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S9 Ep17: Can You Modify a Divorce Decree After Finalization?
11/19/2025
S9 Ep17: Can You Modify a Divorce Decree After Finalization?
#ChooseGoldman Yes, you can modify a divorce decree after it's finalized, but it's not a simple process. You must prove to the court that a "significant change in circumstance" has occurred, and the court will be hesitant to undo its final judgment. • You must show a "significant change in circumstance" for the court to consider modifying a final decree. • The court is hesitant to undo a judgment that required significant negotiation and was already finalized. • If both parties mutually agree to a small change, the court is likely to approve it quickly. • For major changes, such as child custody, the court must hold a hearing, even if both parties agree. • For any changes involving children, the court's primary responsibility is to determine if the change is in the "best interest of the child." 📞 (248) 590-6600 Call/Text 📅 For a Complimentary Phone Case Evaluation: Click here to watch the video: For more information: ⬇️ Download Divorce & Custody Survival Guide. Click here: For additional information, watch these videos: Can My Ex Modify The Divorce Decree After It's Finalized - Can I Modify My Divorce After The Judge Signs The Decree - #Goldmanandassociateslawfirm #ChooseGoldman #ChooseGoldmanLaw #DivorceModification #MichiganFamilyLaw #ChildCustodyModification #PostDivorce #MichiganDivorceLawyer
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S9 Ep16: Do I Have To Return The Engagement Ring?
11/18/2025
S9 Ep16: Do I Have To Return The Engagement Ring?
#ChooseGoldman In Michigan, the law is very clear about what happens to an engagement ring if a wedding is called off. This discussion explains the concept of a "conditional gift" and how it applies to this common family law question. • An engagement ring is considered a conditional gift in Michigan. • The "condition" tied to this gift is the marriage itself. • If the marriage does not happen, the ring must be returned to the person who gave it. • The law does not consider who was at fault for ending the engagement. • If you get married, the condition is met, and the ring becomes the recipient's personal property. 📞 (248) 590-6600 Call/Text 📅 For a Complimentary Phone Case Evaluation: Click here to watch the video: For more information: ⬇️ Download Divorce & Custody Survival Guide. Click here: For additional information, watch these videos: How To Have A Successful Divorce - How To Piece Your Life Together After A Divorce - #Goldmanandassociateslawfirm #ChooseGoldman #ChooseGoldmanLaw #MichiganLaw #FamilyLaw #LegalPodcast #EngagementRing #LegalAdvice
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S9 Ep15: How Do You Handle a Divorce When You Have Young Children?
11/18/2025
S9 Ep15: How Do You Handle a Divorce When You Have Young Children?
#ChooseGoldman Handling a divorce when young children are involved is especially challenging. Akiva Goldman shares essential steps to protect your kids, including maintaining routine, shielding them from conflict, and creating a clear parenting plan to minimize their stress. • Shield your children from all parental conflict; handle disagreements when they are not around. • Prioritize routine and stability by keeping familiar daily schedules consistent. • Create a clear, predictable parenting plan so children always know when they are with each parent. • Reassure your children that both parents will continue to love and care for them. • Remember that their relationship with you as a parent does not change after the divorce. 📞 (248) 590-6600 Call/Text 📅 For a Complimentary Phone Case Evaluation: For more information: ⬇️ Download Divorce & Custody Survival Guide. Click here: For additional information, watch these videos: What To Know About Divorce With Minor Children - Divorce Process With & Without Children - Visit us at #Goldmanandassociateslawfirm #ChooseGoldman #ChooseGoldmanLaw #MichiganDivorce #ParentingTime #FamilyLaw #DivorceWithKids
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S9 Ep14: Can You Change Custody if Your Child Doesn’t Want to See One Parent?
11/13/2025
S9 Ep14: Can You Change Custody if Your Child Doesn’t Want to See One Parent?
#ChooseGoldman A child's wish not to see a parent is only one factor the court considers. A judge must determine the *reason* for the refusal (e.g., preference for a "Disneyland" parent vs. genuine fear) and what is truly in the child's best interest. • A child's preference is only one factor the court considers; it does not automatically outweigh other factors. • The court analyzes the child's age, maturity, and the reason for their preference. • The court's primary duty is to decide what is in the "best interest of the child," which isn't always what the child wants. • To modify custody, you must first prove a "significant change in circumstances" has occurred since the last order. • A child's preference gains weight if tied to serious issues like drug abuse or domestic violence, but a simple change of mind is not enough. 📞 (248) 590-6600 Call/Text 📅 For a Complimentary Phone Case Evaluation: Click here to watch the video: For more information: ⬇️ Download Divorce & Custody Survival Guide. Click here: For additional information, watch these videos: When Can a Child Have a Say in Custody Decisions - Do Children Have a Say in a Custody Case? - #Goldmanandassociateslawfirm #ChooseGoldman #ChooseGoldmanLaw #MichiganFamilyLaw #ChildCustody #CustodyChange #ParentingTime #ChildPreference
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S9 Ep13: What Are the Key Steps to Prepare for Divorce?
