Brilliant Balance
You deserve a big, full life and the freedom to enjoy it. The Brilliant Balance Podcast helps women in leadership design their next chapter for sustainable success—without burnout. Every week, host Cherylanne Skolnicki, a leading expert in work-life balance, leadership growth, and mindset coaching, shares ideas, inspiration, and insights to help high-achieving women align their ambition with personal fulfillment. Through conversations on leadership mindset, time management, and personal growth, you'll gain the tools to thrive in both your career and personal life. Whether you're considering a career pivot or craving more time for your personal life, you might find yourself asking: How do I advance my career—without working 24/7? Can I achieve my goals while still having time for my family? How do I stop feeling overwhelmed and start feeling in control? What’s next for me—and how do I design it intentionally? If you’ve ever wondered how to fulfill your potential without breaking your life, this podcast is for you. In addition to sharing her own insights, Cherylanne sits down with experts, thought leaders, and ambitious women who reveal their strategies for burnout recovery, productivity for women, and redefining success on their terms. You’ll love the Brilliant Balance Podcast if you like podcasts like: Unlocking Us or Dare to Lead with Brene Brown, Women at Work by Harvard Business Review, The Midlife with Reshma Saujani, We Can Do Hard Things with Glennon Doyle, The Mel Robbins Podcast, HerMoney with Jean Chatzky, So Money with Farnoosh Torabi
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Become the next version of you: The Enneagram Revisited with Heather Warnke
11/18/2025
Become the next version of you: The Enneagram Revisited with Heather Warnke
This week, I’m joined by our newest Brilliant Balance coach and a certified Enneagram expert, Heather Warnke, for a conversation about the transformative power of the Enneagram. Whether you’re a longtime fan of the Enneagram or just curious about this buzzworthy tool, you’ll discover how finding your true Enneagram type can catalyze profound self-awareness, compassion, and growth. We’ll break down what the Enneagram really is, why we sometimes mistype ourselves, and how uncovering your correct type can reshape the way you lead, love, and live. For years, I thought I knew my Enneagram type, until Heather walked me through a new assessment, and everything changed. This episode offers a glimpse into how discovering your core motivations can impact every part of your life, and practical wisdom to embrace your essence. Plus, I’ll tell you how you can experience this next-level clarity for yourself with a unique opportunity to work directly with Heather and Brilliant Balance! Show Highlights: Heather Warnke’s background and Enneagram journey. [03:40] What is the Enneagram? [05:27] Subtleties of alike behaviors with unalike underlying motivations. [06:56] Avoiding Enneagram type misidentification. [10:14] How correct Enneagram typing leads to radical self-integration. [15:38] Managing “shadows” for healthy “strengths” expressions. [25:07] Why ongoing certified Enneagram guidance matters. [28:56] The “act, feel, think” tri-type approach to the Enneagram. [31:34] The powerful positive ripples from embodied change. [34:03] Announcing the new Brilliant Balance Enneagram offering. [35:33] To book an Enneagram Intensive with Heather: Subscribe to the Brilliant Balance Weekly: Follow Cherylanne on Instagram: Join the Brilliant Balance Facebook Group:
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Unpopular advice: Get comfortable being uncomfortable
11/11/2025
Unpopular advice: Get comfortable being uncomfortable
In today’s encore episode, I’m sharing one of my favorite mindset reminders: how to get comfortable being uncomfortable. Expecting and embracing discomfort is where real growth happens—personally and professionally. I’ll revisit a memorable parenting moment to show how stepping into discomfort creates growth, and share the mindset shifts I use with clients and family. If you’re facing a new challenge or feeling stretched in your current chapter, this episode is for you. You’ll get practical tips on why discomfort is normal, temporary, and totally survivable. Join me for a fresh perspective and actionable insights to help you push past limits and step into new opportunities for brilliance! Show Highlights: Who needs the lesson in this episode the most? [02:06] Beauty-is-pain heels vs. life’s necessary discomfort. [03:24] The core story of a child who fears finishing a timed mile last. [05:01] Embrace discomfort instead of de-emphasizing it. [06:46] A strategy to visualize and anticipate discomfort. [07:41] The power of mindset over physical preparation. [11:07] Why you should not “tough it out” with discomfort. [14:33] Understanding the brain’s primitive and evolved parts. [15:39] Patterns of growth through discomfort in coaching clients. [18:10] A warning about your inner critic. [21:42] Subscribe to the Brilliant Balance Weekly: Follow Cherylanne on Instagram: Join the Brilliant Balance Facebook Group:
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Closing the Gratitude Gap: Why It’s Hard to Feel Thankful When You’re Tired
11/04/2025
Closing the Gratitude Gap: Why It’s Hard to Feel Thankful When You’re Tired
Have you ever found yourself staring at a gratitude journal, knowing you have so much to be thankful for, but just not feeling it? This week, I’m sharing a candid look into why gratitude can feel so out of reach when we’re tired, stressed, or running on empty, even as the world tells us it’s the season to count our blessings. As ambitious women with full plates and big dreams, it’s easy to fall into the trap of forcing gratitude, but in this episode, I reveal why rest and presence (not pressure) are the secret ingredients. I’ll show you how letting go of the “gratitude checklist” and learning to savor real moments can reignite that sense of appreciation you crave. If you’re ready for a fresh perspective on thankfulness that actually fits your busy, brilliant life, this episode is for you. Let’s give ourselves permission to experience gratitude as it was meant to be…joyful, effortless, and truly rewarding. Show Highlights: What is the gratitude gap? [00:49] The neurological reason fatigue blocks positive emotions. [02:55] The importance of rest to restore positivity. [05:41] Why forced gratitude doesn’t enter the heart. [06:37] Vividly reliving, embodying, and savoring positive moments. [08:24] How the pace of life affects gratitude. [10:39] Research findings on mindful slowing and pausing. [12:28] Making “gratitude pauses” a threshold ritual. [13:33] The power of being grateful for small joys. [14:36] Inviting you to subscribe and gift someone this episode. [17:39] Subscribe to the Brilliant Balance Weekly: Follow Cherylanne on Instagram: Join the Brilliant Balance Facebook Group:
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Burnout Backslide: Why High Achievers Keep Ending Up on Empty (and How to Stop It)
10/28/2025
Burnout Backslide: Why High Achievers Keep Ending Up on Empty (and How to Stop It)
