackles the nuanced concept of a “Contrarian Mindset” within the context of dating and relationships. He dissects the familiar adage "Nice guys finish last," proposing that the real issue lies not in kindness itself but in losing one's sense of self in the process of trying to please others. Kabir illuminates how adopting a contrarian approach—balancing genuine niceness with assertiveness and maintaining one's values and boundaries—can lead to healthier, more attractive relational dynamics. The first part of the podcast addresses the dilemma of a listener who finds himself constantly initiating and planning in his dating life, only to feel unreciprocated and drained. Kabir challenges the conventional "chase" mentality, advising on the power of strategic patience and allowing space for pursuit. Kabir argues this approach alleviates personal pressure and enhances attraction by fostering a healthy balance of energy and interest. In the second segment, Kabir responds to a listener struggling with conflict resolution within his relationship. Rather than rushing to smooth over disagreements, Kabir suggests a contrarian strategy of embracing patience and providing space for both partners to reflect. This method underscores the importance of approaching conflicts with a clear, calm mind, aiming for resolutions that strengthen the relationship's foundation through empathy, respect, and mutual understanding. Throughout the episode, Kabir emphasizes that embodying a contrarian mindset doesn't mean deviating from being nice or kind but integrating those qualities with a strong sense of self, clear boundaries, and patience. This balance, he notes, is key to being perceived as a strong, alpha leader in a relationship. Kabir's insights offer a fresh perspective on cultivating a magnetic, authentic presence that commands respect and admiration without compromising kindness or empathy. Highlights: Navigating the fine line between being genuinely nice and overly accommodating, the importance of assertiveness and personal boundaries in enhancing attraction, strategic patience in dating, and a thoughtful, reflective approach to conflict resolution in relationships. Links & Resources: 'Are You A 360 Alpha?' Book and Audiobook: Personalized Sessions: Free E-book: Contact Us: Email your questions for future episodes to Follow us on Instagram:
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Ep 11 | The Life Ship
01/31/2024
Ep 11 | The Life Ship
In this episode of 360 Alpha, host Kabir Wats explores the theme "The Life Ship," emphasizing the significance of being the captain of your relationship journey. Through fundamental advice and practical strategies, Kabir addresses the challenges and nuances of maintaining composure, direction, and strength in the unpredictable waters of love and life. Kabir begins the episode by responding to a listener overwhelmed by continuous challenges in their relationship. He illustrates how adopting the stance of a ship's captain — calm, confident, and in control — can effectively navigate these turbulent waters. Emphasizing the importance of active listening, empathetic communication, and aligning personal goals with the relationship's course, Kabir offers tangible advice for steering the relationship toward a brighter horizon. In the second segment, Kabir addresses the common issue of escalating minor arguments, guiding listeners on maintaining harmony and balance. He advises embracing humor and charm to defuse conflicts, reinforcing the significance of a light-hearted yet thoughtful approach to resolving disputes. Highlights: Mastering relationship navigation with captain-like composure and direction, valuing active listening and empathetic communication, aligning personal ambitions with relationship harmony, and utilizing humor and charm in conflict resolution for strengthened bonds and mutual respect. Links & Resources: 'Are You A 360 Alpha?' Book and Audiobook: Personalized Sessions: Free E-book: Contact Us: Email your questions for future episodes to Follow us on Instagram:
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Ep 10 | Nothing to Prove
01/31/2024
Ep 10 | Nothing to Prove
In the latest episode of 360 Alpha, host Kabir Wats delves into the profound theme of "Nothing to Prove" in the realm of dating and relationships. He addresses the often unspoken pressure men face to constantly prove their worth in relationships, offering insightful guidance on navigating these challenges with confidence and authenticity. The episode opens with a listener's dilemma about feeling the need to impress a new romantic interest with elaborate dates and achievements. Kabir addresses this common scenario by emphasizing the importance of true confidence stemming from within rather than seeking constant external validation. He articulates how a calm, confident demeanor, rooted in one's genuine qualities, is more attractive and sustainable than a relentless pursuit of approval. In the second part, Kabir responds to a listener grappling with feelings of inadequacy in the face of his partner's accomplishments. He offers perspective-shifting