The Dr CK Bray Show
The Dr. CK Bray Show is a 20-minute science and research-based podcast that aims to provide the information you need to create a better life and career. Dr. Bray shares the latest research findings in the areas of business, personal excellence and achievement, resilience and thriving, career, learning, leadership, change, and health. He also provides a one-stop resource for actionable advice and tools to cover every aspect of your life. Be prepared to be simultaneously educated and entertained.
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Episode 611: Why 40 Million People Quit Their Job in 2024
01/12/2026
Episode 611: Why 40 Million People Quit Their Job in 2024
What if loving your job has nothing to do with passion, purpose, or perks and everything to do with how often you get to be yourself at work? In this interesting episode with Dr. Bray, he unpacks a powerful idea from Marcus Buckingham that challenges how leaders think about engagement, retention, and performance. Most people are not burned out because they work too hard. They are burned out because they rarely get to do the parts of the job that give them energy. The moments where time disappears. The conversations that feel natural. The problems they solve instinctively. Those moments are not fluff. They are signals. This episode is for leaders who care deeply about their people but sense something is missing. We explore how work can be redesigned in small, meaningful ways that help people experience more energy without changing titles, budgets, or roles. You will hear why engagement surveys often miss the point and how one simple question can unlock stronger performance, deeper connection, and greater resilience on your team. Loving your job is not about doing what you love all day. It is about alignment. And alignment is something every leader can learn to create. You will look at how you work and lead in 2026. Marcus Buckingham June-July HBR 2022 Quotes by Dr. Bray “The most powerful predictors of engagement and retention are not pay, location, or even belief in the mission—it’s whether people are excited to do the work itself.” “Helping people find love—or meaning—in some of what they do every day is one of the most important things leaders can do.” “You don’t need to love 100% of your job. If you love even 50–60% of it, people are far more engaged and far more likely to stay.”
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Episode 610: This is the Year You STOP!
01/05/2026
Episode 610: This is the Year You STOP!
As the year comes to a close, many people feel it. A mix of relief, pressure, and a quiet sense that something needs to change. Not because they failed, but because despite doing many things right, the year felt heavier than expected. In this episode, Dr. Christopher K. Bray explores a different way to approach the New Year. Instead of setting bigger goals or trying to fix yourself, he invites you to stop and look at two things that may be quietly holding you back. The first is the automatic behavior that shows up when you are under pressure. How you communicate. How you protect yourself. How you react when you feel stressed, misunderstood, or emotionally charged. The second is how you are carrying the harder parts of life, like loneliness, uncertainty, past hurt, or the feeling that progress has stalled. Blending neuroscience, psychology, and deeply human insight, this conversation explains why these patterns exist, how the brain holds onto them, and why they may no longer be serving you. More importantly, it offers a compassionate path forward that does not require becoming someone new, but letting go of what no longer fits. If you want 2026 to feel lighter, more grounded, and more aligned, this episode offers a powerful place to start. Not by doing more, but by stopping the right things. Quotes by Dr. Bray “Most people aren’t stuck because they lack motivation; they’re stuck because they keep carrying the same patterns into every new season.” “Real transformation doesn’t begin with doing more; it begins with stopping what no longer serves you.” “When emotional weight is carried silently, the brain stays in a low-level threat state.” “Under stress, the brain doesn’t choose the best response—it chooses the most familiar one.”
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Episode 609: Design Your Brain Not Your Goals for 2026
12/29/2025
Episode 609: Design Your Brain Not Your Goals for 2026
Everyone is talking about goals right now. New habits. New plans. New resolutions. But what if the most important thing to design for the New Year is not your goals, but your brain? In this episode, Dr. Christopher K. Bray introduces a different way to think about the year ahead. Instead of focusing on what you want to accomplish in 2026, he explores how your daily pace, stress, attention, and recovery are quietly shaping the brain you will live with all year long. And why that matters more than most people realize. Drawing on neuroscience and real-world examples from high performers, this conversation breaks down how small, often invisible choices train your brain for urgency, clarity, motivation, or exhaustion. You will learn why most people struggle, not because they lack discipline, but because they are designing the wrong conditions for their brain. If you want a year where you feel more present, resilient, energized, and capable of pursuing what truly matters, this episode offers a powerful place to start. Not with another goal list, but with a simple shift in designing a brain for your success, happiness, and motivation in 2026. Quotes by Dr. Bray “Before you design your goals for 2026, design the brain you’re going to live with all year.” “The question is not whether your brain will change next year—the question is whether you’re shaping it on purpose.” “You’re not just planning a year; you’re shaping the brain that will live through it.” “A brain that lives in constant urgency struggles to connect deeply, even during happy moments.”
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Episode 608: The Holiday Brain
12/22/2025
Episode 608: The Holiday Brain
The holidays look simple from the outside, but inside the brain they are anything but. This week, Dr Bray explores why this season stirs up so much emotion and how small rituals, tiny moments of connection, and simple sensory cues can create the holiday season you really want. You will hear stories, science, and a few practical ideas and tips you can use to bring more meaning and calm into the next few weeks. If the holidays feel wonderful, complicated, or a little of both, this episode will help you create a season that feels grounded, joyful, and full of meaning. Quotes by Dr. Bray “Christmas and the holidays are never just a date—they’re a pattern the brain has learned over a lifetime.” “The brain holds a map of belonging, loss, joy, comfort, and hope.” “Rituals are small signals to the brain that say, ‘This moment matters.’”
