Enjoying Your Blended Family
Welcome to Enjoying Your Blended Family! We bring new episodes every Monday and Friday. Mondays are on hot topics in blended families and Fridays are all about fun ideas you can do with your blended family. This podcast is all about strengthening your blended family relationships and having more fun, giving you hope and encouragement so everyone is enjoying the journey together.
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239. Looking for the Best in Your Husband (Summer Book Series | Part 2)
08/01/2024
239. Looking for the Best in Your Husband (Summer Book Series | Part 2)
In this episode, Jamee from Make it a Date joins me to discuss the importance of looking for the good in your husband. Connect with her here Join me for the next few weeks as we read our way through the book, Loving Him Well by Gary Thomas. This book will discuss some pretty serious issues, so be cautious if the kids are around. You might not be in such a bad place as some of the things we talk about, but it goes to show even in the worst of situations, there is hope. I'd love to hear from you if you are following along. Stepfamily Jumpstart Get Out Pass: Code "BFAM" for the best price.
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238. How to Love Your Husband Well in a Blended Family (Summer Book Series)
07/03/2024
238. How to Love Your Husband Well in a Blended Family (Summer Book Series)
As Randall and I have been moving in and out of this empty-nester season, we have found it hard to prioritize each other. When we don't prioritize each other, the enemy can and will use it to cause division. I don't know about you, but I do not want a roommate for a husband, where we barely get to see each other much less have intimate conversations. We are both to blame for putting other things above our relationship. Join me for the next few weeks as we read our way through the book, Loving Him Well by Gary Thomas. This book is going to discuss some pretty serious issues, so be cautious if the kids are around. You might not be in such a bad place as some of the things we talk about, but it shows that even in the worst of situations, there is hope. I'd love to hear from you if you are following along. Stepfamily Jumpstart Get Out Pass: Code "BFAM" for the best price.
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237. Parenting Adult Kids in a Blended Family and Life Update
06/28/2024
237. Parenting Adult Kids in a Blended Family and Life Update
This episode is really all about our current struggles. I thought I would share them with you because you might be walking through this season now or in the future. Even everyday life issues affect us differently in a blended family. We just want you to know, you are not alone! We want you to have your best Summer yet with your blended family this year, whether with your whole family or strengthening the relationships you can access. We know how it feels to be cut off from those you love. The good news is that we created something to help. We took what helped us connect and reconnect with each other and our kids and created the E.N.J.O.Y process. This process not only helped us, but countless other stepfamilies. Over the next 5 weeks, we will post the videos that come straight from the E.N.J.O.Y the Journey Ultimate Guide which goes along with our book How to Enjoy Your Blended Family. This week's video is all about exploring common interests in your stepfamily. We will explain how to find those interests in this video and what to do with them in the future. Check out the resources available so you’ll have them when needed. Private Facebook Group Enjoy the Journey Resource Workbook E.N.J.O.Y. Prayers and Script 5 Family Games Fridge Calendar Family Scripture Get Your Ebook on Amazon Get out Pass Use BFAM for the best discount
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236. Prioritizing Your Blended Family (Part 5 of 5)
06/11/2024
236. Prioritizing Your Blended Family (Part 5 of 5)
We want you to have your best Summer yet with your blended family this year, whether with your whole family or strengthening the relationships you can access. We know how it feels to be cut off from those you love. The good news is that we created something to help. We took what helped us connect and reconnect with each other and our kids and created the E.N.J.O.Y process. This process not only helped us, but countless other stepfamilies. Over the next 5 weeks, we will post the videos that come straight from the which goes along with our book . This week's video is all about exploring common interests in your stepfamily. We will explain how to find those interests in this video and what to do with them in the future. Check out the resources available so you’ll have them when needed. Use BFAM for the best discount
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235. The Blended Family Bucket List (Part 4 of 5)
06/03/2024
235. The Blended Family Bucket List (Part 4 of 5)
235. The Blended Family Bucket List (Part 4 of 5) We want you to have your best Summer yet with your blended family this year, whether with your whole family or strengthening the relationships you can access. We know how it feels to be cut off from those you love. The good news is that we created something to help. We took what helped us connect and reconnect with each other and our kids and created the E.N.J.O.Y process. This process not only helped us, but countless other stepfamilies. Over the next 5 weeks, we will post the videos that come straight from the which goes along with our book . This week's video is all about exploring common interests in your stepfamily. We will explain how to find those interests in this video and what to do with them in the future. Check out the resources available so you’ll have them when needed. Use BFAM for the best discount
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234. The Family Hangout Your Stepfamily Needs (Part 3 of 5)
05/28/2024
234. The Family Hangout Your Stepfamily Needs (Part 3 of 5)
We want you to have your best Summer with your blended family this year, whether with your whole family or strengthening the relationships you can access. We know how it feels to be cut off from those you love. The good news is that we created something to help. We took what helped us connect and reconnect with each other and our kids and made the E.N.J.O.Y process. This process has helped not only us but also countless other stepfamilies. Over the next 5 weeks, we will post the videos that come straight from the which goes along with our book . This week's video is all about exploring common interests in your stepfamily. We will explain how to find those interests in this video and what to do with them in the future. Check out the resources available so you’ll have them when needed. Use BFAM for the best discount