advice, focusing on personal contentment and growth, independent of a partner's success. Kabir highlights the significance of supporting a partner from a position of strength, fostering a relationship grounded in mutual respect and genuine love, without succumbing to the pressures of competition or insecurity. Kabir provides listeners with actionable strategies to embrace their intrinsic value and navigate their relationships from a position of assured masculinity. His advice not only resonates with those in romantic relationships but also serves as a guide for personal growth and self-acceptance. Highlights: The balance between self-worth and external validation, the importance of genuine connection over material impressiveness, and strategies to maintain personal growth and strength in relationships. Links & Resources: 'Are You A 360 Alpha?' Book and Audiobook: Personalized Sessions: Free E-book: Contact Us: Email your questions for future episodes to Follow us on Instagram:
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Ep 9 | A Blanket of Reassurance
01/19/2024
Ep 9 | A Blanket of Reassurance
In this episode of 360 Alpha, Kabir Wats addresses the vital role of reassurance in relationships under the theme "A Blanket of Reassurance." He explores how creating a balance between being supportive and maintaining one's strength is crucial for a healthy, nurturing relationship. The first segment of the podcast delves into the challenges faced by a listener whose wife seems perpetually discontent despite his efforts. Kabir advises against the pleaser mentality, suggesting that a relationship thrives when both partners feel valued and understood, not just when one constantly tries to appease the other. He emphasizes the importance of shifting the dynamics to reflect strength and allow natural affection to flourish. In the second part, Kabir responds to a listener worried about providing enough reassurance to his anxious partner. He stresses the significance of open communication and consistent actions that build trust and security in a relationship. Kabir highlights that reassurance goes beyond words; it's about embodying confidence and stability through one's actions and demeanor. Throughout the episode, Kabir's advice underscores that being a source of reassurance doesn't imply fixing every issue but involves being present, listening, and demonstrating a united front. He reminds listeners that maintaining one's hobbies, friendships, and interests is the key to being a well-rounded, reassuring partner. Highlights: The balance between support and strength in relationships, overcoming the pleaser mindset, effective communication for reassurance, and the importance of self-care as a source of strength for your partner. Links & Resources: 'Are You A 360 Alpha?' Book and Audiobook: Personalized Sessions: Free E-book: Contact Us: Email your questions for future episodes to Follow us on Instagram:
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Ep 8 | No Inhibitions and a Natural Progression
01/16/2024
Ep 8 | No Inhibitions and a Natural Progression
In this episode, Kabir Wats of 360 Alpha explores the delicate themes of "No Inhibitions and a Natural Progression" in romantic relationships. He addresses the common fears and hesitations one faces when a relationship deepens or changes. Kabir's responses to listeners' queries emphasize embracing natural progression in relationships and overcoming fears that inhibit growth. The first segment dives into the anxiety of escalating intimacy in a budding relationship. Kabir advises against resisting the natural flow of a relationship due to fear of the unknown, advocating for strength in vulnerability and openness to possibilities. He emphasizes that a mindset free of fear and inhibition allows relationships to evolve authentically and healthily. In the second part, Kabir tackles the issue of dealing with a partner's withdrawal and the balance between expressing care and not pursuing excessively. He encourages listeners to reflect on what they genuinely seek in a partner and to approach situations with a blend of openness and self-assuredness. Throughout the episode, Kabir's guidance centers around the power of self-awareness and confidence in navigating the nuances of evolving relationships. His advice underscores the significance of letting relationships grow without force and maintaining a strong, centered presence. Highlights: Embracing the natural progression of relationships, overcoming fears of intimacy and commitment, dealing with a partner pulling away, balancing emotional expression with maintaining strength, and the importance of self-awareness in romantic pursuits. Links & Resources: 'Are You A 360 Alpha?' Book and Audiobook: Personalized Sessions: Free E-book: Contact Us: Email your questions for future episodes to Follow us on Instagram:
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Ep 7 | Indifferent to the Outcome
01/11/2024
Ep 7 | Indifferent to the Outcome