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Episode 607: A Season of Surprising Shifts
12/15/2025
Episode 607: A Season of Surprising Shifts
Sometimes a single month can hold enough joy, loss, wonder, and meaning to rearrange the way you see your entire life. In this episode, I share three moments that arrived unexpectedly and changed me in ways I didn’t anticipate. You’ll hear about neighbors who taught me something about legacy, a newborn who altered my sense of what truly matters, and a friend whose final wish reminded me of the impact one life can have. It is a story of beginnings and endings, presence and absence, and the quiet space where both shape us. I rarely talk about my personal life at this depth, but this season held lessons too important to keep to myself. If you’ve ever had a stretch of time that left you different than it found you, this episode may feel familiar. And if you haven’t, it may open your eyes to the shifts happening right now in your own life. Take a few minutes. Slow down. Join me for a story about what really matters. Quotes by Dr. Bray “The most extraordinary parts of our lives are never bought, scheduled, or wrapped—they are lived, shared, and loved.” “Uncomplicated joy doesn’t ask you to produce, achieve, or prove anything.” “The bonds you feel standing in a driveway listening to family stories can outlast trips, summers, and even loss.”
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Episode 606: The Language of Leadership: Seven Phrases Every Leader Should Use
12/08/2025
Episode 606: The Language of Leadership: Seven Phrases Every Leader Should Use
If you want to level up your leadership in under fifteen minutes, this episode is for you. Dr. Bray is breaking down seven simple phrases that can completely change how your team collaborates, performs, and shows up every day. These are not clichés, and they are not soft skills. They are powerful signals that shift how the brain responds to stress, trust, and connection. In this episode, Dr. Bray explains why these phrases land, how they change the way people think and act, and how you can start using them right away. One conversation can change a culture. One phrase can change the tone of an entire meeting. If you want a stronger team, a calmer team, or a team that performs at a higher level, this is the episode to start with. Take a listen, and try one of the phrases before your next meeting. You will feel the difference. Quotes by Dr. Bray “A single sentence from a leader can shift a room faster than any strategy deck.” “Teams rise when leaders speak in ways that calm fear and spark possibility.” “The strongest leadership tool isn’t authority—it’s the energy your words create.” “Leadership is less about directing and more about unlocking the minds around you.”
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Episode 605: The Meeting Habit That is Ticking Everyone Off!
12/01/2025
Episode 605: The Meeting Habit That is Ticking Everyone Off!
In this episode of the Dr. CK Bray Show, Dr. Bray unpacks the “Fester List," Airbnb CEO Brian Chesky’s bold move to expose the quiet problems rotting his company from within. The top offender? Leaders and teams glued to phones during meetings, including Chesky himself. Dr. Bray goes beyond the headlines, exploring why people are on their devices and the impact it is having on internal meetings and, even more importantly, external client meetings. You’ll discover the surprising reason some CEOs encourage discreet texting (yes, really), the 60-second team ritual that turns distraction into focus without a single rule, and the subtle cultural shifts that make presence feel natural, not forced. Dr. Bray blends real-world stories from Fortune 500 boardrooms with practical, no-drama strategies you can test in your next meeting. No fluff, no shame tactics, just smart, human-centered leadership that respects bandwidth while rebuilding trust. If you’ve ever looked around a room and seen more screens than eye contact, this episode is your wake-up call. This post draws from real-world leadership stories in CEOs Are Furious About Employees Texting in Meetings by Chip Cutter. The Wall Street Journal, October 28, 2025. Quotes by Dr. Bray “Our brains are not built for sustained, divided attention.” “Even a brief distraction like checking a text can increase your mental fatigue and lower comprehension." “Attention is the new corporate currency… When the room is fully present, ideas expand. When attention fragments, so does performance.”
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FAN FAVORITE Episode 306: Thankful, Grateful and a Dose of History
11/24/2025
FAN FAVORITE Episode 306: Thankful, Grateful and a Dose of History
We all need a day to celebrate and acknowledge all that we are grateful for. No matter where you live in the world today listen to the story of Squanto and how he changed Thanksgiving for numerous immigrants. Also, take up the Thanksgiving challenge to do service for others and be an individual someone else is grateful for! Dr. Bray starts off the United States Thanksgiving week right. Quotes by Dr. Bray: “This week the assignment is: be a blessing, do service, or have someone be grateful for you.” “No matter where you live in the world, it’s a great time to be grateful, thankful, and maybe learn a little history about another country.” “This is the week to be thankful and grateful for somebody.”
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Episode 604: The Science of Stillness: Quieting the Brain
11/17/2025
Episode 604: The Science of Stillness: Quieting the Brain
We live in a world that glorifies speed, noise, and constant doing. But what if the secret to thinking better, leading better, and living better is actually found in the moments when we stop? In this episode, Dr. Bray dives into the neuroscience of stillness; why your brain needs quiet to perform at its best, and how doing nothing may be the most productive thing you can do. He will share the story of a high-performing executive who thought he was burning out, when in fact, his brain was begging for a break. We’ll explore what happens in your mind when you slow down, how silence rewires your focus, and why some of your best ideas appear in the shower, on a walk, or in moments of calm. If your brain feels full but your clarity is fading, this episode will change how you think about rest. Because stillness isn’t the absence of work, it’s the space where your best thinking begins. Quotes by Dr. Bray “Rest is not a luxury. Stillness is not a luxury. It’s a biology.” “Because in all the noise of modern life, stillness is where clarity, insight, and performance are born.” “Stillness isn’t the absence of productivity. It’s the very foundation of it.” “Your brain actually performs better when you slow down and stop.”
