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S9 Ep66: What Happens If One Parent Won’t Communicate About the Child
01/27/2026
S9 Ep66: What Happens If One Parent Won’t Communicate About the Child
#ChooseGoldman Attorney Akiva Goldman explains that Michigan courts will intervene with specific communication tools or legal sanctions if a parent refuses to cooperate. When one party remains unreachable or acts in an unproductive way, the court can adjust custody and parenting time to ensure the child's stability is protected. • Michigan courts prioritize the child's needs and require parents to communicate effectively for the sake of the child. • The court can mandate the use of non-inflammatory communication platforms, such as specialized apps, to ensure all interactions are tracked and peaceful. • Failure to answer calls or follow communication orders can lead to sanctions, such as being ordered to pay the other parent's attorney fees. • Persistent lack of cooperation regarding scheduling or activities can result in significant changes to child custody and parenting time. • When a parent stays unreachable or acts obstructively, the court has the power to grant makeup parenting time to the other parent. Download Divorce & Custody Survival Guide. Click here: Schedule Your Complimentary Phone Consultation: 📞 (248) 590-6600 Call/Text Click here to watch the video: For more information: Learn more in our blog: Visit us at #Goldmanandassociateslawfirm #ChooseGoldman #ChooseGoldmanLaw #MichiganChildCustody #ParentingTime #CoParenting #MichiganFamilyLaw #LegalAdvice #CustodyRights
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S9 Ep65: Child Custody Attorneys in Michigan
01/26/2026
S9 Ep65: Child Custody Attorneys in Michigan
#ChooseGoldman Attorney Akiva Goldman explains that Michigan custody cases should focus on the promotion of a stable environment and the best interests of the child rather than parent conflict. Navigating these legal challenges requires careful planning and a strategic approach to ensure the child’s long-term health, safety, and welfare. • Custody is not about winning a battle against an ex-spouse; it is strictly centered on what serves the child's best interests. • The promotion of stability is the most critical factor in ensuring a child’s health and emotional well-being. • A successful case requires an experienced family law attorney who understands how to try a case for custody with precision. • Strategic planning is essential to protect the child’s future and secure a safe, healthy environment. • Maintaining a professional and focused agenda in court is the key to achieving a positive legal outcome. 📞 (248) 590-6600 Call/Text 📅 For a Complimentary Phone Case Evaluation: Click here to watch the video: For more information: ⬇️ Download Divorce & Custody Survival Guide. Click here: Learn more in our blog: Visit us at #Goldmanandassociateslawfirm #ChooseGoldman #ChooseGoldmanLaw #MichiganChildCustody #CustodyLawyerMI #MichiganFamilyLaw #ChildStability #ParentingTimeMI
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S9 Ep64: Is Everything Really Split 50/50 in a Divorce?
01/23/2026
S9 Ep64: Is Everything Really Split 50/50 in a Divorce?
#ChooseGoldman Many people assume marital assets are always divided exactly down the middle, but Michigan law focuses on achieving a fair and equitable result based on the unique facts of your marriage. Attorney Akiva Goldman explains that while 50/50 is often the starting point, the court has the discretion to adjust percentages to ensure true fairness for both parties. • Equity Does Not Mean Equality: Michigan law prioritizes a fair distribution (equity) over a strictly equal split, which may result in an unequal percentage if the circumstances justify it. • Defining the Marital Estate: Only assets considered part of the marital estate are typically divided, while premarital property may be protected and kept separate. • Valuation Controversies: Determining the fair market value of major assets, like the family home, is a critical step that must be resolved before any division can occur. • Length of Marriage Factors: While long-term marriages often see equal splits, short-term marriages are analyzed based on the specific accumulation of wealth during that brief period. • Fact-Driven Outcomes: There is no "cookie-cutter" approach in Michigan; the specific history, contributions, and facts of your marriage drive the final legal analysis. 📞 (248) 590-6600 Call/Text 📅 For a Complimentary Phone Case Evaluation: Click here to watch the video: For more information: ⬇️ Download Divorce & Custody Survival Guide. Click here: Learn more in our blog: Visit us at #Goldmanandassociateslawfirm #ChooseGoldman #ChooseGoldmanLaw #MichiganDivorce #PropertyDivision #AssetSplit #LegalAdvice #FamilyLaw #MichiganAttorney #EquitableDistribution
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S9 Ep63: Can My Ex Spy On My Texts and Use It In Court?
01/22/2026
S9 Ep63: Can My Ex Spy On My Texts and Use It In Court?
