Chapter X with Michael Kay
What happens after a successful career ends? This podcast explores how men navigate retirement, identity, and purpose beyond work. Each week, Michael and his guests look at the real challenges of life transition. the loss of structure, the shift in identity, and the search for meaning and purpose that follows. If you're a man rethinking what fulfillment looks like after decades of hard-charging work, you're in the right place.
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The Emotional Cost of Providing for Your Family
05/20/2026
The Emotional Cost of Providing for Your Family
Many fathers spent their lives learning how to provide for their families. But emotional connection often became much harder to pass down. My guest today is Marc Azoulay, therapist and founder of Men’s Therapy Online. Marc works with men navigating relationships, identity, purpose, and emotional health across different stages of life. In this episode, Marc shares his own journey through addiction, recovery, and self-discovery. We look at the emotional disconnect many men experience with themselves, their children, and each other. You’ll hear about: Why Marc believes many men were never taught emotional connection The frightening turning point that forced him to reevaluate his life How different generations of men struggle with identity, work, and purpose The reason why emotional openness between men still feels uncomfortable How curiosity can help parents strengthen relationships with adult children -- Resources:
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The Caregiving Chapter No One Prepares You For
05/13/2026
The Caregiving Chapter No One Prepares You For
What happens when life forces you into a chapter you never planned for? After decades building a successful career in technology, writing books, and growing a business, Jeffrey Ton suddenly found himself stepping away from work to become a full-time caregiver for his wife following a devastating diagnosis. In this episode, Jeff shares how revisiting memories of traveling the Lewis and Clark Trail with his wife helped him process grief, rediscover meaning, and reconnect with the person she has always been beyond her illness. Their journey became the foundation for his newest book, Uncharted Moments: Love, Legacy, and the Lewis & Clark Trail. In this episode, we covered: Why becoming a caregiver forced Jeff to let go of a business and identity he loved What anticipatory grief taught him about navigating uncertainty and change The remarkable story behind retracing the Lewis and Clark Trail together How slowing down changed the way Jeff and his wife experienced life The powerful lesson Jeff learned about pausing during chaos How one simple phrase became a philosophy for navigating difficult seasons of life -- Resources Website: Amazon:
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Why Experience Still Matters After Retirement
05/06/2026
Why Experience Still Matters After Retirement
A lot of people say they want to stay active or do work that still matters to them after they retire. But then they rest, travel, or wait for the right opportunity to show up. Over time, that can turn into long stretches without structure or direction in life. I’m really glad to welcome Lynn Friesth back to the show. He left corporate life in 2015 and has spent the last ten years helping others turn their experience into coaching, consulting, or project-based work in the next chapter. We talk about: Why many people drift in retirement instead of designing what’s next The idea of a “portfolio life” and moving beyond your job title Lynn’s G.L.E.A.N. process for uncovering the value in your experience Why starting with identity matters more than starting with action The mindset shift from needing certainty to being willing to experiment How curiosity becomes an advantage as you move into something new Where AI fits in (and why experience still matters) -- Resources Podcast: “Creating Your Encore Life” - Website: LinkedIn:
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How a Walk Changed His Relationship With His Son
04/29/2026
How a Walk Changed His Relationship With His Son
Rusty Gardner realized he wasn’t listening to his son during their phone calls. So he stopped what he was doing and went for a walk. That new habit changed their conversations. Then it changed his mornings, and eventually it turned into something he couldn’t ignore. Rusty spends a lot of time reflecting on identity and the different “passages” we move through as we get older. Today, we explore what happens when you start paying attention to what actually feels different. We discuss: How Rusty built a completely new career without a clear plan The moment he realized he wasn’t fully present with his son How walking became a daily practice for connection and clarity What he’s learned about identity through life’s different decades His experience facing aging, mortality, and a major life “passage” Why following your energy can reveal what actually matters Resources: Just Walking: TikTok: Instagram: Email:
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The First Months After Leaving Your Business
04/22/2026
The First Months After Leaving Your Business