Feeling like you’re running on empty, no matter how hard you try to have it all together? Fresh from an inspiring BOLD retreat in Asheville, NC, today I'll share the real reason high-achieving women like us keep slipping back into burnout, even after we swear we’ve got it handled. It’s not about willpower or your to-do list. Burnout is actually a biological loop that our bodies get stuck in, especially when the pace never seems to let up. I’ll walk you through the hidden mental loads we carry and why recovery needs to be built into our rhythm, not just crammed in when we’re desperate for a break. You’ll hear my top three strategies for breaking free from the burnout cycle and creating a life with energy, joy, and true freedom. This episode is your invitation to a new chapter, to make room for brilliance—and finally normalize rest, reclaim your rhythm, and enjoy what you're working so hard to build! Show Highlights: Healing with BOLD coaching group retreats. [00:51] Understand the pattern of the burnout backslide. [01:21] How burnout is biological, not a weakness. [03:27] The WHO definition of burnout and related data. [04:55] A powerful self-assessment guide for burnout. [05:52] Invisible mental and emotional overload. [06:32] The importance of energy audits to track depletion. [08:56] Why recovery must be rhythmic, not reactive. [09:39] The power of short breaks and scheduled rest. [11:10] Inviting you to connect, share this episode, and subscribe. [15:33] Subscribe to the Brilliant Balance Weekly: Follow Cherylanne on Instagram: Join the Brilliant Balance Facebook Group:
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Think inside the box: How constraints can lead to creative breakthroughs with Sheri Jacobs
10/21/2025
Think inside the box: How constraints can lead to creative breakthroughs with Sheri Jacobs
In this episode, I’m joined by Sheri Jacobs, an accomplished entrepreneur, bestselling author, keynote speaker, and passionate advocate for creative breakthroughs. She’s here to help us rethink everything we know about boundaries! We often hear that endless options drive innovation, but Sheri shows us how setting the right boundaries can actually ignite creativity and teamwork. She brings impactful stories and inspiration, from her arctic wildlife photography adventures to behind-the-scenes moments with leading companies like Bank of America, demonstrating how a few smart limits can lead to sharper solutions. She shares practical ways to create more clarity and space for what matters, at work and at home, even while juggling busy family lives and bold aspirations. If you feel overwhelmed by all you “should” be doing or struggle to find space for your passions, this episode offers fresh tools to help you choose what truly matters and design your most vibrant season yet. Listen in to learn how setting sensible limits can spark your next great idea. Show Highlights: Sheri Jacobs' wisdom on boundaries with a Miles Davis insight. [02:08] The myth that boundaries restrict rather than provide clarity. [03:50] How fewer options within constraints led to a winning arctic wildlife photo. [05:01] Tatiana Goodman’s findings on how fences foster creative play. [09:28] Why Bank of America’s “Keep the Change” program is successful. [12:33] Advice for women to break through ceilings by narrowing focus. [15:14] Beat FOMO and overwhelm with a priority correction. [16:53] How to get more done by setting a firm bedtime. [19:36] The power of a capsule wardrobe and curbing fashion excess. [21:36] Where are you not setting yourself free by creating a boundary? [22:46] To find Sheri's work and her books, go to . Subscribe to the Brilliant Balance Weekly: Follow Cherylanne on Instagram: Join the Brilliant Balance Facebook Group:
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Q4 Energy Check: Are You Running on Empty?
10/14/2025
Q4 Energy Check: Are You Running on Empty?
In this episode, I’m inviting you to join me for a much-needed Q4 energy check. As I head off to host a rejuvenating fall retreat with my BOLD coaching circle at the beautiful Grove Park Inn, I want to bring you into that vibe right here on the show. If your calendar is starting to feel like a pressure cooker—with work deadlines, kids’ activities, and holiday plans piling up—I get it. You’re not alone. I’ll walk you through a practical, honest self-audit to help you identify what’s draining you and what’s fueling you, and I’ll share small but powerful strategies to restore your energy before year’s end. From finding those micro-breaks in your day, to setting healthier boundaries, and making space for what truly matters, and whether you’re approaching exhaustion or simply want to preserve your spark this season, this episode is your permission slip to prioritize your well-being so you can finish the year feeling energized, present, and brilliant! Show Highlights: BOLD coaching circle fall retreat and restorative self-care. [00:51] The importance of energy management in Q4. [02:45] How to give yourself an energy audit. [04:39] Rituals that make you feel “healthy, whole, and human.” [08:36] Embrace micro-breaks for energy. [11:00] Saying the unselfish “no” to protect your bandwidth. [12:35] Planning ahead for the Q4 holiday chaos and fewer workweeks. [14:21] Remember that the end of the year is just a milestone. [17:07] Have you signed up for “The Weekly” newsletter? [20:35] Subscribe to the Brilliant Balance Weekly: Follow Cherylanne on Instagram: Join the Brilliant Balance Facebook Group:
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The Comparison Trap: Break Free from Keeping Up
10/07/2025
The Comparison Trap: Break Free from Keeping Up
In today’s episode, I’m exploring a topic that impacts all of us—falling into the “Comparison Trap.” Have you ever felt perfectly content with your life until a quick scroll through Instagram left you questioning if you were doing enough? I’ll share a personal story about a recent episode of backyard envy to show just how quickly other people’s highlight reels can undermine our own satisfaction. I’ll walk you through three powerful truths about comparison: how it drains your energy, distorts reality, and distracts you from your true purpose. If you’re ready to stop measuring yourself against others and want to reclaim the joy and momentum in your own journey, this episode will help you break the cycle and focus on your unique path to brilliance. Show Highlights: A personal story of the instant impact of Instagram comparison. [00:49] The hidden energy cost of comparison. [04:53] How comparison distorts perspective. [08:55] Recognizing the illusion of perfection and unseen struggles. [11:06] What comparison does to purpose. [13:18] Embrace the philosophy of running your own race. [15:05] How to weaken comparison with purpose. [15:41] Why is it important to celebrate others? [17:12] The sign that you haven’t yet found your path. [18:19] Action steps and reflection. [19:29] Subscribe to the Brilliant Balance Weekly: Follow Cherylanne on Instagram: Join the Brilliant Balance Facebook Group:
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Overcommitted? Try this.