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Episode 603: Why You Don’t Need to Worry When Things Don’t Work Out
11/10/2025
Episode 603: Why You Don’t Need to Worry When Things Don’t Work Out
We have all been there. The job that didn’t happen, the plan that fell apart, the moment that left you wondering, what now? In this episode, Dr. Bray explores what happens in your brain and body when life doesn’t go as planned, and why learning to let go, reframe, and keep moving forward is one of the most powerful things you can do for your mental health and resilience. You will learn why holding onto anger, regret, or comparison quietly drains your brain’s energy, how your nervous system responds to disappointment, and how small mindset shifts can rewire your focus and restore clarity. Drawing from neuroscience, psychology, and real-life stories of growth, Dr. Bray shares why everyone’s path looks different and why comparing your journey to someone else’s will always leave you behind. If you have been feeling stuck, disappointed, or worn down, this episode will remind you that nothing is wasted. Your brain is still learning, adapting, and building strength with every challenge you face. Sometimes, the things that do not work out are exactly what lead you where you are meant to go. Quotes by Dr. Bray “Resilience isn’t about bouncing back. It’s about becoming someone new because of what you’ve been through.” “Strength doesn’t come from holding on. It comes from releasing what no longer serves you.” “Forgiveness and acceptance aren't fluffy emotional ideas — they're biological resets for your brain.”
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Episode 602: Personality Tests: Why We Love Them and Why They Can Mislead Us
11/03/2025
Episode 602: Personality Tests: Why We Love Them and Why They Can Mislead Us
Everyone loves a good personality test. Whether it is the Myers-Briggs, the Enneagram, or that quiz you took online that told you which TV character you are most like, there is something satisfying about seeing yourself neatly described in a few short sentences. But here is the question: are these tests actually telling you who you are, or just giving you a clever label? In this episode, Dr. Bray unpacks the science behind our obsession with personality tests. You will learn why we are wired to love them, how the brain’s reward systems light up when we feel recognized, and why the Barnum effect makes even vague descriptions feel spot-on. We will also take a closer look at the history of personality testing, from Hippocrates and the four humors to the modern-day workplace. More importantly, you will hear why taking these tests too seriously can backfire. Neuroscience shows that personality is not fixed. The brain is plastic, meaning it is constantly adapting and capable of change. When you lock yourself into a rigid type, you may be limiting your own growth without even realizing it. Dr. Bray keeps it practical and entertaining, weaving together science, history, and a bit of humor. You will walk away with a fresh perspective on personality tests, knowing when to treat them as fun and when to be cautious about the labels they hand you. So if you have ever wondered whether your four letters define you or if you are destined to always be “the extrovert” or “the thinker,” hit play. This conversation will convince you that you are far more than a type, and that the most exciting part of your personality is how it continues to grow and change. Quotes by Dr. Bray "The real danger is not in taking these tests, but in taking them too seriously." "The appeal of personality tests has less to do with their accuracy and more to do with what they promise us." "This is just who I am" — that’s the fixed mindset we need to challenge.” "Hold those results lightly and treat them as a starting point for exploration."
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Episode 601: Be Yourself Is Terrible Advice: The Neuroscience of Authenticity
10/27/2025
Episode 601: Be Yourself Is Terrible Advice: The Neuroscience of Authenticity
We have all heard it. Someone looks at you with a smile and says, “Just be yourself.” Nice idea, but have you ever tried it? It turns out being yourself is not nearly as simple as it sounds. In this episode, Dr. Bray digs into the science of authenticity and why the version of you that shows up at work, at home, or even at dinner with friends is often a carefully constructed blend of performance, prediction, and protection. You will hear how the brain’s prefrontal cortex, default mode network, and even the amygdala shape your sense of self and sometimes keep you from showing up as the real you. We will explore why decades of cultural conditioning, family expectations, and even old survival strategies can bury your authentic self under layers of habit. More importantly, Dr. Bray shares the practical side of neuroscience: how neuroplasticity allows you to rewire your brain and excavate the parts of you that feel the most genuine. So whether you are leading a team, building a career, or simply trying to feel at home in your own skin, hit play. Dr. Bray will show you how science can help you do it, and maybe even convince you that the project of becoming yourself is the most worthwhile work you will ever take on. Quotes by Dr. Bray "Just be yourself" sounds easy, but your brain is running layers of predictions, protections, and performances that you may not even notice” “Your sense of self is shaped by repeated neural pathways—the habits of thought and behavior that you practice again and again” “Sometimes you uncover trauma responses—protective adaptations that once kept you safe but no longer serve you”
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Episode 600: Smarter, Stronger, Sharper: The Science of Measuring and Improving Your Brain Health
10/20/2025
Episode 600: Smarter, Stronger, Sharper: The Science of Measuring and Improving Your Brain Health
Smarter, Stronger, Sharper – How to Measure and Improve Your Brain Health What if your brain had a dashboard that told you exactly how well it was performing before you hit burnout, before focus fades, and before your memory starts to slip? In this episode, Dr. Bray dives into the cutting edge science that is reshaping how we understand brain health. You will discover how researchers like Dr. Evelyne Bischof, a Harvard and Columbia trained longevity physician, are using data, AI, and neuroscience to measure brain performance in real time and even predict cognitive decline before it begins. Forget the old idea that your brain is static or unchangeable. Today, science can track everything from your biological brain age to your daily cognitive resilience and even show you how small lifestyle shifts can rewire your mind for greater clarity, energy, and focus. If you have ever wondered why some people stay sharp under pressure while others burn out, or how technology is helping us see what is happening inside the brain long before symptoms appear, this episode will change how you think about mental performance and longevity. Tune in because the future of brain health is not about reacting to problems, it is about measuring, training, and optimizing the most powerful system you have. Quotes by Dr. Bray "Brain health should be treated the same way we approach physical fitness or financial well-being: measurable, trackable, and provable." "Your chronological age is what your driver’s license says. Your biological brain age is how old your brain acts." "The brain doesn’t know the difference between a good habit and a bad habit — it just knows habit."
