Charisms for Catholics with Jill Simons
How effective would a company be where only about 5% of people knew their job description? Not very. And yet this is what we see in the Church right now - many people know they are a part of the Body of Christ but very few have a clear sense of what role they play - if they even realize they play a role at all. Charisms for Catholics helps you identify, value, and invest in where the Holy Spirit is moving in your life and to partner with Him to build the Church by embracing your specific role in the Body of Christ. Produced by Many Parts Ministries.
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Ep 190 - Helping Incarcerated People Discern their Charisms
08/13/2026
Ep 190 - Helping Incarcerated People Discern their Charisms
In this episode of Charisms for Catholics, Jill Simons shares the story behind the new “Where the Spirit Is” resource, specially designed for prison ministry. Born from Jill's personal experiences and long-standing passion for charisms, this initiative aims to help incarcerated men and women discover their spiritual gifts and find purpose, even within prison walls. She discusses the challenges of creating an accessible, non-digital assessment tailored for the unique circumstances of incarceration, the desire to serve all denominations, and the hope that this tool will empower both prison ministers and those they serve. This episode will encourage you to spread the word, pray for prison ministry, and join the movement to bring the freedom of the Holy Spirit to those most in need! 01:32 - Personal Struggle and the Role of Charisms 02:57 - Inspiration for Prison Ministry Resources 05:15 - Challenges Creating Charism Resources for Prisons 06:47 - Designing Accessible, Paper-Based Assessments 09:02 - Distribution and Application Process 12:46 - The Resource "Where the Spirit Is" and Closing Reflections Learn more about charisms and charism discernment at
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Ep 189 - Comparing Every List of Charisms We Can Find
08/06/2026
Ep 189 - Comparing Every List of Charisms We Can Find
In this episode of Charisms for Catholics, Jill Simons dives deep into the many different lists of charisms or spiritual gifts used across Catholic ministries! Drawing on her experience at Many Parts Ministries, Jill compares and contrasts seven popular lists—including biblical sources, the Catherine of Siena Institute’s Called and Gifted program, diocesan inventories, and charismatic renewal approaches—to highlight why certain gifts are included or combined, and how these choices shape our understanding of the Holy Spirit’s work in the Church. Focusing on clarity and practical discernment, she encourages listeners to find the resources that serve them best, emphasizing that diversity in charism frameworks is both expected and valuable within the Body of Christ. Whether you're new to charism discernment or looking to deepen your understanding, this episode provides a thoughtful look at how different models can help you discover and live out your God-given gifts! 00:39 — Introduction to Charism Lists and Models 03:20 — Overview of Seven Popular Charism Lists 04:49 — Distinguishing Isaiah Gifts from Charisms 06:02 — Grouping of Charisms: Romans and Corinthians 10:25 — Comparison with Catherine of Siena Institute’s 24 Charisms 12:13— Diocese of Cleveland’s Parish-Focused Charism List 22:01— Digital Communications and Contemporary Charisms Learn more about charisms and charism discernment at
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Ep 188 - What to Do When You Have No Idea How to Test a Charism
07/30/2026
Ep 188 - What to Do When You Have No Idea How to Test a Charism
In this episode of Charisms for Catholics, host Jill Simons focuses on how Catholics can discern and test charisms—spiritual gifts—especially when they aren’t sure how to do so. She discuses the unique challenge of testing "lifestyle" or "ways of being" charisms such as voluntary poverty and celibacy, which may not provide obvious external confirmation. She also discuses practical, approachable strategies, including using one’s calendar to identify opportunities for discernment and offering upcoming life activities to the Holy Spirit for testing. Tune in to explore the importance of giving God space to move, attentiveness to His responses, and finding support through spiritual mentors when needed! 00:56 – Introducing the Challenge: How Do You Test a Charism You Don’t Know How to Test? 01:38 – Hard-to-Test Charisms: Wisdom, Knowledge, Voluntary Poverty & Celibacy 03:15 – Fruits of Detachment: How Lifestyle Charisms Amplify Others 05:17 – Universal Guideline: Use Your Calendar for Discernment 06:45 – Trusting the Holy Spirit: Offering Upcoming Days for Testing 10:00 – The Key to Discernment: Pay Attention When Testing 13:03 – Real-Life Example: Discovering the Charism of Knowledge Over Lunch Learn more about charisms and charism discernment at
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Ep 187 - The Five Questions: What scope is God giving me for my mission?
07/23/2026
Ep 187 - The Five Questions: What scope is God giving me for my mission?