09/30/2025
Overcommitted? Try this.
If you feel like your calendar is running your life, this episode is for you. Today, I’m shining a light on a struggle so many ambitious women know all too well…the trap of overcommitment. Why do we automatically say yes before we’ve even thought things through? How do we stop equating being needed with being valuable? I’m exploring how our standards of what’s reasonable might be setting us up for exhaustion, and the profound difference intentionally creating white space in our schedules can make before we desperately need it. I’ll share personal stories and real-world strategies to help you slow down the reflexive yes and redefine what’s actually reasonable for the seasons of life. If you’re ready for more breathing room and less burnout, this episode is your perfect starting point. Show Highlights: The reality of overcommitment. [00:50] Awareness of the automatic “Yes” Reflex. [03:28] The power of the pause—and learning to say no. [04:59] Your standards of what’s "reasonable" to take on. [08:03] Let others step up with self-compassion. [10:45] Building white space before you need it. [13:20] Why you need to protect your calendar. [16:55] Experiment with one shift and observe the impact. [17:19] Inviting you to share and try BOLD for community strength. [17:39] Subscribe to the Brilliant Balance Weekly: Follow Cherylanne on Instagram: Join the Brilliant Balance Facebook Group:
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Ask Cherylanne: Real Life Questions; Real World Answers
09/23/2025
Ask Cherylanne: Real Life Questions; Real World Answers
In today’s show, I’m trying something new—an “Ask Cherylanne” episode where I’m answering real-life questions from listeners just like you. We’re digging into topics around from balance to burnout, from caregiving to commutes, and handling imposter syndrome, especially during major career changes. Drawing from my coaching experience and personal journey, I’m sharing practical tips and relatable insights that you can easily put into action. I’ll also let you in on my “golden rule” for maintaining balance, no matter how hectic life becomes. So, settle in for some honest coaching that just might help you in the week ahead. And if this sparks questions of your own, reach out via DM or email because what you ask just may inspire a future episode! Show Highlights: Introducing the “Ask Cherylanne” special episode format. [00:43] Inverting resilience-building practices to combat burnout. [04:48] Advice for sandwich generation struggles. [07:28] Why emotional processing with external support matters. [11:18] Making commutes meaningful with a dual purpose. [12:27] Imposter syndrome during a career change. [16:07] Do you have a “wins” file? [17:52] Discover the golden rule for peace and balance. [19:27] How to send in your questions for future Q&A episodes. [21:26] Subscribe to the Brilliant Balance Weekly: Follow Cherylanne on Instagram: Join the Brilliant Balance Facebook Group:
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Stop Morning Chaos (Before It Starts)
09/16/2025
Stop Morning Chaos (Before It Starts)
Today, I’m sharing one of my favorite and most practical topics: how to get your mornings running smoothly without all the stress. With the school year underway and work routines in full gear, I know firsthand how challenging it can be to get everyone out the door calmly. From missing shoes to uncharged laptops, those frantic mornings can throw off your whole day! Are you ready to turn those mornings from a stressful scramble into a calm, productive launch pad for success? I’m laying out my tried-and-true framework that I call the “morning launch”—three simple, actionable keys that you can use starting tonight to set a positive tone for your mornings. Whether you’re managing school drop-offs, early meetings, or just looking for a more peaceful start, this episode is about making your mornings and days a whole lot easier and brighter. Show Highlights: The chaos of frantic mornings. [01:00] The importance of a smooth morning routine. [02:42] What to prep the night before for a stress-free morning. [04:48] Staging bedtimes and managing devices for good sleep. [08:42] Establishing an ideal step-by-step morning sequence. [10:10] Handle personal tasks first as much as possible. [12:31] Time-stamping steps and optimizing with adjustments. [14:22] Including space with a buffer time for disruptions. [16:12] Where to find more free resources like the morning launch. [20:24] Join the Brilliant Balance community on Facebook. [20:44] Subscribe to the Brilliant Balance Weekly: Follow Cherylanne on Instagram: Join the Brilliant Balance Facebook Group:
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Remaining Human in the Age of AI with Erica Keswin
09/09/2025
Remaining Human in the Age of AI with Erica Keswin
I’m so happy to have workplace strategist, bestselling author, and people-connection expert Erica Keswin join me in this episode for a timely conversation about life and workplace transformations in this age of AI. How can we stay connected in our technology-reshaped realities without sacrificing the values that make us uniquely human? Erica and I reflect on her journey as a lifelong connector, how technology has both empowered and challenged our ability to build meaningful relationships, and why intentionality is now more important than ever. She shares practical strategies for setting healthy boundaries with technology, fostering connection in hybrid and remote workplaces, and re-centering human purpose and presence in an increasingly digital era. We also discuss the anxieties around AI and job security, and why staying curious and learning about these changes (especially for women) is essential. Whether you’re embracing new tech or feeling cautious, I hope this episode offers inspiring guidance and helps you focus on what matters most: your relationships, rituals, and sense of purpose. Show Highlights: The need to rethink perpetual multi-device connectivity. [03:01] Consider setting daily limits to default tech use. [06:12] Why intentional touchpoints matter in remote and hybrid work. [10:21] Discover the 3 Ps of people-centered leadership. [12:59] Does technology empower or hinder relationships? [16:31] Fears and opportunities related to AI and the future of work. [22:09] What the data reveals about women’s disadvantage with AI. [26:25] The power of handwritten to-do lists. [28:24] Protect human uniqueness while integrating tech. [29:40] To find Erica's work, go to . Subscribe to the Brilliant Balance Weekly: Follow Cherylanne on Instagram: Join the Brilliant Balance Facebook Group:
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Are you your own worst enemy?