11/12/2025
S9 Ep13: What Are the Key Steps to Prepare for Divorce?
#ChooseGoldman Preparing for a divorce can be confusing. Learn the key first steps to take, from gathering documents to setting your goals, to protect yourself and your family. • First, gather all your financial documents, like tax returns and bank statements, before you file. • Second, clearly figure out your goals and objectives regarding the children, the home, and the assets. • Consult with an attorney early in the process to get guidance and build a framework for your case. • One important tip: Do not move out of the marital home unless your lawyer explicitly tells you to. • Moving out without the children can create "bad optics" and significantly hurt your custody case later. 📞 (248) 590-6600 Call/Text 📅 For a Complimentary Phone Case Evaluation: Click here to watch the video: For more information: ⬇️ Download Divorce & Custody Survival Guide. Click here: For additional information, watch these videos: Where To Begin In The Divorce Process - What Are the Basic Steps for Filing for Divorce in Michigan? - #Goldmanandassociateslawfirm #ChooseGoldman #ChooseGoldmanLaw #MichiganDivorce #DivorcePreparation #DivorceTips #FamilyLaw #MichiganLawyer #DivorceAdvice
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S9 Ep12: How Do You Co-Parent When You Can’t Stand Your Ex?
11/12/2025
S9 Ep12: How Do You Co-Parent When You Can’t Stand Your Ex?
#ChooseGoldman Co-parenting with an ex you can't stand is a common problem, but the court expects you to manage it. Learn practical tips to avoid drama and focus on what's best for your child. • Keep all communication strictly child-focused to avoid personal drama. • Sticking to the parenting schedule is the rule, not the exception; monkeying with the schedule causes drama. • Use court-approved apps for written-only communication to reduce emotional conflict. • Be reasonable about occasional, necessary changes to the schedule, but don't make it a habit. • Never bad-mouth the other parent, as it only hurts the child and doesn't help the situation. 📞 (248) 590-6600 Call/Text 📅 For a Complimentary Phone Case Evaluation: Click here to watch the video: For more information: ⬇️ Download Divorce & Custody Survival Guide. Click here: For additional information, watch these videos: How To Deal With A Manipulative Co-Parent - How Do I Co-Parent When My Ex and I Don’t Get Along? - #Goldmanandassociateslawfirm #ChooseGoldman #ChooseGoldmanLaw #CoParenting #MichiganFamilyLaw #DivorceTips #ParentingTime #ChildFocused #MichiganLawyer #Divorce
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S9 Ep11: You Think You’re Divorced but You’re Actually Still Married?
11/12/2025
S9 Ep11: You Think You’re Divorced but You’re Actually Still Married?
#ChooseGoldman It's a shocking but common problem: people believe they are divorced, only to find out years later that they are still legally married. A divorce is only official when a judge signs the final Judgment of Divorce. • You are not divorced if a judge has not signed a final Judgment of Divorce. • Relying on an ex to file paperwork is a common reason divorces are never finalized. • A signed agreement between you and your ex is not enough; a judge must sign the order. • Court cases can be "dismissed for nonprogress," meaning the divorce never became final. • Always confirm your divorce with the court, not just your ex or lawyer, to ensure it is official. 📞 (248) 590-6600 Call/Text 📅 For a Complimentary Phone Case Evaluation: For more information: ⬇️ Download Divorce & Custody Survival Guide. Click here: For additional information, watch these videos: Can I Avoid My Ex Dragging Out the Divorce Process - Divorce Process In Michigan - #Goldmanandassociateslawfirm #ChooseGoldman #ChooseGoldmanLaw #MichiganDivorce #FamilyLaw #DivorceLawyer #StillMarried #DivorceAdvice
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S9 Ep10: Is Joint Custody Always the Best Option?
11/07/2025
S9 Ep10: Is Joint Custody Always the Best Option?
#ChooseGoldman While courts nationwide support joint custody, it requires cooperation. If parents constantly fight, a judge may reverse the decision and grant sole custody to one parent, which is a major risk. • Courts nationwide generally support joint custody to keep both parents involved. • Joint custody (both legal and physical) only works if the parents can cooperate and make decisions together. • If parents fight constantly, a judge may view the joint arrangement as a mistake and switch it to sole custody. • Once a judge decides to switch to sole custody, it is uncertain which parent will be chosen to take responsibility. • Filing for sole custody is a risk; if the case is close, you could lose the joint arrangement entirely. 📞 (248) 590-6600 Call/Text 📅 For a Complimentary Phone Case Evaluation: Click here to watch the video: For more information: ⬇️ Download Divorce & Custody Survival Guide. Click here: For additional information, watch these videos: How Joint Custody Works - What Is The Difference Between Joint Custody And Shared Custody? - #Goldmanandassociateslawfirm #ChooseGoldman #ChooseGoldmanLaw #JointCustody #SoleCustody #MichiganChildCustody #MichiganFamilyLaw
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S9 Ep9: Does Being a Stay-at-Home Parent Affect Custody?