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233. Find Your Couple's Common Interest in Your Stepfamily (Part 2 of 5)
05/20/2024
233. Find Your Couple's Common Interest in Your Stepfamily (Part 2 of 5)
We want you to have your best Summer yet with your blended family this year, whether with your whole family or strengthening the relationships you can access. We know how it feels to be cut off from those you love. The good news is that we created something to help. We took what helped us connect and reconnect with each other and our kids and created the E.N.J.O.Y process. This process has not only helped us but countless other stepfamilies. Over the next 5 weeks, we will post the videos that come straight from the E.N.J.O.Y the Journey Ultimate Guide which goes along with our book How to Enjoy Your Blended Family. This week's video is all about exploring common interests as a couple. We will explain how to find those interests in this video and what to do with them in the future. Check out the resources available so you’ll have them when needed. Private Facebook Group Enjoy the Journey Resource Workbook E.N.J.O.Y. Prayers and Script 5 Family Games Fridge Calendar Family Scripture Get Your Ebook on Amazon Get out Pass Use BFAM for the best discount
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232. Exploring Common Interest in Your Stepfamily | Part 1 of 5
05/13/2024
232. Exploring Common Interest in Your Stepfamily | Part 1 of 5
232. Exploring Common Interest in Your Stepfamily | Part 1 of 5 We want you to have your best Summer yet with your blended family this year, whether with your whole family or strengthening the relationships you can access. We know how it feels to be cut off from those you love. The good news is that we created something to help. We took what helped us connect and reconnect with each other and our kids and created the E.N.J.O.Y process. This process has not only helped us but countless other stepfamilies. Over the next 5 weeks, we will post the videos that come straight from the which goes along with our book . This week's video is all about exploring common interests in your stepfamily. We will explain how to find those interests in this video and what to do with them in the future. Check out the resources available so you’ll have them when needed. Use BFAM for the best discount
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231. How to Enjoy Your Blended Family (Prep Work)
05/06/2024
231. How to Enjoy Your Blended Family (Prep Work)
We want you to have your best Summer yet with your blended family this year, whether that be with your whole family or strengthening the relationships you have access to. We know how it feels to be cut off from those you love. Over the next 5 weeks, we will post the videos that come straight from the which goes along with our book . This first video is just an introduction and breaks down what you will need. So take a moment to listen in and check out the resources available so you’ll have them when needed. Use BFAM for the best discount
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230. Your Thoughts Can Destroy Your Stepfamily
04/30/2024
230. Your Thoughts Can Destroy Your Stepfamily
I found some old videos from a challenge I did with a group of ladies in 2020 about taking our thoughts captive. This concept changed my life. The information is so valuable, that I wanted to share it with you. It’s set up as a 5-day challenge so feel free to listen to it day-by-day or all at once. The key is putting these things to use. Day 1: Take Your Thoughts Captive Challenge Let's get started with Day 1. Some of these things may take you out of your comfort zone or seem insignificant, trust me, do them anyway. If you are ready for a change, it's time to do something different. If you missed last night's email, go back and read it and watch that video before this one. It lays the groundwork for today. If it takes you longer to complete, take your time and work at your own pace. 1. Find 10-20 minutes to brain dump. 2. Spend 20-30 minutes quietly listening to God's direction. 3. Journal any thoughts from your quiet time. Day 2: Learn to sit and listen. 1. Find a place in your house that is quiet and where you will have privacy. 2. Sit and listen to the meditation video. Do your very best to follow the breaths and clear your mind. But if you find your mind wandering, mentally take note of what your thoughts are focusing on. 3. Journal your experience, good and bad. Things you noticed. 4. Pay attention to what you listen to today and how much time you spend filling your head with this stuff (Music, TV, Social media, other people) Write it down when you can. Day 3: Discover your weaknesses. Own your mistakes. Recognize Triggers. 1. Write down areas of your life you feel like a failure. 2. Ask God to show you where you have made mistakes so that you can take ownership of them. Ask God to show you why you feel this way and what triggers you. 3. I want to introduce you to my favorite meditation podcast, it combines meditation, scripture, and prayer. You can find it on your podcast app under Cultivate Connections or use this , 4. Take a mental note of anything that comes to mind. 5. Journal your experience, good and bad. Did God reveal anything to you? Have you noticed what your triggers are? 6. Look at your list and ask yourself why you think you feel like a failure in these areas. This won't be solved in a day, but keep asking. Day 4: Find truth. Stop taking yourself so seriously. Have Fun! 1. Write down areas in which you feel like you have succeeded. 2. Find a quiet place in your house where you will have privacy. Do the first 14ish minutes of "Recognize" Yoga with Adriene. Then pause and be quiet. (If you prefer Cultivate Connection, do that) 3. Journal your experience. Did God reveal anything new today? 4. Take at least 15 minutes to replace some of the negative thoughts you have with truth from scripture. Place these truths where you can see them. 5. Today might seem like a silly exercise, but I think it is very important. Find time to have fun today. Make time to laugh with your family. Do something silly with them. Turn on music and dance around the house. Go outside and play tag or hide-n-seek. 6. When you make a mistake today, laugh at yourself, and move on. Day 5: Recognize that this is not an emergency. Take it to God. Discover your "Go-To" activity. 1. Continue the meditation practice, either the yoga video or Cultivate Connection meditation. 2. Journal your experience. 