Problematic Gays

Hosts Christopher Stanley and Sergio Moyer have been gay for more than 25 years; that's collectively 50 years of gay life! In addition to being gay, we’re practically wild animals – BEARS. From both of us working at the Happiest Place on Earth, to backpacking through Europe and traveling the world, living in different countries, to surviving a stroke, gay divorce and complex family relationships. Together we explore and help you navigate the waters of Problematic Gay life. From sex parties, music festivals, divorce, medical recovery, and a dash of magic mushrooms all the way to the most embarrassing moments in life we help navigate it all. Join us on Fridays for laughs, tears, unsolicited advice from your favorite Problematic Gays.

Premature Epijaculet If 07/12/2024

Premature Epijaculet If In this Short episode Sergio share two songs. We will be returning to our full episodes soon. /episode/index/show/b6b15e35-9806-4d1c-a020-117c4820e3af/id/32089792

Coloradical 06/28/2024

Coloradical Hold on to your hiking boots! In this hilarious episode, hosts Christopher and Sergio unravel the epic saga of Christopher’s trip to Colorado. Expect tales of majestic mountains, bizarre mishaps, and enough drama to rival a reality TV show. Tune in for a comedy-packed episode that proves travel isn’t always picture-perfect – but it’s always entertaining! /episode/index/show/b6b15e35-9806-4d1c-a020-117c4820e3af/id/31903862

Two Songs and Some Tea 06/21/2024

Two Songs and Some Tea In this tiny episode Sergio shares two songs and brings up The Mike Pence Tractor Gate. /episode/index/show/b6b15e35-9806-4d1c-a020-117c4820e3af/id/31811842

Hi, I’m your date’s Husband 06/14/2024

Hi, I’m your date’s Husband Join us for another dive into the nuances of gay dating and not so clear communication. Christopher and Sergio discuss problematic issues that hit close to home. Come listen, laugh and maybe even judge (I mean reflect) on all this nonsense. /episode/index/show/b6b15e35-9806-4d1c-a020-117c4820e3af/id/31740397

Make Your Own Theatre 06/07/2024

Make Your Own Theatre It’s Pride Month! We have two special guests in this episode along with some insights on having a deeper connection in places you wouldn’t think. Join us for a moment of humor with Hot Tea, fun songs and your favorite Problematic Gays. /episode/index/show/b6b15e35-9806-4d1c-a020-117c4820e3af/id/31577322

Here To Take Away Nut Pain 05/31/2024

Here To Take Away Nut Pain You’ll find this episode to be short and sweet (depending on your tastebuds). Hurry and Subscribe but don't hurt your nuts in the hustle. /episode/index/show/b6b15e35-9806-4d1c-a020-117c4820e3af/id/31546247

Healing, But It Still Can Hurt 05/24/2024

Healing, But It Still Can Hurt In this uproarious episode of Problematic Gays, join hosts Christopher and Sergio as they oscillate wildly between the utterly absurd and the deeply profound. One minute they’re laughing and the next they’re unpacking the real talk about healing from trauma—because getting better doesn't always mean everything's okay. Strap in or strap on and join us! /episode/index/show/b6b15e35-9806-4d1c-a020-117c4820e3af/id/31422407

Mother's Day Buffet 05/17/2024

Mother's Day Buffet Christopher and Sergio share their Mother's Day misadventures. Christopher details a disastrous buffet experience. The episode heats up with Christopher’s shocking tale from a past seduction attempt by a woman and her husband, leading to an awkward reunion at a convention 10+ years later. From salacious scandals being discussed to unfounded conclusions, it’s an episode full of surprises and laughs. Subscribe today and join us weekly! /episode/index/show/b6b15e35-9806-4d1c-a020-117c4820e3af/id/31358362

Big Titty Latinas 05/10/2024

Big Titty Latinas In this enchanting episode of Problematic Gays, Christopher welcomes his good friend Anthony to fill in for Sergio, who's off to training. Together, they dive into the magical world of Disneyland, sharing hilarious stories and bizarre happenings from the happiest place on Earth. But it's not all fun and games; they also tackle the intricate complexities of raising a young adult in today's world. Tune in for a rollercoaster ride of laughs, insights, and unexpected twists in this must-listen episode! /episode/index/show/b6b15e35-9806-4d1c-a020-117c4820e3af/id/31212852

Entry Denied 04/26/2024

Entry Denied Join Christopher and Sergio on their journey of laughter as they delve into the depths of trauma and healing. With Sergio's hilarious antics, like getting denied re-entry to a concert, and Christopher's tales of dating woes and undeniable attractions, this podcast offers a unique blend of humor and heartfelt storytelling. Get ready to laugh, cry, and maybe even learn a thing or two about navigating life's ups and downs. Follow us and subscribe today. /episode/index/show/b6b15e35-9806-4d1c-a020-117c4820e3af/id/30973793