11/07/2025
S9 Ep9: Does Being a Stay-at-Home Parent Affect Custody?
#ChooseGoldman Does being a stay-at-home parent automatically help or hurt your custody case? The court's decision isn't based on the title, but on what is in the "best interest of the child." • The court's primary focus is *only* on what is in the best interest of the child. • Being a stay-at-home parent can be a strong positive, especially if the children are young and need stability. • The *status* of being a stay-at-home parent alone does not guarantee a positive or negative outcome. • A nurturing stay-at-home parent who supports the child's well-being is viewed positively. • A stay-at-home parent struggling with issues like addiction is *not* considered in the child's best interest. 📞 (248) 590-6600 Call/Text 📅 For a Complimentary Phone Case Evaluation: Click here to watch the video: For more information: ⬇️ Download Divorce & Custody Survival Guide. Click here: For additional information, watch these videos: Can a Parent Be Denied Custody For Being a Stay at Home Parent? - What Is Considered An Unstable Home For A Child - #Goldmanandassociateslawfirm #ChooseGoldman #ChooseGoldmanLaw #MichiganChildCustody #StayAtHomeParent #BestInterestOfTheChild #MichiganFamilyLaw #CustodyBattle
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S9 Ep8: Do I Need a Lawyer To Petition For More Custody?
11/07/2025
S9 Ep8: Do I Need a Lawyer To Petition For More Custody?
#ChooseGoldman While Michigan law allows you to represent yourself in a custody case, it's strongly advised against. The process is highly technical, and mistakes can have major, negative consequences for you and your child. • You are legally allowed to represent yourself in most custody cases, as the court does not forbid it. • However, it is "absolutely not" recommended because custody is a serious matter with major consequences, not a minor issue. • The process is very technical, and you can easily make mistakes that worsen your situation. • Lawyers understand the technical Michigan court rules, evidence procedures, and specific laws (like UCCJEA) that most members of the public do not. • Comparing it to a toothache, while you *could* pull your own tooth, a dentist (like a lawyer) knows how to do it correctly and safely. 📞 (248) 590-6600 Call/Text 📅 For a Complimentary Phone Case Evaluation: Click here to watch the video: For more information: ⬇️ Download Divorce & Custody Survival Guide. Click here: For additional information, watch these videos: When Can I Request More Parenting Time After Custody Case? - Problems You Will Run Into If You Handle Your Divorce & Custody Case Yourself - #Goldmanandassociateslawfirm #ChooseGoldman #ChooseGoldmanLaw #MichiganFamilyLaw #ChildCustody #CustodyLawyer #ModifyCustody #FamilyLawAttorney
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S9 Ep7: What Happens If My Kid Says They Don’t Want to See My Ex?
11/07/2025
S9 Ep7: What Happens If My Kid Says They Don’t Want to See My Ex?
#ChooseGoldman It can be difficult when your child refuses to visit their other parent. Learn why you, as the parent, must enforce the court-ordered parenting time and what your legal obligations are. • Kids don't have the final say in parenting time; the custodial parent must enforce the visit, just like going to school or the doctor. • The court's primary focus is the child's "best interest," which may be different from the child's preference. • Telling your child they can choose to stay with you can create problems and is not following the court order. • If there is a serious safety issue (like drug or alcohol abuse), you must file a motion with the court, not just let the child skip the visit. • Allowing a child to make these major decisions can undermine your role as a parent and put you at risk of losing custody. 📞 (248) 590-6600 Call/Text 📅 For a Complimentary Phone Case Evaluation: Click here to watch the video: For more information: ⬇️ Download Divorce & Custody Survival Guide. Click here: https://akivagoldman.com/free-legal-ebook/ For additional information, watch these videos: Can I Request a Change In Custody Based on My Child's Preference? - Does My Child Have A Say In The Choice Of Which Parent To Live With In A Custody Battle - #Goldmanandassociateslawfirm #ChooseGoldman #ChooseGoldmanLaw #MichiganParentingTime #ChildRefusesVisitation #MichiganFamilyLaw #MichiganChildCustody
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S6 Ep6: Is It Illegal To Track My Ex's Location?
11/07/2025
S6 Ep6: Is It Illegal To Track My Ex's Location?