09/02/2025
Are you your own worst enemy?
This week, let’s confront an enemy many of us deal with: ourselves. If you find yourself stuck in a pattern of perfectionism, second-guessing your work, or feeling unsatisfied no matter what you accomplish, you’re definitely not alone, and this episode is for you. I'm taking a closer look at how we sometimes pile pressure on ourselves, whether that’s thanks to our inner critic, tying our self-worth to how much we get done, or just moving the goalposts on what “success” even means—but this isn’t about stacking on more guilt. I want to call out these patterns and talk about practical ways we can be kinder to ourselves, get out of burnout mode, and enjoy our wins. Join me to find out how self-compassion can create greater energy, creativity, and true fulfillment for you, and how to become your own biggest supporter before you write your next brilliant chapter. Show Highlights: Understanding self-created pressure. [00:47] Why overpreparing is a negative achievement pattern. [02:43] Signs of an overdeveloped inner critic. [05:30] The trap of equating effort with worth. [07:05] Moving goalposts vs. celebrating accomplishments. [09:07] Give yourself the empathy you would give others. [10:42] What is compassion as a performance strategy? [11:16] The power of coaching and peer support to end self-sabotage. [14:27] Inviting you to join BOLD or schedule an exploratory call. [16:04] Subscribe to the Brilliant Balance Weekly: Follow Cherylanne on Instagram: Join the Brilliant Balance Facebook Group:
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Breaking Free: Escaping the Overwhelm Cycle
08/26/2025
Breaking Free: Escaping the Overwhelm Cycle
Have you ever felt like your to-do list is multiplying before your eyes and you’re barely able to keep up? In this episode, I’m sharing my own experiences with overwhelm and why so many ambitious women struggle with it as they juggle big dreams, demanding careers, and packed lives. You’ll hear how to spot the subtle signs that overwhelm has crept in—not just as panic, but also as irritability, indecision, perfectionism, and even mental clutter—and discover the common triggers that set us up for that exhausting cycle. Most importantly, I break down the simple steps I use to clear my head, regain momentum, and create space for joy again. If you’re craving more balance and want to trade chaos for clarity, you’re in the right place to find your way back to a lighter, more manageable life as you create your next chapter. Show Highlights: Recognizing overwhelm. [00:47] Recent themes of reasonable limits and preventing burnout. [01:28] What overwhelm feels and looks like. [02:58] Is being overwhelmed having too much to do? [05:10] The unrealistic basis of chronic overwhelm. [05:48] Learning to delegate responsibility. [07:07] Poor or nonexistent boundaries. [11:02] How to do a brain dump. [12:54] The most powerful antidote to overwhelm. [15:35] Declare a daily finish line. [17:44] Subscribe to the Brilliant Balance Weekly: Follow Cherylanne on Instagram: Join the Brilliant Balance Facebook Group:
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Build a Burnout Proof Life with Michelle Grosser
08/19/2025
Build a Burnout Proof Life with Michelle Grosser
I’m thrilled to introduce Michelle Grosser, a powerhouse former trial lawyer, law professor, and a mom of two, with a story so many of us can relate to: outward success paired with hidden exhaustion and stress. She seemed to be managing it all until her body and mind hit their limits. Today, she’s a nervous system strategist and the host of the Alive and Well podcast, who helps high-achieving women build burnout-proof lives. She’ll guide you through science-backed strategies and simple, impactful daily habits that you can start using right away to break free from chronic stress and reclaim mental wellness. Together, we’ll bust the cultural myths about success and perfection, and explore ways to create more energy, presence, and joy in our lives. If you crave a fuller, healthier chapter and practical, empowering tools to support a vibrant, resilient life, join us for this energizing, wisdom-packed conversation. Show Highlights: Fast-tracking to burnout and the roots of a driven nature. [02:23] Physical and mental signs of burnout. [05:30] Shift both the state and traits of burnout—recover and prevent. [07:37] The power of addition by subtraction to shed unneeded routines. [09:41] A simple tip to tune into your body and mind every day. [11:52] “Movement, stillness, play” daily trio for nervous system support. [19:23] What are somatic cues? [19:23] Life-changing tools to safely release emotions at home or work. [22:47] The role of the prefrontal cortex in nervous system strategy. [29:51] Access Michelle Grosser’s podcast and her 17-page free guide. [33:02] To find Michelle's work, including the Alive and Well podcast, please visit . Subscribe to the Brilliant Balance Weekly: Follow Cherylanne on Instagram: Join the Brilliant Balance Facebook Group:
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The Bounce-Back Blueprint: How to Recover from a Setback and Reclaim Your Momentum
08/12/2025
The Bounce-Back Blueprint: How to Recover from a Setback and Reclaim Your Momentum
In this episode, I’m exploring a topic that touches all of us, yet one we so rarely anticipate: setbacks. I’ll also reveal the art (and the necessity) of bouncing back from setbacks, how instead of defining us, they can shape us, helping us grow stronger, wiser, and more resilient. I’m going to talk about the two different types of setbacks—permanent losses and temporary obstacles—and help you understand which ones require letting go and which call for persistence. I’m going to walk you through my “Bounce-Back Blueprint,” a straightforward, three-step process that can help you recover from disappointments, extract meaningful lessons, reexamine your goals, and move forward with fresh energy and clarity. If you’ve ever gotten thrown off course, whether in your career, relationships, or personal pursuits, this episode will offer practical advice and encouragement to help you regain your momentum and step boldly into your next chapter. Show Highlights: Making sense of setbacks and resilience before bouncing back. [01:19] The type of setback the Bounce-Back Blueprint resolves. [02:47] The art of finding the lesson in a setback. [05:43] The power of seeing that life is “for” you. [07:01] Reevaluating goals after learning from a setback. [08:16] Learn to pause, recover, and then recommit. [09:58] A real-life scenario with the Bounce-Back Blueprint in action. [12:00] Plateauing with setbacks vs. rising with a comeback. [14:20] Do you need support from the Brilliant Balance community? [15:27] Subscribe to the Brilliant Balance Weekly: Follow Cherylanne on Instagram: Join the Brilliant Balance Facebook Group:
