Doing Relationships Right
Looking for ways to improve your relationships? Look no further! VOGUE chose Doing Relationships Right as one of The Best Relationship Podcasts to Help Navigate LOVE! Jennifer Hurvitz is an experienced dating coach and relationship expert here to help you become a better partner, navigate dating during midlife, or find your ideal match! Listen to Jen's no-BS advice on online dating, sex and intimacy, long-distance relationships, or getting over a breakup. Whether looking for love during midlife or trying to improve your current relationship, Jen's relatable, raw, and insightful guidance will help you do relationships right!
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Tips for Surviving Midlife: What I Wish I Knew Before Turning Fifty-Two, with your host Jennifer Hurvitz
10/04/2024
Tips for Surviving Midlife: What I Wish I Knew Before Turning Fifty-Two, with your host Jennifer Hurvitz
In this episode, Jennifer Hurvitz reflects on her life as she turns 52, sharing valuable lessons she wishes she had known earlier. From self-care tips like wearing sunscreen and using Retin-A to the importance of setting boundaries and prioritizing mental health, Jennifer emphasizes the significance of personal growth and self-love. She also discusses the impact of alcohol on health, the necessity of dental care, and the value of travel and experiences in shaping one's identity. The episode concludes with a heartfelt birthday wish and a call to action for listeners to support her work. Chapters 00:00 Celebrating Life and Birthdays 03:53 The Importance of Boundaries and Saying No 07:16 Mental Health Awareness and Support 09:44 Understanding Alcohol and Its Effects 12:08 Finding Your Authentic Self 14:29 The Value of Travel and Experiences Doing Relationships Right hits the pages of - check it out! Please grab a copy of Midlife Priceless wherever you find your books! jennifer Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: Where to find me: Website: Facebook: Instagram: Youtube: TikTok: Pinterest: You can connect with my editor, Cianna Reider, at Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" .
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Finding Humor in the Menopause Journey: Tips on Building Your Emotional Connection, with Jim Healey
10/04/2024
Finding Humor in the Menopause Journey: Tips on Building Your Emotional Connection, with Jim Healey
Looking for Coconu? Here you go! Just use my code MS15 to get 15% off your first order! In this episode, Jennifer and Jim discuss the complexities of menopause and its impact on relationships. They explore various symptoms of menopause, such as hot flashes and mood swings, and emphasize the importance of communication and support between partners. The conversation highlights the emotional and physical changes during menopause and offers practical advice for maintaining intimacy and understanding. They also touch on the mental health aspects of menopause and the need for patience and open dialogue in relationships. Takeaways Menopause can significantly affect relationships and intimacy. Communication is critical to supporting a partner through menopause. Hot flashes and night sweats are common symptoms that should be acknowledged. It's essential not to take a partner's lack of interest in sex personally. Menopause can lead to increased anxiety and depression. Support can come in many forms, including emotional reassurance and practical help. Understanding that menopause affects everyone differently is crucial for partners. Maintaining intimacy may require adjustments and open discussions about desires. Seeking professional help, such as couples therapy, can be beneficial. Humor and fun can help you navigate the challenges of menopause. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Menopause and Relationships 02:15 Understanding Menopausal Symptoms 05:06 Supporting Your Partner Through Menopause 10:02 Communication and Emotional Support 15:03 Navigating Changes in Intimacy 20:15 The Impact of Menopause on Mental Health 23:09 Conclusion and Future Topics Doing Relationships Right hits the pages of - check it out! Please grab a copy of Midlife Priceless wherever you find your books! jennifer Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: Where to find me: Website: Facebook: Instagram: Youtube: TikTok: Pinterest: You can connect with my editor, Cianna Reider, at Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" .
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Understanding and Healing Core Wounds: How to Become Securely Attached with Thais Gibson
10/01/2024
Understanding and Healing Core Wounds: How to Become Securely Attached with Thais Gibson
"We have to go in there and find out what the core wounds are associated with the trauma and recondition those ideas about ourselves." ~Thais Gibson In this conversation, Jennifer Hurvitz interviews Thais Gibson, a counselor and co-founder of The Personal Development School. They discuss topics such as shadow work and attachment styles. Shadow work explores and integrates the parts of ourselves that we try to deny or hide. It involves identifying triggers and examining the root causes of our reactions. In this conversation, Thais Gibson discusses the importance of reconditioning core wounds and beliefs about oneself to heal from trauma and develop a secure attachment style. She emphasizes the need to move beyond simply blaming others for our problems and instead focus on understanding and changing our beliefs. Thais also explains the five key pillars of becoming securely attached: reconditioning core wounds, knowing and communicating our needs, setting boundaries, regulating our nervous system, and positively reinforcing good behavior. She provides practical tips for effective communication and suggests setting a timeline for personal growth and relationship change. Takeaways Core wounds are subconscious beliefs about ourselves that often stem from past experiences. Healing core wounds involves reconditioning the subconscious through repetition, emotion, and imagery. The three-step process for healing core wounds includes finding the opposite of the core wound, identifying ten memories of feeling the opposite, and recording and listening to those memories for 21 days. Reconditioning core wounds and beliefs about oneself is essential for healing from trauma and developing a secure attachment style. Blaming others for our problems is not productive; instead, we should focus on understanding and changing our beliefs. The five key pillars of becoming securely attached are reconditioning core wounds, knowing and communicating our needs, setting boundaries, regulating our nervous system, and positively reinforcing good behavior. Effective communication involves positive framing, clearly showing what we need, seeing our needs through, and positively reinforcing good behavior. Setting a timeline for personal growth and relationship change can help determine if the other person is willing to do the work and make a positive difference. 00:00 Introduction of Thais Gibson 08:26 Exploring Shadow Work 19:09 Understanding and Healing Core Wounds 23:23 Reconditioning the Subconscious Mind 29:22 The Five Key Pillars of Becoming Securely Attached 36:59 Knowing and Communicating Our Needs 39:27 Setting a Timeline for Personal Growth and Change Find Thais Gibson here: Doing Relationships Right hits the pages of - check it out! Please grab a copy of Midlife Priceless wherever you find your books! jennifer Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: Where to find me: Website: Facebook: Instagram: Youtube: TikTok: Pinterest: You can connect with my editor, Cianna Reider, at Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" .