In this episode of "Charisms for Catholics," we delve into discerning the specific scope that God is inviting each person to embrace in their mission. We discuss the importance of finding both confidence and peace in understanding the unique area of influence entrusted by God, whether it be within a family, small group, parish, or even a broader platform. Tune in to explore the significance of naming and valuing one’s current mission, the spiritual fruit of peace that flows from this clarity, and the variety of tools and resources available to assist us in this journey of discernment! 01:01 - The Fifth Essential Question—What Scope is God Giving You for Your Mission? 01:48 - Embracing Peace by Accepting Your God-Given Responsibilities 02:29 - Ground Rule—Bigger Scope Doesn’t Mean More Importance 03:23 - The Holy Spirit’s Desire to Move at Every Level of Influence 04:39 - Recognizing That Scope Is Not Static and May Change with Seasons 06:16 - The Value and Spiritual Significance of Small Scopes 11:56 - Peace and Joy Found in Accepting the Unique Scope of Your Mission Learn more about charisms and charism discernment at
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Ep 186 - The Five Questions: What is my Season in life?
07/16/2026
Ep 186 - The Five Questions: What is my Season in life?
In this episode of "Charisms for Catholics," we focus on discerning one’s current season in life as a key aspect of understanding how to live out one’s calling and utilize spiritual gifts or charisms. One concept discussed is how different stages—such as childhood, young adulthood, marriage, religious life, or parenthood—shape both God’s invitations and the opportunities available for ministry and service. We explore the importance of recognizing the practical realities of one’s season and aligning expectations and commitments accordingly, rather than comparing oneself to the perceptions or opinions of others. Tune in to delve into personal discernment, self-awareness, and vocation-centered decision-making help clarify where the Holy Spirit is drawing each individual within their present circumstances! 00:46 — Introducing the Five Questions and Mission Clarity 01:41 — Seasons of Life and the Vocational Journey 02:55 — Varieties of Vocational Seasons: Marriage, Infertility, and Religious Life 03:35 — God’s Call is Grounded in Reality 05:03 — Discerning Commitments According to Your Current Season 07:15 — Personal Story: Ministry, Motherhood, and Internal Discernment 10:23 — Prioritizing Vocation While Discerning Charisms and Commitments Learn more about charisms and charism discernment at
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Ep 185 - The Five Questions: What is my Passion?
07/09/2026
Ep 185 - The Five Questions: What is my Passion?
In this episode of "Charisms for Catholics," Jill centers the conversation on the question, "What is my passion?" One concept discussed is how passion, particularly when aligned with individual charisms, helps clarify where and how a person is called to serve within the Church. We also explore our uniqueness, how individuals with similar charisms can express them through vastly different passions and missions and the importance of reflecting on passion alongside identity and charisms to achieve greater mission clarity. This episode highlights key questions that help us discern further and find mission clarity through charisms! 00:51 – Introducing the Question: What Is My Passion? 01:53 – Secular Perspectives on Passion Versus Skill 02:25 – The Unique Expression of Charisms and Passion 03:35 – Mercy, Passion, and Specific Communities 07:07 – Discerning Passion Within Each Charism 10:13 – Moving From Charism Discovery to Practical Engagement 15:07 – Mission Clarity and Brainstorming Passions Learn more about charisms and charism discernment at
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Ep 184: The Five Questions: What are my Charisms?
07/02/2026
Ep 184: The Five Questions: What are my Charisms?
This episode of "Charisms for Catholics," focuses on the essential question, "What are my charisms?" as part of a series exploring five foundational questions for Catholics discerning their spiritual gifts. Host Jill Simons delves into the importance of understanding the big categories of charisms as a starting point for recognizing how the Holy Spirit is active in one's life and where He is inviting further participation in building the Church. She explores the diversity and unique expressions of each charism, emphasizing that discovering and naming one's charisms helps individuals value and invest in their God-given gifts, as well as the challenges of recognizing personal contributions in today's fragmented society and the significance of connecting with those gifts to experience a renewed sense of purpose. If you are interested in your charisms and furthing your discernment journey, you do not want to miss this episode! 00:56 — Introducing the Essential Question: What Are My Charisms? 01:19 — Understanding the Foundational Role of Charisms 02:14 — Diversity Within Charisms: More Than Meets the Eye 03:40 — How to Begin Discerning Your Charisms 05:01 — Rediscovering Purpose in a Fragmented Society 07:19 — Naming, Valuing, and Investing in Your Charisms 09:11 — Moving Forward: Applying Charisms Through Passion, Season, and Scope Learn more about charisms and charism discernment at
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Ep 183 - The Five Questions: What is my Identity?
06/25/2026
Ep 183 - The Five Questions: What is my Identity?
