Charisms for Catholics with Jill Simons
How effective would a company be where only about 5% of people knew their job description? Not very. And yet this is what we see in the Church right now - many people know they are a part of the Body of Christ but very few have a clear sense of what role they play - if they even realize they play a role at all. Charisms for Catholics helps you identify, value, and invest in where the Holy Spirit is moving in your life and to partner with Him to build the Church by embracing your specific role in the Body of Christ. Produced by Many Parts Ministries.
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Ep 152 - How Can Charisms Help Us Grow in Virtue? with Rose Folsom
11/20/2025
Ep 152 - How Can Charisms Help Us Grow in Virtue? with Rose Folsom
In this episode of Charisms for Catholics, host Jill Simons welcomes spiritual director Rose Folsom to explore how charisms—our unique spiritual gifts—can help us grow in virtue! Drawing from her own journey as a convert and her expertise in teaching the virtues, Rose shares practical wisdom on how humility intersects with the most common charisms, and how a deep prayer life empowers both discernment and growth. The discussion highlights real-life challenges, such as dealing with pride and burnout, and offers insights on balancing joy and virtue while stewarding our gifts. Listeners will also learn actionable steps for cultivating a Christ-like life, including a special free audio course on virtues to kickstart their journey. This episode is perfect for anyone seeking both spiritual fulfillment and practical guidance in using their gifts to build up the Church. 00:00 - Introducing the Intersection of Charisms and Virtue 01:52 - Rose Folsom’s Journey Into Virtue and Charisms 04:52 - Addressing the Fear: Can Focusing on Charisms Hinder Virtue Growth? 07:04 - The Virtue of Humility and Its Misconceptions 09:38 - Matching Charisms to Virtues: Encouragement, Knowledge, and More 24:26 - Running Full Out in Your Charisms: Confidence, Prayer, and Discernment Learn more about charisms and charism discernment at
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Ep 151 - Using Your Charisms through Liturgical Style with Mary Harper
11/13/2025
Ep 151 - Using Your Charisms through Liturgical Style with Mary Harper
On this episode of Charisms for Catholics, host Jill Simons sits down with Mary Harper, founder of Liturgical Style, to explore how personal style can beautifully reflect the liturgical seasons of the Catholic Church! Together, they dive into the intersection of fashion, theology, and spiritual gifts—discussing how understanding your charisms, like craftsmanship, prophecy, knowledge, and healing, can deepen your faith and turn everyday moments (even getting dressed!) into opportunities for prayer and evangelization. Mary shares her journey, the inspiration behind Liturgical Style, and practical ways anyone—regardless of style or season of life—can incorporate elements of the Church's rich traditions into their daily wardrobe. If you're curious about expressing your faith through beauty or want to learn more about living liturgically with intention and creativity, this episode is for you! 02:22 - What is Liturgical Style? 04:44 - Discovering Charisms: Mary’s Background 08:27 - Craftsmanship, Prophecy, and Personal Style 14:07 - Liturgical Style Levels & Everyday Application 18:07 - Healing Charism & The Story of Tabitha Learn more about charisms and charism discernment at
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Ep 150 - Why Don't My Charisms Help the People Closest to Me More?
11/06/2025
Ep 150 - Why Don't My Charisms Help the People Closest to Me More?
In this thought-provoking episode of Charisms for Catholics, host Jill Simons explores a challenging question: Why do our spiritual gifts, or charisms, often seem less impactful for the people closest to us? Drawing from real-life examples and personal experiences, Jill delves into the mysterious ways the Holy Spirit works through our charisms, highlighting how our efforts to serve loved ones might not always yield the results we hope for. She discusses the theology behind the body of Christ and emphasizes how each of us plays a unique role in bringing grace to unexpected people—sometimes as a “random cubicle mate” in someone else's story. Whether you’re feeling frustrated about your charisms or curious how they fit into your relationships, this episode brings clarity, encouragement, and a renewed sense of mission within the Church. Tune in to discover why everyone’s gifts matter and how our call to serve reaches far beyond our inner circles. 00:49 – Why Don’t Our Charisms Help Those Closest to Us? 2:02 – Real-Life Examples of Charism Limitations 4:40 – The Theology of the Body of Christ and Charisms 7:58 – Serving the “Random Cubicle Person” 11:25 – The Urgency of the Mission and Everyone’s Role Learn more about charisms and charism discernment at
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Ep 149 - Opt Out October: Choosing Your Best Yeses
10/30/2025
Ep 149 - Opt Out October: Choosing Your Best Yeses
In this episode of Charisms for Catholics, host Jill Simons wraps up "Opt Out October" with a special conversation featuring Lisa Hendey, founder of CatholicMom.com! Together, they dive deep into the importance of discerning your yeses and noes, especially as it relates to your spiritual gifts and living out your vocation without burning out. Lisa shares her inspiring journey of starting CatholicMom.com, navigating big transitions—including the decision to step away from her own ministry—and how prayerful discernment and self-care are essential for faithful service. Jill and Lisa also touch on the generational differences in how women approach self-care and saying no. Lisa reflects on how her mother’s generation, and even her own, often equated virtue with always saying yes and powering through burnout. She contrasts this with the healthier outlook of younger generations, who are much more likely to openly discuss their needs for personal care and boundaries. Lisa encourages listeners that caring for ourselves spiritually, physically, mentally, and emotionally isn’t selfish—it's necessary for truly fruitful ministry and vocation. By embracing both the grace of yes and the grace of no, we can trust that God will provide what’s best for us, and for those we’re called to serve. Practical tips, personal stories, and wisdom on embracing trust in God when making tough choices await listeners in this enriching episode. Absolutely! Here are 6 timestamped titles from the episode: 01:54 - Founding CatholicMom.com: The Beginnings 06:20 - Discerning Out of a Beloved Project 10:41 - Building Trust in God: Habits & Practices 17:23 - The Three-Part Process for Choosing Your Yes 24:16 - Embracing the Grace of No & Generational Shifts Learn more about charisms and charism discernment at
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Ep 148 - Opt Out October: Saying No to Spiritual Clutter with Father Timothy Gallagher
10/23/2025
Ep 148 - Opt Out October: Saying No to Spiritual Clutter with Father Timothy Gallagher