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Finding A Love That LASTS with Renowned Matchmaker and Dating Guru, Aleeza Ben Shalom
09/24/2024
Finding A Love That LASTS with Renowned Matchmaker and Dating Guru, Aleeza Ben Shalom
"You need to know if you like the human being. How you feel with them, if they are good, you can work on the rest later. If you don't like the human being, I don't care how they feel. It means nothing." ~ Aleeza Ben Shalom Aleeza Ben Shalom is a renowned matchmaker, dating coach, speaker, and soulmate clarity expert who empowers marriage-minded singles to find The One. As a dating coach, Aleeza works with people of all backgrounds. Her impressive track record has earned her the title of “Jewish Dating Guru,” as she has successfully coached hundreds of people, regardless of age, affiliation, or life stage. As an entrepreneur and the founder of Marriage Minded Mentor, she connects singles globally with skilled professionals, having trained over 350 dating coaches and matchmakers worldwide. Aleeza has been featured across various media platforms, including The Cut, NBC News Daily, Men’s Health, NPR, Rolling Stone, Good Day NY, Time Out, The Guardian, and Insider. She lives in Israel. If you watched the first season of Jewish Matchmaking on Netflix, you’ve met the incomparable Aleeza Ben Shalom. You’ve seen her guide clients with her tried-and-true practices, such as “date ‘em ‘til you hate ‘em” and “no touching for the first five dates.” She’s bringing that wisdom to everyone, backed by real-world examples. In her paradigm-shifting book, Aleeza will guide readers through her highly original perspective on dating, revealing the surprising ways in which a person’s dating habits directly influence their chances of finding lasting love. 00:00 Introduction and Recommendation of Aleeza Ben Shalom 02:32 Aleeza's Background and Move to Israel 07:28 How Aleeza Got into Dating and Matchmaking 11:07 Discussion of Aleeza's New Book 13:04 The Five-Date Rule: Testing Compatibility Through Patience 15:14 Getting to Know Someone 17:23 The Five-Date Rule 21:45 The Evolution of Attraction Grab Aleeza’s NEW BOOK, Matchmaker, Matchmaker Find Me A Love That Lasts Doing Relationships Right hits the pages of - check it out! Please grab a copy of Midlife Priceless wherever you find your books! jennifer Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: Where to find me: Website: Facebook: Instagram: Youtube: TikTok: Pinterest: You can connect with my editor, Cianna Reider, at Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" .
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Tips for Dating During Midlife: How to Get Back in the Game After Divorce!
09/19/2024
Tips for Dating During Midlife: How to Get Back in the Game After Divorce!
In this episode, Jennifer Hurvitz discusses dating during midlife and provides tips for navigating the modern dating scene. She emphasizes the importance of being authentic, confident, and patient while dating. Jennifer also encourages daters to be open-minded and to use technology effectively. She reminds listeners to stay positive and not settle for perfection. Overall, she highlights the rewards and challenges of dating over 50 and offers her services as a dating coach. Takeaways Dating during midlife differs from dating in your 20s or 30s and comes with challenges. Be authentic to yourself when dating. Embrace your unique qualities and be honest about your interests, values, and goals. Prioritize your health and well-being, both physically and emotionally, and be confident in yourself. Be open-minded and date outside of your usual type or criteria. Focus on deep connections and broadening your horizons. Learn to use technology effectively for online dating and be mindful of your online presence. Be patient and trust that the right person will come along. Don't rush into anything, and stay positive throughout the dating process. Use your words and communicate your intentions and desires. Don't waste time with someone who doesn't share your needs. Don't search for perfection, and enjoy the company of others. Keep an open mind and be true to yourself. Consider hiring a dating coach to help you navigate the dating scene and find the love and companionship you seek. Happy Dating and Healthy Relationships! xo j Doing Relationships Right hits the pages of - check it out! Please grab a copy of Midlife Priceless wherever you find your books! jennifer Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: Where to find me: Website: Facebook: Instagram: Youtube: TikTok: Pinterest: You can connect with my editor, Cianna Reider, at Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" .
