Empowered Marriage
Join the unique Helen Harrison from Power of Change Counselling for genuine and open life conversations about relationships, love and marriage.
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Maintaining a Happy Marriage after Kids
11/01/2023
Maintaining a Happy Marriage after Kids
Women are you feeling unseen, on eggshells and unsupported? Men are you feeling rejected, overworked and you’re pulling away? Maintaining a happy marriage after having kids can be challenging, but it's possible with some effort and knowledge as to what’s needed. Many couples fear the marriage ending as they are just not connecting as they used to, the intimacy has broken down. A lot of resentment can be building and pulling away seems the only answer. In this podcast, you’ll identify your top 3 next steps to move you out of the slump you are both in. 1. Communication is King and Queen 2. Regular Check-In with your King or Queen 3. Willingness to get back on your throne Remember that it's normal for a relationship to go through ups and downs, especially when children are involved. The key is to approach these challenges together, with love, respect, and a commitment to working through them as a team. I support people to CHANGE, to design their best lives and relationships. Counselling, Marriage Therapy and Empowerment Coaching -
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Does Marriage therapy really work?
10/04/2023
Does Marriage therapy really work?
Are you wondering if marriage therapy is worth your time, money and effort? Have you thought that perhaps your relationship is too far gone so it won’t work? If you are the slightest bit interested and willing and you know regret is a terrible thing, then this podcast is for you. I’ve recognised working with hundreds of couples that this is very common and taking time to understand your own feelings and the relationship is a critical step in ascertaining if therapy is for you. Recognising you may have a stigma, scepticism, and a lack of trust in the whole process. Having a realistic and open view to therapy can be very helpful and cheaper than a divorce. 🌟Do you have a fear of being vulnerable and the idea of sharing feelings and thoughts is uncomfortable? 🌟Are you a couple that are denying the extent of your problems believing they will resolve themselves? 🌟Do you have a fear of change? Therapy can create change which can be intimidating and scary. In this podcast you’ll identify your top 3 steps to approach marriage therapy with sensitivity, respect, and open communication. I support people to CHANGE, to design their best lives and relationships. Counselling, Coaching and online programs - Check out IGNITE an online program for couples to ignite their spark in their relationship. Simply download the Power of Change app, it's available in your App Store.
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Navigate rejection in your Marriage
09/06/2023
Navigate rejection in your Marriage
Do you struggle with the recurring patterns of rejection particularly in the bedroom? Have you numbed your feelings down, or exited from your body due to the fear of rejection? Recognising what is happening for you is number one. Handling rejection in marriage can be challenging, but it's essential to address it constructively to maintain a healthy and fulfilling relationship. 🌟Do you have an understanding and a connection with your emotions or is it all a bit blurred and numb? 🌟Are you confused and worried and stuck in the mind trying to work out why you're feeling rejection? 🌟Do you see sex closely linked to your self-worth and when you are rejected you take it very personally? In this podcast, you’ll identify your top 4 steps to approach this rejection with sensitivity, respect, and open communication. Remember, every relationship is unique, and what works for one couple may not work for another. It's important to approach these suggestions with an open mind and adapt them to fit your specific circumstances and relationship dynamics. I support people to CHANGE, to design their best lives and relationships. Check out IGNITE an online program for couples to ignite their spark in their relationship. Simply download the Power of Change app it's available in your App Store.
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Are you no longer attracted to your partner?
08/02/2023
Are you no longer attracted to your partner?
If you're no longer attracted to your partner and have not shared this with anyone including your partner, it can be very scary and daunting. Recognizing what is happening for you is number one. 🌟Are there specific issues in the relationship or external factors impacting your feelings? 🌟Do you have clarity about your own emotions, which is important before taking any action? 🌟Are you confused and worried and stuck in the mind trying to work it out? 🌟Do you say yes to sex but do it to please your partner and very terrible after? In this podcast, you’ll identify your top 5 steps to approach this sensitive situation with sensitivity, respect, and open communication. 1. Get the conversation happening 2. Get to the root of what’s really going on 3. Ignite the spark you once had 4. Don’t leave it too late 5. Don’t lie to yourself If you're worried that you're no longer attracted to your partner, then this podcast will have nuggets of gold for you, happy panning. I support people to CHANGE, to design their best lives and relationships. Counselling, Coaching and online program.