Stepping away from a career that has defined you for decades is rarely a clean break. For founders and professionals alike, retirement isn’t just leaving the work behind. It means untangling identity, habits, and a sense of responsibility that doesn’t simply turn off. My guest today is Dave Yeske, co-founder of Yeske Buie. After more than 35 years in financial planning, he and his wife made the intentional decision to step away from the firm they built together. As Dave shares, even a well-planned transition doesn’t remove the emotional weight of letting go. We explore what it means to build something you can eventually leave—and what unfolds after you do. In this episode, we covered: What makes it so difficult for founders to step away The gap between knowing everything will be fine (and actually feeling it) Why retirement can bring unexpected emotions How identity is often tied to professional roles more than we realize Why meaningful moments in this stage of life don’t have to be big to matter How joy can become a useful filter for deciding how to spend your time Resources:
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Why Relationships Change After Retirement
04/15/2026
Why Relationships Change After Retirement
We don’t spend much time thinking about how we listen. But if you’ve ever felt misunderstood or struggled to connect with someone, you’ve probably felt its impact. Today, I'm joined by David Joseph, MD, a psychiatrist and psychoanalyst with more than fifty years of experience listening to people at a very deep level. He's devoted his career to something most of us struggle with: actually understanding what someone is trying to say. And for many men, especially in retirement or approaching it, this becomes more important than ever. When the structure of work falls away and relationships shift, we’re left with more space to connect, or feel disconnected. We covered: Why listening is more than just hearing words What we miss when we focus only on what’s being said Why most of us aren’t as good at listening as we think How learning to listen to yourself changes everything What gets in the way of deeper conversations Why relationships can feel harder after leaving work What it means to really understand another person -- Resources:
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How to Stop Running on Autopilot After a Major Life Transition
04/08/2026
How to Stop Running on Autopilot After a Major Life Transition
We like to think we’re making choices about how we live. But most of the time, we’re just repeating patterns we’ve been running for years. In this episode, I’m joined by Marcy Axelrod, who shares why those patterns are so hard to break and what it actually takes to start showing up differently in this next chapter. Marcy’s work explores how we show up in the world. Today, she introduces a 3-part framework for understanding how we operate—and why most of us are only partially present in our lives. In this episode, we covered: -Why most people are operating on patterns they don’t even realize -How decades of routine shape the way we see ourselves -The difference between “just showing up” and being fully present -Why stress and fear keep us stuck in old ways of thinking -The idea that we’re always playing multiple roles (not just one identity) -A simple exercise to rethink who you are beyond your career Resources Website: Instagram: Instagram:
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When Work Is Your Only Social Life
04/01/2026
When Work Is Your Only Social Life
For a lot of men, their social life is their job. So what happens when that job goes away? In this conversation, Anthony Silard shares what he’s learned studying loneliness and relationships—and why so many reach this stage of life without the connections they actually need. He introduces the “four PRs” framework and how those roles shape identity for decades. The problem is, they leave very little room for friendships outside of work and family. Once that structure disappears, many men find themselves starting from scratch. You’ll hear about: -The moment a retired executive tried to go back to the office… and couldn’t get in -Why work relationships often don’t carry over after retirement -The “four PRs” that shape identity (and what they leave out) -Why men often rely on their partner as their entire social network -A striking stat on what happens to men vs. women after losing a spouse -Why some of the loneliest people are surrounded by others -What leaders do that builds real connection (and why it has nothing to do with confidence) Resources Download Anthony's free books: Available on Amazon:
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Why Successful Men Feel Stuck Even When Life Looks Good
03/25/2026
Why Successful Men Feel Stuck Even When Life Looks Good
Most people go looking for purpose when they feel lost. J.D. Pincus believes that’s not where we should start. JD is a social psychologist, researcher, and author of The Emotionally Agile Brain. He’s spent decades studying what humans actually need and mapped it into a framework that helps explain why people can feel adrift, even after achieving everything they set out to do. Today, he joins us to talk about those needs and why getting unstuck might start with feeling a little worse before you feel better. You'll hear about: -Why people can feel stuck even when life looks fine -How loss of social connection impacts stability and direction -Why this transition can be especially challenging for men -JD’s framework of 12 core emotional needs -Why feeling stuck often comes from unmet needs -Why purpose doesn’t always come first Resources: Book: LinkedIn: Website:
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Why Health Doesn’t Have to Decline With Age
03/18/2026