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The Importance of Financial Security in Relationships with Nikki Tucker, CDFA ®
09/17/2024
The Importance of Financial Security in Relationships with Nikki Tucker, CDFA ®
If a financial counselor and a personal organizer decided to create the perfect "lab love child," it would be Nikki Tucker! She's a mom and financial professional who firmly believes all women deserve financial security. Going through a separation or divorce is hard enough. When a woman’s economic security is threatened, the stress can become overwhelming. Nikki’s goal is to help women feel confident, inspired, and ready to take control of their financial futures during one of the most challenging times of their lives. In this conversation, Jennifer Hurvitz interviews Nikki Tucker, a financial professional and mom, about the importance of financial security in relationships. They discuss the impact of money stories on individuals and relationships, the need for financial compatibility, and how to approach money conversations in relationships. They also touch on red flags in money-related relationships and the importance of teaching children about money from a young age. In this conversation, Jennifer and Nikki discuss the importance of financial conversations in relationships, including the role of upbringing and prenuptial agreements. They also touch on the benefits of keeping finances separate and the need for financial education before marriage. Nikki shares information about her programs for those considering divorce and for post-divorce financial support. Takeaways: Money stories, shaped by our experiences and emotions about money, have a direct impact on our daily lives and relationships. Financial compatibility is crucial in relationships and should be discussed early on. Regular money conversations in relationships help create a safe space for discussing finances and building financial intimacy. Red flags related to money in relationships should be taken seriously, especially if they involve character issues. Teaching children about money from a young age, including giving them structure and teaching them about budgeting, can set them up for financial success in the future. Financial conversations are crucial in relationships and can be influenced by upbringing. Prenuptial agreements can help reduce money fights and make divorces easier. Separate finances can provide autonomy and protection in a relationship. Financial education before marriage is essential to avoid future financial issues. Nikki offers programs for those considering divorce and for post-divorce financial support. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Guest Bio 02:05 Understanding Money Stories 06:00 Starting Money Conversations in Relationships 09:07 Recognizing Red Flags in Relationships 12:33 The Importance of Financial Compatibility 14:21 Teaching Children About Money 17:00 The Influence of Upbringing on Financial Conversations 19:12 The Role of Separate Finances in Relationships 21:35 The Need for Financial Education Before Marriage Find Nikki here: https://thefiirmapproach.com/ Doing Relationships Right hits the pages of - check it out! If you enjoy our content and want to support the show, consider sponsoring! Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: FIND JENNIFER: Website: Facebook: Instagram: Youtube: TikTok: Pinterest: You can connect with my editor, Cianna Reider, at
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Are You Involved in an Emotional Affair? with your host, Jennifer Hurvitz
09/12/2024
Are You Involved in an Emotional Affair? with your host, Jennifer Hurvitz
Is texting another person when you're in a relationship cheating? In this episode, Jennifer Hurvitz discusses whether texting someone while in a relationship is considered cheating. She believes that if you are doing something you can't share with your partner, it is cheating. She shares her experience texting her ex and how it started to feel wrong. Jennifer also talks about poaching, where someone reaches out to a person in a relationship and tries to undermine it. She provides examples of when texting can be considered emotional cheating and emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries and communication in relationships. Takeaways Texting someone while in a relationship can be considered cheating if it is something you can't share with your partner. Poaching, where someone reaches out to a person in a relationship and tries to undermine it, is a common issue in relationships. Examples of emotional cheating through texting include skipping time with your partner to text someone else, sending risque or nude selfies, sexting, sharing intimate information about yourself that your partner doesn't know, and speaking ill of your partner to someone else. Setting boundaries and communicating early on in a relationship is important to avoid misunderstandings and emotional cheating. If you are falling out of love with your partner, it is important to have open and honest conversations rather than seek emotional connections with others through texting. Doing Relationships Right hits the pages of - check it out! If you enjoy our content and want to support the show, consider sponsoring! Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: FIND JENNIFER: Website: Facebook: Instagram: Youtube: TikTok: Pinterest: You can connect with my editor, Cianna Reider, at
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The Power of Forgiveness and Clearing Negative Energy with International Celebrity Psychic Medium, Colby Rebel
09/10/2024
The Power of Forgiveness and Clearing Negative Energy with International Celebrity Psychic Medium, Colby Rebel
"Acknowledge and notice the times when you didn't listen to your intuition and learn from those experiences." ~ Colby Rebel Colby Rebel is an award-winning International Celebrity Psychic Medium, best-selling author, and host of the acclaimed Colby Rebel Show podcast. Her unmatched accuracy and precise guidance have made her the go-to confidante of Hollywood’s elite, serving a roster of celebrity and influencer clients. Colby’s unique no-tools approach emphasizes her authenticity and natural gifts and has made her one of the most sought-after psychic mediums of our time. In 2022, she was awarded the distinguished title of Best Psychic of Los Angeles. In this conversation, Jennifer Hurvitz interviews Colby Rebel, an award-winning psychic medium. They discuss intuition, trusting oneself, forgiveness, and fearing death. Colby shares insights on how to trust your intuition, including surrendering to the universe and practicing breathwork. She also emphasizes the importance of forgiveness for personal healing and growth. Colby provides practical tools such as the use of salt baths and the practice of clearing negative energy. The conversation concludes with Colby encouraging listeners to take proactive actions while surrendering to the universe for guidance. Takeaways Trust your intuition by surrendering to the universe and practicing breathwork. Forgiveness is vital for personal healing and growth. Clear negative energy through salt baths, exercise, and practicing gratitude. Focus on the present moment and what brings you joy and balance. Take proactive actions while surrendering to the universe for guidance. Chapters: 00:00 Introduction and Colby Rebel's Background 03:32 Trusting Your Intuition and Surrendering to the Universe 06:08 The Power of Forgiveness for Personal Healing 09:38 Clearing Negative Energy for Emotional Well-being 13:36 Living in the Present Moment and Finding Joy 18:30 Taking Proactive Actions while Surrendering to the Universe 27:19 Colby Rebel's Services and Contact Information FIND COLBY HERE: Doing Relationships Right hits the pages of - check it out! If you enjoy our content and want to support the show, consider sponsoring! Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: FIND JENNIFER: Website: Facebook: Instagram: Youtube: TikTok: Pinterest: You can connect with my editor, Cianna Reider, at