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Do you want more sex and intimacy in your marriage
07/05/2023
Do you want more sex and intimacy in your marriage
Would you like to identify your barriers to sex and intimacy? Are you worried and unsure what the future holds for you in your relationship? Begin to talk openly and honestly with your partner about your desires, needs, and expectations. Discuss what you both enjoy in the bedroom and what you'd like to explore. In this podcast, you’ll identify 5 principles to begin improving intimacy and sex 🌟 Identify your underlying barriers to sex and intimacy 🌟 How to Discover the love you once had 🌟 Essential Elements to Nourish your sex life 🌟 Engage in touch intentionally 🌟 Learn how to turn yourself on If you're facing challenges in your sexual or intimate life, listening to this podcast could be a game-changer! Remember, every relationship is unique, and what works for one couple may not work for another. It's essential to approach these suggestions with an open mind and adapt them to fit your specific circumstances and relationship dynamics. I support people to CHANGE, to design their best lives and relationships. Counselling, Coaching and online program. Check out IGNITE an online program for couples to ignite their spark in their relationship. Download the Power of Change app in your favourite App Store
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Do you ever wonder - How do I talk to my partner?
06/08/2023
Do you ever wonder - How do I talk to my partner?
If you’re struggling with trusting your partner, you have a fear of conflict or differences in communication styles this podcast is for you. Over the last 15 years in business, I’ve discovered over and over that communication is the number one downfall in relationships. If you keep all your feelings inside If you overthink and worry If you are losing trust in yourself and your marriage In this podcast, you’ll identify 5 principles to begin talking to your partner 🌟 Identify your underlying barriers 🌟 How to Discover the secret garden of Eden 🌟 Essential Ingredients to Nourish your relationship 🌟 The eye-in-the-mirror technique 🌟 Soft and cuddly like a bear Being patient, understanding, and willing to work in your relationship together to improve your communication skills is KEY. I support people to CHANGE, to design their best lives and relationships. Visit my website -
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From Stress to Love
05/04/2023
From Stress to Love
Do you feel stressed a lot of the time? Find it difficult to feel a connection with your partner? The little-known ways to go from stress to love and know how you can open yourself up to connect with your partner and feel closer. I get it. Every relationship goes through its ups and downs, rather like a roller coaster. Is this you? · You feel unsafe, on edge, overwhelmed, out of control · Not able to make clear decisions · You don't feel able to manage your life · Often you don't even feel safe in your body · Beliefs that the world is dangerous and threatening to harm you · In your relationship you feel defensive · You don't feel like you can connect with other people Begin to do the work, cultivate awareness, and go from stress to love · Learn how to be a witness to yourself · Be curious and slow down enough to notice When your body is stressed it affects everything! · From the way we think and believe about the world · How we operate in it · In our relationships When you develop awareness, you can begin to extend compassion to yourself. Being able to return to a peaceful baseline where our stress is no longer activated. Learn the 6 ways to go from Stress to Love I support people to CHANGE, to design their best lives and relationships. Counselling, Coaching and online program. Check out IGNITE an online program for couples to ignite their spark in their relationship. Download the Power of Change app in the App Store.
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Is your Marriage a Priority?
04/13/2023
Is your Marriage a Priority?
It’s all too easy to fall into conversational patterns - you talk about work, talk about kids, and what you’ve done. Have you stopped making marriage a priority because it’s got all too hard? Off into the woods off into the past, drama and courtroom. If your marriage is not a priority, a breakdown of the relationship can occur and you’re like two ships passing in the night. Listen to the 6 Ways to Make Your Marriage a Priority Start having important conversations and talk about the little stuff and about the elephant in the room. Do it even though it is hard. I support people to CHANGE, to design their best lives and relationships. Counselling, Coaching and online program. Check out IGNITE an online program for couples to ignite their spark in their relationship. Download the Power of Change app, you can find it in the App store or on Google Play.