In this episode, Kabir Wats of 360 Alpha addresses the challenging but crucial concept of being "Indifferent to the Outcome" in dating and relationships. He takes on questions about dealing with uncertainty and mixed signals in romantic pursuits, providing insightful advice on how to navigate these situations with confidence and composure. Kabir underscores the importance of self-respect and a calm, centered approach when faced with potential romantic disappointments or complications. He guides listeners through scenarios where romantic interests might seem uncertain or waning, emphasizing the strength and attractiveness of an individual who is secure and content in their own life, regardless of the romantic outcomes. With wisdom and a reassuring tone, Kabir encourages listeners to focus on their growth and happiness, clarifying that a healthy detachment and a focus on self-worth can paradoxically draw others closer. Highlights: Navigating the complexities of developing relationships, understanding when to pursue and when to take a step back, the power of a confident and self-assured attitude in attraction, and the significance of being true to oneself above all else. Links & Resources: 'Are You A 360 Alpha?' Book and Audiobook: Personalized Sessions: Free E-book: Contact Us: Email your questions for future episodes to Follow us on Instagram:
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Ep 6 | Unshaken but Empathetic
01/11/2024
Ep 6 | Unshaken but Empathetic
In this episode, Kabir Wats of 360 Alpha explores the delicate balance of "Unshaken but Empathetic" in maintaining relationships while pursuing demanding careers. He delves into the challenges men face when their professional obligations impact their personal lives and relationships. With empathetic yet firm advice, Kabir guides listeners on how to maintain a strong presence in their relationships without compromising their professional drive. Kabir acknowledges the strain that long hours and work commitments can have on relationships and offers strategies for men to remain steadfast in their goals while being emotionally present and supportive partners. He emphasizes the importance of clear communication, understanding, and occasional romantic gestures to reassure and maintain a healthy, loving relationship. Highlights: Navigating professional demands while nurturing relationships, the importance of communication and empathy in balancing work-life stress, and the power of remaining unshaken in one's professional life while being a supportive and loving partner. Links & Resources: 'Are You A 360 Alpha?' Book and Audiobook: Personalized Sessions: Free E-book: Contact Us: Email your questions for future episodes to Follow us on Instagram:
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Ep 5 | Walking Away and Respect
11/09/2023
Ep 5 | Walking Away and Respect
In this episode, Kabir Wats of 360 Alpha tackles the nuanced topic of "Walking Away and Respect" in the context of unrequited love. He addresses the challenging scenario of harboring romantic feelings for a friend and the strength it takes to walk away when those feelings are not mutual. Kabir offers candid, heartfelt advice on maintaining self-respect and establishing clear intentions, emphasizing the importance of honesty in one's romantic pursuits and friendships. Kabir does not shy away from the emotional weight of such a situation, encouraging listeners to prioritize their emotional well-being and self-worth. With wisdom and a touch of playfulness, he guides the audience through the process of letting go and the transformative power of walking away from unfulfilled romantic aspirations while still preserving one's self-respect and the potential for future connections. Highlights: The dynamics of friendship and romance, the value of transparency in expressing feelings, the personal growth from making difficult choices, and the paradoxical draw of a person who confidently stands in their power. Links & Resources: 'Are You A 360 Alpha?' Book and Audiobook: Personalized Sessions: Free E-book: Contact Us: Email your questions for future episodes to Follow us on Instagram:
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Ep 4 | Trust
11/02/2023
Ep 4 | Trust
In this insightful episode, Kabir Wats of 360 Alpha delves into the intricate dynamics of "Trust" in relationships. Drawing from real-life scenarios and personal experiences, Kabir dissects the barriers that past relationships can impose on current ones and offers transformative solutions to overcome them. As he navigates the complex world of trust in both traditional and long-distance relationships, Kabir emphasizes the importance of an abundance mindset and the role of self-assurance in attracting and maintaining a healthy romantic connection. Join Kabir as he equips listeners with the tools and perspectives necessary to build, sustain, and reclaim trust in relationships. Highlights: Exploring trust as the bedrock of all personal and professional relationships, understanding the impact of past betrayals on current relationships and strategies to move past them, the role of an abundance mindset in relationship health, navigating the unique challenges of trust in long-distance relationships, and the significance of physical bonding in reinforcing trust over distances. Links & Resources: 'Are You A 360 Alpha?' Book and Audiobook: Personalized Sessions: Free E-book: Contact Us: Email your questions for future episodes to Follow us on Instagram:
