Are You Being Real? | The Authenticity Podcast
There are 7 billion people, but only 1 of you. Are you being real? With over 200 episodes, fascinating and inspiring guests such as Lewis Howes, Ricki Lake, the Real Jerry Maguire - Leigh Steinberg, and with over 500,000 people having tuned in globally, come join the conversation and help us explore what it means to be authentic in a world that doesn't necessarily want you to be, or make it easy. Hosted by former Showtime Exec turned Tedx Speaker and KindFluencer, Mark Shapiro.
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250 Susie Moore - Confidently Authentic
07/07/2020
250 Susie Moore - Confidently Authentic
Author and columnist, Susie Moore, joins Are You Being Real to talk about confidence, authenticity, and how to carve your own path in a world full of fear and judgement. In this episode, shares how to make the most of these challenging times (in order to find/create your advantage), best practices to overcome people pleasing and the fear of judgement, and a formula to be the most confident person you know. Tune in and see why Susie is bold, authentic, and living and leading on her terms - both in business and in life. Learn more at
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249 Tiffani Bova - Learn, Grow and Lead (through COVID-19)
05/21/2020
249 Tiffani Bova - Learn, Grow and Lead (through COVID-19)
Bestselling author, speaker, and business innovator, Tiffani Bova, joins Are You Being Real to talk about the state of business, consumerism, and the workplace (during the time of COVID-19). In this episode - that dives deep into business, relationship building, and technology, Tiffani gets real about consumer sensitivities, how to foster a positive customer experience, and leadership best practices (including ones being implemented at SalesForce - where she has a leadership role). Tune in and see why Tiffani is an authentic legend in business and in life! To learn more about Tiffani, visit To sign up for the LoveBomb app beta test, visit
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248 Mike Robbins - We're All In This Together
04/21/2020
248 Mike Robbins - We're All In This Together
5x Author and thought-leader, Mike Robbins, returns to the Are You Being Real Podcast to share about his new book, "We're All In This Together." As an expert on the topics of authenticity and team-building, Mike shares tips, stories, and wisdom on how to communicate and connect authentically amidst our differences. Whether you've found it challenging to be authentic at work, or are looking for effective ways to navigate differences of opinion while at home in quarantine, we think you will find this episode impactful and enjoyable. To get Mike Robbins's new book - . To accomplish any goal in six week or less, check out .
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247 Mark Shapiro - Why I went AWOL (+ some good news)
04/16/2020
247 Mark Shapiro - Why I went AWOL (+ some good news)
After a 5 month hiatus, Mark Shapiro shares why he went AWOL some major life updates, and how to maximize your time, energy, and impact while staying safe at home. www.winningweeks.com LoveBomb.app
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246 Max Stossel - Words That Move Us To Greater Authenticity, Influence, & Kindness
11/05/2019
246 Max Stossel - Words That Move Us To Greater Authenticity, Influence, & Kindness
We all want to feel understood. We all want to know we're not alone in our struggles and our journey. While it may be difficult to find someone or something that understands us perfectly, we can all relate to art and words that illustrate the human condition. And when it comes to articulating the human condition and connecting through spoken word, few can match Max Stossel. As an award-winning poet, filmmaker, and advocate for humane technology, Max is a unique voice in the world that's been described as "mind-expanding, profound, emotive, and hilarious all at once." To hear Max's take on why he feels 'everything is a lie', his thoughts on authenticity, influence, technology, and what we can do to make the world a kinder place, check out Episode 246 of People Being Real! Enjoy!! Connect with Mark: Connect with Max: Show Notes: •Why 'everything is a lie' and the lies Max has told himself that have had the biggest impact. •What 'authentic' means to Max. •Moments in his life where he's chosen to ignore his truth. •The importance of 'internal motivation.' •Max's thoughts on influence and kindness. •Lessons he's learned from his tv-famous father. •A spoken-word piece on 'self-doubt.' •Where Max hopes technology will take us in 5-10 years. •How we can make the world a kinder place. Things to check out:• • • •
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245 Houston Kraft - Live Freely, Be Kind, & Shake The Universe
10/29/2019
245 Houston Kraft - Live Freely, Be Kind, & Shake The Universe
"In a world where you can be anything, be kind." -Anonymous We are all more connected than we can possibly imagine. We are constantly influencing and being influenced. The question is: is our influence making the world a better place? When it comes to Houston Kraft, it's a resounding "YES." So when Mark heard about his great work in influence and kindness, he had to have him on the show. Houston is a trainer, speaker, and kindness advocate. He has personally presented and spoken at over 500 schools, conferences, and companies across the US and continues to impact on a larger scale through CharacterStrong, a curriculum he developed with John Norin that helps K-12 school cultures change to empower students in their social and emotional development. When it comes to authenticity, kindness, and influence, there are few that can match Houston's wisdom. To hear his thoughts on why we should be kind instead of nice, how everything we do impacts the universe, and how we can be more effective leaders and influencers, check out Episode 245 of People Being Real! Enjoy!! Connect with Mark: Connect with Houston: Show Notes: •Why giving the same presentation over and over challenged Houston's authenticity. •Why Mark, for the first time in four years, missed publishing an episode a few weeks ago. •Houston's definition of "influence." •The importance of "responsible decision-making." •Houston's views on being nice vs. being kind. •Going against society's definition of success and productivity. •How to be a 'servant leader.' Things to check out:• • • •