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The Pursuer and Distancer dance in Marriage
03/30/2023
The Pursuer and Distancer dance in Marriage
Are you always running to your partner for help? If a text or call doesn’t come in, you worry and you think something is wrong. If you answered yes, you could perhaps be the pursuer. The pursuer will frequently seek togetherness, quality time, attention, and affection from their partner. However, the distancer responds to this by withdrawing and seeking space which leaves the pursuer in an anxious, sometimes desperate, state. A problem occurs only when a pattern of pursuing and distancing becomes fixed. When this happens, the behaviour of each partner provokes and maintains the behaviour of the other." Learn 6 ways how to unhook the pursuer and distancer dance in Marriage. We all bring our own pasts, emotions, attachment styles, anxieties, and insecurities to a relationship. However, if we can make an effort with ourselves and understand ourselves and our partner and their differences, we can develop happier and more loving relationships. I support people to CHANGE, to design their best lives and relationships. Counselling, Coaching and online program. Check out IGNITE an online program for couples to ignite the spark in their relationship. Download the Power of Change app available in the Apple App Store or Google Play.
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How do you change your life?
03/15/2023
How do you change your life?
Do you find yourself doing the same thing like: Overworking Not making yourself a priority Spending too much money Staying in an unhealthy relationship Drinking too much A lot of people want to change but find themselves doing the same thing over and over again. If this has been your cycle, you are not alone. There are 3 reasons why you may repeat the same behaviours. By understanding the 3 reasons and beginning a new practice you will develop intuition. Your body will start to tell you when it’s tired or needs more attention and care. Your mind will tell you when it’s stressed or balanced. Living from the head, heart and gut will help you change and design a life that aligns with your values. I support people to CHANGE, to design their best lives and relationships. Counselling, Coaching and online program. Check out IGNITE an online program for couples to ignite their spark in their relationship. Download the Power of Change app in the Apple or Google store.
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Running on Autopilot in your Marriage
03/02/2023
Running on Autopilot in your Marriage
Do you feel like you’re being taken for granted? Your way down the list in your partner's priorities? You can’t remember the last time you had quality time together. You could be running on autopilot. A marriage on autopilot is predictable, stale and loses spark and desire. The moment you hit autopilot in your marriage and your focus shifts to something else, your marriage becomes damaged. Find out what you must do to prevent this autopilot in your marriage. Turn Off Autopilot for Good. I support people in developing skills to design their best lives and relationships. Counselling, Coaching and online programs - Check out IGNITE an online program for couples to ignite their spark in their relationship. Download the Power of Change app in your App store today.
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Heal Relationship Triggers
02/20/2023
Heal Relationship Triggers
Do you find yourself easily triggered by your partner’s actions or tone? Perhaps he or she really did something offensive, or maybe that’s just how you perceived it. Do you feel disconnected, unsupported, lonely, and unsafe sharing and communicating what you are feeling? Sometimes, you don’t even understand why you’re upset and it’s not getting easier, it’s getting harder. Triggers are letting you know you have unhealed wounds that need attention, and these came from your childhood. Deeper intimate relationships serve a deeper purpose, and they are here to teach you emotional healing and spiritual development. You learn so much more about yourself in a relationship than you could on your own. Reparenting is needed or otherwise known as inner child work and this is the act of giving yourself what you didn’t receive as a child. (Not looking at your partner to give this to you) Learn what the 5 Steps to Begin Reparenting are. I support people in developing skills to improve their lives and their relationships. Counselling, Coaching and online programs.
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What's a Healthy Relationship
02/01/2023
What's a Healthy Relationship
How do you know if your relationship is healthy? You respect each other, trust one another, communicate well as a couple, you’re both committed to the relationship, you are kind to each other, you enjoy each other’s company, you support each other’s goals, you make decisions together, and you feel supported and cared. There are many areas that make up a healthy relationship and I will give you some ideas to reflect on your own relationship and what you can do differently. Love each other. Fight for each other. Remember, love is never easy, and it’s one hell of a ride. And it’s so worth it! I support people to develop skills to improve their lives and their relationships. Counselling, Coaching and online programs.