P Did It 04/19/2024

P Did It In this episode, Christopher and Sergio unpack the recent events regarding P Diddy, delving into the scandal and its implications, tackling topics like the vulnerability of children and the complexities of trauma. Join them as they navigate these discussions alongside Christopher's adventures, from cruising with Virgin Cruise Lines to exploring the world with DNR travel family. Subscribe today and don’t miss an episode. /episode/index/show/b6b15e35-9806-4d1c-a020-117c4820e3af/id/30853058

Before The Sail 04/05/2024

Before The Sail Havd you subscribed yet? Today is the day to do it! Join Christopher and Sergio on their latest episode for laughs and some great discussions. They're definately not PC but FUNNY they are. /episode/index/show/b6b15e35-9806-4d1c-a020-117c4820e3af/id/30702238

Why Are You Dating a 5? 03/28/2024

Why Are You Dating a 5? In a world where dating can often feel like navigating a minefield of insecurities and expectations, Christopher shares his candid experiences and insights into the all-too-familiar phenomenon of facing criticism and attempts to tear one down before a date. With humor and vunerability, he explores the challenges of maintaining self-confidence and resilience, offering valuable tips for reclaiming one's power ad authenticity. But the conversation doesn't stop there. Sergio sheds light on his intriguing role as a repo man for Christopher's company. As the discussion deepens, the hosts delve into the profound topic of processing through trauma and finding meaning in life's most challenging moments. Listen and subscribe today. /episode/index/show/b6b15e35-9806-4d1c-a020-117c4820e3af/id/30590548

Doggy Style with the Dog Walker 03/22/2024

Doggy Style with the Dog Walker Tune into our latest episode where Sergio delves into the intricate dynamics a large family, shedding light on the joys and challenges that come with it. Meanwhile, Christopher hilariously recounts his nightmare date, complete with an unexpected canine companion. But that's not all- brace yourself for the shocking tale of an employee at Christopher's company who finds themselves in hot water for engaging in som every inappropriate office behavior. Subscbribe today. /episode/index/show/b6b15e35-9806-4d1c-a020-117c4820e3af/id/30486743

Not My Monkeys, Not My Circus 03/15/2024

Not My Monkeys, Not My Circus Get ready for a rollercoaster of laughs as Christopher spills the beans on his wild Vegas adventure to catch Madonna's show –and yes, there were chai-smoking escapades involved! Joined by a cast of characters that make the Hangover crew look tame, Christopher's invited guests bring a whole new meaning to the term "entertainment." In a surprising turn, Sergio dives deep into the trauma segment, sharing his unique perspective on loss, while Christopher hilariously recountslosing his father in a way that only he can. Buckle up for a podcast that's part comedy, part chaos, and 100% unforgettable! /episode/index/show/b6b15e35-9806-4d1c-a020-117c4820e3af/id/30362108

No Shirt in the Bathroom 03/08/2024

No Shirt in the Bathroom In this episode, Christopher bravely explores the journey of resolving deep-seated trauma connected to his mother, while Sergio, on 'no tea, no shade', unveils Tina's shocking discovery of her ex-husband's hidden truth through a Grindr catfish reveal. Brace yourself for real conversations, emotional revelations, and a deeper understanding of the complexities within our dynamic relationships. Listen and subscribe today. /episode/index/show/b6b15e35-9806-4d1c-a020-117c4820e3af/id/30258013

Vocabulary Lesson from the Gayborhood 03/01/2024

Vocabulary Lesson from the Gayborhood Christopher, an avid Bluey watcher, shares hysterical gossip about the beloved animated series then some Tea on power lifting. Later Christopher and Sergio delve into a delightful vocabulary lesson from the Gayborhood but not before recounting how some of the Tea got spilled and burned all around. Get ready for an entertaining exploration of language, laughter and how this all connects us. /episode/index/show/b6b15e35-9806-4d1c-a020-117c4820e3af/id/30167913

Yes, Problematic 02/23/2024

Yes, Problematic Join Christopher and Sergio in the latest episode of 'Problematic Gays' as they navigate through a sea of drama. Christopher delicately revisits a previous episode, shedding light on the complexities of human behavior. Get ready for an insightful journey into the nuances of relationships and the challenges they bring, all delivered with a touch of humor and understanding. Subscribe today on your favorite platform and don’t miss the laughs and insights. /episode/index/show/b6b15e35-9806-4d1c-a020-117c4820e3af/id/30074063

In the closet and out 02/16/2024

In the closet and out Join us on Problematic Gays as special guest Anthony takes us on a heartfelt journey, sharing the intricacies of navigating a previous heterosexual relationship while acknowledging his true, homosexual identity. Delve into the challenges he faced and discover insights on coming to terms with authenticity and self-discovery. Listen and subscribe to our new episodes every week. /episode/index/show/b6b15e35-9806-4d1c-a020-117c4820e3af/id/29977373

Returning from Bear Week 02/09/2024

Returning from Bear Week In this riveting episode, Christopher shares the highs and lows of his week-long escapade in Puerto Vallarta. Join the conversation as they delve into the delectable experience of indulging in bear week festivities. However, the tone takes a serious turn as the hosts discuss the pitfalls of drug use and the chaos of unorganized events during their trip. Get ready for an emotional rollercoaster as the aftermath of a friendship fallout, revealing the shocking revelation of one friend attempting to sleep with another's husband. Meanwhile, back in San Diego, Sergio, recounts his time spent with family during his grandma's recovery. Tune in for candid conversations and personal revelations. Listen and subscribe today. /episode/index/show/b6b15e35-9806-4d1c-a020-117c4820e3af/id/29810018