#ChooseGoldman This episode discusses the legal complexities of digital privacy and whether an ex-spouse can admit intercepted texts or emails as evidence in court. Attorney Akiva Goldman explains how Michigan law evaluates the legality of accessed messages based on the reasonable expectation of privacy. • Generally, there is no legal right to spy on an ex, and evidence obtained through stolen passwords or hacking is often excluded. • Shared accounts and joint passwords significantly diminish your expectation of privacy in the eyes of the court. • If an account is considered joint, a judge is more likely to allow the messages to be used as evidence. • You should operate under the assumption that a judge may eventually see any electronic communications sent during a legal dispute. • To protect your position, it is vital to secure your personal accounts and be mindful of what you communicate in writing. 📞 (248) 590-6600 Call/Text ⬇️ Download Divorce & Custody Survival Guide. Click here: 📅 For a Complimentary Phone Case Evaluation: Click here to watch the video: For more information: Learn more in our blog: Visit us at #Goldmanandassociateslawfirm #ChooseGoldman #ChooseGoldmanLaw #MichiganDivorce #DigitalPrivacy #LegalEvidence #FamilyLawMichigan #ContestedDivorce #LegalAdvice #MichiganAttorney
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S9 Ep62: What is the Biggest Mistake People Make Before Filing
01/22/2026
S9 Ep62: What is the Biggest Mistake People Make Before Filing
#ChooseGoldman Filing for custody or divorce requires a strategic and calm approach to avoid common pitfalls that can damage your standing in court. Attorney Akiva Goldman highlights how emotional outbursts, digital over-sharing, and ignoring legal counsel can negatively impact the court’s perception of your judgment. • Acting emotionally or having outbursts can lead to recordings that suggest a lack of sound judgment and reasonableness to the court. • Over-sharing in texts and emails is risky because messages can be taken out of context and used as evidence against you. • Social media activity, including threats or photos showing questionable behavior, can haunt your legal proceedings for a long time. • Ignoring the legal strategy set by your attorney is a critical mistake, as personal instincts often do not align with what works in a courtroom. • Bringing in biased witnesses, like close relatives, may be less effective than following a strategy focused on relevant and objective evidence. Download Divorce & Custody Survival Guide. Click here: Schedule Your Complimentary Phone Consultation: 📞 (248) 590-6600 Call/Text Click here to watch the video: For more information: Learn more in our blog: Visit us at #Goldmanandassociateslawfirm #ChooseGoldman #ChooseGoldmanLaw #MichiganDivorce #ChildCustody #LegalStrategy #MichiganLawyer #DivorceMistakes #FamilyLawMI
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S9 Ep61: Does an Unpredictable Work Schedule Hurt Custody
01/20/2026
S9 Ep61: Does an Unpredictable Work Schedule Hurt Custody
#ChooseGoldman An unpredictable work schedule does not mean you will lose custody of your child. Attorney Akiva Goldman explains that Michigan courts value a stable environment and a reliable childcare plan over a parent simply being home all day. • Courts value stability over availability, favoring parents who establish reliable and safe care routines. • Demanding careers in fields like medicine or law are respected as long as a dependable support system is in place. • Having trusted backup options, such as family members or professional daycare, is key to proving you can meet your child's needs. • The court assesses whether the child is in a safe, wholesome environment regardless of the parent's specific shift hours. • A well-documented childcare plan can alleviate the court's concerns regarding a parent’s unpredictable work schedule. Download Divorce & Custody Survival Guide. Click here: Schedule Your Complimentary Phone Consultation: 📞 (248) 590-6600 Call/Text Click here to watch the video: For more information: Learn more in our blog: Visit us at #Goldmanandassociateslawfirm #ChooseGoldman #ChooseGoldmanLaw #MichiganChildCustody #CustodyAttorney #FamilyLawMichigan #WorkLifeBalance #ParentingTime
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S9 Ep60: What Should You Get In Order Before Filing For Custody?
01/19/2026
S9 Ep60: What Should You Get In Order Before Filing For Custody?
#ChooseGoldman Filing for custody opens your life to intense court scrutiny, making it essential to have your personal affairs in order before petitioning. Being prepared with a stable environment and documented involvement is critical to proving that granting you custody is in the child's best interest. •Establish a Consistent Caregiving Routine: Show the court that the child has been with you consistently so that continuing the current arrangement makes legal sense. • Secure Stable Housing: Ensure you have a permanent and safe place to live before filing, as the court needs to know exactly where the child will be residing. •Document Your Parent Involvement: Keep records of your participation in the child’s schooling, medical appointments, and extracurricular activities to prove you are the primary caregiver. • Maintain Child-Focused Communication: Provide proof that your interactions regarding the child are centered on their needs and well-being. • Avoid the "Johnny-Lately" Perception: Ensure your request for custody is backed by long-term involvement rather than appearing as a sudden reaction to the other parent's petition. Download Divorce & Custody Survival Guide. Click here: Schedule Your Complimentary Phone Consultation: 📞 (248) 590-6600 Call/Text Click here to watch the video: For more information: For additional information, watch these videos: What Documentation Do I Need to Collect Before Filing For Divorce & Custody Case - Do This First Before You Start Your Custody Case - Visit us at #Goldmanandassociateslawfirm #ChooseGoldman #ChooseGoldmanLaw #MichiganChildCustody #ChildCustodyLawyerMI #MichiganFamilyLaw #CustodyAttorneyMichigan #ParentingTimeMI #LegalAdviceMI
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S9 Ep59: What Happens if My Ex Ignores Divorce Filing?
01/16/2026
S9 Ep59: What Happens if My Ex Ignores Divorce Filing?