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Is Your Partner Cheating or are YOU Paranoid? with Private Investigators Bari Kroll and Jennifer Rosant
09/06/2024
Is Your Partner Cheating or are YOU Paranoid? with Private Investigators Bari Kroll and Jennifer Rosant
In this episode, host Jennifer Hurvitz interviews private investigators Bari Kroll and Jennifer Rosant about infidelity and cheating in relationships. They discuss the prevalence of cheating, the role of social media in infidelity, and the different types of cheating. The private investigators also share their stories of getting into the business and explain the process of hiring a PI. They emphasize the importance of trust and communication in relationships and offer advice for those who suspect their partner is cheating. In this conversation, Bari Kroll and Jen Rosant discuss the signs of infidelity and the role of technology in relationships. They emphasize the importance of trust, communication, and the need to listen to intuition. They also share tips for investigating suspicions of cheating, such as checking phone bills and receipts. The conversation highlights the impact of past experiences and trauma on relationships and the importance of therapy in moving forward. Bari and Jen also mention their podcast, 'Private Eyes,' where they answer questions and provide insights into relationship issues. Take Aways! Cheating in relationships is more prevalent than we realize, and it can be emotionally damaging. Social media has made it easier for people to reconnect with past partners and engage in emotional or physical infidelity. Hiring a private investigator can provide evidence of infidelity, but it's important to be prepared for the truth and consider the impact it may have on the relationship. Rebuilding trust and communication are crucial for repairing a relationship after infidelity. Setting boundaries and having open conversations about expectations and fidelity in a relationship is important. Trust and communication are essential. Listening to your intuition is important when suspecting infidelity. Investigating suspicions of cheating can involve checking phone bills and receipts. Past experiences and trauma can impact trust in relationships. Therapy can help move forward and build healthy relationships. Find Bari and Jen at: Doing Relationships Right hits the pages of - check it out! If you enjoy our content and want to support the show, consider sponsoring! Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: FIND JENNIFER: Website: Facebook: Instagram: Youtube: TikTok: Pinterest: You can connect with my editor, Cianna Reider, at
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The BEST Relationship Advice I Ever Heard: Doing Relationships RIGHT!
09/05/2024
The BEST Relationship Advice I Ever Heard: Doing Relationships RIGHT!
In this episode, Jennifer Hurvitz shares the best relationship advice she has ever heard and uses when coaching. She emphasizes the importance of saying goodbye and hello to your loved ones, learning how to communicate effectively, understanding attachment styles and love languages, and watching your tone. She also discusses the benefits of sharing household and child-rearing duties, finding levity in the relationship, taking turns in emotional support, prioritizing mental and physical health, picking your battles, owning your mistakes, staying calm during arguments, and never stopping dating your partner. Takeaways Always say goodbye and hello to your loved ones. Learn how to communicate effectively and seek help if needed. Understand your attachment style and your partner's. Be aware of your love language and your partner's. Watch your tone and avoid belittling or emasculating your partner. Share household and child-rearing duties to increase happiness in the relationship. Find levity and laughter in your relationship. Take turns in providing emotional support. Prioritize your mental and physical health. Continue dating your partner and prioritize quality time together. Happy Dating and Healthy Relationships! xo j Doing Relationships Right hits the pages of - check it out! If you enjoy our content and want to support the show, consider sponsoring! Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: FIND JENNIFER: Website: Facebook: Instagram: Youtube: TikTok: Pinterest: You can connect with my editor, Cianna Reider, at
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Sober Connections: Navigating the World of Sober Dating with guest Holly Walsh, Positive Psychology & Alcohol-Free Coach
09/04/2024
Sober Connections: Navigating the World of Sober Dating with guest Holly Walsh, Positive Psychology & Alcohol-Free Coach
In this episode of Doing Relationships Right, we dive deep into sober dating. Whether you're newly sober or have been sober for years, dating can present unique challenges and opportunities. I’m thrilled to have my guest, Holly Walsh, a Positive Psychology and Alcohol-Free Coach. Holly is a positive psychology and alcohol-free coach and will host wellness retreats starting in 2025. She has been sober for almost one year and will be launching a sober dating app so that people can go on dates without alcohol! She is also training to become a yoga teacher and is on an exciting path of self-development that happened when she stopped drinking in 2023. Join us as we explore tips, share personal stories, and offer insights on how to build meaningful connections without the influence of alcohol. Understanding Sober Dating What does sober dating mean, and why is it important? The benefits of dating without alcohol. Challenges of Sober Dating Common hurdles faced by those in recovery. Navigating social situations and peer pressure. Building Confidence - Tips for boosting self-esteem while dating sober. - How do you communicate your sober lifestyle to potential partners? Fun Sober Date Ideas - Creative and engaging activities for sober dates. - How to make the most of your time together without alcohol. Personal Stories - Holly shares her experiences with sober dating. - Success stories and lessons learned along the way. Resources and Support - Recommended books, online communities, and apps for sober dating. - How to find support in your sober journey. Join us next week as we continue discussing healthy relationships and doing dating right! Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review the podcast to help others find Doing Relationships Right! Happy Dating and Healthy Relationships! xo j Doing Relationships Right hits the pages of - check it out! If you enjoy our content and want to support the show, consider sponsoring! Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: FIND JENNIFER: Website: Facebook: Instagram: Youtube: TikTok: Pinterest: You can connect with my editor, Cianna Reider, at
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JENNIFER IS BACK: All New Episodes!
