Stacking Chairs: A Youth Ministry Podcast
Welcome to Stacking Chairs: A Youth Ministry Podcast all about serving in Youth Ministry. Whether it be youth group or youth camp, whatever God has you serving in, that's what we're here talking about. Join us, Josh and Kyle, as we talk through some of the burning, practical questions facing those in youth ministry. We don't have it all figured out, but let's learn and explore this side of ministry together! Join our community of those serving in youth ministry @stackingchairspod through Instagram and Facebook. A Word of Life Podcast
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Stacking Chairs #94 – Bridging the Gap: Keeping Middle & High School Ministry Connected
10/16/2025
Stacking Chairs #94 – Bridging the Gap: Keeping Middle & High School Ministry Connected
📅 New episodes drop on the 2nd and 4th Wednesday of every month! 👉 GRAB YOUR FREE 4-PART YOUTH MINISTRY SERIES: Episode Summary: In this episode of Stacking Chairs, Josh and Kyle sit down with Zack Jernigan (High School Pastor) and Josiah Brondyke (Middle School Pastor) from Idlewild Baptist Church in Florida to talk about something every church wrestles with—keeping middle school and high school ministries connected. It’s easy for ministries to become silos. Different schedules, leaders, and rhythms often mean students “start over” when they move up. Zack and Josiah unpack how they intentionally bridge that gap through communication, shared goals, and humility. From unified discipleship paths to team collaboration, this conversation is full of practical insights for youth pastors who want to build ministry that’s relationally strong and spiritually consistent from 6th through 12th grade. Key Talking Points: ✅ Why middle school and high school ministries often feel disconnected ✅ The importance of shared discipleship goals between ministry teams ✅ How to communicate and collaborate across age-specific programs ✅ Making the handoff between ministries relational, not just administrative ✅ Building mutual trust and respect between ministry leaders ✅ What small churches can learn from Idlewild’s approach ✅ How alignment impacts long-term student discipleship Great Youth Ministry Resources: ✅ Youth Ministry Curriculum & Tools (start free): ✅ Free 4-Part Series Giveaway: 🔗 Find all things Stacking Chairs: 📱 Join our Facebook Group: 📸 Instagram: @wol.youthministries 👍 Facebook: facebook.com/wolyouthministries ▶️ YouTube: youtube.com/@wolyouthministries 🌐 Website: youthministry.wol.org About Stacking Chairs: Welcome to Stacking Chairs: A Multiply Youth Ministry Podcast. We’re here to equip and inspire youth leaders—whether you lead a youth group, run a camp, or serve in any ministry that reaches students for Christ. With practical insights and real-life stories, we celebrate those who show up early, stay late, and literally stack the chairs. Join us as we encourage one another to lead well and impact the next generation. Keep stacking those chairs! Special Thanks: This episode is brought to you by Word of Life Youth Ministries. We help churches build strong, engaging youth ministries through coaching, curriculum, and Gospel-centered events. Our mission is clear: Every Student, Everywhere, Growing in Christ.
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Stacking Chairs #93 – Escape Survival Mode & Stop Doing Ministry Alone
09/25/2025
Stacking Chairs #93 – Escape Survival Mode & Stop Doing Ministry Alone
📅 New episodes drop on the 2nd and 4th Wednesday of every month! 👉 GRAB YOUR FREE 4-PART YOUTH MINISTRY SERIES: Episode Summary: In this episode of Stacking Chairs, Josh and Kyle sit down to tackle one of the biggest challenges in youth ministry: loneliness in leadership. Even in a room full of students and volunteers, many youth pastors feel like they’re carrying the weight alone. That’s why we’re diving into Multiply U, a free leadership training platform designed to help you equip your team, grow together, and stop doing ministry solo. We unpack why team-based leadership matters, how to break the cycle of burnout, and how practical tools like Multiply U can make equipping your leaders simple, scalable, and sustainable. Whether you’re leading volunteers, staff, or just starting to build your ministry team, this conversation will give you hope and a plan. Key Talking Points: ✅ Why so many youth leaders feel isolated ✅ The “Expectation Monster” every leader faces ✅ Why equipping your team is not optional—it’s essential ✅ How Multiply U makes training volunteers easy and free ✅ The role of community, coaching, and shared learning ✅ Real steps to stop doing ministry alone Great Youth Ministry Resources: ✅ Youth Ministry Curriculum & Tools (start free): ✅ Free 4-Part Series Giveaway: ✅ Multiply U (Free Training App): 🔗 Find all things Stacking Chairs: 📱 Join our Facebook Group: 📸 Instagram: @wol.youthministries 👍 Facebook: facebook.com/wolyouthministries ▶️ YouTube: youtube.com/@wolyouthministries 🌐 Website: youthministry.wol.org About Stacking Chairs: Welcome to Stacking Chairs: A Multiply Youth Ministry Podcast. We’re here to equip and inspire youth leaders—whether you lead a youth group, run a camp, or serve in any ministry that reaches students for Christ. With practical insights and real-life stories, we celebrate those who show up early, stay late, and literally stack the chairs. Join us as we encourage one another to lead well and impact the next generation. Keep stacking those chairs! Special Thanks: This episode is brought to you by Word of Life Youth Ministries. We help churches build strong, engaging youth ministries through coaching, curriculum, and Gospel-centered events. Our mission is clear: Every Student, Everywhere, Growing in Christ.