#ChooseGoldman If your ex chooses to ignore a divorce filing, the legal process does not stop; the court will move forward according to its own strict timeline. You can still obtain a final judgment and the relief you are entitled to through a default process even without their participation. * The court does not require the other person's cooperation to move the case forward and will not wait for them to act. * After being served properly, a spouse typically has a 21-day limit to file an answer before the court considers a default. * If the ex-spouse fails to respond, the court can enter a judgment by default, granting the filing party the requested relief. * Ignoring the case can lead to serious legal consequences for the other party, such as the sudden freezing of bank accounts through temporary orders. * It is wise for the other party to participate to have a say, but the court ensures the case reaches a conclusion regardless. Download Divorce & Custody Survival Guide. Click here: Schedule Your Complimentary Phone Consultation: 📞 (248) 590-6600 Call/Text Click here to watch the video: For more information: For additional information, watch these videos: What To Do If Ex Ignores Divorce Papers - What Happens if My Ex Doesn't Respond to the Divorce Complaint? - Visit us at #Goldmanandassociateslawfirm #ChooseGoldman #ChooseGoldmanLaw #MichiganDivorce #DefaultJudgment #LegalAdvice #DivorceProcess #MichiganLaw #FamilyLaw #DivorceHelp
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S9 Ep58: Who Gets the Vacation Home If Bought During Marriage?
01/15/2026
S9 Ep58: Who Gets the Vacation Home If Bought During Marriage?
#ChooseGoldman When a vacation home is acquired during a marriage, the court considers it a marital asset that must be divided equitably. This process involves valuing the property, assessing how it was used by both spouses, and understanding the significant tax implications involved in a potential sale. • Marital Asset Status: A vacation home bought during the marriage is treated similarly to the primary marital home and is subject to the court's division. • Equitable Distribution: The court may award the home and its equity to one spouse in exchange for an equivalent cash payout or other assets to the other spouse. • Usage Considerations: Judges evaluate whether the property was a shared family space enjoyed by both parties or a private getaway primarily used by only one person. • Potential for Forced Sale: If an agreement cannot be reached or assets cannot be balanced, the court has the authority to order the home to be sold and the proceeds divided. • Tax Implications: Selling a non-primary residence can trigger complex tax consequences, including capital gains taxes and the recapture of depreciation. Download Divorce & Custody Survival Guide. Click here: Schedule Your Complimentary Phone Consultation: 📞 (248) 590-6600 Call/Text Click here to watch the video: For more information: For additional information, watch these videos: Splitting The Marital Home In A Divorce - Can I Get Half of My Ex's House Bought Before Marriage If I Helped With the Deposit - Visit us at #Goldmanandassociateslawfirm #ChooseGoldman #ChooseGoldmanLaw #MichiganDivorce #PropertyDivision #VacationHome #MaritalAssets #MichiganLawyer #AssetDivision #FamilyLaw
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S9 Ep57: What If Your Ex Moves Money Before Divorce?
01/14/2026
S9 Ep57: What If Your Ex Moves Money Before Divorce?
#ChooseGoldman When a spouse transfers funds to family members to hide assets before a divorce, the court has legal mechanisms to reverse these improper transactions. This guide explains how to document these transfers and use the law to freeze accounts and protect your financial interests. • Courts can set aside and reverse fraudulent transfers made to family members if they are proven to be improper. • Documenting every transaction carefully is essential for providing the evidence a judge needs to act. • A judge can order a temporary freeze on marital accounts to ensure no assets are touched while the case is pending. • Titled assets and bank transfers leave a clear paper trail, making them significantly easier to recover than cash. • Hidden cash presents the greatest challenge in divorce because it lacks a trail, making it difficult to prove its existence. Download Divorce & Custody Survival Guide. Click here: Schedule Your Complimentary Phone Consultation: For more information: For additional information, watch these videos: How Can I Protect My Finances Before Divorce - What if My Spouse Moves Money Into a Trust Before Divorce? - Visit us at #Goldmanandassociateslawfirm #ChooseGoldman #ChooseGoldmanLaw #MichiganDivorce #AssetProtection #HiddenAssets #FamilyLaw #DivorceAttorney #LegalAdvice #MichiganLawyer
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S9 Ep56: Can a Judge Make You Split Your Ex’s Business?
01/13/2026
S9 Ep56: Can a Judge Make You Split Your Ex’s Business?
#ChooseGoldman In a divorce, a judge has the legal power to order the division of a business if marital assets or funds were used to support its growth. While you can leave the decision to the court, reaching a settlement with the help of your attorney allows you to maintain control over your financial destiny. • The court can legally order a business to be split, shared, or bought out if it is determined to be a marital asset. • Judges typically require a professional valuation to understand the true value of a business before making a ruling. • Parties have the freedom to settle their case privately at any point during the months that a case pends. • Choosing a trial puts the decision in the hands of the court, which often results in outcomes that satisfy neither party. • Existing legal documents, such as prenuptial agreements, can significantly influence how a business is handled by the court. Download Divorce & Custody Survival Guide. Click here: Schedule Your Complimentary Phone Consultation: 📞 (248) 590-6600 Call/Text Click here to watch the video: For more information: For additional information, watch these videos: How To Divide a Family Business in Divorce - What Should Business Owners Know About Divorce? - Visit us at #Goldmanandassociateslawfirm #ChooseGoldman #ChooseGoldmanLaw #MichiganDivorce #BusinessDivision #AssetDivision #PropertyDivision #LegalAdvice #MaritalProperty #DivorceAttorney
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S9 Ep55: What If My Ex Consistently Lies During Divorce & Custody Case?
01/12/2026
S9 Ep55: What If My Ex Consistently Lies During Divorce & Custody Case?
