Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. Carol
Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. Carol is a weekly podcast dedicated to helping men, women, and couples experience good health, loving relationships and joyful spirituality that Jesus came to bring.
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The Good News of Christmas
12/23/2025
The Good News of Christmas
On the night Jesus was born the angel told the shepherds, “Fear not, for behold, I bring you good news of great joy that will be for all the people." The Christmas season may not always feel like good news. Busyness, difficult circumstances, emotional struggles, and more can make this time feel like anything but good news. This brief Christmas meditation shares how the angels' declaration of good news applies to everyone, even you, even in the difficulties of real life right now. Merry Christmas from all of us at Dr. Carol Ministries! Dr. Carol loves to hear from you! You can leave a confidential comment .
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The God Stories That Happen When Jesus Shows Up
12/16/2025
The God Stories That Happen When Jesus Shows Up
This episode takes you inside the heart of an Intensive at Transformation Place and gives you a glimpse of what this unique experience is like. Here people confront the barriers holding them back, encounter God in deeply personal ways, and experience the kind of change they may have sought for years but struggled to find on their own. You’ll hear five individuals who courageously share their own “God stories.” Each one describes how the Intensive met them right where they were—whether stuck, hurting, confused, or hungry for more—and how God worked in ways they didn’t expect. Their stories are honest, hopeful, and full of the kind of change only God can bring. This episode will encourage your heart and invite you to believe again in what God can do. And then you'll hear how you can be a part of the next man or woman's transformation story through your support. We can't do this without you! I invite you to . Additional ways to give: Set up Easily make a gift from your mutual fund or appreciated stock Recommend a grant to Dr. Carol Ministries through your Send a check to 14900 Avery Ranch Blvd., Suite C200-223, Austin, TX 78717 Purchase an item from our for Transformation Place Dr. Carol loves to hear from you! You can leave a confidential comment or question .
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Looking for Christmas: Finding Hope and Joy in the Story Behind the Story
12/09/2025
Looking for Christmas: Finding Hope and Joy in the Story Behind the Story
In this episode, we sit down with author Donna VanLiere to explore the rich, often overlooked details of the biblical nativity story, and why they matter for us today. From the unlikely cast of characters to the humble setting of Jesus’ birth, we look at how each part of the story speaks meaning and purpose into our own lives, especially as we enter the Christmas season. Our guest helps us see how the first Christmas wasn’t polished, serene, or ideal, but messy and real, much like our own lives. We talk about how Christmas is truly for everyone, and perhaps most especially for those who feel troubled, unseen, or without hope. Together we explore how the joy of Christmas isn’t dependent on perfect circumstances but arises from the presence of God with us in the midst of whatever we are facing. Whether this season feels bright or heavy, this conversation offers an invitation to experience Christmas in a deeper, more grounded, and more joyful way. Connect with Donna VanLiere on , , or Check out the YouVersion Find out more about Donna's book We'd love you to be one of our . Dr. Carol loves to hear from you. You can leave a confidential message .
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Pain and Experiencing the Presence of God
12/02/2025
Pain and Experiencing the Presence of God
What could it look like to follow Jesus not only after the pain ends, but right in the midst of it? In this conversation, tenured psychology professor, author, and pastor Dr. Joshua Knabb helps us rethink the way we understand distress, challenging the modern tendency to pathologize every struggle. We explore the difference between pain and disorder, and why recognizing that distinction can open the door to greater agency, deeper compassion, and more grounded spiritual formation. Together we also look at the contemplative practices that build resilience and intimacy with God: why they matter, what gets in the way, and how to start. Dr. Knabb shares his favorite go-to spiritual practice that help people meet Jesus right where they are, and why it's helpful. You’ll hear how engaging these practices can transform not only your connection with God, but also the way you show up in relationships with others. This episode will show you how psychology and discipleship are connected in following Jesus. Connect more with Dr. Joshua Knabb and his work . Check out Dr. Knabb's podcast Find out more about Dr. Carol Ministries - a safe place to unpack your story around intimacy and relationships, and experience Jesus coming into your story to bring healing and wholeness. Find out more about Dr. Carol loves to hear from you. You can send a confidential message .