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Stacking Chairs #92 – Pizza Shop to Bible College: Gideon's Journey & Why Youth Ministry Matters
09/11/2025
Stacking Chairs #92 – Pizza Shop to Bible College: Gideon's Journey & Why Youth Ministry Matters
📅 New episodes drop on the 2nd and 4th Wednesday of every month! 👉 GRAB YOUR FREE 4-PART YOUTH MINISTRY SERIES: Episode Summary: In this episode of Stacking Chairs, Josh and Kyle welcome Gideon Kohls—a former podcast listener turned Bible Institute student, camp counselor, and future youth ministry leader. Gideon shares his story of growing up in church without a youth pastor, discovering the impact of intentional discipleship, and how Word of Life camp and the Bible Institute helped solidify his calling. From working at a pizza shop to leading campers through real-life conversations, Gideon reflects on lessons learned, habits formed, and how to stir a hunger for God’s Word that lasts. This episode is a powerful reminder that youth ministry is not about programs—it’s about people, discipleship, and pointing the next generation toward Jesus. Key Talking Points: ✅ Going from podcast listener to podcast guest ✅ Growing up without a youth pastor—and the difference when one finally arrived ✅ How COVID shaped Gideon’s journey and led him to Florida ✅ The role of camp ministry and drama team in reaching students ✅ Why daily disciplines like quiet time and Scripture memory are essential ✅ How youth leaders can model growth that sparks hunger in students ✅ Reaching students where they are without leaving them there ✅ Building intentional programs that let the Holy Spirit do the real work Great Youth Ministry Resources: ✅ Youth Ministry Curriculum & Tools (start free): ✅ Free 4-Part Series Giveaway: ✅ Learn more about the Bible Institute: 🔗 Find all things Stacking Chairs: 📱 Join our Facebook Group: 📸 Instagram: @wol.youthministries 👍 Facebook: facebook.com/wolyouthministries ▶️ YouTube: youtube.com/@wolyouthministries 🌐 Website: youthministry.wol.org About Stacking Chairs: Welcome to Stacking Chairs: A Multiply Youth Ministry Podcast. We’re here to equip and inspire youth leaders—whether you lead a youth group, run a camp, or serve in any ministry that reaches students for Christ. With practical insights and real-life stories, we celebrate those who show up early, stay late, and literally stack the chairs. Join us as we encourage one another to lead well and impact the next generation. Keep stacking those chairs! Special Thanks: This episode is brought to you by Word of Life Youth Ministries. We help churches build strong, engaging youth ministries through coaching, curriculum, and Gospel-centered events. Our mission is clear: Every Student, Everywhere, Growing in Christ.
