Family Constellation Guy

Weekly talk on what to expect if you do some Family Constellation work - I might discuss EFT and Matrix on the podcast, and sometimes I will have visitors or interviews

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Training in 2026 01/26/2026

Training in 2026 The Rafe Nauen Academy is hosting another Family Constellation Therapy training on 7th/8th Febraury 2026 and this episode is all about whats new! If you expect to be a bit tired, because we are packing in quite a lot of information to help you get quickly to the nub of any issues your clients friends or family have. The training is accredited and certificated and I am assured that insurance companies are happy to add in the certificate to your current Public Liability insurance I offer stage payments if you need that and It will be a fun weekend too. /episode/index/show/eaa3ba99-cf15-405e-a9a6-dfb9575171a4/id/39879480

Start the new year 12/31/2025

Start the new year As the earth moves us into 2026 it is often a time to reflect on the year past. I recommend going a bit further back, and perhaps reflecting on the things we have picked up out of blunt loyalty. Those things are easy to deal with - of course I recommend Family Constellation Therapy, but other therapies are very capable too! /episode/index/show/eaa3ba99-cf15-405e-a9a6-dfb9575171a4/id/39574560

Injunctions 12/01/2025

Injunctions Sometimes we get told things in early life that stay with us for life. This episode is about some of the starting points for releasing those injuctions, and finding our freedom /episode/index/show/eaa3ba99-cf15-405e-a9a6-dfb9575171a4/id/39219100

Rafe Nauen Academy update 10/24/2025

Rafe Nauen Academy update This episode explains how it is worthwhile doing just 2 days training in constellation work, some of what you will learn and how the training operates. /episode/index/show/eaa3ba99-cf15-405e-a9a6-dfb9575171a4/id/38767100

Clara's Story 09/17/2025

Clara's Story I have written a little story based on true facts that gives an insight into the sort of journey hany of the participants ina Family Constellation workshop will go through. Clara (name changed) presented with an issue around repeating patterns in her journey through life. The constellation helped to unpick that thread! /episode/index/show/eaa3ba99-cf15-405e-a9a6-dfb9575171a4/id/38251710

What to expect on the training 09/16/2025

What to expect on the training At Rafe Nauen Academy I teach the constellation model to coaches, trainers, healers, therapists, counsellors, psychologists and others. The 2 day workshop is designed to add to the work you already do, not replace any of it. You will get and accredited certificate, and you'll be able to add it to your repertoire immediately /episode/index/show/eaa3ba99-cf15-405e-a9a6-dfb9575171a4/id/38237995

A chat about Epigenetics 09/12/2025

A chat about Epigenetics This episode explores the subject of epigenetics in terms of its impact on the listener from all the ancestral load up to now! /episode/index/show/eaa3ba99-cf15-405e-a9a6-dfb9575171a4/id/38195600

Rafe Nauen Academy launch 08/21/2025

Rafe Nauen Academy launch Rafe Nauen Academy launches - this episode explains what it does, and why. It will give you an idea of what to expect and how it would help your own practice especially if you are a therapist or healer. We pick up influences (epigenetics) on the whole route of our journey. Some of those things will be amazing (the gift of life) and some will be far less useful. Family Constellations therapy gives you the tools to reassign those influences so that they all serve you better /episode/index/show/eaa3ba99-cf15-405e-a9a6-dfb9575171a4/id/37901945

Who is the expert? 07/08/2025

Who is the expert? When we go for psychotherapy we believe the expert in the room is the practitioner - after all they have spent years studying and practicing. The constellation model is different. The client has ALL the data for the journey to this moment - even the thousands of years before they were born. The job of the facilitator is to tease out the nuances and hidden dynamics so that they come into clear sight without any prejudice or judgement. /episode/index/show/eaa3ba99-cf15-405e-a9a6-dfb9575171a4/id/37331870

Why do a Constellation 06/30/2025

Why do a Constellation What happens, and why would you want to go to a family constellation workshop? This episode explores some of the whys and wherefores that suggest a Constellation may help you to live life more easily, without the burdens of the past /episode/index/show/eaa3ba99-cf15-405e-a9a6-dfb9575171a4/id/37220465