#ChooseGoldman Privacy is a major issue challenged by today's technology. Using a GPS tracker on your ex without their consent is illegal and can lead to serious legal consequences, including criminal charges. • Using a GPS tracker on your ex without their consent is illegal in Michigan. • Marriage or having children does not grant permission to track someone's location. • Courts view unauthorized tracking as a potential invasion of privacy and may consider it stalking. • Tracking your ex, especially in a custody context, can be seen as a serious breach of judgment and negatively impact your case. • Only law enforcement with a court order has the legal authority to track someone; doing it yourself can lead to misdemeanors or felonies. 📞 (248) 590-6600 Call/Text 📅 For a Complimentary Phone Case Evaluation: Click here to watch the video: For more information: ⬇️ Download Divorce & Custody Survival Guide. Click here: For additional information, watch these videos: How can I Protect My Privacy During a Divorce in Michigan? - What If My Ex Shows Up at My House Uninvited? - Visit us at #Goldmanandassociateslawfirm #ChooseGoldman #ChooseGoldmanLaw #PrivacyLaw #Stalking #MichiganLawyer #FamilyLaw #DivorceAdvice #GPSInvalid
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S9 Ep5: Can I Make My Ex Sell The House In Divorce?
10/31/2025
S9 Ep5: Can I Make My Ex Sell The House In Divorce?
#ChooseGoldman In this episode, we explore the difficult question of whether you can make your ex sell the marital home during a divorce. Learn about the court's role in this decision, what happens when you and your spouse disagree, and how factors like children's well-being are considered. • The court has the final authority to decide whether the marital home should be sold if you cannot agree. • You cannot personally force your ex to sell; if there's a disagreement, a judge will make the decision. • When parties cannot agree, courts often order the house to be sold to liquidate the asset. • Arguing that it's "better for the kids" to stay in the house is not a guaranteed way to prevent a sale. • In rare cases, such as a home specially equipped for a disabled child, the court may avoid ordering a sale. 📞 (248) 590-6600 Call/Text 📅 For a Complimentary Phone Case Evaluation: Click here to watch the video: For more information: ⬇️ Download Divorce & Custody Survival Guide. Click here: For additional information, watch these videos: Can I Be Forced To Sell My House In A Divorce - Can A Judge Order A House To Be Sold In A Divorce - #Goldmanandassociateslawfirm #ChooseGoldman #ChooseGoldmanLaw #MichiganDivorce #PropertyDivision #FamilyLaw #DivorceAdvice
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S9 Ep4: Can I Hide Money Before Filing For Divorce?
10/30/2025
S9 Ep4: Can I Hide Money Before Filing For Divorce?
#ChooseGoldman In this episode, Akiva Goldman tackles a critical question: Can you legally hide money before a divorce? Discover the serious legal and financial risks of concealing assets and why full disclosure is the only strategy that truly protects you and your property. • Hiding assets is a serious violation of divorce law and is treated as a fraud on the court. • You are required to provide full disclosure of all your finances under penalty of perjury. • If you're caught, a judge has the power to award 100% of the hidden money to your spouse. • Even if you believe an asset is your separate property, the correct legal strategy is to disclose it and argue your case, not hide it. • Honesty and transparency are the best ways to preserve your fair share of the property and protect yourself from future claims. 📞 (248) 590-6600 Call/Text 📅 For a Complimentary Phone Case Evaluation: Click here to watch the video: For more information: ⬇️ Download Divorce & Custody Survival Guide. Click here: For additional information, watch these videos: How Do You Prove Someone Is Hiding Assets in a Divorce? - Hidden Assets In Divorce & How Your Ex Could Be Hiding Assets - #Goldmanandassociateslawfirm #ChooseGoldman #ChooseGoldmanLaw #MichiganDivorce #FamilyLaw #LegalPodcast #AssetDivision #DivorceAdvice
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S9 Ep3: Can I Get Custody Since My Ex Cheated?
10/29/2025
S9 Ep3: Can I Get Custody Since My Ex Cheated?
#ChooseGoldman Many people believe that proving infidelity will secure a win in a custody battle. This episode explores why that's often not the case in Michigan, detailing how courts prioritize the child's best interests over a parent's marital conduct. Proving your ex cheated does not automatically mean you will get custody. The court's primary focus is always on the "best interest of the child." In Michigan, there are 12 custody factors, and a parent's "moral fitness" is only one of them. Custody battles are typically won based on superior parenting skills and the ability to provide a stable home. A parent who cheated can still be awarded custody if the court finds it is in the child's best interest. 📞 (248) 590-6600 Call/Text 📅 For a Complimentary Phone Case Evaluation: Click here to watch the video: For more information: ⬇️ Download Divorce & Custody Survival Guide. Click here: For additional information, watch these videos: When Does Cheating Matter In a Divorce - Does Infidelity Affect Divorce or Custody Cases - #Goldmanandassociateslawfirm #ChooseGoldman #ChooseGoldmanLaw #MichiganLaw #FamilyLaw #ChildCustody #Divorce #LegalPodcast
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S9 Ep2: What Happens If My Ex Uses False Domestic Violence Claims to Get Custody?