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Made for Connection: God’s Design and the Healing of Intimacy
11/25/2025
Made for Connection: God’s Design and the Healing of Intimacy
Many people find themselves longing for intimacy but pulling away or sabotaging if it comes close. Today Dr. Carol explores what it means to have an “intimacy disorder.” You’ll hear real-life vignettes of people struggling in this way, and we’ll unpack how early experiences, attachment wounds, and the brain’s survival wiring shape our capacity for connection. We’ll look at what neuroscience reveals about how these pathways form, and how they can be rewired and healed. Theology and brain science together tell a remarkable story. We were created in the image of a relational God, made for connection that reflects His nature. As we face the broken stories in our sexual and relational histories, and as God’s presence meets us there, the old patterns that once protected us can begin to transform. Discover what sexual and relational goodness can look like when intimacy becomes healed and whole. Find out more about , or check out .
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Your Questions Answered About Sex, Marriage, Same-Sex Attraction, and God
11/18/2025
Your Questions Answered About Sex, Marriage, Same-Sex Attraction, and God
You ask questions! And Dr. Carol loves to respond. In today's episode, Dr. Carol's addresses some of the most difficult questions about sex, love, marriage, same-sex attraction and more. These were sent in from real listeners just like you. Here are the resources Dr. Carol mentiones on thsi episode: Article Article Article Article Article Article Find out more about , or check out . Dr. Carol loves to hear from you. You can send a confidential message .
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Rebuilding Us: The Path to Restoring Intimacy and Trust After Betrayal
11/11/2025
Rebuilding Us: The Path to Restoring Intimacy and Trust After Betrayal
In today's episode, Dr. Carol is joined by Dana Che, marriage coach, speaker, and host of the Rebuilding Us podcast. She knows firsthand what it’s like to feel angry, hurt, and hopeless in marriage marred by infidelity, yet find her way to healing and restored connection. She now helps couples move from “I can’t stand you” to “I still do,” guiding them through the real work of rebuilding trust and intimacy after betrayal. Together, they unpack what forgiveness truly means (and what it doesn’t), why healthy boundaries are not unspiritual but are essential, and how couples can take honest, grace-filled steps toward restoration. If you’ve ever wondered how to rebuild intimacy when trust has been broken, or how faith meets the messy realities of hurt, broken trust, and healing, this conversation offers wisdom, practical steps, and hope for your journey. Connect with Dana Che on , , , or . Find out more about , or check out . Dr. Carol loves to hear from you. You can send a confidential message .
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Why Sexual Addiction Is Really an Intimacy Disorder, and Finding Healing
11/04/2025
Why Sexual Addiction Is Really an Intimacy Disorder, and Finding Healing
In this episode, we sit down with Greg and Stacey Oliver. Greg was a worship pastor and his wife Stacey grew up in the mission field. But that did not prevent their difficult journey of Greg's hidden sexual addiction and Stacey's deep insecurity and people-pleasing. However, their redemptive journey led to healing, freedom, and restored intimacy. What began as an exhausting struggle became the doorway to discovering that sexual addiction isn’t ultimately about sex; it's really an intimacy disorder. Now as the founders of Awaken, a faith-based recovery ministry, they help others find the same hope and transformation they’ve experienced. Together we explore where sexual addiction and related struggles often begin, how shame and unmet emotional needs play a role, and what it looks like to pursue recovery that’s both Gospel-centered and therapeutically wise. Their story offers not only honesty and hope but also a powerful reminder that true freedom comes when we let God meet us in our deepest places of need. Find out more about Greg and Stacey Oliver and connect with them at , , , , or their .