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Stacking Chairs #91 – Next Steps in Youth Ministry: Moving Students From Stuck to Growing (with Scott Foreman)
08/27/2025
Stacking Chairs #91 – Next Steps in Youth Ministry: Moving Students From Stuck to Growing (with Scott Foreman)
📅 New episodes drop on the 2nd and 4th Wednesday of every month! 👉 GRAB YOUR FREE 4-PART YOUTH MINISTRY SERIES: Episode Summary What does it really look like to help students take next steps in their walk with Christ? In this episode of Stacking Chairs, Josh and Kyle sit down with author and Word of Life leader Scott Foreman to unpack how to move students from stuck to growing. Scott explains why next steps are more than slogans, how to equip parents as primary disciplers, and how to assess ministry health with four simple Acts 2 priorities. From “no Scripture, no social media” mornings to setting churchwide benchmarks, this conversation is packed with practical tools to help you personalize discipleship and build steady, Gospel-centered growth. Key Talking Points ✅ Next steps are part of sanctification, not one-size-fits-all slogans ✅ How to personalize growth rhythms that actually stick ✅ Equipping parents as the first disciplers, with youth ministry as reinforcement ✅ Four lenses for ministry health: Word, Community, Evangelism, Stewardship ✅ Balancing team strengths through delegation so no one gift dominates ✅ Building benchmarks for kids and parents at every stage (elementary through graduation) ✅ Sticky habits like “no Scripture, no social media,” analog Bibles, and family devotions ✅ Word of Life’s pathway for next steps: Quiet Time, sharing the Gospel, mission trips, Camp Crew, Bible Institute Great Youth Ministry Resources ✅ Youth Ministry Curriculum & Tools (start free): ✅ Free 4-Part Series Giveaway: 🔗 Find all things Stacking Chairs: 📱 Join our Facebook Group: 📸 Instagram: @wol.youthministries 👍 Facebook: facebook.com/wolyouthministries ▶️ YouTube: youtube.com/@wolyouthministries 🌐 Website: youthministry.wol.org About Stacking Chairs Welcome to Stacking Chairs: A Multiply Youth Ministry Podcast. We’re here to equip and inspire youth leaders—whether you lead a youth group, run a camp, or serve in any ministry that reaches students for Christ. Through practical insights and real-life stories, we celebrate those who show up early, stay late, and literally stack the chairs. Join us as we challenge one another to lead well and impact the next generation. Keep stacking those chairs! Special Thanks This episode is brought to you by Word of Life Youth Ministries. We help churches build strong, engaging youth ministries through coaching, curriculum, and Gospel-centered events. Our mission is clear: Every Student, Everywhere, Growing in Christ.
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Stacking Chairs #90 – Stop Winging It: Ministry, Marriage & the Call to Be Intentional
07/24/2025
Stacking Chairs #90 – Stop Winging It: Ministry, Marriage & the Call to Be Intentional
🙌 GET YOUR FREE YOUTH MINISTRY SERIES: 📅 New episodes drop the 2nd and 4th Wednesday of every month! Episode Summary: Let’s be honest—most of us are making it up as we go. In this episode, Josh and Kyle sit down with Phillip and Casey Puett for a raw, encouraging look at what happens when we stop winging it and start leading with intention. From burnout and budgeting to raising kids and serving in ministry as a couple, the Puetts share what they’ve learned (and are still learning) about trusting God with their yes—even when life is messy. Whether you’re married in ministry, navigating multiple callings, or just trying to find healthy rhythms, this episode is for you. Key Talking Points: • Why “just winging it” doesn’t work in real-life ministry • Casey’s honest story of burnout and rebuilding with purpose • Creating space for each other’s callings in a marriage • Trusting God with your family, finances, and future • Setting boundaries and rhythms that actually work • Parenting in ministry without losing your sanity • What faithfulness really looks like when life feels stretched 📲 RESOURCES & LINKS Free Youth Ministry Curriculum → All Links → Join Our Facebook Group → Instagram → Facebook → YouTube → Website → About Stacking Chairs: Stacking Chairs is a Multiply Youth Ministry Podcast from Word of Life. It’s for leaders who show up early, stay late, and want to do more than survive ministry—they want to do it with purpose. Join Josh and Kyle for real conversations, practical insight, and encouragement that hits where you live. Keep stacking those chairs! 🪑
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Stacking Chairs #89 – What If Church Looked Like Acts 2? w/ Ander Chen
07/10/2025
Stacking Chairs #89 – What If Church Looked Like Acts 2? w/ Ander Chen