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Redefining Reasonable: It’s Time to Stop Overcompensating for Unrealistic Expectations
08/05/2025
Redefining Reasonable: It’s Time to Stop Overcompensating for Unrealistic Expectations
Today, I’m taking a close look at the invisible pressures so many ambitious women, including myself, face while trying to have it all. If you’ve ever felt like you’re constantly running… juggling work demands, family obligations, and the endless “extras” that keep life moving, this episode is for you. I’m calling out the unrealistic expectations we’re accepting including the invisible labor trap, and explaining why it can feel like we’re playing in a rigged game. I’ll help you recognize the hidden work you do, explore why it often goes unnoticed, and, most importantly, show you how to redefine what’s actually reasonable for your life. Join me for actionable insights, some deeply needed reality checks, and a powerful permission slip to stop overcompensating for a system that isn’t serving you. Show Highlights: Spot the self-perpetuating trap of invisible labor. [03:20] Beware of non-promotable work volunteerism. [05:23] Consider the hidden costs of the invisible labor trap. [07:48] Are you underreporting your unseen contributions? [09:19] The problem of managing perception, not reality. [11:14] The power of reframing and making work visible. [14:06] Reclaim your agency in a rigged game to redefine success. [15:07] Recognize what’s not a “you” problem. [19:14] Action steps to unlock agency without guilt. [20:28] Reach out for support, plus, share and spread the balance. [22:27] Subscribe to the Brilliant Balance Weekly: Follow Cherylanne on Instagram: Join the Brilliant Balance Facebook Group:
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The Weather Within: Making Sense of Emotions with Kathy Washburn
07/29/2025
The Weather Within: Making Sense of Emotions with Kathy Washburn
In today’s episode, we’re talking about a framework for making sense of our emotions with Kathy Washburn, a positive psychology practitioner, life coach, cancer survivor, and extraordinary human. We’ll explore her “emotional weather” metaphor, which offers a fresh perspective and actionable wisdom on the storms we can feel within. Kathy draws on her powerful story of resilience and healing, moving from a life of outward success and emotional numbness to one marked by disruption, disease, deep self-inquiry, and reinvention, and shares how to become a compassionate witness to our emotions and those of others, letting go of people-pleasing and emotional suppression. She offers practical tools for positively weathering emotional storms, insights on fostering emotional awareness, and tangible steps for using curiosity and presence to maintain connection, even when someone else’s “weather system” rolls in. I hope you’ll walk away feeling inspired and ready to try some new practices that can help you handle whatever weather comes your way. Show Highlights: Kathy Washburn’s backstory of her “house blown down.” [02:56] Positive psychology and generational gaps in emotional literacy. [07:09] Understand emotions as weather, and yourself as the mountain. [10:21] Emotional contagion and the “Mother, may I?” steps strategy. [13:46] How to respond with curiosity when it’s hard to empathize. [16:58] Discover the “gift and opportunity” in difficult situations. [20:18] Why bypassing dis-ease turns into physical disease. [25:26] Learning to sit with emotions for 90 seconds. [27:19] Balancing emotions vs. toxic positivity. [34:47] Can we forecast and prepare for inbound relational storms? [40:18] To find Kathy's work, visit . Also, Kathy references Jill Bolte Taylor's work. Here is a link to her episode on Brilliant Balance: Subscribe to the Brilliant Balance Weekly: Follow Cherylanne on Instagram: Join the Brilliant Balance Facebook Group:
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"Be Her Now" Making your vision your reality with Julie Solomon
07/22/2025
"Be Her Now" Making your vision your reality with Julie Solomon
I’m so excited to bring you today’s episode because I had the pleasure of sitting down with the dynamic Julie Solomon, author, speaker, coach, and host of The Influencer Podcast, to talk about what it takes to turn our boldest visions into reality with her “Be her now” mantra. Julie reveals her evolution beyond her bestselling book Get What You Want and her unique perspective on “identity recalibration.” She shares how getting radically honest about who you are and what you want is the decisive first step toward living the life you want. You'll hear about how the hidden stories from our past shape our choices and the power of embracing self-trust and clarity through action. Whether you’re leading a team, building a business, or just striving to show up more fully in your life, Julie’s insights are both practical and inspiring and will help you step into the fullest, most confident version of you. I can’t wait for you to listen! Show Highlights: Julie Solomon’s journey and deeper focus on identity recalibration. [03:45] Defining desires through radically honest self-reflection. [08:02] How to create clarity and trust the process. [10:54] The power of accepting and rewriting your origin story. [13:33] Embody your message through authentic personal presence. [18:24] “If you spot it, you’ve got it” - discovering yourself in others. [25:05] The “Be her now” strategy to be your highest self now. [26:31] Shift messaging to serve your future (not former) version. [29:45] How stagnant messaging leads to loss of inspiration. [32:31] Reinventing your professional identity. [34:02] To find Julie's work online visit or find her on Instagram at . Subscribe to the Brilliant Balance Weekly: Follow Cherylanne on Instagram: Join the Brilliant Balance Facebook Group:
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Turn Down the Noise to Tune Into You
07/15/2025
Turn Down the Noise to Tune Into You