Why Health Doesn’t Have to Decline With Age
We’re often told that declining health is just part of getting older. But what if that’s not actually true? In this episode, I’m speaking with Dr. Darren Clair, a physician with over 40 years of experience who has spent the last 25 years helping people take a more proactive approach to their health. After seeing the limits of a system focused on diagnosing and prescribing, Darren chose a different path. His work centers on lifestyle, education, and helping people stay healthy in the first place. We’ll hear how his perspective evolved over time, what he’s learned along the way, and why it’s never too late to improve your health. • Why Darren moved away from traditional medicine • How the current system focuses on treating symptoms • The role lifestyle plays in long-term health outcomes • Why many people don’t take action until later in life • The difference between prevention and a proactive approach • Why better health often feels like gaining something (not giving something up) Resources: Dr. Clair's Book: Facebook: Instagram:
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How to Thrive in the Next Chapter of Life
03/11/2026
How to Thrive in the Next Chapter of Life
Most of us spend the first half of life building. The second half, if we're paying attention, is when we start asking whether we built the right things. Rand Selig is back on the show and a lot has changed since his first appearance two years ago. What started as a few early conversations has since grown into 100+ interviews and the continued success of his book Thriving, which he recently narrated as an audiobook. Rand spent much of his career running his own investment banking firm. Now he's turned his attention to the questions that tend to matter most in life's later chapters: relationships, legacy, and what it looks like to truly live well. You’ll hear about: • How a simple habit made him a better listener (and changed everything) • The self-reflection practice he uses to actually measure his own growth • What finally pushed him to start writing Thriving • Why your purpose doesn't have to be big to be meaningful • The real difference between success and thriving • Why curiosity is one of the best predictors of a good later life Resources Website: LinkedIn:
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Rethinking Success at 52
03/04/2026
Rethinking Success at 52
Larry Kesslin spent much of his life chasing success. After leaving corporate America at 29, he built a successful career as an entrepreneur advising business owners across the country. By most standards, he had freedom, financial stability, and the life he once thought he wanted. Yet something was still missing. In this episode, Larry shares the moments that changed how he sees success. A volunteer trip in Aspen and a later time in rural Uganda made him question the life he had built. Over time, he realized that chasing success was different from living with purpose. In this episode: How financial insecurity in childhood shaped his drive to succeed The moment at GE that led him to leave corporate life What he learned about happiness while traveling in Africa The difference between success and significance How our belief systems are formed and why they can be unlearned Why aging gives us the chance to question identity Resources:
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When Success Doesn’t Erase Fear
02/25/2026
When Success Doesn’t Erase Fear
At 25, Guru Yogishivan was surrounded by luxury in the Middle East. He had trained as a martial artist and become a boxing champion. By most standards, he had success. But as he spent time around people who had money and influence, he noticed that no one seemed free from fear. Whether it was fear of loss, fear of death, or fear of not having enough. So he began asking the people around him if they were truly happy. That question sent him on a very different path. In this episode, we explore his journey from athlete to monk... and what his search for truth might mean for men entering their next chapter of life. We discuss: What happens when success no longer feels like enough Why your identity is constantly changing Whether losing your career is actually losing yourself What 24 minutes a day of inward focus might change A disciplined daily practice for reconnecting with yourself Resources: YouTube: Facebook: Instagram: Whatsapp: +91 62386 00274
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The Wake-Up Call That Changed Everything at 51
02/18/2026
The Wake-Up Call That Changed Everything at 51
Howard Rosenberg had done what many of us were taught to do. He got an education, built a career, and provided for his family. From the outside, it checked every box. But in his early fifties, a diagnosis of advanced heart disease and emergency quintuple bypass surgery forced him to slow down and take a hard look at the life he had built. That wake-up call led Howard to begin asking deeper questions about identity, purpose, creativity… and what really sustains us in the second half of life. We talked about: How a health wake-up call led to a complete identity shift Why the way we finish the sentence “I am…” matters The difference between external success and internal fulfillment How creativity extends far beyond art What it really means to consciously create your next chapter Resources
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Why Retiring Early Didn’t Work for Randy Gage
02/11/2026
Why Retiring Early Didn’t Work for Randy Gage
