Career Blindspot
Frustrated even though you “did everything right”? That is why we started a podcast for Career Blindspot to talk about what work nuance, triggers, clichés, and most importantly, how to do better for ourselves. 200 episodes in and counting. 🎙️ Tune in, share, and put it to use—because 40 plus hours/week may not be your whole life, but it is still your life.
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The Time Trap: Energy as the True Resource
07/06/2026
The Time Trap: Energy as the True Resource
Would More Time Actually Make You Happier? (It Might Be Energy You’re Missing) Juan questions whether having more free time would actually make people happier, proposing that many would feel just as miserable because they wouldn’t know how to use the extra time beyond more consumption or distraction. Juan cites the pandemic as evidence: despite eliminating commutes and gaining time, many remote workers felt more frustrated and guilty, realizing they weren’t working continuously and were drained by meetings and distractions. The core issue is framed as energy and quality rest rather than time, illustrated by Juan's wife, Courtney, correcting “I don’t have time” to “I don’t have energy,” and a pattern of meeting others’ priorities while neglecting one’s own. The episode ends with a practical call to action: set a 5–15 minute timer to close your eyes and rest or nap to regain clarity. 00:00 Would More Time Help 01:06 Pandemic Time Paradox 01:34 Work From Home Reality 02:18 What Fills Free Time 02:54 Time Versus Energy 04:09 Vacation Escape Loop 05:17 Quality Rest Matters 06:31 Clear Head Over Hours 08:30 Slow Down To Recharge 08:50 Five Minute Reset 10:08 Closing Thoughts
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Reflecting on Career Influences: My Top 5
06/30/2026
Reflecting on Career Influences: My Top 5
Top Five Career Influences: Mentors, Coaches, and Unexpected Teachers Juan talks about his five key career influences and urges all of you to do the same and reach out to someone you haven’t thanked in a while. He credits Louise, a Glendale Community College fitness center boss and health/wellness faculty member, for building confidence and telling him at 19 he’d be paid to speak. Mike D., a City of Glendale Parks and Recreation supervisor, made him feel valued, reliable, and modeled accountability through a sincere apology after overreacting. Brad and Debbie Harper introduced Juan to DISC, motivators, assessments, and health, with Debbie remembered as a generous community connector. Executive coach Rico Pena helped unlock growth with kind, nonjudgmental coaching. Actor Kevin Pollak (and friend Jamie Foxx) influenced through Pollak’s early podcast, modeling creative networking, integrity, and long-term career building. 00:00 Top Five Influences Setup 01:02 Louise Sees Your Potential 03:16 Mike and Being Reliable 06:15 Brad and Debbie Assessment World 09:30 Rico Pena Coaching Breakthrough 12:29 Kevin Pollak Creative Networking 15:01 Wrap Up and Call Someone
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Nice Is Not A Skill
06/22/2026
Nice Is Not A Skill
Why “Nice” Isn’t a Compliment at Work Juan argues that being described as “nice” is rarely a real compliment in the workplace and often signals a lack of meaningful contribution, unlike respect earned through skill or expertise. Using an example from teaching gymnastics at The Little Gym, he explains that vague praise like “good job” provides no useful feedback, similar to calling someone “nice” without specifics. Juan contrasts being merely polite with being kind and assert that aiming to be nice can become an insecurity-driven restraint that prevents honest opinions and skill-building. He observes that difficult coworkers may still be respected for competence, while “nice” can mask low value. Lastly, Juan reflects on regretting times they stayed “nice” instead of calling out racism or sexism, concluding with a call to action to stop prioritizing niceness over values and honesty. 00:00 Is Nice a Compliment 00:40 Nice at Work Means Nothing 01:41 The Empty Praise Problem 02:40 Specific Feedback Wins 03:39 What Kids Really Remember 04:53 Nice Versus Kind 05:41 Respect Beats Niceness 07:17 When Niceness Creates Regret 07:50 Calling Out Bias 08:46 Stop Being Nice
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Why Am I Stuck?
06/15/2026
Why Am I Stuck?