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244 Matty Mo - Why Everyone And Everything Can Be Kind & Authentic
10/24/2019
244 Matty Mo - Why Everyone And Everything Can Be Kind & Authentic
What does the future of The Most Famous Artist look like? It's Authentic & Kind. Matt Monahan has made a name for himself and found "success" as The Most Famous Artist (if you search for 'the most famous artist' in Google, he is literally the first result). But as his vision for his future has evolved over time, he's found the need to completely reinvent himself and the messages he's putting out into the world. And while they may not be as flashy, clickbaity, and controversial as some of his past works, the new direction for his work is more sustainable by being rooted in kindness and authenticity. To hear how Matty has evolved since his first appearance on the show (Episode 160) and why he feels authenticity and kindness matter in how we influence others, tune in to Episode 244 of People Being Real! Enjoy!! Connect with Mark: Connect with Matty Mo: Show Notes: •Why journaling has been important to Matty. •Why he is pursuing a 'fresh start' going into 2020. •Matty's search for a partner. •His take on influence, kindness, and authenticity. •What Matty wants to influence moving forward. •What his future projects may look like. Things to check out:• • •
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243 Andrew Sealy - Being Positive, Real, and Kind
10/11/2019
243 Andrew Sealy - Being Positive, Real, and Kind
When it comes to creating impact and being an influence for good in the world, sometimes you just need to take the leap of faith and go all in doing what you love, even if it means leaving behind the security of the familiar. That's what happened to Andrew Sealy. Instead of sticking with a cushy job at a popular software company in Seattle, he chose to follow his happiness and pursue the life of a yogi. Today, he's a movement creator, connection catalyst, and an expert yogi that's impacting with his joy and kindness and spreading his message on his terms. And in Episode 243, Mark and Andrew talk about how he came to discover yoga, what kept him from taking the leap and diving deeper into it, why being present and kind is important to creating positive influence, and Andrew shares some exciting upcoming projects he's working on that you don't want to miss. Enjoy!! Connect with Mark: / Connect with Andrew: Show Notes: •How Mark and Andrew met. (02:42) •A moment when Andrew's authenticity was challenged. (04:53) •The stories that stood in Andrew's way from diving into what brought him joy. (09:22) •The most positive influences in Andrew's life. (13:55) •Why aren't more people 'kindfluencing' today? (18:43) •The importance of being present in whatever you're experiencing. (23:02) •Andrew's upcoming projects. (33:15) •The greatest 'Kindfluencers' that Andrew knows. (35:28) •Andrew's vision for the world. (38:52) Things to check out:• • • •
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242 Mark Shapiro - Finish 2019 Strong: 4th Quarter Pep Talk
10/04/2019
242 Mark Shapiro - Finish 2019 Strong: 4th Quarter Pep Talk
"Don't count the days. Make the days count." -Muhammad Ali As of the time of this episode's recording, we have 90 days left in 2019. That means we have 90 days left in THIS DECADE. And just like in business and in sports, the fourth quarter is when the magic needs to happen and where we need to give our all. In this episode (#242), Mark brings into focus the importance of these last 90 days of the year, explains why hit's okay to forgive ourselves for falling short of our goals so far, and shares his top 3 (really 4... and maybe a bonus 5th) tips for creating a year-end game plan to shine and end up on top. Enjoy!! Connect with Mark: / Show Notes: •Why these last 90 days of the year matter. (02:20) •Why we should forgive ourselves for falling short. (03:25) •Mark's tips for creating a year-end game plan. (4:20) •Some inspiring quotes. (11:13) Things to check out:• •
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241 Mark Shapiro - Re-Root: Breaking Free From Your Past
09/27/2019
241 Mark Shapiro - Re-Root: Breaking Free From Your Past
"What do you do when you realize that the person you have been is no longer serving you?" In Episode 241, Mark decided to share some thoughts on this very question. This summer has offered Mark a ton of opportunities to self-reflect and get real with himself about who he's been and what it's going to take to get to where he wants to go. Some of the this week's highlights include some thoughts regarding how triggering (and insightful) being around family can be, what kind of thought habits, patterns, and actions from his childhood continue to influence him today (for better or for worse), and what we can all do to get clear on why we are the way we are and use that information to guide us into the future we want. If you're ready to take a trip down memory lane and get real with yourself, check out this micro-episode on People Being Real! This has been a reality for Mark in 2019. He’s been nursing some lofty goals for quite some time, and in order to become the next best version of himself, he realized that the only place he can look to is him. Enjoy!! Connect with Mark: / Show Notes: •02:30 - Why 2019 has been a challenging year. •04:41 - How ‘fear of rejection’ has gotten in Mark’s way. •06:30 - How being around family recently triggered Mark and led to thinking about his childhood. •08:30 - What Mark has realized about his relationship to authenticity and oversharing. •10:18 - Why Mark has realized that no one is ‘coming to the rescue’ and what he plans to do about it. •13:05 - What Mark recommends we do if we need greater clarity about who we are. Things to check out:• • •