10/28/2025
S9 Ep2: What Happens If My Ex Uses False Domestic Violence Claims to Get Custody?
#ChooseGoldman If your ex is making false allegations to try and win a custody case, you cannot ignore them. You must take these claims seriously and gather evidence, as they can backfire on the accuser if they are proven to be lies. • Never ignore false allegations; you must take them very seriously. • You must gather evidence to disprove the claims, such as witness statements, video evidence, or proof you were elsewhere. • Seek legal help immediately to get advice on how to handle the situation correctly. • False claims can backfire; if a court finds someone lied, they may lose credibility and custody. • A court can sanction a person who makes false accusations with fines, attorney fees, or by denying them custody. 📞 (248) 590-6600 Call/Text 📅 For a Complimentary Phone Case Evaluation: Click here to watch the video: For more information: ⬇️ Download Divorce & Custody Survival Guide. Click here: For additional information, watch these videos: How A Domestic Violence Charge Affects Child Custody Arrangements - Do Domestic Violence Allegations Affect Custody - #Goldmanandassociateslawfirm #ChooseGoldman #ChooseGoldmanLaw #MichiganChildCustody #FalseAllegations #CustodyBattle #MichiganFamilyLaw #DivorceTips
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S9 Ep1: How To Handle Divorce If Ex Was Handling Finances
10/27/2025
S9 Ep1: How To Handle Divorce If Ex Was Handling Finances
#ChooseGoldman Facing a divorce when your spouse managed all the money can be frightening. Learn the critical first steps to protect yourself, from gathering records to freezing assets. • Get copies of all financial records to see how much money there is and where it goes. • If the finances are sophisticated (e.g., a business), hire a forensic accountant to get accurate numbers. • Ask for financial disclosures within the divorce as early as possible. • In a high-asset case, ask the court to freeze assets to protect the marital estate. • Never sign anything blindly, as you may be giving up important rights. 📞 (248) 590-6600 Call/Text 📅 For a Complimentary Phone Case Evaluation: Click here to watch the video: For more information: ⬇️ Download Divorce & Custody Survival Guide. Click here: For additional information, watch these videos: How Assets Are Divided In a Divorce If Ex Makes The Mone - Can My Spouse Spend All My Money During the Divorce - Visit us at #Goldmanandassociateslawfirm #ChooseGoldman #ChooseGoldmanLaw #DivorceFinances #MaritalEstate #ForensicAccountant #HighAssetDivorce #MichiganDivorceLawyer
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S8 Ep100: What If Ex Violates Custody Order?
10/24/2025
S8 Ep100: What If Ex Violates Custody Order?
#ChooseGoldman If your ex takes your children in violation of a court order, the situation is incredibly serious and can be considered parental kidnapping. It's crucial to act immediately by contacting law enforcement and your attorney to ensure your child's safety and enforce the order. • Violating a custody order by taking a child can be treated as parental kidnapping. • Your first action should always be to call the police and inform them of the court order violation. • Your lawyer can file an emergency motion with the court to order the immediate return of your child. • Such a violation can be used as a basis to request a modification of the current custody arrangement. • The police may issue an APB or even an Amber Alert in these situations. 📞 (248) 590-6600 Call/Text 📅 For a Complimentary Phone Case Evaluation: Click here to watch the video: For more information: ⬇️ Download Divorce & Custody Survival Guide. Click here: For additional information, watch these videos: What to Expect if Your Ex Keeps Violating A Court Order - How to Enforce a Custody Order if Your Ex Violates It - #Goldmanandassociateslawfirm #ChooseGoldman #ChooseGoldmanLaw #ParentalKidnapping #CustodyOrderViolation #MichiganFamilyLaw #ChildCustodyLawyer #EmergencyMotion
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S8 Ep99: What Is Parental Kidnapping?
10/23/2025
S8 Ep99: What Is Parental Kidnapping?
#ChooseGoldman Parental kidnapping in Michigan is a serious offense where a parent takes a child in violation of a court order. Understanding this law is crucial to avoid severe legal consequences, including criminal charges and the loss of custody. • Parental kidnapping is often a parent taking a child without legal permission, not a stranger abduction. • It becomes a serious crime when a parent's actions violate a court order that specifies custody and parenting time. • The consequences are severe and are not just a Friend of the Court issue; they can lead to criminal charges. • The other parent can file to change custody immediately if a violation occurs. • Even a small, uncommunicated delay in returning a child, such as by one day, can be viewed as a violation. 📞 (248) 590-6600 Call/Text 📅 For a Complimentary Phone Case Evaluation: Click here to watch the video: For more information: ⬇️ Download Divorce & Custody Survival Guide. Click here: For additional information, watch these videos: What You Need To Know About Parental Kidnapping - What is considered parental kidnapping - Visit us at #Goldmanandassociateslawfirm #ChooseGoldman #ChooseGoldmanLaw #ParentalKidnapping #MichiganFamilyLaw #ChildCustody #CustodyLawyer #MichiganLaw
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S8 Ep98: What If the Alimony Payer Loses Their Job?