#ChooseGoldman Many people fear that their ex-spouse's lies will ruin their case, but the legal system is designed to handle slanted testimony. By focusing on your own consistency and providing objective evidence, you can ensure that the court sees through false claims. • Judges expect parties to slant the truth and are professionally trained to identify credibility issues. • Do not focus on what your ex is doing; instead, concentrate on building your own solid case. • Keeping detailed records and gathering witnesses ensures your case does not rely solely on your word. • When physical evidence or witnesses contradict a lie, the court will discount the false testimony. • Consistency in your own story is the most powerful tool for strengthening your credibility with the judge. Download Divorce & Custody Survival Guide. Click here: Schedule Your Complimentary Phone Consultation: 📞 (248) 590-6600 Call/Text Click here to watch the video: For more information: For additional information, watch these videos: How to Deal with an Ex-Spouse Who Is Lying in Court - What If My Ex Lies on Court Filings? - Visit us at #Goldmanandassociateslawfirm #ChooseGoldman #ChooseGoldmanLaw #MichiganDivorce #ChildCustody #LegalAdvice #CourtroomTruth #MichiganLawyer
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S9 Ep54: Can a Business Be Split Even if Only One Spouse Built It?
01/09/2026
S9 Ep54: Can a Business Be Split Even if Only One Spouse Built It?
#ChooseGoldman If a business was acquired or grown during a marriage, it is typically considered a marital asset subject to distribution, regardless of whether only one spouse built it. Courts rely on professional valuations to determine the business's true worth and profitability before making a final property award. • Businesses built or acquired during the marriage are generally treated as marital property and are subject to division. • Even if one spouse managed the business alone, marital contributions from both parties are considered by the court. • Prenuptial or postnuptial agreements may provide legal protections or specific guidelines for business distribution. • Professional valuation by financial experts is essential to analyze revenue, allowable costs, and actual profit margins. • The degree to which a business is split depends on specific details flushed out during the property award process. Download Divorce & Custody Survival Guide. Click here: Schedule Your Complimentary Phone Consultation: For more information: h For additional information, watch these videos: What Happens To a Business In a Divorce? - What Should Business Owners Know About Divorce? - Visit us at #Goldmanandassociateslawfirm #ChooseGoldman #ChooseGoldmanLaw #MichiganDivorce #BusinessValuation #MaritalAssets #PropertyDivision #AssetDistribution #SmallBusiness #MichiganLawyer
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S9 Ep53: How Do I Combat My Ex If Trying To Make Me Look Crazy?
01/08/2026
S9 Ep53: How Do I Combat My Ex If Trying To Make Me Look Crazy?
#ChooseGoldman If your ex is attempting to portray you as unstable, the court relies on tangible evidence to find the truth. By remaining calm and documenting your interactions, you can ensure that false claims are dismissed in favor of documented facts. • Courts prioritize evidence that can be seen, heard, or read, making it extremely difficult to prove a lie. • It is much harder for an ex to produce proof for a false claim than it is for you to prove the truth. • Maintaining a calm and composed demeanor shows the court that you are reacting normally to the stress of a divorce. • Public arguments should be avoided at all costs, as they can negatively impact how the court views your judgment and discretion. • In the modern age, public outbursts are likely to be recorded and posted online, making judicious conduct more important than ever. Download Divorce & Custody Survival Guide. Click here: Schedule Your Complimentary Phone Consultation: 📞 (248) 590-6600 Call/Text Click here to watch the video: For more information: For additional information, watch these videos: How Courts Handle Parents Who Bad-Mouth Each Other to the Kids - What Is The biggest Mistake In a Custody Battle? - Visit us at #Goldmanandassociateslawfirm #ChooseGoldman #ChooseGoldmanLaw #MichiganDivorce #FamilyLaw #CourtEvidence #LegalTips #StayCalm #DivorceAdvice #MichiganLawyer
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S9 Ep52: Does Posting New Partners Hurt Custody?
01/07/2026
S9 Ep52: Does Posting New Partners Hurt Custody?
#ChooseGoldman Posting about a new partner on social media can negatively affect your custody case if the court determines it impacts the child's stability or well-being. Judges prioritize the best interests of the child and may view a lack of discretion online as a sign of poor parental judgment. • Courts prioritize the child's emotional stability and well-being over a parent's freedom of expression. • Information shared on public profiles often reaches children through school friends, causing potential emotional distress. • A lack of discretion regarding new relationships online can be held against a parent as evidence of poor judgment. • The court evaluates how your public actions and online presence reflect your overall parental skills and stability. • Parents should focus on the impact their posts have on their child's environment and adjust their behavior accordingly. 📞 (248) 590-6600 Call/Text 📅 For a Complimentary Phone Case Evaluation: Click here to watch the video: For more information: ⬇️ Download Divorce & Custody Survival Guide. Click here: For additional information, watch these videos: Can a New Partner Affect Custody Arrangements? - What Are the Effects Of a New Relationship On Child Custody - Visit us at #Goldmanandassociateslawfirm #ChooseGoldman #ChooseGoldmanLaw #MichiganCustody #SocialMediaAndLaw #ChildStability #ParentingAdvice #FamilyLawMI #CustodyBattle #LegalAdvice
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S9 Ep51: When Is Travel Considered Kidnapping?
01/06/2026
S9 Ep51: When Is Travel Considered Kidnapping?