Smart + Kind But Stuck: The Missing Ingredient Is Experimentation In this episode, Juan explores why smart, kind people still feel stuck, arguing it often comes from avoiding risk and clinging to perceived safety, security, and responsibility. He notes that loud voices frame empathy as weakness, but for people trying to live well and care for others, empathy is an advantage; the real problem is not experimenting beyond what’s familiar. Drawing on personal ruts despite past leaps (entrepreneurship, podcasting, writing), the speaker reframes risk as playful experimentation, like solving puzzles in Zelda, and suggests that misery signals there’s more to learn about oneself. They cite pandemic-driven innovation such as telemedicine—possible before but adopted when forced—as evidence people can change without crisis. The call to action is to get curious and try small new experiments in work, health, or daily routines. 00:00 Why You Feel Stuck 01:03 Smart Kind But Safe 03:19 Experiment Over Risk 05:29 Miserable Means Learning 06:20 Opportunity In Uncertainty 07:05 Small Risks Daily 08:43 Pandemic Innovation Lesson 10:27 Whats Up Danger 10:41 Your Call To Experiment
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Don't Hate, Cultivate!
06/08/2026
Don't Hate, Cultivate!
Don’t Hate, Cultivate: Turning Negativity Into Community Help Juan reflects on how easy and even enjoyable it can be to “hate” or judge others—citing examples like comic book movies, social media, the news, and everyday relationships—but argues it’s ultimately unsatisfying. Inspired by a “Don’t hate, cultivate” shirt from Cultivate Coffee in Phoenix, they propose cultivating as a remedy: creating, connecting, referring others, supporting events, and helping “the helpers,” echoing Mr. Rogers’ idea of looking for helpers during crises. They emphasize that small acts—showing up, donating, introducing people, borrowing sugar from neighbors to build mutual support—strengthen community and reduce envy, fear, and doomscrolling. The call to action is to ask how you can help, ask for help yourself, and redirect negative energy into constructive action or support for someone you trust. 00:00 Are You a Hater 00:35 Why Hating Feels Good 01:02 Dont Hate Cultivate 02:00 Cultivating Through Referrals 02:45 Look for the Helpers 04:41 Doomscrolling and Outrage 06:03 It Takes a Village 06:47 Neighbor Sugar Story 07:59 Ask for Help Too 08:19 Flip Hate Into Action 09:06 Final Sendoff
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Navigating Reactive Distractions: Understanding Self-Sabotage
06/01/2026
Navigating Reactive Distractions: Understanding Self-Sabotage
Reactive Distraction and Self-Sabotage: Protecting Your Boundaries Juan talks about recording this short episode while feeling time pressure to get home to help his sick wife and 1-year-old, using this as an example of “reactive distraction” in his BS (blind spot) model: leaking energy by reacting to interruptions and obligations that don’t match the urgency. He shares cases like choosing to help a friend despite needing to work, getting calls from daycare about his 3-year-old’s anxiety-related “sickness,” taking a non-urgent call during a cautious gym session with an injured ankle, and home contractors running late, all of which trigger guilt, people-pleasing, or avoidance of harder tasks. He argues the issue isn’t the events but the mindset and lowered boundaries, and urges listeners to identify where they unconsciously “lower the drawbridge,” calibrate responses to true urgency, and protect time without becoming rigid or militant. 00:00 Why I Self Sabotage 00:58 Reactive Distraction Explained 01:25 Gas Tank Analogy 02:08 Helping Drew vs Work 03:13 Daycare Call Dilemma 05:19 Gym Injury and Phone Call 06:52 Contractor Chaos at Home 07:41 Boundaries and Blind Spots 09:42 Call to Action and Wrap Up
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Name Your Distraction without Judgement
05/25/2026
Name Your Distraction without Judgement