09/03/2024
JENNIFER IS BACK: All New Episodes!
Jennifer Hurvitz returns with a new season of Doing Relationships Right! She's got BIG NEWS to share! She briefly updates her life and introduces her new gig as a relationship guest expert on Charlotte Today. Jennifer also mentions her courses and offers an Ask Me Anything session for those seeking dating advice. She encourages listeners to follow her on YouTube and Instagram. Jennifer is excited to be back and looks forward to connecting with her audience. Takeaways Jennifer Hurvitz is back with a new season of Doing Relationships Right She is a relationship guest expert on Charlotte Today Jennifer offers courses and an Ask Me Anything session for dating advice Listeners are encouraged to follow her on YouTube and Instagram Happy Dating and Healthy Relationships! xo j Doing Relationships Right hits the pages of - check it out! Please grab a copy of Midlife Priceless wherever you find your books! jennifer Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: Where to find me: Website: Facebook: Instagram: Youtube: TikTok: Pinterest: You can connect with my editor, Cianna Reider, at Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" .
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How to Communicate with an AVOIDANT Partner- with your host Jennifer Hurvitz
07/10/2024
How to Communicate with an AVOIDANT Partner- with your host Jennifer Hurvitz
If you don't already know, your attachment style, which is basically how you relate to others in your close relationships, falls into one of four categories: secure, anxious, avoidant (sometimes known as dismissive-avoidant), and disorganized (also known as fearful-avoidant). Today, we’ll focus on romantic relationships with someone with an avoidant attachment style — a discomfort with emotional closeness, a deep need for independence, and a reluctance to rely on others. Having a relationship with someone with this attachment style has some unique challenges. Thank you, Jim Healey, for being so honest and open! Happy Dating! xo j Please grab a copy of Midlife Priceless wherever you find your books! jennifer Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: Where to find me: Website: Facebook: Instagram: Youtube: TikTok: Pinterest: You can connect with my editor, Cianna Reider, at Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" .
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Common Dating Mistakes and How to Avoid Them with your host, Jennifer Hurvitz
06/20/2024
Common Dating Mistakes and How to Avoid Them with your host, Jennifer Hurvitz
Are you finding the guy but need help to get past the three-month mark? Does online dating seem frightening and way too time-consuming? Give this episode of the Doing Relationships Right podcast a listen to learn about the dating mistakes you might be making and how to fix them! Dating isn't easy. I've experienced divorce, dated, and been in numerous relationships - some good, some not so good. I've lived it, so I understand! Dating can be challenging, but it can also be amazing! 🖤💕😎 This is why I've made a career helping people do it! Check out jenniferhurvitz.com for all the latest dating tips and relationship advice; grab my books and take my online dating courses! I'm here for you. Happy Dating! And use MS15 to get 15% off ! Website: Facebook: Instagram: Youtube: TikTok: Pinterest: You can connect with my editor, Cianna Reider, at
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The Dos And Don'ts Of Getting Back Together With Your Ex with your host, Jennifer Hurvitz
06/11/2024
The Dos And Don'ts Of Getting Back Together With Your Ex with your host, Jennifer Hurvitz
We're back and better than ever- after our one year breakup, that is! Today's episode features my all-time favorite guest, Jim Healey, my best friend and partner for the last eight years. We will delve into our entire story, including what's beyond the pages of my book, Midlife Priceless, and leave no topic untouched. In this episode, we're plunging into a subject many of you have been asking about navigating the path of rekindling a relationship with your ex the right way! It's been some time since I last recorded an episode, and Jim and I haven't spoken on my show in over a year. Our discussion was nerve-wracking and emotional as we shared our personal lives. But, we recognize that our conversation may help those experiencing relationship struggles. We're excited to share this with you! xo j Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: Where to find me: Website: Facebook: Instagram: Youtube: TikTok: Pinterest: You can connect with my editor, Cianna Reider, at Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" .