10/22/2025
S8 Ep98: What If the Alimony Payer Loses Their Job?
#ChooseGoldman If your ex-spouse loses their job, their alimony obligation does not automatically stop. A formal court process must be initiated to modify the existing alimony order based on the change in circumstances. • Alimony continues until a further order of the court; a job loss does not grant permission to stop paying. • To modify payments, the payer must demonstrate a significant financial change to the court, such as a substantial salary reduction or termination of employment. • The court does not automatically reduce alimony; the person paying must file a motion to request a hearing. • Any changes granted by the court are typically only retroactive to the date the motion was filed, not the date of the job loss. • It is the responsibility of the person paying alimony to go to court and request a reduction as soon as possible to avoid accumulating debt. 📞 (248) 590-6600 Call/Text 📅 For a Complimentary Phone Case Evaluation: Click here to watch the video: For more information: ⬇️ Download Divorce & Custody Survival Guide. Click here: For additional information, watch these videos: What Happens If My Ex Doesn't Pay Alimony? - How Long Do I Have to Pay Alimony? - #Goldmanandassociateslawfirm #ChooseGoldman #ChooseGoldmanLaw #AlimonyModification #SpousalSupport #MichiganFamilyLaw #JobLoss #DivorceLawyer
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S8 Ep97: When Is Mediation Better Than Litigation?
10/21/2025
S8 Ep97: When Is Mediation Better Than Litigation?
#ChooseGoldman Deciding between mediation and litigation can be challenging. Learn the key advantages of mediation, which can offer a quicker, more private, and less hostile path to resolving divorce issues compared to a lengthy and expensive court battle. Cost and Speed: Litigation is expensive and time-consuming, while mediation is a faster and more cost-effective process. Privacy: Mediation is conducted in a private setting, keeping your personal matters confidential, unlike a public courtroom where everything is on record. Cooperative Nature: Unlike the adversarial "you against them" dynamic of litigation, mediation is a cooperative process where both parties work together to find a resolution. Low-Risk First Step: You don't give up any rights by trying mediation. If it fails to produce an agreement, you can still proceed with a trial. Faster Resolution: Mediation can help you resolve all divorce issues more quickly, helping you avoid the high costs associated with trial retainers and preparation. 📞 (248) 590-6600 Call/Text 📅 For a Complimentary Phone Case Evaluation: Click here to watch the video: For more information: ⬇️ Download Divorce & Custody Survival Guide. Click here: For additional information, watch these videos: Is Mediation Better Than Divorce Court? - Is Mediation Better Than Going To Court For Divorce? - #Goldmanandassociateslawfirm #ChooseGoldman #ChooseGoldmanLaw #DivorceMediation #MediationvsLitigation #MichiganDivorce #FamilyLaw
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S8 Ep96: What Every Parent Should Know About Divorce
10/20/2025
S8 Ep96: What Every Parent Should Know About Divorce
#ChooseGoldman When navigating a divorce, the well-being of your children is paramount. This discussion covers essential rules every parent should follow to protect their children and ensure their actions are viewed favorably by the court. •Your children must come first. The court will always look to ensure you have this attitude and are prioritizing their needs above your own. •Routine helps children adjust. Keeping schedules like bedtime consistent between households provides stability during a difficult transition. •Avoid speaking negatively about your ex-spouse. This behavior harms your children, your relationship with them, and your standing in court. •Co-parenting plans are essential. Sit down with the other parent to agree on key issues like schooling, homework, and curfews to avoid inconsistency. •Be mindful that the court is watching. A judge will evaluate your actions and behavior to decide if you are a good custodial parent, so how you conduct yourself matters. 📞 (248) 590-6600 Call/Text 📅 For a Complimentary Phone Case Evaluation: https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=17105687&appointmentType=18529428 Click here to watch the video: For more information: ⬇️ Download Divorce & Custody Survival Guide. Click here: For additional information, watch these videos: What To Know About Divorce With Minor Children - When to Tell Your Kids About the Divorce - #Goldmanandassociateslawfirm #ChooseGoldman #ChooseGoldmanLaw #MichiganFamilyLaw #DivorceAdvice #CoParenting #ChildCustody #ParentingPlan
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S8 Ep95: Should I Stop Contributing to 401k Before Divorce?
10/17/2025
S8 Ep95: Should I Stop Contributing to 401k Before Divorce?