In this episode of Charisms for Catholics, host Jill Simons welcomes Father Timothy Gallagher for a deep dive into discerning and decluttering the spiritual life. As part of the “Opt Out October” series, the conversation explores what it means to address not only physical, mental, and emotional clutter, but also the often-overlooked spiritual distractions that keep us from fuller relationship with Christ. Father Gallagher shares his vocation story, offers practical insights from St. Ignatius’ rules of discernment, and discusses why so many Catholics haven’t learned about these foundational tools for navigating spiritual desolation and growth. Together, they unpack why we’re drawn to distractions, the roots of spiritual clutter, and how regular sacramental life, daily prayer, and Ignatian wisdom can bring clarity and renewed purpose. Whether you’re seeking to deepen your prayer life or simply feel spiritually “stuck,” this episode provides practical steps and encouragement to encounter God more freely and let go of what holds you back. 1:34 - Father Gallagher's Vocation Story 3:47 - Discovering the Spiritual Exercises of St. Ignatius 7:07 - Addressing Widespread Spiritual Discouragement 10:50 - The Problem of Spiritual Distraction and Diversion 15:14 - The Transformative Power of Prayer and Sacraments 25:12 - The Biggest Misconception About Discernment Learn more about charisms and charism discernment at
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Ep 147 - Opt Out October: Saying No to Mental Clutter
10/16/2025
Ep 147 - Opt Out October: Saying No to Mental Clutter
In this episode, host Jill Simons welcomes Dr. Peter Malinoski, a Catholic psychologist, to dive deeply into the concept of mental clutter and its role in our spiritual and personal development. This is part of the "Opt Out October" series, which is all about helping listeners identify and intentionally eliminate the unnecessary noise and commitments that hinder their ability to live out their unique spiritual gifts—their charisms. Dr. Malinoski explains that much of the so-called “clutter” we experience—our racing thoughts, emotional outbursts, and inner fragmentation—points to underlying wounds, unmet needs, or unresolved issues from our past. He emphasizes that, rather than random noise, mental clutter carries important messages about parts of ourselves that need healing or integration. He notes research suggesting that 90% of our reactions to present situations come from unresolved issues in our past, making interior integration essential for true spiritual and emotional peace. Jill and Dr. Malinoski discuss how many Catholics tend to avoid looking inward, fearing self-absorption or thinking it’s unspiritual. Dr. Malinoski insists that genuine self-knowledge and self-love aren’t selfish; in fact, St. Thomas Aquinas and the great commandments teach that we cannot love neighbor or God fully without loving ourselves and knowing who we truly are. He provides examples of how distraction and internal noise in prayer are often signs that our hearts are trying to show us where we need attention. If you’re looking for a practical, Catholic perspective on how to quiet internal noise, heal old wounds, and discern your unique gifts, this episode is packed with insightful guidance, relatable examples, and great resources to continue your journey. 01:20 - Introduction to Mental Clutter and “Opt Out October” 04:07 - What is “Human Formation”? 07:26 - “I’m Actually Grateful for the Clutter”: The Purpose of Distractions 11:10 - The Importance of Inner Integration Before Loving Others 23:49 - Recognizing Spiritual Bypassing and Its Consequences 47:18 - Resources for Human Formation: Souls and Hearts Learn more about charisms and charism discernment at
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Ep 146 - Opt Out October: Saying No to Emotional Clutter
10/09/2025
Ep 146 - Opt Out October: Saying No to Emotional Clutter
In this episode of Charisms for Catholics, host Jill Simons welcomes Brya Hanan, a licensed marriage and family therapist and integrative Catholic coach, for an in-depth conversation about "Opt Out October: Saying No to Emotional Clutter." Together, they explore the importance of addressing emotional clutter in our lives and how healing and integration can lead to greater spiritual freedom. Brya shares her personal journey of integrating faith and psychology, discusses the challenges of balancing inward healing with outward service, and offers practical tips for Catholics seeking emotional clarity and health—including how to gently assess your own needs, cultivate emotional vocabulary, and practice regular emotional “hygiene.” The episode also touches on the intersections of faith, body, and emotional wellness, and how Catholic traditions like adoration and the sacraments can be powerful tools for holistic healing. Whether you’re navigating old wounds, curious about somatic practices, or simply want to nurture a more integrated spiritual and emotional life, this conversation provides both guidance and encouragement. 01:02 - Introducing Emotional Clutter and Opt Out October 02:47 - Brya Hanan’s Path to Integrating Faith and Psychology 08:42 - Healing for Yourself—Not Just for Others 12:49 - How to Gently Assess Emotional Clutter Without Overwhelm 23:31 - Building Emotional Hygiene in Daily Life 37:35 - Integration Through Catholic Practices and Sacraments Learn more about charisms and charism discernment at
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Ep 145 - Opt Out October: Saying No to Physical Clutter
10/02/2025
Ep 145 - Opt Out October: Saying No to Physical Clutter
In this episode of Charisms for Catholics, host Jill Simons kicks off "Opt Out October" with Catholic decluttering coach Gina Morton, a Catholic decluttering coach from Pennsylvania, who shares her journey of combining organization with faith to help Catholic women clear physical, financial, and emotional clutter! Gina explains that having order in our physical spaces brings freedom and peace, making it easier to respond to God’s daily invitations. She emphasizes the biblical roots of order (referencing Genesis) and suggests that our homes should reflect this. Gina advocates starting small—decluttering trash first—and building routines that help a home run efficiently, freeing us up for more meaningful things. For those emotionally attached to items or overwhelmed by sentimental clutter, Gina recommends starting with prayer—especially the rosary—to reorient the heart and gradually detach from earthly things. She shares practical strategies for managing kids' stuff, emphasizing boundaries (like special bins or limited spaces for toys) and advocating for gifts of time or experiences instead of more possessions. Gina highlights that everyone’s threshold for clutter is different, and finding a personal balance is key—not striving for perfection, but for freedom to say “yes” to God. She encourages listeners to pause before bringing new things into their homes, to only keep what aligns with their values and capacity, and to let faith guide daily decisions, including how we manage our belongings. Listeners can learn more from Gina through her podcast, Pruning to Prosper, Facebook group, and coaching services. If you're seeking a more intentional life and deeper spiritual clarity by simplifying your surroundings, this episode is full of encouragement and actionable advice! 02:16 – Gina Morton’s Genesis Story 06:07 – The Spiritual Connection to Physical Spaces 09:44 – Practical Approach to Decluttering 13:36 – Handling Gifts, Charity, and Kids’ Clutter 18:33 – Addressing Sentimental Attachment Learn more about charisms and charism discernment at
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Ep 144 - Does My Spouse Have to Have Voluntary Poverty if I Do?