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What Is Gaslighting in a Relationship? Signs and Warnings with Dating Coach, Jennifer Hurvitz
06/05/2024
What Is Gaslighting in a Relationship? Signs and Warnings with Dating Coach, Jennifer Hurvitz
In this episode, we delve deep into gaslighting in relationships. We discuss what gaslighting is, its signs and symptoms, the psychological impact on victims, and ways to address and overcome it. Jennifer shares her personal experiences with gaslighting and how she found herself in these situations repeatedly, even in her role as a coach. Jennifer will discuss: - Definition and origins of the term "gaslighting." - Historical context and examples. Identifying Gaslighting - Common tactics used by gaslighters. - Signs and symptoms of being gaslighted. - Real-life examples and scenarios. Impact of Gaslighting - Short-term and long-term effects on mental health. - How gaslighting undermines self-esteem and self-trust. - The cycle of abuse and why it’s hard to break free. Handling Gaslighting in Relationships - Strategies for recognizing and acknowledging gaslighting. - Communication techniques to address the behavior. - When and how to seek professional help. Recovery and Healing - Steps to rebuild self-esteem and regain confidence. - Support systems and resources for survivors. - The importance of self-care and self-compassion. Jennifer's Expert Advice - How to prevent gaslighting in relationships. - Red flags to watch for in new relationships. - How to support a loved one who might be experiencing gaslighting. Please remember to take good care of your mental health and seek help if you're experiencing gaslighting. You're not alone. Oh! And if you enjoyed this episode, please grab a copy of Midlife Priceless wherever you find your books! jennifer Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: Where to find me: Website: Facebook: Instagram: Youtube: TikTok: Pinterest: You can connect with my editor, Cianna Reider, at
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Living Apart Together: What is it and Why Do Couples Do it? with Jennifer Hurvitz and her partner, Jim Healey
05/31/2024
Living Apart Together: What is it and Why Do Couples Do it? with Jennifer Hurvitz and her partner, Jim Healey
This episode generated a lot of buzz among my listeners back in January, so why not re-air it? Today on Doing Relationships Right, Jim Healey is back, and we're talking about "Living Apart Together" - an old trend that's getting more popular. It's something we've been doing since we met in 2017! It's been good for us, but could it work for you? Listen to our chat to hear the upsides and downsides. It's important to do what's right for your relationship. Scientific evidence suggests that living apart could really strengthen a long-term relationship. Are you great partners but terrible roommates? You two make a great team, but do you have different ideas about what success means? Is it essential to you NOT to blend families? A successful connection means different things to different people, as gender roles, parenthood, and cultural background all play a role in relationships. What was once a deal breaker may now be an opportunity to adapt to modern society. We are here to destigmatize the negativity of going against the "norm." Have any questions for us? Please feel free to DM me- remember, it's okay to try different ways of doing things! Read more about The Unblended Family, Nesting, and Living Apart Together in my books- One Happy Divorce, Woulda. Coulda. Shoulda and Midlife Priceless. You don't know what you don't know! Happy Relationships! xo j And use MS15 to get 15% off ! Website: Facebook: Instagram: Youtube: TikTok: Pinterest: You can connect with my editor, Cianna Reider, at
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Can Menopause Cause Relationship Breakdown? with your host Jennifer Hurvitz
05/28/2024
Can Menopause Cause Relationship Breakdown? with your host Jennifer Hurvitz
It's been a couple of months, so I thought I'd bring back one of my favorite episodes about my new bestie, PERRY! Perry Menopause and all she brings to the table. UGH! If I don't laugh, I will lose my cool. Are you with me? And men, this one is for YOU, too. It's essential to understand how your partner is feeling! Menopause can affect a lot of things in a relationship - hormones go up and down, hot flashes, mood swings, and decreased libido can be challenging to deal with. It's a tough time for couples, but I've got you! And I'm here to share some great tips to help. I'm getting real - and no-nonsense, y'all! You are NOT ALONE in this journey! Communication is crucial in helping couples. Keep your new bestie at bay and your boo in your bed! Ha. There are ways to ACCEPT THIS AND FEEL GOOD! Let's talk about menopause today on Doing Relationships Right! Happy Dating During Midlife! xo j Looking to improve your relationships? Check out This book features an authentic and relatable style filled with humor and personal anecdotes. It provides practical tips and tricks to help you navigate dating more effectively. Make sure to check out my website to find everything you need.
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Love, Relationships and Valentine's Day: The Secret to Getting What You Want with Relationship Expert Jennifer Hurvitz
02/13/2024
Love, Relationships and Valentine's Day: The Secret to Getting What You Want with Relationship Expert Jennifer Hurvitz
Let's get into it: Valentine's Day. Whether you love it or hate it, you can do a lot of things to make it work for you. We're diving into all of it today, so buckle up. Have any questions for us? Please feel free to DM me- remember, it's okay to try different ways of doing things! Read more about The Unblended Family, Nesting, and Living Apart Together in my books- One Happy Divorce, Woulda. Coulda. Shoulda and Midlife Priceless. You don't know what you don't know! Happy Relationships! xo j And use MS15 to get 15% off !