Do you feel like the “noise” in your life is turned up way too high? Between buzzing phones, the din of a busy home, endless notifications, and the constant pulse of comparison, it can be nearly impossible to hear your own thoughts. Today, I’ll talk about the shocking impact of noise on our clarity, creativity, and sense of calm. I’m sharing how to spot the three major types of noise that keep us from hearing our inner voice and what to do about it. But don’t worry, you don’t have to escape to a mountain retreat or delete every app on your phone—I’ll share simple strategies and mindful shifts to help you tune out the noise and reconnect with your inner compass right where you are, making space for your most brilliant self to step forward! If you’ve been craving a little peace amidst the chaos and want to reconnect with what’s true for you, don’t miss this episode. Show Highlights: The cacophony of noise that drowns out inner clarity. [00:47] What’s the definition of “noise”? [02:38] How literal noise overstimulates the nervous system. [03:24] The danger of comparison through social noise. [05:22] What a loud inner critic does to intuition. [07:31] The collective impact of noise and the path out. [08:39] Reviving inner wisdom with contemplative practices. [11:05] Embrace the power of single-tasking. [12:57] Listen to your body and its “punctuation on truth.” [14:42] Curating your inputs for nourishment. [18:11] Subscribe to the Brilliant Balance Weekly: Follow Cherylanne on Instagram: Join the Brilliant Balance Facebook Group:
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The Surprising Truth About Why You Do It All
07/08/2025
The Surprising Truth About Why You Do It All
If you often catch yourself thinking, It’s just easier if I do it myself, this episode is for you. I’m sharing the truth behind why so many women try to do it all and how it’s holding us back from freedom and lasting happiness. I’ll share some of my own stories of control and explain how the drive to control often creates burnout and strained relationships….but guess what! We don’t have to stay stuck in that exhausting cycle. I’ll share the eye-opening concept of “locus of control” and what happens when our healthy sense of agency becomes overdeveloped and turns into hyper-control. I’m also giving you three practical steps you can start using today to relinquish some of that control and let trust and connection flourish in your life as it returns to balance. So, tune in and discover how redefining responsibility can create space for more brilliance and balance in your next chapter. Show Highlights: Hyper-control and what it’s about. [01:08] Why do women universally conflate responsibility and control? [03:02] Discover the “locus of control” theory. [04:42] The downsides of an overdeveloped internal locus of control. [06:13] Who or what don’t you trust? [10:01] The transformative power of genuine trust. [12:17] Find others’ trustworthiness through micro-delegation. [13:59] Embrace the 80% rule for the joy of “done” over precision. [16:07] The power of the pause in sitting with discomfort. [17:10] An exercise to restore connection over perfection. [20:05] Subscribe to the Brilliant Balance Weekly: Follow Cherylanne on Instagram: Join the Brilliant Balance Facebook Group:
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How to Motivate Yourself When You're Just Not Feeling It
07/01/2025
How to Motivate Yourself When You're Just Not Feeling It
Today, I’m talking about something that hits close to home for so many of us: how to spark motivation on those days when you’re just not feeling it. Even though I’m ambitious by nature, there are days when motivation is tough to find. Whether it’s being stuck inside on a gorgeous summer day or just feeling bored with a routine that’s gotten stale, I know how hard it can be to get moving again. In this episode, I’m sharing my own experiences with these motivational slumps and the three things that have helped me get back on track. These are real, practical steps that can help you reignite that drive. If you’ve been struggling to find your groove, you’re in the right place. Show Highlights: Seasonal triggers for low motivation and boredom. [00:49] Change your environment to jumpstart motivation. [03:08] How making shifts in physical space boosts creativity. [05:32] The power of decluttering to reorder energetics. [07:11] What’s in your intake of food, media, and company? [08:39] Set a back-to-basics reset plan for big results. [10:57] Change goals that have run their course. [13:53] Why letting go of dead goals should be guilt-free. [17:31] Find me on LinkedIn. [19:53] Subscribe to the Brilliant Balance Weekly: Follow Cherylanne on Instagram: Join the Brilliant Balance Facebook Group:
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Episode 400: What’s Next for You, for Me, and for Brilliant Balance
06/24/2025
Episode 400: What’s Next for You, for Me, and for Brilliant Balance
I can hardly believe this is the 400th episode of the Brilliant Balance show! Today, I’m taking a beat to honor the milestone and sharing some of the powerful shifts I’m seeing in women like us that will influence where we go from here. From letting go of “busy” as a badge of honor to seeking real connection and weaving more ease into our lives, I’m highlighting what’s changing and what’s next - for me, for you, and for our community. You’ll also get a glimpse of the new experiences (including in person events) I’m building to support growth for all of us. Whether you're a longtime listener or brand new to the show, this episode is a great place to pause, reflect, and look forward together because I’m inviting you to shape the next chapter with me. Let’s make this next season the best one yet! Show Highlights: Celebrating the 400th episode millstone. [00:47] How the podcast has evolved over seven years. [01:45] Shifting out of overwhelm and ending the glorification of “busy.” [05:47] Why we crave real, meaningful human connection. [06:40] Integration of masculine and feminine leadership traits. [08:06] Choosing ease as a strategy, not a luxury. [09:57] We want to empower your sense of personal presence. [11:39] Let’s go beyond content into a deeper community model. [12:50] Look forward to amazing curated experiences. [14:18] What’s next for you? [17:05] Subscribe to the Brilliant Balance Weekly: Follow Cherylanne on Instagram: Join the Brilliant Balance Facebook Group:
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This summer, let's LIVE a little
06/17/2025
This summer, let's LIVE a little