Another Self 06/17/2025

Another Self Following on from the Netflix series Another Self - a Turkish series about family drama with a constellation in each episode. Rafe Nauen has been running constellation workshops for over 20 years and this series exemplifies the modality. This episode explains what is going, a bit of the how, and a bit of the why! /episode/index/show/eaa3ba99-cf15-405e-a9a6-dfb9575171a4/id/37040350

What are you hiding? 05/29/2025

What are you hiding? We all hide some stuff! but in this episode I recognise that sometimes that can lead to holding values that hurt us or our families, and that the Family Constellatiuon model can help us safely review all that "stuff" /episode/index/show/eaa3ba99-cf15-405e-a9a6-dfb9575171a4/id/36771050

It Didn’t Start With You: Understanding the Power of Constellations 05/15/2025

It Didn’t Start With You: Understanding the Power of Constellations In this episode, Rafe explores the often-asked question: What is a constellation, and why would someone choose to do one? Through personal insight and professional experience, Rafe unpacks the profound impact of inherited emotional patterns—those invisible threads passed down through generations that shape our lives in unexpected ways. From feelings of not being good enough to repeating relationship struggles, we often carry burdens that aren’t truly ours. Family Constellations offer a respectful and revealing way to bring these hidden dynamics to light. Rafe explains how this process works, what participants can expect, and how unresolved ancestral experiences—like early deaths, miscarriages, or unspoken grief—can echo through our lives until they are acknowledged and integrated. Whether you're curious about systemic healing, or wondering how your past might be influencing your present, this episode offers a compassionate and eye-opening introduction to the transformative power of constellations. /episode/index/show/eaa3ba99-cf15-405e-a9a6-dfb9575171a4/id/36576295

More about Epigenetics and DNA 04/22/2025

More about Epigenetics and DNA It turns out that the precursor cells for male sperm and female eggs can carry significant epigenetic coding on the noncode parts of DNA from 2 or three generations. The egg is complete by the time the mother is born, but the male precursor cells don't start producing sperm till after puberty, and therefore any traumatic experience of the long male may get included in the epigenetic elements by the time the sperm is created. It takes about 4-6 weeks for sperm to be made from precursor cells so, any traumas along the way can get added in, whereas in the female, the precursor cells are redundant by 5 months into the mother's pregnancy /episode/index/show/eaa3ba99-cf15-405e-a9a6-dfb9575171a4/id/36261110

Do you need t be ill? 04/16/2025

Do you need t be ill? Sometimes we grow up with big chunks of stuff missing, like being seen, or the feeling of love. What sometimes happens is that a symptom, or disease becomes the definition and empathy and sympathy from others appears as a poor relation to love. That can keep us ill - the term secondary gain means the added value to your feeling of life from being dis-eased or ill. /episode/index/show/eaa3ba99-cf15-405e-a9a6-dfb9575171a4/id/36185145

How many parents have you got? 03/28/2025

How many parents have you got? If you were adopted, you have at least 3 parents - and possibly many more! Epigentics teaches us that parenthood is laregly driven by epigenetics not just DNA (I share 60% of my DNA with a banana but little or no epigenetics) So if you were adopted, see ALL of the parents as just that - Parents Epigenetics covers the signals and proteins that every cell, and structure receives. The signals and proteins dictate how the cell develops and changes. Many adopted children feel they need to choose - they do not! /episode/index/show/eaa3ba99-cf15-405e-a9a6-dfb9575171a4/id/35903805

Adoption and Epigenetics 03/18/2025

Adoption and Epigenetics The parenting of children is a complex business and adopted children may have a number of actual parents - not DNA driven, but epigenetically driven. Thus children sometimes look more like their adoptive parents than their birth parents. Strange but true. /episode/index/show/eaa3ba99-cf15-405e-a9a6-dfb9575171a4/id/35744410

Contracts 03/17/2025

Contracts You may find you have contracted to be a certain way, have a certain personality for your whole life - even inadvertently - this is a method to extract yourself from those contracts! /episode/index/show/eaa3ba99-cf15-405e-a9a6-dfb9575171a4/id/35721900