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How Can Menopause Affect Your Relationships? with Relationship Expert Jennifer Hurvitz
01/23/2024
How Can Menopause Affect Your Relationships? with Relationship Expert Jennifer Hurvitz
Let's get REAL about MENOPAUSE! The stigma around women's health during menopause can leave women feeling like they are just too old and that nobody would want to date them- not true! Prioritize your health, eat well, and look after your mind and body. Get help from a coach or therapist to support you while you learn to date again, and it can be a positive experience! Menopause can mess with a lot of things in a relationship - hormones go up and down, hot flashes happen, and the mood swings and decreased libido can be hard to deal with. It's a tough time for couples to get through, but Jennifer has some great tips to help. She shares real-life advice and practical strategies to help couples communicate better, keep the intimacy alive, and come out the other side with a better understanding of things. So don't worry; you're not alone: let's TALK about all things MENOPAUSE today on DRR! And use MS15 to get 15% off !
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Living Apart Together: What's Up with This New Trend? with Jennifer Hurvitz and Jim Healey
01/16/2024
Living Apart Together: What's Up with This New Trend? with Jennifer Hurvitz and Jim Healey
You ask, you get it! This week on Doing Relationships Right, Jim Healey is BACK, and we are discussing LIVING APART TOGETHER- a growing trend. And one that we have been doing since we met in 2017! It has worked for us, but can it work for YOU? Listen to our conversation and hear the pros and cons; doing what suits your relationship is essential. Scientific evidence shows that living apart may significantly strengthen a long-term relationship. Are you great partners but terrible roommates? Are you great partners but with different definitions of success? Is it essential to you NOT to blend families? A successful connection means different things to different people, as gender roles, parenthood, and cultural background all play a role in relationships. What was once a deal breaker may now be an opportunity to adapt to modern society. We are here to destigmatize the negativity of going against the "norm." Have any questions for us? Please feel free to DM me- remember, it's okay to try different ways of doing things! Read more about The Unblended Family, Nesting, and Living Apart Together in my books- One Happy Divorce, Woulda. Coulda. Shoulda and Midlife Priceless. You don't know what you don't know! Happy Relationships! xo j And use MS15 to get 15% off !
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Gaslighting in Relationships: Signs and How to Stop it with Relationship Expert Jennifer Hurvitz
01/09/2024
Gaslighting in Relationships: Signs and How to Stop it with Relationship Expert Jennifer Hurvitz
GASLIGHTING: SIGNS & HOW TO STOP IT! I’m back with ALL NEW EPISODES of DRR! It's 2024, baby! This JUST JEN episode lights up the truth about gaslighting in the dating world. Don’t let anyone dim your shine or twist your reality. Trust your instincts, set boundaries, and keep your heart guarded- but not too closed off! Not everyone is GASLIGHTING YOU! Remember, you deserve genuine connections, not mind games. Stay true to yourself and let the right one light up your life. xoxo j Oh! And if you enjoyed this episode, please grab a copy of Midlife Priceless wherever you find your books! jennifer Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: Where to find me: Website: Facebook: Instagram: Youtube: TikTok: Pinterest: You can connect with my editor, Cianna Reider, at
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Common Mistakes Women Make in the Early Stages of Dating with Midlife Dating Expert Jennifer Hurvitz
12/19/2023
Common Mistakes Women Make in the Early Stages of Dating with Midlife Dating Expert Jennifer Hurvitz
Dating and not succeeding may seem frustrating. I'm here to talk to you about the common mistakes women make during the early stages of dating. xoxo j Oh! And if you enjoyed this episode, please grab a copy of Midlife Priceless wherever you find your books! jennifer Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: Where to find me: Website: Facebook: Instagram: Youtube: TikTok: Pinterest: You can connect with my editor, Cianna Reider, at
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Home Alone for the Holidays with Relationship Expert Jennifer Hurvitz
12/12/2023
Home Alone for the Holidays with Relationship Expert Jennifer Hurvitz
Happy Holidays! But it may not seem as happy if you're spending it alone, maybe for the first time, or maybe for the 10th time. I'm here to talk to you about some ways to enjoy your holiday, even if it's not exactly like the ones you had before! xoxo j Oh! And if you enjoyed this episode, please grab a copy of Midlife Priceless wherever you find your books! jennifer Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: Where to find me: Website: Facebook: Instagram: Youtube: TikTok: Pinterest: You can connect with my editor, Cianna Reider, at
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Underrated Qualities of a Great Partner with Relationship Expert Jennifer Hurvitz
12/05/2023
Underrated Qualities of a Great Partner with Relationship Expert Jennifer Hurvitz
Jump back to 2021, right after the pandemic shut down the world, my oldest son went off to college, and shit started getting REAL. Really. I started to take my partner for granted after being in "captivity" with him for so long during COVID-19; we were both frustrated, and I was annoyed. It's time for a wake-up call for both of us! Listen as I talk about those qualities that go overlooked in our partners, the ones that are sometimes forgotten. Right now, one of the most popular things people want is a satisfying relationship, happiness, money, freedom, and peace. But what about the less obvious? Listen to what I came up with in 2021 and see if you agree. xo j Oh! And if you enjoyed this episode, please grab a copy of Midlife Priceless wherever you find your books! jennifer Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: Where to find me: Website: Facebook: Instagram: Youtube: TikTok: Pinterest: You can connect with my editor, Cianna Reider, at
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Dating During Midlife: What's Different?