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240 Mark Shapiro & Franny Nicole - Authenticity & Claiming Your Truth
09/17/2019
240 Mark Shapiro & Franny Nicole - Authenticity & Claiming Your Truth
"Stop holding your truth; speak your truth. Be yourself. It's the healthiest way to be." -Tiffany Hadish We all want to be heard, acknowledged, and loved for who we are and for the truths we hold dear. And while our truths may not necessarily sit well or even be acknowledged by others, We all have something that someone else needs to hear and experience to know they are not alone. And that's precisely what Franny Nicole wants to share on her podcast, one inspiring guest at a time. In today's episode, we're visiting a condensed version of an appearance that Mark had on Franny Nicole's "Claiming Your Truth" Podcast. Mark and Franny talk about a whole slew of topics including the effects of being lonely, life after divorce, podcasting advice, how landing a TEDx talk is easier than you'd think, and advice he would give his younger self. If you'd like to hear Mark and Franny's conversation and get a better idea of how Mark operates, check out Episode 240 of People Being Real! Enjoy!! Connect with Mark: / Connect with Franny: Show Notes: -Mark's background. (03:50) -On 'being alone.' (07:08) -What Mark's journey has looked like post-divorce. (09:59) -Strategies to influence change in others. (12:30) -What it's like for Franny to be a single mother and putting herself out into the dating pool. (19:41) -How the PBR Podcast came to be and some advice for podcasting hopefuls. (22:13) -What inspired Mark's TEDx talk and how landing a talk is easier than most people think. (26:20) -What Mark says to himself when he's at his lowest moments. (32:22) -Advice Mark would give his childhood self. (36:11) Things to check out:• • •
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237 Mark Shapiro - The Burning Man Phenomena
08/27/2019
237 Mark Shapiro - The Burning Man Phenomena
Imagine that you find yourself in a magical city that only exists for one week. A city where only 70,000 people are allowed to enter. A city that looks and feels like a cross between Disney World and Willy Wonka’s factory. A city where there is no buying or bartering for goods—just a free gifting economy. A city where you can be whatever you want to be. This city is called Burning Man. And it’s Mark’s favorite place to be. This week, he’s attending the festival out in the Black Rock Desert of Nevada for the tenth year in a row. And because he loves it so much, we decided to re-publish a condensed version of an old episode where he talks about all things Burning Man. We also updated the episode to include some present-day insights regarding the 2019 state of Burning Man and it’s potential future. If you’re curious to know what Burning Man is truly all about, why Mark continues to attend year after year, and what you can expect to experience in the future, check out Episode 237 of People Being Real! Enjoy!! Connect with Mark: Show Notes: -The origins of Burning Man. (02:52) -The 10 Principles every 'burner' abides. (06:45) -Day time vs. night time on The Playa. (19:30) -What does 'The Man' represent? (20:14) -What is 'The Temple'? (21:51) -Why Mark has gone back every single year. (23:43) -Is Burning Man still the same even though there are more celebrities than ever attending? (27:25) - What's the future of Burning Man? (30:01) Things to check out:• •
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236 Mark Shapiro - How To Work A Room, Use Tech For Good, & Make Someone’s Day
08/19/2019
236 Mark Shapiro - How To Work A Room, Use Tech For Good, & Make Someone’s Day
The joys that come from knowing how to work a room and use technology to enhance relationships is available for anyone, as long as you're willing to try and put in a few minutes a day. And on today's episode (#236 of People Being Real), we're featuring a condensed version of an interview Mark recorded with Amy Baglan for the Wellness 3.0 podcast. It's a great short episode that highlights some of Mark's insights on what you should and shouldn't do when engaging in social situations and why using tech (such as sending audio and videos messages (like in his Birthday Experiment) is one of the best ways you can create meaningful connections with others. If you liked what you heard and want to experience the full interview (an addition 20+ minutes of details), check out the original interview (see the bottom of the show notes). Enjoy!! Connect with Mark: Show Notes: -How Mark engages and entertains others and his theory for what determines the vibe of a social gathering. (2:44) -What Mark does when he finds himself in situations where he’s struggling to connect. (5:09) -Why setting goals in social situations is helpful. (7:06) -Why you shouldn’t hang out in the doorway or the fringes at a gathering. (8:12) -How Mark feels about getting out of his comfort zone in relationships. (9:33) -How can we help others “be real.” (11:17) -The Why, What, Who, and How of Mark’s Birthday Experiment. (13:30) -Some of the most memorable responses he’s received from his videos. (19:03) -How Mark is building off of The Birthday Experience to nurture other creative and professional relationships. (24:11) -What is Mark’s definition of ‘social wellness.’ (27:37) -A challenge for every listener of this episode. (29:22) Things to check out:• •
