Dating White

The podcast that explores the beautiful, heartbreaking and nuanced stories of interracial dating. Two women of color share their thoughts and experiences about interracial dating. Your hosts Nkechi Njaka and Myisha Battle tackle complicated topics from what it's like for women of color to online date to how pop culture represents interracial relationships.

Fair as Fuck 06/25/2021

Fair as Fuck We are all surrounded by media representations that center white people. When these narratives become tropes in storytelling, so much harm can be done to BIPOC, especially in the way that our attractions are formed. In this episode, Stephanie Quintana shares multitudes of herself and her experiences that span culture, race, and class to bring us this message: interrupting these narratives in the background is the only way we can truly interrupt them on the screen. /episode/index/show/datingwhite/id/19587200

Two Rachels, One Black Bachelor 06/18/2021

Two Rachels, One Black Bachelor It took 25 whole seasons to deliver a Black Bachelor, history making indeed with an enormously diverse group of contestants to boot. There was loads to celebrate until… racism. Myisha + Nkechi are here to discuss it all: the colorism, the lack of screening for racist contestants, Rachel Kirkconnell in antebellum cosplay, and finally- Rachel Lindsay's frustrating conversation with host Chris Harrison. /episode/index/show/datingwhite/id/19517225

The Last First Time 06/11/2021

The Last First Time On this episode of Dating White, Nkechi + Myisha chat with Alexandra Ofori-Atta about trying to find connection through online dating in COVID, the challenges of being someone's first non-white partner and the allure of the sad white guy (something they all relate to). Listen to hear amazing anecdotes about the complexities of modern dating and what it means to perform wokeness! /episode/index/show/datingwhite/id/19437572

Meghan and Oprah (and Harry): How close is too close? 06/04/2021

Meghan and Oprah (and Harry): How close is too close? In this episode Nkechi and Myisha examine what was said and unsaid when Oprah interviewed Meghan and Harry back in March. Was too much burden placed on Meghan to explain the racist events that led to her family leaving the Royals behind? And just how much sympathy should we even expect from a royal legacy of colonial imperialism? We. get. into. it. /episode/index/show/datingwhite/id/19118714

Basket of Microaggressions 05/28/2021

Basket of Microaggressions Shaquille Heath describes what it was like growing up in Utah and how working in tech and then the arts has brought her further and further into white spaces, despite living in a city as diverse as San Francisco. She also shares with us how she managed, in the wake of George Floyd’s murder, the burden of being “[the] only black friend, maybe even [the] only black acquaintance,” a role she was previously unaware of that reshaped how she sees allyship now. /episode/index/show/datingwhite/id/19043255

Bachelorette(s) 05/21/2021

Bachelorette(s) Season 16, i.e., 1,000,000 of The Bachelorette was WILD. If you somehow missed this history making season of reality TV, Nkechi + Myisha are here to hold your hand and break it down for you from the Dating White perspective. We're talking about interracial dating and the way it's misrepresented, and underrepresented in media. And more importantly, how getting it wrong is keeping us from having discussions about race in our romantic relationships. /episode/index/show/datingwhite/id/18997925

No More White BFs 05/14/2021

No More White BFs Mycall Akeem Riley went to a predominantly white upper middle class high school. As a black gay teen, his first crushes were on sad white boys. In this episode, Mycall reflects on his earliest attractions and the complicated experiences that led up to a no white BFs policy. /episode/index/show/datingwhite/id/18997772

How We're Doing. 05/07/2021

How We're Doing. Welcome to Season TWO of Dating White! /episode/index/show/datingwhite/id/18997403

Bonus: A Valentine's Day Meditation 02/14/2021

Bonus: A Valentine's Day Meditation In this bonus episode of Dating White, Myisha + Nkechi offer up a mediation for feeling into and expanding love. Whether you're celebrating self or partnered love today, we hope you to have a beautiful day! /episode/index/show/datingwhite/id/17940473

Beginnings + Endings 08/28/2020

Beginnings + Endings In the Season 1 Finale of Dating White, Myisha + Nkechi discuss what this season has meant for both of them, how the show has been a part of a cycle of change and how 2020 was actually the best time to start this podcast. They also share some ideas of what they’d like to address in future seasons. If you have a show idea or would like to be a guest, email them at [email protected]. /episode/index/show/datingwhite/id/15785180