09/25/2025
Ep 144 - Does My Spouse Have to Have Voluntary Poverty if I Do?
In this episode of Charisms for Catholics, host Jill Simons tackles a unique listener question about the charism of voluntary poverty within marriage. Can one spouse live out this spiritual gift if the other doesn’t share it? Jill explores how charisms work within sacramental marriages and “charism-mixed” households, sharing practical advice and personal examples of how different spiritual gifts can harmoniously coexist. She also previews the upcoming "Opt Out October" series, focused on creating space in all areas of life to say better yeses to our charisms. If you're discerning your gifts or wondering how they play out in family life, this thoughtful episode offers encouragement and insight for integrating your spiritual strengths with those of your loved ones. 00:51 - Jill introduces the Charism Coaching Certification Program for coaches and spiritual directors. 2:12 - Announcement of “Opt Out October,” a new annual series focused on making space—physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual—to say better “yeses” to our charisms. 4:58 - Mailbag question: If one spouse has voluntary poverty, does the other have to as well? Jill begins addressing the dynamics of “charism mixed marriages.” 6:34 - Explaining how voluntary poverty can be expressed individually within a marriage, using the example of a wife embracing minimalism without forcing it on the family. 9:25 - Jill shares a personal example of growing up in a family influenced by the charism of giving, and how that shaped financial priorities and values. 12:01 - Emphasizing that there are no fundamentally incompatible charism combinations in the body of Christ—differences may require more discernment, but can exist and work together. Learn more about charisms and charism discernment at
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Ep 143 - Is There Ever a Time When You Shouldn’t Use a Charism That You Have Been Given?
09/18/2025
Ep 143 - Is There Ever a Time When You Shouldn’t Use a Charism That You Have Been Given?
In this episode of Charisms for Catholics, Jill Simons dives into a listener mailbag question: "Is there ever a time when I shouldn’t use a charism that I’ve been given?" Jill unpacks the different types of charisms—immediate, resource-based, and long-term commitment gifts—and explores when and why it might be wise to hold back. She shares practical advice on discerning God’s timing, protecting yourself from burnout, and recognizing the difference between healthy boundaries and a scarcity mindset. Whether you’re a coach, spiritual director, or just curious about your spiritual gifts, this episode will help you integrate your charisms with balance and joy. Plus, learn more about the Charism Coaching Certification Program for professionals looking to deepen their ministry! 00:29 – Enrollment opens for the Charism Coaching Certification Program, designed for professional coaches and spiritual directors, including new presenter training. 1:33 – Jill shares a listener’s mailbag question: Should there ever be times not to use a charism God has given you? She lays out the framework for the episode’s advice on this topic. 2:36 – Jill explains three main causes of burnout: self-reliance, doing things not assigned by God, and being overly attached to outcomes—and how this relates to whether to use your charism in a given situation. 5:55 – She breaks down how different charisms require different levels of discernment—immediate use (like healing or intercession), resource-based (like giving or pastoring), and long-term commitment (like leadership or missionary work). 9:49 – Jill emphasizes boundaries: God doesn’t want to build the church by burning out its members. It’s vital to respect your real needs and vocation, and it’s okay to discern that something isn’t for you. Learn more about charisms and charism discernment at
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EP 142 - The Charisms of Charlie Kirk
09/16/2025
EP 142 - The Charisms of Charlie Kirk
In today's episode, Jill discusses Charlie Kirk's charisms and the ways he utilized them in both his work life and his spiritual life. In the wake of his assassination, we believe there is a necessity in finding absolute truths and holding fast to what cannot be changed, in the midst of so much debate, disagreement and fear. Truth is found in how we are created and Who our Creator is; these beliefs are displayed in today's episode, as we learn more about boldness and faith through the life and gifts of Charlie Kirk. Learn more about charisms and charism discernment at
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What Do We Do When Crisis Hits?
09/12/2025
What Do We Do When Crisis Hits?
In the wake of horrific school violence, the assasination of Charlie Kirk, and widespread political and social unrest, we are often left to wonder, what do I do about this? This episode is a reminder to look to God's grace and our charisms for the answer.
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Ep 141 - Discerning Season and Scope in Your Charisms
09/11/2025
Ep 141 - Discerning Season and Scope in Your Charisms
In this episode of Charisms for Catholics, host Jill Simons explores the dynamic nature of charisms—our spiritual gifts—and how they shift and grow through the seasons of our lives. Drawing from relatable examples and personal experience, Jill unpacks what it means to discern both the “season” (the unique period of life you’re in) and “scope” (how widely and in what context your charisms are meant to be used right now) of your individual gifts. From teenagers navigating school schedules, to stay-at-home parents wondering how their gifts fit into daily life, Jill offers practical guidance for listening to the Holy Spirit and confidently stewarding your charisms—whether on a big stage or in the quiet moments of family life. She also shares news about the Charism Coaching Certification program for coaches and spiritual directors. If you’re ready to better understand how God is working in and through you in this moment, this episode is for you. 1:05 – Jill introduces the Charism Coaching Certification program, explaining its purpose for professional coaches and spiritual directors and what it includes. 2:21 – What is meant by "season" and "scope" when discerning charisms, laying the foundation for the episode. 5:16 – How teens can discern the scope of their charisms, using examples involving limited resources, school, and extracurricular schedules. 9:45 – The challenges faced by stay-at-home parents (especially moms) when living out their charisms in the midst of parenting young children, particularly the charism of music. 13:02 – Jill emphasizes that charisms are meant to be lived out at every level of the Church, not just in formal or highly visible settings. 17:02 – Jill shares personal examples of different scopes for her charisms (leadership, prophecy, knowledge) and how those differ by context and season. Learn more about charisms and charism discernment at
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Ep 140 - My Story with Charisms and How Many Parts Came to Be!