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Episode 599: Why Bronze Feels Better than Silver
10/13/2025
Episode 599: Why Bronze Feels Better than Silver
Ever noticed that the athlete standing in second place sometimes looks less happy than the one in third? Turns out, it is not just your imagination, it is neuroscience. In this episode, Dr. Bray dives into thirty years of research showing why bronze medalists often leave the podium smiling while silver medalists are silently stewing. The culprit? The way our brains process expectations, comparisons, and reward prediction errors. He will explore: Why your brain is wired to feel loss when you almost win, but joy when you barely make it How dopamine, the amygdala, and the prefrontal cortex play tug of war with your emotions What Olympic medalists can teach you about managing expectations in your career, leadership, and life So, whether you are chasing your own gold medal or just trying to survive your inbox, don't miss this episode. You will walk away with strategies to feel happier, perform better, and cut yourself some slack the next time you finish in third place. Quotes by Dr. Bray "Happiness doesn’t always come from being the best. It often comes from how we frame our situation and what we expect to happen." "Train the brain to see opportunity rather than loss." "Silver is coded as loss because the brain expected gold. Bronze is coded as gain because the brain expected nothing or less."
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Episode 598: The Work Connection Deficit And How To Fix It
10/06/2025
Episode 598: The Work Connection Deficit And How To Fix It
Work is noisy. Slack pings, endless meetings, emails that never stop. But beneath all that activity, many employees feel something deeper, disconnected. In this episode, Dr. Bray dives into a powerful article from Harvard Business Review that reveals a hidden truth: nearly one in five employees feel lonely at work. That loneliness is not just a personal struggle; it is an organizational blind spot. When people feel isolated, creativity wanes, performance declines, and engagement wanes. But here’s the good news: leaders can change this. Connection is not about forcing more meetings or filling calendars with “team building.” It is about designing workplaces where belonging is baked into culture, conversations, and even decision-making. Join Dr Bray as he explores why traditional fixes are not enough, how leaders can spot the “connection deficit,” and the practical steps any organization can take to turn disconnection into a competitive advantage. He also shares the top three ways to build connections that don't require a lot of time to plan. If you lead a team, work in HR, or care about making work a place where people thrive, this episode is for you. Let’s talk about how belonging is not a nice-to-have; it is the real driver of performance in today’s workplace. QUOTES BY DR. BRAY "Being on a team can make people feel even lonelier when the closeness they expect doesn't come to pass." "Build socializing into the rhythm of work." "If employees are constantly working at their maximum capacity... they won’t be able to invest time in pivotal interactions that generate trust." "Social activities shouldn’t be offered as one-offs — they should be embedded in regular workflows."
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Episode 597 Preparing for Retirement, It is About More Than Money
09/29/2025
Episode 597 Preparing for Retirement, It is About More Than Money
Retiring Without Regrets For decades, we’ve been told the same story: work hard, save well, and one day retirement will be the reward. But what if stepping away from work feels harder than the job itself? What if freedom comes with a side of restlessness? In this episode, Dr. Bray delves into what truly makes retirement fulfilling and why neuroscience reveals that it’s about more than just money or free time. I’ll explore the hidden challenges the brain faces when structure, identity, and daily rewards suddenly disappear. And more importantly, I’ll share the four practices that help people not just retire, but rewire: alignment with your values, rediscovering yourself beyond the job title, taking charge of your time with agency, and embracing adaptability when life doesn’t go as planned. You’ll hear stories of people who struggled and those who thrived and learn practical tools to shape a retirement that feels rich with meaning and growth. If you’re approaching retirement, in the midst of it, or simply curious about how to build a life you don’t want to escape, Dr. Bray will provide you with insights that are both eye-opening and actionable. Please tune in and discover how to retire without regrets and why your brain will thank you for it. QUOTES BY DR. BRAY “Retirement isn’t the end of the road; it’s the beginning of a new journey.” “Your identity is not in your job title; it’s in the lives you touch and the purpose you find.” “Purpose is the engine that keeps you moving. Without it, even the most luxurious life can feel empty.”
