Date Your Wife
Co-hosts Garrett J White and Danielle K White share in this weekly podcast, as a powerhouse husband and wife duo why date nights have become non-negotiable in their life. Garrett is the founder of Wake Up Warrior, a program for married businessmen to live the Warrior’s Way towards having a life of having it all, and Danielle is the founder of NBR Education and DKW Styling Salon. They will share how they have created success in every aspect of their lives after being willing to rebuild and heal from disconnection, and it all starts with weekly date nights.
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Why Men Stop Leading in Marriage | The Truth About Emotional Connection
07/15/2026
Why Men Stop Leading in Marriage | The Truth About Emotional Connection
What slowly pulls two people apart in marriage? It's usually not one catastrophic moment. It's the small moments of disconnection that go unspoken. In this episode of the Date Your Wife Podcast, Garrett and Danielle White explore the hidden emotional dynamics that shape long-term relationships, beginning with a candid conversation about Danielle's audiobook, God Is My Ghostwriter. Together they discuss: Emotional connection Vulnerability Honesty in marriage Attraction and intimacy Roommate relationships Emotional leadership Communication Long-term relationship growth Marriage after decades together This episode offers an honest look at what it takes to continue choosing each other after 25 years of marriage. Because healthy marriages aren't built on perfection. They're built on truth.
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We Had It All—and Still Felt Empty | The Date Your Wife Experience - LIVE
07/08/2026
We Had It All—and Still Felt Empty | The Date Your Wife Experience - LIVE
After nearly a decade of running the Date Your Wife podcast, Garrett White (founder of Wake Up Warrior) and his wife Danielle launch something new: The Date Your Wife Experience, a live, faith-centered event for married couples. In this inaugural episode, Garrett and Danielle get honest about the version of their marriage most people never saw — 23 years together, two rising companies, five kids, and a marriage that looked perfect on paper while they quietly lost connection with each other. They walk through the four stages every marriage moves through (Survival, Success, Performance, and Covenant) and the choice that changed everything: putting God back at the center of their relationship. Listeners also hear unscripted, in-the-moment testimonials from couples in the Wake Up Warrior community — including Jake & Mackenzie, Dave & Angie, and Stephen & Laurie — on what actually shifted in their marriages. This is not a coaching call and not a therapy session. It's an honest look at where your marriage really is, and an invitation to bring faith into the center of it. JOIN LIVE: This is part one of a two-part series. The Date Your Wife Experience runs live and free every Thursday night at 6PM Eastern — bring your spouse, or come solo.
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The Date Your Wife Experience | Why Most Marriages Slowly Fall Apart
07/01/2026
The Date Your Wife Experience | Why Most Marriages Slowly Fall Apart
For more than eight years, Garrett and Danielle White have openly shared the realities of marriage—the wins, the struggles, the arguments, the breakthroughs, and everything in between. Now they're bringing those conversations into a live experience. The Date Your Wife Experience is designed for couples who want more than simply staying together. It's for couples who want to reconnect, communicate honestly, deepen intimacy, and continue growing together through every season of life. This experience explores: Communication Intimacy Conflict Resolution Emotional Connection Marriage Growth Family Leadership Personal Responsibility Building a Lasting Relationship Whether you're thriving or simply trying to reconnect, this experience provides a practical environment to strengthen the foundation of your marriage alongside other couples committed to growth. Because the strongest marriages aren't the ones without conflict. They're the ones that never stop choosing each other.
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The Man Who Stops Pursuing His Wife Loses Her | Date Your Wife Podcast
06/24/2026
The Man Who Stops Pursuing His Wife Loses Her | Date Your Wife Podcast
Why do men stop pursuing their wives? Why do women stop feeling desired? And why do so many marriages slowly drift apart even when both people still love each other? In this episode of the Date Your Wife Podcast, Garrett and Danielle White unpack one of the most overlooked dynamics in long-term relationships: The loss of pursuit. What begins as a conversation around attraction and intimacy quickly expands into a deeper discussion about rejection, emotional safety, masculine leadership, feminine desire, communication, and connection after decades together. Topics include: Pursuit in marriage Rejection and emotional withdrawal Intimacy and attraction Long-term relationship dynamics Masculine and feminine differences Communication breakdowns Marriage after 20+ years Rebuilding connection Emotional intimacy Relationship growth This is not a conversation about blame. It's a conversation about understanding. Because often the problem isn't the relationship. It's the slow disconnection happening inside of it. If you've ever felt unwanted, misunderstood, disconnected, frustrated, or uncertain inside your marriage, this episode will resonate.