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Why Sexual Addiction Is Really an Intimacy Disorder, and the Path to Healing
11/04/2025
Why Sexual Addiction Is Really an Intimacy Disorder, and the Path to Healing
In this episode, we sit down with Greg and Stacey Oliver. Greg was a worship pastor and his wife Stacey grew up in the mission field. But that did not prevent their difficult journey of Greg's hidden sexual addiction and Stacey's deep insecurity and people-pleasing. However, their redemptive journey led to healing, freedom, and restored intimacy. What began as an exhausting struggle became the doorway to discovering that sexual addiction isn’t ultimately about sex; it's really an intimacy disorder. Now as the founders of Awaken, a faith-based recovery ministry, they help others find the same hope and transformation they’ve experienced. Together we explore where sexual addiction and related struggles often begin, how shame and unmet emotional needs play a role, and what it looks like to pursue recovery that’s both Gospel-centered and therapeutically wise. Their story offers not only honesty and hope but also a powerful reminder that true freedom comes when we let God meet us in our deepest places of need. Find out more about Greg and Stacey Oliver and connect with them at , , , , or their . Find out more about , or check out . Dr. Carol loves to hear from you. You can send a confidential message .
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The Fire of Jesus That Transforms
10/28/2025
The Fire of Jesus That Transforms
What if the fire Jesus came to bring isn’t about fear or destruction, but about freedom? In this episode, we explore how the fire of God doesn’t just warm or comfort; it also burns away what keeps us from becoming whole, fully alive, and truly like Jesus. This isn’t about trying harder or piling on more spiritual “shoulds.” It’s about letting Jesus consume what holds us back so we can live with undivided hearts before Him. We’ll talk about three things that need to be burned up—people-pleasing, idols, and sin—and why this is actually very good news. Along the way, you’ll hear why living for an “audience of One” frees you from false peace, how even good things can become idols that need dethroning, and what real transformation beyond behavior change looks like. Most of all, you’ll see how Jesus is both scandalously safe and scandalously dangerous: welcoming us as we are, yet making it possible for us to become truly transformed and whole. Check out Dr. Carol's article Find out more about , or check out . Dr. Carol loves to hear from you. You can send a confidential message .
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Confident Connection: What Neuroscience Teaches About Attachment and Your Spiritual Life
10/21/2025
Confident Connection: What Neuroscience Teaches About Attachment and Your Spiritual Life
What does the science of attachment have to do with your walk with God? In this episode, we sit down with husband-and-wife team Geoff and Cyd Holsclaw who lead the Center for Embodied Faith to explore how experiences in early life shape our capacity for trust, intimacy, and connection—not only with people, but with God Himself. That connection then affords you the secure base to live and act in the world with confidence. Together we unpack the difference between secure and insecure attachment, how those patterns show up in faith, and why many of us struggle to rest confidently in God’s love. You’ll discover practical strategies for moving toward secure attachment, deepening both your human relationships and your spiritual life. This is a conversation filled with hope, courage, and a vision for growing into the wholeness God designed for you. Connect with Geoff and Cyd Holsclaw on or their podcast . Find their book Check out Dr. Carol's article Find out more about , or check out . Dr. Carol loves to hear from you. You can send a confidential message .
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Discovering the Power of God’s Empathy for You and Others
10/14/2025
Discovering the Power of God’s Empathy for You and Others
In this first of a two-part series on spiritual formation, we’re joined by a remarkable couple authors Bill and Kristi Gaultiere with decades of experience in ministry and counseling. As founders of Soul Shepherding, they’ve dedicated their lives to helping believers take their next steps toward deeper intimacy with Jesus, greater emotional health, and more loving relationships. Together, we dive into the transformative power of empathy—what it is, why it matters, and how it reflects the very heart of God in His interactions with us. We explore why learning self-empathy (which is very different from self-pity) is essential for our own healing and growth, and how developing empathy for others can be the doorway to healthier, stronger relationships. Our conversation also touches on the deeply personal journey of experiencing empathy from Jesus Himself, and what it looks like to open our hearts to that reality in daily life. If you’ve ever longed for a more compassionate relationship with God, yourself, and others, this episode will encourage and equip you for that journey. Connect with Bill and Kristi Gaultiere at , , , or . Find Bill and Kristi's latest book and their earlier book we mentioned Check out the article from Dr. Carol Find out more about - a safe place to unpack your story around intimacy and relationships, and experience Jesus coming into your story to bring healing and wholeness. Dr. Carol loves to hear from you. You can send a confidential message .