3. Practice gratitude. Name 1 thing from the day before that brought you joy. Write it down or say it out loud. 4. Learn to ask yourself "Is this an emergency?" Even when it feels like it is, it usually isn't. We can't practice this until a situation arises. Watch today's video so I can explain it better. 5. Today we find a new positive activity that you can turn to instead of reacting the same way you always have. You should have filled out your favorite activity in the survey before we started. How can you turn that into your new coping skill? Take Your Thoughts Captive Recap I know 5 days doesn't seem long enough to break a cycle you've been trapped in for a long time, but with God anything is possible. For me, it took a whole Summer to break this down. If during this process you find some issues go deeper than what you can handle on your own, I recommend finding a licensed therapist. There is no shame in talking to a professional and allowing their unbiased opinion to guide you in helping you heal. Thank you for sticking with me over the last 5 Days. Check out this recap and let me know if this Take Your Thoughts Captive Challenge benefited you in any way by emailing me and letting me know. Love you! Scarlett Tandy EPISODE RESOURCES: If you're tired of waiting for your "STEP" family to "BLEND" try this... STEPFAMILY JUMPSTART: WAYS TO CONNECT INSTANTLY https://bfam.enjoyingyourblendedfamily.com/opt-in GET OUT PASS Use code BFAM for 30% off HOW TO ENJOY YOUR BLENDED FAMILY: 5 Dates To Discover Fun In Your Step-Family, by the end of these 5 dates you will have a great plan and see more fun in your home, helping build stronger family connections and relationships, all while having more laughs and enjoyment as you make lasting memories together. JOIN OUR EMAIL LIST, and get our FREE BLENDED FAMILY HANGOUT GUIDE today! We send out a weekly email on Friday mornings that is blended family specific; full of encouragement, support, and all of our latest information before anyone else hears about it. Join our B.Fam today!!! If you would, SUBSCRIBE to this podcast, and also leave us a RATING & REVIEW so we can keep spreading the love! OTHER PLACES YOU CAN FIND US! 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229. Best Advice to a Single or Alienated Mom
04/22/2024
229. Best Advice to a Single or Alienated Mom
In this episode, I am sharing my best advice to a single mom or an alienated mom (someone who doesn't have contact with their children). If you are in this season of life you are not alone. Honestly, if you are an empty nester or struggling mom, this could help you too. EPISODE RESOURCES: If you're tired of waiting for your "STEP" family to "BLEND" try this... STEPFAMILY JUMPSTART: WAYS TO CONNECT INSTANTLY https://bfam.enjoyingyourblendedfamily.com/opt-in GET OUT PASS Use code BFAM for $90 off HOW TO ENJOY YOUR BLENDED FAMILY: 5 Dates To Discover Fun In Your Step-Family, by the end of these 5 dates you will have a great plan and see more fun in your home, helping build stronger family connections and relationships, all while having more laughs and enjoyment as you make lasting memories together. JOIN OUR EMAIL LIST, and get our FREE BLENDED FAMILY HANGOUT GUIDE today! We send out a weekly email on Friday mornings that is blended family specific; full of encouragement, support, and all of our latest information before anyone else hears about it. Join our B.Fam today!!! If you would, SUBSCRIBE to this podcast, and also leave us a RATING & REVIEW so we can keep spreading the love! OTHER PLACES YOU CAN FIND US! PODCAST: Enjoying Your Blended Family https://open.spotify.com/show/1f1Xx8XZp8GxAJQaoqLygx (or you can find it wherever you listen to your podcast at) Follow us on INSTAGRAM Join Our FACEBOOK GROUP Check out our WEBSITE Subscribe to our YOUTUBE Channel Follow us on PINTEREST Contact: contact@enjoyingyourblendedfamily.com
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228. Jumpstart Your Relationship With Your Stepchild | Stepdaughter Chronicles
04/17/2024
228. Jumpstart Your Relationship With Your Stepchild | Stepdaughter Chronicles
Do you desire a relationship with your stepchild but don't know how or where to start? Maybe you have been rejected in the past and stopped trying. Even if your stepchild has nothing to do with you, check this out. Who knows maybe it's just what you need to turn things around. If you're tired of waiting for your "STEP" family to "BLEND" try this... STEPFAMILY JUMPSTART: WAYS TO CONNECT INSTANTLY https://bfam.enjoyingyourblendedfamil... EPISODE RESOURCES: GET OUT PASS Use code BFAM for 30% off HOW TO ENJOY YOUR BLENDED FAMILY: 5 Dates To Discover Fun In Your Step-Family, by the end of these 5 dates you will have a great plan and see more fun in your home, helping build stronger family connections and relationships, all while having more laughs and enjoyment as you make lasting memories together. JOIN OUR EMAIL LIST, and get our FREE BLENDED FAMILY HANGOUT GUIDE today! We send out a weekly email on Friday mornings that is blended family specific; full of encouragement, support, and all of our latest information before anyone else hears about it. Join our B.Fam today!!! If you would, SUBSCRIBE to this podcast, and also leave us a RATING & REVIEW so we can keep spreading the love! OTHER PLACES YOU CAN FIND US! PODCAST: Enjoying Your Blended Family https://open.spotify.com/show/1f1Xx8X... (or you can find it wherever you listen to your podcast at) Follow us on INSTAGRAM Join Our FACEBOOK GROUP Check out our WEBSITE Subscribe to our YOUTUBE Channel Follow us on PINTEREST Contact: contact@enjoyingyourblendedfamily.com
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227. Manipulation and Misunderstanding With Your Stepchild| Stepdaughter Chronicles
04/09/2024
227. Manipulation and Misunderstanding With Your Stepchild| Stepdaughter Chronicles
Is your stepchild being manipulative causing drama and division in your stepfamily, is it a misunderstanding, or is your child just hurting? In this episode, I will talk with my stepdaughter about her perspective. EPISODE RESOURCES: If you're tired of waiting for your "STEP" family to "BLEND" try this… STEPFAMILY JUMPSTART: WAYS TO CONNECT INSTANTLY GET OUT PASS Use code BFAM for 30% off HOW TO ENJOY YOUR BLENDED FAMILY: 5 Dates To Discover Fun In Your Step-Family, by the end of these 5 dates you will have a great plan and see more fun in your home, helping build stronger family connections and relationships, all while having more laughs and enjoyment as you make lasting memories together. JOIN OUR EMAIL LIST, and get our FREE BLENDED FAMILY HANGOUT GUIDE today! We send out a weekly email on Friday mornings that is blended family specific; full of encouragement, support, and all of our latest information before anyone else hears about it. Join our B.Fam today!!! If you would, SUBSCRIBE to this podcast, and also leave us a RATING & REVIEW so we can keep spreading the love! OTHER PLACES YOU CAN FIND US! PODCAST: Enjoying Your Blended Family https://open.spotify.com/show/1f1Xx8XZp8GxAJQaoqLygx (or you can find it wherever you listen to your podcast at) Follow us on INSTAGRAM Join Our FACEBOOK GROUP Check out our WEBSITE Subscribe to our YOUTUBE Channel Follow us on PINTEREST Contact: contact@enjoyingyourblendedfamily.com