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Why Men Stop Pursuing Their Wives | Rejection, Sex & Marriage After 25 Years
06/17/2026
Why Men Stop Pursuing Their Wives | Rejection, Sex & Marriage After 25 Years
Why do men stop pursuing their wives? And why do women often feel like they aren't being pursued enough? In this candid episode of the Date Your Wife Podcast, Garrett and Danielle White unpack the emotional dynamics behind intimacy, rejection, attraction, and communication inside a long-term marriage. What begins as a discussion about sex quickly becomes a deeper exploration of: Pursuit Rejection Desire Emotional connection Masculine and feminine perspectives Testosterone and attraction Communication inside marriage The stories couples tell themselves about each other After more than 25 years together, Garrett and Danielle share the realities of navigating intimacy through different seasons of life, growth, business, parenting, and personal transformation. This episode isn't about techniques. It's about understanding. Because often the problem isn't what your spouse is doing. The problem is the meaning you're attaching to it. If you've ever felt rejected, misunderstood, unwanted, pressured, disconnected, or confused in a relationship, this conversation will resonate.
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Why Modern Marriages Feel So Hard | Sex, Purpose, Resentment & Attraction
06/10/2026
Why Modern Marriages Feel So Hard | Sex, Purpose, Resentment & Attraction
After a six-month break, the Date Your Wife Podcast is back. And we came back swinging. In this episode, Garrett and Danielle White unpack one of the biggest challenges facing modern marriages: How do two people continue growing together when they're constantly changing? What starts as a conversation about social media drama quickly turns into a raw discussion about purpose, mentorship, attraction, sexuality, resentment, production, menopause, emotional narratives, and why so many couples slowly drift apart over time. Inside this episode: Why people attack purpose when they lose their own How victim mentalities spread in business, church, and marriage The hidden challenges of staying connected through decades of growth Why attraction changes over time The truth about masculine production and confidence What happens when one spouse stops growing The emotional stories men and women create about each other Why so many marriages become roommate relationships The conversation nobody wants to have about sex in long-term relationships How assumptions silently damage intimacy The pressure men feel around production and provision The pressure women feel around connection and emotional safety Why modern marriage is harder than most people admit This isn't therapy. This isn't relationship theory. It's two people with 25 years of marriage, business, parenting, wins, losses, growth, mistakes, and lessons sharing what they've learned the hard way. If you've ever found yourself asking: Why does marriage feel different than it used to? Why does attraction shift over time? Why do couples stop communicating? How do you stay connected while continuing to grow individually? This episode is for you. Because the truth is: Marriage isn't hard because people change. Marriage is hard because people change... and expect their partner not to. 📘 Danielle White's Book: God Is My Ghostwriter Available now on Amazon. Subscribe for more conversations about marriage, family, intimacy, entrepreneurship, parenting, polarity, personal growth, and building a life together.
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We Moved Into a Miami Condo… And Immediately Broke Every Rule
06/03/2026
We Moved Into a Miami Condo… And Immediately Broke Every Rule
After a five-month break, the Date Your Wife Podcast is back. And a lot has changed. Over the past year, Garrett and Danielle moved across the country, rebuilt their team, launched a new book, became grandparents, left a home filled with mold, and unexpectedly found themselves living condo life in Miami. What looked like a simple move turned into a complete reset. In this episode, Garrett and Danielle pull back the curtain on: Why they left their previous home The unexpected realities of moving to Miami Trading a large family home for high-rise condo living Raising kids in close quarters Learning boundaries, discipline, and adaptation The challenges of major life transitions Becoming grandparents Why starting over is harder than most people think This episode is less about marriage advice and more about the reality of reinvention. New city. New environment. New challenges. Same mission. If you've ever relocated, rebuilt your life, navigated a major family transition, or wondered what it's actually like to move to South Florida, you'll relate to this conversation. 📘 Danielle White's new book: God Is My Ghostwriter Available now on Amazon. Subscribe for more conversations about: Marriage Family Entrepreneurship Personal Growth Parenting Life Transitions Building a Life Together The Date Your Wife Podcast is back. And we're just getting started.