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Goal Setting in Marriage is Essential
01/18/2023
Goal Setting in Marriage is Essential
I watch firsthand the breakdown of relationships as couples stop planning together, and communicating together and in time it’s too far to come back from. If you’ve lost your spark and are feeling disconnected and frustrated about the state of your relationship, but want to avoid separation and/or divorce, then opening up the conversation is crucial. If you’re wanting more intimacy in your marriage, it’s important to have shared goals. When you share goals, you agree on the most important things that you want for each other and for your marriage as a team. This creates emotional intimacy which leads to physical intimacy. Having effective communication and knowing how to resolve conflict will support you in creating shared goals. 10 types/areas of shared goals to help your marriage get stronger, work together is essential. These will help you talk about issues that are important to you both and open up opportunities for dreaming about your future together which brings in closeness and connection.
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From Lonely to Loving in your Marriage
01/04/2023
From Lonely to Loving in your Marriage
There is no longer any fun, connection, sex, or closeness, and you’re lonely and stuck in your marriage. You are tired of it and not sure how to change it. You’ve been married for two years, five years, fifteen years, or 25 years? This podcast gives you 8 terrific, down-to-earth ways to bring back some life into your intimate relationship. Giving your relationship the priority and time, it needs to ignite and get the spark back. Suppose you’ve lost your spark, and are feeling disconnected, and frustrated about the state of your relationship, but want to avoid separation and/or divorce. In that case, opening up the conversation is crucial. This podcast will give you some ideas to build a happier, healthier marriage and relationship filled with passion, desire, and fun.
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Want more Intimacy and Sex in your Relationship?
12/21/2022
Want more Intimacy and Sex in your Relationship?
Let’s take the rose-coloured glasses off and talk about sex and the intimacy needed for sexual intimacy which combines the physical act of sex with emotional closeness and trust. What you want and what is reality can be very different and the myths you tell yourself to keep you looping in your head (your drama cycle) like: My partner should know what I want My partner should know how I feel Sex should be spontaneous Men want sex all the time Women don't like sex Myths can create a lot of pain and a breakdown of communication in your relationship. This episode gives you a Place to Start. Become Curious which leads to Conversations which leads to Connection which leads to Closeness. A powerful exercise involving the Ideal World and the Actual World, the good-enough world. I have seen couples take their relationship from little sex and disconnect to a close, strong, loving, intimate relationship with regular sex. Intimacy is very closely linked to sex and if you want more sex there needs to be more conversations and communication that create intimacy. At the end of the day, getting the sex life and intimacy you want in your relationship is up to you.
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How to Fix the 3 Biggest Mistakes in Marriage
12/07/2022
How to Fix the 3 Biggest Mistakes in Marriage
You may be in a relationship where you’re like 2 boats passing in the night, or two housemates with little emotional and intimate connection and the communication has broken down. Perhaps you are lonely and not sure where to begin to bring your relationship back to life. You didn’t wake up one day and just decide, "I’m not that into my partner anymore". You want to ignite the spark and feel a closer connection again. Communication is vital for a relationship. Blaming, attacking, criticizing, and accusing is aggressive communication and sadly very common. All couples have differences and disagreements. Happy couples do not avoid disagreements Understanding how your past impacts your present relationship, and how to make it work for you rather than against you is important. This podcast will give you some ideas as to how to improve your relationship with yourself and your partner.