In today's episode of Charisms for Catholics, Jill emphasizes the importance of the foundational question of identity for Catholics, exploring why understanding one's identity is vital for living with purpose and peace. Jill explores how often people build their lives on unexamined assumptions about their identity, sourced from relationships, achievements, and struggles, as well as practical tools like the charism assessment and new resources, including the upcoming book "Mission Clarity," designed to help Catholics reflect on who they are in light of their faith. If you're interested in discussing the common challenges in forming a healthy sense of self, spiritual ways to diagnose identity gaps, and encouragement to allow God to heal and strengthen the foundation of identity before building one's mission, this episode is perfect for you! 02:35 — The Foundational Role of Identity 04:33 — Performative Good vs. True Identity 06:23 — The Charism Assessment Approach to Identity 07:32 — Three Organic Sources of Identity: Relationships, Achievements, Struggles 08:38 — Diagnosing Identity through Truth and Church Teaching 13:17 — Building a Seaworthy Foundation Before Mission 16:14 — Overcoming Identity Attachments: A Personal Story Learn more about charisms and charism discernment at
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Ep 182 - The Five Essential Questions
06/18/2026
Ep 182 - The Five Essential Questions
In this episode of Charisms for Catholics, we focus on the five essential questions that guide the process of charism discernment for Catholics! We discuss how these questions move beyond simply identifying spiritual gifts to include deeper reflection on identity, passion, life season, and the unique mission God is calling each person to. A key theme in this episode is the importance of specificity in discerning not just what one’s charisms are, but also how, where, and for whom those gifts are meant to be used. We also emphasize how addressing all five questions leads to greater clarity and helps prevent burnout by ensuring that service is compatible with one's current life circumstances! 01:16 — Seeking New Insights from God About Charisms 02:07 — The Five Essential Questions Unveiled 03:26 — Defining the Five Questions for Discernment 05:31 — Considering Season, Passion, and Scope in Discernment 07:20 — Deepening Clarity Beyond Initial Charism Discovery 10:01 — Applying Charism Discernment to Practical Life Scenarios Learn more about charisms and charism discernment at
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Ep 181 - All About Prophecy: Modes of Receiving Prophetic Words
06/11/2026
Ep 181 - All About Prophecy: Modes of Receiving Prophetic Words
In this episode of Charisms for Catholics, jill focuses on the different ways Catholics can receive prophetic communication and how to discern whether a word is truly from the Holy Spirit! One concept discussed was the categorization of prophetic experiences into visions and locutions, each with three forms: corporeal, imaginative, and intellectual. Jill also discusses how God can use any of the senses to speak to people, the importance of not discounting unusual modes of reception like physical impressions or dreams, and the value of communal discernment when sharing prophetic words. A key theme from this episode is the "imperfect prophet principle"—emphasizing humility, accurate sharing of what is received, and careful interpretation—so that prophecy serves the body of Christ with clarity and charity. 00:28 — Introduction to Prophecy Part 2 01:27 — Modes of Prophetic Communication 03:36 — Three Types of Visions 09:05 — Three Types of Locutions 13:31 — Summary of Vision and Locution Modalities 14:41— The Role of Dreams and Sensory Impressions 21:23 — The Imperfect Prophet Principle and Discernment Learn more about charisms and charism discernment at
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Ep 180 - All About Prophecy: Kinds of Prophecy
06/04/2026
Ep 180 - All About Prophecy: Kinds of Prophecy
In this episode of Charisms for Catholics, Jill dives deep into the charism of prophecy, unpacking its different types and how they function within the Catholic tradition. Learn all about the distinctions between prophecy, words of knowledge, and words of wisdom, while also discovering why discernment is essential in understanding prophetic gifts. Drawing from Thomas Aquinas and practical ministry experience, this episode clarifies common confusions about prophecy and highlights how these gifts operate independently of personal holiness. Whether you’re discerning your own charisms or eager to understand how God speaks through others, this episode offers clear insights and practical guidance! 00:35 – Introduction to the Charism of Prophecy 01:47 – Three Charisms Related to Prophecy 02:37 – Prophecy as an Umbrella Charism 04:57 – Words of Knowledge Explained 08:01 – Words of Wisdom and Their Distinction 14:30 – Aquinas’ Teaching: Charisms and State of Grace 19:28 – Preview of Next Episode: Modes of Prophetic Communication Learn more about charisms and charism discernment at
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Ep 179 - How Do You Rediscern Your Charisms?
05/28/2026
Ep 179 - How Do You Rediscern Your Charisms?