Name Your Distraction: “Troubleshooting” and the Neutral Labeling Practice In this episode, Juan asks everyone to identify the word they use for how they distract themselves and suggests choosing a neutral term without shame or pride. He describes his own pattern as “troubleshooting,” citing examples like repeatedly adjusting camera setup, tinkering with Apple Music sync issues, and getting sidetracked during Zoom calls, even when he intended to record podcasts. He contrasts this with “triage,” focusing on the most pressing priority, and consider whether his behavior reflects “tanking” (sacrificing short-term goals) or “trepidation” (nervous avoidance). Juan notes oversharing in medical appointments as another way distractions can derail the main objective. The core call to action is to name and observe one’s distraction habit—neutrally—so it can be noticed and let go in the moment. 00:00 Name Your Distraction 00:55 Troubleshooting as Avoidance 01:39 Triage and Oversharing 02:30 Tanking or Trepidation 03:38 Why Troubleshooting Feels Fun 04:27 Neutral Labeling Practice 05:21 Values Versus Planning 06:48 Call to Action Wrap Up
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Embracing Discomfort: Allowing Healing and Growth
05/18/2026
Embracing Discomfort: Allowing Healing and Growth
Are You Allowing Yourself to Heal? Using the Blind Spot Model to Stop Avoidance Juan asks whether listeners are allowing themselves to heal, using his own recent ankle injury and past back nerve pinch as examples of how avoiding discomfort can stall recovery even when life stays busy with work and family. He connects physical healing to emotional and relational healing through his “BS model,” describing avoidant coping (the “red” area) as common when tired or in pain, and “intentional presence” (the “blue” area) as necessary for healing even though it can be uncomfortable. He notes how unaddressed pain affects workouts, sleep, and progress, and argues that people often cope with pain through distractions rather than dealing with it directly, similar to avoiding therapy. He closes by linking avoidance to shame and urging listeners to pause and identify where they haven’t fully healed—physically, professionally, or in relationships—and decide if it’s worth addressing. 00:00 Are You Healing 01:27 Injury and Avoidance 02:04 Ankle Wake Up Call 03:16 Avoidant Coping Loop 03:53 Returning to Training 05:12 Get Help to Heal 05:44 Nerve Injury Lesson 06:29 Intentional Presence 07:59 Why We Resist Healing 08:37 Shame and Awareness 09:38 Let Yourself Heal 09:56 Final Reflection
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What's Up, Danger?
05/11/2026
What's Up, Danger?
What’s Up, Danger? Leaps of Faith in IVF, Career, and Life Courtney shares that “What’s Up Danger” from Into the Spider-Verse helped her hype herself up to self-administer painful IVF hormone shots, connecting it to Miles Morales’ leap-of-faith scene where he forces himself to let go. Juana and Courtney reflect on IVF as a physically and psychologically difficult experience that ultimately led them to two children, and broaden the metaphor to career risk-taking: leaving steady jobs, pursuing fulfillment, and taking scary but necessary next steps, including a recent leap Courtney made that shifted not just money but time. They compare the thrill and terror to Man on Wire and discuss learning to be “intentionally nervous” while rejecting the idea of a perfect path. Courtney cites adopting their dog Harvey—initially wanting to give him away—as another personal leap, and they end by urging listeners to find their own “song” for big decisions. 00:00 Song That Got Me Through 00:33 IVF Shots And Fear 01:14 Leap Of Faith Scene 01:58 Why The Moment Hits 02:58 IVF Trauma Bond 03:27 Career Leaps And Fulfillment 04:21 Terrifying Next Level Move 05:06 Man On A Wire Analogy 05:43 Choosing Nerves On Purpose 06:45 Next Danger Era 07:58 Host Quits His Job 09:16 Harvey The Dog Leap 10:41 Find Your Own Song
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Navigating Talent Dysmorphia: The Balance Between Confidence and Self-Doubt
05/04/2026
Navigating Talent Dysmorphia: The Balance Between Confidence and Self-Doubt
Talent Dysmorphia: Finding the Sweet Spot Between Confidence and Self-Doubt Courtney and Juan discuss a concept Juan calls “talent dysmorphia,” modeled after body dysmorphia, describing distorted views of one’s abilities that swing between under-confidence and inflated confidence. Courtney shares that much of her life she felt unclear about her skills, leading to jobs misaligned with her strengths (including starting in a call center), while also experiencing moments of overconfidence such as overstating her Excel ability before an AMEX role and later realizing she performed better than peers. They explore how rejection and mis-aimed career choices can fuel insecurity masked as arrogance, and argue that the “sweet spot” comes from articulating talent and aligning actions to use it fully. Courtney’s takeaway is embracing not knowing everything and enjoying continuous learning as a healthier relationship to competence. 00:00 Talent Dysmorphia Defined 01:46 Negative Self View 02:50 Misaligned Jobs 04:22 Call Center Lessons 05:44 Insecurity After Rejection 07:08 Overconfidence Examples 08:31 AI Humbling Moment 09:59 Finding The Center 11:19 Advice And Wrap Up