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226. Inside the Mind of Our Children on Transition Day | Stepdaughter Chronicles
04/03/2024
226. Inside the Mind of Our Children on Transition Day | Stepdaughter Chronicles
Transition Day is rough in a stepfamily. Many different factors cause that. Today I'm talking with my stepdaughter who is now 25 about her thoughts and feelings when she was transitioning from house to house as a child. We might not have all the "right" answers, but we hope it stirs up conversations in your house. If you're tired of waiting for your "STEP" family to "BLEND" try this… STEPFAMILY JUMPSTART: WAYS TO CONNECT INSTANTLY EPISODE RESOURCES: GET OUT PASS Use code BFAM for 30% off HOW TO ENJOY YOUR BLENDED FAMILY: 5 Dates To Discover Fun In Your Step-Family, by the end of these 5 dates you will have a great plan and see more fun in your home, helping build stronger family connections and relationships, all while having more laughs and enjoyment as you make lasting memories together. JOIN OUR EMAIL LIST, and get our FREE BLENDED FAMILY HANGOUT GUIDE today! We send out a weekly email on Friday mornings that is blended family specific; full of encouragement, support, and all of our latest information before anyone else hears about it. Join our B.Fam today!!! If you would, SUBSCRIBE to this podcast, and also leave us a RATING & REVIEW so we can keep spreading the love! OTHER PLACES YOU CAN FIND US! PODCAST: Enjoying Your Blended Family https://open.spotify.com/show/1f1Xx8XZp8GxAJQaoqLygx (or you can find it wherever you listen to your podcast at) Follow us on INSTAGRAM Join Our FACEBOOK GROUP Check out our WEBSITE Subscribe to our YOUTUBE Channel Follow us on PINTEREST Contact: contact@enjoyingyourblendedfamily.com
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225: How Our Mood Swings Affect Our (Step) Mother/Daughter Relationships
03/25/2024
225: How Our Mood Swings Affect Our (Step) Mother/Daughter Relationships
Today Ryleigh (stepdaughter) and Scarlett (Stepmom) talk about menstrual cycles and how they affect mood, which puts a strain on their relationships. This was a hard conversation to have, because PMDD has taken Ryleigh down some dark roads, but we have seen God show up every time. Follow Ryleigh and her musical journey on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCTU0-Nd7DQXh_Bp4VEDEQXQ Her newest album is filled with stories of growing up in a blended family. If you're tired of waiting for your "STEP" family to "BLEND" try this… STEPFAMILY JUMPSTART: WAYS TO CONNECT INSTANTLY EPISODE RESOURCES: GET OUT PASS Use code BFAM for 30% off HOW TO ENJOY YOUR BLENDED FAMILY: 5 Dates To Discover Fun In Your Step-Family, by the end of these 5 dates you will have a great plan and see more fun in your home, helping build stronger family connections and relationships, all while having more laughs and enjoyment as you make lasting memories together. JOIN OUR EMAIL LIST, and get our FREE BLENDED FAMILY HANGOUT GUIDE today! We send out a weekly email on Friday mornings that is blended family specific; full of encouragement, support, and all of our latest information before anyone else hears about it. Join our B.Fam today!!! If you would, SUBSCRIBE to this podcast, and also leave us a RATING & REVIEW so we can keep spreading the love! OTHER PLACES YOU CAN FIND US! PODCAST: Enjoying Your Blended Family https://open.spotify.com/show/1f1Xx8XZp8GxAJQaoqLygx (or you can find it wherever you listen to your podcast at) Follow us on INSTAGRAM Join Our FACEBOOK GROUP Check out our WEBSITE Subscribe to our YOUTUBE Channel Follow us on PINTEREST Contact: contact@enjoyingyourblendedfamily.com
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224: Ways to Help Your Stepdaughter During Different Seasons of Blending | Stepdaughter Chronicles
03/18/2024
224: Ways to Help Your Stepdaughter During Different Seasons of Blending | Stepdaughter Chronicles
I have been getting messages lately from stepmoms asking how they can better support their stepdaughter during different seasons of life. Ironically Ryleigh (my stepdaughter) wrote a song about our stepmother/stepdaughter journey. I immediately asked her if we could discuss it on a podcast and if she would sing the song for you. In this episode we discuss her feelings when her dad told her he was going to ask me to marry him, the dark season of her teen years, and our reconciliation period. She also shared what she wished we would have done differently. Follow Ryleigh and her musical journey on youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCTU0-Nd7DQXh_Bp4VEDEQXQ Her newest album is filled with stories about growing up in a blended family. If you're tired of waiting for your "STEP" family to "BLEND" try this… STEPFAMILY JUMPSTART: WAYS TO CONNECT INSTANTLY EPISODE RESOURCES: GET OUT PASS Use code BFAM for 30% off HOW TO ENJOY YOUR BLENDED FAMILY: 5 Dates To Discover Fun In Your Step-Family, by the end of these 5 dates you will have a great plan and see more fun in your home, helping build stronger family connections and relationships, all while having more laughs and enjoyment as you make lasting memories together. JOIN OUR EMAIL LIST, and get our FREE BLENDED FAMILY HANGOUT GUIDE today! We send out a weekly email on Friday mornings that is blended family specific; full of encouragement, support, and all of our latest information before anyone else hears about it. Join our B.Fam today!!! If you would, SUBSCRIBE to this podcast, and also leave us a RATING & REVIEW so we can keep spreading the love! OTHER PLACES YOU CAN FIND US! PODCAST: Enjoying Your Blended Family https://open.spotify.com/show/1f1Xx8XZp8GxAJQaoqLygx (or you can find it wherever you listen to your podcast at) Follow us on INSTAGRAM Join Our FACEBOOK GROUP Check out our WEBSITE Subscribe to our YOUTUBE Channel Follow us on PINTEREST Contact: contact@enjoyingyourblendedfamily.com
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223: How it Makes You Feel When Your Parents Talk Crap About Each Other, Stepdaughter Chronicles
03/05/2024
223: How it Makes You Feel When Your Parents Talk Crap About Each Other, Stepdaughter Chronicles