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235 Ben Gleib - No Joke: Why Comedian Ben Gleib Is Running For President
08/13/2019
235 Ben Gleib - No Joke: Why Comedian Ben Gleib Is Running For President
Is America ready for a Comedian Commander In Chief? Ben Gleib believes it is. That's why he decided to put his comedy career on the backburner and throw his hat into the ring to become the next President of The United States (no joke). While the thought might seem laughable at first, many people (if not most) feel a lack of trust in our elected officials in Washington. As more and more people turn to comedians as their source of news, he asks "Why can't we do with same with our politicians?" And wherever you lean on the political spectrum, there's no denying that Ben's viewpoints are refreshing and his enthusiasm and passion for the future of America is inspiring. To learn more about this presidential hopefull's journey and how you can get involved in the coming election (whether you choose to support Ben or any other candidate), check out Episode 235 of People Being Real! Enjoy!! Connect with Mark: Connect with Ben: Show Notes: -Why Ben thinks it's time for a comedian to be in The White House -Why he feels he's the guy for the job. -Lessons he's learned from the campaign trail. -What he's learned about himself and the power that a single person can have. -What he's learned from the other candidates. -Ben's powerful vision for America. Things to check out: • • •
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234 Brooklyn Sherman - The Story Behind The (LOVE) Story
08/06/2019
234 Brooklyn Sherman - The Story Behind The (LOVE) Story
“Modern dating has changed so drastically. But the one thing that has not changed, is that people are really finding love in moments of vulnerability.” -Brooklyn Sherman Everyone wants to be a part of a good story, especially when it comes to their relationships. But in a world that seems to become increasingly busy and distracting, finding the faith to pursue meaningful relationships and form your own love story can seem daunting or near impossible. But thanks to websites like The Way We Met, a blog created by Brooklyn Sherman that features the real stories of real people from real life, we know that it's possible to find the love we seek. No matter where you're at (married, single, looking for friends, or looking to love yourself), there are great opportunities to find what you're looking for if you choose to show up authentically and be real. In this episode, Mark and Brooklyn discuss how why she started the blog, how having it become viral and popular has affected her life and vision for love, and the role authenticity plays in the stories that truly resonate with her audience and in our own love stories. Enjoy!! Connect with Mark: Connect with Brooklyn: Show Notes: -Brooklyn's initial reactions to having her blog 'The Way We Met' go viral overnight. -Why she was hesitant to come on the show when Mark reached out for the first time. -Why we have an attachment to our love stories. -Brooklyn's personal vision for love. -Her greatest opportunity for growth. -The responsibility that influencers have and should be aware of. Things to check out: • ••
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233 Mark Shapiro - Lessons From The Lion King
07/30/2019
233 Mark Shapiro - Lessons From The Lion King
"There's more to see than can ever be seen, more to do than can ever be done." -Disney's The Lion King If you've been on the internet or the movie theater, you're probably aware of the new live-action remake of Disney's The Lion King. It's a fantastic movie that brings all the nostalgia back from the original and couples it with some pretty gut-punching realism. And while it's pretty obvious that some of the central themes of the movie involve the interconnectedness of all life and how love is a primary motivator for our actions (love for family and people in the case of Simba, and love of power in the case of Scar), there's much more to uncover if you look a little deeper. In this solo episode, Mark sits down and shares 15 lessons he took away from watching the new remake, how it can relate to all our lives. To get the details, check out Episode 233 of People Being Real! Enjoy!! Connect with Mark: Show Notes: -What Mark likes to do after he watches a movie. -Why Mark isn't a fan of the marketing strategies big companies utilize today. -The fifteen lessons Mark learned from watching the new remake and how they apply to us. Things to check out:•
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232 Alex Echols - One Life To Live, Gratitude To Give
07/23/2019
232 Alex Echols - One Life To Live, Gratitude To Give
As far as we know, we only have One Life to live. In an ideal world, we would all demonstrate our appreciation for our bodies and minds by treating them in the best way possible. But sometimes, it takes confronting a life-threatening giant (like cancer) to light a fire under our rear and make the necessary changes to keep on going. Alex Echols had to do just that. After doctors detected cancer in his system, he shifted his mindset and adopted an attitude of gratitude for his relationships, his health, and his life. He was able to make it through chemotherapy and now chooses to make the most of his One Life. Gratitude has become his most important daily practice. To hear how he overcame this challenge that so many people succumb to and how we can also cultivate a life-changing habit of living in gratitude, check out Episode 232! Enjoy!! Connect with Mark: Connect with Alex: Show Notes: -How shifting his mindset and adopting an attitude of gratitude helped him overcome cancer. -What authenticity means to Alex. -How he used to spend his time vs how he spends it now. -How travel helps change your perspective. -Why he wants to have a family more than anything. -What he wants everyone to do every day as they look into a mirror. Things to check out:• • • Alex's DJ page on SoundCloud [COMING SOON]