Not everyone feels finished when their career ends, especially people who are wired to build. This week, I’m joined by Randy Gage, an entrepreneur, author, and speaker who retired at 40 and realized he wasn’t done creating. Stepping away from work didn’t bring the sense of completion he expected, so he returned to building businesses, writing, and teaching. Not because he had to, but because he wasn’t done. That instinct to question what comes next started much earlier. At 15, Randy was sitting in a jail cell, facing the consequences of a life that had gone off track. That moment forced him to rethink his direction, and he’s been asking those same questions about what comes next ever since. We talked about: How a stint in jail at 15 forced Randy to rethink his life Why early beliefs shape how we think about money, relationships, and health What Randy learned after retiring at 40 (and why he went back to work) The difference between a finite game and a life built around purpose How Randy defines prosperity beyond money What it means to age with intention and resilience Resources:
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Why Your Brain Predicts Pain When You Try to Change (And How to Rewire It)
02/04/2026
Why Your Brain Predicts Pain When You Try to Change (And How to Rewire It)
For many men, leaving behind a career also means leaving behind a sense of identity. And much of our response to that change is shaped long before retirement ever enters the picture. My guest today is Brian DesRoches, PhD. He’s a psychotherapist, coach, and author whose work focuses on how the brain responds to change. With more than 30 years of experience, Brian helps people understand why self-doubt and disorientation often show up during major transitions. We look at how long-standing emotional patterns can surface after work ends. Brian offers a way to see these reactions not as personal failures, but as learned responses that can finally be brought into the open. In this episode, we covered: Why identity loss can feel more unsettling than we expect How early emotional learning shapes our response to change What anxiety is often trying to protect us from Why so many men struggle without the structure of a professional role The emotional barriers to forming new connections How awareness can create room for something new Resources
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Why Americans Struggle With Aging More Than They Should
01/28/2026
Why Americans Struggle With Aging More Than They Should
What does it really take to age well—and why do so many people struggle with this transition after work? Today’s guest is Ken Stern, author of Healthy to 100 and a researcher focused on aging, longevity, and social connection. Ken has spent years studying why some people remain healthy and engaged later in life, while others face isolation and decline. Ken explains why Americans struggle with aging and retirement more than people in other countries… and what we get wrong about life after work. In this episode, we discuss: Why aging in America often leads to isolation after work What other cultures get right about belonging later in life The surprising benefits of continuing some form of work Why staying busy isn’t the same as living well What longevity research overlooks about human connection Resources:
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What Comes After Work Ends
01/21/2026
What Comes After Work Ends
After decades of work, Don Akchin found himself with too much time and very little structure. That moment marked the beginning of a new kind of work for Don: paying attention to what happens when careers end and the familiar routines of life fall away. Don Akchin is a writer and researcher who retired at 66 and began reflecting on his own experience alongside conversations with others navigating life after work. Over time, those observations became the foundation for his book The AfterWork, which explores how people find meaning, connection, and direction beyond their careers. We cover: Why the loss of structure can be one of retirement’s biggest surprises How identity shifts once work is no longer central What Don learned from listening to others’ retirement stories Why resilience matters more than having a perfect plan How Don rebuilt structure after leaving work Resources:
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Finding Direction Without a Map
01/14/2026
Finding Direction Without a Map
Some people move through life by following a plan. Others move forward by paying attention to what holds their interest. Today’s guest, David Litt, spent more than three decades in the U.S. Foreign Service, working and living around the world. Along the way, he built a life shaped by language, learning, and a deep interest in how people and cultures function. After retiring from government service, David didn’t step away from engagement. Instead, he found new ways to teach, mentor, and share what he’s learned, proving that purpose doesn’t end when a career does. In this episode, we covered: What first drew David toward languages and life abroad How curiosity shaped his path into the Foreign Service The realities of representing the U.S. in unfamiliar places One early experience that changed how he viewed diplomacy Why teaching became a natural next chapter after retirement David’s advice for staying intellectually engaged later in life
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What If You Didn’t React Right Away?
01/07/2026
What If You Didn’t React Right Away?