My stepdaughter has been in my life for 16 years. In the very beginning, our relationship was sweet. Then she quickly realized she wanted a life with just her and her dad and that didn't involve me. I tried my best to be who and what I thought she needed but it wasn't ever enough. It actually had the opposite effect. Today our relationship is great. It didn't happen by chance though. I had to be willing to grow and she had to come to her own realization. In this podcast, we will discuss how it makes the child feel when your parents talk crap about each other to you. Follow Ryleigh and her musical journey on youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCTU0-Nd7DQXh_Bp4VEDEQXQ Her newest album is filled with stories growing up in a blended family. If you're tired of waiting for your "STEP" family to "BLEND" try this… STEPFAMILY JUMPSTART: WAYS TO CONNECT INSTANTLY EPISODE RESOURCES: GET OUT PASS Use code BFAM for 30% off HOW TO ENJOY YOUR BLENDED FAMILY: 5 Dates To Discover Fun In Your Step-Family, by the end of these 5 dates you will have a great plan and see more fun in your home, helping build stronger family connections and relationships, all while having more laughs and enjoyment as you make lasting memories together. JOIN OUR EMAIL LIST, and get our FREE BLENDED FAMILY HANGOUT GUIDE today! We send out a weekly email on Friday mornings that is blended family specific; full of encouragement, support, and all of our latest information before anyone else hears about it. Join our B.Fam today!!! If you would, SUBSCRIBE to this podcast, and also leave us a RATING & REVIEW so we can keep spreading the love! OTHER PLACES YOU CAN FIND US! PODCAST: Enjoying Your Blended Family https://open.spotify.com/show/1f1Xx8XZp8GxAJQaoqLygx (or you can find it wherever you listen to your podcast at) Follow us on INSTAGRAM Join Our FACEBOOK GROUP Check out our WEBSITE Subscribe to our YOUTUBE Channel Follow us on PINTEREST Contact: contact@enjoyingyourblendedfamily.com
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222: What to Expect When You Weren’t Expecting With Jyl Barlow
02/26/2024
222: What to Expect When You Weren’t Expecting With Jyl Barlow
222: What to Expect When You Weren’t Expecting With Jyl Barlow One of my least favorite stepfamily comments is, “Well you knew what you were signing up for.” That’s like telling a new mom or dad, well you knew parenting was going to be hard so I don’t want to hear you complain about it. In both situations, you do not know what to expect until you are living it out in real-time. Mostly because every situation is so unique just like every child is unique. Now of course there are some common situations most stepfamilies face and this episode is full of them. I talked to Jyl Barlow from “What to Expect When You Weren’t Expecting”. We discussed unrealistic expectations, chores, unsupportive grandparents, enjoying your time when your kids are gone, and the moments that make it all worth it. In the episode, we discussed Jyl’s family's favorite activity and she mentioned, . Click the link to check it out with your family. I also mentioned conversation cards from Make It a Date, grab them . Follow on Instagram Grab your copy of . If you're tired of waiting for your "STEP" family to "BLEND" try this… EPISODE RESOURCES: Use code BFAM for 30% off : 5 Dates To Discover Fun In Your Step-Family, by the end of these 5 dates you will have a great plan and see more fun in your home, helping build stronger family connections and relationships, all while having more laughs and enjoyment as you make lasting memories together. and get our FREE BLENDED FAMILY HANGOUT GUIDE today! We send out a weekly email on Friday mornings that is blended family specific; full of encouragement, support, and all of our latest information before anyone else hears about it. Join our B.Fam today!!! If you would, SUBSCRIBE to this podcast, and also leave us a RATING & REVIEW so we can keep spreading the love! OTHER PLACES YOU CAN FIND US! PODCAST: Enjoying Your Blended Family (or you can find it wherever you listen to your podcast at) Follow us on Join Our Check out our Subscribe to our Channel Follow us on Contact:
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221: How to Find Rest in Your Stepfamily with Jen Debrot
02/19/2024
221: How to Find Rest in Your Stepfamily with Jen Debrot
If you are anything like me, and a lot of you are, I struggle to find rest. I get passionate about my work, I love to serve others, and then of course family things. Between all of that, I become overwhelmed and exhausted. Did you know that God commands us to rest? This is something many people in our culture now stopped practicing. I loved Jen’s perspective on this and wanted to earn more. Check out this episode if you could use some rest in your stepfamily. Follow Jen at Jen Debrot on Instagram Check out Jen Debrot: Our Blended Journey The book I referenced in the show was called Take Back Your Family by Jeffery Bethke. If you're tired of waiting for your "STEP" family to "BLEND" try this… STEPFAMILY JUMPSTART: WAYS TO CONNECT INSTANTLY EPISODE RESOURCES: GET OUT PASS Use code BFAM for 30% off HOW TO ENJOY YOUR BLENDED FAMILY: 5 Dates To Discover Fun In Your Step-Family, by the end of these 5 dates you will have a great plan and see more fun in your home, helping build stronger family connections and relationships, all while having more laughs and enjoyment as you make lasting memories together. JOIN OUR EMAIL LIST, and get our FREE BLENDED FAMILY HANGOUT GUIDE today! We send out a weekly email on Friday mornings that is blended family specific; full of encouragement, support, and all of our latest information before anyone else hears about it. Join our B.Fam today!!! If you would, SUBSCRIBE to this podcast, and also leave us a RATING & REVIEW so we can keep spreading the love! OTHER PLACES YOU CAN FIND US! PODCAST: Enjoying Your Blended Family https://open.spotify.com/show/1f1Xx8XZp8GxAJQaoqLygx (or you can find it wherever you listen to your podcast at) Follow us on INSTAGRAM Join Our FACEBOOK GROUP Check out our WEBSITE Subscribe to our YOUTUBE Channel Follow us on PINTEREST Contact: contact@enjoyingyourblendedfamily.com
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220: Sharing Equal Custody Doesn’t Make You a Bad Mom with Jen Debrot
02/12/2024
220: Sharing Equal Custody Doesn’t Make You a Bad Mom with Jen Debrot
