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Real life is messy. One week we're talking accountability, the next we're unpacking motherhood, relationships, autism parenting, body image, spirituality, astrology, pop culture, or whatever else life decides to throw our way. This is a space for honest conversations, hard questions, unexpected laughs, and the kind of self-reflection that helps us grow without taking ourselves too seriously. Pull up a chair, stay curious, and let's figure it out together.

EP. 4: Let It Go! 08/08/2026

EP. 4: Let It Go! Trigger warning: tears were shed (as per usual). This week, I’m spilling all the tea on forgiveness—because, let’s be real, forgiving family can feel like the ultimate boss battle. This episode dives deep into what it means to forgive—not just others, but also yourself. From journaling out those feelings to practicing self-compassion, we’re getting real about the hard work of releasing the pain of the past. And, of course, I had to call in Pluto—the superhero of transformation—to help break down boundaries, generational lessons, and how we’re changing the game for ourselves and the ones coming after us. !!! IG: /episode/index/show/doilookfatpodcast/id/42362960

EP. 3: Transforming Traditions 08/08/2026

EP. 3: Transforming Traditions Ever wondered if Mercury retrograde is the real reason your holiday felt chaotic? Let’s talk about astrological drama and family dynamics because, honestly, setting boundaries is just as important as the mac & cheese. Tune in for some cosmic tea, relatable laughs, and post-Thanksgiving reflections that might just change the way you approach the holidays. Let’s get into it! Don’t know what your birth chart is? !!! IG: /episode/index/show/doilookfatpodcast/id/42362955

EP. 2: Mistakes Were Made (By Me) 08/08/2026

EP. 2: Mistakes Were Made (By Me) Have you ever made your bed and had to lie in it? Same. In this episode, we’re talking about owning your mess, learning from it, and leveling up. From a social media mishap during early COVID (yep, I went there) to how Saturn’s big boss energy forces us to grow, we’re diving into the hard truths of accountability—with a side of astrology, of course. Mistakes don’t define you—how you handle them does. So, let’s laugh, reflect, and figure out how to stop being the problem. That Time I Messed Up Online (09:22) Turning Criticism into a Growth Opportunity (19:08) Big Daddy Saturn (33:10) Want To Make God Laugh, Make A Plan (41:00) Don’t know what your birth chart is? !!! IG: /episode/index/show/doilookfatpodcast/id/42362940

EP. 1: The Blame Game 08/08/2026

EP. 1: The Blame Game Have you ever stopped to think about how much of your life’s chaos is influenced by your own actions? Join me, Stephy Kiss, on Am I the Problem? Because WTF?! as I get real about what it means to take accountability for your own growth. From the non-stop grind of New York City to finding (a little) peace in Florida, I’m sharing my journey of navigating job loss, messy friendship dynamics, and the wild path of self-discovery. [2:50] How did Am I The Problem come to fruition [8:05] What happened to the Autism Mami podcast? [10:23] How a breakdown this summer changed my life [13:59] Talk to me nice! [18:30] Blaming others is the easy part [21:09] The number 1 thing that helped me hold myself accountable [28:01] Did You Planet?(I love a good pun!) What is your birth chart? Don’t know what your birth chart is? !!! IG: /episode/index/show/doilookfatpodcast/id/42362920

Welcome to "Am I The Problem?" 08/08/2026

Welcome to "Am I The Problem?" Have you ever stopped to wonder if you’re the common denominator in your own life? Welcome to Am I the Problem? Because What the Fuck, a podcast all about self-reflection, personal growth, and the messy journey of taking accountability. Created by Stepykiss, host of Do I Look Fat? and Autism Mami, this show dives deep into real conversations about mental health, self-care, astrology, and transformation. As I approach 40, I’m unpacking the patterns, triggers, and hard questions we all need to face to grow. For visuals, check out Am I the Problem Because WTF on YouTube, where I’ll be sharing episodes, behind-the-scenes, and exclusive content. Subscribe now—the first episode drops . Sometimes the answers we’re looking for aren’t out there; they’re within. /episode/index/show/doilookfatpodcast/id/42362915

BWLU: New Moon in Scorpio [VISUALIZATION] 08/08/2026

BWLU: New Moon in Scorpio [VISUALIZATION] Step into the powerful, transformative energy of Scorpio season with this guided visualization [starts at 01:19] designed to help you call in everything you’re ready to manifest. In this session, we’ll explore a sacred cenote, releasing what no longer serves us and making space for intentions that align with our highest purpose. Let this visualization ground you in your power and set the stage for the transformative journey ahead. Stay tuned! My new show, Am I The Problem?, is launching soon. Make sure you’re on my mailing list to get all the latest updates and follow me on Instagram @_stephykiss and @amitheproblem.pod . You won’t want to miss what’s coming! /episode/index/show/doilookfatpodcast/id/42362900