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Mentorship: Confronting Ego and the Fear of Growth
04/27/2026
Mentorship: Confronting Ego and the Fear of Growth
Why Your Ego Makes Mentorship Hard to Find Juan and Courtney discuss why people struggle to find mentors, arguing that ego and assumptions (that mentors don’t like you, are too busy, or you already know enough) keep people from asking for help even when others would gladly provide it. They note that wanting to mentor isn’t the same as being the right mentor, and emphasize evaluating credibility, proof of experience, and access, sharing examples like seeking trusted peers for buying a first home and consulting doctor and pharmacist friends during COVID by asking what they personally would do. They contrast this with Courtney’s IVF experience, where feeling like she was “bothering” people and hormonal stress reduced receptivity to support. Another barrier identified is fear that finding a good mentor means having to make uncomfortable changes. They conclude that you don’t have to follow advice, but not asking is the bigger problem, and warn against “experts” who claim to know everything. 00:00 Career Blind Spot Intro 00:28 Why Mentors Feel Hard 00:51 Ego and Being Dadded 03:17 Finding Credible Help 06:13 Asking for Support IVF 08:26 Mentorship Means Change 09:04 How I Seek Advice 10:31 Call to Action Wrap Up
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Self-Care Isn't Selfish: Rediscovering Personal Balance
04/20/2026
Self-Care Isn't Selfish: Rediscovering Personal Balance
Birthday Hotel Stay Sparks a Conversation About Rest and Self-Care Courtney explains she sent Juan to a downtown Phoenix hotel for two nights as a birthday gift because they have two kids she’s still sleep training and she wanted him to get time away, though it was only two miles from home. They discuss how taking time for yourself prevents resentment and irritability and how Courtney struggles more with self-care, often insisting she doesn’t need breaks. They broaden self-care beyond “bubble baths” to include practical tasks that reduce mental load, and emphasize resting to recover from illness rather than pushing through. Courtney notes activities that help her recharge, including sewing, spending time with her best friend Matt, massages, and especially learning to take naps instead of scrolling on her phone, using a timer to rest. 00:00 Birthday Hotel Getaway 01:00 Why Time Away Matters 01:40 Courtney Struggles With Self Care 02:54 Oxygen Mask Reality Check 03:34 Rest Is Real Self Care 04:04 Choosing Recovery Over Hustle 06:05 Recharge Habits That Work 07:43 Selfish Or Necessary Reset 09:21 Naps Not Doomscrolling 10:41 Wrap Up And Thanks
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Reset and Recharge: The Art of Staycation
04/13/2026
Reset and Recharge: The Art of Staycation
What Would It Take for You to Give Yourself Proper Rest? In a solo, on-the-fly episode, Juan asks what it would take to give yourself proper rest, reflecting on a birthday staycation Courtney booked at an older downtown Phoenix hotel near Van Buren that has changed over time. Though only a few miles from home and not his best sleep, he values the space to reset, enjoy simple pleasures without shame, and practice being present. He compares restorative rest to letting a phone cool down and stop draining energy, not just plugging it in while still overworking it. He notes how people dismiss rest as “just sleep more,” argues that avoiding rest can be insecurity, and suggests a nap or snack can help when overwhelmed. Drawing on their IVF experience, he emphasizes that supporters need rest too, and that high performers rest well; his call to action is to pursue truly regenerative rest anywhere. 00:00 Todays CBQ Setup 00:36 Staycation In Phoenix 01:25 Why Rest Feels Hard 02:39 Phone Battery Metaphor 03:35 No Shame Rest Rules 05:03 Presence And Letting Go 06:02 Late Nights And Reset 06:49 IVF Lesson On Support 07:08 Rest Like A Champion 07:48 Simple Call To Rest
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Community Tiers
04/06/2026
Community Tiers