#ChooseGoldman When facing a divorce, many people consider altering their financial strategies, including stopping 401k contributions. In this episode, our attorneys discuss why this might be a detrimental move and how courts view such actions. • Stopping your 401k contributions can be viewed by the court as an attempt to manipulate your income in anticipation of divorce. • The money that is not contributed to your 401k is still considered marital income, it just becomes taxable to you immediately. • Generally, you do not gain a strategic advantage by pausing your regular retirement contributions, as the funds are still subject to division. • All income earned during the marriage must be accounted for, regardless of whether it goes into a retirement plan or a bank account. • It is almost always advisable to maintain your normal financial habits until you have consulted with your family law attorney. Download Divorce & Custody Survival Guide. Click here: Schedule Your Complimentary Phone Consultation: For more information: For additional information, watch these videos: Should I Stop Contributing To My 401(k) If I know I Am Going Get Divorced - Should I Cash Out My 401(k) Before Filing For Divorce - Visit us at #Goldmanandassociateslawfirm #ChooseGoldman #ChooseGoldmanLaw #FamilyLaw #DivorceAdvice #MichiganLaw #FinancialPlanning #Retirement
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S8 Ep95: How to Increase Chances of Getting Custody
10/16/2025
S8 Ep95: How to Increase Chances of Getting Custody
#ChooseGoldman In this episode, we break down the critical factors that influence child custody decisions. Learn the actionable steps you can take to present the strongest possible case to the court. • Stay consistently involved with your children. • Avoid conflict with the other parent to show you can co-parent. • Document everything: visits, punctuality, and any no-shows. • Provide a stable home environment with established routines. • Always focus on what is in the best interest of the children. 📞 (248) 590-6600 Call/Text 📅 For a Complimentary Phone Case Evaluation: Click here to watch the video: For more information: ⬇️ Download Divorce & Custody Survival Guide. Click here: For additional information, watch these videos: How Can I Increase My Chances Of Getting A Better Custody Agreement - How To Prepare For A Child Custody Battle - Visit us at #Goldmanandassociateslawfirm #ChooseGoldman #ChooseGoldmanLaw #FamilyLaw #ChildCustody #Parenting #LegalPodcast #DivorceSupport
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S8 Ep94: Who Pays Off Joint Credit Card Debt in Divorce?
10/15/2025
S8 Ep94: Who Pays Off Joint Credit Card Debt in Divorce?
#ChooseGoldman One of the most complex issues in a divorce is the division of joint debt. In this episode, we explore how courts determine who is responsible for credit card payments and reveal the critical difference between a court order and your contractual obligation to a bank. • Debts from during the marriage are considered marital property, regardless of whose name is on the account. • Courts divide debt equitably (fairly), not always 50/50, by looking at who benefited from the spending. • Debt incurred for personal use after separation is likely to be assigned to the person who spent the money. • A divorce decree does not change your contract with a creditor. • The bank can legally pursue either party for payment on a joint account, even if a judge assigned the debt to your ex. Download Divorce & Custody Survival Guide. Click here: Schedule Your Complimentary Phone Consultation: For more information: For additional information, watch these videos: Am I Responsible For Debt My Ex Took Out In Their Name Only - How Do Joint Accounts Work When Unmarried and Separated - Visit us at #Goldmanandassociateslawfirm #ChooseGoldman #ChooseGoldmanLaw #DivorcePodcast #LegalPodcast #FamilyLaw #FinancialAdvice #MichiganLaw #DivorceDebt
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S8 Ep93: Do Domestic Violence Allegations Affect Custody?
10/14/2025
S8 Ep93: Do Domestic Violence Allegations Affect Custody?
#ChooseGoldman Discover the serious impact domestic violence allegations can have on your child custody case. Even without a conviction, a court's focus on child safety can drastically change custody and parenting time arrangements. • Domestic violence allegations can affect custody, even without a criminal conviction. • The court’s primary concern is always the safety and well-being of the children. • Allegations can impact both the final custody arrangement and the amount of parenting time. • It is crucial to document everything, including witness accounts and video evidence, if you are accused. • A protective order, while meant to keep parties apart, can also influence a judge's custody decisions. Download Divorce & Custody Survival Guide. Click here: Schedule Your Complimentary Phone Consultation: For more information: For additional information, watch these videos: Will A Domestic Violence Charge Impact The Custody Of My Children - How Does a Domestic Violence Charge Affect a Child Custody Case? - Visit us at #Goldmanandassociateslawfirm #ChooseGoldman #ChooseGoldmanLaw #MichiganChildCustody #FamilyLawMichigan #CustodyBattle #DomesticViolenceAwareness #MichiganLawyer #ParentingTime #ChildSafety
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S8 Ep92: Biggest Mistakes Parents Make in Divorce Court
10/13/2025
S8 Ep92: Biggest Mistakes Parents Make in Divorce Court
#ChooseGoldman In a divorce, your behavior can be your best asset or your worst enemy. Discover the critical mistakes parents often make in court and how to avoid them to protect your custody case. • Never badmouth the other parent, especially in front of your children. • Control your emotions; angry outbursts can make you look unstable to the judge. • Always put your child's best interests before any desire for personal revenge. • Remember you are always being observed in the courthouse, even during breaks. • Your overall conduct, tone, and actions are all scrutinized by the court. Download Divorce & Custody Survival Guide. Click here: Schedule Your Complimentary Phone Consultation: For more information: For additional information, watch these videos: 3 Reasons Parents Lose Custody Of Their Kids - What To Know About Divorce With Minor Children - Visit us at #Goldmanandassociateslawfirm #ChooseGoldman #ChooseGoldmanLaw #FamilyLaw #DivorcePodcast #Parenting #ChildCustody #LegalAdvice
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S8 Ep91: Can I Change the Child Custody Arrangement if my Child is Unhappy?