220: Sharing Equal Custody Doesn’t Make You a Bad Mom For so long I thought “GOOD MOMS” have full custody of their kids and anything less meant something was wrong. In today’s episode, I talked to Jen Debrot about her approach to sharing custody. Follow Jen at on Instagram Check out If you're tired of waiting for your "STEP" family to "BLEND" try this… EPISODE RESOURCES: Use code BFAM for 30% off : 5 Dates To Discover Fun In Your Step-Family, by the end of these 5 dates you will have a great plan and see more fun in your home, helping build stronger family connections and relationships, all while having more laughs and enjoyment as you make lasting memories together. and get our FREE BLENDED FAMILY HANGOUT GUIDE today! We send out a weekly email on Friday mornings that is blended family specific; full of encouragement, support, and all of our latest information before anyone else hears about it. Join our B.Fam today!!! If you would, SUBSCRIBE to this podcast, and also leave us a RATING & REVIEW so we can keep spreading the love! OTHER PLACES YOU CAN FIND US! PODCAST: Enjoying Your Blended Family (or you can find it wherever you listen to your podcast at) Follow us on Join Our Check out our Subscribe to our Channel Follow us on Contact:
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219: 14 Ways to Connect With Your Spouse
02/05/2024
219: 14 Ways to Connect With Your Spouse
219: 14 Ways to Connect With Your Spouse In today’s episode Jamee from Make It a Date shares 14 practical, low to no cost ideas to connect. Don’t let another year go by without prioritizing your marriage. Your blended family needs you to have a happy, healthy marriage! Follow Jamee at on Instagram Check out Ideas on Etsy If you're tired of waiting for your "STEP" family to "BLEND" try this… EPISODE RESOURCES: Use code BFAM for 30% off : 5 Dates To Discover Fun In Your Step-Family, by the end of these 5 dates you will have a great plan and see more fun in your home, helping build stronger family connections and relationships, all while having more laughs and enjoyment as you make lasting memories together. and get our FREE BLENDED FAMILY HANGOUT GUIDE today! We send out a weekly email on Friday mornings that is blended family specific; full of encouragement, support, and all of our latest information before anyone else hears about it. Join our B.Fam today!!! If you would, SUBSCRIBE to this podcast, and also leave us a RATING & REVIEW so we can keep spreading the love! OTHER PLACES YOU CAN FIND US! PODCAST: Enjoying Your Blended Family (or you can find it wherever you listen to your podcast at) Follow us on Join Our Check out our Subscribe to our Channel Follow us on Contact:
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218: What To Do When Your Spouse Comes Out the Closet Special Guest: Jessica Frew
01/29/2024
218: What To Do When Your Spouse Comes Out the Closet Special Guest: Jessica Frew
In today’s episode, we discuss a topic that most stepfamilies have not experienced, but I know several of you who are and I wanted to pull back the curtain of this forbidden topic and bring you and your family some hope. I brought in the co-host of the Husband-in-Law Podcast, Jessica Frew to talk about her blended family story and how she and her family learned to enjoy their blended family after her 1st husband came out of the closet. Listen to discover what she said is harder than finding out your husband is homosexual. Follow Jessica on Instagram Follow Jessica on Tiktok Free Workshop - "What Now After Betrayal" February 21st at 7:00 PM MTN. https://theboldlogic.com/whatnowworkshop Free Workbook - "Trusting Your Gut After Betrayal" - https://theboldlogic.com/freeworkbook If you're tired of waiting for your "STEP" family to "BLEND" try this… STEPFAMILY JUMPSTART: WAYS TO CONNECT INSTANTLY EPISODE RESOURCES: GET OUT PASS Use code BFAM for 30% off HOW TO ENJOY YOUR BLENDED FAMILY: 5 Dates To Discover Fun In Your Step-Family, by the end of these 5 dates you will have a great plan and see more fun in your home, helping build stronger family connections and relationships, all while having more laughs and enjoyment as you make lasting memories together. JOIN OUR EMAIL LIST, and get our FREE BLENDED FAMILY HANGOUT GUIDE today! We send out a weekly email on Friday mornings that is blended family specific; full of encouragement, support, and all of our latest information before anyone else hears about it. Join our B.Fam today!!! If you would, SUBSCRIBE to this podcast, and also leave us a RATING & REVIEW so we can keep spreading the love! OTHER PLACES YOU CAN FIND US! PODCAST: Enjoying Your Blended Family https://open.spotify.com/show/1f1Xx8XZp8GxAJQaoqLygx (or you can find it wherever you listen to your podcast at) Follow us on INSTAGRAM Join Our FACEBOOK GROUP Check out our WEBSITE Subscribe to our YOUTUBE Channel Follow us on PINTEREST Contact: contact@enjoyingyourblendedfamily.com
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217: Help Your Kid Communicate With You and Your Coparent
01/22/2024
217: Help Your Kid Communicate With You and Your Coparent
Teaching our kids emotional intelligence will benefit them for the rest of their lives in all their relationships. I love finding and sharing tools that will help your stepfamily blend smoothly. In this episode, I talked with Fiona Kong about this simple tool she used to help her young son express his feelings each day while living in 2 homes! This simple little $2 planner from the dollar store gave her, her co-parent, and her son the ability to openly communicate between houses! She has gone on to make it into a resource to help other families do the same! My prayer is that each one of you would grab a copy for each of your kids or take a moment to make your own. Home Sweet Home Journal https://amzn.to/493PQW8 If you're tired of waiting for your "STEP" family to "BLEND" try this… STEPFAMILY JUMPSTART: WAYS TO CONNECT INSTANTLY EPISODE RESOURCES: GET OUT PASS Use code BFAM for 30% off HOW TO ENJOY YOUR BLENDED FAMILY: 5 Dates To Discover Fun In Your Step-Family, by the end of these 5 dates you will have a great plan and see more fun in your home, helping build stronger family connections and relationships, all while having more laughs and enjoyment as you make lasting memories together. JOIN OUR EMAIL LIST, and get our FREE BLENDED FAMILY HANGOUT GUIDE today! We send out a weekly email on Friday mornings that is blended family specific; full of encouragement, support, and all of our latest information before anyone else hears about it. Join our B.Fam today!!! If you would, SUBSCRIBE to this podcast, and also leave us a RATING & REVIEW so we can keep spreading the love! OTHER PLACES YOU CAN FIND US! PODCAST: Enjoying Your Blended Family https://open.spotify.com/show/1f1Xx8XZp8GxAJQaoqLygx (or you can find it wherever you listen to your podcast at) Follow us on INSTAGRAM Join Our FACEBOOK GROUP Check out our WEBSITE Subscribe to our YOUTUBE Channel Follow us on PINTEREST Contact: contact@enjoyingyourblendedfamily.com
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216. My Kids Went to Live With Their Other Parent, Now What?