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231 Marc Weinstein - FOMO, FYRE, & The Future of Technology
07/16/2019
231 Marc Weinstein - FOMO, FYRE, & The Future of Technology
FOMO is a curious term being used in pop culture that means "Fear Of Missing Out" and its reach has exponentially grown with the growing popularity of social media. There are many examples of events and happenings that have induced FOMO over the years, but perhaps none have had a greater viral reach and effect on pop culture as 2017's FYRE Festival. And if there's anyone that can just how much FOMO the festival generated, it's Marc Weinstein. Having once been in charge of logistics for the festival, Marc is now a venture advisory, investor, yoga instructor, and advocate for blockchain technology. But having worked four weeks (around the clock) for a festival that never happened and participating in a documentary that where he didn't know how he would be portrayed has taught him many lessons about FOMO, success, the effects of social media, and the need for authenticity in our interactions (digital or otherwise). To hear his story of why he chose to continue with FYRE even though he could see the signs of what was to come, the lessons he's learned after the fact, how we can reduce our FOMO on social media, and why blockchain is crucial for our technological future, check out Episode 231 of People Being Real! Enjoy!! Connect with Mark Shapiro: Connect with Marc Weinstein: Show Notes: -Lessons Marc learned from working on FYRE Festival. -Positive effects from the aftermath of the festival and the documentaries. -Marc's take on FOMO and Authenticity in the digital age. -What's Marc's primary motivation for posting on social media? -The future of civilization and the importance of blockchain technologies. Things to check out:• • • •
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230 Lani Cooper - Recovery, Confidence, & Foam Rolling Water Bottles
07/09/2019
230 Lani Cooper - Recovery, Confidence, & Foam Rolling Water Bottles
We're all chasing our vision for happiness, wellness, and success. And for most of us, getting to where we want to get to require a great commitment to making relatively simple changes and habits. But for Lani Cooper, experiencing accidental brain damage from a game of rugby has made her pursuit for wellness and entrepreneurship anything but easy. After a grueling recovery period of re-learning how to be human (use language, basic human functions, recovering memories, etc), she has become a successful stand-up comedian and entrepreneur through her company MOBOT (the first foam rolling water bottles available on the market). She's a great example of the power of a positive spirit, hard work, and the ability for humanity to overcome life-changing trauma. If you're curious to hear how exactly she overcame this trauma, the philosophy behind MOBOT and her foam rolling water bottles, how she manages her recovery and her business at the same time, and what she likes to joke about the most in her stand-up comedy routines, check out Episode 230 of People Being Real! Enjoy!! Connect with Mark: Connect with Lani: Show Notes: -Lani shares the experience that caused her brain damage and the process she went through to recover. -What it was like living with this damage and how she related to her external world. -Lani's definition of authenticity. -Habits and processes she applied that helped her catch momentum in recovery. -Why 'feeling good' is a fundamental human right. -How she has educated her customers to realize they needed MOBOT. -How she manages short term emotional needs vs long term health and wellness. -Her favorite things to joke about as a comedian. Things to check out:• • •
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229 Chris Schembra - Connection, Vulnerability, & Pasta Sauce
07/02/2019
229 Chris Schembra - Connection, Vulnerability, & Pasta Sauce
What's the key to talking to anyone, have them open up, and create real life-changing connection with others? Just ask Chris Schembra. Chris Schembra is a keynote speaker, Broadway Producer, sought-after dinner host, and superstar relationships expert. But when he was younger, he always felt overlooked and like he was the last one to get invited to the party. But through the power of pasta, gratitude, and great questions, he's been able to host hundreds of heartfelt dinners with thousands of people and created a safe space for vulnerability through his company "7:47 Club." On this episode, Chris sits down with Mark to talk about how 7:47 Club got its start, how connecting people became his greatest strength, the strength of 'weak ties', and advice he would give to others trying to find their way while helping others. Enjoy!! Connect with Mark: Connect with Chris: Show Notes: -Experiences that left Chris feeling left out as he grew up. -Why he feels we're 'deeply disconnected' from one another. -Why Chris feels we should focus on quality of relationships instead of quantity. -The importance of "1000 True Fans." -How he identified connection others was a gift. -Why everyone should ask each other 'the question.' -How his self-worth has changed since starting these dinners. Things to check out:• •
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228 Mark Shapiro - Stepping Into Your Light
06/25/2019
228 Mark Shapiro - Stepping Into Your Light