In this episode of Charisms for Catholics, Jill Simons explores the topic of rediscerning your charisms—how to approach reassessment, when it might be necessary, and what to do with new or unchanged results. As life circumstances shift or time passes, it's important to periodically reflect on how the Holy Spirit is working in and through you! Jill shares practical guidelines for when to retake your charism assessment, how to interpret changes (or consistency) in the results, and encourages listeners to use new insights as invitations from God for new missions or renewed faithfulness. The episode also highlights community resources and support for anyone seeking further clarity on their spiritual gifts! 01:11 - When Should You Retake the Charism Assessment? 03:05 - Identity Shifts and Charism Assessment 04:44 - The Importance of Regular Charism Checkups 06:12 - What To Do With New Results 10:00 - a New Charism Emerges 12:57 - Navigating Confusing or Mixed Results Learn more about charisms and charism discernment at
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Ep 178 - Fire 50: Victory - Heather Khym
05/21/2026
Ep 178 - Fire 50: Victory - Heather Khym
In this episode for Fire50, Jill Simons welcomes Heather Khym from the Abiding Together podcast to discuss the theme of victory in the Christian life. The conversation explores what true spiritual victory looks like—rooted in dependence on God rather than self-reliance—and how personal healing, vulnerability, and detachment from old beliefs lead to deeper union with Christ. Jill and Heather share personal stories of overcoming fear and anxiety, highlight the power and necessity of community and accompaniment, and offer encouragement for those seeking transformational healing. The episode also touches on practical steps for living from the victory Christ has already won, featuring insights on trust, prayer, and the richness of scripture in the journey of faith! 01:14 - Introducing Heather Khym & Her Ministry 03:33 - Understanding Victory and Dependence on God 07:24 - Personal Story: Moving from Self-Reliance to Trust 12:54 - The Grafting Metaphor: Detachment and Deep Union 20:42 - Victory over Fear: Healing and Freedom in Christ 25:47 - Encouragement for Those Struggling to Let Go Enroll in our Fire 50 program at Learn more about charisms and charism discernment at
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Ep 177 - Fire 50: Boldness - Rachel Herbeck
05/14/2026
Ep 177 - Fire 50: Boldness - Rachel Herbeck
In this episode for Fire50, host Jill Simons welcomes Rachel Herbeck, Director of Young Adult Ministry at Renewal Ministries, to discuss what it truly means to live a bold life empowered by the Holy Spirit! Rachel Herbeck shares her personal journey of faith, the transformative power of repentance, and how Renewal Ministries encourages Catholics to step into radical discipleship. Together, they explore practical ways everyday believers—from lawyers to parents—can embrace spiritual boldness without needing to fit into preconceived roles. The conversation also touches on the challenges and miracles Rachel Herbeck has witnessed during her missionary experiences, highlighting how obedience and openness to the Spirit can spark extraordinary change in ordinary lives! 01:09 - Introduction to Renewal Ministries 02:26 - Atypical Catholic Upbringing 04:37 - Personal Encounter and Conversion 07:56 - The Role of Responsibility in Spiritual Growth 12:19 - Defining Boldness and Obedience to the Holy Spirit 18:31 - Testing and Living Out Charisms 32:32 - Boldness in Forgiveness and Interior Transformation Enroll in our Fire 50 program at Learn more about charisms and charism discernment at
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EP 176.5 - If You Can Have Conversation, You Can Lead This Study
05/12/2026
EP 176.5 - If You Can Have Conversation, You Can Lead This Study
In this episode of Charisms for Catholics, Jill Simons introduces an exciting new resource: the What You Carry Study, a small group study designed to guide Catholics through the process of charism discernment together. Jill explains how the study differs from previous resources by focusing deeply on both identity and practical discernment, utilizing not only Scripture but also key Church documents like Lumen Gentium and papal encyclicals. With eight sessions covering topics from understanding charisms and identity to hearing God’s voice and growing in holiness, the fully scripted Leader’s Guide makes it accessible for anyone to facilitate. Whether you’re in a parish group, retreat follow-up, or simply gathering friends, this study offers a structured path toward discovering how God is calling you to build the Church in this season of your life! 00:24 — Introduction of "What You Carry" Study 01:03 — Starting with Identity Before Charism Discernment 02:15 — Using Tradition and Church Documents for Guidance 02:57 — Structure and Topics of the 8-Session Study 03:37 — Scripted and Outline-Based Leader’s Guide Options 04:25 — Participant Materials, Pricing, and Bulk Rates 07:15 — Parish Integration and Taking Next Steps Together Find out more about What You Carry here: Learn more about charisms and charism discernment at
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Ep 176 - Fire 50: Risk - Eric Dooley