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Episode 596: Stop Making Life Harder Than It Is
09/22/2025
Episode 596: Stop Making Life Harder Than It Is
Ever feel like you’re carrying bricks in your backpack that no one asked you to carry? Or turning a five-minute task into a half-hour saga of overthinking? You’re not alone, and your brain might actually be the culprit. In this episode, Dr. Bray pulls back the curtain on why we over complicate simple things and what neuroscience reveals about it. (Hint: it’s not just about dopamine, it’s about the way our brain’s prediction systems and default mode network keep us stuck in loops of worry and “what ifs.”) You’ll learn: Why your brain makes simple things feel hard, and how it thinks it’s helping. The hidden costs of overthinking on your energy, creativity, and well-being. Practical tools to stop adding “extra screws” to life and start living with more clarity and ease. If you’re ready to stop over-engineering your days and start creating space for simplicity, joy, and focus, this episode is for you. QUOTES BY DR. BRAY "The mind is designed for survival, not for peace. To find peace, we must practice it intentionally." "Overcomplicating things gives us the illusion of control, but real control comes from simplicity." "Multitasking is the art of doing everything poorly at once."
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Episode 595: Why Did They Leave? Reinventing and Revitalizing the Exit Interview Guide
09/15/2025
Episode 595: Why Did They Leave? Reinventing and Revitalizing the Exit Interview Guide
Why do good employees walk away? You might think you know, but most exit interviews never uncover the real story. People rarely say, “I left because I felt stuck” or “I couldn’t see a future here.” Yet, those are often the true reasons behind turnover. In this episode, Dr. Bray breaks down a powerful interview framework that goes beyond surface answers and gets to the heart of why employees quit. These aren’t ordinary exit questions; they’re conversation starters that uncover what employees were searching for, what pushed them away, and what might have convinced them to stay. You’ll discover: The four “quests for progress” that drive almost every job change The exact questions that reveal whether someone left for alignment, control, growth, or just to get out How to turn exit interviews into learning tools that reshape your culture Why stay interviews matter more than exit interviews and how to run them effectively If you’re a leader, HR professional, or business owner, this episode gives you actionable insights and ready-to-use tools for reducing turnover. Understanding why people leave is the first step in creating a workplace where they want to stay. You don't want to miss this episode! For more information on this topic, read the HBR article spotlight on "Why did They Leave? An Interview Guide," in the November-December 2024 Issue for exact questions to use in your next exit interview. QUOTES BY DR. BRAY "People rarely say, 'I left because I felt stuck' or 'I couldn’t see a future here.' Yet, those are often the true reasons behind turnover." "Turn exit interviews into learning tools that reshape your culture." "Whether someone left for alignment, control, growth, or just to get out — the right questions will reveal it."
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Episode 594: Why Employees Quit and How Neuroscience Sheds Light on the Answer
09/08/2025
Episode 594: Why Employees Quit and How Neuroscience Sheds Light on the Answer
Think you know why employees quit? Think again. It’s not about money, perks, or a flashy job offer. In this episode, Dr. Bray uncovers the surprising truth about why top talent leaves your organization. You’ll learn what neuroscience tells us about motivation and progress, why our brains rebel when work feels stagnant, and the four “quests for progress” that push people to make career moves. Additionally, Dr. Bray will share real-world stories, research-based strategies, and practical steps you can implement today to keep your top talent engaged and thriving. If you’re a leader, HR professional, or just curious about the future of work, this episode is your wake-up call. Don’t just ask how to retain employees, discover how to create a culture where people want to stay. Tune in and rethink everything you thought you knew about turnover. QUOTES BY DR. BRAY "People rarely leave for just money. They leave when their work stops feeling rewarding, when progress feels impossible, or when every day becomes an energy drain." "The real question is: how do I make staying feel like progress and not stagnation?" "People don’t quit companies — they quit environments where their brain feels stressed, stuck, and underutilized."
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Episode 593: The Brain’s Energy Budget: Why You’re Not Lazy, You’re Overdrawn
09/01/2025
Episode 593: The Brain’s Energy Budget: Why You’re Not Lazy, You’re Overdrawn
If you’ve ever hit a wall at 2:47 PM and wondered, “Why can’t I think straight?” This episode is for you. Spoiler alert: It’s not a willpower problem. It’s biology. In this episode, Dr. Bray breaks down one of the most overlooked truths in workplace performance: your brain has a limited energy budget. From decision fatigue to task switching to why your focus crashes mid-afternoon, you’ll discover the hidden forces behind mental burnout and how to fight back. We’ll explore: Why your brain burns through more energy than any other organ How your “mental bank account” gets drained without you even noticing The real cost of multitasking (hint: it’s not just lost time) What top performers, neuroscience researchers, and companies like Google are doing to protect brain power Simple ways to refuel your focus using strategic breaks, movement, and even social interaction You’ll also learn how to spot the moments when you’re cognitively bankrupt and what to do to recharge fast. Bonus: Dr. Bray shares a simple method to track your “brain budget” for one day so you can identify your personal energy leaks and high-focus windows. You’ll walk away with actionable tools you can start using today to work smarter, feel better, and lead with more clarity. If you're in leadership, juggling too many tabs, or constantly battling decision overload, this episode might change how you manage your most valuable asset: your brain. Listen now and get ready to stop blaming yourself and start working with your biology. QUOTES BY DR. BRAY "The brain doesn't store fuel. Once the tank is low, the first thing to go is your ability to think clearly and resist distractions." "Don't use your brain's best hours on low-leverage tasks." "Performance problems may not be due to poor skills, but poor fuel. Invest in good nutrition and rest."