#ChooseGoldman Traveling with your child without proper communication or consent can lead to charges of parental kidnapping and unnecessary police involvement. It is essential to understand the legal boundaries regarding moving or traveling out of state to protect your parental rights and the child's safety. • Moving out of state without the consent of the other parent or court approval can be considered a violation of the law. • International travel is a high-priority concern for courts and may require specific Hague Convention approvals. • Even for short trips, providing the other parent with notice and emergency location information is vital to avoid conflict. • Documenting all travel plans and any objections from the other side helps establish a clear record for the court. • Maintaining open communication about travel is a courtesy that prevents legal escalations and ensures both parents stay informed. 📞 (248) 590-6600 Call/Text 📅 For a Complimentary Phone Case Evaluation: Click here to watch the video: For more information: Download Divorce & Custody Survival Guide. Click here: For more information: For additional information, watch these videos: What You Need To Know About Parental Kidnapping - What is considered parental kidnapping - Visit us at #Goldmanandassociateslawfirm #ChooseGoldman #ChooseGoldmanLaw #MichiganChildCustody #ParentalKidnapping #MichiganFamilyLaw #CustodyLawyer #ParentingTime #LegalAdviceMI #MichiganLawyer
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S9 Ep50: What Do I Do When My Child Doesn't Want To See My Ex?
01/05/2026
S9 Ep50: What Do I Do When My Child Doesn't Want To See My Ex?
#ChooseGoldman When a child refuses to see an ex-partner, the court evaluates the situation based on the child's age and the specific reasons for their reluctance. Understanding how judges distinguish between minor social preferences and serious safety concerns is vital for navigating these difficult custody challenges. • Courts treat visitation for younger children as a mandatory requirement similar to school attendance, where the child does not have the final choice. • For older teenagers, judges recognize that forced visitation is often impractical and ineffective, potentially making the situation worse. • The specific reason for refusal is critical, as judges differentiate between simple social inconveniences and serious issues like abuse. • Counseling may be ordered by the court to help rebuild bridges and mend the relationship between the parent and child when the bond is broken. • Maintaining a detailed record of all visitation efforts is essential for parents to provide the court with clear evidence of their commitment to co-parenting. Download Divorce & Custody Survival Guide. Click here: Schedule Your Complimentary Phone Consultation: For more information: For additional information, watch these videos: My Child Doesn't Want To Stay With My Ex - What Happens If My Kid Says They Don’t Want to See My Ex? - Visit us at #Goldmanandassociateslawfirm #ChooseGoldman #ChooseGoldmanLaw #MichiganChildCustody #ParentingTime #ChildVisitation #FamilyLawMI #CoParenting #CustodyRights #LegalAdviceMI
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S9 Ep49: What Happens to Assets During Legal Separation?
01/02/2026
S9 Ep49: What Happens to Assets During Legal Separation?
#ChooseGoldman Living apart does not automatically stop the accumulation of marital property, as assets and debts may continue to be shared while you are legally married. The court uses its discretion and accurate records to determine a fair and equitable division of property based on the specific circumstances of the separation. • Marital assets continue to accumulate as long as you remain legally wedded, even if you are living in separate residences. • The court has the authority to define the specific cutoff date for asset sharing, which may or may not be the date of separation. • Living in separate parts of the same house can blur the lines of separation, potentially leading the court to view all new assets as marital. • Financial freedom is not guaranteed during a legal separation, as the court may still hold both parties responsible for shared debts. • Keeping a full inventory and accurate financial records is essential for the court to make a proper and fair assessment of all property. Download Divorce & Custody Survival Guide. Click here: Schedule Your Complimentary Phone Consultation: 📞 (248) 590-6600 Call/Text Click here to watch the video: For more information: For additional information, watch these videos: How to Handle Asset Dissipation During Separation Before Divorce - Should I Disclose Post-Separation Assets - Visit us at #Goldmanandassociateslawfirm #ChooseGoldman #ChooseGoldmanLaw #LegalSeparation #PropertyDivision #MaritalAssets #MichiganLaw #AssetProtection #DivorceAttorney #FamilyLawMI
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S9 Ep48: Serving a Spouse Who Lives in Another Country
01/02/2026
S9 Ep48: Serving a Spouse Who Lives in Another Country
#ChooseGoldman Serving legal papers to a spouse living in a foreign country is a complex process that must follow specific international rules and treaties. Even in remote areas, there is always a legal pathway to ensure your divorce case moves forward properly. • International service is often governed by the Hague Convention and specific treaties to ensure delivery is legally provable. • Special forms are frequently required to effectuate service in certain countries, making it more detailed than domestic cases. • While personal service is the court's priority, reaching someone in a remote village can take several months. • International carriers like DHL are often used because they provide signatures as proof that documents were successfully handed to the recipient. • If traditional service fails, you can work with your lawyer to request alternative methods of service from the court, such as publication. Download Divorce & Custody Survival Guide. Click here: Schedule Your Complimentary Phone Consultation: For more information: For additional information, watch these videos: Can You Get Divorced if Your Spouse Lives in Another Country? - How Can I Serve Divorce Papers Out of State - Visit us at #Goldmanandassociateslawfirm #ChooseGoldman #ChooseGoldmanLaw #InternationalDivorce #ServingPapers #HagueConvention #MichiganAttorney #FamilyLaw #LegalAdvice #OutofStateDivorce
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S9 Ep47: Can I Prevent My Ex From Dragging the Case Out of Spite?