🙌 GET YOUR FREE YOUTH MINISTRY SERIES: 📅 New episodes drop the 2nd and 4th Wednesday of every month! Episode Summary: What if church wasn’t built on programs, but on real community? In this episode, Josh and Kyle sit down with Ander Chen of Acts 2 Network to unpack how their ministry reaches college students, disciples them intentionally, and raises up lifelong kingdom workers—all without a cookie-cutter system. They talk about life-on-life discipleship, bivocational ministry, and why college ministry might be the most overlooked but strategic age group in the church today. Whether you're a youth leader, a college student, or just wondering what church could look like, this conversation will challenge you to go deeper than just “doing church.” Key Talking Points: • Why college students are often spiritually hungry—and often forgotten • The power of life-on-life discipleship over flashy programming • How Acts 2 Network plants ministries by prioritizing relationships • Challenges of discipling intellectual, searching students • Preparing high school students for spiritual life in college • What bivocational ministry looks like in real life • Why true discipleship starts with faithfulness, not excellence 📲 RESOURCES & LINKS Free Youth Ministry Curriculum → All Links → Join Our Facebook Group → Instagram → Facebook → YouTube → Website → Explore Acts 2 Network → About Stacking Chairs: Stacking Chairs is a Multiply Youth Ministry Podcast created by Word of Life. Whether you're leading a youth group, running a camp, or showing up early to set out chairs, this podcast is for you. Join hosts Josh and Kyle as they equip and encourage ministry leaders to keep showing up—faithfully, relationally, and biblically. Keep stacking those chairs! 🪑
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Stacking Chairs #88 – Start With One: Discipleship Through Relationship
06/25/2025
Stacking Chairs #88 – Start With One: Discipleship Through Relationship
🙌 GET YOUR FREE YOUTH MINISTRY SERIES: 📅 New episodes drop the 2nd and 4th Wednesday of every month! Episode Summary: In a world focused on speed and numbers, what if the biggest ministry impact comes from just one conversation? Josh and Kyle dive deep into the value of one-on-one discipleship—sharing how they're building relationships with students, earning trust with parents, and prioritizing meaningful connection in a busy ministry world. This episode will leave you challenged, encouraged, and ready to start small for big impact. Key Talking Points: • The power of one-on-one discipleship • Practical ways to meet with students • Earning trust from parents and setting wise boundaries • Learning through brokenness and humility • Encouragement to “start with one” • The difference small meetings can make in a student's faith journey 📲 RESOURCES & LINKS Free Youth Ministry Curriculum → All Links → Join Our Facebook Group → Instagram → Facebook → YouTube → Website → About Stacking Chairs: A Multiply Youth Ministry Podcast from Word of Life, created to equip and encourage youth leaders. Whether you're leading a youth group, camp, or anything in between—we're here to talk real ministry, real impact, and the people who literally stack the chairs. Keep stacking those chairs!
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Stacking Chairs #87 - Navigating Bi-Vocational Ministry & Gen Alpha
06/11/2025
Stacking Chairs #87 - Navigating Bi-Vocational Ministry & Gen Alpha
SIGN UP NOW AND CLAIM YOUR FREE SERIES FOR ANY AGE GROUP IN YOUTH MINISTRY: https://multiply.life New episodes drop on the 2nd and 4th Wednesday of every month! Episode Summary: If you’re navigating multiple callings, limited time, or trying to make sense of Gen Alpha’s world (Skibidi what??), this episode will encourage and equip you. In this episode of Stacking Chairs, Josh and Kyle candidly share their own experiences with bi-vocational ministry—what it looks like, the struggles, and the unexpected blessings. They also dive into a timely conversation about the emerging Gen Alpha generation, what’s changing in youth culture, and how leaders can prepare to reach and disciple this new wave of students. Key Talking Points: - What bi-vocational ministry really looks like today - Encouragement for leaders serving without a full-time ministry role - The growing need to celebrate and honor volunteer leaders - Why Gen Alpha is different—and what it means for your youth ministry - Generational dynamics in today’s church - Practical tips for preparing your ministry to engage Gen Alpha effectively - The importance of relational ministry across generational divides Great Youth Ministry Resources: https://multiply.life Join the Conversation: Are you navigating bi-vocational ministry or already seeing shifts with Gen Alpha students? We’d love to hear your experiences! Share with us in the comments or on social media. Let’s grow and learn together. Find all things Stacking Chairs: https://linktr.ee/StackingChairsPod Join our Facebook Group: facebook.com/groups/1371987896934818 Instagram: @wol.youthministries Facebook: facebook.com/wolyouthministries YouTube: youtube.com/@wolyouthministries Website: youthministry.wol.org About Stacking Chairs: Welcome to Stacking Chairs: A Multiply Youth Ministry Podcast. We’re here to equip and inspire youth leaders—whether you’re running a youth group, a camp, or any ministry that reaches students for Christ. With practical insights and real-life stories, we celebrate those who get there early, stay late, and literally stack the chairs. Join us as we challenge and encourage one another to lead well and impact the next generation. Keep stacking those chairs!