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Episode 592 How to Rewire Your Brain (Without Burning It Out)
08/25/2025
Episode 592 How to Rewire Your Brain (Without Burning It Out)
What if the key to unlocking your potential isn’t talent but timing, effort, and the way your brain rewires itself? In this episode, Dr. Bray dives into the science of how learning happens, real, lasting, brain-changing learning, with insights from world-renowned neuroscientist Dr. Michael Kilgard. You’ll learn why your brain doesn’t change without discomfort, why sleep might be the most powerful learning tool you’re ignoring, and how tools like visualization, self-testing, and even a tiny implant in your neck are helping people recover from strokes and transform their performance. Dr. Bray breaks down the four essential ingredients for rewiring your brain: focus, friction, reflection, and rest. Dr. Bray explores real-life stories and tools you can use today to learn faster, retain more, and adapt better. Whether you're trying to pick up a new skill, overcome a setback, or simply want to sharpen your brain, this episode will shift how you think about change. This one’s made to be bookmarked, shared, and revisited. QUOTES BY DR. BRAY “Your brain isn’t a hard drive. It’s a living, changing, messy miracle.” “One of the most underutilized productivity tools is a great nap.” “No discomfort, no change. Learning shouldn’t feel easy.”
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Episode 591 The True Wealth That’s Not Found In Your Bank Account
08/18/2025
Episode 591 The True Wealth That’s Not Found In Your Bank Account
Have you ever stopped and looked at your life and thought, Why do I feel poorer than I am? I know I have. On paper, things are going well. I've written books, worked with big companies, and my little company continues to grow. I’ve built a career that I’m proud of, and I work hard to live within my means, especially with six kids who are always wanting lessons in everything! From the outside, it looks like it is all going really well.. But when I pause to reflect, there’s still this feeling of being... poorer than I’d like to be. And no, I’m not talking about the literal kind of poverty, the kind that keeps people awake at night, wondering how they’re going to make ends meet. I’m not talking about the kind of struggle that comes with scarcity. What I’m talking about is something deeper. A kind of poverty that can’t be solved with money, no matter how much you have in the bank. Ryan Holiday recently wrote about this in an article titled “These Are All the Ways I Feel Poorer Than I Am.” In it, he talks about a conversation he had with Sahil Bloom about the different kinds of wealth, wealth that doesn’t show up on your paycheck. Time wealth, emotional wealth, social wealth, mental wealth, and physical wealth. These are the kinds of wealth we often overlook, even though they shape our happiness far more than any amount of money ever will. Today, I want to dive into this idea. I want to explore how, even though my life is going well, I still deal with anxiety and stress, worrying about things that haven’t happened, missing out on present moments because my mind is too busy. I want to talk about how I’ve neglected my social wealth and how I don’t have enough close friends anymore because I’m too wrapped up in work and family. But here’s the thing: The more I think about it, the more I realize that true wealth isn’t about the size of your bank account, it’s about the balance in your life. It's about the freedom to live on your terms, the relationships you build, and the moments you enjoy, fully present. So, if you’ve ever felt like you have everything, but still feel like something’s missing, this episode is for you. We’ll explore how to stop chasing the wrong kinds of wealth and start focusing on the ones that really matter. And maybe, just maybe, you’ll discover that you’ve had everything you need all along. **From Ryan Holiday's website: "These Are All The Ways I Feel Poorer Than I Am." (It is a great read!) QUOTES BY DR. BRAY "Worry and stress are a real cost—they have stolen hours of sleep, moments of joy, and precious time with family." "We spend so much time worrying about imaginary problems that we create real ones." "True wealth is measured not by the balance of your bank account, but by the balance in your life."
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Episode 590 Summer Reads for the Dr. Bray Beach Brain Book Club
08/11/2025
Episode 590 Summer Reads for the Dr. Bray Beach Brain Book Club
Ready to upgrade your beach towel brain food? In this episode, Dr. Bray is providing your official summer reading passport from courtroom drama in the Deep South to alien friendships in deep space. Whether you are a hammock philosopher, poolside thrill-seeker, or someone who likes to feel smart in flip-flops, I’ve got you covered. We’re talking true crime that reads like a Netflix docuseries (The Devil at His Elbow), celestial DIY survival (Project Hail Mary), and soul-searching journeys in the desert (The Alchemist). Plus, I’ll tell you why sleeping more and specializing less might be your next big life hack. This is not your grandma’s book club, unless she’s really into neuroscience, wrongful convictions, and the psychological effects of TikTok. So plug in, power down your notifications, and prepare for page-turners that will make you laugh, think, and maybe even rethink your life choices. Books you’ll meet in this episode: True crime, biography, brain science, and a little desert mysticism with insights that blend storytelling, wit, and actual smart stuff Perfect for road trips, sunbathing, or hiding from your in-laws on vacation Press play and pack your beach bag, the books are that good. QUOTES BY DR. BRAY "Pick up a book, start reading or listening today." "All of these books are great reads… they will blow your mind." "You’ll question your life choices… and maybe even start listening to your soul a little bit."