11/28/2023
Dating During Midlife: What's Different?
DATING AT MIDLIFE CAN BE ABSURD! I know, I've been there. But it can also be amazing! Did you know that dating during midlife can be very different from dating in your 30s? Do you need help with technology? Are you unsure about how to navigate the new "rules" or understand the latest "lingo"? No worries, I got you! I've been there, done that...and endured it all! Have you read the horror stories in my latest book, Midlife Priceless: A Dating Coach's Guide to *Finally* Doing Relationships Right? Pick it up- trust me! I GOT YOU! If you want a 30-minute crash course on Doing Dating Right: AFTER DIVORCE & DURING MIDLIFE-- check out the link below! Don't let dating in your 50s damage your self-esteem. Stay optimistic and put out positive energy to attract the right person! xoxo j Oh! And if you enjoyed this episode, please grab a copy of Midlife Priceless wherever you find your books! jennifer Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: Where to find me: Website: Facebook: Instagram: Youtube: TikTok: Pinterest: You can connect with my editor, Cianna Reider, at
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Signs Your NEW Relationship Isn't Going to Last with Jennifer Hurvitz
11/21/2023
Signs Your NEW Relationship Isn't Going to Last with Jennifer Hurvitz
Don't waste your time if they do these things. These are some signs it won't last. Did you know that dating during midlife can be very different from dating in your 30s? Do you need help with technology? Are you unsure about how to navigate the new "rules" or understand the latest "lingo"? No worries, I got you! I've been there, done that...and endured it all! Have you read the horror stories in my latest book, Midlife Priceless: A Dating Coach's Guide to *Finally* Doing Relationships Right? Pick it up- trust me! I GOT YOU! If you want a 30-minute crash course on Doing Dating Right: AFTER DIVORCE & DURING MIDLIFE-- check out the link below! Don't let dating in your 50s damage your self-esteem. Stay optimistic and put out positive energy to attract the right person! xoxo j Oh! And if you enjoyed this episode, please grab a copy of Midlife Priceless wherever you find your books! jennifer Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: Where to find me: Website: Facebook: Instagram: Youtube: TikTok: Pinterest: You can connect with my editor, Cianna Reider, at
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Tips for an Awesome First Date After Midlife with Relationship Expert Jennifer Hurvitz
11/14/2023
Tips for an Awesome First Date After Midlife with Relationship Expert Jennifer Hurvitz
DATING AFTER 40 CAN BE ABSURD! Rough. Wild! But it can also be amazing! Did you know that dating during midlife can be very different from dating in your 30s? Do you need help with technology? Are you unsure about how to navigate the new "rules" or understand the latest "lingo"? No worries, I got you! I've been there, done that...and endured it all! Have you read the horror stories in my latest book, Midlife Priceless: A Dating Coach's Guide to *Finally* Doing Relationships Right? Pick it up- trust me! I GOT YOU! If you want a 30-minute crash course on Doing Dating Right: AFTER DIVORCE & DURING MIDLIFE-- check out the link below! Don't let dating in your 50s damage your self-esteem. Stay optimistic and put out positive energy to attract the right person! xoxo j Oh! And if you enjoyed this episode, please grab a copy of Midlife Priceless wherever you find your books! jennifer Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: Where to find me: Website: Facebook: Instagram: Youtube: TikTok: Pinterest: You can connect with my editor, Cianna Reider, at
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The Art of Speaking Your Partner's Love Language with your host, Relationship Expert Jennifer Hurvitz
11/07/2023
The Art of Speaking Your Partner's Love Language with your host, Relationship Expert Jennifer Hurvitz
Let's talk about love languages - the five ways people show and feel love. You've got words of affirmation, acts of service, receiving gifts, quality time, and physical touch. Knowing your partner's love language can help you express your feelings better and improve your relationship. Want to know more? Let's dig in! xo j Oh! And if you enjoyed this, please grab a copy of Midlife Priceless wherever you find your books! jennifer Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: Where to find me: Website: Facebook: Instagram: Youtube: TikTok: Pinterest: You can connect with my editor, Cianna Reider, at
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Communicate Better with your Avoidant Partner with Relationship Expert, Jennifer Hurvitz
10/24/2023
Communicate Better with your Avoidant Partner with Relationship Expert, Jennifer Hurvitz
We're back. Today's episode is AGAIN featuring my all-time favorite guest, Jim Healey. We discuss our communication strengths and weaknesses, and how to improve. xo j Please grab a copy of Midlife Priceless wherever you find your books! jennifer Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: Where to find me: Website: Facebook: Instagram: Youtube: TikTok: Pinterest: You can connect with my editor, Cianna Reider, at Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" .
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