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Stacking Chairs #86 - The Gateway Drug to Deconstruction: Legalism and the Gospel
05/28/2025
Stacking Chairs #86 - The Gateway Drug to Deconstruction: Legalism and the Gospel
New episodes drop on the 2nd and 4th Wednesday of every month! Episode Summary: What happens when church culture replaces the Gospel with rules? Pastor and podcaster JC Groves joins the show to talk about growing up in a legalistic system—where modesty meant swimming in jeans and salvation meant constant fear. This isn’t just JC’s story. It’s the story of students sitting in your youth group, quietly wondering if they’ll ever be “enough.” And if we’re not careful, legalism becomes the gateway drug to deconstruction. This week on Stacking Chairs, we get honest about spiritual trauma, identity crises, and how Jesus sets us free—not through rebellion, but through real discipleship. Key Talking Points: The hidden harm of man-made religion 🎭 Why legalism leaves students feeling afraid and fake 🧱 Deconstruction vs. Gospel reconstruction 🛠️ What it means to actually disciple students 🧑🏫 The freedom found in grace, not performance 🙌 Great Youth Ministry Resources: 📚 – Everything you need to lead well Let’s Talk: Ever watched a student walk away from church because of legalism? You’re not alone. Jump into the conversation on the Stacking Chairs Facebook group or DM us on Instagram. 🎧 Find everything here → About Stacking Chairs: Stacking Chairs is the Multiply Youth Ministry Podcast. We celebrate the leaders who show up early, stay late, and live to see every student grow in Christ. With real stories, practical wisdom, and honest conversations, we’re here to help you build deep and engaging youth ministries. Special Thanks: Powered by Word of Life Youth Ministries—on mission to help every student, everywhere, grow in their walk with Christ.
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Stacking Chairs #85 - How To Craft A Youth Ministry Plan That Outlives the Leader
05/14/2025
Stacking Chairs #85 - How To Craft A Youth Ministry Plan That Outlives the Leader
📅 New episodes drop on the 2nd and 4th Wednesday of every month! In this episode of Stacking Chairs, Josh and Kyle sit down with veteran youth pastor Chris Bowles to tackle the problem of “winging it” on Wednesday nights. Chris unpacks how a clear, written strategy moves students from unreached guests to core disciples and keeps ministry healthy when staff transition. Drawing on decades of local church experience and new tools from Word of Life, he explains how intentional planning frees leaders from burnout, empowers volunteers, and delivers consistent discipleship long after any one pastor leaves. Key Talking Points: ✅ Four levels of student growth – unreached, uncommitted, committed, core ✅ Personality driven ministry versus plan driven ministry ✅ Simple calendar hacks that ensure weekly touch points beyond Wednesday night ✅ Training volunteers to disciple so the pastor is not the bottleneck ✅ Metrics that matter more than attendance ✅ How Word of Life coaching and resources give churches a ready made roadmap Great Youth Ministry Resources: ✅ Youth Ministry Curriculum & Tools (start for free): 🔗 Find all things Stacking Chairs at: 📱 Join our Facebook Group: 📸 Instagram: @wol.youthministries 👍 Facebook: facebook.com/wolyouthministries ▶️ YouTube: youtube.com/@wolyouthministries 🌐 Website: youthministry.wol.org About Stacking Chairs: Welcome to Stacking Chairs: A Multiply Youth Ministry Podcast. We're here to equip and inspire youth leaders whether you run a youth group, a camp, or any ministry that reaches students for Christ. With practical insights and real life stories, we celebrate those who get there early, stay late, and literally stack the chairs. Join us as we encourage one another to lead well and impact the next generation. Keep stacking those chairs! Special Thanks: This episode is brought to you by Word of Life Youth Ministries. We help churches build deep and engaging youth ministries through coaching, curriculum, and creative Gospel events. Learn more about how we are on a mission to ensure Every Student, Everywhere Is Growing in Their Walk With Christ at Word of Life Youth Ministries.
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Stacking Chairs #84 – Answering the Call in Leadership
04/23/2025
Stacking Chairs #84 – Answering the Call in Leadership
📅 New episodes drop on the 2nd and 4th Wednesday of every month! 👉 DOWNLOAD FREE YOUTH MINISTRY LESSONS AND SHARE THE GOSPEL WITH MILLIONS: https://wol.to/mystory Episode Summary: In this episode of Stacking Chairs, Josh and Kyle welcome back Ethan Warren—a former assistant camp director turned behind-the-scenes operations leader at Word of Life. Together, they explore what it means to “answer the call” in ministry when the job you’re doing isn’t exactly the one you signed up for. From leadership lanes to filling gaps to letting go of your way of doing things, this episode challenges youth leaders to serve with humility, build systems that outlast them, and raise up others without burning out. Whether you’re a doer, a leader, or somewhere in between, this is a must-listen for anyone building sustainable, Gospel-centered ministry teams. Key Talking Points: ✅ Leader, Doer, or Facilitator? Knowing your lane ✅ How to fill ministry gaps without becoming irreplaceable ✅ Leading with grace when others drop the ball ✅ Avoiding resentment and burnout in leadership ✅ Letting others lead—even if they do it differently ✅ When to change the system—and when to let it go Great Youth Ministry Resources: ✅ Free Youth Ministry Curriculum & Tools: https://multiply.life 🔗 Find all things Stacking Chairs at: https://linktr.ee/StackingChairsPod 📱 Join our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1371987896934818 📸 Instagram: @wol.youthministries 👍 Facebook: facebook.com/wolyouthministries ▶️ YouTube: youtube.com/@wolyouthministries 🌐 Website: youthministry.wol.org About Stacking Chairs: Welcome to Stacking Chairs: A Multiply Youth Ministry Podcast. We're here to equip and inspire youth leaders—whether you're running a youth group, a camp, or any ministry that reaches students for Christ. With practical insights and real-life stories, we celebrate those who get there early, stay late, and literally stack the chairs. Join us as we challenge and encourage one another to lead well and impact the next generation. Keep stacking those chairs! Special Thanks: This episode is brought to you by Word of Life Youth Ministries. We help churches build deep and engaging youth ministries through coaching, curriculum, and creative Gospel events. Learn more about how we’re on a mission to ensure Every Student, Everywhere Is Growing In Their Walk With Christ at Word of Life Youth Ministries.