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Episode 589 Building a Leadership Factory: Why It's Your Best Strategy in an Unpredictable and Changing World
08/05/2025
Episode 589 Building a Leadership Factory: Why It's Your Best Strategy in an Unpredictable and Changing World
Leading today is not for the faint of heart. Between generative AI, market instability, rising employee expectations, and the pressure to make fast, high-stakes decisions with limited data, leaders are being tested like never before. So, how do the best ones not only survive but thrive? In this episode, we dive into the neuroscience of leadership under pressure and explore the powerful idea of the leadership factory, a system for growing future-ready leaders at scale. Inspired by a recent McKinsey article and backed by the science of how the brain responds to uncertainty, we unpack what the best organizations are doing to grow resilience, agility, and innovation deep into their culture. You’ll learn: • Why grit, balance, and servant leadership are now essential traits—not nice-to-haves • How to create psychological safety that unlocks creative thinking and decision-making • What neuroscience says about how humans lead under threat—and how to override it • How executive leadership, HR, and organizational leaders are turning leadership development into a strategic engine Whether you're a CEO, a first-line leader, or someone who wants to lead better in uncertain times, this episode will give you practical insights and inspiration to build your leadership factory and why now is the time to do it. QUOTES BY DR. BRAY "If you can approach periods of disquiet, of change with calm, clarity, confidence and a focus on future needs... you're going to be a great leader." "Whether you manage people or not... you for sure influence other people." "Such growth cannot be left to chance."
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Episode 588 Why Success Often Feels Empty - and What to Do About It
07/28/2025
Episode 588 Why Success Often Feels Empty - and What to Do About It
You crossed the finish line. Got the promotion. Hit the goal. Everyone’s congratulating you... So why does it feel so underwhelming? In this episode of the podcast, Dr. Bray dives into the neuroscience behind one of the most surprising emotional twists of modern life: why achievement often leaves us feeling flat and how to reclaim lasting meaning. You'll learn: Why your brain is wired to crave the chase, not the finish line and what to do when the dopamine drops The difference between achievement and meaning and why one lights you up longer. How to build a life that aligns with who you are, not just what you do 5 powerful, science-backed tools to help you rewire your brain for purpose, connection, and fulfillment If you’ve ever asked yourself “Is this all there is?” After a win, or if you’ve quietly moved the goalpost before even celebrating the one you just reached, this episode is for you. Dr. Bray blends neuroscience, personal reflection, and practical strategies to help you shift from achievement chasing to meaning making without losing your ambition. Be sure and Listen in — because what your brain’s really hungry for might surprise you. QUOTES BY DR. BRAY "Accomplishment and fulfillment are not the same thing." "Achievement is about doing. Meaning is about becoming." "Five to ten minutes of reflecting on your values each week can change how you feel about yourself, your work, and the people around you."
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Episode 587 Laid off, Not Laid Down: Reinventing Yourself After a Late-Career Layoff
07/21/2025
Episode 587 Laid off, Not Laid Down: Reinventing Yourself After a Late-Career Layoff
“Laid Off, Not Laid Down. Reinventing Yourself After a Late-Career Layoff” What happens when the career you spent decades building suddenly ends before you’re ready? You’re not alone, and this episode is for you. Dr. Bray dives into the growing phenomenon of late-career layoffs after several friends and clients have experienced a surprise layoff when they least expected it. Dr. Bray discusses what this means for your identity, finances, and future. Whether you’re in your late 40s, 50s, or 60s, staring down an unexpected layoff, or just want to prepare for what’s ahead, this is the conversation no one else is having… but everyone needs to hear. Dr. Bray will explore: Why getting laid off later in life hits harder (hint: your brain chemistry and identity are involved) The emotional fallout no one talks about, and how to start feeling human again What neuroscience tells us about resilience and reinvention (yes, your brain is still wired for growth) Real-world transitions from full-time execs to fractional leaders, consultants, and purpose-driven career pivots Powerful tools you can use today to reframe your mindset and build momentum You’ll walk away with science-backed insight, actionable strategies, and maybe even a little bit of hope. Because your best years might not be behind you, they might look different from what you expected. This podcast isn’t about survival. It’s about reinvention. And it starts here. QUOTES BY DR. BRAY “Aging isn’t what stalls a career; irrelevance is.” “You may not be ready to stop working, but for sure you are ready to work differently.” “You’re the sum of everything over the years that you’ve learned, contributed and overcome—and really, you’re just getting started.”
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FAN FAVORITE EPISODE 435 Books You Can Read in One Day to Change Your Life
07/14/2025
FAN FAVORITE EPISODE 435 Books You Can Read in One Day to Change Your Life
Dr. Bray takes a time-out this week to share some of his favorite summer reads with you. The first category he discusses books you can read in a day that will change your life. Short, quick reads that will have you thinking differently within a day. (For my audiobook friends, you will get just as much out of listening to these books as reading them, so add them to your playlist.) The second list is behavioral psychology books, so if you want to geek out and read up on some human behavior, here are the books Dr. Bray recommends. Enjoy your summer and be sure and read or listen to at least one book a month. Your brain loves it! Books You Can Read In A Day The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho As A Man Thinketh by James Allen A Better Way to Live by Og Mandino Ikigai by Francesc MIralles Game People Play by Eric Berne Tuesdays With Morrie by Mitch Albom The Compound Effect by Darren Hardy The Defining Decade: Why 20’s Matter by Meg Jay Any book by Seth Godin. Behavioral Psychology Books From Strength to Strength by Arthur Brooks Get It Done by Ayelet Fishbach The Grieving Brain by Mary-Frances O’Connor The Power of Regret by Daniel Pink Ritual by Dimitris Xygaalatas The Voltage Effect by John A. List *You can find more books to read on Loganrane.medium.com QUOTES BY DR. BRAY “Reading is delicious candy for your brain!” “Go read a book!”