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“You Had Me at Hello”: Clayton & Christina on Faith, Divorce, Blended Family Boundaries & Building Love That Lasts
01/05/2026
“You Had Me at Hello”: Clayton & Christina on Faith, Divorce, Blended Family Boundaries & Building Love That Lasts
What happens when you hear a voice and know—instantly—this is part of your calling? In this Date Your Wife episode from the Miami studio, Clayton and Dr. Christina share the wild, honest story of how their relationship began with a “tap from God,” an unexpected connection, and a mission that turned into marriage. They talk about what it really takes to rebuild after a painful divorce, set non-negotiable standards, and create trust when the stakes are high—especially with a blended family and real scars from the past. This conversation cuts through romance-movie fluff and gets into the raw truth: boundaries, integrity, safety, presence, and choosing each other when life demands you be a better man and a stronger woman.
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Building, Balancing & Rebuilding: The Truth About Marriage, Money, and Connection
11/03/2025
Building, Balancing & Rebuilding: The Truth About Marriage, Money, and Connection
In this raw and revealing Date Your Wife episode, Garrett and Danielle White break down the real stages of marriage — build, balance, and rebuild — and how success in business often comes at the cost of connection at home. They share never-before-told stories of how the early builder phase of entrepreneurship created unseen damage in their relationship, how they lost and rebuilt everything, and the lessons that came from 20+ years together as partners, parents, and entrepreneurs. 💥 Inside this episode: The three phases of marriage every entrepreneur couple experiences How to rebuild attraction and connection after burnout and resentment The balance between sex, business, and family life What it takes to lead together as a couple without losing yourself The origin of Warrior Married Game — a new system for couples inside Wake Up Warrior This conversation is a masterclass for couples who want to build an empire without burning down their marriage.
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From Divorce to Divine Partnership: Rebuilding Love, Faith, and Family with Alex & Valeria | Date Your Wife
10/27/2025
From Divorce to Divine Partnership: Rebuilding Love, Faith, and Family with Alex & Valeria | Date Your Wife
After divorce and heartbreak, Alex and Valeria rebuilt their lives, their family, and their faith. In this episode, Garrett and Danielle White sit down with the couple to talk about how they turned conflict into connection using a simple daily practice they call The Love Thing. They share what it takes to blend families, rebuild trust, and bring God and structure back into the home. From the “Man in the Arena” event that changed Alex’s life to Valeria’s journey of surrender and support, this is a raw look at what modern marriage and masculine leadership really require.
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The Art of Entrepreneurs in Marriage
10/20/2025
The Art of Entrepreneurs in Marriage
In this raw and powerful episode of the Date Your Wife Podcast, Garrett and Danielle White pull back the curtain on what it really takes to stay connected when life, business, and technology are moving faster than ever. From the unseen war zones of entrepreneurship to the shifting dynamics of marriage, they explore: Why men disconnect under pressure—and how to break that pattern The real reason business success often kills intimacy How AI is exposing (and replacing) 95% of coaches—and what that means for relationships The balance between spiritual growth, sex, and survival in a collapsing system And a surprisingly emotional experiment using ChatGPT as a “marriage therapist” This conversation dives deep into the future of love, leadership, and technology—and why now more than ever, couples must learn to build the stage together rather than perform alone. 🎙️ Watch, listen, and rediscover how to fight for your marriage without losing yourself in the battle.
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From Match.com to Mindshare: JJ Virgin & Tim on Love, Legacy, and Building a Life That Heals the World
10/06/2025
From Match.com to Mindshare: JJ Virgin & Tim on Love, Legacy, and Building a Life That Heals the World
What happens when two high-performing entrepreneurs find not just love, but a shared mission to transform health, relationships, and purpose? In this episode of The Date Your Wife Podcast, Garrett and Danielle White sit down with powerhouse JJ Virgin and Tim for an unforgettable conversation about love, leadership, and legacy. From their unconventional "Virgin Oregon Experience" wedding (yes, it doubled as a charity mastermind) to their serendipitious Match.com beginning, JJ Virgin and Tim share how deep partnership can elevate both business and intimacy. They open up about learning to trust again after past heartbreaks, merging their strengths as co-founders, and keeping passion alive amid constant travel and high performance. The conversation dives into balancing masculine and feminine energy, healing trauma, redefining success, and building a spiritual foundation that fuels both business growth and personal connection. Whether you're an entrepreneur, a power couple, or someone seeking deeper alignment in love and purpose, this episode will inspire you to build, heal, and rise together.