Why did I build the Blind Spot Community? Because I want to help more people than 1:1 coaching allows — and because most of us already know what to do… we just don’t keep doing it. In this episode, Courtney and I break down the purpose of the community and how the three tiers are designed for different stages: Tier 1: practical handouts + monthly updates for people who want tools they can actually use Tier 2: DIY coaching + hiring resources, a 1:1 call, and the weekly group for support and momentum Tier 3: year-long check-ins, deeper assessment work, and an AI consult with Courtney to apply AI safely and effectively to real problems We also talk about the real reason this exists: the same concepts land differently depending on the person. Sometimes one word change makes the whole thing click. If you’ve been looking for structure, clarity, and a way to stay connected to your own goals without a massive commitment, this episode explains the lane.
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Rejection Hurts/Helps
03/30/2026
Rejection Hurts/Helps
Why did you dump me in 2004? That’s how this episode starts. But this isn’t just a relationship story. It’s about rejection — in love, in leadership, in sales, and in career growth. We talk about: Why rejection feels isolating (even when it’s necessary) The difference between being rejected and being freed How rejection forces the next chapter Why leaders must normalize “no” Sales, negotiation, and the flinch test The shame that keeps people silent Why if you’re not getting rejected, you’re probably not swinging big enough Rejection hurts. But it also clarifies. It strengthens. It redirects. And if you don’t learn to process it, you’ll avoid the very risks that move you forward. Rejection isn’t a gift in the moment. It’s a gift in hindsight. Embrace the blind spot.
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AI Leader Credibility
03/23/2026
AI Leader Credibility
What does a leader need to know about AI — if they’re not planning to become an expert? More than you think. Less than you fear. In this episode, we unpack what actually builds credibility around AI for leaders: Embracing the fact that you don’t know everything Avoiding the “curse of knowledge” Why curiosity beats certainty How fast iteration changes leadership expectations Why technical expertise doesn’t automatically equal strategic leadership AI is not just a technical shift. It’s a mindset shift. The leaders who will thrive aren’t the ones pretending to know everything — and they aren’t the ones dismissing it either. They’re the ones asking better questions. Embrace the blind spot.
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BS Model: Stop Being Busy, Start Being Intentional
03/16/2026
BS Model: Stop Being Busy, Start Being Intentional
For years, I’ve coached leaders using a framework I never fully explained — until now. The BS Model (Blind Spot Model) reveals where your attention goes and what it produces: Intentional Presence Task Execution Reactive Distraction Avoidant Coping Most people live externally focused and call it productivity. But without internal clarity, busyness turns into burnout. This episode breaks down: Why “I’m busy” is a warning sign How reactive distractions quietly take over The difference between being productive and being aligned Why burnout isn’t accidental — it’s patterned Nothing in this model is “bad.” The problem is when you don’t realize where you’re operating. Embrace the blind spot.
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Why Is It So Hard To Work With Creatives?
03/09/2026
Why Is It So Hard To Work With Creatives?
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Revenge of Sleep Training
03/02/2026
Revenge of Sleep Training
Why aren’t our babies sleeping? That’s the question. But this episode isn’t just about sleep. It’s about leadership, ownership, energy, and what happens when a system that once worked starts slipping after a new variable is introduced. Sleep training is project management. Regression is iteration. Exhaustion changes your standards. We talk about: · Why knowing what to do isn’t the same as doing it · How depletion impacts decision making · Ownership vs resentment · Redefining “done” when circumstances change · Why you shouldn’t make system decisions when you’re exhausted Whether you’re leading a household, a team, or yourself, the lesson is the same: Step back. Lay it out. Define the next iteration. Then execute — rested. Embrace the blind spot.