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Episode 586: How to Use AI as Your Career Coach
07/07/2025
Episode 586: How to Use AI as Your Career Coach
What if you could have a world-class career coach in your pocket available 24/7, endlessly patient, and shockingly insightful? In this episode with Dr. Bray, he explores how tools like ChatGPT, Claude, and Perplexity transform how we navigate careers from writing resumes and preparing for interviews to plotting promotions and managing toxic coworkers. Whether you're just starting out, pivoting mid-career, or climbing the executive ladder, this episode shows you how AI can become your smartest (and cheapest) ally. Dr. Bray breaks down 7 powerful ways to use AI for career clarity, job search strategy, salary negotiations, leadership growth, and even workplace dilemmas with real prompts you can try today. Want to stand out in your next job application? Struggling with imposter syndrome or career uncertainty? Need help crafting that perfect LinkedIn summary? Curious how AI can help you grow as a leader? This is your episode. The best part? You don’t have to be tech-savvy to start. You just need curiosity and a willingness to try something new. QUOTES BY DR. BRAY "Establishing yourself as a thought leader always makes you appear as a leader. It opens new doors to new opportunities." "If something is on your mind for more than an hour, it's time to take action and fix it."
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FAN FAVORITE Episode 485 Insights Into Loneliness and the Brain
07/01/2025
FAN FAVORITE Episode 485 Insights Into Loneliness and the Brain
In this fan favorite episode of the podcast, Dr. Bray answers a listener’s question on loneliness. Tune in to learn about the neuroscience and psychology of loneliness, what happens in the brain, and specific action steps you can take to combat loneliness. In a world where loneliness is increasing exponentially, it is important to understand this issue and notice the signs and warning markers of isolation. If you want to learn more, see below for specific research into the topics Dr. Bray discussed on this episode. “Loneliness and social isolation as risk factors for coronary heart disease and stroke: systematic review and meta-analysis of longitudinal observational studies” by Nicole K Valtorta et al. Heart “Loneliness matters: a theoretical and empirical review of consequences and mechanisms. Annals of Behavioral Medicine” by Louise C. Hawkley et al. Annals of Behavioral Medicine “The growing problem of loneliness” by Cacioppo & Cacioppo. The Lancet “Brain structure links loneliness to social perception” by Ryota Kanai et al. Current Biology “The association between social relationships and depression: a systematic review” by Ziggi Ivan Santini et al. Journal of Affective Disorders “The neuroendocrinology of social isolation” by John Cacioppo et al. Annual Review of Psychology “Social media use and perceived social isolation among young adults in the US” by Brian A. Primack et al. American Journal of Preventative Medicine “A meta-analysis of interventions to reduce loneliness” by Christopher M. Masi et al. Personality and Social Psychology Review “Mindfulness training reduces loneliness and increases social contact in a randomized controlled trial” by Emily K. Lindsay et al. PNAS QUOTES BY DR. BRAY “Loneliness can creep in no matter how connected we may appear or seem to be.” “The key to perception is understanding.” “Social media never replaces personal connection.”
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Episode 585: Global Market Job Trends and the AI Job Ripple
06/23/2025
Episode 585: Global Market Job Trends and the AI Job Ripple
What do restaurant specialists, dentists, and delivery drivers all have in common? They're part of a surprising surge reshaping the global job market. In this episode, we dive into the most in-demand jobs of 2025 before tariffs and uncertainty rattled the economy. Based on fresh LinkedIn data, you’ll get a front-row seat to the unexpected rise of healthcare and food service roles, the spike in logistics, and what it all means for hiring leaders, job seekers, and anyone trying to navigate a shifting economy. We’re not just talking numbers, we’re decoding the human behavior behind them. Why are direct-care jobs skyrocketing? What’s pushing truck drivers into the top 10? And how should leaders prepare for the calm before the storm starts to crack? I’m Dr. Bray, a cognitive behavioral researcher, and I’ll walk you through how work is evolving, what’s signaling the next big shift, and how you can stay ahead in a labor market that’s anything but predictable. If you're hiring, looking, or leading, this episode is your cheat sheet. QUOTES BY DR. BRAY “Upskill continuously. Engage in lifelong learning to stay current with technological advances.” “Embrace flexibility. Be open to evolving roles and responsibilities.” “If you're aware and you're taking the steps—5 to 10 minutes every day—you’re going to be just fine.” QUOTES BY DR. BRAY “Upskill continuously. Engage in lifelong learning to stay current with technological advances.” “Embrace flexibility. Be open to evolving roles and responsibilities.” “If you're aware and you're taking the steps—5 to 10 minutes every day—you’re going to be just fine.”
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