Today, I’m inviting you to shake up the routine of your daily life and revive the sparks of sheer delight, pleasure, and aliveness you may be missing lately. This week, I’m introducing the "Live a Little” challenge, a seven-day invitation to rediscover the small moments that make life truly worthwhile. From dancing in your kitchen to savoring a sunset or saying yes to that spontaneous treat, you’ll find practical ways to rekindle creativity, resilience and genuine joy. I’ll share science-backed insights on the power of positive emotions and challenge you to not just survive your days, but to truly feel good, right now. Follow along on Instagram (@cskolnicki) for inspiration, ideas, and a gentle push to live a little this summer—because your most brilliant life starts with the micro-moments you choose to savor. Show Highlights: Find delight in simple spontaneity. [00:47] What if we rediscover everyday pleasures together this summer? [05:23] Positive affect and the science of feeling good. [08:07] Remembering that you are allowed to feel good. [09:41] Announcing the “Live a Little” challenge. [11:00] A list of simple ideas to spark delight. [12:59] The power of small stuff. [17:26] Spread the word. [19:12] Subscribe to the Brilliant Balance Weekly: Follow Cherylanne on Instagram: Join the Brilliant Balance Facebook Group:
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The Two Levers of Leadership: Power and Influence
06/10/2025
The Two Levers of Leadership: Power and Influence
Today, I’m talking about the art of leading with both power and influence. After numerous conversations with college-aged women and coaching calls with experienced leaders, it’s evident that these two sides of leadership show up everywhere—at work, at home, and in our communities—but we often wrestle with when to exercise authority and when to win hearts and minds through connection. I’m guiding you through what each approach really looks like and when to apply which. I’ll also share some practical tips that you can implement right away. Whether you’re making big decisions or building team buy-in, I’m breaking down the approaches that will help you show up with both confidence and genuine connection. If you’ve ever wondered how to strike the perfect balance between being respected and relatable, or when to make the call vs when to rally support, you’ll find helpful ideas here. Let’s expand your leadership toolkit so you can lead in a way that actually feels good to you—your way! Show Highlights: Why power and influence matter in real-world leadership. [00:42] Positional power vs. earned influence. [03:15] The pros and cons of women’s leadership dynamic. [06:06] Cultivating influence—and ways to practice it today. [09:55] The five key skills of positional power. [15:43] How influence is lateral while power is vertical. [21:01] Balance power and influence with situational wisdom. [23:17] Take action with this important reflection. [26:02] Subscribe to the Brilliant Balance Weekly: Follow Cherylanne on Instagram: Join the Brilliant Balance Facebook Group:
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When your problem solving becomes a problem
06/03/2025
When your problem solving becomes a problem
Have you ever caught yourself slipping into “fixer mode,” always jumping in to solve everyone’s problems, sometimes before they even ask? In today’s episode, I’m sharing the psychology behind why so many of us feel compelled to take charge and what it’s really costing us (and those we care about most). You'll discover why being the go-to problem-solver isn’t always helpful and how it can unintentionally hinder others’ growth while depleting your own reserves. I’ll offer a practical roadmap to shift from rescuing to coaching, showing you how to empower those around you at work and at home to step up, learn, and grow. Whether you’re a leader, a parent, or just someone who feels responsible for everyone else’s happiness, this episode is for you. Tune in to learn how to create healthier, more sustainable relationships—and reclaim some much-needed headspace for yourself. Show Highlights: Invitation to my “Clarity & Courage” workshop on June 5. [01:29] What is the fixer reflex? [03:07] Over-functioning vs. under-functioning. [04:19] The psychological reasons behind fixer behavior. [06:25] How chronic fixing depletes the fixer. [10:55] The debilitating costs of fixing to the dependent. [13:44] Why breaking free from the fixer pattern is challenging. [16:38] Learned responsibility bias and unlearning it. [18:39] Beginning the shift from being a fixer to a facilitator. [20:37] Join our BOLD community for support to overcome fixer habits. [25:17] Subscribe to the Brilliant Balance Weekly: Follow Cherylanne on Instagram: Join the Brilliant Balance Facebook Group:
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Working toward your "what's next"
05/27/2025
Working toward your "what's next"
Have you ever felt a tug in your heart that whispers, “There has to be more than this”? You’re not alone, and in today's episode, I’m sharing why ignoring that nudge could be holding you back from the vibrant, fulfilling life you deserve. I’ll shine a light on those subtle signs calling you forward, and we’ll talk honestly about why it’s so easy to settle for “just fine.” I’ll let you in on my own experiences navigating big changes and how asking the right questions—and getting the right support—made all the difference. If you’re ready to stop going through the motions and finally say yes to what’s next, you won’t want to miss this conversation. Let’s step into possibility, side by side. Show Highlights: Recognize the inner tug that signals the time for change. Why we ignore or suppress life’s nudges. [01:18] The risks of staying stuck or settling. [07:29] Personal stories of choosing change. [10:57] The importance of the purposeful pause. [13:06] Embrace guidance as a key to personal growth. [16:12] Join my live Clarity Workshop. [18:30] Ask yourself this question now as the first step forward. [19:52] To register for my upcoming FREE workshop, visit: Subscribe to the Brilliant Balance Weekly: Follow Cherylanne on Instagram: Join the Brilliant Balance Facebook Group:
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Doing Your Light Work with Jessica Zweig
05/20/2025
Doing Your Light Work with Jessica Zweig