Doug Fleener woke up on an airplane with no idea how he got there. That was the moment his life began to change. Today, Doug shares the story of hitting bottom and rebuilding his life one decision at a time. He reflects on addiction, recovery, and the importance of learning how to pause before reacting. Today, Doug is an author and speaker whose work centers on a simple but powerful question: What if? We talk about how that question creates space for perspective and action, especially during major life transitions. We discuss: The moment Doug realized his life needed to change Why hitting bottom didn’t immediately lead to transformation How asking one simple question interrupts old patterns The role of identity and routine during life after career Why action matters more than insight alone -- Resources: Get a free book excerpt at Visit
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What Your Annual Physical Doesn’t Tell You
12/31/2025
What Your Annual Physical Doesn’t Tell You
As we move into the later chapters of life, many of us begin to think differently about health. Not just how long we’ll live, but how well we’ll live. What if the symptoms we accept as “normal aging” are actually signals pointing to something deeper? In this episode, I’m joined by Reed Davis, a double board-certified holistic health practitioner and founder of Functional Diagnostic Nutrition. Reed helps people understand what’s really happening inside their bodies by looking beyond standard lab work and surface-level symptoms. In this episode, we discuss: Why standard blood work often misses early warning signs The difference between treating symptoms and addressing root causes How stress, diet, and lifestyle quietly shape long-term health What aging well really requires beyond diet and exercise Why having purpose may be one of the most overlooked health factors -- Resources Learn more and access Reed’s free workshop at:
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Why Men Struggle to Ask for What They Want After Retirement
12/17/2025
Why Men Struggle to Ask for What They Want After Retirement
Why is it often easier to know what we don’t want than to ask for what we do? In this episode, I’m joined by Paul Quinn, author of The Big Ask: Unlock the Possibilities in Your Work Life and Dreams with Courageous Requests. Paul began his career as an actor before moving into corporate training and writing, where he became fascinated by the moments that spark real change. Today, we explore how identity, fear, and unspoken rules shape the choices we make. Paul also shares stories that show how a single, well-timed question can open doors we didn’t know were there. You’ll hear about: How asking the right questions can help you reconnect with what you actually want Why redefining identity after work can feel so disorienting The trap of focusing on what we don’t want (instead of naming what we do) How fear and perfectionism can limit what you’re willing to try A simple question that can shift how we imagine what comes next -- Resources:
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How to Let Go of the Stories That Are Holding You Back
12/03/2025
How to Let Go of the Stories That Are Holding You Back
Many men feel caught between the identity they built at work and the person they hope to become. Today’s guest helps us explore that space. Doug O’Brien has spent his career studying how our stories shape the way we live and the way we move through change. Before entering this work, Doug lived an entirely different life as a classical pianist, a Carnegie Hall performer, and a punk rock musician in New York City. Over time, he shifted into teaching and storytelling in a way that opened a new path for him. In this conversation, Doug shares how the stories we hold can keep us stuck and how new ones can help us move into the next chapter. We talk about: How Doug transitioned from a life in music to helping people change The moment that shifted how he viewed what is possible Why career identity becomes so difficult for many men to release The simple question that reveals who we are beneath our titles How storytelling helps reshape belief and create room for what comes next -- Resources:
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What a Neurosurgeon Learned About Aging Well
11/19/2025
What a Neurosurgeon Learned About Aging Well
Modern medicine can treat almost anything. Yet it often misses the root of what makes us sick. Dr. Ravi Kumar is a neurosurgeon who trained at the Mayo Clinic and spent years in operating rooms before realizing he needed to step away. He sold everything and moved his family to India, where he worked in mission hospitals under the most basic conditions. Those experiences changed the way he views medicine, aging, and what it really means to heal. In this episode, Dr. Kumar shares what he’s learned about the lifestyle choices that support our long-term health. How Ravi’s experience in India reshaped his understanding of care and gratitude Why stress can affect our health long before we notice What we should know about our metabolic health How nutrition plays a major role in longevity and energy Why movement matters more than prescriptions -- Resources: Social Media:
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When Grief Opens a Door to Another World
11/05/2025
When Grief Opens a Door to Another World
What happens when life forces us to confront the unexplainable? Today’s guest, Dr. Gregg Korbon, is a retired anesthesiologist whose life took an extraordinary turn after the loss of his nine-year-old son, Brian. A lifelong man of science, Gregg was suddenly faced with experiences that defied logic and ultimately changed the course of his life. In this deeply moving conversation, Gregg shares how tragedy cracked his heart open to a world beyond reason. Together, we explore what it means to find meaning after unimaginable loss—and how love, grief, and trust can guide us through life’s transitions. In this episode, we discuss: How a rational physician came to believe in experiences beyond science Brian’s final days and the messages he left behind How grief opened Gregg’s heart to unconditional love The ways dreams and symbols can help us heal and reconnect Why vulnerability can be a path to transformation What Gregg has learned about purpose, faith and trust in retirement -- Resources
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Life After the Mic with Peter Haskell
10/22/2025
Life After the Mic with Peter Haskell
For nearly 30 years, Peter Haskell’s voice was a familiar one across New York. As a reporter for WCBS Newsradio 880, he covered some of the region’s most defining moments. When a rare vocal disorder forced Peter to step away from the microphone, it brought an unexpected crossroads. What followed was a shift toward gratitude, purpose, and a renewed belief in the power of stories and kindness. Today, Peter continues his lifelong calling to tell meaningful stories through his work with the Tunnel to Towers Foundation and as an adjunct professor of journalism at Fordham University. In this episode, we covered: How Peter built a lifelong career in broadcast journalism What covering 9/11 taught him about humanity and resilience The experience of living with spasmodic dysphonia How he found direction and meaning beyond his career in radio The lessons he’s carried into teaching and storytelling today Why kindness is the foundation of his personal philosophy -- Resources: You can learn more at .