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Stacking Chairs #83 – Overcommitted: How to Balance Ministry, Family & Side Gigs Without Burning Out
04/08/2025
Stacking Chairs #83 – Overcommitted: How to Balance Ministry, Family & Side Gigs Without Burning Out
📅 New episodes drop on the 2nd and 4th Wednesday of every month! 👉 DOWNLOAD FREE YOUTH MINISTRY LESSONS AND SHARE THE GOSPEL WITH MILLIONS: https://wol.to/mystory Episode Summary: In this episode of Stacking Chairs, Josh and Kyle share real-life stories of juggling ministry demands, family responsibilities, and even side jobs—all without losing their minds (most days!). They explore what happens when you’re spinning more plates than you can handle, how to identify when you’re genuinely “overcommitted,” and why setting boundaries sometimes feels so difficult. Along the way, they offer practical insights for youth leaders who want to serve wholeheartedly yet avoid the burnout spiral. If your to-do list is growing faster than you can keep up, tune in for honest talk and a reminder that it’s okay to slow down and say “no” every once in a while. Key Talking Points: ✅ The Plate-Spinning Metaphor ✅ Choosing What Matters Most ✅ Healthy Boundaries & Delegation ✅ Avoiding Identity Traps ✅ Practical Tips to Beat Burnout Great Youth Ministry Resources: ✅ Free Youth Ministry Curriculum & Tools: 🔗 Find all things Stacking Chairs at: 📱 Join our Facebook Group: 📸 Instagram: 👍 Facebook: ▶️ YouTube: 🌐 Website: About Stacking Chairs: Welcome to Stacking Chairs: A Multiply Youth Ministry Podcast. We're here to equip and inspire youth leaders—whether you're running a youth group, a camp, or any ministry that reaches students for Christ. With practical insights and real-life stories, we celebrate those who get there early, stay late, and literally stack the chairs. Join us as we challenge and encourage one another to lead well and impact the next generation. Keep stacking those chairs! Special Thanks: This episode is brought to you by Word of Life Youth Ministries. We help churches build deep and engaging youth ministries through coaching, curriculum, and creative Gospel events. Learn more about how we’re on a mission to ensure Every Student, Everywhere Is Growing In Their Walk With Christ at .
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Stacking Chairs #82 – Leaving Well: How to Exit Ministry Roles with Grace & Integrity (Mike Bream)
03/26/2025
Stacking Chairs #82 – Leaving Well: How to Exit Ministry Roles with Grace & Integrity (Mike Bream)
📅 New episodes drop on the 2nd and 4th Wednesday of every month! 👉 DOWNLOAD FREE YOUTH MINISTRY LESSONS AND SHARE THE GOSPEL WITH MILLIONS: https://wol.to/mystory Episode Summary: In this episode of Stacking Chairs, we’re joined by ministry veteran Mike Bream to talk about something most leaders don’t think about until it’s too late—how to leave your ministry role well. Whether you're transitioning out of a healthy team, navigating a toxic environment, or just passing the baton to the next leader, how you exit matters. We unpack what it looks like to leave with grace, integrity, and a heart for the Church—not just your church. Key Talking Points: ✅ How much time should you take to pass the torch? ✅ Should you stay in the church after stepping down from staff? ✅ What does “leaving well” look like in a toxic ministry environment? ✅ Why your exit impacts your students—more than you think ✅ Leaving well whether your exit is public or private ✅ Stewarding your role for the good of the broader Church ✅ Overlapping and supporting the next leader coming in Great Youth Ministry Resources: ✅ Free Youth Ministry Curriculum & Tools: 🔗 Find all things Stacking Chairs at: 📱 Join our Facebook Group: 📸 Instagram: 👍 Facebook: ▶️ YouTube: 🌐 Website: About Stacking Chairs: Welcome to Stacking Chairs: A Multiply Youth Ministry Podcast. We're here to equip and inspire youth leaders—whether you're running a youth group, a camp, or any ministry that reaches students for Christ. With practical insights and real-life stories, we celebrate those who get there early, stay late, and literally stack the chairs. Join us as we challenge and encourage one another to lead well and impact the next generation. Keep stacking those chairs! Special Thanks: This episode is brought to you by Word of Life Youth Ministries. We help churches build deep and engaging youth ministries through coaching, curriculum, and creative Gospel events. Learn more about how we’re on a mission to ensure Every Student, Everywhere Is Growing In Their Walk With Christ at .