10/10/2025
S8 Ep91: Can I Change the Child Custody Arrangement if my Child is Unhappy?
Discover why a judge's ruling is the ultimate authority and why, as a parent, your legal obligation is to follow that order until it is formally changed. We explore the limited weight a child's preference holds in court, the parent's responsibility to enforce the current schedule, and the proper legal steps to take if you believe a modification is necessary for your child's best interests. This episode is essential for any parent navigating the complexities of post-divorce parenting. The limited degree to which a child's preference is taken into account by the court. Why a current custody order is legally binding and must be followed until a judge rules otherwise. What your legal obligation is as a parent when your child resists going to the other parent's home. The proper legal steps to take when seeking to modify a custody arrangement due to a change in circumstances. How tools like mediation can sometimes help resolve the root of the problem without a court battle. Contact us today: (248) 590-6600 Schedule Your Complimentary Phone Consultation: Download our free Divorce & Custody Survival Guide: For more detailed information on changing a custody order in Michigan, visit: You Might Also Find These Topics Helpful:How and When Can I Legally Modify a Child Custody Agreement? - There a Preferred Custody Arrangement In Michigan? - #Goldmanandassociateslawfirm #ChooseGoldman #ChooseGoldmanLaw #MichiganChildCustody #ChildCustodyModification #FamilyLaw #ParentingPlan
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S8 Ep90: What Can I Do About Strange Withdrawals During Separation?
10/09/2025
S8 Ep90: What Can I Do About Strange Withdrawals During Separation?
#ChooseGoldman Discovering strange withdrawals from your bank account during a separation can be alarming. Learn the immediate actions you should take to protect your finances and prevent your joint accounts from being drained. If you notice strange withdrawals, notify your bank about the suspicious activity immediately. Consider moving half of the funds from a joint account into a new, separate account in your name only. Ask the bank to put a freeze on the joint account until the suspicious activity can be investigated. If money is being spent improperly, you should retain a family law attorney sooner rather than later. Actively track your own withdrawals and spending to create a clear record of your financial activities. 📞 (248) 590-6600 Call/Text 📅 For a Complimentary Phone Case Evaluation: Click here to watch the video: For more information: ⬇️ Download Divorce & Custody Survival Guide. Click here: For additional information, watch these videos: 3 Ways To Protect Assets From Divorce - Protecting Your Personal Assets In a Divorce - #Goldmanandassociateslawfirm #ChooseGoldman #ChooseGoldmanLaw #MichiganFamilyLaw #LegalSeparation #AssetProtection #DivorceFinances
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S8 Ep89: How Can I Protect My Privacy During a Divorce?
10/08/2025
S8 Ep89: How Can I Protect My Privacy During a Divorce?
#ChooseGoldman In a divorce, the legal duty of "full disclosure" often clashes with your desire for privacy. This episode explores the practical, self-help measures you can take to protect your sensitive information, digital accounts, and personal documents. • Your privacy is limited by the legal requirement of full disclosure, meaning you must share all assets and relevant information. • The most effective way to protect yourself is through self-help measures like securing your digital communications. • Immediately change passwords on all important accounts, including email, social media, and banking. • Keep sensitive physical documents protected in a secure location that only you can access. • While confidentiality agreements are an option, they may not be practical as they require consent from the other party. 📞 (248) 590-6600 Call/Text 📅 For a Complimentary Phone Case Evaluation: Click here to watch the video: For more information: ⬇️ Download Divorce & Custody Survival Guide. Click here: For additional information, watch these videos: What Are My Rights & Options During A Divorce - What If My Ex Shows Up at My House Uninvited?- Visit us at #Goldmanandassociateslawfirm #ChooseGoldman #ChooseGoldmanLaw #DivorcePrivacy #FamilyLaw #LegalPodcast #MichiganLawyer #DivorceTips
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