09/04/2025
Ep 140 - My Story with Charisms and How Many Parts Came to Be!
In this episode of Charisms for Catholics, host Jill Simons shares her personal journey with charisms and the origin story of Many Parts Ministries! Jill talks about her early encounter with saints' stories, her hunger to understand how God wanted to use her unique gifts, and the struggle to find accessible resources for discerning charisms as a Catholic. She recounts her research through Church documents, personal conversations, and the eventual creation of her own tools to help others recognize the Holy Spirit's work in their lives. The episode highlights how Many Parts Ministries grew from Jill's passion into a thriving apostolate dedicated to making charism discernment a normal part of Catholic life. Jill also gives a behind-the-scenes look at upcoming projects, the ministry's vision for the Church, and ways listeners can support their mission to equip Catholics worldwide to build up the body of Christ. 02:35 - Jill recounts reading about Saint Rose of Lima as a child, how it affected her own desire for sainthood, and the tension it created about her own calling. 04:07 - As a teenager, Jill describes her deep dive into the Church’s teaching on charisms, her frustration at the lack of practical guidance, and her drive to learn more. 09:38 - During college, Jill shares her experience with early charism assessments, her desire for clearer tools, and how informal conversations led to deeper understanding. 14:54 - The pivotal moment when speaking engagements and connections (notably with Heather Kim and Abiding Together podcast) catalyzed the creation and broader sharing of Many Parts’ charism resources. 17:31 - Jill outlines the mission of Many Parts Ministries: making charism discernment a normal part of Catholic life. She discusses current projects, including youth programs, translations, upcoming resources, and ways listeners can support the mission. Learn more about charisms and charism discernment at
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Ep 139 - Letting Go of Expectations About What Charisms Will Look Like
08/28/2025
Ep 139 - Letting Go of Expectations About What Charisms Will Look Like
In this episode of Charisms for Catholics, host Jill Simons dives into the importance of letting go of preconceived expectations about how our charisms—or spiritual gifts—should manifest in our lives. Using real-life examples, Jill explains that charisms like writing, leadership, or teaching don’t have to follow a specific path or look the same for everyone. Whether you’re writing a book or encouraging friends through heartfelt notes, what matters most is staying open to how the Holy Spirit leads you to use your gifts in your unique circumstances. Tune in to discover how embracing the freedom and individuality of your charisms can deepen your impact in the body of Christ! 00:28 – Announcement: Enrollment is open for the Charism Coaching Certification Program, designed for professional coaches and trained spiritual directors. 02:08 – Jill dives into the episode’s main topic: letting go of rigid expectations about how our charisms “should” show up in our lives. 03:54 – She emphasizes that everyone’s expression of their charisms is unique due to life circumstances, personality, and vocation. 04:42 – Jill offers a thought experiment contrasting two people with the same charisms (leadership, knowledge, and teaching) but very different life situations, illustrating how charisms manifest differently. 07:54 – Encouragement to reflect on outside expectations and embrace greater freedom in how the Holy Spirit invites us to use our charisms, followed by an invitation to discover or discern your own on the Many Parts Ministries website. Learn more about charisms and charism discernment at
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Ep 138 - Are Our Charisms the Same as the Charisms of Religious Orders?
08/21/2025
Ep 138 - Are Our Charisms the Same as the Charisms of Religious Orders?
In this episode of Charisms for Catholics, host Jill Simons explores the intriguing question: Are the charisms that individual Catholics receive from the Holy Spirit the same as those attributed to religious orders? Jill shares her personal experiences and observations from working extensively with individual discernment of charisms, while acknowledging that her expertise with religious orders is more limited. She discusses how different religious communities describe their foundational charisms—such as prayer, hospitality, preaching, and contemplative practice—and reflects on how these might or might not align with the traditional list of spiritual gifts familiar to lay Catholics. Listeners are encouraged to consider the connections between their own spiritual gifts and the charisms of communities or orders they are drawn to! 00:01:18 - Registration announcement for the Charism Coaching Certification Program, including details about prerequisites and what's included in the course. 01:40 - Jill introduces today's big question: Are individual charisms the same as those of religious orders? She outlines her experience and knowledge limitations related to religious orders’ charisms. 03:53 - Exploration of specific religious orders, including Benedictines, Cistercians, Trappists, and Franciscans, and attempts to map their order-level charisms to individual charisms like prayer, service, and preaching. 07:31 - Jill discusses unique charisms of less well-known orders (e.g., Children of Mary) and emphasizes that there isn’t an official, exhaustive list of charisms recognized by the Church. 10:59 - Conclusion and invitation for listener feedback, clarifying that joining an order may sometimes be the path through which the Holy Spirit grants a new charism to an individual. Learn more about charisms and charism discernment at
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Ep 137 - Charisms in Families
08/14/2025
Ep 137 - Charisms in Families