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The Marriage Turnaround: How Shifting Your Focus Will Transform Your Relationship
10/07/2025
The Marriage Turnaround: How Shifting Your Focus Will Transform Your Relationship
In this candid conversation, we sit down with licensed marriage and family therapist Chris A. Matthews who opens up about the struggles he and his wife faced in their own marriage, and the powerful shift in focus that turned things around. Out of that personal journey, he now equips couples with practical tools to help them stop the negative cycles and cultivate connection, trust, and lasting change. Whether your relationship feels stuck or you simply want to grow closer, you’ll discover hope-filled insights and actionable steps to begin your own marriage turnaround. Your marriage isn't hopeless; it's just ready for a miracle. Connect with Chris A. Matthews on , , , or . Find Chris's book If your marriage could use some help,, check out the two different packages available for the , and decide which one is right for you. And if you have questions, Dr. Carol loves to hear from you. You can leave a confidential message for her .
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From Criticism to Blessing: Transforming How You Speak to Your Spouse
09/30/2025
From Criticism to Blessing: Transforming How You Speak to Your Spouse
Your words carry more power in your marriage than you may realize. In this episode, Dr. Carol talks with Ann Wilson, best-selling author, radio host, and 40-year marriage veteran, about the profound influence a wife’s words can have in her husband’s heart and life. Together they unpack why your husband is not a project to be fixed, and how shifting from negative to positive communication can change the atmosphere of your relationship—even when real issues still need to be addressed. If you’ve ever struggled to feel heard, wondered why conversations with your spouse seem to go sideways, or longed to move from conflict toward deeper and healthier connection, this episode will give you both hope and practical tools to speak life into your marriage. Connect with Ann Wilson at , or on Find Ann's book If your marriage could use some help, check out the two different packages available for the , and decide which one is right for you. And if you have questions, Dr. Carol loves to hear from you. You can leave a confidential message for her .
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What No One Tells You About Sex and Marriage
09/23/2025
What No One Tells You About Sex and Marriage
When it comes to sex and marriage, most couples discover there’s far more beneath the surface than they ever expected. In this episode, Dr. Carol welcomes Dr. Michael Sytsma—ordained Christian minister, licensed professional counselor, certified sex therapist, professor, and national speaker. With over 30 years of clinical experience, Dr. Sytsma has walked with countless couples through struggles, surprises, and the deep joys of intimacy. Together they unpack the common myths couples believe about sex, why intimacy can feel so complicated, and the surprising ways love and faith intersect in the bedroom. You’ll hear practical wisdom, biblical perspective, and real-life insights that can help you and your spouse build a marriage that is both deeply connected and joyfully intimate. Whether you’re facing challenges or simply want to grow closer, this conversation will encourage and equip you with tools for a stronger, more vibrant marriage. This is a replay of an episode we shared a couple years ago, and this provides a taste of what you can access in the Marriage Healing Kit. Connect with Dr. Sytsma on his , , , or . Find the book by Dr. Sytsma and Shaunti Feldhein , and Check out the two different packages available for the , and decide which one is right for you. And if you have questions, Dr. Carol loves to hear from you. You can leave a confidential message for her .
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The Science of Lasting Love: What Predicts Marriage Success or Failure
09/16/2025
The Science of Lasting Love: What Predicts Marriage Success or Failure
What if the difference between a thriving marriage and one headed for divorce could actually be predicted? In this episode, Dr. Carol sits down for part 2 of her conversation with marriage and family therapist Zion Montgomery to explore the groundbreaking research behind the Gottman Method—decades of study that reveal why some couples make it and others don’t. From the “Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse” that signal danger in a relationship, to the surprising myth that conflict means a marriage is doomed, you’ll hear what science has uncovered about the true markers of lasting love. Together they dig into what this means in real life: what this can say about your own relationship, what tools can help partners move forward, and what hope looks like even in the face of big challenges like addiction, betrayal, or destructive anger. Whether your marriage is struggling or you simply want to strengthen your relationship, this conversation will give you practical insights and encouragement grounded in both research and biblically-based hope. Check out the two different packages available for the , and decide which one is right for you. You can connect with Zion Motgomery . And if you have questions, Dr. Carol loves to hear from you. You can leave a confidential message for her .