Advanced Family Constellation Training 02/26/2025

Advanced Family Constellation Training what can you gain from training in constellation work? and how is the advanced training different? /episode/index/show/eaa3ba99-cf15-405e-a9a6-dfb9575171a4/id/35438670

Trust and Forgiveness 02/13/2025

Trust and Forgiveness Who can you trust? - My belief is that the only person who you need to trust 100% is yourself. Everything else, everyone else is a compromise. And never forgive anyone! - Just hand whatever it is back to them! - listen the Ho'oponopono podcast - asking for forgiveness is a very different matter /episode/index/show/eaa3ba99-cf15-405e-a9a6-dfb9575171a4/id/35268860

Living in a changing world 01/09/2025

Living in a changing world Many things have changed since I was born, and some we are in control of and like, and some we are not and don't! Many many neuro diverse people found out late in life that they were ND because up to then they had been masking. So what are the bits of being a human being as opposed to a human doing that have affected you, and what bits do you still need to hand back because they never really belonged to you! /episode/index/show/eaa3ba99-cf15-405e-a9a6-dfb9575171a4/id/34789325

Grief - what are appropriate emotions? 01/09/2025

Grief - what are appropriate emotions? When someone close dies, the emotions range from sadness, anger, hate, anxiety, shame, guilt, and last but not least relief! What to do if all you feel is relief - listen in! /episode/index/show/eaa3ba99-cf15-405e-a9a6-dfb9575171a4/id/34670840

Core Beliefs good and bad! 12/31/2024

Core Beliefs good and bad! As we move into another year, I am refelcting oin some of the core beliefs I was brought up with and seeing how even the negative ones have helped me with life's journey /episode/index/show/eaa3ba99-cf15-405e-a9a6-dfb9575171a4/id/34668265

Training with Rafe 12/06/2024

Training with Rafe I periodically run training weekends and the sort of feedback I get is "Following the training weekend I have found myself being more curious about the hidden dynamics in all sorts of situations and gaining a better understanding of what might be going on "behind the scenes". It aims to enable a therapist or coach for example to simple enter their clients ancestral field to help them establish where some of the hidden dynamics they have inherited, belong. If you have a group of therapists etc who would like to train, I am very happy to travel to work in your space. I also set weekends up in Derby /episode/index/show/eaa3ba99-cf15-405e-a9a6-dfb9575171a4/id/34315355

Zero Budget 11/18/2024

Zero Budget If something has happened in life that makes you want to re-evaluate, then I recommend the Zero Budget! Its starting from scratch - what do I need in my life right now? and that question will revela the difference between how you are and how you want to be. If that means dealing with the hidden dynamics, call me! /episode/index/show/eaa3ba99-cf15-405e-a9a6-dfb9575171a4/id/33973802

Triggers 11/15/2024

Triggers What can we do when we get triggered by certain events or even words? We can continually find something takes us back to a trauma in the past - even decades or more, and we find ourselves hurt (again) or upset. This episode asks you to challenge the triggers, or do some work on what started it all off in the first place. Family Constellation Therapy is fantastic at underpinning current experience to past events and enabling a simple understanding of where things belong. /episode/index/show/eaa3ba99-cf15-405e-a9a6-dfb9575171a4/id/33943502

Memories - where do we store them? 10/21/2024

Memories - where do we store them? We have 2 memory stores, cognitive and body/cell. How do we assess which one is dominant? How do we validate? /episode/index/show/eaa3ba99-cf15-405e-a9a6-dfb9575171a4/id/33543677

Xmas DNA Tests 10/04/2024

Xmas DNA Tests dna tests can reveal uncomfortable secrets sometimes, so I urge you look at the whole family system too! Go ahead with the test BUT I recommend doing a constellation alongside it! /episode/index/show/eaa3ba99-cf15-405e-a9a6-dfb9575171a4/id/33327342

Inheritance 08/02/2024

Inheritance We inherit stuff!! we all do - form the generations behind us, and some may be unknown in our cognitive thinking brain, but is certainly not unknown in our body. Putting that "stuff" back where it belongs relieves us of the burden we have thusfar carried. If you need to contact me, go to and click Contact /episode/index/show/eaa3ba99-cf15-405e-a9a6-dfb9575171a4/id/32396617

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