In this episode of Charisms for Catholics, host Jill Simons dives into the intriguing question: Do families have charisms? Drawing from both experience and observation, Jill explores whether spiritual gifts, or charisms, can be shared among family members and even passed down through generations. She discusses how certain gifts like prophecy, intercession, and knowledge sometimes appear as a "common thread" within families, though this evidence is mainly anecdotal. Jill also unpacks the parallels between family dynamics and the charisms found in religious orders, and offers practical wisdom on how families can discern and nurture individual and collective spiritual gifts. Whether you’re curious about your family's unique spiritual mission or eager to cultivate a more charism-aware household, this episode offers thoughtful insights and invites listeners to join an ongoing conversation about God’s work within the family unit! 1:32 - Wisdom Guide offers details about the Charism Coaching Certification Program, mentioning its requirements and benefits for professional coaches and spiritual directors. 02:36 - Jill explores whether families can share a charism, noting there are often consistencies in charisms through family lines—sometimes among parents and children, or across generations. 04:05 - She gives examples of charisms like prophecy, intercession, and knowledge frequently running in families, suggesting a mix of biological and spiritual influence. 05:19 - Jill discusses whether families carry unique charisms only when together (similar to religious orders) and highlights curiosity about how family dynamics may foster shared grace and mission. 07:34 - She concludes with the idea that while collective discernment of a family charism can be helpful, the core is for each family member to discern their own charisms, and invites listeners to share their experiences or insights. Learn more about charisms and charism discernment at
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Ep 136 - Charisms in Teachers
08/07/2025
Ep 136 - Charisms in Teachers
In this episode of Charisms for Catholics, host Jill Simons explores the unique ways charisms—spiritual gifts from the Holy Spirit—can empower teachers as they head into a new school year. Jill breaks down how teaching as a charism is distinct from the teaching profession, explaining why many exceptional elementary educators may actually lead with charisms like encouragement, pastoring, or prophecy rather than teaching itself. She shares practical insights for both teachers and administrators on how understanding individual charisms can help create a more intentional, supportive classroom environment and facilitate better classroom placements. Jill also introduces resources like the "Start the Adventure: Charisms for Kids" book, offering actionable ways to help teachers identify and foster the gifts in their students. Whether you’re an educator, administrator, or just passionate about faith formation, this episode offers encouragement, real-life examples, and useful tools to help every member of your school community flourish! 01:42 — Jill introduces the topic of charisms for teachers, especially as it relates to back-to-school season and her work with Catholic educators. 03:55 — Discussion about how many excellent elementary teachers do *not* necessarily have the charism of teaching, and explanation of how teaching as a charism differs from the teaching profession. 06:18 — Exploration of common charisms among teachers of younger students (encouragement, pastoring), versus the prevalence of teaching and knowledge charisms at the high school and college levels. 08:34 — Practical example of how knowledge of teachers' charisms can help administrators thoughtfully match students with teachers to best meet individual needs. 12:03 — Encouragement for both administrators and teachers (including those in public schools) to understand and articulate their own charisms for better professional communication and classroom effectiveness. 14:32 — Guidance on identifying and encouraging charisms in students, highlighting the "Start the Adventure: Charisms for Kids" book as a resource for teachers. Learn more about charisms and charism discernment at
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Ep 135 - Charisms in Parents
07/31/2025
Ep 135 - Charisms in Parents
In this episode of Charisms for Catholics, host Jill Simons explores how parents can approach their unique spiritual gifts—known as charisms—in the context of raising children. Jill emphasizes the importance of parents both nurturing their own spiritual health and serving as examples of charism-driven living to their children. She discusses practical strategies, such as explaining decisions based on charisms, creating opportunities for kids to learn about their own gifts, and exposing them to others with different charisms, including the lives of saints. The episode also covers resources for parents and families, highlights the importance of fostering a sense of belonging and purpose in kids through charisms, and introduces tools from Many Parts Ministries that can help families and youth programs on this journey. Ultimately, the focus is on building a foundation for children to discover their own place and purpose within the Church by witnessing their parents actively and intentionally living out their charisms! 01:15 – Jill discusses the importance of helping children expect that charisms are for them too, and when they're ready to discern their own. 03:24 – The reminder that parents can't give what they do not have—why nurturing your own spiritual life is essential before you can foster it in your children. 05:22 – How personal and spiritual health as a parent impacts your ability to fully engage in your vocation, especially regarding charisms. 06:52 – The importance of being accurate about your own gifts (charisms) for yourself and to model a rightly ordered vocation to your children. 10:47 – Explanation of how having or not having a specific charism affects your role and responsibilities in the faith community, using the charism of faith as an example. 14:45 – How understanding and using their charisms can help children feel a sense of belonging and engage more deeply in the Church as they mature. Learn more about charisms and charism discernment at
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Ep 134 - Charisms in the Priesthood
07/24/2025
Ep 134 - Charisms in the Priesthood
In this episode of Charisms for Catholics, host Jill Simons kicks off a four-week series exploring how charisms—or spiritual gifts—manifest in different vocations within the Church. This week, Jill focuses on the priesthood, discussing how priests, like all baptized Catholics, are uniquely gifted by the Holy Spirit. She challenges the common expectation that priests must be “all things to all people,” advocating instead for a parish culture that empowers priests to serve from their particular charisms while being supported by their communities. Jill walks listeners through what could change in parish life if priests and their leadership teams discerned and communicated their charisms openly, and how this clarity can prevent burnout and cultivate a healthier, more vibrant parish. 00:28 – Priests and Charisms 02:32 – Impact of Charism-Based Leadership Transitions 05:12 – Embracing Authenticity and Limitations 06:46 – Charism Formation in Seminaries and Dioceses 09:55 – Invitation for Priests and Support for Discernment 12:28 – Lay Support and Parish Leadership Development Learn more about charisms and charism discernment at
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Ep 133 - What's the Deal with Tongues?
07/17/2025
Ep 133 - What's the Deal with Tongues?