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Truth, Triggers & Transformation: How Marriage Survives Shifts, Sex, and Speaking Hard Truths
09/22/2025
Truth, Triggers & Transformation: How Marriage Survives Shifts, Sex, and Speaking Hard Truths
In this raw and unfiltered episode of The Date Your Wife Podcast, Danielle and Garrett White open up about navigating massive life shifts from selling their california home and businesses to rebuilding their world in Miami, while keeping thier 22-year marriage alive, passionate, and brutally honest. The conversation takes a powerful turn as they reflect on the recent assassination of Charlie Kirk and its ripple effect on free speech, family safety, and the courage to speak truth, how resentment builds when honesty is suppressed, and the surprising ways intimacy and language ("quickie" vs "canoodling") can either deepen or distance connection. WIth humor, candor, and their signature real-talk style, Garrett and Danielle tackle sex, parenting, therapy, triggers, and transformation proving that growth in marriage requires courage, confrontation, and recommitment to each new version of your partner. Whether you're married, dating, or redifining your relationship, this episode will challenge you to face truth, embrace change, and fight for deeper intimacy. Follow us on Instagram
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🔥 Marriage, Money & Intimacy: Ray & Jessica Higdon on Healing, Faith & Lasting Love
09/15/2025
🔥 Marriage, Money & Intimacy: Ray & Jessica Higdon on Healing, Faith & Lasting Love
In this powerful episode of The Date Your Wife Podcast, Garrett and Danielle welcome back powerhouse couple Ray and Jessica Higdon for a raw, unfiltered conversation about marriage, faith, and intimacy. The first time they joined us, the conversation was so fiery it literally burned out the audio, so we knew we had to do it again. This time, the Higdons dive even deeper: from their unlikely first meeting to weathering financial collapse, marital drift, and identity crises, to finding restoration through faith and renewed purpose. Together, we unpack: The seven year "itch" every marriage faces and how to grow through it. Why communication breakdowns can masquerade as criticism and rejection. How faith transformed their relationship and reignited Ray's joy. The unspoken dynamics of sex, stress, and intimacy in long-term partnerships. The crucial role of women seeing potential in their men before they see it themselves. This episode is brutally honest, funny, and packed with wisdom for couples navigating the messy, beautiful realities of marriage, business, and family life.
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Beyond Transactional Love: Building Real Connection, Presence & Growth in Marriage with Jarek and Jessica
09/08/2025
Beyond Transactional Love: Building Real Connection, Presence & Growth in Marriage with Jarek and Jessica
What happens when love moves beyond gifts, status, and transactional expectations with unconditonal connection? In this powerful episode of The Date Your Wife Podcast, Garrett and Danielle White sit down with Jarek and Jessica share how they built trust, learned to communicate through conflict, and redefined love on their own terms. Together, the couples dive deep into the challenges of transactional dynamics in relationships, why presence matters more than material things, and how to break free from performance-driven love to experience true intimacy. Packed with real stories, emotional breakthroughs, and practical wisdom, this episode is a must-listen for couples who want mroe than surface-level connection. Tune in for conversations on marriage, love, family, blended households, relationship growth, presence, trust, vulnerability, and building a lasting partnership. Make sure you follow us on Instagram
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Love, Legacy & Lifting Together: Travis & Sofia’s Journey from Athletes to Entrepreneurs
09/01/2025
Love, Legacy & Lifting Together: Travis & Sofia’s Journey from Athletes to Entrepreneurs
In this powerful episode of The Date Your Wife podcast, Garrett and Danielle sit down with Travis Wallace and Sofia Perez, a dynamic couple whose story bridges sports, fitness, love, and entrepreneurship. From their early days as a college coach and tennis player who barely spoke, to building a thriving business and life together in Miami, Travis and Sofia share how discipline, sacrifice, and faith shaped both their relationships and their careers. Travis, a former professional basketball player turned NBA trainer, opens up about the grind of building success from scratch and the mental shift required to scale beyond individual performance. Sofia, a former Costa Rican national tennis player, reveals how rediscovering her passion after injury and refusing to be swept up in Miami's party culture, helped her align with a bigger purpose. Together, they explore the realities of building as a couple: defining roles, balancing obsession with presence, and staying rooted in connection despite the lure of comparison and ambition. Make sure you follow us on Instagram
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Marriage, Miami & The Easy Button: How We Rebuilt Love After Hitting Rock Bottom
08/25/2025
Marriage, Miami & The Easy Button: How We Rebuilt Love After Hitting Rock Bottom