01/16/2024
216. My Kids Went to Live With Their Other Parent, Now What?
Lately, we have had lots of people join our B. Fam community who are walking through the same storm we went through. Each of our kids went to live with their other parents when they became teens against our better judgment. This was a heartbreaking and devastating season for our family. As hard as it was though it taught us all a lot about ourselves and our family. In this episode, I share my story about the season my biological kids went to live with their dad, what I did while they were gone, and how we reconnected. This episode is part 2, if you missed episode 215, give it a listen, because it explains why I let them leave and what not to do when your kids want to live with their other parent. If you're tired of waiting for your "STEP" family to "BLEND" try this… EPISODE RESOURCES: Use code BFAM for 30% off : 5 Dates To Discover Fun In Your Step-Family, by the end of these 5 dates you will have a great plan and see more fun in your home, helping build stronger family connections and relationships, all while having more laughs and enjoyment as you make lasting memories together. and get our FREE BLENDED FAMILY HANGOUT GUIDE today! We send out a weekly email on Friday mornings that are blended family specific; full of encouragement, support, and all of our latest information before anyone else hears about it. Join our B.Fam today!!! If you would, SUBSCRIBE to this podcast, and also leave us a RATING & REVIEW so we can keep spreading the love! OTHER PLACES YOU CAN FIND US! PODCAST: Enjoying Your Blended Family (or you can find it wherever you listen to your podcast at) Follow us on Join Our Check out our Subscribe to our Channel Follow us on Contact:
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215: What to do When Your Kids Want to Live With Their Other Parent.
01/08/2024
215: What to do When Your Kids Want to Live With Their Other Parent.
Lately, we have had lots of people join our B. Fam community who are walking through the same storm we went through. Each of our kids went to live with their other parents when they became teens against our better judgment. This was a heartbreaking and devastating season for our family. As hard as it was though, it taught us all a lot about ourselves and our family. In this episode, I share my story about my biological kids leaving and how I handled it. Next week, I will share what I did while they were gone, and how we eventually reconnected our relationships. If you're tired of waiting for your "STEP" family to "BLEND" try this… EPISODE RESOURCES: Use code BFAM for 30% off : 5 Dates To Discover Fun In Your Step-Family, by the end of these 5 dates you will have a great plan and see more fun in your home, helping build stronger family connections and relationships, all while having more laughs and enjoyment as you make lasting memories together. and get our FREE BLENDED FAMILY HANGOUT GUIDE today! We send out a weekly email on Friday mornings that are blended family specific; full of encouragement, support, and all of our latest information before anyone else hears about it. Join our B.Fam today!!! If you would, SUBSCRIBE to this podcast, and also leave us a RATING & REVIEW so we can keep spreading the love! OTHER PLACES YOU CAN FIND US! PODCAST: Enjoying Your Blended Family (or you can find it wherever you listen to your podcast at) Follow us on Join Our Check out our Subscribe to our Channel Follow us on Contact:
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214: How to Avoid Holiday Burnout in Your Stepfamily
12/18/2023
214: How to Avoid Holiday Burnout in Your Stepfamily
214: How to Avoid Holiday Burnout in Your Stepfamily Does anyone else love Christmas as much as we do? I get sad every year when it comes and goes because I don’t feel like I truly enjoyed it due to all the running around and stress that also showed up uninvited. I teamed up with Ginger from The Family Core and Brittney from Blending Bravely to talk about ways to set up healthy boundaries around the holidays and minimize stress so that you can enjoy the holidays. Follow Brittney on and Follow Ginger on and Download the If you're tired of waiting for your "STEP" family to "BLEND" try this… B.FAM RESOURCES: Use code BFAM for 30% off : 5 Dates To Discover Fun In Your Step-Family, by the end of these 5 dates you will have a great plan and see more fun in your home, helping build stronger family connections and relationships, all while having more laughs and enjoyment as you make lasting memories together. and get our FREE BLENDED FAMILY HANGOUT GUIDE today! We send out a weekly email on Friday mornings that are blended family specific; full of encouragement, support, and all of our latest information before anyone else hears about it. Join our B.Fam today!!! If you would, SUBSCRIBE to this podcast, and also leave us a RATING & REVIEW so we can keep spreading the love! OTHER PLACES YOU CAN FIND US! PODCAST: Enjoying Your Blended Family (or you can find it wherever you listen to your podcast at) Follow us on Join Our Check out our Subscribe to our Channel Follow us on Contact:
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213. Christmas Light Scavenger Hunt (REPOST)
12/12/2023
213. Christmas Light Scavenger Hunt (REPOST)