On this episode of Charisms for Catholics, host Jill Simons takes a deep dive into one of the most misunderstood topics within the Catholic charismatic movement: the gift of tongues. Jill demystifies the confusion around the term "tongues" by breaking it down into clear categories—praying in tongues, speaking in tongues, and the charism of interpreting tongues. She explains the differences between personal gifts for prayer and edification versus charisms given for the good of the wider community. You’ll learn: - How praying in tongues and speaking in tongues differ—and why that matters. - Where these gifts show up (or don’t!) in church life, scripture, and the Charismatic Renewal movement. - Why some gifts, like administration and hospitality, are just as charismatic as the more “showy” ones. - Common myths and misunderstandings about charismatic spirituality in the Catholic Church. Whether you’re curious, skeptical, or already involved in charismatic prayer, this episode offers both clarity and encouragement for discovering the many ways the Holy Spirit is moving in the Church today. 00:28- Jill is excited to finally devote a whole episode to the topic of tongues, clarifying the confusion and terminology around it. 01:57- She explains "praying in tongues" as a personal spiritual gift for edification, not a charism, and distinguishes it from prophecy. 03:12- The difference between praying and speaking in tongues is outlined—speaking in tongues is a charism intended for others, while praying is for personal use. 04:19- Examples from Pentecost are discussed, where the apostles’ speaking in different tongues is considered a supernatural means of communication. 05:02- She covers speaking in unknown languages (glossolalia) and the separate charism of interpreting tongues within the community. 08:47- Jill addresses misconceptions about the Charismatic Renewal, noting it tends to focus on a few charisms, but stresses the need to recognize and broaden the understanding of all charisms within the Church. Learn more about charisms and charism discernment at
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Ep 132 - Does Someone HAVE to be Baptized to Have Charisms?
07/10/2025
Ep 132 - Does Someone HAVE to be Baptized to Have Charisms?
In this episode of Charisms for Catholics, host Jill Simons tackles a common FAQ: "Does someone have to be baptized to have charisms?" Drawing from scripture, tradition, and personal insights, they delve into the theological nuances of how charisms—or spiritual gifts—are usually received through the sacraments, especially baptism, but also explore the rare instances when God chooses to act outside these ordinary means. The discussion covers the centrality of sacramental grace, what it means when someone claims to have charisms without baptism, and how true charisms always draw us toward unity with the Church. If you’ve ever wondered about the relationship between baptism and spiritual gifts, or how to guide someone discerning charisms without being baptized, this episode offers practical wisdom and pastoral guidance. 00:42 — The episode’s central question is introduced: “Do you have to be baptized in order to have charisms?” 01:28— The Wisdom Guide references the biblical precedent in Acts where the Holy Spirit falls on someone before baptism. 02:05— Discussion on how grace is normally received through the sacraments, beginning with baptism. 03:50— Analogy of sacraments as the “levers” we know will always work to receive grace and the distinction that God is not limited to these methods. 05:29— Exploration of why, if someone feels they have a charism but aren’t baptized, they haven’t sought out baptism. 09:00— Noting that authentic experiences of grace should draw someone toward communion with the Church; any experience that doesn’t is viewed skeptically. Learn more about charisms and charism discernment at
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Ep 131 - Why I Think the Holy Spirit Is Highlighting Charism Discernment in the Modern Church
07/03/2025
Ep 131 - Why I Think the Holy Spirit Is Highlighting Charism Discernment in the Modern Church
In this episode of Charisms for Catholics, host Jill Simons explores the question of why charism discernment is gaining so much attention in the modern Church, even though spiritual gifts have existed throughout church history. Jill offers her personal theory on why the Holy Spirit is emphasizing charism discernment today, reflecting on how life’s increasing complexity, noise, and endless options have made it harder for people to find personal fulfillment and clarity in their vocation. She discusses how, in contrast to earlier times when life was quieter and choices were more limited, we now need intentional tools—like charism discernment—to help us focus, foster community, and experience the peace that comes from living in alignment with God’s will. Tune in as Jill unpacks these relevant themes and encourages listeners to explore their own spiritual gifts as a way to navigate the challenges of modern life. 01:17– Jill addresses a frequently asked question: Why is charism discernment only recently becoming a focus in the Church? 02:22– Jill begins sharing her theory on why charism discernment is more prominent now, emphasizing historical context. 05:01– She discusses the difference in mental stimulation between historical times and today, highlighting how quiet and limited options shaped spiritual discernment. 07:10– Jill reflects on historical satisfaction with life, the role of suffering, and how modern abundance changed discernment needs. 09:26 – She summarizes her theory: The Holy Spirit is responding to modern fragmentation and distraction by bringing charism discernment to the forefront now. Learn more about charisms and charism discernment at
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Ep 130 - Our Vision for the Church: A Roundtable with the Many Parts Staff
06/26/2025
Ep 130 - Our Vision for the Church: A Roundtable with the Many Parts Staff
In this episode of the Charisms for Catholics podcast, host Jill Simons gathers her core team from Many Parts Ministries to discuss the organization's mission and vision for the future of the Church with charisms—spiritual gifts—at the center. Each team member shares their personal journey of joining the ministry and highlights the importance of recognizing and embracing individual gifts within community life. The conversation emphasizes the unique strengths and collaborative spirit among team members, the role of discernment in matching people to roles that energize them, and the ministry’s commitment to accessibility and servant leadership. Through stories of trusting God’s timing, insightful hiring experiences, and examples of fruitful ministry outcomes, the team paints a hopeful picture of a Church where every person’s gifts are valued and catalyzed for collective mission, unity, and growth. The episode concludes with an invitation for listeners to join the team, particularly in a new high school ministry leadership role, reinforcing their drive to spread charism discernment in all corners of the Catholic community! (see bottom for job details) 01:49 – Amy, the administrative assistant, shares her journey into charism work, highlighting the value of discovering administration as a spiritual gift and helping others recognize their own gifts. 04:22– Bella, the community manager, recounts her “God moment” of joining the team, her background in ministry and social media, and how hearing testimonies has deepened her passion for the mission. 