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Ep 3 | Individuality
10/26/2023
Ep 3 | Individuality
In this illuminating episode, Kabir Wats of 360 Alpha addresses the essence of "Individuality" within relationships. Kabir unravels the delicate balance between staying true to oneself and nurturing a budding romance. Through relatable scenarios and keen insights, he underlines the counter-intuitive truth: personal growth and a strong sense of self can be the magnetic force that keeps partners drawn to each other. Join Kabir in exploring how maintaining individuality not only fosters personal growth but also enriches the fabric of a romantic relationship. Highlights: The pivotal role of individuality in relationships and its connection to a relationship's longevity, unraveling the complexities of intertwining lives without losing one's identity, the counter-intuitive nature of maintaining personal space as a cornerstone for relationship health, strategies for effective communication without causing misunderstandings or conflicts, and realizing the importance of mutual empowerment in relationships for lasting harmony. Links & Resources: 'Are You A 360 Alpha?' Book and Audiobook: Personalized Sessions: Free E-book: Contact Us: Email your questions for future episodes to Follow us on Instagram:
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Ep 1 | True to Your Intent and Building a Position of Strength
10/12/2023
Ep 1 | True to Your Intent and Building a Position of Strength
In this thought-provoking episode, Kabir Wats, founder of 360 ALPHA, tackles two challenging questions surrounding unreciprocated romantic feelings within friendships. Kabir shares valuable advice on navigating the turbulent waters of love and friendship, emphasizing the importance of personal growth and staying true to one's intentions. Discover how cultivating a position of internal strength can lead to positive outcomes, even in the face of rejection. Highlights include: Dealing with unreciprocated feelings in a friendship, understanding when to walk away and preserve your dignity, strategies for handling rejection gracefully, and tips for focusing on personal growth and building a stronger you. Links & Resources: 'Are You A 360 Alpha?' Book and Audiobook: Personalized Sessions: Free E-book: Contact Us: Email your questions for future episodes to Follow us on Instagram:
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Ep 2 | Following a Natural Flow
10/05/2023
Ep 2 | Following a Natural Flow
In this empowering episode, Kabir Wats from 360 Alpha is back to guide you through the potential anxieties and considerations of escalating a relationship to the next stage - cohabitation. Kabir emphasizes the significance of allowing relationships to evolve naturally, encouraging listeners to live in the moment and approach future steps with confidence and love. Tune in to discover how to transition smoothly into living together with your partner, while fostering a relationship built on mutual respect and unconditional love. Highlights: Understanding the natural progression to cohabitation, overcoming anxieties stemming from past relationships, navigating potential challenges of moving in together, embracing a positive outlook on love and relationships and strategies for fostering a relationship built on mutual giving and respect. Links & Resources: 'Are You A 360 Alpha?' Book and Audiobook: Personalized Sessions: Free E-book: Contact Us: Email your questions for future episodes to Follow us on Instagram:
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The Answer— 360 ALPHA
10/01/2023
The Answer— 360 ALPHA
Welcome to 360 ALPHA, a sanctuary where personal growth meets relationship mastery. In this series, we progressively unpack the layers of one of the internet's most searched queries: 'How to get my ex back.' But at 360 ALPHA, we transcend the conventional path. Join Kabir Wats as he answers your questions and guides you on a transformative journey to rediscover love and a potent, magnetic attraction rooted in self-improvement and inner strength. Unveil the secrets to becoming a person who naturally draws others in, fostering relationships that are not only magnetic but also deeply respectful and authentic. It's time to shift the narrative, redefine success on your terms, and step into a life where you hold the reins. Discover the counter-intuitive approaches that empower you to cultivate a life that's not just about getting back with someone but becoming a beacon of strength and magnetism. Are you ready to evolve into your most captivating self? The answer lies within - 360 ALPHA Links & Resources: 'Are You A 360 Alpha?' Book and Audiobook: Personalized Sessions: Free E-book: Contact Us: Email your questions for future episodes to . Follow us on Instagram:
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