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The Science of Lasting Love: The Difference Faith Makes in Your Marriage
09/09/2025
The Science of Lasting Love: The Difference Faith Makes in Your Marriage
What difference does faith really make in your marriage? Is it just about praying harder when things get tough, or is there something deeper God invites us into? In this episode, Dr. Carol sits down with marriage and family therapist Zion Montgomery to talk about the real challenges couples face—misplaced expectations, communication struggles, questions about submission and control, and the temptation to blame our spouse for everything that feels wrong. Together they unpack why prayer is more than asking God to “fix” your partner, and how it can become a pathway to intimacy, healing, and transformation. You’ll hear why God is truly for your marriage, and what it looks like to invite His presence into your daily life together. From setting healthy boundaries to re-centering your relationship on purpose and partnership, this conversation is both practical and deeply hopeful. Whether your marriage feels strong or stretched thin, you’ll come away encouraged with fresh vision for how faith can bring connection, growth, and lasting joy into your relationship. Check out the two different packages available for the , and decide which one is right for you. You can connect with Zion Motgomery . And if you have questions, Dr. Carol loves to hear from you. You can leave a confidential message for her .
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Hope for Hurting Marriages: The Path to Healing and Lasting Intimacy
09/02/2025
Hope for Hurting Marriages: The Path to Healing and Lasting Intimacy
How healthy is your marriage—really? Maybe things look fine on the outside, but inside you feel more like roommates than soulmates. Maybe the arguments never seem to end, or the silence feels even louder. You might be carrying the weight of disappointment, betrayal, or loneliness and wondering if there’s any way forward. If that’s where you are, you’re not alone—and your story isn’t over. In this episode, Dr. Carol comes alongside you with honesty and hope. She shares why so many marriages, even Christian ones, end up struggling or in crisis, and what can begin to change that story. You’ll also hear about the Marriage Healing Kit, a Christ-centered journey designed to help couples reconnect emotionally, spiritually, and physically. This group of resources blends biblical truth, proven psychological principles, and decades of ministry experience to help couples rediscover joy, connection, and intimacy. Whether you’re dealing with silence, conflict, or broken trust, you’ll find a pathway toward restoration and a marriage that is truly Fully Alive. If you’re longing for more than just “getting by,” this will encourage you that God’s design for marriage is joy, intimacy, and connection. And it’s not too late for you to experience that. Check out the two different packages available for the . And if you have questions, Dr. Carol loves to hear from you. You can leave a confidential message for her .
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What Every Parent Can Do to Fight for Their Kids in a Digital World
08/26/2025
What Every Parent Can Do to Fight for Their Kids in a Digital World
Today’s kids are growing up in a digital world filled with hidden threats including pornography, predators, and pressures that most adults never faced at their age. In this episode, Dr. Carol talks with Sarah Siegand, co-founder of Parents Who Fight, about what it really takes to protect our children from online dangers. This is more than a tech issue; it’s a spiritual battle for the hearts and futures of the next generation. Sarah shares practical, grace-filled insight for parents, pastors, and church leaders who want to be both informed and empowered. From setting healthy boundaries to having ongoing conversations about sexuality, Sarah unpacks how we can partner together to raise emotionally resilient and spiritually grounded kids. This conversation offers hope, strategy, and strength for the fight, especially through the power of banding together to impact the micro-culture your kids encounter. Connect with Sarah Siegand and Parents Who Fight on , , , or . Find Sarah's new book available for preorder; . And enter the discount code LEADER to get the book for only $5! For some powerful resources to address your own inner life around intimacy, sexuality, and relationships, check out our : articles, the book, the online course, and more. Find out more about - a safe place to unpack your story around intimacy and relationships, and experience Jesus coming into your story to bring healing and wholeness. Dr. Carol loves to hear from you. You can send a confidential message .