01/02/2026
S9 Ep47: Can I Prevent My Ex From Dragging the Case Out of Spite?
#ChooseGoldman Divorce and custody cases can become costly and time-consuming when one party intentionally delays the process. This episode outlines strategic steps to enforce court deadlines and maintain personal efficiency to keep your case moving toward a resolution. • Legal costs are directly tied to the time spent on a case because attorneys charge by the hour. • You can request firm court deadlines and refuse to grant extensions to prevent an ex from dragging out the case out of spite. • Filing for temporary orders and expedited matters allows you to set the case in motion faster than the court’s standard schedule. • Being prompt with your own discovery and paperwork prevents the other side from blaming you for delays. • If the other side misses deadlines on purpose, you can push for sanctions and request that they pay your attorney fees. 📞 (248) 590-6600 Call/Text 📅 For a Complimentary Phone Case Evaluation: Click here to watch the video: For more information: ⬇️ Download Divorce & Custody Survival Guide. Click here: For additional information, watch these videos: How to Handle an Ex Dragging Out the Divorce Process - Can I Avoid My Ex Dragging Out the Divorce Process - Visit us at #Goldmanandassociateslawfirm #ChooseGoldman #ChooseGoldmanLaw #MichiganDivorce #ContestedDivorce #LegalFees #DivorceAdvice #FamilyLaw #CustodyBattle #MichiganLawyer
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S9 Ep46: Can You Use a Private Investigator Without Telling Your Lawyer
12/30/2025
S9 Ep46: Can You Use a Private Investigator Without Telling Your Lawyer
#ChooseGoldman Hiring a private investigator without your lawyer's knowledge can lead to serious legal risks and the collection of inadmissible evidence. It is vital to coordinate all investigative efforts with your attorney to protect your strategy and avoid breaking privacy laws. • Disclosure is essential because your lawyer needs to understand all actions being taken behind the scenes to protect your legal interests. • Evidence gathered by an investigator may be ruled inadmissible in court if your attorney is not involved in guiding the process correctly. • Secretly monitoring an ex-spouse can lead to violations of privacy laws, which may result in negative legal consequences for you. • Undisclosed investigative work can destroy trust between legal teams and cause settlement negotiations to collapse once discovered. • Coordinating with your attorney allows for the efficient management of all outside professionals, ensuring your financial resources are not wasted. Download Divorce & Custody Survival Guide. Click here: Schedule Your Complimentary Phone Consultation: 📞 (248) 590-6600 Call/Text Click here to watch the video: For more information: For additional information, watch these videos: Should I Use a P.I During My Divorce? - 3 Things Not To Do During a Divorce - Visit us at #Goldmanandassociateslawfirm #ChooseGoldman #ChooseGoldmanLaw #MichiganDivorce #PrivateInvestigator #LegalAdvice #FamilyLawMI #DivorceAttorney #MichiganLawyer #DivorceStrategy
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S9 Ep45: How to Make Divorce More Affordable
12/29/2025
S9 Ep45: How to Make Divorce More Affordable
#ChooseGoldman Filing for divorce first allows you to control the narrative and set the tone for the entire legal case. This proactive strategy helps you protect your children and assets by requesting specific court orders immediately rather than simply reacting to the other party's moves. • Filing first gives you the advantage of telling your story to the judge affirmatively before the other side responds. • You gain the immediate opportunity to seek protective orders to safeguard assets and ensure stability for your children. • Being an "actor" rather than a "reactor" allows for better legal planning and a stronger perception in court. • Taking the lead is essential when household stability or financial security is at risk. • While timing doesn't change the case's length, it defines whether you are in control of the requests presented to the court. Download Divorce & Custody Survival Guide. Click here: Schedule Your Complimentary Phone Consultation: 📞 (248) 590-6600 Call/Text Click here to watch the video: For more information: For additional information, watch these videos: What Is The Cheapest Way To Get a Divorce In Michigan? - Ways To Save Money On Your Divorce - Visit us at #Goldmanandassociateslawfirm #ChooseGoldman #ChooseGoldmanLaw #MichiganDivorce #AffordableDivorce #DivorceTips #FamilyLaw #LegalStrategy #MichiganAttorney #DivorceProcess
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S9 Ep44: How Courts Handle Parents Who Bad-Mouth Each Other to the Kids
12/26/2025
S9 Ep44: How Courts Handle Parents Who Bad-Mouth Each Other to the Kids
#ChooseGoldman This episode explores how the court handles parents who bad-mouth each other and provides strategies for managing a high-conflict or narcissistic ex. Learn why shifting to written communication and setting firm boundaries are essential steps to protect your case and your children. • Stay off emotional battlegrounds and avoid reacting to inflammatory behavior to prevent the other party from controlling the situation. • Move all communication to writing to document the other parent’s tone and ensure all interactions are transparent to the court. • Document consistent patterns of behavior in a business-like manner rather than focusing on individual feelings or insults. • Set clear boundaries by ending any conversation immediately once the other parent becomes disrespectful or aggressive. • Allow documented evidence and facts to influence the outcome of your case rather than emotional reactions or hearsay. Download Divorce & Custody Survival Guide. Click here: Schedule Your Complimentary Phone Consultation: 📞 (248) 590-6600 Call/Text Click here to watch the video: For more information: For additional information, watch these videos: How Do You Co-Parent When You Can’t Stand Your Ex? - Are You Making These 3 Child Custody Mistakes - Visit us at #Goldmanandassociateslawfirm #ChooseGoldman #ChooseGoldmanLaw #MichiganDivorce #ChildCustody #CoParenting #MichiganLawyer #NarcissisticEx #FamilyLaw #LegalAdvice
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S9 Ep43: Can Text Messages Make or Break Your Case
12/25/2025
S9 Ep43: Can Text Messages Make or Break Your Case