BWLU: Super Full Moon in Aries [VISUALIZATION] 08/08/2026

BWLU: Super Full Moon in Aries [VISUALIZATION] Hey friends! Join me for a powerful full moon guided visualization that’ll help you release what’s no longer serving you and make space for all the good stuff. Whether you’re tuning in before, during, or after the full moon, this visualization will guide you through a journey of letting go and stepping into alignment. Get comfy, get centered, and let’s vibe with the moon together. Baddie Witch Link Up - Zoom /episode/index/show/doilookfatpodcast/id/42362875

EP. 6: Turning this MESS into a MESSAGE 09/13/2022

EP. 6: Turning this MESS into a MESSAGE I know it's been a WHILE... but I'm back with a surprise episode! I had the pleasure of having Megan Keteyian on the podcast last spring for an amazing conversation surrounding accepting your child's diagnosis, ways to pour into yourself, and why mom guilt is NEVER the answer! Follow Megan IG: Don't forget to RATE, REVIEW, & SUBSCRIBE to the podcast. Follow Stephy on IG: Join the email list to stay up to date on all things Autism Mami! /episode/index/show/doilookfatpodcast/id/24366900

EP. 5: Fight or Flight 04/11/2022

EP. 5: Fight or Flight Hey guys, this week Stephy is here with a solo episode! She gives you her thoughts after an experience that triggered her fight or flight response, how meltdowns can also trigger this in your little ones, and mommy amnesia is a REAL THING! Don't forget to RATE, REVIEW, & SUBSCRIBE to the podcast. Follow Stephy on IG: Join the email list to stay up to date on all things Autism Mami! /episode/index/show/doilookfatpodcast/id/22745123

EP 4: My Son Doesn't Trust Me 04/04/2022

EP 4: My Son Doesn't Trust Me Hey guys, this week Stephy is joined by a fellow autism mami Mary! Join them as they discuss, pickiness, supplementation, and why Stephy's son doesn't trust her. Don't forget to RATE, REVIEW, & SUBSCRIBE to the podcast. Follow us on IG Guest /episode/index/show/doilookfatpodcast/id/22664333

EP 3: Mami Motivation 03/28/2022

EP 3: Mami Motivation Hey guys! This week join Stephy as she talks about her own personal struggle with her weight, gym confidence, and how a newly diagnosed toddler can transition into therapy. Don't forget to Rate & Review on both Apple Podcast and Spotify! Follow Stephy on Instagram! and get $120 OFF your orders with a new sign-up! /episode/index/show/doilookfatpodcast/id/22588844

Patience is key! Ft. Genesis 03/21/2022

Patience is key! Ft. Genesis Hey guys, this week I am joined by a fellow autism mami Genesis! Join us while we discuss our trials as parents of special needs kids, how a routine can help in your day-to-day, and why as with anything PATIENCE IS KEY! Guest: Genesis IG: and get $120 OFF your orders with a new sign-up! Please RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE! /episode/index/show/doilookfatpodcast/id/22508783

Allow me to RE-INTRODUCE myself! 03/20/2022

Allow me to RE-INTRODUCE myself! I've been gone for a minute but I'm BACK ( I promise)! Stay tuned for the new content coming your way! /episode/index/show/doilookfatpodcast/id/22508702

EP: 1 You Deserve! 12/27/2021

EP: 1 You Deserve! On today's first official episode Stephy is giving you some insights on how she spent her holiday weekend (including the tears, laughs, and revelations), why it's ok to not be with your kids 24/7, and she gives a newly single mom some advice on dating. /episode/index/show/doilookfatpodcast/id/21601769

PODMAS Day 25: THANK YOU!!!!! 12/25/2021

PODMAS Day 25: THANK YOU!!!!! I cannot believe that I made it all the way to day 25!!! Thank you so much to everyone who tuned in It means so much! Stay tuned for the upcoming full episodes of the Autism Mami Podcast you don't want to miss it! /episode/index/show/doilookfatpodcast/id/21507977

PODMAS Day 24: Forgiveness 12/24/2021

PODMAS Day 24: Forgiveness Happy Noche Buena!!!!! It's Christmas Eve and I want to talk FORGIVENESS. It is VERY important to let go of things that are not serving you and negative thoughts ESPECIALLY when you are the person you need to forgive. Join me as I talk about my journey to self-forgiveness. /episode/index/show/doilookfatpodcast/id/21507701

PODMAS Day 23: Friendships 12/23/2021

PODMAS Day 23: Friendships Attempting to make and/or maintain friendships can be SO HARD as an adult, and even more so a special needs parent. Join me as I talk about to build and maintain connections with other like minded individuals. /episode/index/show/doilookfatpodcast/id/21507497