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Purity, Shame, and Wholeness: Reclaiming God’s Good Design
08/19/2025
Purity, Shame, and Wholeness: Reclaiming God’s Good Design
Purity culture promised protection and blessing, but for many it left a legacy of shame, confusion, and even distance from God. In this episode, we sit down with licensed psychologist Dr. Camden Morgante who knows the struggle firsthand, both personally and professionally. She shares her own story of growing up in purity culture, the myths that shaped her faith, and the painful ways those messages got tangled with her sense of identity and sexuality. Together, we unpack what it looks like to heal from toxic beliefs while holding onto a faith that is life-giving, embodied, and whole. You’ll hear how she helps clients disentangle shame from sexuality in a distinctly Christian context, and how she found freedom herself while still embracing a traditional Christian sexual ethic but without the weight of fear and condemnation. If you’ve ever wrestled with purity culture’s ideas or impact, this conversation offers a hopeful, grace-filled path forward. Connect with Dr. Camden Morgante on her , , , or . Find Dr. Morgante's book For some powerful resources to address your own inner life around intimacy, sexuality, and relationships, check out our : articles, the book, the online course, and more. Find out more about - a safe place to unpack your story around intimacy and relationships, and experience Jesus coming into your story to bring healing and wholeness. Dr. Carol loves to hear from you. You can send a confidential message .
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How Does Psychology and Theology Impact Your Spiritual Formation?
08/12/2025
How Does Psychology and Theology Impact Your Spiritual Formation?
Sometimes Christians focus exclusively on one aspect of our lives, perhaps the spiritual. But we are created as integrated human beings - physical, emotional, relational, and spiritual. What if your biggest breakthroughs came not from working harder, but from connecting the dots between your faith, your thoughts, and your daily actions? In today's episode, Dr. Carol discusses this and more with the authors of Integrated Mindset, professors Dr. Brad Strawn and Dr. Earl Bland to uncover the surprising ways theology and psychology can work together for lasting transformation. From these seasons professionals you’ll hear compelling stories, fresh research, and practical tools to align your inner world with the life you’re called to live. Whether you’re feeling stuck, searching for purpose, or simply ready to grow deeper, this conversation will help you move to a place of being fully alive with a truly integrated mindset and spirit. Find more about and Find their book Our Intensives at Dr. Carol Ministries help you process both the psychological and spiritual aspects of your story. . Dr. Carol loves to hear from you. You can send a confidential message .
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More Than Behavior: What Surrendering Your Sexuality to Jesus Means
08/05/2025
More Than Behavior: What Surrendering Your Sexuality to Jesus Means
What does it really mean to surrender your sexuality to Jesus? In this powerful conversation, Dr. Carol talks with clinical psychologist, author, and co-founder of Authentic Intimacy Dr. Juli Slattery, about the deeper layers of Christian sexual discipleship. Too often, the church focuses only on behavior, but true transformation goes far beyond rule-keeping. It’s about identity, intimacy, and bringing the most vulnerable parts of ourselves into relationship with God for Him to heal and transform. Dr. Slattery unpacks the difference between sex and intimacy, and why our deepest sexual struggles are often rooted in wounds, lies, or unmet longings. Whether you're facing shame from the past, stuck in patterns of sinful behavior, or wrestling with disconnection in your relationships, this episode offers hope, and a path forward. Surrendering your sexuality to Jesus isn’t just about saying “no” to sin; it’s about saying “yes” to a whole, healed, and intimate life with Him. Connect with Dr. Juli Slattery at , the , , or . Find her latest book Find out more about - a safe place to unpack your story around intimacy and relationships, and experience Jesus coming into your story to bring healing and wholeness. Dr. Carol loves to hear from you. You can send a confidential message .
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Jerks, Red Flags, and God's Design for Healthy Lasting Relationships
07/29/2025
Jerks, Red Flags, and God's Design for Healthy Lasting Relationships
In a culture where relationship longevity is at an all-time low, even within the church, how can we build relationships that truly last? In this insightful conversation, Dr. Carol talks with Dr. John Van Epp, a leading relationship expert, pastor, professor, and creator of curricula for singles, engaged couples, and married couples. With over a million people impacted by his programs in both faith-based and secular settings, Dr. Van Epp brings much practical wisdom rooted in research and Scripture. Together, they explore the Relationship Attachment Model (RAM) and how it offers a framework for making wise, emotionally healthy choices in dating and marriage. You’ll hear why character must take priority over chemistry, and how this model can help both you and your kids avoid unnecessary heartache. Whether you're navigating your own relationships or guiding the next generation, this conversation offers clarity, hope, and tools to cultivate God-honoring love. Find Dr. Van Epp's book Check out the wealth of resources available at - Consider sharing the Check out Love Thinks on or . Find out more about - a safe place to unpack your story and experience Jesus coming into your story to bring healing and wholeness. Check out our - resources in several formats to help you find wholeness around intimacy and relationships Dr. Carol loves to hear from you. You can send a confidential message .