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Giving Someone An Attitude Adjustment
02/23/2026
Giving Someone An Attitude Adjustment
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reFresh Tradition
12/21/2025
reFresh Tradition
“Make your own traditions. Do not do things just because everyone else does.” – Courtney CBQ: Why are there white Christmas trees in our bedroom and the kids’ rooms? Summary: Juan and Courtney talk through why traditions should evolve with your life—and how choosing intention over obligation turns holidays into something you actually enjoy instead of just survive. HIGHLIGHTS “Nothing says Palm Springs like white Christmas trees.” – Courtney “We want traditions, but we do not want to be beholden to traditions.” – Juan “Avoiding something is a start, but leaning into a celebration is different.” – Juan “They are not going to remember any of this. We are.” – Courtney “This is permission to mess around and find out.” – Juan | | | → Your listening perspective matters - .
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Fine… Networking Is Not That Terrible
11/23/2025
Fine… Networking Is Not That Terrible
“I did not understand what networking was. I thought it was just, ‘Here is my job, help me.’” – Courtney CBQ: How much do you hate networking today? Summary: Juan and Courtney break down why traditional networking felt like a “negative 34” and how getting clear on your talent, value, and curiosity can turn awkward events into intentional, energizing collaboration. HIGHLIGHTS “You are more excited to network because you are more clear on what you are talented at and where it is valued.” – Juan “People do not know how you could help them. You have to tell them what you do well.” – Juan “If you are not excited to be there, stop going. Go where you would actually get on a plane to meet people.” – Juan | | | → Your listening perspective matters - .
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Vasectomy!? Vasecta-You!!
11/17/2025
Vasectomy!? Vasecta-You!!
“It lifted a weight off your shoulders I did not realize I was holding.” – JK CBQ: Why did you get a vasectomy? Summary: Juan and Courtney use a very personal story to expose an overlooked leadership truth: responsibility shared is pressure reduced, and sometimes the smallest physical procedure removes the biggest emotional load. HIGHLIGHTS “It was a pinch for you. It was surgery for me.” – Courtney “I did not realize I wasn’t lifting weight off your shoulders.” – Juan “Men get praised for showing up. Women get questioned.” – Juan “Sometimes the leadership move is doing the thing that makes life easier for someone else.” – Juan | | Juan | Courtney → Your listening perspective matters – .
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Confessions of CoWorking
11/10/2025
Confessions of CoWorking
"Getting out of the house makes us do work better.” – Courtney CBQ: Why are we in a phone booth at Industrious? Juan and Courtney pull back the curtain on their recording setup to unpack the modern co-working experience—why intentional environments matter more than trendy spaces, and how isolation quietly kills creativity. HIGHLIGHTS “Getting out of the house makes us do work better.” – Courtney “I chose co-working because I wanted human experience.” – Juan “Just because I do not get energy from people does not mean I should avoid them.” – Courtney “Until you are intentional about it, you will be stuck in an office or stuck at home—with lonely company.” – Juan “Who do you actually want to run into?” – Juan | | Juan | Courtney → Your listening perspective matters – .
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Doomscroll or Researching?
10/19/2025
Doomscroll or Researching?
“It is not the content. It is the intention behind it.” – Courtney CBQ: What is the difference between doom-scrolling and researching on your phone? Summary: Juan and Courtney dissect the blurry line between learning and avoidance—why “research” can be productive curiosity or just another flavor of self-distraction. HIGHLIGHTS “Doom-scrolling is when I am not actually going to apply what I learned.” – Courtney “Body-doubling helps neurodiverse people get things done.” – Courtney “Investing in yourself is different from retail therapy.” – Juan “I do not deserve this notebook? Yes you do. Start using it.” – Juan “Repurpose something you already have - intention beats novelty.” – Juan | | | → Your listening perspective matters - .
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DIY Can't I Delegate?
10/13/2025
DIY Can't I Delegate?