PODMAS Day 22: Independence 12/22/2021

PODMAS Day 22: Independence Hey guys, today we are talking INDEPENDENCE. As a special needs moms I feel like we are the ultimate pushovers. We want to do everything for our babies when in reality they are more than capable. Join me as I talk about how I'm striving to give my pre-teen more tasks and responsibilities. /episode/index/show/doilookfatpodcast/id/21507248

PODMAS Day 21: Communication 12/21/2021

PODMAS Day 21: Communication Communication is key! Join me as I discuss how communication can look different for kids on the spectrum and how to implement your own version of communicating with your little ones. /episode/index/show/doilookfatpodcast/id/21507029

PODMAS Day 20: Moving 12/20/2021

PODMAS Day 20: Moving In today's episode, I kind of go into a little bit of a tangent about NYC vs. Florida lol /episode/index/show/doilookfatpodcast/id/21506810

PODMAS Day 19: Schooling 12/19/2021

PODMAS Day 19: Schooling Happy Sunday! On today's episode, we talk about schooling. Home schooling during COVID put a lot of things in perspective for me and Ethans schooling was definitely one of them. Join as me as I talk about how my son was denied private school, called retarded & became the top student all in 2 years! /episode/index/show/doilookfatpodcast/id/21506204

PODMAS Day 18: Gift-Giving 12/18/2021

PODMAS Day 18: Gift-Giving Hey guys, with Christmas a week away and everyone's gifts still being at the store I figured It was a good time to talk about gift-giving, my most memorable Christmas to date, how material items vs. quality time and experiences especially for kids on the spectrum can most times be more rewarding. /episode/index/show/doilookfatpodcast/id/21505940

PODMAS Day 17: Insecurities 12/17/2021

PODMAS Day 17: Insecurities In today's episode, we are talking INSECURITIES. Or more specifically the insecurities I feel being an Autism Mami. It gets a little deep (as It tends to on Fridays) but I wanted to share with all my autism mami's out there that it is ok to feel insecure about the life we were chosen to live. /episode/index/show/doilookfatpodcast/id/21493958

PODMAS Day 16: Holiday Family Gatherings 12/16/2021

PODMAS Day 16: Holiday Family Gatherings 'Tis the season for FAMILY! Sometimes for a child with special needs or sensory sensitivities, this can be challenging. Today, I give you some tips on how to make your little one a little more comfortable and to be able to enjoy the holiday season! /episode/index/show/doilookfatpodcast/id/21493643

PODMAS Day 15: Haircare 12/15/2021

PODMAS Day 15: Haircare Happy hump day everybody! On today's episode, we're going to switch gears a little bit. With the holidays coming up I know we want our little ones to look their best so I wanted to give you some tips I've learned about managing the hair of a child on the spectrum. /episode/index/show/doilookfatpodcast/id/21489035

PODMAS Day 14: Staying Positive and Stop that Negative Thinking 12/14/2021

PODMAS Day 14: Staying Positive and Stop that Negative Thinking Hey guys, on today's episode we are manifesting positivity and light into our lives. Join me as I discuss how changing my mindset has helped me be a better mother for my child and where I share a few tips to get you on that path as well. /episode/index/show/doilookfatpodcast/id/21476237

PODMAS Day 13: Cannabis 12/13/2021

PODMAS Day 13: Cannabis In today's episode of PODMAS, we are talking about a topic that is near and dear to my heart, Ms. Mary Jane! Join me as I talk about how much I enjoy being a Canna-Mom and how it helps with my productivity. /episode/index/show/doilookfatpodcast/id/21462779

Day 12 of PODMAS: Childcare 12/12/2021

Day 12 of PODMAS: Childcare On today's installment, we are discussing childcare. Now while finding someone to care for your children is always difficult compound that with a single full-time working mom of a special needs child and you have an extremely stressful situation. Join me as I tell you my experiences, especially with the system in NYC. /episode/index/show/doilookfatpodcast/id/21454538

PODMAS Day 11: Meltdowns 12/11/2021

PODMAS Day 11: Meltdowns Thank you for tuning into Day 11 of PODMAS! Today I am talking about meltdowns... After 12 years I'm some sort of an expert for sure. Learn how to tell the difference between a meltdown and a tantrum, because yes those are two different things. Also, learn how to handle them! /episode/index/show/doilookfatpodcast/id/21449624

PODMAS Day 10: Fears 12/10/2021

PODMAS Day 10: Fears I just want ya'll to be proud of me... I made it all the way to episode 10 before I started crying!!! lol /episode/index/show/doilookfatpodcast/id/21333158

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