05/07/2026
Ep 176 - Fire 50: Risk - Eric Dooley
In this episode for Fire50, host Jill Simons welcomes Eric Dooley, CTO of Exodus 90, for a compelling conversation about risk, faith, and entrepreneurship. Eric Dooley shares his journey from a childhood love of building to founding Catholic tech projects like Catholify and Vineyard, and ultimately joining Exodus 90. Together with his wife, Jenny, he navigates the challenges and rewards of serving the Church through technology, entrepreneurship, and family life. They discuss discerning risks as a family, the power of community when pursuing bold callings, and the transformative impact of stepping into the unknown with the Holy Spirit’s guidance. Eric Dooley also dives into Exodus 90's approach to spiritual risk and growth, highlighting stories of men who have encountered real change by saying yes to discomfort and deeper intimacy with Christ. Whether you’re curious about faith-based entrepreneurship, seeking to grow in trust, or exploring new ways to serve the Church, this episode offers encouragement and practical insights for embracing risk with courage and conviction! 02:02 - Discovering a Passion for Building and Faith Tech 05:23 - The Risks of Faith Tech Entrepreneurship 06:46 - Discerning Risk as a Married Couple 12:23 - Life Without the Corporate Grind 16:14 - Transformative Power of Exodus 90 23:57 - Everyday Risk and Spiritual Growth 26:32 - Where to Learn More about These Apostolates Enroll in our Fire 50 program at Learn more about charisms and charism discernment at
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Ep 175 - Fire 50: Obedience - Monica & Renzo Ortega
04/30/2026
Ep 175 - Fire 50: Obedience - Monica & Renzo Ortega
In this episode for Fire50, host Jill Simons welcomes Renzo Ortega and Monica Ortega, the husband-and-wife team behind Two Become Family, to discuss the transformative role of obedience within marriage and ministry. Together, they share the story of how their ministry evolved from a humble blog for former youth group students to a multifaceted mission helping couples restore confidence in marriage and family life. Drawing from personal experience and spiritual insight, the Ortegas delve into what it means to unite the will of spouses to God's will, embracing self-gift, humility, and authentic leadership rooted in virtue and grace. With practical reflections on discerning obedience, supporting one another’s charisms, and dreaming together as a couple, this episode offers encouragement and practical wisdom for anyone seeking to grow in holiness—no matter their vocation or season of life! 01:16 - Origins of Two Become Family Ministry 02:59 - Transition from Blog to Broader Ministry 05:14 - Understanding Obedience in Marriage 08:27 - The Husband’s Disposition and Leadership 11:25 - The Wife’s Experience and the Power of Obedience 22:14 - Obedience, Dreaming Together, and Serving as a Couple Enroll in our Fire 50 program at Learn more about charisms and charism discernment at
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Ep 174 - Fire 50: Humility - Sr. Elfie Rosario
04/23/2026
Ep 174 - Fire 50: Humility - Sr. Elfie Rosario
In this episode fpr Fire50, host Jill Simons sits down with Sister Elfie, also known as the "Happy Nun," to explore the virtue of humility and its place in spiritual growth and vocation! Sister Elfie shares her personal journey from aspiring to motherhood to answering God's call as a Salesian Sister, embracing spiritual motherhood and finding fulfillment in serving young people. The conversation delves into discerning God’s will, surrendering personal desires, and the daily practice of humility through patience, identity in Christ, and receiving divine mercy. Sister Elfie offers practical advice on growing in humility and highlights how God gently leads each of us, meeting us where we are and inviting us deeper into trust and detachment. Whether you're discerning a vocation or seeking to grow in virtue, this heartfelt episode offers encouragement and wisdom for every stage of the journey! 05:03 - Spiritual Motherhood and the Transformation of Desire 06:47 - Journey of Surrender and Humility 10:23 - Balancing Identity and False Humility 13:46 - Patience as a Pathway to Humility 19:11 - Vocation Ministry and Overcoming Insecurity 26:14 - Learning Deeper Detachment and Trust Enroll in our Fire 50 program at Learn more about charisms and charism discernment at
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Ep 173 - Fire 50: Prayer - Dan Burke
04/16/2026
Ep 173 - Fire 50: Prayer - Dan Burke
In this episode for Fire50, host Jill Simons welcomes Dan Burke, president and founder of the Avila Foundation, for an in-depth conversation on the foundations of Catholic prayer. Dan Burke shares his personal conversion story and unpacks his practical approach to deepening your prayer life with the concepts of sacred space, sacred time, and sacred attention. Together, they discuss how to cultivate a routine of prayer, navigate common distractions, and recognize the stages of spiritual growth. The episode also explores the Carmelite tradition of contemplative prayer and offers encouragement for those experiencing transitions in their spiritual journey. Resources and further learning opportunities are mentioned throughput the episode, making this an inspiring guide for anyone seeking to grow closer to God through intentional and transformative prayer! 01:24 - Dan Burke’s Faith Journey and Entry into Ministry 02:54 - Three Pillars of Catholic Prayer: Sacred Space, Time, and Attention 03:33 - Practical Examples of Creating Sacred Space and Time 06:52 - Sacred Attention and the Challenges of Distraction 12:17 - Transitioning from Method to Contemplative Prayer 22:04 - Carmelite Spirituality and Stages of the Interior Life Enroll in our Fire 50 program at Learn more about charisms and charism discernment at