In this candid throwback episode of The Date Your Wife Podcast, Danielle and Garrett get brutally honest about marriage, sex, faith, and messy reality of raising five kids while running multiple businesses. Recorded during their early days in Miami, the conversation dives into the clashes and breakthroughs that every couple can relate to from explosive arguments over laundry baskets to the deeper truth of what it takes to feel seen, appreciated, and connected in a long-term relationship. With humor, raw vulnerability, and zero filter, they unpack the "easy button" for men, why women hold back, and how resentment, timing, adn stress can sabotage intimacy. They also share how relocating, embracing new environments, adn setting higher standards for themselves let to a spiritual and relational rebirth. If you've ever wondered how to rebuild love after conflict, balance individual standards with partnerships, or reignite passion in marriage, this episode will hit home. Make sure to follow us on Instagram
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Marriage, Money & Intimacy: The Honest Truth About Staying Together Through It All
08/18/2025
Marriage, Money & Intimacy: The Honest Truth About Staying Together Through It All
In this raw and unfiltered episode of The Date Your Wife Podcast, Danielle and Garrett step away from guests and return to the original heart of the show, candid conversations about marriage, family, and the messy realities of building a life together. With 22 years of marriage, five kids, and multiple businesses behind them, they open up about navigating sick kids on the first day of school, unexpected detours in life, and the constant need to course correct in relationships. They dive deep into the recurrin struggles couples face: sex, money, intimacy, presence, and words of affirmation, while exposing the hidden reserviors men and women often fail to fill each other. From near-divorce moments in 2016 to rediscovering passion, presence, and consistency, Garrett and Danielle reveal how growth in marriage mirrors growth in business: cycles of breakdown and reinvention are not only normal but necessary. Whether you're newly married or decades in, this episode offers practical wisdom, hard truths, and vulnerable insights into what it really takes to build a marriage that lasts. Follow us on Instagram
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From Breakdown to Breakthrough: Doug & Sonia’s Unfiltered Journey Through Marriage, Faith, and Redemption
08/04/2025
From Breakdown to Breakthrough: Doug & Sonia’s Unfiltered Journey Through Marriage, Faith, and Redemption
In one of the most powerful and spirit-led episodes of The Date Your Wife Podcast to date, Garrett and Danielle White sit down with Miami with Douglas and Sonia James for a soul-baring, laughter-filled, and emotionally rich conversation about love, marriage, faith, and everything in between. From a hilarious Ulta Beauty first encounter involving lobster cream gone wrong, to a near-death allergic reaction that led to a first date, Douglas and Sonia's orgin story is as unforgettable as it is divinely orchestrated. But beyond the laughs lies a deeper, more sobering truth: marriage is hard and this couple doesn't shy away from the raw details of betrayal, postpartum trauma, spiritual disconnection, and the near collapse of their marriage. Through God, vulnerability, and relentless commitment, they've clawed their way back to each other and they're still in it doing the work. If you've ever wondered if your relationship can survive the storms of entrepreneurship, parenthood, and past pain, this episode will give you hope, healing, and holy fire. Make sure you follow us on Instagram
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Why Most Marriages Fail: Real Talk on Rejection, Intimacy & Communication
07/14/2025
Why Most Marriages Fail: Real Talk on Rejection, Intimacy & Communication
In this raw and revealing episode of the Date Your Wife podcast, Danielle K White and Garrett J White open the doors to their personal evolution as a couple, unpacking the emotional truth behind decades of disconnection, reactivity and the slow but powerful journey back to intamacy. What starts as a teasing nod to influencer breakups turns into a profound dialogue on marriage, vulnerability, and communication. From emotional rejection and withheld affection to finding breakthroughs in the bedroom and the boardroom, Garrett and Danielle courageously explore how childhood trauma, social media, and unmet needs silently shape modern relationships. You'll hear candid confessions, unexpected humor (including cheetah-print boxers and vibrator mishaps), and hard-won lessons on how to validate your partner while honoring yourself. Whether you're newly married or 20 years deep, this conversation will challenge what you think you know about love, affection, and what it really takes to keep desire and respect alive. Grab your free copy or send a copy for your husband or your boyfrined at Make sure you follow us on Instagram
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💍 From Strangers at the Gym to Soulmates in Sickness & Success: The Marty & Elyse Love Story
06/30/2025
💍 From Strangers at the Gym to Soulmates in Sickness & Success: The Marty & Elyse Love Story