#ChooseGoldman Many people believe that brief, informal text messages carry little weight in court, but these digital records often serve as unfiltered evidence that can significantly impact the outcome of a legal case. • Text messages provide the court with a window into your authentic, unfiltered behavior, which contrasts with the "staged" persona often presented during formal witness testimony. • The tone of your communication is frequently more significant than the length of the message, as it reveals how you act when you believe you are away from public scrutiny. • To protect your legal interests, you should avoid engaging in long emotional arguments, issuing threats, or sending harassing messages through text. • You should never put anything in writing or in a text message that you would not want used against you in a legal proceeding. • To maintain a strong case, you should operate under the assumption that every text you send will eventually be enlarged on a poster board and displayed before the court. Download Divorce & Custody Survival Guide. Click here: Schedule Your Complimentary Phone Consultation: 📞 (248) 590-6600 Call/Text 📅 For a Complimentary Phone Case Evaluation: Click here to watch the video: For more information: For additional information, watch these videos: How Do I Prove To a Judge That My Ex Is a Manipulative Liar? - Can I Bring Evidence to Mediation? - Visit us at #Goldmanandassociateslawfirm #ChooseGoldman #ChooseGoldmanLaw #LegalEvidence #MichiganLawyer #FamilyLaw #CourtroomTips #DivorceAdvice #LitigationStrategy
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S9 Ep42: How to Fight Against a Narcissistic Ex
12/24/2025
S9 Ep42: How to Fight Against a Narcissistic Ex
#ChooseGoldman Dealing with a narcissistic ex during divorce requires a strategic shift from emotional reactions to objective documentation and firm boundaries. By communicating exclusively in writing and focusing on behavioral patterns, you can present a clear, factual case to the court. • Avoid emotional battlegrounds by refusing to engage in inflammatory behavior or arguments that escalate conflict. • Transition to written communication such as email or text to eliminate verbal abuse and document the ex's tone. • Focus on documenting consistent patterns of behavior in a business-like manner rather than reacting to individual insults. • Establish and enforce strict boundaries by ending conversations immediately if they become disrespectful, profane, or aggressive. • Rely on objective evidence and documentation rather than emotional reactions to influence the legal direction of the case. Download Divorce & Custody Survival Guide. Click here: Schedule Your Complimentary Phone Consultation: For more information: Click here to watch the video: 📞 (248) 590-6600 Call/Text For additional information, watch these videos: How Do You Survive Divorce With a Narcissistic Spouse in Michigan? - How Do I Handle A Narcissist In A Divorce - Visit us at #Goldmanandassociateslawfirm #ChooseGoldman #ChooseGoldmanLaw #Narcissist #DivorceAdvice #MichiganLaw #FamilyLaw #ConflictResolution
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S9 Ep41: How to Protect Your 401(k) in Divorce
12/23/2025
S9 Ep41: How to Protect Your 401(k) in Divorce
#ChooseGoldman Protecting your 401(k) during a divorce involves distinguishing separate pre-marital property from marital assets while navigating complex tax rules. This guide outlines how to use detailed records and legal orders to safeguard your retirement savings from unnecessary penalties. • Identify and document the exact value of your 401(k) as of your wedding date to protect it as separate property. • Secure complete records from your plan administrator to prove which portions were accumulated during the marriage. • Avoid taking any early withdrawals during the divorce process to prevent diminishing account value and incurring tax fines. • Utilize a Qualified Domestic Relations Order (QDRO) to ensure retirement funds are split legally and tax-efficiently. • Consider negotiating offsets with other marital assets, such as the family home, to keep your retirement plan intact. Download Divorce & Custody Survival Guide. Click here: 📞 (248) 590-6600 Call/Text 📅 For a Complimentary Phone Case Evaluation: Click here to watch the video: For more information: For additional information, watch these videos: How to Protect My Retirement Savings During Divorce? - Should I Cash Out My 401(k) Before Filing For Divorce - Visit us at #Goldmanandassociateslawfirm #ChooseGoldman #ChooseGoldmanLaw #MichiganDivorce #RetirementSecurity #401kProtection #QDRO #AssetDivision #LegalAdvice #FamilyLawMichigan
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S9 Ep40: Should I File First or Wait to Be Served
12/22/2025
S9 Ep40: Should I File First or Wait to Be Served
#ChooseGoldman Deciding whether to file for divorce first or wait to be served is a strategic choice that can define the direction of your case. While the legal timeline often remains the same, taking the lead allows you to be an actor who controls the narrative rather than a reactor who simply responds to claims. • Filing first gives you the primary opportunity to set the tone and explain your specific reasons for custody or asset requests to the court. • Initiating the process allows you to immediately ask for protective orders to ensure family stability and protect marital assets. • Being the "actor" demonstrates to the judge that you are taking proactive steps to resolve family problems. • Starting the case first provides time for strategic planning and ensures you are not caught off guard by a surprise filing. • In cases involving children or significant property, filing first is essential for those who want to affirmatively lead the legal discussion. 📞 (248) 590-6600 Call/Text 📅 For a Complimentary Phone Case Evaluation: Click here to watch the video: For more information: ⬇️ Download Divorce & Custody Survival Guide. Click here: For additional information, watch these videos: What To Do If You Are Served With Divorce Papers - Can You Be Divorced Without Knowing It? - Visit us at #Goldmanandassociateslawfirm #ChooseGoldman #ChooseGoldmanLaw #MichiganDivorce #LegalStrategy #FamilyLaw #DivorceFiling #ChildCustody #AssetProtection #MichiganLawyer
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S9 Ep39: Should I Tell My Ex I’m Filing or Just Have Them Served?