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Ep 172 - Fire 50: Power - Kevin Monette
04/09/2026
Ep 172 - Fire 50: Power - Kevin Monette
In this episode for Fire50, host Jill Simons sits down with Kevin Monette, Director of Operations and Events at Encounter School of Ministry, to discuss the tangible reality of God's power in everyday life. Kevin shares his personal journey of discovering and cooperating with God’s supernatural power, from growing up in a Catholic family to experiencing inner healing, physical miracles, and a transformed marriage. Together, they explore how the same power that raised Jesus from the dead is alive within believers today, the importance of surrender and expectation, overcoming fears about the supernatural, and practical insights for Catholics to embrace their anointing as ambassadors of God’s kingdom. Whether you’re curious about spiritual gifts or seeking a deeper relationship with the Holy Spirit, this episode is packed with inspiration and practical wisdom for living a life empowered by God! 01:46 - Kevin’s Upbringing & Faith Journey 05:20 - Marriage Crisis & Inner Healing 08:44 - Miraculous Healing Experience 12:05 - Encounter Ministries & Embracing God’s Power 13:28 - Bringing the Supernatural into the Catholic Context 32:20 - Creating Space for God’s Power in Communities Enroll in our Fire 50 program at Learn more about charisms and charism discernment at
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Ep 171 - One Thing to Pray with This Triduum
04/02/2026
Ep 171 - One Thing to Pray with This Triduum
In this episode of Charisms for Catholics, Jill invites listeners to enter deeply into the Triduum—Holy Thursday, Good Friday, and Holy Saturday—by reflecting on their personal charisms and how they can be courageously offered back to God, even when faced with difficulty or fear. Jill encourages contemplation and honest self-assessment, challenging listeners to consider if they are willing to follow Christ all the way to the Cross with the gifts they've received. She shares her own plans for reflection during these holy days and reminds listeners about the upcoming Fire50 program beginning on Easter Sunday. This episode is a heartfelt call to embrace courage and openness during the holiest days of the year! 00:28 - Encouragement to Enter Into the Triduum 01:32 - Reflecting on Your Charisms Like Physical Gifts 02:12 - Carrying Your Gifts Through the Paschal Mystery 03:02 - Bringing Fear and Weakness to the Lord 03:53 - Invitation to Grow in Courage 05:15 - Fire 50 Announcement & Final Blessing Learn more about charisms and charism discernment at Enroll in our Fire 50 program at
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Ep 170 - Let's Plan a Fruitful Easter Season Together
03/26/2026
Ep 170 - Let's Plan a Fruitful Easter Season Together
In this episode of Charisms for Catholics, Jill introduces the FIRE 50 program, a 50-day journey from Easter to Pentecost designed to help Catholics build on their Lenten experiences and become an “Easter people.” The episode explains the structure of FIRE 50, which includes daily commitments and weekly catechesis on themes like power, prayer, humility, and victory, all aimed at deepening our cooperation with the Holy Spirit. Everyone is invited to join the challenge for FREE, with optional opportunities to support the ministry, join a vibrant community through a dedicated app, and even become intercessors for the mission! There are resources for both individuals and groups, making it easy for parishes and small communities to take part. Jill wraps up with encouragement to share the program, pray for the ministry, and prepare for a grace-filled Holy Week and Easter season! 01:08 - What is Fire 50? An Overview of the Challenge 02:34 - How Fire 50 Builds on Lent and Leads to Easter 04:37 - Upgrades, Speakers, and Catechesis in Fire 50 06:34 - Invitation to Support, Donate, or Pray for the Ministry 08:45 - Community, Mobile App, and Treasure Shop Details 11:23 - Resources for Parishes and Groups & Mission of Many Parts Ministries Learn more about charisms and charism discernment at
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Ep 169 - If You're Over 65, This Episode is for You
03/19/2026
Ep 169 - If You're Over 65, This Episode is for You