In this powerful episode of The Date Your Wife podcast, Garrett and Danielle sit down with longtime friend and original Warrior, Marty Orefice, and his fiancé Elyse for a deeply moving conversation about love, transformation, and resilience. From a chance meeting at the YMCA to navigating chronic illness, blended family dynamics, and business-building side by side, this is a story of radical honesty, commitment, and unconditional support. Marty shares how he went from being Warrior’s first-ever client to building a thriving supplement brand (Aspire Nutrition) born out of a father’s relentless quest to help his son recover from autism. Elyse opens up about the unwavering love that carried them both through his Lyme disease battle and how their relationship grew even stronger in the fire. This episode dives into real talk on communication after divorce, navigating power dynamics in dating and business, rekindling intimacy, and the kind of loyalty that doesn’t quit, no matter what. Make sure to follow us on Instagram #DateYourWife #RealLoveStories #MarriageGoals #AutismAwareness #AspireNutrition #WarriorWay #LoveInHardTimes #CouplesInBusiness #WakeUpWarrior #RelationshipGrowth
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From Fat Loss to Power Couple: The Truth About Love, Leadership & Longevity
06/23/2025
From Fat Loss to Power Couple: The Truth About Love, Leadership & Longevity
In this raw and inspiring episode of The Date Your Wife Podcast, we sit down with Anthony and Tereza Lolli a powerhouse couple who turned mentorship into marriage and love into a movement. Known for being the fittest couple we've ever hosted, they share the vulnerable and powerful evolution of their relationship from a chance meeting in a Manhattan Starbucks to building an empire rooted in respect, passion, and purpose. We unpack the early stages of their connection, Anthony 100+lb weight loss transformation, and the unconventional ways Tereza motivated lasting change. From business mentorship and friendship to navigating the hard truths of obesity, marriage, and self-respect, their story is a masterclass in building intimacy without shortcuts. The Lollis also discuss their shared commitment to biohacking, parenting like CEO's and maintaining desire while scaling empires. Plus, they dive into hormone optimization, women's wellness, and how couples can reconnect through shared vision and health. If you're building a relationship and a legacy, this episode is your blueprint. Follow us on Instagram
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From Lust to Love: How Forbes Riley & Joshua Self Rewrote the Rules of Intimacy
06/16/2025
From Lust to Love: How Forbes Riley & Joshua Self Rewrote the Rules of Intimacy
In this electrifying and deeply vulnerable episode of The Date Your Wife Podcast, we welcome powerhouse couple Forbes Riley, media mogul and motivational icon, and Joshua Self, former Chippendale turned world champion bodybuilder. What starts as a playful and candid dive into their unconventional love story quickly unfolds into a raw conversation about healing, intimacy, emotional connection, and the difference between sex and making love. Forbes opens up about overcoming personal loss, navigating identity beyond her public persona, and embracing vulnerability as "Francin". Joshua shares how he helped her rediscover a softer side of herself through consistent ove, presence, and intentional touch. Together, they challenge outdated beliefs about relationships, age gaps, and gender roles. Expect unfiltered humor, real talk on sex vs intimacy, (hello QQP) spiritual alignment, adn surprisingly tender reflections on what it means to truly be seen and loves for who you are. Whether you're building a conscious partnership, redefining your feminine/masculine dynamic, or just love a good love story, this episode will leave you rethinking everyrthing. Follos us on Instagram
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Unlock the Secrets of Orgasms: Squirting, Tantra & Orgasmic Awakening with Susan Bratton
06/09/2025
Unlock the Secrets of Orgasms: Squirting, Tantra & Orgasmic Awakening with Susan Bratton
Dive into one of the most revealing and transformative episodes of The Date Your Wife Podcast! Garrett and Danielle sit down with reowned intimacy expert Susan Bratton, a true pioneer in teaching couples how to turn their sex lives into spiritual, pleasure-filled connections. In this episdoe, Susan breaks down the science behind female ejaculation, yes squirting is real and demystifies the often misunderstood "G-Spot" and "U-Spot". She shares her personal journey from frustrated marriage to discovering orgasmic bliss through radical honesty, tantric practices like yoni/lingam massage, and sexual skills that transform intimacy into sacred communion. 💡 You'll experience: How to unlock extended orgasms and stay "on the orgasmic peak" The difference between spontaneous vs. responsive desire and how to master both Easy, teachable techniques like the 5-stroke clitoral method for deeper connection Stories of seniors reclaiming "better-than-ever" sex at 63 and beyond This episode isn't just hot, it's a masterclass in sexual wellness, emotional intimacy, and spiritual union. Whether you're marrid, seeking deeper connection, or curious about elevating your bedroom game, you need to hear Susan's playbook.