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When Will You put Yourself First
11/23/2022
When Will You put Yourself First
It is so important to remember that you are important in your marriage. You are not less than your partner, and you are not there to serve them. I know it can be easy to get caught up in making sure your partner is happy and comfortable, but you have to make sure that you are happy and comfortable too. It is so important to take care of yourself and to put yourself first sometimes. If you don't, you will end up resentful and unhappy. Make sure that you schedule some time for yourself, even if it's just a half hour every day to do something that you enjoy. It doesn't have to be anything big or expensive, just something that makes you happy. Taking care of yourself is not selfish, it's necessary. If you're happy and healthy, you will be able to be a better wife and a better partner overall. So don't forget to put yourself first sometimes, it's important for your marriage! One of the most important things to understand in marriage is what your needs are. Everyone is different, so it's vital to spend time getting to know yourself and your own needs. Only then can you start to communicate these needs to your partner. It's important to remember that needs can change over time, so it's an ongoing process. If you take the time to understand your needs, you will be in a much better position to create a happy and fulfilling marriage. Don't be afraid to talk about your needs with your partner - communication is key! Email for the pdf Dynamic Wheel of your Needs. Understand the 24 areas of your life: Primary relationship, Fun and recreation, Confidence, Health and fitness, Esteem, and Friends to name a few. Get full show notes and more information here:
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How to Have Empowerment in Your Marriage - Pillar Six
11/10/2022
How to Have Empowerment in Your Marriage - Pillar Six
Discover the tools and shifts that will allow you to take your vision for your marriage and develop the Empowered Marriage you dream of. I’m sharing where to put your focus, and what needs to change so you create your ideal marriage now and into the future. The 6 Pillars is proven over and over to create the relationships and empowered life you have always dreamed of. My unique system is integral to the success of your journey. Finding your voice, and reclaiming your power with a set of tools for you to create your ideal marriage and the life your wildest thoughts dream of. Pillar 6 How to Have Empowerment in your Marriage This Pillar is the sixth instalment of a 6-part series in helping make positive choices moment by moment connecting with your head, heart, and gut. Being confident in your ability to make decisions that are aligned with your values. Learning to acknowledge your strengths and weakness and being motivated to learn and achieve. Using this Pillar in your relationships, you will be able to: To say No and not need to apologise or feel guilty Speak up when something upsets you, at the time Make a decision and own it without self-doubt Not taking responsibility on of your partner's feelings Live a life full of peace and harmony, knowing how to handle your feelings in a relationship. Get full show notes and more information here:
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How to Have Self-Acceptance in Your Marriage - Pillar Five
10/26/2022
How to Have Self-Acceptance in Your Marriage - Pillar Five
Discover the tools and shifts that will allow you to take your vision for your marriage and develop the Empowered Marriage you dream of. I’m sharing where to put your focus, and what needs to change so you create your ideal marriage now and into the future. The 6 Pillars is proven over and over to create the relationships and empowered life you have always dreamed of. My unique system is integral to the success of your journey. Finding your voice, and reclaiming your power with a set of tools for you to create your ideal marriage and the life your wildest thoughts dream of. Pillar Five: Growing Self-Acceptance Growing self-acceptance is not easy. You may believe you accept yourself but, in your heart and mind, you judge, criticize, blame, second-guess everything you do and every decision you make. You can be tempted to avoid noticing these internal self-rejecting messages by binge-watching TV, overeating snacks, shopping, overworking, drinking or doing drugs too much. And you are not alone…most people are doing this, daily. It becomes a habit we do not notice. Learn to truly accept and love yourself despite your perceived shortcomings. Transform how you think of yourself moment-to-moment, so you are living from an empowered place in all your relationships. Get full show notes and more information here:
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How to Have Nurturing Forgiveness in your Marriage - Pillar Four
10/12/2022
How to Have Nurturing Forgiveness in your Marriage - Pillar Four