07:24– Becca O’Hara, director of parishes, explains how her interview shifted from applying for one role to having a new position created for her to focus on parish ministry and charism discernment. 15:22 – The team discusses the core vision and values of Many Parts Ministries, emphasizing healthy leadership, affirmation of individual gifts, and the hope that charism discernment brings to the church. Learn more about charisms and charism discernment at ------- About the Role We’re looking for a High School Ministry Coordinator to serve as the key connector between our organization and Catholic high schools, parishes, and youth ministries. In this role, you’ll engage with clients to understand their needs, recommend tailored packages from our charism education and implementation resources, and help them implement programs that transform their ministries. This role is ideal for someone with a heart for Catholic youth ministry, a strong understanding of charisms, and a desire to help others grow closer to Christ. You’ll work 10-15 hours per week as part of a tight-knit, international team that values collaboration, communication, and shared mission. The role is fully remote, offering flexibility for family life and other commitments.Responsibilities Client Engagement: Take sales calls with Catholic youth ministers, high school leaders, and other ministry professionals. Listen carefully to clients’ needs, challenges, and goals to offer personalized guidance. Build authentic relationships with ministry leaders, demonstrating genuine care for their mission and success. Sales and Recommendations: Recommend appropriate packages and resources from our charism-based programs. Share the value of our resources in helping teens discover their charisms and deepen their connection to the Church. Close sales by providing clear, compassionate guidance and follow-up communication. Support and Follow-Up: Serve as a point of contact for clients throughout the onboarding process, ensuring they feel supported and excited to implement our resources. Collaborate with our team to provide the best possible experience for clients. Team Collaboration: Work closely with other team members to share insights, feedback, and ideas for improving our offerings. Participate in weekly team meetings, training, and ongoing formation to deepen your understanding of charisms and youth ministry. Qualifications Faith and Mission Alignment: Practicing Catholic with a strong understanding of Catholic teaching, charisms, and the mission of the Church. Passion for youth ministry and helping teens discover their God-given gifts. Sales and Communication Skills: Excellent interpersonal and communication skills, with the ability to listen deeply and respond thoughtfully. Prior experience in sales, customer service, or ministry-related roles is a plus. Confidence in presenting and recommending resources while maintaining a mission-first, service-oriented approach. Organization and Self-Motivation: Highly organized, with the ability to manage multiple calls and follow-ups each week. Self-motivated and able to work independently in a remote environment. Team Spirit and Flexibility: Collaborative mindset, eager to contribute to a supportive, family-friendly team culture. Comfortable working with an international team across time zones and communicating virtually. What We Offer A mission-driven, Christ-centered work environment rooted in Catholic teaching. A flexible remote schedule to accommodate family and personal commitments. Competitive base pay with commission on sales to reward your success. Opportunities for ongoing spiritual and professional development, including formation in charisms and Catholic leadership. The chance to make an eternal impact by connecting ministries with tools that help teens grow in faith and discover their unique role in the Body of Christ. Join Us in Strengthening the Church If you’re passionate about youth ministry, charisms, and helping others grow closer to God, we’d love to hear from you. Join our mission-driven team and help us equip ministries and schools to form the next generation of disciples. 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Ep 129 - Dreaming for a New School Year: High School Ministry
06/19/2025
Ep 129 - Dreaming for a New School Year: High School Ministry
In this episode of Charisms for Catholics, host Jill Simons invites listeners to dream big for the upcoming school year by reimagining Catholic youth ministry and confirmation as more than just a rite of passage. She introduces "Spirit Rising," a brand new, flexible charism discovery curriculum and suite of resources created specifically for high schoolers. Jill discusses how this five-session program can be adapted for mission trips, retreats, theology classes, or youth ministry groups—empowering teens to discover their unique spiritual gifts and see the Holy Spirit at work in their lives. Tune in to be inspired about what’s possible for your parish, school, or family—and learn how understanding and nurturing charisms can transform the experience of teenagers on the threshold of their vocational journey. 00:29 - Jill opens the discussion about youth ministry and poses the central question: What if this is the year confirmation stops being “Catholic graduation”? 01:04 - Discussion on different approaches to confirmation and the new charism assessment for teenagers introduced by Many Parts Ministries. 02:18 - Introduction of the new "Spirit Rising" curriculum for teens: a five-session charism discovery program. 05:44- Jill describes pairing students with saints using assessment data and the "Guided by Grace" book, personalizing ministry for different charisms. 07:47 - Announcement of the launch for youth ministry and school programs using the new resources and the plan to gather feedback for continuous improvement. 08:39 - Details about the Spirit Rising Journal and the exclusivity of the curriculum to ensure adequate support for youth ministers and teachers. 09:55 - Encouragement for listeners to dream about and actively pursue a new vision for youth and confirmation ministry in the coming school year. Learn more about charisms and charism discernment at
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Ep 128 - Dreaming for a New School Year: Parish Life
06/12/2025
Ep 128 - Dreaming for a New School Year: Parish Life