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Stop Hiding Behind God: Marriage, Truth, and the Wake-Up Call Most Couples Avoid
06/02/2025
Stop Hiding Behind God: Marriage, Truth, and the Wake-Up Call Most Couples Avoid
In this raw episode of the Date Your Wife podcast, Garrett and Danielle White tackle one of the most overlooked issues in modern marriage: staying stuck in relationships that look committed but feel lifeless. With over 23 years of marriage, five kids, and multiple near-divorces behind them, the Whites open up about the gritty, real-world truth of rebuilding connection, chemistry, and purpose in a relationship that's seen it all. They dive headfirst into the toxic tendency of using religion and scripture as weapons to justify inaction, avoidance, and moral superiority, calling out the hypocrisy in a way that only they can. This conversation isn't just about faith; it's about fruit. Are the people you're listening to actually living lives you'd want? If not, why are you taking advice from them? Whether you're married, on the edge of divorce or questioning the role fo faith in your relationship, this episode will challenge your assumptions, shake your comfort zone, and deliver a powerful reminder: transformation requires radical truth. New episodes drop weekly. Subscribe and follow for more! Follow us on Instagram
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We Built an Arena, Faced the Hate, and Still Rose: Raw Truth Behind Success, Marriage & Porn Addiction
05/26/2025
We Built an Arena, Faced the Hate, and Still Rose: Raw Truth Behind Success, Marriage & Porn Addiction
In this fiery, unfiltered episode, Garrett and Danielle get brutally honest about what happens when you start rising—haters, betrayal, Reddit threads, and all. From building the Man in the Arena movement to uncovering the dark truths about marriage, sex, and addiction, this episode dives deep into the emotional cost of leveling up. You’ll hear: The real reason people start tearing you down when you win Why most marriages fall apart (hint: it’s not just about sex) How Danielle found her voice—and why she’s not afraid to use it The shocking stats around porn addiction from 1,300 men in a room What “duty booty” is… and why it’s killing connection And how building events, empires, and a life together is the ultimate test This one’s raw. This one’s real. And this one might just change how you view your partner, your past, and your purpose. New episodes drop weekly. Subscribe and follow for more behind-the-scenes truth from the front lines of marriage, business, and becoming who you were born to be. Want more info on Man In the Arena Tour? Go to Follow On Instagram for daily value and entertainment @daniellekwhite and @garrettjwhite
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From Heartbreak to Healing: How a Sexy Encounter at a Healing Table Led to Soul-Level Love
05/12/2025
From Heartbreak to Healing: How a Sexy Encounter at a Healing Table Led to Soul-Level Love
In this fiery and emotionally rich episode of the Date Your WIfe podcast, Garrett and Danielle are joined by the magnetic couple Eli and Bryn, whose story starts in an Austi healing studio with a glance, a cheetah-print moment, and a whole lot of unexpected emotional chemistry. What begins as a charged, almost cosmic connection turns into a deep dive into the personal transformations that made their relationship possible. Eli shares his journey from shallow hookups and playing it safe, to embracing emotional maturity and spiritual celibacy. Bryn opens up about leaving a decade-long marriage to a reclaim her identity, rediscover her sexuality, and rebuild a life rooted in her life. Not just in support of someone else's dream. Together, they unpack what it really means to meet someone after you've done the work. From breakups and Burning Man to emotional breakthroughs on massage tables, this episode is a wild, honest ride through sex, soul work, and the spiritual realness of modern love. It's a must-listen for couples in transition, single seekers, or anyone curious about what it takes to attract (and keep) a conscious partner. If you are a man sitting in the game and you're trying to find more tools and more weapons that are practical in nature to not only make more money, but also have it all in life, importantly with your marriage and your partner, your spouse, check out