Discover the tools and shifts that will allow you to take your vision for your marriage and develop the Empowered Marriage you dream of. I’m sharing where to put your focus, and what needs to change so you create your ideal marriage now and into the future. The 6 Pillars is proven over and over to create the relationships and empowered life you have always dreamed of. My unique system is integral to the success of your journey. Finding your voice, and reclaiming your power with a set of tools for you to create your ideal marriage and the life your wildest thoughts dream of. Pillar 4 - How to Nurture Forgiveness in your Marriage This Pillar is the fourth instalment of a 6-part series in helping you take care of yourself in the face of other people’s needs that pull on you. How do you forgive someone who has betrayed you? Cheated on You? Abused You? Left You? The list could go on and on. Of the 6 Pillars, this is the hardest one for most because forgiveness is equal to forgiving another’s behaviour. Forgiveness is the pillar of the journey to finding peace and serenity. Get full show notes and more information here:
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How to Have Assertiveness in your Marriage - Pillar Three
09/28/2022
How to Have Assertiveness in your Marriage - Pillar Three
Discover the tools and shifts that will allow you to take your vision for your marriage and develop the Empowered Marriage you dream of. I’m sharing where to put your focus, and what needs to change so you create your ideal marriage now and into the future. The 6 Pillars is proven over and over to create the relationships and empowered life you have always dreamed of. My unique system is integral to the success of your journey. Finding your voice, and reclaiming your power with a set of tools for you to create your ideal marriage and the life your wildest thoughts dream of. Pillar Three: Assertiveness This Pillar is the third instalment of a 6-part series in helping recognise manipulation and it’s important to recognize how to stop tolerating this. Your lack of assertiveness is it affecting your self-confidence? Is it damaging the balance of power in your relationship? Get full show notes and more information here:
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How to Have Healthy Boundaries in your Marriage - Pillar Two
09/15/2022
How to Have Healthy Boundaries in your Marriage - Pillar Two
Discover the tools and shifts that will allow you to take your vision for your marriage and develop the Empowered Marriage you dream of. I’m sharing where to put your focus, and what needs to change so you create your ideal marriage now and into the future. The 6 Pillars is proven over and over to create the relationships and empowered life you have always dreamed of. My unique system is integral to the success of your journey. Finding your voice, and reclaiming your power with a set of tools for you to create your ideal marriage and the life your wildest thoughts dream of. Pillar Two: Healthy Boundaries This Pillar is the second instalment of a 6-part series in helping you set boundaries in your relationship. Is there anxiety and fear your partner will reject you? Are you walking on eggshells trying to keep the other person from being angry? Do you know what your core values are? Get full show notes and more information here:
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How to Care for Yourself in Your Marriage - Pillar One
09/01/2022
How to Care for Yourself in Your Marriage - Pillar One
Discover the tools and shifts that will allow you to take your vision for your marriage and develop the Empowered Marriage you dream of. I’m sharing where to put your focus, and what needs to change so you create your ideal marriage now and into the future. The 6 Pillars is proven over and over to create the relationships and empowered life you have always dreamed of. My unique system is integral to the success of your journey. Finding your voice, and reclaiming your power with a set of tools for you to create your ideal marriage and the life your wildest thoughts dream of. Pillar One: Care of Yourself This Pillar is the first instalment of a 6-part series in helping you take care of yourself in the face of other people's needs that pull on you. What’s under you not taking care of yourself? Why do you not make your self-care a priority? How would you begin to take care of yourself? Get full show notes and more information here:
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Navigating Equality in Marriage and Business
08/17/2022
Navigating Equality in Marriage and Business
Cathy Young went from working for her husband to working with him, alongside him as a partner. After 37 years of marriage, not an easy transition to do successfully. Cathy talks about how they navigate different viewpoints, how they do conflict resolution and the discussions they have that brings them back to their WHY. Where are we headed in creating our ideal lifestyle? Where are we headed as a couple? What do we want out of life? What’s our final goal? Cathy and her husband are part of Trusted Advisor Networks which supports people to create their ideal business, whatever that is for them with coaching and leadership development to support their ideal lifestyle. Cathy walks the talk and it’s a very refreshing uplifting conversation for anyone in business who wants to create a lifestyle that will support their family in their ideal life. And who doesn’t want that!! PODCAST NOTES Cathy Young -
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Heal Your Trauma for a Healthy Marriage
08/03/2022
Heal Your Trauma for a Healthy Marriage