In Episode 64 of People Being Real, Mark answered some questions submitted by close friends and family and gave the most vulnerable interview he's ever done up to that point. Fast forward to a few years later, and Mark has dropped vulnerable episode after vulnerable episode on us. Today, he's revisiting that format from Episode 64 and answering some listener-submitted questions, all of which seem to tie into 'stepping into your light.' The topics he covers include how he loves, his fears, his fulfillment, his current vision, and his relationship with death. To hear Mark's answers to these questions, sit down and tune in to Episode 228 of People Being Real! PS: As you listen to his answer, take note of how you would answer the question for yourself. There's a good chance you'll uncover something you can address and look at in your own life as well! Enjoy!! Connect with Mark: Show Notes: -Why Mark chose to answer some listener questions. -"When’s the last time you asked yourself how fulfilled you are right in this moment?" -"What’s the magnetic force pulling your heart into next?" -"What are your greatest fears and what have you done to overcome them?" -"How do you give love?" -"Are you ready to die?" Things to check out:• • •
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227 Mark Shapiro - Seeing And Addressing Your Blindspots
06/18/2019
227 Mark Shapiro - Seeing And Addressing Your Blindspots
If your life was a movie, what would you see? What would be some of the key defining moments? What would be some of the central themes? What would be the biggest struggle you face your entire life? What’s going to be that transformational moment where it’s all going to make sense? More often than not, the most satisfying endings to stories don’t come from the plot twist or the action sequence, but from the lesson the character learns and how they overcome once they’ve understood the change that needed to occur within them. These lessons sometimes have been there in front of the character the entire time, but they weren’t able to or didn’t want to see them. These are what we call ‘blindspots.’ By identifying and addressing these blindspots, we clear a path to be able to reach where we ultimately want to go. Which is why Mark decided to dedicate an entire solo episode to the subject and share his insights and tools for tackling the blindspots that commonly show up. If you're ready to learn how to see your own blindspots and address them for your own personal growth's sake, then check out Episode 227 of People Being Real! Enjoy!! Connect with Mark: Show Notes: -What is a "blindspot?" -Why our brain creates blindspots. -Why Mark felt the need to dedicate a full episode to blindspots. -Popular blindspots we all have. -How Mark sees blindspots and constructive feedback he's received. -Tools that help Mark address his blindspots.
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226 Lee Harris - How To Hone Your Energy
06/11/2019
226 Lee Harris - How To Hone Your Energy
For the average person, growing up is hard enough as it is. But it's even harder when you know at a young age that you don't quite fit into the generally accepted heteronormative standards and are more in tune with energy and emotions than most other people. That's the life Lee Harris led growing up. While many people grow up to be angry and bitter for having faced similar kinds of challenges, Lee has taken his experience and has honed his energy into understanding energy, grounding creative spirituality into these challenging times. and helping other people experience impactful and abundant lives while supporting each other through community. It's a big vision that's resonating with hundreds of thousands of people. Mark and Lee recently had the chance to sit down and talk about how Lee grew up, how energy affects all of us, and why he believes authenticity has played such a big role in love, connection, and life. To hear Lee's story and get more familiar with energy and how it impacts your life, check out Episode 226 of People Being Real! Enjoy!! Connect with Mark: Connect with Lee: Show Notes: -Why Lee's teenage years were especially hard for him. -How acting in his youth prepared him for his current line of work. -What he would advise someone who feels their heart is closing off. -What is 'energy' and how does it relate to us? -The importance of constructive, loving feedback. -How to distinguish between intuition and fear. -Why Lee believes we're living in 'the golden age' of humanity. Things to check out: •
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225 Myles Scott - Confessions of a F*ckboy: Overcoming Trauma & Shame
06/03/2019
225 Myles Scott - Confessions of a F*ckboy: Overcoming Trauma & Shame
“What’s a f*ckboy?” If you don’t what one is, you’re not alone. A quick Google search will bring up a plethora of unique definitions, but it all boils down to basically the same thing: it’s a weak or contemptible man that only acts and says whatever it takes to serve himself without regard for anyone else’s feelings or wellbeing. It’s not a label you want to earn or have to shake off down the road. But if you find yourself being one -or know someone who is- all hope is not lost. Today’s guest, Myles Scott, is a perfect example of how there is still a chance for you to mend your ways, turn your life around, and evolve into a more conscious person. As a former f*ckboy, Myles chose to make changes to how he treats others (especially women) and now works with both men and women to evolve together and change the toxic culture he used to be a part of. His movement is gaining critical mass and shows no signs of stopping and we’re happy to have him join Mark today. If you’ve been acting like f*ckboy yourself or know one, and want to know what you can do to change the culture around you as well, tune in to Episode 225 of People Being Real! Enjoy!! Connect with Mark: Connect with Myles: Show Notes: -When did he start having his awakening to change his life? -The messages that are most resonating with people. -Where's the limit on being vulnerable? -Best practices and tips for starting a movement. -What Myles's love life looks like and his vision for love. -How he manages negative self-sabotaging thoughts. Things to check out: •
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224 Rory Kramer - Dare To Be Real!