This is a repost of one of my favorite Christmas traditions. Is looking at Christmas lights a tradition for your family every year? If it’s not then it could be a really fun way to hang out with your family. If it is your thing already, we also share some cool ways you can add to the fun and make it an adventure. A few ways we share in this episode: Solo adventures with certain family members As a family outing Scavenger hunt style Special Light Shows We also include our Free Christmas Light Scavenger Hunt printout that you can use with your family, you can get it by clicking here. EPISODE RESOURCES: THE ADVENTURE CHALLENGE Use this Promo Code for 10% off at Checkout: ENJOYTHEMOMENT CHRISTMAS LIGHT SCAVENGER HUNT If you would, SUBSCRIBE to this podcast, and also leave us a RATING & REVIEW if you‘re on Apple Podcast so we can keep spreading the love! WANT MORE…… Follow us on Instagram @enjoyingyourblendedfamily Facebook Group: ENJOYING YOUR BLENDED FAMILY Website: ENJOYING THE MOMENT Youtube: Enjoying the Moment CONTACT US HERE
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212: Thinking About Raising a Stepfamily in Two Different States with Joslynn Flowers of Daily Stepmom
12/04/2023
212: Thinking About Raising a Stepfamily in Two Different States with Joslynn Flowers of Daily Stepmom
212: Thinking About Raising a Stepfamily in Two Different States | Joslynn Flowers of Daily Stepmom All stepfamilies have their unique things that make up their family dynamics and add to the ease or difficulty of the blend. In this episode, our friend Joslynn from The Daily Stepmom shares her desire to raise her kids in an environment different than California. Then after receiving the blessing from the kid's biological mom, things changed. If you already live in two different states or thinking about it, this episode is for you. Follow Listen to Learn more about If you're tired of waiting for your "STEP" family to "BLEND" try this… B.FAM RESOURCES: Use code BFAM for 30% off : 5 Dates To Discover Fun In Your Step-Family, by the end of these 5 dates you will have a great plan and see more fun in your home, helping build stronger family connections and relationships, all while having more laughs and enjoyment as you make lasting memories together. and get our FREE BLENDED FAMILY HANGOUT GUIDE today! We send out a weekly email on Friday mornings that are blended family specific; full of encouragement, support, and all of our latest information before anyone else hears about it. Join our B.Fam today!!! If you would, SUBSCRIBE to this podcast, and also leave us a RATING & REVIEW so we can keep spreading the love! OTHER PLACES YOU CAN FIND US! PODCAST: Enjoying Your Blended Family (or you can find it wherever you listen to your podcast at) Follow us on Join Our Check out our Subscribe to our Channel Follow us on Contact:
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211: Hey Stepmom, They’re Not Your Kids with guest Nacho Kid’s Lori and David
11/27/2023
211: Hey Stepmom, They’re Not Your Kids with guest Nacho Kid’s Lori and David
211: Hey Stepmom, They’re Not Your Kids with guest Nacho Kid’s Lori and David Are you fed up with your stepkids or with people telling you they’re not your kids, yet you are doing all the mom things for them. This episode is for you. We talk with Lori and David from Nacho Kids Academy about the right and wrong way to disengage and engage with your stepfamily. This episode is so good! Nacho Bootcamp Follow Follow Learn more about More info on parent alienation at If you're tired of waiting for your "STEP" family to "BLEND" try this… EPISODE RESOURCES: Use code BFAM for 30% off : 5 Dates To Discover Fun In Your Step-Family, by the end of these 5 dates you will have a great plan and see more fun in your home, helping build stronger family connections and relationships, all while having more laughs and enjoyment as you make lasting memories together. and get our FREE BLENDED FAMILY HANGOUT GUIDE today! We send out a weekly email on Friday mornings that are blended family specific; full of encouragement, support, and all of our latest information before anyone else hears about it. Join our B.Fam today!!! If you would, SUBSCRIBE to this podcast, and also leave us a RATING & REVIEW so we can keep spreading the love! OTHER PLACES YOU CAN FIND US! PODCAST: Enjoying Your Blended Family (or you can find it wherever you listen to your podcast at) Follow us on Join Our Check out our Subscribe to our Channel Follow us on Contact:
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210: Parental Alienation: A Stepfamily Nightmare with Guest Lisa Goodpaster
11/20/2023
210: Parental Alienation: A Stepfamily Nightmare with Guest Lisa Goodpaster
If you have ever been on the receiving end of parental alienation, you know what I mean when I say it’s a nightmare. In this episode, Lisa Goodpaster shares her story of being a child of parental alienation. You can find her whole story in her book, . Today we discuss the damage it does to the child, early signs to look for, and what to do if it happens to you. Follow Follow More info on parent alienation at If you're tired of waiting for your "STEP" family to "BLEND" try this… EPISODE RESOURCES: Use code BFAM for 30% off : 5 Dates To Discover Fun In Your Step-Family, by the end of these 5 dates you will have a great plan and see more fun in your home, helping build stronger family connections and relationships, all while having more laughs and enjoyment as you make lasting memories together. and get our FREE BLENDED FAMILY HANGOUT GUIDE today! We send out a weekly email on Friday mornings that are blended family specific; full of encouragement, support, and all of our latest information before anyone else hears about it. Join our B.Fam today!!! If you would, SUBSCRIBE to this podcast, and also leave us a RATING & REVIEW so we can keep spreading the love! OTHER PLACES YOU CAN FIND US! PODCAST: Enjoying Your Blended Family (or you can find it wherever you listen to your podcast at) Follow us on Join Our Check out our Subscribe to our Channel Follow us on Contact:
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