12/19/2025
S9 Ep39: Should I Tell My Ex I’m Filing or Just Have Them Served?
#ChooseGoldman Deciding whether to warn your spouse about a divorce filing or serve them unexpectedly depends heavily on your safety and their likely reaction. While being open can sometimes reduce drama, giving advanced notice might backfire and cause unnecessary conflict before the process begins. • There is no "cookie-cutter" answer; giving notice can either de-escalate drama or simply buy you a "week of misery" depending on the person. • Giving advanced notice often leads to harassment, guilt-tripping, or family pressure before the legal process even starts. • You are the expert on your spouse's behavior and are better equipped than your lawyer to predict if they will negotiate peacefully or retaliate. • Always prioritize safety; if there is a risk of violence or extreme emotional abuse, surprise service is usually the safer strategy. • Consulting with an attorney is essential to determine the best strategic approach based on your specific relationship dynamics. 📞 (248) 590-6600 Call/Text 📅 For a Complimentary Phone Case Evaluation: Click here to watch the video: For more information: ⬇️ Download Divorce & Custody Survival Guide. Click here: For additional information, watch these videos: Should I Tell My Spouse I Am Going To File For Divorce - Can I Divorce My Spouse Without Them Knowing - Visit us at #Goldmanandassociateslawfirm #ChooseGoldman #ChooseGoldmanLaw #MichiganDivorce #DivorceStrategy #FamilyLaw #DivorceFiling #SafetyFirst
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S9 Ep38: How Serious Do Courts Consider Social Media Evidence in Divorce & Custody?
12/18/2025
S9 Ep38: How Serious Do Courts Consider Social Media Evidence in Divorce & Custody?
#ChooseGoldman Social media posts are frequently used as serious evidence in divorce and custody cases to demonstrate character and parental fitness. Your online behavior is scrutinized just as closely as your conduct in the courtroom, meaning a single post can significantly impact the outcome of your case. • Social media posts can be admitted as evidence to prove or disprove parental fitness and eligibility for custody. • Screenshots of risky behavior, such as excessive partying or drinking, can be preserved and used against you even if the original post is deleted. • Judges look at online behavior to determine character, asking what kind of example a parent is setting for their children. • Attorneys advise clients to treat their social media presence like a courtroom, maintaining strict decorum and privacy. • The "trial" effectively begins the moment litigation or evidence gathering starts, not just when you appear before a judge. 📞 (248) 590-6600 Call/Text 📅 For a Complimentary Phone Case Evaluation: Click here to watch the video: For more information: ⬇️ Download Divorce & Custody Survival Guide. Click here: For additional information, watch these videos: What Happens During An Initial Consultation With A Divorce Lawyer - What You Can Expect When You Hire A Child Custody Lawyer - Visit us at #Goldmanandassociateslawfirm #ChooseGoldman #ChooseGoldmanLaw #SocialMediaEvidence #DivorceTips #ChildCustody #MichiganFamilyLaw #DivorceMistakes
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S9 Ep37: How Does Social Media Stalking Affect Divorce & Custody?
12/17/2025
S9 Ep37: How Does Social Media Stalking Affect Divorce & Custody?
#ChooseGoldman Engaging in stalking or harassment on social media can destroy your credibility in family court and severely damage your case. Judges view this behavior as controlling and dangerous, often resulting in restricted access to your children to protect the other party. Understanding the legal consequences of digital harassment is crucial to safeguarding your parental rights. • Courts view social media stalking as controlling and harassing behavior rather than simple curiosity. • Opposing attorneys will use evidence of online harassment to undermine your character in court. • Being labeled a stalker significantly hurts your opportunity to gain favorable custody arrangements. • Judges may restrict your access to your child or the other parent if they perceive you as a threat. • Protecting your case requires stopping all harassing behaviors and disengaging from conflict immediately. 📞 (248) 590-6600 Call/Text 📅 For a Complimentary Phone Case Evaluation: Click here to watch the video: For more information: ⬇️ Download Divorce & Custody Survival Guide. Click here: For additional information, watch these videos: How Can Social Media Be Used In Family Law Cases How Can Social Media Influence a Divorce & Custody Case Visit us at #Goldmanandassociateslawfirm #ChooseGoldman #ChooseGoldmanLaw #MichiganDivorce #ChildCustody #FamilyLaw #SocialMediaEvidence #DivorceTips #ParentingRights #MichiganLawyer
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