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Hiking the Appalachian Trail at 72
10/08/2025
Hiking the Appalachian Trail at 72
At 68 years old, Rand Timmerman looked in the mirror and thought his life was over. A decorated Vietnam War veteran and successful attorney, he had been undone by alcoholism and the toll of PTSD. Yet what seemed like the end became the beginning of a new path. Now more than a decade sober, Rand shares how recovery gave him the strength to take on an extraordinary challenge with his brother: hiking the Appalachian Trail in their seventies. Along the way, they faced storms, solitude, and moments of reckoning that reshaped how Rand understands resilience, purpose, and second chances. In this episode, we covered: How Rand faced down alcoholism after decades of success in his career The hidden weight of PTSD and how it shaped his story What it was like to hike more than 1,400 miles of the Appalachian Trail in his seventies The role of grit, faith, and humor in getting through difficult seasons How recovery and service to others gave Rand a renewed sense of purpose -- Resources: Visit: Email Rand:
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Finding Your Path After Loss
09/24/2025
Finding Your Path After Loss
What happens when life as you know it is suddenly pulled out from under you? For Ray Martin, the unraveling of his marriage, the death of his father, and the collapse of his career all came within months of each other. Left with nothing familiar to hold onto, Ray made a choice to let go of clinging to the life he had built. What began as a six-month sabbatical turned into a 14-year journey across Asia. Along the way, Ray discovered mindfulness and a new definition of success that wasn’t tied to titles, possessions, or status. His experiences became the foundation of his book Life Without a Tie. In this conversation, Ray shares the lessons he learned from starting over and the six rules of happiness that guide him today. We’ll cover: How Ray turned personal loss into a catalyst for growth The most common regret people share at the end of life What he discovered during a silent 10-day meditation retreat The framework Ray calls his six rules of happiness How to approach life transitions with greater clarity and purpose -- Resources:
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How to Reinvent Yourself at Any Age
09/10/2025
How to Reinvent Yourself at Any Age
Life after work doesn’t come with a roadmap. But my guest today shows what can happen when you stay curious and keep saying “yes.” David Danon has worn many hats: sailor, hair stylist, yoga teacher, Hollywood crew member, and musician. Now, in his seventies, he continues to surf, foil, and coach others on healthy aging. His journey is proof that reinvention can happen at any age. In this episode, David shares: How sailing and surfing shaped his outlook on life Why curiosity has opened unexpected doors throughout his journey The lessons yoga and meditation taught him about resilience and peace Why vigilance and resolve are essential for healthy aging The importance of creating purpose beyond career identity -- Resources: Visit David’s
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Why Staying Curious Is the Secret to a Fulfilling Retirement
08/27/2025
Why Staying Curious Is the Secret to a Fulfilling Retirement
Some people step into retirement without a clear plan, while others see it as an open canvas. My guest today, Thom Barrett, retired at 55 after a successful career at PriceWaterhouseCoopers and chose to fill his canvas with adventure, creativity, and service. From kayaking off the coast of Antarctica to building furniture in his workshop, Thom has lived a life of bold exploration. Even as he faces stage four cancer, he continues to write, travel, and approach each day with intention. In this episode, we discuss: Why Thom chose to retire early and pursue adventure How travel and time in nature became both refuge and teacher The lessons he’s learned about acceptance, vulnerability, and mindfulness Why he began writing books and travel reflections during his illness How he continues to live with purpose and presence despite new limitations -- Resources: Living While Dying, Chasing My Northern Lights, and
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