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Created for Glory: How Beauty Awakens Faith and Courage
07/22/2025
Created for Glory: How Beauty Awakens Faith and Courage
What does beauty have to do with fear, faith, and the future? In this compelling conversation, Dr. Carol sits down with former Muslim and now author and pastor Naeem Fazal to explore how beauty is not just aesthetic; it's transformational. Naeem shares his powerful personal story of overcoming deep fear and rejection, and how beauty is bound up in the very life of relationship with God. “Beauty has the power to shape our souls,” he says. And in a world that feels increasingly fractured, that truth matters more than ever. Together they unpack why loss and failure don’t have to define your story, how rejection can become redirection, and how the pursuit of beautiful relationships may be among the most godly and courageous things we can do. If you’ve struggled to find hope after disappointment or long to live less afraid of what’s ahead, this episode will invite you to see your own journey through a lens that's full of joy, hope and beauty. Connect with Naeem Fazal on , , , or . Find Naeem's book , and his previous book Check out the article on our website If you're hungry for more personal help, check out , or our amazing .
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Why the Church Must Talk About Sex with the Next Generation
07/15/2025
Why the Church Must Talk About Sex with the Next Generation
Today’s young people are navigating a sexual landscape unlike anything previous generations have faced. Porn is not just accessible—it’s expected. Messages about identity, desire, and intimacy are being shaped more by screens than by Scripture. In this important conversation, Dr. Carol talks with Joel Warneking and Bill Williams from 423 Communities, a ministry that walks with people toward freedom from unhealthy sexual patterns and into deeper intimacy with God. Joel and Bill unpack what’s really going on in the hearts and minds of the next generation, and why transformation doesn’t happen through willpower alone. They highlight the science of brain rewiring and the spiritual power of grace-filled community—especially in small groups—where lasting change is made possible. If you care about discipleship, sexual integrity, or the future of the church, this episode will challenge and equip you to be part of the healing story God is writing in a porn-saturated world. Connect with Joel Warneking or Bill Williams on the , , , , or . Find out more about - a safe place to unpack your story and experience Jesus coming into your story to bring healing and wholeness. Need some personal help? Check out . Dr. Carol loves to hear from you. You can send a confidential message .
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More Than a Retreat: What Three Women Discovered at the Intensive
07/08/2025
More Than a Retreat: What Three Women Discovered at the Intensive
What happens when you step away from the noise of life and create space for God to do deep heart work? In this special episode, Dr. Carol sits down with three courageous women who participated in one of our recent Intensives—four powerful days designed as a safe place to deal with the broken places in their stories around intimacy and relationships, and to experience deep healing, transformation, and connection with God and others. In this honest and hope-filled conversation, they share what drew them to the Intensive, the surprising ways God met them, and how their lives look different on the other side. You’ll hear about tears, breakthroughs, hard questions, and holy moments—and how four days can truly change everything when Jesus is invited to do what only He can. Whether you’re curious, skeptical, or longing for your own deeper healing, their stories just might be the encouragement you didn’t know you needed. Find out more about - a safe place to unpack your story around intimacy and relationships, and experience Jesus coming into your story to bring healing and wholeness. Need some individual help? Check out . Dr. Carol loves to hear from you. You can send a confidential message .