“DIY starts with ego, but ends with humility.” – Juan Kingsbury CBQ: Why is DIY a mixed bag of fun and frustration? Juan and Courtney break down the trap of “doing it all yourself.” From home projects to leadership habits, they reveal how ego fuels the start, but humility gets the job done. HIGHLIGHTS “When you DIY, you eventually have to delegate.” “The real skill is knowing who to delegate to.” “Letting go of control is not weakness, it is awareness.” “No one will care for your baby the same way you do.” “If your projects are unfinished, check your ego.” | | | → Your listening perspective matters - .
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Inside the NBA EGO
10/06/2025
Inside the NBA EGO
“The egos are shaping the meeting — and whether your mission is accomplished or not.” – Juan CBQ: What Egos are shaping your meetings? (*Why does Juan love Inside the NBA?) Juan and Courtney break down the leadership lessons hidden inside Inside the NBA. From Barkley’s bluntness to Shaq’s dominance, Kenny’s analogies, and Ernie’s calm structure, it is more than sports talk — it is a masterclass in team dynamics. When strong personalities collide, who leads, who listens, and who actually moves the mission forward? HIGHLIGHTS 03:54 - "These are egos, and it reminds me of meetings where people hijack — not just executives, but anyone leading a team.” – Juan 11:05 "Silence can be just as deadly to progress as too much talking.” – Juan 10:50 “That's what it is, you got to appeal to people's motivations.” – Courtney | | | → Your listening perspective matters - .
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A Courtney of Thrills and Nerdiness
09/29/2025
A Courtney of Thrills and Nerdiness
“When’s the last time you thrilled yourself?” – Juan Kingsbury CBQ: When you find out someone has read A Court of Thorns and Roses, what are you instantly doing? Juan and Courtney unpack the joy of nerding out — from fantasy novels to comics to leadership. Leaders often chase productivity, but when is the last time you chased thrill? HIGHLIGHTS 1:09 “It is not just reading it, it is the joy of nerding out with someone else.” – Juan 2:39 “Nostalgia comforts, never thrills.” 4:38 “Everybody’s just looking to find where they belong.” – Courtney 9:48 “When’s the last time you instigated thrill?” – Juan | | | → Your listening perspective matters - . #thrill #nerdingout #leaderswhoread #fiction #community #culture #purpose #belonging #growth #careerblindspot
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Resisting Good Relationships
09/22/2025
Resisting Good Relationships
“Whenever I hear the word networking, I feel scuzzy. I don’t want to schmooze people, but the way you describe it makes it feel easier — it’s about really getting to know people.” - CK CBQ - What is your love language? Juan and Courtney discuss the resistance people feel in reaching out for advice or support, reframing networking as an act of offering value instead of seeking it. HIGHLIGHTS [00:04:16] “Leadership should not be lonely. Leadership isn’t lonely — it’s the opposite. You’re collaborating with people, delegating, and trusting them to deliver.” - JK [00:05:23] “It’s always a no if you don’t reach out.” - JK [00:10:14] “Call not just your best friends, but the ones you can truly be yourself around. Those friends remind you who you are, and we avoid them because they hold us accountable.” - JK | | | → Your listening perspective matters - .
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Juan's Disney Internship
09/15/2025
Juan's Disney Internship
"I wanted it. I was just doing the work to have that job, and I didn’t even know what the freaking job was." – JK Juan's Disney Internship CBQ: How come you never talk about what it was like to work at Disney? Juan reflects on his Disney internship 24 years ago, the risks he took despite his parents’ doubts, the odd jobs and lessons along the way, and how that leap helped shape his confidence to take risks in his career. HIGHLIGHTS 1:39 “Working at Disney World was like college without classes.” – Juan 4:52 “I can’t keep this medal…” – Juan 8:40 “I don’t think I’m gonna be an artist anymore.” – Juan 10:02 “The biggest lesson was like, I need toothpaste.” – Juan 13:45 “Reflect on your big risk in the past when you did something that other people were like, no, don’t do that. And you’re like, I’m doing it anyway.” – Juan Follow | | | → Your listening perspective matters - .
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