05/28/2019
224 Rory Kramer - Dare To Be Real!
When Rory Kramer was last on the show three years ago, he was already a professional 'life-liver' expressing himself creatively and doing what he loved. And with so many different projects and opportunities coming his way since then, time has flown by for him and has allowed him to grow exponentially in all areas of his life. Perhaps one of the most important things he's been reminded of time and time again, and something we would all do well to do, is to dare to live the life we want. As Rory will tell you, just because you reach a certain level of fame doesn't mean you won't be faced with challenges, insecurities, and down-moments. In fact, they may even become more pronounced when you compare them to all the highlight you experience. But regardless of what life throws at you, if you show up, put in time, live what you do passionately, and 'run it' every day, great things will happen and incredible experiences will present themselves in your life. To hear what Rory's been up to for the past three years, lessons he's learned from fame and storytelling, and other insights into what 'living life professionally' and daring to live looks like, check out Mark and Rory's interview on Episode 224 of People Being Real! Enjoy!! Connect with Mark: Connect with Rory: Show Notes: -How to 'feed your soul' and balance your mental, spiritual, and physical aspects. -What Rory's been up to and what he's learned over the past three years since he was last on the show. -Why Rory doesn't do very many podcast interviews. -What ingredients Rory uses when it comes to storytelling. -Lessons he's learned from fame and authenticity. -How Avicii's passing affected Rory. -What it means to 'put in time' and the responsibilities influencers have as role-models. Things to check out: • • •
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223 Taylor Conroy - Knowing When To Start Over
05/21/2019
223 Taylor Conroy - Knowing When To Start Over
We've all heard the myth of the Phoenix: the legendary bird that consumes itself in its own fire and then is reborn from its own ashes. But what if the myth is actually just symbolic of the change we're meant to go through ourselves? Ask Taylor Conroy, and he'll tell you that's exactly what the phoenix symbolizes. Taylor is a surfer, chocolate aficionado, and entrepreneur that has been focusing on social enterprises that make real change in the world (such as building schools, funding water projects, and helping influencers and thought leaders get their ideas on the TEDx stage). He's also gone through his own Phoenix cycle by making millions, losing it all except $2.00, and rebuilding his life into a more satisfying and successful career than before. In Episode 223, Taylor discusses his the thought processes he had to go through in order to rebuild his life, when it's important to do so, and the most important mindset elements we need to sustain that rebirth. As a close friend and former roommate of Mark's, he and Mark also give each other some pretty deep feedback and reflections on how they see each other. It's a beautiful conversation that only two close real friends could have. If you're ready to rise from your own ashes and start anew, sit back and listen to Episode 223! Enjoy!! Connect with Mark: Connect with Taylor: Show Notes: -How Mark and Taylor's friendship came to be. -Taylor's take on reinvention. -When is it a good time to 'burn something down?' -The importance of meditation and listening to the Universe. -Taylor going deep with Mark about he started his podcast in the first place. -Mark's reflection of Taylor and his desire to prove himself, -Why any chocolate less than 85% cacao is unacceptable. -How the fear of failure is holding us back from accomplishing great things. Things to check out: •
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221 Mark Shapiro - Getting Out Of My (Your) Comfort Zone
05/07/2019
221 Mark Shapiro - Getting Out Of My (Your) Comfort Zone
There's nothing like sinking into a nice warm bed without a care in the world, just vegging out, and just being. It's comforting. And we need time to recover and reset. But let's be real: some of us are actually spending WAY too much time in comfort and not enough time pushing ourselves to where we want to and know we need to go. This week's episode is all about getting off our asses, pushing up against our edge, and breaking free of our comfort zone. It's self-tough love at it's finest and Mark brings it with some realness about how he's been letting himself mellow in the comfort and how he's planning on stepping forward into growth. He also shares everything he's come to learn about comfort zones, including ways that you can take action TODAY to break through your own, and he packs it all into this short solo episode. If you're feeling comfortable with life and need to a boost to get to the next level, bust out your notebook and tune into Episode 221! Enjoy!! Connect with Mark: Show Notes: -What is a 'comfort zone'? -Archetypes that show up when we're living comfortably, -What life looks like inside vs. outside of your comfort zone. -The three catalysts for change. -How Mark has been living in his own comfort zone. -Mark reads a powerful excerpt from David Deida's "The Way of The Superior Man" -Mark's 5 Step Roadmap To Getting Out of Your Comfort Zone -Examples of things you can do to step out of your comfort zone. Things to check out: •