In this episode of Charisms for Catholics, Jill Simons dives into how charisms—our spiritual gifts—fit into the lives of those who are retired or in their "golden years." She explores the common mindset challenges that come with aging, such as the fear of not having much to offer or feeling like your days of meaningful contribution are behind you. Drawing from her experiences working with retirees, Jill encourages listeners to see this season as an opportunity for new spiritual gifts to emerge, especially in areas like intercession, wisdom, and discernment. The episode also challenges younger listeners to value and create space for the wisdom of older generations within the Church. Whether you’re discerning your charisms for the first time or wondering how your gifts may be changing, this conversation offers insight, encouragement, and practical ideas for living out your vocation at any age! 00:43 – Charisms in Retirement 02:46 – Discounting the Value for Older Adults 04:13 – Transitioning to a New Season 05:51 – Scarcity Mindset in Old Age 08:05 – Charisms That Grow With Age 09:47 – Valuing Intergenerational Wisdom 16:07 – Closing the Generational Gap Learn more about charisms and charism discernment at
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Ep 168 - The Case for Letting Go of the Idea of Confirmation as "Catholic Graduation"
03/12/2026
Ep 168 - The Case for Letting Go of the Idea of Confirmation as "Catholic Graduation"
In this episode of Charisms for Catholics, Jill Simons challenges the common approach to the sacrament of Confirmation, especially in parishes where it's treated like a "Catholic graduation" for high schoolers. Drawing on the historical context of Confirmation’s timing and its shift over the years, Jill Simons argues for restoring Confirmation to its traditional place prior to First Communion and replacing the graduation-style milestone with charism discernment for teens. She discusses how this shift empowers young people to clearly understand their spiritual gifts and their role in building the Church. The episode also introduces the Spirit Rising program, designed to guide teens and adults through charism discernment and help recapture the true intent behind Confirmation. If you want insight into forming engaged, mission-driven Catholic youth, this episode is a must-listen. 00:32 – The Case for Rethinking Confirmation 01:19 – Historical Reasons Confirmation Was Moved 02:15 – Confirmation as a Catholic Graduation? 03:08 – Why the Gifts of the Holy Spirit Should Come Earlier 04:31 – Charism Discernment as the Graduation Capstone 05:51 – The Clarity Charism Discernment Brings 07:03 – A Call to Detach Graduation Mentality from Confirmation Learn more about charisms and charism discernment at
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Ep 167 - Stop "Waiting" for Your Vocation: Do This Instead
03/05/2026
Ep 167 - Stop "Waiting" for Your Vocation: Do This Instead
In this episode of Charisms for Catholics, host Jill Simons explores the challenges many young adults face during vocational discernment, especially when called to marriage but still waiting for their vocation to materialize. Drawing from her own experiences and the pitfalls of over-formalizing spiritual journeys, Jill Simons encourages listeners to embrace charism discernment as a practical, empowering way to find purpose and clarity in this transitional season. The episode offers actionable steps for identifying and testing one's charisms, highlighting how these spiritual gifts can bring meaning, direction, and even potential opportunities—regardless of where you are in your vocational journey. You will discover how charisms are not only relevant for active churchgoers, but also serve as a unique, fruitful bridge for those feeling aimless or disconnected from their faith community! 00:29 – Embracing Authenticity Over Perfection 02:12 – The Young Adult “Waiting Room” 04:21 – Why Charism Discernment is Key 05:18 – The Difference Between Vocation and Charism Discernment 06:16 – Everyone Has Charisms—Yes, Even You 09:19 – How to Begin Charism Discernment 15:28 – You’re Not in the Waiting Room—You’re on Active Duty Learn more about charisms and charism discernment at
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Ep 166 - From the Archives - The Essential Importance of Showing Up
02/26/2026
Ep 166 - From the Archives - The Essential Importance of Showing Up
In this throwback episode of Charisms for Catholics, host Jill Simons highlights the essential importance of simply showing up in our spiritual lives. Drawing from personal anecdotes and wisdom passed down from her father, Jill emphasizes that the majority of the battle in living out our charisms is being present and intentionally bringing our spiritual gifts—and Jesus—into every situation. Whether you’re just starting to discern your charisms or looking for the next step, this episode is a helpful reminder that combining the act of showing up, bringing Christ with you, and understanding your gifts leads to true transformation and effortless cooperation with the Holy Spirit. We are also inviting you to submit questions for upcoming mailbag episodes, fostering a sense of community growth and shared learning! 00:01 - Taking a Break: February Update and Exciting New Projects 01:01 - Welcome to Charisms for Catholics and Charism Discernment 01:33 - Wrapping Up the Charisms Series: What’s Next? 02:25 - The Essential Lesson: Just Showing Up 03:51 - How to Show Up With Your Charism 06:29 - Combining Showing Up, Bringing Jesus, and Knowing Your Charisms 09:41 - Announcing the First Mailbag Episode and How to Submit Questions Learn more about charisms and charism discernment at