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Stacking Chairs #81 - Should We Split Youth Group? (Brent Finchum)
03/12/2025
Stacking Chairs #81 - Should We Split Youth Group? (Brent Finchum)
New episodes drop on the 2nd and 4th Wednesday of every month! 👉 DOWNLOAD FREE YOUTH MINISTRY LESSONS ARE SHARE THE GOSPEL WITH MILLIONS: https://wol.to/mystory In this episode of Stacking Chairs, we sit down with Brent Finchum to unpack the pros and cons of different youth group structures. We discuss factors like spiritual maturity, group dynamics, leadership capacity, and church culture that all play a role in deciding what’s best for your ministry. Key Talking Points: ✅ The benefits and drawbacks of splitting middle school and high school ✅ How group structure affects discipleship and spiritual growth ✅ What to consider before making a change ✅ Practical ways to help students transition between age groups ✅ How to engage older students in mentoring younger ones Great Youth Ministry Resources: • Free Youth Ministry Resources: https://multiply.life Join the Conversation: How do you handle disruptive behavior in your youth group? Share your thoughts in the comments or send us a message on social media! Let’s learn from one another and grow together. Join our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1371987896934818 Instagram: @wol.youthministries Facebook: facebook.com/wolyouthministries YouTube: youtube.com/@wolyouthministries Website: youthministry.wol.org About Stacking Chairs: Welcome to Stacking Chairs: A Multiply Youth Ministry Podcast. We're here to equip and inspire youth leaders—whether you're running a youth group, a camp, or any ministry that reaches students for Christ. With practical insights and real-life stories, we celebrate those who get there early, stay late, and literally stack the chairs. Join us as we challenge and encourage one another to lead well and impact the next generation. Keep stacking those chairs! Special Thanks: This episode is brought to you by Word of Life Youth Ministries. We help churches build deep and engaging youth ministries through coaching, curriculum, and creative Gospel events. Learn more about how we’re on a mission to ensure Every Student, Everywhere Is Growing In Their Walk With Christ at Word of Life Youth Ministries.
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Stacking Chairs #80 - How To Handle Disruptive Kids In Youth Group
02/27/2025
Stacking Chairs #80 - How To Handle Disruptive Kids In Youth Group
👉 DOWNLOAD FREE YOUTH MINISTRY LESSONS ARE SHARE THE GOSPEL WITH MILLIONS: Navigating disruptive behavior in youth ministry is no easy task. From getting kids to pay attention during sermons to addressing behavior that might require asking a student to step away temporarily, these situations can feel overwhelming. But they’re also an opportunity to lead with grace, truth, and a focus on restoration. In this episode of Stacking Chairs, hosts Josh Paulhamus and Kyle Gray are joined by guest Eric Gill to discuss real-life scenarios and practical strategies for managing disruptive behavior in youth group and camp settings. They share personal stories, proven techniques like the “three-strike rule,” and insights into balancing discipline with ministry values. Whether you’re a veteran youth leader or just starting out, this episode is packed with wisdom to help you lead effectively without losing trust. Key Talking Points: • How to get kids to pay attention during sermons 📖 • When and how to ask a student to step away temporarily 🚦 • How long a student should be asked to take a break from camp or youth group ⏳ • The importance of balancing discipline and grace in youth ministry ⚖️ • Personal stories of tough conversations with students and parents 🗣 Great Youth Ministry Resources: • Free Youth Ministry Resources: Join the Conversation: How do you handle disruptive behavior in your youth group? Share your thoughts in the comments or send us a message on social media! Let’s learn from one another and grow together. Find all things Stacking Chairs at Join our Facebook Group: Instagram: @wol.youthministries Facebook: YouTube: Website: About Stacking Chairs: Welcome to Stacking Chairs: A Multiply Youth Ministry Podcast. We're here to equip and inspire youth leaders—whether you're running a youth group, a camp, or any ministry that reaches students for Christ. With practical insights and real-life stories, we celebrate those who get there early, stay late, and literally stack the chairs. Join us as we challenge and encourage one another to lead well and impact the next generation. Keep stacking those chairs! Special Thanks: This episode is brought to you by Word of Life Youth Ministries. We help churches build deep and engaging youth ministries through coaching, curriculum, and creative Gospel events. Learn more about how we’re on a mission to ensure Every Student, Everywhere Is Growing In Their Walk With Christ at .