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220 JJ Virgin - Getting Real About Our Physical & Emotional Health
04/30/2019
220 JJ Virgin - Getting Real About Our Physical & Emotional Health
Depending on the day or season of life, some of us treat our bodies and minds like a temple and some of us like an amusement park on the last day of Spring Break. However you choose to live, there's no denying that we only get one life to live. How we treat our bodies, our minds, and other people will greatly influence what we can accomplish in this life. For prominent tv personality, JJ Virgin, it's not enough to just simply take care of your physical body. To get to where she is, it requires some authenticity and vulnerability in sharing the real you with the public. Once she opened up and shared her experiences, fears, and challenges as the mother of a son in a life-threatening situation, she discovered that it brought her closer to her audience than ever before and helped her feel free. When we share who we are, we give everyone else permission to connect and share their own truths as well. If you're ready to get real about your physical and emotional health, check out Episode 220! JJ and Mark deep into the importance of authenticity, how visiting a prison influenced her personal mission, how to figure out what foods you should be eating, and why making simple yet life-changing decisions one step at a time is the key to success. Enjoy!! Connect with Mark: Connect with JJ: Show Notes: -JJ's journey as a mother fighting for her son's life after he was left for dead. -Why vulnerability and authenticity have been so important to JJ's growth with her audience. -Personal breakthroughs she's experienced, including being able to forgive her adoptive and biological mothers. -How visiting a maximum security prison changed her outlook on life. -Actionable health tips and her take on what people need to get most real about with regards to their health. -JJ's favorite foods! -What she's most focused on right now with her own personal development. Things to check out: •
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219 Chris Sams - Running, Breathing, & Living Your Fullest Expression
04/23/2019
219 Chris Sams - Running, Breathing, & Living Your Fullest Expression
According to a 2018 report by the CDC, only 23% of Americans are getting the bare minimum recommended amount of exercise. But thanks to individuals willing to go the distance, teach others, and set the example for the rest of us, more people are seeing that it's possible to actually lead a healthy lifestyle and achieve the goals you thought were impossible. Meet Chris Sams, one of the few people to run ALL the way across America. Starting in Baltimore, MD, he ran all the way to Coronado Beach in San Diego, CA in just under five months. And he stopped along the way to teach families and individuals about the importance of movement, nutrition, and living a healthy life. And in Episode 219, Mark sits down with Chris to talk about the deep lessons he took away from running and helping these families along the way, the importance of incorporating breathwork into your routines, how to approach your big goals, and why he's focus today revolves around optimizing "LYFE" (Living Your Fullest Expression). To learn what kept him going all those months on the road and what you can do to tackle your own audacious goals, write down your idea and tune into Episode 219! Connect with Mark: Connect with Chris: Show Notes: -How he ran across America and the big lesson he learned. -How Chris tackles big goals. -How Chris decides whether he needs to give tough love or compassion towards his training clients. -Essential elements for a healthy lifestyle. -Why everyone should practice "holotropic breathwork." -The importance of LYFE (living your full expression).
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218 Jen Gottlieb - Connecting The Dots To Find Your Purpose
04/16/2019
218 Jen Gottlieb - Connecting The Dots To Find Your Purpose
Sometimes the goal or the dream we're meant to chase ends up being different than the one we started with. Just ask Jen Gottlieb. She felt the desire to pursue acting and performing and experienced many wonderful opportunities to exercise that desire. But after each experience, there was something inside her that made her feel like this wasn't quite where she needed to be. As she continued to jump from opportunity to opportunity, she got to know herself better until she ended up where she is today: running Unfair Advantage LIVE alongside the love of her life (and previous guest of the show), . Are you being real about letting your goals change as you change? If you've been pursuing a goal or a dream that you don't feel 100% aligned with and don't know what to do, tune in to Episode 218 of Are You Being Real! Jen gets real about what it took for her to have the courage to make the changes and ultimately look back and connect the dots to understand how every setback and change ultimately led her to her life's work. Connect with Mark: Connect with Jen: Show Notes: -How Jen's goals and dreams continued to evolve with each passing opportunity. -What someone can do to create an unfair advantage in their life. -Using 'a secret' to make people lean in and connect. -Jen's preferred connection strategy that anyone can apply. Things to Check Out:•
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