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Sex, Triggers & Truth Bombs: What Really Goes On in a Man’s Mind
05/05/2025
Sex, Triggers & Truth Bombs: What Really Goes On in a Man’s Mind
In this wildly candid and unfiltered episode of the Date Your Wife Podcast, we dive deep into the real and often hilarious dynamics of sexual energy, attraction, and honesty in marriage. Recorded right from our Miami home studio, this episode peels back the layers of what actually goes through a man's mind on a daily basis including how often sex crosses it, what triggers those thoughts, and how men navigate desire in real life. From testosterone fueled libido confessions to honest discussions about boundaries, gym glances, and challenges of being a beautiful women in a hyper-sexualized world, nothing is off-limits. We also unpack the societal shift in modern marriage roles and how couples are rewriting the rules in real time. Expect laughs, uncomfortable truthsm and surprisingly profound insights about communication, discipline, and staying connected. Whether your married, dating, or just trying to understand your partner better, this episode is both relatable and refreshingly raw.
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Unfiltered Marriage Talk: Raising Adult Kids, Dog Chaos & Why Connection Matters
04/28/2025
Unfiltered Marriage Talk: Raising Adult Kids, Dog Chaos & Why Connection Matters
Welcome back to the Date Your Wife Podcast! In this episode, it’s just the two of us—real, unfiltered, and sometimes hilarious. We dive deep into the chaos of raising adult kids (who move out and… get dogs they can’t handle!), why having a third dog is a recipe for madness, and the truth about what makes a marriage work (even after 21 years, five kids, and enough pets for a small farm). What we talk about in this episode: Why our daughter got a high-energy Pitbull (and instantly regretted it) The wild realities of parenting adult children Hilarious and raw pet stories (including guinea pigs, Yorkies, and “mafia dogs”) Honest marriage talk—connection, trust, respect, and why real conversations matter The rise of loneliness in men, how marriage is evolving, and the biggest mistakes couples make today Sex, money, and the not-so-glamorous realities of long-term relationships How we keep rewriting the marriage playbook—and why you should too The Man in the Arena Tour: Join us for a men’s-only event, May 17th, Salt Lake City, at the Maverick Center! More info at You’ll also hear us ask ChatGPT some questions you never thought you needed answers to, get real about mom guilt, talk “man titties,” and explain why nobody wants to end up in a B-level marriage. If you love real, raw conversations about marriage, business, and family life—don’t forget to LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, and SHARE this episode with another couple or friend who needs to hear it! 👇 Drop your wildest “pet parent” stories or your biggest marriage lesson in the comments. We’d love to hear from you! 🔔 Subscribe for more unfiltered episodes every week. Check out past shows for real advice, laughter, and transformation.
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From Chaos to Connection: How Matt & Whitney Built a Marriage That Thrives
04/21/2025
From Chaos to Connection: How Matt & Whitney Built a Marriage That Thrives
In this raw and relatable episode of The Date Your Wife podcast, we sit down with power couple Matt and Whitney Enns to unpack the unfiltered reality of marriage, parenthood, and personal growth. From unexpected pregnancy and spontaneous proposals to healing from explosive arguments and building a life of deep emotional safety, their story is both inspiring and incredibly human. We dive into the real-life struggles couples face, negotiating household responsibilities, managing unmet expectations, and learning how to fight well. Matt and Whitney share how their journey from dysfunction to deep connection wasn't easy, but absolutely worth it. With honesty and humor, they break down what it means to truly see your partner, how to communicate with clarity and compassion, and why emotional safety is the key to unlocking vulnerablility, especially for women. You'll laugh, reflect, and maybe cry as they share the turth behind their now-thriving relationship. If you're navigating marriage, parenting, or personal transformation, this episode is a must-listen! Connect with us on Instagram Your Host and
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