In this inspiring episode of Charisms for Catholics, host Jill Simons invites us to dream about what’s possible in parish life as we approach a new school year. Broadcasting from her brand-new studio, Jill discusses the importance of intentional dreaming and how the Holy Spirit calls us to imagine better outcomes for our communities. She explores new parish programs from Many Parts Ministries, focusing on leadership training, forming parishioners around their charisms, and cultivating organizational clarity that leads to healthier, more sustainable ministry. Whether you’re a parish staff member, a ministry leader, or a passionate parishioner, this episode will encourage you to dream big for your parish and take actionable steps toward meaningful change—fueled by prayer, discernment, and the gifts already present in your faith community. --- 02:11 — Discussion on defeatist thinking within the Church and how it inhibits possibilities; encouragement to dream about change, especially regarding parish pain points. 03:24 — Announces new divisions and setups for parish and youth ministry programs; focus shifts to leadership training as part of parish formation, emphasizing the importance of charism-oriented leadership and organizational clarity. 04:28 — Jill highlights the empowering nature of leaders knowing and articulating their strengths and limitations, particularly how this could benefit priests and parish staff, touching on priest burnout and seminary education. 06:49 — Describes team-building at Many Parts Ministries using charism discernment, and how it fosters organizational health, collaboration, and clarity. 07:42 — The importance of identifying gaps in parish ministry roles, leaving space for the Holy Spirit, and the value of organizational "surrender" in finding the right people. 11:06— Overview of integrating charism discernment into parish life, using the Source Stewardship Renewal Model, and leveraging digital tools (website, soon-to-be app) for follow-up and education. 12:36 — Details the three new parish program pathways: leadership formation, parish-wide programs, and the intensive transformation program, highlighting flexibility and support from Many Parts Ministries. 18:20— Jill previews next week’s episode on youth ministry and encourages checking the App Store for their new app! --- Learn more about charisms and charism discernment at
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Ep 127 - FIRE 50 Week 7 on Victory with Sr. Beata Victoria of the Sisters of Life
06/05/2025
Ep 127 - FIRE 50 Week 7 on Victory with Sr. Beata Victoria of the Sisters of Life
This Fire 50 episode offers a heartfelt exploration into experiencing victory through Christ in our daily lives. Sister Beata Victoria shares her personal journey to becoming a Sister of Life, highlighting how spiritual victories often unfold in unexpected ways. Through her work with women in vulnerable situations, she illustrates the transformative power of love and faith. Listeners will gain insights into living with hope, recognizing God's promises, and embracing our unique gifts amidst challenges. This lesson encourages contemplation and connection, inviting you to reflect on where true victory lies. Join us to deepen your understanding of spiritual fulfillment and discover how to resonate with the divine presence in every aspect of life. 00:00 Journey of Love and Calling 04:47 Embracing Vocation Through Faith 07:57 "Proclaiming Life's Inherent Goodness" 12:03 Living Holy Saturday's Hope 15:12 Discover Gifts; Overcome Spiritual Attacks 17:40 "Finding Hope in God's Promises" 20:29 Praying with Jesus's Promises 22:33 Spiritual Reflection and Personal Growth 27:22 "Extravagant Divine Love Imagery" 29:30 Sisters of Life: Resources Online Additional resources to engage with the Sisters of Life community: Sisters of Life Website: - For information and resources about the Sisters of Life, including their magazine. Sisters of Life YouTube Channel: Featuring music and talks by the sisters. Instagram and Community Group: For those interested in praying the Pentecost novena and experiencing community engagement. Magazines and Publications: Free magazine offered by the Sisters of Life, published several times a year. Enroll in our Fire 50 program at Learn more about charisms and charism discernment at
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Ep 126 - FIRE 50: Week 6 on Boldness with Samantha Povlock
05/29/2025
Ep 126 - FIRE 50: Week 6 on Boldness with Samantha Povlock
In this week of Fire 50, host Jill Simons sits down with Samantha Povlock, founder of Fem Catholic, to explore the theme of boldness—particularly what it means to enter into difficult conversations with both courage and compassion. Together, they touch on the importance of bringing real lived experiences, faith, and honest dialogue into spaces that can often feel tense or divisive. Viewers will discover insights about navigating complex issues in a way that fosters healing and understanding, and hear firsthand how boldness can be lived out authentically through both personal growth and service to others. It’s a thoughtful conversation for anyone seeking to live their faith with integrity and openness! 00:00 "Boldness Week: Samantha Pavlak Feature" 04:16 Faithful Feminism in Catholic Dialogue 06:26 "Integration of Faith and Trauma" 11:12 Gifts of Faith and Steadfastness 16:16 "Boldness, Healing, and Divine Guidance" 18:10 Spiritual Growth and Healing Journey 22:45 Embrace Boldness Despite Fear 26:40 Navigating Delicate Faith Topics 30:16 Extending Grace to Differing Perspectives 34:19 "Grieving and Hope Coexist" 35:23 "Truth and Love: A Sacred Balance" Enroll in our Fire 50 program at https://www.manypartsministries.com/fire-50 Learn more about charisms and charism discernment at
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Ep 125 - FIRE 50: Week 5 on Risk with Dr. Mario Sacasa
05/22/2025
Ep 125 - FIRE 50: Week 5 on Risk with Dr. Mario Sacasa
In this enlightening Fire 50 conversation, Dr. Mario Sacasa, a seasoned marriage and family therapist, joins host Jill Simons to explore the vital role of risk in living a fulfilled Christian life. Drawing from his own experiences and professional insights, Dr. Sacasa discusses how risk, when embraced in a balanced and thoughtful manner, can be a powerful tool for spiritual and personal growth. The discussion extends into practical advice for both personal and interpersonal development, including navigating risks in relationships and understanding the psychological interplay of safety and adventure. Join the dialogue for a thoughtful reflection on how risk can integrate with faith for a life of hope and purpose. 00:00 Discerning New Paths and Ventures 05:43 Navigating Life's Transitional Phase 08:12 "Discerning Divine Invitations" 11:42 "The Path to Hope" 16:40 Nervous System Healing Journey 18:10 "Embracing Faith's Leaps" 23:50 Balancing Stress and Anxiety 26:45 Navigating Risk in Relationships 28:59 Building a Decision-Making Foundation 32:36 Dating Risks and Life Choices 34:16 Discerning God's Calling 36:59 "Always Hope: Genuine Optimism Explored" Dr. Mario Sacasa's Podcast - Dr. Mario Sacasa's Website - Enroll in our Fire 50 program at Learn more about charisms and charism discernment at
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Ep 124 - FIRE 50: Week 4 on Obedience with Manny Gonzalez
05/15/2025
Ep 124 - FIRE 50: Week 4 on Obedience with Manny Gonzalez
In this thought-provoking lesson for Fire 50, Manny leads viewers on a journey through a compelling narrative of faith, self-discovery, and transformation. Manny offers a raw and honest account of his own experiences, sharing how obedience has played a pivotal role in his life. He discusses the profound freedom and fulfillment that comes from embracing this core aspect of a Christian life. Through personal stories and insightful discussions, this episode invites you to explore the depths of obedience and the joy found in walking closely with one's faith. Join Manny and Jill in this captivating session and discover the unexpected beauty of obedience. 00:00 "Seven-Year Journey of Faith" 04:11 Overcoming Fear and Resentment 07:36 "Finding Joy in Unexpected Paths" 11:59 Experiencing LGBTQ+ Faith Journeys 15:17 "Supporting Hidden Struggles: A Dual Life" 19:21 Community and Support's Essential Role 20:10 Invitation and Accompaniment in Faith 25:13 "Embrace Honest Prayer and Doubt" 26:37 Falling Deeper in Love with Jesus Enroll in our Fire 50 program at Learn more about charisms and charism discernment at
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