I am beyond excited to share today’s episode with you as I welcome the brilliant Jessica Zweig, dynamic entrepreneur, bestselling author, and renowned voice in spiritual alignment for business and life. Jessica is here with her latest book The Light Work and will explain the intersection of spirituality, personal growth, and joyful living. In our conversation, Jessica opens up about her journey from feeling like an outsider as a child to finding her artistic voice, embracing entrepreneurship, and ultimately discovering the profound importance of aligning inner truth with outer impact. She shares candid stories about burnout, transformation, and the hard-won wisdom that allows her—and us—to step into our full light. Get ready for a refreshing episode as we unpack what it really means to be authentic, why joy is our birthright, and how facing the dark opens the pathway to brilliance. Whether you're craving more purpose, navigating a transition, or searching for inspiration, this episode is sure to resonate. Show Highlights: Discover Jessica Zweig’s early life and influences. [03:24] Jessica’s “Simply Be” chapter of trauma that led to personal and branding authenticity. [07:47] What is authenticity in private and in public? [12:21] The Light Work’s core message of embracing both light and darkness to find joy. [15:54] Spiritual awakening in Egypt and 3D vs. 5D realities. [20:13] Generational trauma and the true nature and deliberate choice of joy. [26:44] Listen to Jessica read from The Light Work about embodying light and radiance. [32:08] Where to get Jessica’s books and listen to her podcast. [35:25] To find Jessica's work and her books, visit: Subscribe to the Brilliant Balance Weekly: Follow Cherylanne on Instagram: Join the Brilliant Balance Facebook Group:
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5 Little Reminders You Might Need Right Now
05/13/2025
5 Little Reminders You Might Need Right Now
This week, I’m taking a step back from my usual focus on achievement and momentum to share five gentle reminders for anyone experiencing a tough season. If life feels heavy or overwhelming right now, tuck this episode away like a little love note in your pocket—it’s chock full of encouragement, perspective, and permission to honor where you are. I’ll talk about embracing the unprecedented nature of each new day, accepting life's inevitable highs and lows, making space for change, letting go of the need to have it all figured out, and the power of a good night's sleep. Whether you need a boost or simply a moment to catch your breath, this episode is a perfect companion for navigating the ups and downs of life's journey. Show Highlights: Know that it’s okay to accept life’s low chapters. [01:06] Embracing new beginnings daily. [03:08] How to ride uncertainty with grace. [04:22] Be empowered to be at the helm of your own change. [06:30] Coping with anxiety about the future. [07:38] The wisdom of giving yourself a good night’s rest. [09:05] Subscribe to the Brilliant Balance Weekly: Follow Cherylanne on Instagram: Join the Brilliant Balance Facebook Group:
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Finding Grit when you need it most with Shannon Huffman Polson
05/06/2025
Finding Grit when you need it most with Shannon Huffman Polson
In this episode, I sit down with Shannon Huffman Polson to talk about grit. Shannon is the founder of The Grit Institute and the author of The Grit Factor…a skill she honed by, among other things, being one of the first women to fly the Apache helicopter in the U.S. Army! Shannon shares her incredible journey from a shy Alaskan kid to breaking barriers in some of the world’s toughest environments, including the military, leading line units on three continents, and corporate leadership. We get real about what it takes to find true grit when life gets hard, the power of purpose and owning your story. If you’re ready to push your own limits while still honoring your well-being, you’re in exactly the right place. Tune in for inspiration and actionable takeaways to fuel your next bold move! Show Highlights: The power of cultivating discipline in early adversity and success in paradoxes. [04:21] What is it like to become a female Apache pilot? [11:15] Challenges faced by pioneering women in military aviation. [14:29] The double crucible “firsts” in insular fields face while representing change. [18:30] Insights on heeding the inner call for a career shift and higher purpose. [23:38] How a corporate bridge from tragedy to purpose birthed the Grit Institute. [25:46] Discover the Grit Institute’s focus and world-class programs. [28:10] Explore the healthy limits of grit with the “Grit Triad.” [30:25] The essential key to strength and renewal in rest. [37:05] The Grit Institute’s work for high school and college students. [40:58] To find Shannon’s work, visit . To buy Shannon's book The Grit Factor, visit: Subscribe to the Brilliant Balance Weekly: Follow Cherylanne on Instagram: Join the Brilliant Balance Facebook Group:
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How to Keep Moving Through Uncertain Times
04/29/2025
How to Keep Moving Through Uncertain Times
In today's episode, we're exploring how to keep moving through uncertain times. You know that swirling feeling of facing too many unknowns and variables? Fear not, you're not alone, and even amidst this uncertainty, there is a path forward. I've got insights and strategies to keep you not just afloat, but moving forward! Plus, I'm inviting you to a live workshop on May 8 that’s all about finding clarity amidst the chaos. If you're ready to embrace challenges and seize new opportunities with confidence, this episode is just for you. Let's navigate these uncertain waters together and create a life that feels as good as it looks! Show Highlights: Join my live workshop on finding clarity on May 8. [01:37] Understand uncertainty. [03:04] Discover the neuroscience of uncertainty. [06:17] Is the fear of making wrong decisions paralyzing you? [08:20] Shatter the illusion of control. [09:37] How to shift from outcome-based paralysis to a process focus. [14:19] Do you have foundational practices keeping you in agency? [15:53] Discover “both/and” thinking for realism–optimism balance. [17:15] The importance of choosing support and advice wisely. [20:27] Subscribe to the Brilliant Balance Weekly: Follow Cherylanne on Instagram: Join the Brilliant Balance Facebook Group: Check out Mackey Advisors at: Visit and use code "CHERYLANNE" for 10% off your stay at any Canyon Ranch property!
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