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Ep. 79 His Mom Made Him do It
12/13/2023
Ep. 79 His Mom Made Him do It
Kyle talks with a student who started coming to camp because his mom made him and is now a Bible Institute student at Word of Life. Find all things Stacking Chairs at
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Ep. 78 Texting Language & Disunity
12/06/2023
Ep. 78 Texting Language & Disunity
We play a game to start the episode seeing how well we know the texting lingo of the day. We then talk about disunity amongst students in your youth ministry. Find all things Stacking Chairs at
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Ep. 77 Being a Spouse of Someone in Ministry Part 2
11/29/2023
Ep. 77 Being a Spouse of Someone in Ministry Part 2
Kyle's wife Nicola joins us on this week's episode! This is part 2 of this episode. Find all things Stacking Chairs at Join the community in our Linktree link above to stay connected as well
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Ep. 76 Being a Spouse of Someone in Ministry Part 1
11/22/2023
Ep. 76 Being a Spouse of Someone in Ministry Part 1
Kyle's wife Nicola joins us on this week's episode! Find all things Stacking Chairs at Join the community in our Linktree link above to stay connected as well
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Ep. 75 We Already Talked About This
11/15/2023
Ep. 75 We Already Talked About This
A special episode where the whole thing is one giant "small group" Find more at Join us for Pursuit Camp
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Ep. 74 Reverb & Evangelistic Events
11/01/2023
Ep. 74 Reverb & Evangelistic Events
Have you been to a Word of Life Reverb event? We think it could be the perfect outreach event for your youth group! Mentioned Resources: reverb.wol.org https://linktr.ee/StackingChairsPod
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Ep. 73 Mental Health and the Church
10/25/2023
Ep. 73 Mental Health and the Church
Krissie speaks with us about mental health and how it's seen in the church. Do we talk about it enough or too much? Find all things Stacking Chairs here Mentioned Resources:
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Ep. 72 The Other 99
10/18/2023
Ep. 72 The Other 99
We all focus and identify with the "one" in the parable of the lost sheep, but what about the care of the other 99? Find all things Stacking Chairs at
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Ep. 71 The "Ideal" Student
10/11/2023
Ep. 71 The "Ideal" Student
There's no such thing as the perfect student; but what are we doing to train up the next generation? Find all things Stacking Chairs at Mentioned Resources: wol.is/pursuit camps.wol.org
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Ep. 70 The "Ideal" Leader
10/04/2023
Ep. 70 The "Ideal" Leader
Hypothetically, what does the ideal leader look like in your youth ministry? We talk about building a list and how to be intentional in working with others! Mentioned Resources: wol.is/reverb Find all things Stacking Chairs at
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Ep. 69 The Responsibility of Sharing the Gospel
09/27/2023
Ep. 69 The Responsibility of Sharing the Gospel
Jack Wyrtzen, Word of Life's founder, believed that each generation is responsible for reaching their generation with the Gospel. How are you equipping others and yourself with that mission? Find all things Stacking Chairs at
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Ep. 68 The Key to Kick-Offs
09/20/2023
Ep. 68 The Key to Kick-Offs
It's fall and it's time for kick-offs! What does the start of a new school year look like for your ministry? Find all things Stacking Chairs at Mentioned Resources:
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(Revisited) Ep. 51 Watch Your Mouth
09/06/2023
(Revisited) Ep. 51 Watch Your Mouth
We'll be back with a new episode next week! Check out the new community and all things Stacking Chairs at
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Ep. 67 Helping Students with Peer Pressure
08/30/2023
Ep. 67 Helping Students with Peer Pressure
Peer pressure is common for all of us, but how do we equip the students in our ministries and our homes to deal with that pressure? Find all things Stacking Chairs at
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Ep. 66 A Worthwhile Foundation
08/23/2023
Ep. 66 A Worthwhile Foundation
Brian Tanedo shares with us how foundational an undergraduate program like the Word of Life Bible Institute can be! Join us on campus and learn more at Find all things Stacking Chairs at
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