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Ep 165 - From the Archives - How Do We Come to Love Ourselves as Christ Loves Us (and therefore build a healthy identity)
02/19/2026
Ep 165 - From the Archives - How Do We Come to Love Ourselves as Christ Loves Us (and therefore build a healthy identity)
In this "From the Archives" episode of Charisms for Catholics, host Jill Simons addresses the profound question: How do we come to love ourselves as Christ loves us, and thereby build a healthy identity? Drawing from personal experiences and practical insights, Jill Simons explores the journey of understanding God's view of us through scripture, identifying areas where we struggle to internalize these truths, and using prayer, community, and even therapy to bridge the gap from head knowledge to heart acceptance. Whether you're new or returning to the podcast, this episode offers hope, actionable steps, and encouragement to invest in your spiritual and emotional healing—making way for a more authentic embrace of your charisms and a stronger foundation in Christ! 00:36 – Why We’re Sharing Archive Episodes This Month 01:16 – Understanding and Discerning Charisms 02:03 – What God Really Says About You 04:18 – The Roles of Prayer, Therapy, and Healing 05:39 – A Personal Testimony on Healing Through Anointing 07:34 – Integrating Therapy and Prayer as God-Given Gifts 12:13 – Why a Faith-Based Therapist Matters for Identity Issues Learn more about charisms and charism discernment at
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Ep 164 - From the Archives - Conversation about Charisms before Marriage
02/12/2026
Ep 164 - From the Archives - Conversation about Charisms before Marriage
In this “From the Archives” episode of Charisms for Catholics, host Jill Simons shares insights on the importance of discussing charisms—spiritual gifts—before marriage. Drawing from personal experience and wisdom, Jill Simons explores how couples can intentionally discern their unique charisms, appreciate each other's gifts, and build a foundation of mutual dependence rooted in faith. The episode offers practical advice for couples at any stage of their relationship, emphasizing how authentic Catholic marriage can support both spouses in their vocations and help them flourish as saints. If you’re preparing for marriage or seeking ways to deepen your partnership in faith, this thoughtful conversation is a must-listen for integrating charisms into your life together! 00:01 – Ministry Updates & February Podcast Break 01:01 – Welcome to Charisms for Catholics 01:31 – Celebrating a Wedding & the Importance of Charism Conversations 03:50 – Appreciating Each Other’s Charisms Before Marriage 05:15 – Mutual Dependence in Catholic Marriage 09:27 – Being Intentional with Your Charisms as a Couple 14:36 – Seeking Grace and Guidance for Mutual Flourishing Learn more about charisms and charism discernment at
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Ep 163 - From the Archives - Charisms as a Vehicle to Love People In the Hard Stuff
02/05/2026
Ep 163 - From the Archives - Charisms as a Vehicle to Love People In the Hard Stuff
In this special throwback episode of Charisms for Catholics, host Jill Simons explores how our spiritual gifts—charisms—can be powerful vehicles for loving others, especially during life’s toughest moments. Drawing on biblical wisdom and practical insights, Jill Simons explains how grace is most present in the here and now, and how we can best support those in need by leaning into the unique ways the Holy Spirit equips us. She encourages listeners to discern their charisms, stay rooted in a relationship with God, and use their gifts to make Christ present to the suffering in the world. This episode offers concrete encouragement for navigating difficult situations with faith, love, and the grace God generously provides through our charisms. 01:01 - Introduction to Charisms for Catholics 01:27 - Lent Reflections & Charism Discernment Opportunity 02:17 - Making God Present Through Charisms 03:07 - Grace in the Present Moment: Lessons from Moses 07:26 - Applying Charisms in Hard Situations 09:32 - Sacraments, Connection, and the Flow of Grace Learn more about charisms and charism discernment at
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Ep 162 - Connection to the Church
01/29/2026
Ep 162 - Connection to the Church
In this heartfelt episode of Charisms for Catholics, host Jill Simons opens up about the challenges and blessings of working behind the scenes in charism discernment—especially when much of the ministry is digital and remote. Reflecting on her own recent feelings of isolation and burnout, Jill Simons explores the importance of staying truly connected to the Church and community, not just through sacraments and online resources, but also through in-person, authentic relationships. She encourages listeners who may feel their spiritual gifts are running dry or disconnected to seek real-life ways to re-engage with their faith and fellow Christians. Join Jill Simons for this honest conversation and discover hope, encouragement, and practical wisdom for keeping your charisms alive and active within the body of Christ.
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