Do you feel stuck in your life and in your marriage? Are you reactive and get angry or shut down easily? Unresolved trauma can make you feel like this. You lash out at your partner or shut down. To feel calm and peaceful, happy and healthy you must know you deserve this and are worthy of this. This ultimately leads to a happy healthy marriage/relationship. You must be Willing to Heal. The desire to feel better can be your best ally on the road to recovery. Find Support In Your Relationship. Seek The Assistance of Trained Professionals i.e. Marriage Counselling Practice Meditation and Mindfulness. Incorporate Movement Into Your Daily Routine. Taking responsibility to heal your own trauma is crucial. Even if you’re in a great relationship, it’s likely that you still experience some level of trauma from your past. This can manifest as anxiety and fear, which may cause you to lash out at your partner or feel defensive around them. I believe healing your trauma is an investment for a healthy relationship. Podcast Show Notes
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Trust and Commitment after 43 years
07/20/2022
Trust and Commitment after 43 years
Most of us hope to find that one true love that would stand the test of time and this is the case for Janeen Vosper. In this episode, you will hear Janeen’s words of wisdom and the nuggets of gold that she openly shares. For over 20 years, Janeen Vosper worked as the General Manager of Sales for a successful multi-million-dollar business, coaching high-performing commission-based sales teams. She established her coaching business, Speech Perfect in 2007 to provide the tools to empower people to possess a confident voice of self-belief. Keynote speaker, host of the We Are Women Podcast, and author of two books, Janeen’s coaching includes online training programs, private coaching, and group seminars. Having presented workshops in many countries around the world, Janeen has also represented her country at International speaking contests. If you are feeling disconnected in your relationship this episode of the Empowered Marriage will give you ideas, action steps and a new mindset as to how you may be looking at a problem. Podcast Show Notes https://janeenvosper.com/
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How to Not lose yourself in your Marriage
07/07/2022
How to Not lose yourself in your Marriage
Losing yourself in marriage and relationships is so very common. It’s so important to be self-aware and take time to know yourself. If you don’t know who you are, you won’t know what to look for, what you want out of life, or even out of your relationship. You can’t pour from an empty cup. You must nourish your mind, body and spirit. Committing to yourself means living by the values that bring you joy, purpose and healthy relationships allow space for this. I believe that to live in peace, is by living moment to moment with no judgement. You are having a commitment with yourself first so you are the best version in your marriage. Listen to find out the 10 Top ways to Self-Commitment with yourself for a healthy marriage Podcast Show Notes
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Secrets to a 30-year marriage
06/22/2022
Secrets to a 30-year marriage
You may know Julie Mason as the business owner, a successful Accountability Coach, mentor, and one of the top LinkedIn sales strategists in the world. Meet Julie the wife of 30 years, and a mum of a fur baby. A personal insight into how she shows up in her marriage. A very honest discussion of the ups and downs of marriage like so many of us grapple with. Julie shares her tools, mindset, intentions and practical ways she has been able to journey through her marriage. Julie and her husband are two very different people as Julie is an extrovert and Greg an introvert. Julie talks about the years it’s taken her to understand and accept her husband just as he is and try not to change him. Julie explains that communication is the key to a happy loving relationship of 30 years. Early on in Julie's relationship, she discovered the 3 Types of relationships and that was something they both live by. Julie shares personal insights into her marriage, including her diagnosis, her therapy, when they drifted apart and the distrust that was beginning to show, and what they did about this. If you’re wondering how to better communicate with your partner, give yourself space, ask yourself quality questions, understand, respect and not change your partner then this insightful chat is for you. Whether you are male or female, in a new relationship or in a long-term marriage I know you’ll learn something about yourself and/or your partner. SHOW NOTES
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The Signs Your Marriage Will Last
06/09/2022
The Signs Your Marriage Will Last
Getting into a successful relationship isn’t easy, and maintaining one isn’t either. There are many factors that come into play when trying to determine whether your marriage/relationship will last, but there are some universal traits to look out for so you can have the best chance of staying together long-term. Here are the 7 signs your marriage/relationship will last: Does he/she get you? Open communication You have boundaries You can laugh at and with each other You share the same values and vision for the future Are you friends first? You own your stuff, your baggage Not all baggage comes in big black suitcases. Many couples bring along unresolved issues from their childhood or previous relationships. If you can identify and own those issues, you can take steps toward healing them or resolving them, this not only makes a healthy relationship possible, but it's also one that could last a lifetime. Show Notes
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