Sweet Tea Family 01/26/2024

Sweet Tea Family Get ready for a wild ride with Problematic Gays! Join Christopher, his loud and proud aunt, and his cousin from Tennessee as they bring Southern charm and sass. Will they spill the sweet tea on Christopher's life? Tune in to find out what happened and catch Sergio on his journey to the Bay Area to see his 'special friend' – it's the podcast where family, friends, and bras collide! /episode/index/show/b6b15e35-9806-4d1c-a020-117c4820e3af/id/29657243

Ursula’s Tentacles 01/19/2024

Ursula’s Tentacles Join Christopher and Sergio in this lively podcast episode as they welcome their professional dog sitter friend, Kathleen, all the way from Pasadena. Get ready for some intriguing tea in the No Tea, No Shade segment, where Christopher spills a story with tentacles. Subscribe now to catch all the antics and laughter! /episode/index/show/b6b15e35-9806-4d1c-a020-117c4820e3af/id/29533453

No Invite No Threesome 01/12/2024

No Invite No Threesome Christopher explores his experiences in Denver and the dynamics of friendship drama. The complexities of having friends falling out with each other and having to be a neutral party. On No Tea No Shade The takeaway seems to be on the importance of receiving a clear invitation. Come laugh at us if not with us on this episode of Problematic Gays. Hit the subscribe button and don’t miss another show. /episode/index/show/b6b15e35-9806-4d1c-a020-117c4820e3af/id/29362068

The New Year is upon us 01/05/2024

The New Year is upon us In this episode of Problematic Gays, Christopher gears up for a New Year celebration in Denver, while Sergio opts for a cozy celebration at home in San Diego. Join them for some lively discussions and reflections as they say good bye to 2023. Follow Us on Facebook, Problematic Gays or visit /episode/index/show/b6b15e35-9806-4d1c-a020-117c4820e3af/id/29357703

A Word From The Hosts 12/29/2023

A Word From The Hosts 2023 is coming to an end and Sergio and Christopher have a few final thoughts as they round out the year. Join them in January for all new episodes. Follow Christopher and Sergio on social media and visit . /episode/index/show/b6b15e35-9806-4d1c-a020-117c4820e3af/id/29265938

Off to Orlando 12/22/2023

Off to Orlando Christopher and Sergio are off to an unforgettable adventure as they lead a lively group of 20 people under one roof to celebrate Christopher's 40th birthday in Orlando. Listen as they explore a grand mansion with hidden passages and rooms, creating unexpected moments and confessions. They dive into the enchanting world of Disney and the thrilling rides at Universal Studios, all while enjoying food, drinks, and hilarious escapades. For an exclusive look at their journey, follow Christopher and Sergio on social media and visit . Get ready for a celebration like no other! /episode/index/show/b6b15e35-9806-4d1c-a020-117c4820e3af/id/29199398

Friendship Reunion 12/19/2023

Friendship Reunion Christopher and Sergio chat the night away with Dusty again Come join us on another episode where we dive into the inner workings of our friendship. Dusty, Sergio and Christopher will bring you to the edge of tears and side splitting laughter in this episode. /episode/index/show/b6b15e35-9806-4d1c-a020-117c4820e3af/id/29126268

Unsolicited Advice -Encore 12/15/2023

Unsolicited Advice -Encore We took a week off because we are traving but we will have a new episode for you in a couple of days. Our First Episode! We talk about the shenanigans you can find yourself in at Folsom Street Fair. Christopher’s Awesome Halloween party where his Grindr DL neighbor’s son get outed for being a dominant curious top. /episode/index/show/b6b15e35-9806-4d1c-a020-117c4820e3af/id/29092903

Cruises and Snafus 12/01/2023

Cruises and Snafus Christopher embarked on a European adventure, starting with a cruise under an Italian-owned company that left much to be desired in terms of customer service. Unfazed, he hopped on another cruise, this time with a familiar and reliable NCL cruise company, ensuring a much more enjoyable experience. Their plans for a Mexican Riviera cruise hit a snag with a last-minute cancellation. Undeterred, the dynamic duo turned the setback into an opportunity and crafted an unforgettable vacation in Mexico City. /episode/index/show/b6b15e35-9806-4d1c-a020-117c4820e3af/id/28843978

The Heartache of Love 11/25/2023

The Heartache of Love In this emotionally charged episode, join Christopher and Sergio as they bravely open up about the intimate details of their breakups in an impromptu discussion. Despite the unique circumstances that led to their separations, they explore the universal threads of pain and resilience that bind us all. Of course all with hot tea and lots of laughs along the way, this is an episode you don’t want to miss. /episode/index/show/b6b15e35-9806-4d1c-a020-117c4820e3af/id/28766338

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