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Sex, Men, and God
07/01/2025
Sex, Men, and God
For many men, sexuality and spirituality feel like two separate worlds. In this honest and insightful conversation, Dr. Carol talks with former pastor, ministry leader, and spiritual director Bill Delvaux about what it truly means to invite God into our sexual story. Bill shares why so many men experience a deep disconnect between their sexuality and their relationship with God, and how that disconnect often leads to shame, secrecy, and soul-fragmentation. But it doesn’t have to stay that way. Bill unpacks a redemptive process of healing and integration—where God's presence meets even the most painful or confusing parts of a man’s sexual journey. They explore how this integration can leads to greater freedom, wholeness, and intimacy with God and others. If you’re longing for more than just behavior management, and want a deeper transformation, this episode will point you toward a hopeful, grace-filled path. Find out more about Bill Delveaux at , , , or . Check out Bill Delveaux's article about Find out more about - a safe place to unpack your story and experience Jesus coming into your story to bring healing and wholeness. Dr. Carol loves to hear from you. You can send a confidential message .
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Identity, Transformation, and Redemption for the LGBTQ Experience
06/24/2025
Identity, Transformation, and Redemption for the LGBTQ Experience
Identity is a hot topic in today's culture, especially when it comes to the LGBTQ conversation. But where does identity come from? Does it matter? And does one's biology matter? Elizabeth Woning embraced a lesbian lifestyle and a theology that embraced homosexuality until she had an encounter experiencing the love of God while engaged in pastoral ministry. She since cofounded CHANGED Movement, a network of individuals who have moved away from LGBTQ identity. As a licensed pastor she also trains emerging Christian leaders. In this deep personal and theological conversation, she talks with Dr. Carol about the far-reaching implications of our understanding of identity, and what that means for how God works for our redemption. Find out more about Elizabeth Woning on . Check out or . Find out more about - a safe place to unpack your story and experience Jesus coming into your story to bring healing and wholeness. Dr. Carol loves to hear from you. You can send a confidential message .
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Single, Christian, and Whole: Q&A with Dr. Carol
06/17/2025
Single, Christian, and Whole: Q&A with Dr. Carol
What does it really look like to walk with God in singleness—especially when the path feels long, lonely, or confusing? In this honest and compassionate episode, Dr. Carol responds to real questions from listeners about the complexities of single life. We talk about the ache of unfulfilled longing, wrestling with God when He hasn’t brought a spouse, and how to navigate desire—especially sexual desire—in a healthy, Christ-centered way when you're single. We also dive into the ways the Church can sometimes overlook or wound singles, and how to pursue genuine, soul-nourishing intimacy through friendship and spiritual community. Dr. Carol offers wise, grace-filled insights on becoming sexually whole in a culture saturated with distortion, and what healing can look like for those who find themselves single again after loss, divorce, or disappointment. Whether you’re thriving in singleness or wrestling deeply with it, this episode offers validation, encouragement, and practical hope. You are not forgotten, and your story matters. Resources mentioned: - Article: - Article: - Article: - Article: - Article: - Article: - Article: Find out more about - a safe place to unpack your story and experience Jesus coming into your story to bring healing and wholeness. Dr. Carol loves to hear from you. You can send a confidential message .
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The Power of Prayer and Process: Integrating Therapy and Theology for Lasting Change
06/10/2025
The Power of Prayer and Process: Integrating Therapy and Theology for Lasting Change
In this powerful session from our Change(d) Conference 2024, we’re joined by a licensed marriage and family therapist with a unique blend of clinical expertise and pastoral insight. With years of experience walking with individuals and couples through the trenches of intimacy, sexuality, and relational pain, Zion Montgomery offers a compelling vision for how lasting transformation happens when both therapy and theology are brought together—rather than pitted against each other. In this episode, you’ll hear her rich presentation on the process of healing from the inside out, followed by a live conversation with me as host as well as honest audience questions. Together, we explore how prayer opens the heart, but process changes the wiring—and how God invites us into both. Whether you’re navigating broken trust, past trauma, emotional disconnection, or just longing for deeper connection, this session offers hope, clarity, and tools for the journey toward wholeness. Connect with Zion Montgomery on or . , including all the other sessions, Dr. Carol's teaching, and Q&A. Find out more about - a safe place to unpack your story and experience Jesus coming into your story to bring healing and wholeness. Dr. Carol loves to hear from you. You can send a confidential message .
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