Implicit Bias 08/21/2020

Implicit Bias Navigating a racist world is difficult, burdensome and harmful to people of color. Implicit biases appear everywhere from partner selection to seeking healthcare and talking through issues with a partner. In this episode, Nkechi + Myisha talk about what implicit bias means, how it’s tested and how it shows up in everyday life. /episode/index/show/datingwhite/id/15698420

The Process 08/14/2020

The Process Myisha + Nkechi sit down to discuss the responses to the pod internally and externally so far. They cover how their ideas about interracial dating and their own identities and feelings of belonging have changed over the course of the last few months making the show. They also address listener feedback and plans for Season 2! /episode/index/show/datingwhite/id/15606968

Apologizing: How to and how not to cause harm 08/07/2020

Apologizing: How to and how not to cause harm What exactly is an effective apology? And what do we do when we are on the receiving end of non-apology when we need one? In this episode of Dating White, Nkechi + Myisha discuss the importance of apologizing, why it’s so difficult, and the components that merit an effective apology over a non-apology. They also talk about models of better behavior and what it means for PoCs to maintain their emotional boundaries, especially during conflict within interracial relationships. /episode/index/show/datingwhite/id/15516749

Microaggressions During the Revolution 07/31/2020

Microaggressions During the Revolution What is a microaggression and what do we do when we are on the receiving end of one? In this episode of Dating White, Nkechi + Myisha discuss what happens when a well-intentioned DM causes harm to its receiver. They also talk about models of better behavior and what it means for PoCs to enforce their emotional boundaries, especially during a racial revolution. /episode/index/show/datingwhite/id/15429374

Too Hot to Handle 07/24/2020

Too Hot to Handle Episode 7. TOO HOT TO HANDLE /episode/index/show/datingwhite/id/15335468

A Royal Exit 07/17/2020

A Royal Exit This episode of Dating White examines what a grand public display of affection looks like when a partner is intolerant of bad behavior from a family or community— and in this case an entire country. Nkechi + Myisha discuss Meghan Markle and her husband Harry, their exit from the Crown and how radical of a choice it was for Prince Harry to remove himself from his family on behalf of a black woman. /episode/index/show/datingwhite/id/15240419

The Least Desirable 07/10/2020

The Least Desirable This episode of Dating White explores what it’s like to date during a pandemic, specifically as a woman of color. Nkechi + Myisha discuss why black women are more likely to be single right now, what virtual dating feels like on the apps and why we should all be conserving our dating energy. /episode/index/show/datingwhite/id/15155291

Love Is Blind! (Or Is It?) 07/03/2020

Love Is Blind! (Or Is It?) If you don’t know who Lauren and Cameron are, you’re missing out! Myisha + Nkechi discuss how Lauren and Cameron’s love unfolded before their eyes on the Netflix show, “Love Is Blind”. They also examine what it means to be equal partners in an interracial relationship and what Lauren and Cameron’s relationship can teach us about assumptions of in/equality. /episode/index/show/datingwhite/id/15072452

What Is White Culture Anyway? 06/26/2020

What Is White Culture Anyway? We can’t talk about dating white without exploring what whiteness means. In this episode, Myisha + Nkechi discuss the complicated ways in which whiteness is assumed, acquired and enacted and the layers that must be unraveled to understand it. /episode/index/show/datingwhite/id/14974922

In Opposition + Parallel 06/19/2020

In Opposition + Parallel In this episode of Dating White, Myisha and Nkechi discuss how growing up mixed race and within predominantly white spaces shaped their realities. They share their thoughts about racial inclusion and how definitions of what is “white” or “black” can limit and isolate people of color. /episode/index/show/datingwhite/id/14887025

The Why(te) 06/11/2020

The Why(te) In the premier episode of Dating White, your hosts Nkechi + Myisha talk about their reasons for creating this relevant and timely show. In this episode, they cover their multi-racial backgrounds and professional lenses, their experiences being WOC dating white men and their intentions for building community around this important topic. /episode/index/show/datingwhite/id/14789555

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